15 SKILLS That Will Pay Off Forever

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @alux
    @alux  6 лет назад +174

    Hey Aluxers, Which of these skills are you currently developing for yourself?
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  • @jarelwright2429
    @jarelwright2429 6 лет назад +4679

    1. Learn how to learn
    2. Ability to adopt and overcome
    3. Meditation
    4. The ability to verbalize what you think and feel
    5. Ability to sale and negotiate
    6. Knowing how to listen
    7. Ability to self-motivate
    8. Discipline
    9. Time Management
    10. Ability to read, understand, and memorize
    11. Ability to break down a process into steps
    12. Self-analysis
    13. Emotional intelligence and empathy
    14. Self respect and having a back on
    15. Ability to generate ideas that have value
    Your welcome :)

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +519

      Congrats, because of you, someone will read this list, not watch the video and will not get the valuable nuggets of gold we struggled to infuse into our information. This ain't buzzfeed, the list is not important.

    • @deantan4080
      @deantan4080 6 лет назад +152

      That burn tho.

    • @rezongautam4263
      @rezongautam4263 6 лет назад +85

      Paused at no 4 and started reading thanks.

    • @iceberg4736
      @iceberg4736 6 лет назад +70

      Also, "you're" welcome.

    • @frankieroberson3398
      @frankieroberson3398 6 лет назад +25

      Thank You :)

  • @ideoformsun5806
    @ideoformsun5806 4 года назад +542

    My list: from having lived 63 years.
    Learn to be self-sufficient as much as possible. Learn to clean, organize, and do laundry.
    Set up routines, keep to a schedule. Eat at the same time each day. Sleep at the same time each day.
    Learn to garden, learn to cook from scratch.
    Learn to swim.
    Learn to play an instrument, even if it is just a harmonica, mouth harp, spoons, singing, or whistling.
    Learn to dance, even just enough to dance at a wedding.
    Take a speed reading course, it will help make reading easier to do. Then try to read one book a month, ask people you know their favorite book and try it out.
    Learn to visualize, and imagine a better future.
    Listen carefully to your intuition. Develop your discernment.
    Travel every year. Start by seeing your own local tourist destinations. Then see the ones in your State. Then see all the national parks and national attractions. Do this early, don't put it off until you retire.
    Learn about values, choose some and live by them, intentionally.
    Volunteer 4 hours per week, commit to one year. Then switch to another volunteer activity. Dedicate it in honor of a lost loved one's memory.
    Have a hobby that isn't just watching TV or playing video games, or collecting things.
    Go for a 2 mile walk every day in nature.
    Never buy consumer items on credit.
    Don't have any installment payments of any kind, (unless it is for something that helps you to make money, or do your job) including student loans, mortgages, vehicle leases, credit cards not paid in full each month.
    Talk to your elders. Ask about their life experiences, memories and ideas. If they are gone, visit a nursing home or elderly neighbor, or someone at the local community center.
    Find a mentor. AND mentor someone younger than you, at the same time.
    Learn to give civil, not exaggerated, thoughtful feedback to any store or service, including medical that you receive. By a letter, e-mail and in person.
    Get involved in your local community. Wherever you live, discover what issues your community is facing.
    Learn to call and write your representatives in local, state, and federal government. Be sure to vote.
    Take a child development course before having children.
    Spend time with your family.
    Learn to pray as well as meditate. Ask for what you want, but also ask for guidance on what is best for your highest self purpose.
    Have a purpose, live on purpose. If you don't have a purpose make one up and try it out for a while. Keep doing things on purpose. Don't just get blown around by every wind that flies by you. Learn what it means to be grounded, and stand your ground.
    Learn what boundaries are and how to use them.
    Learn how to be assertive. Not aggressive, or passive. There is a big difference.
    Learn how to speak in public early on. If you wait, it can become an exaggerated fear.

    • @dana4439
      @dana4439 4 года назад +20

      Wow. The best philosophy of life

    • @CharlieShread
      @CharlieShread 4 года назад +13

      Thanks for you advice, that's a great list

    • @trinadharaou
      @trinadharaou 4 года назад +6

      Looks like it's your life summary.
      Thanks man.

    • @JaAsembo
      @JaAsembo 4 года назад +7

      I can't appreciate enough. My kind regards!

    • @alex_georgescu
      @alex_georgescu 4 года назад +6

      so valuable words man,thank you!

  • @PalmArnd
    @PalmArnd 2 года назад +114

    Well explained I appreciate 🙌 I can't wait to get started because people are really making a lot of money from it nowadays

    • @malDaniella
      @malDaniella 2 года назад

      The best way to be successful in real estate, you must always consistently put your clients' best interests first. When you do, your personal needs will be realized beyond your greatest expectations

    • @christofourie9895
      @christofourie9895 2 года назад

      In any market, in any country, there are developers who make money. So I say all of this doom and gloom, but there will always be people who make money, because people always want homes

    • @adamsjay6165
      @adamsjay6165 2 года назад

      Real estate have been the best but crypto is better rough and fast in wealth growth

    • @davewiner4226
      @davewiner4226 2 года назад

      I am very excited about the prospect of using crypto, not just as a cash equivalent, but using it as a way to earn something as a result of doing some type of work.

    • @danielJ2470
      @danielJ2470 2 года назад

      Current real estate prices aren’t high because they have been driven up by irresponsible speculation. As was often the case in the past. Prices have risen because a constantly increasing population with money to invest has been created - and continues to be created.

