Guys Talk About Dating Deal Breakers
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I think you're allowed to be a little shallow when it comes to things like these. Cause at the end of the day, if you're not sexually and physically attracted to someone, you're not gonna want to date them. That's an honest thing.
I totally agree with you, but I think a lot of girls would disagree with you... unfortunately. *rolls eyes*
sprinterCgirl16 and boys
Yep yep
Physical attraction is what brings a relationship together in the first place. It is instinctively wired in all humans to find a partner that physically meets our requirements in order to reproduce as effectively as possible. I'm not too sure why these radical organizations fail to realize this.
Exactly.
"I'm not a sugar daddy. I can't even sugar myself."
+Pedro M what
after a couple of dates at least offer...if declined insist on tipping.
To be completely truthful, I would be so uncomfortable with a guy paying the check... I mean, we're two adults, we can split the bill. You ate what you ate, I ate what I ate. Why should a guy pay everything; just because he's a guy? That seems so ridiculous.
If a guy offered to pay for my meal I would decline.
Actually very selfish comment if you think about it, for him to say that and then say that he can't even spell himself it really says that he would ultimately put himself first because if you really love the person you would want them to have things that even you do not have if it had to be that way
Eugene: *Doesnt like shallow people
*Says something shallow
Your last reply was the example lmao. "Got an example, captain butthurt?"
+Lexie Lou you seem to really dislike guys.
+Lexie Lou you seem to really dislike guys.
He's just so... umph.
weeaboo princess Which is he?
"what if his heart is big ?" aww... the way he said it...ha
+Samuel Fernandez I couldn't stop laughing!
+Samuel Fernandez i heard hard.....i guess i heard wrong
+Jacky Collins Quezada me too XD
+Samuel Fernandez I swear he said 'hard' like it's big when he has a hard on
+Samuel Fernandez LMAO he said "what if his hard is big"
i love how everyone is talking about regular things that happen in a relationship and this guy is like say no to cocaine
that isn't a regular thing in a relationship? hmmm reconsidering choices
That's the most valid thing I heard. Hard stop, no cocaine lol
Right. lol. but that is fair.
I watched the deal breakers for women video and I commented saying what my deal breakers are, the typical being ignorant, obsessed with your ex etc. And a guy got so mad that I wrote that he spammed me, stole my picture on google+ and impersonated me and made fun of my appearance.
Dealbreaker for everyone...Crazy people. Crazy knows no gender or color. Crazy people gots to go.
Yes, crazy people suck. Sorry to hear that you found one. But if that's you in your profile picture there, you're definitely very pretty. So don't listen to him. Ignore all the crazies.
LuvableShannon thank you 😊
lmfao
***** Lmao!!!! This is awesome! Sucks for you tho olexia :/
Acutally crazy people go very good with other crazy people! You have to have exactly 4(+/-1) mental disorders to make up with me. I can't deal with healthy ones who don't undestand how it is to sometimes have a nutjob clown doing shit in your brain and you can do nothing about it.
Aww, the one dude 1:10 "but if his heart is big". So cute ^^
He definitely said "hard" (meaning he's a "grower"), not heart lmao
Guys he said heart.
+lexi219 no...
omg i heard it as "but if it's hard and big" i'm crying
I think he said hard 🌚😂but idk
A big one is seeing how they talk to the wait staff. If you're rude I'm done
+ravenatrandom Go for someone who knows how to treat wait staff AND retail workers. ESPECIALLY if they're food handlers; you don't want to be potentially dragged down with them if they're mean to the person handling both of your food....
100000000% yes
Games. Hate when girls play silly little games, trying to make you jealous, trying to get you to do something or get attention. I also hate when they lead me on, and when there's a problem and instead of trying of work it out with me she starts blaming and turns things into an argument. But overall maturity is most important to me, be real, don't play games, stop caring who's right or wrong, and can get things worked out with me.
oh my gosh yes! I'm glad there is at least one other person out there who gets it.
I know you don't really care, but when you said this I noticed I played the jealousy game with my crush. I don't really notice it, all I think is: I wonder if he likes me back? So I don't think some girls really notice when they play games, unless the ones you date are crazy and immature, haha. Wow that sounded really mean, I didn't mean it to be so rude. Anyway, I think some girls just play those stupid games as a technique to see if a guy likes them or just to be playful or annoying. I agree dating mature girls is the way to go. I used to be the type to assume and get heated in arguments, now I'm just too lazy and working it out is less stressful and embarrassing.
