Divorce and remarriage (Matthew

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  • @irondisciplex9610
    @irondisciplex9610 6 лет назад +21

    A modern preacher in America has a very difficult time proclaiming the truth about marriage, divorce and the roles of men and women in Israel. Yeshua never contradicted the law even when it sounds like He did. I pray that Yah will raise up communities that will reflect what marriage is really supposed to look like because obedience is absolutely beautiful.

    • @TheGraftedChurch
      @TheGraftedChurch  6 лет назад +1

      I agree, teaching the Biblical view on divorce is very difficult in today's society.

    • @michaelrshotwell1605
      @michaelrshotwell1605 6 лет назад

      Amen

    • @nomoretoxicrelationships7186
      @nomoretoxicrelationships7186 5 лет назад +1

      When he sent to war and died. She was released to remarried. If you continue w marriage it is still be adulterous. Read it again

  • @spiritualgiant2571
    @spiritualgiant2571 4 года назад +15

    The women I was married to decided she wanted someone else and divorce me,now I believe what your saying I've read it,I've spoken to others about me not marrying again they disagree with me but I know Yahweh's word.I tell you it's hard and no disrespect to Yahweh but it seems unfair that she has a mate and because she divorce me I can't have anyone.May Yahweh strengthen me so I may keep true to his word.

    • @deadlystylzcal2913
      @deadlystylzcal2913 3 года назад +3

      I struggle with this too. It doesn’t seem right that my exwife is remarried and can repent but stay happily remarried. She could feel regret about how our divorce wasn’t justified but also has the luxury of relief in knowing she doesn’t have to ever reconcile now because now she’s remarried. She asked for forgiveness from me and said she was sorry for how she hurt me etc. But then continued to follow through with continuing her relationship and still planning to remarry. Although I forgave her it’s always made me wonder, how is she really sorry or has she really repented if she still knows it was wrong and refuses to reconcile? She was still pursuing to be remarried. 🤷‍♂️
      Life is not fair, I know that. We’re not promised to never experience unfair trials etc. All I want to do is please the Lord. So if I can’t ever remarry then so be it. I just want to have a peace about it. Because I would love to meet someone and hang out and get to know someone again. But what’s the point if it can’t go anywhere. And I don’t want to be tempted to follow my heart. I just want to stop feeling this way and have peace. I miss my exwife and I love her. I want her to be happy, but not if it’s a happiness that doesn’t please the Lord.

    • @womanatwellworshiptheFather
      @womanatwellworshiptheFather 2 года назад +1

      I pray for strength. Gods Word says that He is able to keep us from stumbling

    • @womanatwellworshiptheFather
      @womanatwellworshiptheFather 2 года назад

      adulterous marriages need to be repented of and forsaken. adultery doesn't stop until the COVENANT spouse dies. is your wife not worried about her soul?

  • @LivingModestlyNaturally
    @LivingModestlyNaturally 3 года назад +11

    True repentance in this case is to Turn from or forsake the adulteress relationship. You cant remain in a second marriage while the previous spouse is still alive.

    • @stevenramey775
      @stevenramey775 3 года назад +1

      That’s not true. Your theology must stand in the OT AND NT.

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +2

      @@stevenramey775 no Jesus, himself said so....if you want to live in an adulterous relationship.....er....good luck on judgement day...

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад +1

      @@philipbuckley759 seriously you give no hope and sound like a banging symbol. Luck? Honestly where is the love for your neighbour. Have some compassion and empathy.

    • @Rmiller488
      @Rmiller488 3 года назад

      @@maunder01 the question I have is if your in a second marriage and your called an adulterer what does that mean? Can God make 2nd 3rd 4th marriage one flesh while the first husband/covenant is alive?

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад +2

      @@Rmiller488 if the woman is divorced she no longer has a husband.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +4

    Matthew 19:10 The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” -(This is how serious marriage is! They recognized it by their answer! No way out except death!)

  • @immanuel5095
    @immanuel5095 6 лет назад +11

    Generally the wicked abusers don't want to leave. Only the victim seek to be freed.
    In Exodus when God gave freedom to the concubine to leave in case of abuse, i believe the wife has more rights than a slave.

    • @TheGraftedChurch
      @TheGraftedChurch  6 лет назад +2

      That is a great point

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +3

      abuse is not a Biblical exception to divorce and remarriage...