  • @TheSuperHeartOrgFoundation
    @TheSuperHeartOrgFoundation 6 лет назад +279

    SIMULATE 1:17 1. Learning to Learn 2:04 2. Ability to adapt, improvise and overcome obstacles 3:11 3. Competitive Praying and Meditation 4:44 4. Ability to verbalize what you think and feel 5:55 5. Ability to sell and negotiate 8:00 6. Knowing how to SHADDUP, listen and learn from the person you talk to 8:55 7. The ability to self motivate 9:55 8. Discipline 11:17 9. Time Management 12:13 10. Ability to read, understand, and memorize or absorb 14:09 11. Ability to plan and break down a process into smaller steps 15:13 12. Self Analysis 16:03 13. Emotional Intelligence and Empathy and Compassion 17:13 14. Self respect and having a Back Bone 18:11 15. Ability to generate valuable ideas and value 16. SIMULATE ;)

    • @TheSuperHeartOrgFoundation
      @TheSuperHeartOrgFoundation 5 лет назад +5

      MISSION: To exponentially inspire a new age philosophical renaissance movement by spreading unconditional Honor, Respect, LOVE, LIGHT and peace worldwide, perpetually ending ignorance and poverty through a righteous process of METANOIA by 2020... One country, One neighborhood, and ONE HEART at a TIME!!! (steal this... please)

    • @tahmidtalks3500
      @tahmidtalks3500 5 лет назад +1

      Respect

    • @nicholasharper3296
      @nicholasharper3296 5 лет назад +1

      Well done.

    • @courtneyw2141
      @courtneyw2141 3 года назад

      Thanks

    • @adrianasilitonga7335
      @adrianasilitonga7335 3 года назад

      Dude... Thanks man...

  • @yanivdanilov
    @yanivdanilov 6 лет назад +94

    1. Learn how to learn
    2. Ability to adopt and overcome
    3. Meditation
    4. The ability to verbalize what you think and feel
    5. Ability to sale and negotiate
    6. Knowing how to listen
    7. Ability to self-motivate
    8. Discipline
    9. Time Management
    10. Ability to read, understand, and memorize
    11. Ability to break down a process into steps
    12. Self-analysis
    13. Emotional intelligence and empathy
    14. Self respect and having a back on
    15. Ability to generate ideas that have value
    16.Ability to simulate outcomes

    • @coolzone81
      @coolzone81 5 лет назад +2

      I love you

    • @mayurrane1125
      @mayurrane1125 5 лет назад +2

      You have been very constructive and give it a thought about it to implement

    • @That_One_Guy...
      @That_One_Guy... 2 года назад

      I believe number 10 should've been :
      Ability to learn (reading/finding knowledge on internet), understand (understand not just from receiving the knowledge but try to teach it to others so they can understand), and learn how to apply it (so that you can remember it and cement it in your head instead of just memorizing)

    • @tc8330
      @tc8330 2 года назад

      Thank You

    • @jaybae7315
      @jaybae7315 2 года назад

      Thanks

  • @Masterlui_
    @Masterlui_ 3 года назад +113

    Missed "the ability to write" this is so underrated.

  • @marisolmartinez2153
    @marisolmartinez2153 5 лет назад +25

    I am 81 years old now. I have had the wisdom to follow things people had to tell me during my life that actually made sense and be able to take care of my family. Listen to people. Some of the ones I talked to i don't even remember their names, helped me more than they even imagined.

  • @Prosperity1000
    @Prosperity1000 6 лет назад +31

    I'm trying to master discipline. I never thought of myself as indisciplined until I started working at it. I was shocked by how easily I would get distracted or give up because something was too hard or I just didn't feel like it. I'm alot better now, I really love and appreciated these motivational videos. They inspire and motivate me to be better. Simulate.

    • @SaberAlter-v888
      @SaberAlter-v888 4 месяца назад

      I am working on that too. Any tips that worked? Discipline so as to do 1 job for a longer time.... Did you make any breakthroughs?

  • @robertfarrell7042
    @robertfarrell7042 4 года назад +67

    "People treat you the way you treat yourself, not the way you treat others." Simulate.

  • @christianbanks7458
    @christianbanks7458 6 лет назад +113

    Useful information. However, from the comments below some seem to be misinterpreting this information;
    Life is not a selfish competition
    Life is not about who beats who
    Life is not about winners and losers.
    A lot of the comments seem to derive from a selfish place. And selfishness ultimately has it downfall.
    Try to think more in terms of selflessness, i.e. Serving others
    If you are in business already you will come to understand that the market rewards the one who GIVES the best solutions to problems.
    Stop thinking of selfish gain; it's disgusting and will keep in dissatisfaction, fear, anxiety etc
    It's not all about you

    • @cholabulanon4360
      @cholabulanon4360 5 лет назад

      selling is the highest paid skill

    • @matahari2667
      @matahari2667 5 лет назад +3

      I think people will interpret any piece of information any way they want. usually based on their personality. Same as they will use any resources any way they want. Just like social media. to some people, social media is an opportunity to sell, to meet people, communicate with loved ones, etc., i. e., social media is good. on the other hand, people will associate social media with procrastination, distractions, practicing schemes, catfishing, etc, i. e. social media is bad. People interpreting this video negatively just shows the kind of people they are.

    • @bigvalley4987
      @bigvalley4987 5 лет назад +2

      Christian Banks
      You summarized my sentiments totally.👍🏾

    • @faithrada
      @faithrada 5 лет назад +1

      To CB... exactly. The intention behind our actions matter. The universe will pave the way for those whose motivations are selfless. There is no such thing as 'luck'... nothing happens randomly.
      Success based on selfish motivations is fleeting and will eventually turn on the self centered who continually put themselves first.. at the expense of others.