Yeah, I actually haven't even dated anyone in my entire life, just had flings where the girl and I would talk, flirt and maybe hang out, but before I knew it she "can't date" which they lied to me, and that's happened twice. I was recently flirting with this girl, and things were practically everything a relationship is besides the actual question asking to be in one. But then came our first argument, and she overreacted like crazy. I didn't blame her for anything, was just trying to solve a small problem. She ended up taking things the wrong way. We got over that, but we had another argument soon after and she took things way too far again. Then one night she tells me about how 3 different guys or so asked for her number while she was out with friends...Don't know why she would want to mention that besides attention, or if she wanted to be put up on a pedestal. I mean did she want me to be happy and congratulate her now that I apparently have 3 other guys to 'compete' with? But at least after dealing with more immature girls I can see what I want in a relationship. I can avoid those crappy low trust, high argument relationships. By the way this can totally be meant for guys too, I didn't mean that all girls are like that or that only girls do those things
Elliot C my best friend is like that, and i see her do it to guys and it is the most annoying thing. And im just watching it, not actually dealing with it.
Well girls really do like being chased by their S.O. But yea I guess some do get a little far or more lmao and can't blame you for not liking it at all
You can't compete with cocaine😂😂 I fuckin love Steve❤️
Seth Rogen*
the asian guy next to him said it first i think?
"WHAT DO YOU DO WITH YOUR EARS IN THE FUTURE _YOU FOOL!_"
omfg Keith i just died xD
i think for me real deal breakers would be bad manners, addiction and extreme racism of any form
+Olivia95 extremity with anything is kind of bad in general right? but I have same deal breakers
+Olivia95 cocaine = crazy
pomegrante no no, I think it depends how emotionally attached you are to the person. Let's say that you're on a first date and you find out that the other person uses a lot of drugs, does it really make one a bad person if they don't want to see them again? But if you find out that your long time partner has similar problems, it's a different situation. Personally, I could not handle that with a person I barely know.
pomegrante case by case. normally it kinda walks hand in hand with other indicators. but you would be surprised how many can hide it though.
+pomegrante I'd thought that myself.
I'm luckily devoid of an addictive predilection.
BUT that made me naive RE: *Red Flags*.
Imagine my surprise (approx. 6 mos. *after* the dissolution of the best friendship I’d ever had) when I learned that my friend’s newly discovered love of coke was the reason for our schism.
I wish so much that I *HAD* known only so I could've tried to help before it took over so completely... :/
Easy. Have a Star Wars marathon with her, what's so tough about that?
6-12 hours of just sitting through movies you might not even like? Just put in A New Hope, and see how it goes.
Ellen F I think you should be more specific. If you ask me, Star Wars 4 and 5 are genius, but Star Wars 2 is one of the worst movies I've ever seen.
Podracing
Stephen Hogg The acting from the kid in one is horrendous. See the Honest Trailers about them. It nails it. The original 3--good. The new crap, not.
ohshitakimushroom This is something all my male friends say too. It's a HUGE deal to so many guys. It just boggles my mind. I'm into a lot of traditionally "male" things. I love sports, video games, beer, bad jokes, sex, comic books, all that jazz. And I'm often considered just one of the guys when I hang out with them.
But...Star Wars. I hate it so much! I've tried! I have TRIED! It's just AWFUL. I do not get the appeal at all. It baffles all my friends because they expect that I'm of similar mind on almost all things. I even like all the other movies they like but...god...what is the deal with Star Wars? Why do you like those average-to-subpar movies SO damn much? Is it because it reminds you of your childhoods? Is it nostalgia? (Because I could understand that. I didn't watch them until I was older, so maybe that's why) Or is it because of some herd mentality where you start to believe its good because all the other men do?
It has confused me to no end for years. A lot of the ideas are really cool and I enjoy a lot of the premise but the execution was just so terrible/stupid that none of the cool ideas mattered. I want to watch them again, give them another chance now that I'm a bit older...but it was so torturous last time that I doubt I would suddenly see the light.
I guess I just have to accept that Star Wars is going to shape my relationships :P
"I AM NOT A SUGAR DADDY. I CAN'T EVEN SUGAR MYSELF" lmao xD
My boyfriend and I were on-line dating so he flew all the way down to SoCal from Washington so stay with me for a weekend so we could meet, and for our first date I paid for the meal because I felt that he paid a lot of money for the flight and rental car, so I thought I could be nice and pay. His jaw was on the floor and he didn't know what do say because I was the only girl to ever do that! Ha ha
Okay, I have something to say about the whole "the guy pays for the date" thing. It's bull. If they guy asked the girl out, yeah he should pay, but if the girl was the one who did the asking, she's paying. As a girl, that is what I think. I don't care who you are, or who you're asking out, but if you're asking someone on a date, you should be the one paying for it.
prettypianoplayer100 Take me out on a date! Hahahah
JohnnyWhiteFlash lol
prettypianoplayer100 Is it that wrong to expect them to pay for their own food though? I'm just saying, this is the 21st century, and women have spent hundreds of years fighting to be equal to men. As such, women are now more than capable of getting decent paying jobs and careers, having them pay their fair share if you take them out to dinner is just an example of the equality that they wanted.