    • @cryptojihadi265
      @cryptojihadi265 Год назад

      Exactly. People's misunderstnading of scripture makes them come up with asinine and actually cruel doctrine.
      Ignorance is not a victimless crime.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +4

    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:39 “A wife is bound by law AS LONG AS HER HUSBAND LIVES; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.”

  • @ronpolson6981
    @ronpolson6981 6 лет назад +7

    I suggest praying and asking God for permission to remarry. I was in a situation where I was called to ministry, my spouse wanted nothing to do with it. She would not pray with me, read the word, etc. After my divorce I prayed and God sent a Christian women into my life and were in the process of going through ministry training. I prayed and waited on God to give me the yes and he did this in a vision.
    He then confirmed our ministry call through our pastors wife, a guest speaker who speaks forth prophetic word, and through two of my instructors.
    Read scripture, Moses remarried, and Paul gave exceptions for marriages where there are unbelieving spouses.
    God will take blessings meant for you or others and give them to someone else if you do not respond. My ex is now deep into drugs, alcoholism, sexual immorality, and the man she is with assaults women and handicapped people. I thank God that he pulled me out of that mess.

    • @thekingiscoming3029
      @thekingiscoming3029 6 лет назад +11

      Many that are remarried, talk as you do. Be careful. What on earth is worth your soul? Ask yourself, who gave you that vision? The devil comes in the form of everything you ever wanted, and God knows your heart, you were set on doing it anyway. He'll never go against His word for anyone. So you opened a door for the enemy.
      Please don't tell people to pray about something that God CLEARY says is sin. You are adding to the Word. I'd pray about my situation if I were you, this time with a open heart. Be blessed brother.

    • @ronpolson6981
      @ronpolson6981 6 лет назад +2

      @@thekingiscoming3029 Next time please ask for details before you assume and presume to know what took place. I am not taking anything or adding anything to the word of God. 1. My ex-wife committed adultery, 2. She contracted a sexual transmitted diese from it. There is no way God would want me to willfully take a dieses upon my body, 3. She was supposedly a Catholic converted to Pentecostal when in fact she was a non-believer, I was unequally yoked. 4. She abandoned me by refusing to pray and read the word with me, and when I got the call to Pastor she wanted no part of the ministry or the church. I went to marriage counseling to try and fix things, but she was already living with another man. I had no choice but to file.
      Our paths have taken dramatically different roads since 2015. She is into drugs, even had her house shot at over them, alcoholism, etc, etc. I have started Bible school, and training with a church to become a licensed pastor. God sent an angel to talk to me in a vision and he told me three things I needed to do. One of which is that God has called me to be a Pastor and that I was to do specific things to get this accomplished. I have done exactly what I was told to do, and God just keeps on opening doors up to ministry opportunities for me and my wife. God warned me that once I was equally yoked with a believer I better never cross that line again or their would be consequences. Satan is not going to tell you to do something like that especially when his main purpose is to rob God of his glory. Instead that would hinder Satan, another Pastor preaching the word against him. Next thing you are going to say is that God is not opening up the ministry opportunities, Satan is. Trust me my pastor is smarter than that. I have had a prophetess confirm my calling and my wife, two teachers, and my pastors wife confirm my callings to ministry. Please keep in mind that these four people do not know each other.
      To many times we blame Satan for things that he is not a part of and give him to much credit. I know a man who is 85 years old, a saint in the church, who fell down some stairs. He is convinced the devil pushed him down them. That does not make it true. His leg simply gave out from old age, nothing more, nothing less. It was not an act of God either, just a product of the bodies old age.
      I appreciate your concern, but after reviewing everything above with my pastor and a regional director biblically they determined that there was biblical grounds for a divorce and that a remarriage was fine. I was not perfect during marriage, and I had my faults as well. If my wife and I were to split now, no I would not be permitted to marry a third time because I am equally yoked with a believer now. When I was praying about how to respond to you the Lord said this to me, John 8:7 Amplified Bible (AMP)
      7 However, when they persisted in questioning Him, He straightened up and said, “He who is without [any] sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” Jesus went on to say women where are your accusers? go and sin no more!
      Since ever persons situation is different, and the circumstances surrounding there marriages between them and God, I still suggest praying about it. I know a woman who got married and had two children with a man, she found out that he was gay. He left her for a man and requested a divorce. Should that women not be allowed to remarry or have to stay in a marriage where her husband is not coming back? Would God want that women to have sex relations with her husband after he was having sex with multiple men? Again because of the diseases that run rampant in the gay community and society in general I would say probably not. In closing, I did not put details down initially because it was no ones business. But you are trying to insinuate that I am going to hell for a remarriage. At the least I felt the need to explain some of the circumstances involved. I would also say as an example look at John Hagee's ministry. John committed adultery on his first wife with the woman he is married to now. He repented of the sin, step down as senior pastor of the church he was in and started Cornerstone and God just continues to bless him and his family and their ministry. Thank You for your concern and God bless.