    • @markfrerichs
      @markfrerichs 5 лет назад +2

      You should read Ayn Rand's "The Virtue of Selfishness"

  • @richardhernandez1854
    @richardhernandez1854 5 лет назад +58

    Reading more books! 👍 Investing in myself with my "downtime" instead of participating in social events. 🎓 "Becoming the change I want to see" is the mantra in 2019.

    • @francomarchesoni9004
      @francomarchesoni9004 4 года назад

      How has it gone?

    • @wendellmcclore4733
      @wendellmcclore4733 4 года назад

      Did you accomplish your goals? 😀

    • @peterowatunde5014
      @peterowatunde5014 4 года назад

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  • @devinhunter6837
    @devinhunter6837 3 года назад +12

    A skill I believe is valueble: Choosing vocabulary from each novel I reas to intentionally remember. I have practiced this for almost 4 years; it helps me both personally and professionally.

    • @wst2516
      @wst2516 3 года назад

      A list is only a list if Its video or on paper... It's people who really want it they will go get it

  • @haweater1555
    @haweater1555 5 лет назад +135

    When I first saw the title, I immediately thought of a skill that pays off forever, personally and professionally, well-paid, future-proof, automation proof, and in demand forever -- PLUMBING !!

    • @matthewbrown6163
      @matthewbrown6163 5 лет назад +1

      Bring Your Own Plumber's Crack too LOL

    • @3CQuinn
      @3CQuinn 5 лет назад

      👊💥

    • @ericmoore3174
      @ericmoore3174 4 года назад +6

      Work with your hands and you will never starve.

    • @Antellars
      @Antellars 4 года назад

      That will rescue if all 5 toilets in my house get clogged lol. (My house is 5 bed and bathroom)

    • @GiZmo55558
      @GiZmo55558 4 года назад +2

      Until A. I can do it. If a robot can do surgery a robot can be a plumber.

  • @arfathahmed3432
    @arfathahmed3432 5 лет назад +7

    1.Learning How To Learn
    2.Ability To Adopt And Overcome
    3.Meditation
    4.The Ability To Verblize What Do You Think And Feel
    5.Ability To Sell And Negotiate
    6.Knowing How To Listen
    7.Ability To Self Motivate
    8.Discipline
    9.Time Management
    10.Ability To Read,Understand,And,Memorize
    11.Ability To Break Down A Process Into The Step
    12.Self Analysis
    13.Emotional Intelligence And Empathy
    14.Self Respect And Having A Back On
    15.Ability To Generate Ideas That Have Value
    16.Abilty To Simulate Outcome

  • @ideoformsun5806
    @ideoformsun5806 4 года назад +18

    This list should be taught in school, but homeschooling is a great tool also.

  • @luckylove72
    @luckylove72 5 лет назад +299

    This is one of the alux video that one should watch everyday until he remember each point

  • @abhaysharma9317
    @abhaysharma9317 6 лет назад +17

    All the fifteen things mentioned in the video can be mastered just by following few rules,1. Start practicing these things as early as you got aware.2. Be persistent and be proactive.3. Never buy things like '' I will do this from tomorrow, after the holidays, by this new year. Such kind of approach would make things only worse when you really start because you have already missed the chance to get the head start.4. Life can't ever be perfect, We are so resilient that we can live with some minor flaws.

    • @mayurrane1125
      @mayurrane1125 5 лет назад

      Very true and realistic

    • @mayurrane1125
      @mayurrane1125 5 лет назад

      @Gerry Parran, MBA hey Garry I would be subscribing to your profile as I also an MBA

  • @techcorner2024
    @techcorner2024 4 года назад

    One of the best decisions I made this year was subscribing to this channel. Imagine I've been sitting here for 2 hrs watching 15 upon 15 good things. This has become one of my morning rituals. Thanks so much.

  • @chrisnwanze
    @chrisnwanze 5 лет назад +66

    I am struggling to Imagine how and why anyone could dislike this. whomever they are , I hope they have a good life. Cheers to Alux for this video, it is simply brilliant. Godspeed.

    • @ogagaovie
      @ogagaovie 5 лет назад

      🇳🇬🙌

    • @johnsongitau9166
      @johnsongitau9166 5 лет назад

      Are you an economist

    • @ogagaovie
      @ogagaovie 5 лет назад

      @@johnsongitau9166 No. But I have hopes of running a business

    • @RenalTarigan
      @RenalTarigan 5 лет назад

      because she speaks way too slow, wasting time

    • @3CQuinn
      @3CQuinn 5 лет назад

      👊💥

  • @aureliusnt
    @aureliusnt 6 лет назад +127

    My sunday only makes sense when I watch "The Sunday Motivational Video".

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +14

      Awwww, that's great to hear Aurelius!

    • @makani86
      @makani86 6 лет назад +4

      I personally agree with this.

    • @publiclygrown
      @publiclygrown 6 лет назад +1

      I couldn't agree more i look forward to the notifications popping up on Sundays

  • @knowledgefull2452
    @knowledgefull2452 4 года назад +104

    Finished 109 books in 2019.