John Smith I still believe you should expect to pay for someone's food if you are asking to take them for dinner. If that isn't how you want to do it, make sure she knows in advance, since most girls won't expect that you'll make them pay for their own food on a date. Though that could break your plans, it's better to be up front rather than have her get mad at you later.
prettypianoplayer100 I think you're right. If you invite someone, you should pay... It doesn't have anything to do with gender. If you invite someone over to your house and cook food, you dont ask for money do you? Like 'Yeah that spaghetti costs 50 euros you better pay for it' hellll no bitch
"Oo! Like a little spicy-"
*shocked face* "Noo"
the only thing now that would be a deal breaker for me is bad hygiene - please shower
"Don't tell me how much you know about kimchi!"
Eugene is way too politically correct and overly sensitive. If a girl told me how much she knew about Asian culture or even attempted to speak a language other than her native language, I would be damn well impressed.
J Lew Why is being politically correct so wrong? Also, when non-Asian people say shit like "I know Asian culture," they usually don't know jack shit about it. Which Asian culture? Which ethnicity? Which region? Asian people aren't just one monolithic group.
Blue Whirlw1nd I see what you're saying. If you know for sure what you're talking about, then I don't think it's a problem for you to explain to other people to the extent that you know. What I take issue with is a non-Asian person lumping different Asian cultures as one monolithic group just because they have lived in one etc. and just assuming they know all.
I think if you just bear that in mind, it won't be a huge problem. :)
adoresessy101 Well said, very well said, you nailed it. I think that's also what pisses off a lot of other people of Asian descent, myself included. When people think that all Asians are East Asian. -_- To be honest, even the term "Asian culture" is a bit mislabeled.
Blue Whirlw1nd It is absolutely alright for someone to mention that they've visited or lived there, it might be a fun conversation, but the thing is that when some people see me they automatically feel like they have to talk about asian stuff only, and I find that very annoying. Also, some people think they know more about my country than I do, which is even more annoying, especially when they say something that I know is 100% bullshit (this literally happened like a few days ago).
My only deal breaker is when someone isn't open to learning or understanding. If you think the music I listen to is shit, be patient, let me show you a few songs, and if in a few months there's still nothing you can appreciate about it I won't insist with it ever again -but don't bash me for it, because I won't bash you for what music you listen to.
If you believe in God, don't clack your tongue at me and go kiss your Bible. Ask me about it, let me explain you what things have made me come to this conclusion over time even though I grew up in a religious environment. I won't tell you you're stupid for believing in a higher power, but even if you can't see why I would choose to ignore religion, don't tell me I'll go to hell for it.
People who are not willing to listen are my only deal breaker, basically, because you can't change that about a person. I can watch Star Wars with you if you want me to, but if after that I don't become a fan, it's not my fault for not liking it -it's yours for not accepting it.
AtomicKittenBaby this. so much this. this is really all it takes. Any issues that come up in a relationship could be solved by having this mindset or perspective
AtomicKittenBaby Agreed! :)
AtomicKittenBaby Omg! Preach!
AtomicKittenBaby Omg! Preach!
RIGHT?!? This is a total dealbreaker for me!
Keith's only deal breaker is if someone tries to touch his belly XD He's precious
"I don't have a lot of deal breakers. At the end of the day, you're not going to find somebody you made up." 👍
Not necessarily true. Many people have said to me " This is the kind of person I imagined" thats why they wanted it .
@@Be1smaht When you’re in love you think everything’s perfect
*writes down everything Eugene says*
IKR
IDK. He seemed like a fun guy to me initially but now more and more he strikes me as incredibly shallow
cothikaju yeah I know....
J Surh He's bi, actually, so it's all good. 👌👌
lol which one is Eugene?
Already having kids is a dealbreaker for me.
I'd have to make an acception if the girl is hot
IntrovertedSkorpyo I am Australien
IntrovertedSkorpyo I was fucking joking.
Amen.
If the mom was a really good person that I was interested in, and she had a young child. Nothing older than 2 or 3, then I would go for it. I sure as hell know I could give that little kid a much better future than anyone else.
Deal Breaker: Never texting/calling/asking first
Sorry but this is a big one, for me any relationship, even platonic ones should be 60/60.