    • @trisharundle1964
      @trisharundle1964 6 лет назад +1

      @@thekingiscoming3029 let elohim be the judge off that.

    • @trisharundle1964
      @trisharundle1964 6 лет назад +3

      @@ronpolson6981 my partner has left me after nearly 17 years. I became a christian 2 years ago. But he could not except the change in me. 4 weeks ago he said to me you stop going to church reading the bible or it me or GOD. Im really heart broken so i understand your situation all i can ask off you is pray that elohim will change his heart.

    • @ronpolson6981
      @ronpolson6981 6 лет назад +1

      @@trisharundle1964 Sister I will pray for you. I would also encourage you to put God first. Have you asked him why he is so offended? I tell people like your husband, what do you have to lose by trying Jesus? The devil and world will always take you back! My original intent was to encourage brothers and sisters in the Lord. Not to cause strife. It is to bad that we have so many people that can interpret scripture twenty different ways and read into things are not present.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +5

    Luke‬ ‭16:18‬ ‭Jesus said: WHO SO EVER/anyone who DIVORCES his wife and MARRIES another woman COMMITTITH ADULTERY, and the man who MARRIES a DIVORCED woman COMMITTITH ADULTERY.” (Greek present continuous tense or state of being)

  • @TigerRefuge
    @TigerRefuge 5 лет назад +4

    I think your previous video on which you argued for the legal perspective is also valid. I've heard others teach that way, and I don't think they necessarily took away from the seriousness of the marriage covenant. But I think understanding our Lords response from that perspective frees up much of the condemnation that was placed upon those who were in untenable situations such as abuse. Also, it just never made much sense to me, Grammatically speaking, that we would say that someone would permanently become an adulterous or adulterer unless you understand it from that legal perspective. After all, Jesus was responding to a trick question. Again, that's not to take away from the gravity of the marriage covenant and that God never intended divorce.

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +1

      one can separate, but are required to remain single, or reconcile, not remarry...

  • @Rmiller488
    @Rmiller488 2 года назад +1

    Bathsheba didn't have a husband anymore. David had multiple wives and she was added.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +5

    1 Corinthians 7:10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the LORD): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she MUST REMAIN UNMARRIED OR else BE RECONCILED to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад +1

      But if they do divorce??

    • @Job_Siciliano
      @Job_Siciliano 2 года назад +1

      Then are they basically still married in the eyes of GOD.
      Is the divorce certificate a meaningless piece of paper?

    • @Rmiller488
      @Rmiller488 2 года назад

      @@Job_Siciliano yes it meaningless in the site of God.

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 Год назад

      ​@@Rmiller488 Jeremiah 3 the divorce certificate or paper is important

  • @upbeatlo7773
    @upbeatlo7773 28 дней назад

    This is really interesting. For those of us who did not have the maturity and proper counseling to really evaluate what we were entering into - and then one partner grows spiritually while the other stays emotionally married to the world at the expense of the other spouse and even their child, using physical and emotional abuse to resolve conflict… was there ever truly a marriage to begin with? That’s what gets me. Was there a marriage to begin with or two adults with the minds of children agreeing to something they did not fully understand, no more than they understood their own minds at the time of the marriage.

  • @CathyKirkwood-c7k
    @CathyKirkwood-c7k 4 месяца назад

    I know this is a difficult topic But I'm having difficulty Understanding exactly where you stand on this issue. I watched you in your own videos and you're much more confident in your speaking than your being now It is Trying to be careful To say the right thing right thing.

  • @One.Cor.Productions
    @One.Cor.Productions 5 лет назад +10

    Brother, initially you seemed to be going into the direction I believe Jesus was saying - remarriage is adultery + adultery is sin + stop sin = leave the remarriage. But you took a left turn. Can you please share, scripturally, how you conclude one is to remain in remarriage if Jesus calls it adultery?