  • @christinaanthony119
    @christinaanthony119 6 лет назад +57

    Not only the content but your voice is motivational too

  • @stevenscott9983
    @stevenscott9983 5 лет назад +7

    1. Meditation
    2.Ability to sell and negotiate
    3. Self analysis
    4.Simulate

  • @wendellmcclore4733
    @wendellmcclore4733 4 года назад +4

    I am working more on...
    5. Ability to sell and negotiate
    12. Self analysis
    I am most impressed that y'all mention time management, self respect, and emotional intelligence. I thrive in these skill sets everyday in my personal life (marriage) and in my business life (inventor). I love and admire the two people y'all mention as examples of self-respect and having a backbone... Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Malala Yousafzai. Thank you for your time and hard work, Alux! 😀👍🏾

  • @izaurabiancarcderezende6113
    @izaurabiancarcderezende6113 5 лет назад +244

    As a Brazilian, the skill that pays dividends to me until today is TO SPEAK ENGLISH.

    • @marikothecheetah9342
      @marikothecheetah9342 5 лет назад +10

      I envy you. I speak two languages, one at a native level and I still don't get any dividends because of that. In Poland knowing a languge is taken for granted...

    • @andreferrer9350
      @andreferrer9350 5 лет назад +1

      Verdade!

    • @TenorioEri
      @TenorioEri 5 лет назад +1

      I write it down!!
      Inglês realmente pay off!! Hahaha

    • @diogofarias1822
      @diogofarias1822 5 лет назад +7

      @@marikothecheetah9342 If you're polish and speak/understand English, you already have more access to information than you would if you knew only polish anyway. Not everybody in Poland speaks English as good as you. Be thankful.

    • @marikothecheetah9342
      @marikothecheetah9342 5 лет назад +7

      @@diogofarias1822 thankful for what? That I worked my ass off to know English well? Yeah, I am thankful to myself, indeed.

  • @mindfull1440
    @mindfull1440 4 года назад +4

    I will forever be grateful for having you guys in this planet.

  • @imnotgonnasay3612
    @imnotgonnasay3612 4 года назад +2

    Simulate! God I love this channel! I’m personally working on time-management and discipline but I’m fortunate my husband covers those skills for the both of us (we own a restaurant).. I added Alux a minimum of twice a day to my “Daily” list. It has to be completed before I can even think about going to bed. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us for FREE!

  • @prashant7060
    @prashant7060 6 лет назад +23

    Sunday aint sunday without sunday motivational video. Simulate. Peace.

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +3

      Awwwww

  • @claudioballermo4836
    @claudioballermo4836 6 лет назад +15

    I WOULD ALWAYS THANK ALUX FOR SUNDAY MOTIVATIONAL VIDS

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +2

      We will always Thank you Claudio

  • @ramakrishnakamathsuresh1076
    @ramakrishnakamathsuresh1076 4 года назад

    Finished listening to audiobook; Rich dad poor dad. Hell of a lesson on financial literacy. Thanks to Alux for recommending this book.

    • @alux
      @alux  4 года назад

      You’re welcome

  • @danieladennis7493
    @danieladennis7493 5 лет назад +30

    I'm learning how to sell and negotiate.

    • @biancaklinger
      @biancaklinger 5 лет назад +1

      Awesome!! I need to work on that skill as well ...

    • @halcioncocaine2096
      @halcioncocaine2096 5 лет назад

      Negotiate learning before selling🍚

    • @fionagregory8078
      @fionagregory8078 5 лет назад

      sell and spell.

    • @paulmarshall690
      @paulmarshall690 5 лет назад +1

      Read "Art of tIhe Deal" I did. It helped ENORMOUSLY. Trump is a Scottish genius. He learned how to get paid to learn to defeat future opponents at their own "games". God Bless Trump. He has balls. courage to have a backbone. He's on our side and it's obvious who isn't. Turn off tv. Read more.

  • @davemckay4359
    @davemckay4359 5 лет назад +47

    1. Wake up without a clock
    2. Be able to take lengthy walks withou shoes or socks around your nieghborhood.
    3. Be able to focus at a pin point on what you're doing, for as long as it takes.
    4. Never take No for an answer. No doesn't exist, the only question and answer to it, is yes.
    5. Learn to play with others. Be a man, show others you care.
    6. Be a fool on purpose. Embrace your clown.
    7. Shut up. Not everything needs to be said. Our bodies tell the rest.
    8. Learn to swim. Backwards.
    9. Learn to pay attention to nature. It tells you everything you need to know, at any given time.
    10. Know when and how to strike. Never attack out of fear, but out of respect of the lesson being learned.

    • @dhatgirlmariam
      @dhatgirlmariam 5 лет назад

      Dave McKay thats great 👍, thanks

    • @s.baskaravishnu22
      @s.baskaravishnu22 5 лет назад

      Thanks

    • @KyrstOak
      @KyrstOak 4 года назад +1

      @@dhatgirlmariam You know this isn't the actual list?

    • @mohshii6672
      @mohshii6672 4 года назад

      Lol....wisdom has never been this funny

    • @hareshdaryanani5726
      @hareshdaryanani5726 4 года назад

      Beautifully written and should be a life mantra for many on success and everyday personal growth - 10/10

  • @deegassaway6854
    @deegassaway6854 3 года назад +5

    I ♥️ this list... I stayed to the end and the final entry was my favorite. Simulating Outcomes prior to the experience has been a CRUCIAL skillset in my journey and really does tremendously increase your satisfaction when implemented. I was glad to see it added.... again, I ♥️ this list..... much success to each of you. We're in this together.