(Yes that's right, 60/60)
+Robstar1992 What exactly is 60/60?
nathanredgen Both people going that extra 10%
+Robstar1992 I always saw it as 100/0
+Robstar1992 I always saw it as 100/0
Cole G You may want to break it off
Wow Eugene's first comment was about if the person has no fashion sense but thinks they look good? So basically if someone doesn't follow a social construct but still has confidence? So incredibly shallow I can't help but judge him a little bit for it...geeze.
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If a girl is ignorant and, or arrogant, i'm done. She has to be open-minded.
She also has to be able to hold a conversation. The ability to have long talks about a topic is a prerequisite.
Oh and another thing that came to mind when watching this video(kind of unrelated); Standards are bullshit-- you should know yourself and what you're worth and what you deserve. Take that and go forth.
After re-reading it, that still seems to me to kinda be "standards" technically, but i'm sure some of you will catch my drift. xD
The problem with that is that tons of people think they deserve less than they actually do, so they get to be with people who treat them like crap.
***** Everyone figures out their worth in life at some point or another. Some earlier than others, some later. It just requires taking those mistakes and learning from them. You just gotta take some time to learn yourself, realize your strengths and weaknesses. Just knowing those things will help you figure out your value and the kind of person you should be sharing yourself with.
SkippyGeekk I notice that most people who go on and on about someone being ignorant or closed minded are that themselves. You don't really want someone to be open minded, you just want someone who agrees with you. Face the facts.
beckie2795 No I'm actually a very open minded person. I know the kind of person you speak of but that's not me.
Richard Sanchez Having brains is probably one of if not the most important qualities, IMO.
My major deal breaker is religion. I am an atheist and I cannot date anyone who constantly talks about god or whatever prophet or son of god or whatever imaginary being they believe in. I understand faith and respect someone's beliefs as longs as that is not the only thing they talk about or is trying to get me to believe in their religion. Also, Along the same lines, a real deal breaker is someone who makes fun of other peoples faith. I am willing to stay clear from the whole religion conversation but I get defensive when people make fun of another person's beliefs. I don't want to hear about Jesus nor do I want anyone to talk shit about him either. Faith is too precious to be poked fun at. Each person is unique and their faith is unique. I respect them all but I don't necessarily want to talk about it..
Talk about oxymoronic!
I'm an agnostic but I feel like I'd have to be with someone that was Christian (who didn't talk about it constantly), or someone who could pretend they were when around my parents if the topic of religion came up between them and my parents. xD (I know I wouldn't be around my parents all the time, but I wouldn't want to deal with the conflict.)
But everything else you wrote pretty much describes how I feel.
You sir or ma'am are an amazing human. You are one of the few people out there that I have found, religious or not, that even though you dont agree with something, you respect the people do believe this or that. That is amazing! Most people hate whatever they agree with
I think people who do that in general are very annoying and inconsiderate. Had a mormon friend in the past who was like that, never again.
We need more people like you. XP
nor would she wanna date u honey.
*whispers*
"What if his heart is big..."
WHELP. I am VERY self-conscious now.
I felt the same after watching the women's deal breakers one too.
Jor Dan Conclusion: It's best not to know these things and just be a nice person.
LOL me too. I've done almost all of these
haha i also felt that way after the women's deal breakers. but I am waaay more chill about dating (i think) than this vid. i'm just looking to have fun, be relaxed
I know, right? And honestly, "baggage" in this case is unavoidable. I don't know a single person who hasn't had a mental difficulty or issue of some sort. That would also imply that people who suffer with chronic depression or anxiety aren't worthy of being loved, which is exactly the stigma that we should be trying to reconstruct.
All i want to say is the blond dude in the snapback is so fucking hot? Just me...okay.
Can I just say... Yes
arghmelissa same! It's looking me! Let me now if you find out
Nah...not just you ;)
Oooff guuuurl I couldn't take my eyes away from the screen when he came on. Haha and he hardly said anything. How am I supposed to know what he doesn't like?? Hahah mm das a man
GUURL he is so fine
Step 1. Be Oprah
What about mindy. The one you didn't run over with car.
It was megans fault
Josh Nichols Not EVERYTHING was Megans fault okayyy
Megan made you say that
It's always Megan's fault. It will always be Meghan's fault.
i offered to pay for a guy once on a date and he got highly insulted lol
+Sean Cauffiel You deserve an internet award sir XD
+allie ross Then you dodged a bullet :P
PHYSICAL BAGGAGE TO THE DATE...*IM DEAD*
If I see a hint of boredom in a person when I talk about games, I'll just go look in another castle
Snakes4Asking I'm just down to earth like a mushroom
Do you ever walk into a castle; see a girl and think, "yoSHE's pretty hot."?
It's not required that a potential s.o. be into gaming, but it's highly recommended. Anyone who thinks video games are "for kids" or are too violent or whatever can keep on walking.