    • @Gud2B_Blessed
      @Gud2B_Blessed 4 года назад +8

      @BibleTalk101 the remarriage is NOT honored by God. It an adulterous marriage 2nd 3rd or 4th. To remove or seek divorce from THAT is not sin... You are doing what is right by repenting and sinning NO MORE. COme on ppl!!!. Seeking divorce by way of a legal goverment divorce is NOT SIN, you are taking the step to EXIT what was NOT honored by God in the first place. Additionally, ppl talk abt what Paul said ...what Paul said. JESUS SAID its adultery! Period.

    • @Gud2B_Blessed
      @Gud2B_Blessed 4 года назад

      Exactly.

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

      @BibleTalk101 oh my.....where do you find that it is the act....oh my John the Baptist told Herod....it is not lawful to have your brothers wife....if what you said is true, then why not repent, and be forgiven...

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад +2

      @BibleTalk101 Paul says if your are married....or, remarried...or in a homosexual marriage....remain that way....hmmm....when does anyone, in the Bible say, remain in your sin...

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

      @BibleTalk101 evidently I dont....know....either....marriage, is for life.....regardless of what divorce certificate the govt may issue...

  • @michaelrshotwell1605
    @michaelrshotwell1605 6 лет назад +4

    God no more intends an arm or a leg to be removed than a husband and wife, sometimes it happens but it’s like you say, divorce should not even be an option

  • @klooster97
    @klooster97 2 года назад

    "our marriage is practice for our relationship with God." beatiful words. I think the David and Bathsheba analogy may not be best for reasons not to break up a 2nd marriage. Uriah was already dead. What if he still lived?

    • @CathyKirkwood-c7k
      @CathyKirkwood-c7k 4 месяца назад

      I don't know if using David and Uriah is a good example since David actually had him killed I guess you're right since he's dead

  • @michellewood8539
    @michellewood8539 6 лет назад +9

    Thank you.

  • @linda.brotherton1689
    @linda.brotherton1689 5 лет назад +1

    Your teaching is fabulous. Got to tell you regarding how G_d feels about us. I was praying for my son Joseph ( "he who runs from sin") who wouldn't obey me. So I said to Hashem look how rebellious he is. I heard without a shodow of a doubt. "As you are". Wow that changed me for the better. My son is still the same sadly he is 43 yrs. But his behavior put me in check.

  • @wendymimes7678
    @wendymimes7678 4 года назад +2

    Marriage is a covenant n the only thing that dissolve the covenant is death, no matter what the spouse did in the marriage, if forgiveness has not taken place in the covenant they r allow to separate. Widows r the only ones that can remarried. My Opinion nor your opinion does not matter the Bible is crystal clear on this matter even a child can understand, I don’t know why we as Christian make God word hard to understand!!

    • @themilkaint4free
      @themilkaint4free 4 года назад +1

      Amen. my Sister! I just posted this exact same word. I must say after studying God's word on divorce and remarriage with a hunger for truth, it became crystal clear all of what you just said and our say it as God gave it to me audibly in my inner spirit, "Keep Your Vow!" Separation allowed if necessary but not God's desire if the two can reconcile but divorce is not even in the Kingdom of God, that was created by man. And Marriage is upheld and created by GOD Almighty himself.

  • @nealdoster8556
    @nealdoster8556 5 лет назад +2

    The Pharisees posed a legal question to Jesus (Matthew 19:3. Mark 10:2). Choosing not to deal with the legality of the matter Jesus instead appealed to God’s creative design for marriage (Matthew 19:4-6, 8b). Marriage was created to be lifelong, because of hard hearts it was allowed to prematurely end (v.8). Accepting the tension that creates is part of understanding this issue. That’s because Jesus is explaining to the Pharisees the inadvertent consequence of prematurely terminating a marriage.

    Jesus’ counter argument against those who were defending divorce for every reason (Matt. 19:3) was a rebuke of their hard hearts (v.8). He revealed to them that divorce staged one to commit adultery by default, defaulting on God’s creative design for marriage (Matthew 19:4-6,8b). Jesus explains that marriage sets forth the obligation to CLEAVE (v.5), therefore having an inherent obligation of lifetime fidelity. In other words when a man and woman enter into marriage they are inherently obligated to a lifetime of fidelity to each the other. What would happen if the obligation of fidelity is inadvertently violated (by divorce and remarriage)? The answer, the adultery Jesus described.
    The simple truth Jesus revealed to Israel about this way of committing adultery is properly comprehended by knowing that God created the intimacy of marriage between husband and wife to be sanctified for them exclusively. The catch 22 of terminating the first marriage and constituting another is that it violates in principle the exclusivity set forth by the first, thus causing the adultery in the manner Jesus described. Divorce and remarriage throughout Israel’s history produced both a transgression and a transference of marital obligation. This is the dilemma it caused Israel then and the Church today. It is the very dilemma Jesus described. But the dilemma turns into an enigma when biblical precedents are dismissed.
    Or to put it another way, by believing this adultery occurs because the first marriage isn’t terminated. Thus causing even more false suppositions to abound.