  • @martinluzcruz
    @martinluzcruz 6 лет назад +10

    15 SKILLS That Will Pay Off Forever
    1. Learning how to learn (1:18)
    2. Ability to adapt, improvise and overcome obstacles (2:05)
    3. Meditation (3:11)
    4. Ability to verbalize what you think and feel (4:44)
    5. Ability to sell and negotiate (5:54)
    6. Knowing how to shut up, listen and learn from the person you talk to (7:59)
    7. Ability to self-motivate (8:54)
    8. Discipline (9:55)
    9. Time management (11:17)
    10. Ability to read, understand and memorize (12:12)
    11. Ability to break a process down into smaller steps (14:08)
    12. Self analysis (15:13)
    13. Emotional intelligence and empathy (16:04)
    14. Self-respect & having a backbone (17:12)
    15. Ability to generate ideas that have value (18:10)
    *16. Ability to simulate outcomes (19:55)

  • @peterbradshaw8018
    @peterbradshaw8018 5 лет назад +24

    I try to read a book a day. Reading to understand how the world operates is my goal.

    • @ametrineambrosia4929
      @ametrineambrosia4929 5 лет назад

      Peter Bradshaw how long of a book?

    • @terrelllewis7508
      @terrelllewis7508 5 лет назад +1

      Peter... How the world works? Watch these videos, they'll start u off: Dr Walter Veith, the new world order, capital letter name birth certificate, maritime Admiralty law, banking secrets, court secrets, legal secrets, the truth about the British royals, the evil history of the roman catholic church, UV, your straw man, etc... That'll explain a lot for the 99 per cent.....keep researching.... Marsha.

  • @mawuenakodzo2419
    @mawuenakodzo2419 4 года назад +3

    Lady talks with soothing voice of Mom

  • @Lotafun4me
    @Lotafun4me 5 лет назад +11

    Meditation. I am pleased and truly amazed with this skill. I can change a rotten day (due to a coworker tantrum) into a joyful day with 30 seconds of intention. I wish I had started meditating long ago. I love your videos.

  • @Brahman2709
    @Brahman2709 5 лет назад +7

    I disagree with number 3. Not the fact that meditation has those benefits, but the fact that she said “You are your mind.” You are not your mind, you are the being that is aware of your mind and it’s thoughts. That’s the purpose of meditation. Training the distinction between your mind and awareness. We are awareness. The phrase “you are your mind” implies that you HAVE a mind. Meaning you are the possessor that possesses a mind, and is therefore contradictory in a sense. Other than that, pretty solid content. Thank you.
    P.S. To Alux and it’s followers: Read The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Bestseller, Interviewed and admired by Oprah, great start for learning meditation and being your true self.

  • @НатальяЗавгородняя-я1з

    If you can control your mind , you are not your mind. You are a soul.

  • @anisahmed3366
    @anisahmed3366 6 лет назад +27

    alux u truly add much value to RUclips experience.

  • @thutokamogelo5267
    @thutokamogelo5267 5 лет назад +13

    Thanks again Alux. You guys never seem to let me down

  • @lumo9-ash
    @lumo9-ash 3 года назад +1

    Simulate:
    Thanks for the video. I appreciate the content and the level of brutal honesty these series have-even when others vehemently disagree. This kind of knowledge is invaluable for helping people improve their lives. I've often used simulation to help me make decisions or to better understand a situation unfolding before. Strangely enough, when I've tried to share this with other people, they often equate this to worry/anxiety, and something to be avoided. I feel like there is a very stark contrast between the two behaviors, as they have different effects and outcomes. For simulation, it helps a person to better understand the situation and allows them to have an influence on decisions to get the results they want. As opposed to worry, where you constantly go through various worst-case scenarios which only increases your fear and you don't have any control or influence. Has anyone had any experience with this?

  • @dianaonalbaeva3288
    @dianaonalbaeva3288 5 лет назад +4

    1. Meditation
    2. Self discipline
    3. Simulate 💪🏻
    Thank u for all the videos that ure making! 🙏🏻

  • @EulaBiezen
    @EulaBiezen 5 лет назад +4

    #16. is a very valuable ability. While we tend to apply these techniques in work-life, rarely do we ponder on doing them in our personal life. Alux puts in words so that our conscious mind can recognize them all. I will watch the video at least 10 or 12 times, so I can absorb this information.

  • @shoaibdhaga
    @shoaibdhaga 4 года назад +10

    Thanks Alux for this wonderful video.
    Being a designer,these are the skill i definitely need to master.
    The ability to verbalize what you think and feel.
    Ability to break down a process into small steps.
    Keep up your good work Alux team.

  • @druvbansal68
    @druvbansal68 6 лет назад +18

    Simulate!... Please provide a video on how to MEDITATE, I'm really in need of it, or just tell the approx. time period in which you are going to post the video.

    • @alexsellers9672
      @alexsellers9672 6 лет назад +7

      Instead of waiting for Alux.com to give it to u on a silver platter, why don't u google the topic? I'm sure there are some credible articles & videos out there on that topic?

  • @rockyp3917
    @rockyp3917 5 лет назад +15

    Josh Waitskinz "The Art of Learning" How to learn
    Charles Hannel "The Master Key System" simulating outcomes and visualisation

  • @sirwolfreacts
    @sirwolfreacts 4 года назад +1

    All of these skills are equally important and I have to admit that I hardly have any of them. I'm 38 years old and have struggled through most of my life trying to make it worth living. Still struggling with self motivation, self discipline and all of the things mentioned in the video. Gonna have to watch more of your Videos and hopefully find a way to free myself from my laziness and depression. SIMULATE btw :)

    • @AltafNoorAli
      @AltafNoorAli Год назад +1

      You have taken the first step in your journey. You have more guts to say these things publicly which a person finds difficult to admit. Work on yourself. You are your greatest discovery.