Gabrielle Loisel Agreed. To add to that, anyone who says they can't take animation seriously as an art form, is also a deal breaker. "I can't take cartoons seriously" even though cartoons are pretty amazing, and beautiful, most of time, and the animation helps them do things visually that couldn't be done any other way.
Gabrielle Loisel only time i would say video games are too violent is when im with small kids and i want to play GTA or something but i also do not want them to start cussing at me or others so as an adult you have to pick a game where it wont influence small kids.
If you are in your own room it doesnt apply because that is your domain, im thinking more if you have a system in the family room then you should just think twice about playing certain games around small kids.
For me I don't care as long as they don't criticize my music you don't have to listen to it just don't talk about it. Right now I like this really religious girl who I'm afraid is going to judge me just on the fact that I like death metal. We can have a good relationship as long as you don't call me satanic just because you don't like it.
Hi
I'm a devout Christian and metal is my childhood lullaby. Lol
So you like listening to screaming people ?
Tell her that Jesus had long hair because he liked death metal too.
Pete Hudo 😂😂
deal breaker: lots of deal breakers
I once went on a date with some chick who talked about how she hated her parents because they wouldn't give her what she wanted when she was growing up and she wanted to kill herself. Let's just say I couldn't drop that girl off fast enough!
If you run away from girls with baggage, I feel no regret calling you a coward. A lot of girls today put on a smile for photos, but go home cutting themselves and stuff like that. You are a MAN. I hope. I don't feel the least bit sexist when I say that it's your job to care for her. I can just imagine some depressed girls after watching this video. "Man... Baggage is a deal breaker? I can't open up to anyone, because if I do, they'll reject me... I guess I'll go cut myself, I'm so hopeless."
Shame on you "men" in the video.
As a guy who dated a girl who cut herself, it was too much. She would text me every day saying she was going to kill herself and it always scared the living shit out of me, and I would have to text her all day which was really annoying. And the thing is, she had a great social life and a great family and I cared for her as much as I could, yet she would still say she hated her life and she would cut herself but she wouldn't say why. Her depression was dragging me down with her, and I had to break up with her to avoid slipping back into depression (i had been depressed for like 2 years before I dated her and I did NOT want to end up like that again)
That wasn't a run away though, that was for her own good and your own good.
Tom, I've seen your comments floating around on the buzzfeed wall, and I must say, your ideas in what's right and wrong are so deep and I respect that.. Like, ALOT.
I have to agree with you I'm talking to someone now and I have a some serious baggage but now I feel like I have to put on a fake smile to keep him happy. I was thinking the same thing when this part of the video came up.
Heres the thing... I get that we all have problems, and thats fine. What I cant do, is when a girl expects to be half the relationship when shes held back by an ex, or this or that. like, a relationship requires effort on both sides, and if she cant hold up her side because of whatever she is dealing with, she isnt ready for a relationship. and as far as cutting goes, as a man, when I get serious and date a woman, i do it because marriage is my eventual end goal, should she be the one. which mean, I should be her everything, her protector, her stronghold, someone she can rely on. and if, at the end of the day, she goes home and cuts because things are really that bad and there isnt any hope for her or whatever.. then either she is too depressed to accept what im trying to give her, or I'm not doing my job, either way the relationship should end. because you cant have a healthy relationship that functions like that. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, im just saying..
What I got from this is that a lot of guys don't like girls with emotions that aren't positive. Like damn I can be angry or sad sometimes I don't always have to be perfect and bubbly.
Emma Harrill yes when they expect you to be always happy and positive to cheer them up... so anoying, like I'm a human being, too!
"they have to respect what I like" "if she listens to country music it's over." ok.....
"I dont have many deal breakers because at the end of the day, you aren't going to find someone you made up"
Yessss
The culture part is very true. When people come up to you saying 'kimchi, soju, Kbbq' it's really awkward. I don't go up to the average person saying 'hamburgers, mashed potatoes, soda'. Keep it simple with the usual 'Hey how are you?'
+Jiwoon811 hey, how are you?
+Jiwoon811 Lol, while i'm not Asian, I can imagine. I never actually thought about that before. I think such people are just trying to prove how much they love Asians and the culture lol. I love them too, but i'm not a try hard.
Unfortunately a small amount do. Then again those people don't interest me anyways XD
+Jiwoon811 I've been called out on that, I was caught dead-to-rights a few times, it was embarrassing. But I grew up in a neighborhood with a lot of immigrants, and I learned how to speak a little bit of this language and that. I ate a lot of traditional foods and came to understand various cultures more than the average American typically would. I learned quickly that American-born girls really hate when you can speak the language of their heritage and they can't. They hate it even more when you speak that language with their parents and they don't know what you're saying. Even if you know a LOT about your date's culture, it will practically NEVER impress them to share how much you know with them, especially right off when you meet them. Good point, Jiwoon.
