Another great video Danielle. It literally is like being in brain fog, where whole portions of your brain have been shut down or suppressed. In particular I've noticed how much it's affected my ability to work. My job requires me to make decisions and judgements, and I've found that really difficult while I've been dealing with this toxic person, and just lost my self confidence. When I watch videos like this I realise the logic and reasoning parts of my brain have been affected and silenced. Narcissists can't get to you if your logic and reasoning pathways are working normally, because you will immediately see their manipulation tactics and reject them. So they have to find a way to hijack and disable them, a bit like disabling an intruder alarm.
They may not know the actual terminoligy to trauma bonding, but they know exactly what they're doing it. "Rattling your cage"...Your FACE changes during the calculated process.
This is so me ! Not only am I trauma bonded , I am sexually and physically addicted to her! I can not stop thinking about her. The other issue is I spent my life savings trying to make her happy!!
Last night I simply asked a woman's name and her interest went through the roof. I was like, SHE'S A NARC!!! At this stage in healing I don't trust I can attract anything but the same 'ol broken ones I always get. Fear.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
It is good that you have a positive approach. I have faced severe emotional abuse & my husband has scizoid & narcissistic personality traits - my son has also suffered
💯 Accurate, and definitely 1 of the hardest breakups you will ever go through, and you definitely need Radical Acceptance of the reality of the situation, and be real about how they really treated you, I found writing a detailed list of everything they put me through helped, and reading it every day, and putting it somewhere I can see it to remind me never to go back to them😏🚩🏃♀️
Brilliant. My logic brain is going to run the show for a while. I'm a very logical thinker , I'm a builder and I'm constantly working through problems logically . Not sure why I park that part of my brain when it comes to my wife and the abuse heaped on me . I even have a photo of the physical abuse she caused me . Time to think logically , heal and kick the habit . XX . Thank you . X .
Spot on 💯. Ty 👍💫. Knowing I acted with love,truth, and facts helped to get out of that guilt loop. I can hear you say "you can't love them out of it", and I can tell you sometimes I wished I was the problem because it meant that maybe I can fix that, but we know it ain't true 😢. Well, nuff said. Really.
Fata draga abia te am descoperit dar filmuletele tale m au ajutat tare mult in ultimele zile. Te ascult in bucla. Esti pt mine tratament pentru suflet❤
Being away from that toxicity feels like a breath of fresh air, every day for the rest of your life.
The relief of being out of that crap is so good. Stay strong. Peace
Another great video Danielle. It literally is like being in brain fog, where whole portions of your brain have been shut down or suppressed. In particular I've noticed how much it's affected my ability to work. My job requires me to make decisions and judgements, and I've found that really difficult while I've been dealing with this toxic person, and just lost my self confidence. When I watch videos like this I realise the logic and reasoning parts of my brain have been affected and silenced. Narcissists can't get to you if your logic and reasoning pathways are working normally, because you will immediately see their manipulation tactics and reject them. So they have to find a way to hijack and disable them, a bit like disabling an intruder alarm.
This is really correct. Thank you for putting these thoughts into words. They really give me trauma and it's really horrible..
They may not know the actual terminoligy to trauma bonding, but they know exactly what they're doing it. "Rattling your cage"...Your FACE changes during the calculated process.
This is so me ! Not only am I trauma bonded , I am sexually and physically addicted to her! I can not stop thinking about her. The other issue is I spent my life savings trying to make her happy!!
Ditto.
Wow. So spot on. This is why normally good discernment is overpowered.
Thank you for a brilliant video about what the trauma bond is and how to break it! Clear and succinct.
I agree totally. Nicely said.
Danielle your loyal fans love you , your videos always hit hard
Last night I simply asked a woman's name and her interest went through the roof. I was like, SHE'S A NARC!!! At this stage in healing I don't trust I can attract anything but the same 'ol broken ones I always get. Fear.
Thanks dear lady..greetings from Melbourne Australia🐨
Really helpful
How many times did I second guess myself? A Narc is like riding a psychotic horse towards a burning barn! Omg❗️😳😂
I get non-creepy chills from all of your videos. They are all so powerful, and you are a blessing for us all!
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
@Emilio Yepez well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@Emilio Yepez her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
So she gets to sleep around and you except it lol.
It is good that you have a positive approach. I have faced severe emotional abuse & my husband has scizoid & narcissistic personality traits - my son has also suffered
Thank you Danielle
💯 Accurate, and definitely 1 of the hardest breakups you will ever go through, and you definitely need Radical Acceptance of the reality of the situation, and be real about how they really treated you, I found writing a detailed list of everything they put me through helped, and reading it every day, and putting it somewhere I can see it to remind me never to go back to them😏🚩🏃♀️
They’re wicked people!! Sad that people can be so dark
Brilliant. My logic brain is going to run the show for a while. I'm a very logical thinker , I'm a builder and I'm constantly working through problems logically . Not sure why I park that part of my brain when it comes to my wife and the abuse heaped on me . I even have a photo of the physical abuse she caused me . Time to think logically , heal and kick the habit . XX . Thank you . X .
Please take help of a psychologist specialising in narcissistic p d & a good lawyer
Thanks a lot. Going for mutual divorce after 15 & 1/2 years
Thank you so much 🙏
Excellent video.
Spot on 💯. Ty 👍💫. Knowing I acted with love,truth, and facts helped to get out of that guilt loop. I can hear you say "you can't love them out of it", and I can tell you sometimes I wished I was the problem because it meant that maybe I can fix that, but we know it ain't true 😢. Well, nuff said. Really.
Go Danielle 🎉 ✊
Thank you
Thank you! 💐
I wish i had this info when i left narc ex. It is indeed a long road to healing.
Fata draga abia te am descoperit dar filmuletele tale m au ajutat tare mult in ultimele zile. Te ascult in bucla. Esti pt mine tratament pentru suflet❤
Wow, this information is amazing, thank you
Thank you.
Both parents plus all the abusive people I have attracted over the years.
Excellent video!
Fight, flight or freeze
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I have some updates for you
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