  • @swanielana9500
    @swanielana9500 5 лет назад +3

    The ability to self-motivate is my favorite. Thank you Alux!

    • @wst2516
      @wst2516 3 года назад

      I can't explain it. It's just a constant mental rethinking process. Motivational videos the constant reminder of what the original goal is. Mine is Set the example , but understand not everyone cares for my examples

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 лет назад +6

    Having good people skills will pay off forever.

  • @VallanoMedia801
    @VallanoMedia801 4 года назад +2

    Simulate. I have been growing my empathy a lot.

  • @26medianamibia15
    @26medianamibia15 5 лет назад +8

    Please Alux... May you make a specific video about the point 16. simulation(analysis, simulate, planning, predicting future) whatever it can be. I love point No: 16

    • @matthewbrown6163
      @matthewbrown6163 5 лет назад

      Simulate refers to running through all those steps in a mental simulation. You need to plan, process & produce SIMULATIONS, mentally. What we call WHAT IF situations in my industry. Just like emergency services & the military go through war simulations you need to prepare for the future.

    • @innavoiglopez
      @innavoiglopez 4 года назад

      Its visualization. The ability to visualize. To see in clear detail the life that you want to have. The end goal. You simulate the choices you make and see if it aligns with the end goal you have in your mind. It's also called planning ahead.
      It's also called meditation. When you cant sleep and all you have in your mind is your end goal, that thing that you really want, and you replay that image, that movie in your mind until you fall asleep. That is a form of meditation. With that you start to vibrate the universe with your intention and make it a reality by acting on it and staying on course no matter what.

    • @AD-kg3io
      @AD-kg3io 4 года назад

      @@innavoiglopez The law of attraction basically, manifest your goal :)

  • @menaseven9093
    @menaseven9093 6 лет назад +5

    Not everything is taught in school , most of those skills are learned through self education.

  • @alliemorgan3022
    @alliemorgan3022 4 года назад

    English major and entrepreneur here: You literally do learn how to decompose material into more manageable pieces in literature. One reason why people lack the ability to complete manuscripts is because they can see the end goal, but can’t plan out the story in a way that allows them to come to their end goal. This is another reason why people struggle with reading comprehension. They can get the gist of what is being said, but don’t actually understand why it’s being presented in the way that it is, or what events in the novel or piece let them to the overall main idea of it. Planning is not unique to STEM majors.

  • @kristinradams7109
    @kristinradams7109 5 лет назад +18

    I am trying to learn how to teach myself self motivation and discipline. Simulate. Thanks.

    • @kristinradams7109
      @kristinradams7109 3 года назад

      @Arefin Mashfir Ali Ali Were you motivated to say this by sitting on your couch and waiting for the opportunity to use this quote just for the hell of it? Why go out of your way to be a jerk?

  • @riamendoza5450
    @riamendoza5450 5 лет назад +9

    Your topics are awesome and delivery is very easy to understand. I listen to your topics every morning which i also promote to people i know of. Keep it up!

  • @phoenix5054
    @phoenix5054 4 года назад +21

    But I first need to learn to "learn how to learn" before I can learn.

  • @adamcotejo4064
    @adamcotejo4064 5 лет назад +9

    Simulate! You can add this skills: cooking and organizing/cleaning

  • @AnjolaoluwaAwe
    @AnjolaoluwaAwe 6 лет назад +45

    These are all so true- number 16 is definitely one I need to work on 😁

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +16

      Shhh.. don't tell them about number 16 Anjy

    • @sheliaaugust2833
      @sheliaaugust2833 6 лет назад +1

      I'm getting better at verbalizing what I think and feel.

    • @asfandnasar
      @asfandnasar 6 лет назад +1

      With dat face . If u have someone hold on to them . You might not able to do better . 😂 .

    • @jimsbooksreadingandstuff
      @jimsbooksreadingandstuff 6 лет назад +1

      16 is meant for those who watch the video rather than just skip through it...

    • @mogathers
      @mogathers 6 лет назад +5

      @@asfandnasar that's so unnecessarily mean. Shame on you.

  • @rurina7719
    @rurina7719 2 года назад

    Simulate or make a vision of the future you want. I find this very worthwhile among the list. There may be a lot of people fantasizing this or that or maybe perhaps wishing for a time back in the past so as to change one's history and thus regrets... But indeed, rather than wish for a time machine to erase regrets, why not do some 'prediction-ing' of one's future? Imagining the scenarios and preparing what to do, how to react and likes. Perfecting it may be farfetched, but it'll do prepare one's mind (perhaps remove some of the lurking fears) and maybe see potential problems that can arise thus another advantage gained.
    And while the 15 on the list are important too, SIMULATION, in my preference topped it like a cherry on top~. Just our brain's ability to visualize and imagine, lots of benefits can be exacted to reality. Imagination is the limit. Sky's the limit.

  • @mingzhuo8422
    @mingzhuo8422 6 лет назад +4

    really looking forward to the meditation course from Alux.
    Thank you, really appreciate your great videos.
    do you know what the meditation course will be available for us to learn from Alux?

  • @nicolehem8237
    @nicolehem8237 5 лет назад +11

    I'm developing all these skills. I have more strength in some than others but progress and consistency are key! Simulate! Thanks alux! I'm enjoying the content!