+Jiwoon811 HAHAHAHA!!! Best comment ever !!!
eugene is so high maitenance
I found his comment about clothing really bad
Yes that's incredibly obvious lol.
Ya I used to really like Eugene but his hypocrisy and his ‘white people’ comments (and don’t get me wrong I enjoy a good ‘white people’ joke every now and then but he does it more than anyone else on Buzzfeed that I’ve seen) make me annoyed by him now.
No you’re just low maintenance
Morgan Rakes only white people get annoyed about those things
Deal breaker: DOESN'T LIKE ANIMALS/ TREATS ANIMALS POORLY. That's a no
Woah, men are way more judgey than I thought.
Nah, some of those guys were dicks.
I think they would stop nitpicking once they see a hot chick. I mean, the cocaine one is real, but some of the others didn't feel substantial at all. And are very much so subject to change if you really believe it.
half these guys are gay, that's why it seems that way
oh cmon girls are way more judgy and I'm saying this as a girl
@@moochachunga1138 yep. Absolutely.
My ultimate deal breaker is stupidity.If you tell me you believe in horoscopes,homeopathy or that 9/11 was an inside job or if you don't believe in evolution,there is no way in hell it's ever going to work out.I also feel that two people need to have common taste in movies and music for it to work out.Like if you can't get excited about the new Avengers movie,i don't think it'll work out.
7 WTC collapse? Not suspicious at all?
If I could like this a hundred more times, I would!
True and i consider most religious people to be stupid.
Jack Splinter I have learned to accept everyone for who they are. Whether they are white, black, Asian, religious, an atheist, gay etc. STOP BEING AN IDIOT AND DON'T OFFEND OVER HALF THE WORLDS POPULATION.
OMG!! hhhhhhhhh
dude you're the stupid one based on what u said. u poor poor little fella
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A deal breaker for me is when I'm sick and if the guy says something like "Ohh it can't be that bad" (or something like that), ignorance and things like "Why don't you change your outfit?"
Maybe I'm just overly sensitive haha
+Alyson Ballensky Not oversensitive at all. When people negate your assertions and feelings? That's called invalidation. You will want to STEER CLEAR of Anyone who invalidates you. You are VERY intuitive that you picked up on that the way you did. It's the number one thing that destroys relationships, familial interactions, and friendships. xoxoxoxo You are SMART! xoxo Amber :)
+Amber Amber Totally agree. Especially when you are open and say "I don't like when you do _____" and then they debate with you as though they can convince you to change your opinion. I told a girl I was dating that I didn't like the way she kept saying "If you play your cards right" all the time. I told her that it makes me feel like I'm on perpetual probation, and she went on a tirade about her freedom to say whatever she wanted. I told her she was free to say what she wanted, but when I told her how it made me feel and she seemed to insist that didn't matter, that was my deal-breaker. Great points, both you and Amber. It's an even bigger red flag when someone shows how easily they can dismiss your opinion and then defends doing it.
+Tom Mullin !Amazing! addition to the topic & Great Insight Tom :) XO
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I get the impression that this scenario has played out many times in your experience. It was never your fault that all those others left you, it was just that damn heat of the moment. Good luck with that. I don't take excuses because I don't play games. What happens in the 'heat of the moment' is completely real, that is when you see the true nature of people. Make all the excuses you want, but you'll have to leave them on voicemail because I'm not answering when you call and try to explain your way back. You sound like you're used to talking your way back into people's lives, but I got no time for your type.
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'Erm' [sounds like some 'derp' terminology] That's a pretty long speech to say that it's never your fault. You sound completely innocent now. You even blame your mother or genetics for your own behavior. Don't date this kind of person, let alone be this kind of person... You might be the one to tell people it's a lonely world, but it's not in my world. Fine, if that is your life, then keep living it. But one day, if you start wondering why everyone you know keeps ruining your relationships, I suggest you think really hard about that speech you just left here.
Peace and prosperity to you, whether you believe me or not. I just made a comment about a relationship of mine and you came here to second-guess my decision to end that relationship. I don't deal with this type of drama in my own relationships, I have already spent too much time on an encounter with some random, argumentative person on the internet. Go ahead and make another speech and take your victory lap, but I can assure you no quality person will get involved with someone who likes to argue this much.