  • @biblebasics101
    @biblebasics101 4 года назад +1

    This is consistent with Paul’s meaning in (Rom. 7:1-6) Under Roman law both polygamy & polyandry were forbidden. The context of Romans 7 is the Mosaic Law, NOT marriage. The correlation is such: just as the marriage bond is broken/dissolved by the death of one party, the death of Christ frees us from our previous obligation to practice the Mosaic Law & we are made free from our past obligation to practice sin since we too have died to our old nature. He’s not saying death is the only way to dissolve the marriage (1 Cor. 7:10-15, 27-28)

    • @theman-m7o
      @theman-m7o 4 года назад +2

      The context of Romans 7 with respect to marriage is not the Mosaic Law. Moses permitted them to write a bill of divorcement so she can marry another. That's it. The context was based on the laws Jesus gave while he taught.

    • @womanatwellworshiptheFather
      @womanatwellworshiptheFather 2 года назад +1

      the marriage ends with death of the spouse.

  • @Crowns-surround_mi21
    @Crowns-surround_mi21 5 лет назад +2

    Question:
    Like the Bereans can someone show me from the scriptures;
    1. How is Christian marriage conducted in the scriptures? Should there be merrying and drinking, remember marriage of Cana of Galilee?
    2. Is Christian marriage a contract?
    3. Have we brought in the "traditions of the elders" into marriage or not? refer to the marriage creed.
    4. Are we supposed to die in an unhealthy marriage, since till death do us part? examples of husbands and wives stabbing their spouses to death in Africa/Nigeria abound.
    5. Are we supposed to take an Oath in our marriage and go against Matthew 5:34 and James 5:12?
    6. In the light of reality when life is threatened, are we supposed to stay in the marriage and keep praying that things will get better and continue to love your spouse since that is what the bible says?
    7. Now, what about someone who does not have his financial freedom because he is married, spouse spends her money the way she likes without letting husband know and husband declares what he earns and spends to the last penny on family needs and if he asks what she has made, she tells him to calculate how many hours she worked as a way of insult. Many years of patience.
    8. What should a spouse who has realised he needs to change to the Hebrew roots because that is what God commanded and the wife wants heaven to fall on him, by praying against because she doesn't' want her social connection or her God of the present church to be against her consenting to such? One of those who believed what have been preached/misinterpreted of Paul's teachings.
    I need Lex to respond to this anytime he can read this

    • @biblebasics101
      @biblebasics101 4 года назад +2

      1. Most Christians are ignorant to the fact of the four gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John) being Old Testament books, NOT New Testament; they were still under Mosaic Law, thus must be interpreted in light of this fact. Jesus NEVER taught against the Torah (Matt. 5:17-18)(Gal. 4:4)
      2. Jesus was referring to putting/sending away ones wife (Heb.- shalach)(Grk.- apoluo) without the written certificate of divorce (Heb.- sepher kerituth)(Grk.- apostasion) and marrying another causes adultery if one is remarried. God cares more about the needs of people than He does the institution. (Matt. 12:1-8)(1 Cor. 7:1-2, 27-28)
      3. Therefore, the supposed perpetual adultery clause comes from a misunderstanding of Jesus’ words in Luke, who in protest of Herod Antipas, he condemned the relationship as adulterous which means that he rejected the legitimacy of the marriage because he stole his brother’s wife, which violates commandments 6,7, and 9.

    • @Crowns-surround_mi21
      @Crowns-surround_mi21 4 года назад +1

      @@biblebasics101 thanks, Pastor D

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +1

    in a nutshell, this is the teaching here.....marry, divorce, remarry, repent, repeat....

  • @terseandtiny1746
    @terseandtiny1746 5 лет назад +1

    Before i genuinely came to Christ, i married a divorced man (whom had committed adultery) out of obligation and he stayed true to form in that marriage resulting in a divorce as per his request. I know my "marriage" was adultery and fornication, however if i got married now, what would that mean?