  • @manshwetakuniyal9681
    @manshwetakuniyal9681 4 года назад

    Hi,
    1. Meditation
    2. Discipline
    3. Ability to generate ideas that have value
    4. Ability to self motivate
    5. Ability to break down a process into steps
    6. Simulate outcomes

  • @shawnbogart3261
    @shawnbogart3261 5 лет назад +7

    Mike Tyson paraphrased the line " everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth" from Joe Louis

  • @zocrates3936
    @zocrates3936 5 лет назад +4

    I have "simulated" my entire life, I have always thought it was a weird quirk I did. It helps me analyze my life and make decisions with clear insight. Essentially your own therapist machine. Funny to see this mentioned in the video

  • @ttfells2020
    @ttfells2020 3 года назад +2

    I agree with each of these skills 💯 After transitioning from the military I had to engage many of these skills to readjust and move forward. These videos are full of invaluable gems 💎 for prepared success💜

  • @chinwendulizzy451
    @chinwendulizzy451 3 года назад +24

    *I've tried to be successful in Bitcoin/forex trading and stock but I always end up losing money, last month I lost about $4,500 trying to trade for myself😭😭😭*

    • @paulifeanyiezenwa5914
      @paulifeanyiezenwa5914 3 года назад

      Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth,investing remains the priority. Forex trading has plenty of opportunities to earn a decent payout,with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works

    • @jinhualee5887
      @jinhualee5887 3 года назад

      I totally agree with you,Forex trading is the most profitable venture I ever invested in,I reached my goal of $500k yearly trade earnings, setting realistic goals is an essential part of trading

    • @erandibermudez7204
      @erandibermudez7204 3 года назад

      Talking about being successful! I know am blessed because if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as expert Mrs Audrey

    • @albertocristobal410
      @albertocristobal410 3 года назад

      Hello I'm new to forex and I have been making huge loses but recently I see a lot of people earning from it,please can someone please tell me what is going wrong

    • @bobbybrownlow3894
      @bobbybrownlow3894 3 года назад

      Honestly I'll suggest Mrs Audrey
      Since I started trading with expert Mrs Audrey ,I have experienced financial turn around

  • @abhaysharma9317
    @abhaysharma9317 6 лет назад +5

    I am seventeen years old and I haven't started doing meditation yet because it's tough but I started to feel the need of meditation to cope with overwhelming chaos that often surrounds us, Hey Alux can you make a video on how to start meditating so that you won't stop it just after a week.

    • @Vikas_Kumar_Singh
      @Vikas_Kumar_Singh 6 лет назад

      google it

    • @laercios.379
      @laercios.379 6 лет назад

      @@Vikas_Kumar_Singh Yes.So simple.17a lesson

    • @youreincredible1648
      @youreincredible1648 6 лет назад

      Good question am not sure how to do it so i dont

    • @m.m.9187
      @m.m.9187 5 лет назад +1

      My dear, the best meditation in the world is a great book! Pick something that you love to learn! Don't waste your precious time count numbers to calm down your mind!

  • @timothymallard9091
    @timothymallard9091 4 года назад +1

    Sorry my discipline has been off but “I’m back baby” I need I Eco for my mind set , I love you beautiful people!

  • @SigmaSlayerHalder
    @SigmaSlayerHalder 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you so much Alux for such amazing videos... Really needed this video. Keep it up and never stop Motivating. ❤

  • @mayanksingh8922
    @mayanksingh8922 4 года назад +6

    I'm doing a course on 'Learning How to Learn' on Coursera. Excellent course it is.

  • @armyofteachers
    @armyofteachers 3 года назад +1

    One of the best channels to analyse yourself ❤️..

  • @M.G.R...
    @M.G.R... 6 лет назад +7

    *Pls make a video on Day Tradeing*

  • @Sun-Warrior1911
    @Sun-Warrior1911 6 лет назад +29

    IF LIFE ISN’T FAIR THEN DON’T PLAY IT FAIRLY!!! You can’t beat someone in connect4 if they get twice the moves while you only get one!!

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +12

      Why risk playing it unfairly when you can win playing by the rules?!

    • @Sun-Warrior1911
      @Sun-Warrior1911 6 лет назад +1

      Alux.com the rules don’t seem to matter!! If everyone else isn’t playing life the way it was supposed to then why should I? I can get to where I need to get playing by the rules, the problem is everyone else will get there long before I do.

    • @alexandert696
      @alexandert696 6 лет назад +4

      There is a social contract that we all play by the rules most of the time. You can bend the rules ,you can even break some when there is no alternative but society will turn against you if you do it all the time.

    • @Sun-Warrior1911
      @Sun-Warrior1911 6 лет назад +2

      Alexander T society won’t turn against you if you give a cut of your prize to the ones who’ve got the POWER!! MONEY N POWER are all that seems to matter nowadays, doing the right thing, which I still believe in, doesn’t matter as much as it should!!!

    • @alexandert696
      @alexandert696 6 лет назад +1

      Depends. If they have money ,they have PR. Do you want to make powerful enemies ? No matter how you cut ,you ll end up as the bad guy.

  • @ragymagdy5086
    @ragymagdy5086 4 года назад

    The 16th is a true master piece . Simulating your future , makes your future 👌

  • @Dalszielle
    @Dalszielle 5 лет назад +7

    Great job! I like Simulate outcome as that’s what I like to do to get a feel of future outcome. I find if I don’t do it- it’s not good outcome however if I know beforehand what result I expect or like then I get to achieve it and have a clear picture of what steps to take. Alux- great motivational article here! Awesome!👍🏻💕👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @tanya08cjm
      @tanya08cjm 5 лет назад

      True! Gotta keep thinking ahead, and preparing as much asyou can! :)

  • @SamKiptanui
    @SamKiptanui 6 лет назад +7

    Simulate. How to meditate, (not pray). Interesting. I thought I knew, now I am knowing...) Thanks Alux.