I mean a few of these things are things that can be easily overcome! "he's/she's never seen star wars": organize a cool date where you can watch it with them! Now if they really hate it and it's your favorite thing in the world that may be a problem but otherwise? No. Same thing with the sense of style: that's something that evolves! If you like him/her maybe you can subtly start giving her fashionable gifts, offer to go shopping with her/him. Also, i get that someone still being hung up on their exes is a turn off and definitely not the start to a healthy relationship. But there are other types of baggage (such as the one from physically and/or mentally abusive relationships, the one from loss etc.) which, though they are a big deal and may be too much for someone to handle if they're still immature, should not be a deal breaker.
Noannelle Sky This
When you realize Eugene would actually hate you in real life
why isnt anybody talking about the cute blonde
I NEED to know his name
Because Eugene is in the video
yes i couldn't stop looking at him
kayla acevedo WHO IS IT
IKR? He was so cute!
2:03 The guy on the right looks like a super good listener
I find it annoying when people don't like other people because they haven't seen a certain movie... like that guy who says that he wouldn't date a girl who hadn't seen star wars... like sorry I was too busy having hobbies and doing interesting things so I didn't have time to watch star wars ✌
+alicedoesntwearpants You'd think the idea of introducing something you're passionate about would be more exciting. I'm like that with Horror movies.
+X-Maverick yeah well if i guy is like "i can't believe you haven't seen star wars! let's watch it together!" that's cute but if they're like "i cant date someone who hasn't seen star wars" that's kind of annoying
alicedoesntwearpants
I agree.
alicedoesntwearpants
You didn't miss anything anyway. Lion King sucks; most Disney movies do.
+alicedoesntwearpants I honestly prefer star trek never watched star wars but Ive read the books
lol that guy with the mustache talking about emotional catfishing and physical baggage hahah
A deal breaker for me is when she forgets to cut my sandwich in half.
Do you want the crust cut off, too? Eat your damn sandwich whole, like a man!
Tuffy you sexy lil beast
A deal breaker for me Is when a man can't make his own sandwich 😑
A deal breaker for me is when she leaves the kitchen without permission.
So your saying any woman with 2 hands and muscle dexterity is your soulmate... damn mate the world is your oyster have at it.
1:13 aw he's adorable
I'm sorry but if you would drop someone because they haven't seen a movie you like, that's kind of childish.
I think Star Wars is a way of life, for some...
for me lol
They're joking when they say that
Deal breaker: Below average guys that have lots of deal breakers.
Deal breaker: Someone who judges other people without even knowing them.
Madeline J Oh but when girls do it it's completely fine? Stfu
Madeline J The funny thing, I have the same thing about girls XD.
Ooooof..
Lmfaoo 3 years later and this is still funny
Anybody that spits on the floor in a common area with people clearly able to see you. No. Please. Stop. -_-
"What do you do with your ears in the future you fool!?" lol dead
that blond guy with the snapback i need his name asap
jeff
Miley Cyrus the one sitting next to the farmer/cowboy moustache guy?
Karishma Singh yeah
Desperation
hello who's the guy who says "what if he has a big heart?" I've been trying to find out his name for so long!!
Zachary Gibson
Tiffany Dao THANK YOU ANGEL
+kaylee lol isn't he so cute?!
+kaylee lol his name is Zack Gibson (:
+kaylee lol Taken sadly :(
in holland we mostly split the bill, or you pay for the dinner and she does it next.
WHAT IF HIS HEART IS BIG AW
But if you truly are in love or at very least super interested, these things don't matter. When you're with someone that you really want, these "deal breakers" can actually become quirks that you adore. Before me my boyfriend thought that he'd never want to date someone with a lot of baggage. Turns out what one person considered baggage is actually just a story of what made me into who I am today. What you might consider a deal breaker, might just be a quirk that you end up loving in the right person.
Clingy girls, too preppy girls, cheerleaders, and being popular. I know, not high standards.
Cool, I don't have high standards either.
Best. Pun. Ever.
+Your Period there is no pun
'what do you do with your ears in the future? you fool!" I'm dyinggggggg
"What do you do with your ears in the future, YOU FOOL?!" I relate to like everything Keith says on a spiritual level
Omg who's that guy wearing a SnapBack
Connor Abrams I looked thru his insta and he isn’t as cute there
subliminally 2 it’s a cap
RUclips Sucks what’s his insta?
Bald guy looks like bald Adam Levine
The guy with Curly is so enchanted by everything he says hahah
"What do you do with your ears in the future?!" Nothing I'm leaving them like this cause I like it and when I'm old ill be an old lady with gauges hahaha
+Michelle Black Yeah the smaller sizes are pretty easy to get back down! Im lucky I got healthy ears I took my sizing really slow and precise so my ears stayed healthy
I knoww! I was like damn harsh. Let people enjoy things. If you wanna gage your ears, you go girl! 😘👌👌
I knoww! I was like damn harsh. Let people enjoy things. If you wanna gage your ears, you go girl! 😘👌👌
'WHAT DO YOU DO WITH YOUR EARS IN THE FUTURE, YOU FOOL'
Eugene is coming off as very shallow and rude in this video
Amy Becca he is
Amy Becca he’s still hot though
Ya my turn off, guys who don’t seem to want to see past their own ignorance or hypocrisy cause they know people will support them cause they’re pretty.
Amy Becca so is curly tbh
I agree on the gauges thing. If you want them then go ahead, but know that others have every right to not be attracted to you for that.
guy with a snapback: I don't like girls that have problems.
I'm like: *forever alone*
"Don't tell me how much you know about 김치!!" Lol, Eugene!!! 😂😂😂
0:55 i can't afford nice teeth, i mean if i really wanted to i guess i could but it's unnecessarily expensive, i mean i brush and they do their job but they're not straight and white and perfect
holy shit i've been scrolling through these comments AND I STILL DON'T KNOW WHO THE BLONDE GUY IN THE SNAPBACK IS
Ahahaha same!!
Ann Soong 0:09
I have anxiety and I always think of it as baggage and that guys won't like me because of my panic attacks. It's really scary showing that part of me to anyone, especially a guy I like because it's not something I can control.
Life is so much better with one lover to tell you if you have a bothersome flaw, or to stand up for you, or stand up for. It's much easier to learn when you are not clouded by the judgment of a potential date. Its much much nicer to grow into a better human with someone than to be beaten down by your own judgment of appearance or knowledge, or by the lonely judgement of others.
I say don't be so shallow, it's only harder in the long run.
I wish this video was like 10 times longer!! They had some really good advice!!!!
I like how he said "Ill just *pay* for the check and leave" Instead of 'Ill just leave' Real man right there
The guy with the camouflaged hat is so gorgeous
this is hilarious. love it! do another one
pooping. more specifically on my face
LOL...
Eugene: Don't tell me how much you know about Kimchi!
#sassyeugeneisthebest
who is this gorgeous blue eyed blond haired GOD first featured at 30 sec in. I MUST know.
Connor Abrams he’s so hot
So I can't have any problems? Lol
+MissSunshine221 Maybe it's more that you shouldn't talk about your problems or otherwise bother your partner with them, but that is just that particular guy (and maybe some others)
Deal breakers, keeping your phone on the table/playing with it on the date heck to the no.
I'm gonna be honest with you here..... people do that when they are disinterested. If I'm not engaged with the conversation or the mode is off I'm going to use a social crutch
1. If you don't like dogs, you're a terrible person. I don't associate with terrible people.
2. If you don't drink that's a red flag. Not a deal breaker, but as a man who enjoys his booze a relationship would be difficult.
3. No racism, I can handle a small degree of bigotry from my friends and acquaintances, but it's a huge turn off when it's coming from someone I'm interested in.
4. You gotta have some sort of a sense of humor. I'm a fucking clownish man-child, and people who are %100 serious piss me off.
May I ask, if I'm not terribly rude, how is not drinking a red flag?
C.B. Lawless May I ask, if I'm not terribly rude, how is not drinking a red
C.B. Lawless How is not drinking a red flag?.
Because I drink a lot, and that's going to cause problems. And in general I find that people who make it a point to not imbibe are not fun to be around.
You mean like arrogantly telling you in a judge sarcastic tone "I'm glad I don't drink."
I just need a RUclips channel of completely Keith I love him so much😂
Keith you made my day ! When you were talking about the ear spacers
I'm not a sugar daddy, I can't even sugar myself!
A deal breaker for me would have to be a smoker. They always smell like tobacco and it feels like everything they come in contact with will start to reek.
I find the "baggage" deal breaker to be kind of insulting. People cannot help if their lives haven't been completely carefree. Of course it shouldn't be the guy's "job" to fix you but most people will never be completely baggage free if they have lived past the age of 10.
mwakortskallo everyone has baggage...its all about finding a matching set. For example, I consider single moms a deal breaker because I don't want kids and I'm aware I'm not dad material.
whos the dude with the backwards hat woo hot damn
yeah! have been hunting for his name but seems like no one knows. sigh~
Eugene?
+Jada C. I think she's actually talking about the blond guy with blue eyes 😍
Connor Abrams
who's the blonde haired, blue-eyed guy wearing a snapback? He's so good-looking!!
Deal breaker: not being Eugene.
Deal breaker:
I'm a deal breaker for her.
Does Keith even have deal breakers? (PS I love Keith. Keith is def. my fav. Buzzfeed personality of all time 😍😍😍 LOL)
My biggest dating turn off:
If the person doesn't give a f*ck about social/political issues what so ever. I don't even care if we disagree.... But having no opinion on important current events drives me up the f*cking wall.