    • @AfroChilanGringo
      @AfroChilanGringo 6 лет назад +1

      I use this philosophy: Praying is talking to God. Meditating is listening to God.

  • @zanaspero9253
    @zanaspero9253 3 года назад

    Trying to master all of them. I’m 45 and still striving for the independent, wealthy on my own, and build a life in the world’s toughest, draining, but full of passion career . . . Acting in film/tv.

  • @mike.xzr.
    @mike.xzr. 5 лет назад +10

    Raising my EQ. Btw, I love watching all your videos. A true blessings to knowledge seekers. The Alux team never fails on teaching/impressing me. 🤟🏼❤
    S I M U L A T E

  • @hrushikeshgouda4965
    @hrushikeshgouda4965 6 лет назад +4

    I love the quality of the content and the content alux uploads. Thanks for this one.

  • @frantzdybelizaire6622
    @frantzdybelizaire6622 5 лет назад

    I really don’t know how grateful I am to Alux for all these useful tools, they help a lot, thank you so much!

  • @sirarthurofwinterfell282
    @sirarthurofwinterfell282 6 лет назад +8

    Alux what makes you do theses videos what makes you want to motivate people and help them

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +18

      Our mission is to make Luxury & Fine Living available to as many people as possible. If our videos can make your life better, we win!

  • @atandadavid5554
    @atandadavid5554 3 года назад +1

    Close your eyes and listen to this masterpiece

  • @camdentrent2578
    @camdentrent2578 6 лет назад +4

    I need to work a lot on the emotional intelligence side, stop complaining of fair/unfair and just see what I need to change. Oh, and simulation!

  • @snippy8315
    @snippy8315 5 лет назад +12

    *Shutting this down after #1: LEARN HOW TO LEARN.* 🤯

    • @adamsrj1999
      @adamsrj1999 4 года назад +2

      Make sure you come back once you figure that one out :) best of luck in life

  • @annawei4301
    @annawei4301 3 года назад

    Meditation & Yoga is my outlet. It works your mind & body. Clears my mind so that I can work on the other aspects of my life.

  • @misty_fantasy1997
    @misty_fantasy1997 5 лет назад +4

    Thank you for your valuable information. #Simulate

  • @thepodlabs
    @thepodlabs 6 лет назад +8

    This video is gospel 💯🙏🏼

  • @emmanie2748
    @emmanie2748 4 года назад

    Simulation is truly a useful tool. Thanks Alux

  • @pratikraj6676
    @pratikraj6676 6 лет назад +70

    One day someone will find this comment

  • @dhavalprajapati9170
    @dhavalprajapati9170 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you so much for being here alux team we love you
    @alux #alux

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +3

      The love is mutual Dhaval

  • @PrincipalHarbhajanSingh
    @PrincipalHarbhajanSingh 4 года назад

    All these skills can play miracles in our life so all these skills should be practise in our school life

  • @blessingonutube
    @blessingonutube 6 лет назад +4

    Ability to generate ideas
    Simulate

    • @Hempfuelgroup
      @Hempfuelgroup 6 лет назад +1

      Isolate yourself 😬 the longer the more ideas realized

  • @Vikas_Kumar_Singh
    @Vikas_Kumar_Singh 6 лет назад +27

    if i become actually billionaire and forbes asks me in interview how i did it i will tell them to watch alux.com(a place where future billionaires come to) and other youtube videos : )....(i will become for sure)

  • @anandvaidya67
    @anandvaidya67 5 лет назад

    No 16 is an amazing skill to have. I call it ability to visualize a complete project. Hope you will make an entire video on this and please don't forget Mr. Nikola Tesla

  • @OZDurden
    @OZDurden 6 лет назад +6

    Learn how to make a bong from a piece of fruit

  • @mohammaddeluarhossain4443
    @mohammaddeluarhossain4443 5 лет назад +3

    football skills
    Most paid profession on earth
    From 36 to 50 million US (year)

    • @zopesci1790
      @zopesci1790 4 года назад

      Fab Tech You’ll probably only live to be 36 to 50 yrs from your body being beat down & the brain damage football usually causes

  • @adrianasilitonga7335
    @adrianasilitonga7335 3 года назад

    Ever since preschool, I have been moving my son to different school..yes.. Preschool 2x, KG 2x, elementary 3x, junior high 2x... He always gets mad at me and cries "I won't have any friends if you keep doing this".. I tell him " trust me, you will thank me later when you're big"..
    Now he's entering senior high.. I asked him "of all the schools you've been to, which is the hardest one, and which is the easiest, and if you had the chance to go to those schools again, which would you prefer?"..
    Surprisingly, he chose the toughest school!! Wow!! Honestly I thought he'd pick the easiest coz he's so lazy.. So now I've registered him to a 'hard' school (highly discipline)..

  • @TheSuperHeartOrgFoundation
    @TheSuperHeartOrgFoundation 6 лет назад +4

    Ever NOTICE that DONALD TRUMP sounds just like TOP CAT? ;)

    • @mayurrane1125
      @mayurrane1125 5 лет назад

      Less educated say its not even a joke who think they are smart enough but get themselves screwed

    • @mayurrane1125
      @mayurrane1125 5 лет назад

      I am using the term less educated because the ratio is too less to get through