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад +5

      you were never in a covenant relationship....it was adultery, which means you are free to marry....

  • @rcjr2633
    @rcjr2633 2 года назад +1

    I'm ashamed of you. The top Jewish scholars that I've listened to and read after, all conclude that sent away is what Yeshua was talking about and the word Divorce is an English word.
    God does not HATE HIMSELF and Malachi 2 was never translated that God hated Divorce.
    Someone has got ahold of you and it's not God.
    Yes Divorce is always an option in abusive situations.
    You're enabling abuse , laziness and marital unfaithfulness.
    So ashamed.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +1

    Matthew 19:8
    Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were HARD. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I (Jesus) tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for fornication (porneia), and marries another woman committith adultery (moicheia).” = Romans 7:1
    Divorce is for the hard hearted Jesus says, the bitter, the selfish, one in unforgiveness.
    Matthew 19:10
    The disciples said to him, “IF SUCH IS THE CASE OF A MAN WITH HIS WIFE,
    IT IS BETTER NOT TO MARRY!!!!”
    -(This is how serious marriage is! They recognized it by their answer!)
    Jesus AGAIN took a much stricter line on a subject in harmony with His other answers through out scriptures. More strict than the two rabbis at that time Shammai and Hillel the strict one said divorce only for adultery. Jesus again by passed the two options as He always did and shocked people again so much so we see it in the disciples shocked response!

  • @wovuween147
    @wovuween147 6 лет назад +5

    YOU ARE ALLOWED TO REMARRY AND ITS NOT SINFUL; You cause many people to fear the anger of YHWH when there is no need. First off Divorce and remarriage is permissible and not a sin, and SEXUAL IMMORALITY is not the only permissible reason. Any student of the Torah would know this easily as deut 22 stipulates the punishment for adultery; its death. So for example if two people get married and either go out and cheat, the solution is not to give a bill of divorce but to STONE the individual as per deut 22. The Hebrew word form "ervah" translated nakedness DOES NOT REFER to sexual uncleanliness. That's the whole reason they had a DEBATE about this even until the time of Yeshua. In Matt Yeshua was quoting deut 22 which stipulates when a man can put away his wife, if she LIED about her virginity. That's really the only condition. But you should make a distinction between God's Ideal and sinful. Its clear that God would love every couple to stay together and he hates divorce, but he permitted Israel to divorce because it is necessary in this sinful world. People shouldn't feel as if they are committing adultery because they remarried; its a lie founded on faulty interpretations of scripture. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO DIVORCE AND REMARRY AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT YOUR SALVATION. Please don't spread this propaganda anymore; I appreciate your view point and your diligence in serving your church, but don't make people feel as if their salvation is at stake.

    • @ajlouviere202
      @ajlouviere202 5 лет назад

      Their salvation is at stake! Read Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:11, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.

    • @callmeal9658
      @callmeal9658 5 лет назад +3

      wovuween147 you are spot on. MTOI does a fantastic job breaking this down in every minute detail. Messianic Torah Observant Israel: Divorce, Remarriage, & Putting Away

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад +1

      @@callmeal9658 we are not under the Troah....

    • @callmeal9658
      @callmeal9658 4 года назад +2

      @@philipbuckley759 correct. You are only "under" it when you break it. I am not under it. I follow the commands of Messiah that He specifically said came from His Father. And that he did not come to abolish the Torah.

    • @Crystal-se7ez
      @Crystal-se7ez 3 года назад

      He did not come to abolish it but to fulfill it, and so with Yeshua in us, it is not abolished in us but fulfilled through Him in us. Therefore we cannot break it. All things through Yeshua are possible including living out the unabolished law. And we wouldn't be walking out the law but through Ruach living it because He is Holy and can only ever be Holy

  • @sabrinacruz9464
    @sabrinacruz9464 4 года назад

    Why is the sin of remarriage, which Jesus calls adultery, the only sin we don't have to repent or turn away from?

    • @deadlystylzcal2913
      @deadlystylzcal2913 3 года назад

      Based on my observations across numerous comments on the subject, it seems to be because it’s a covenant. Vows/promises were made to each other that shouldn’t or cannot be broken.

  • @MrMiggy70
    @MrMiggy70 4 года назад

    I divorced my ex husband because he was abusing our son. We have fraternal twin boys and he only abused one of our boys. The one that was more like me. The passive aggressiveness towards me I could handle but the abuse towards our son I could not. He has since passed away of a heart attack. Would God be upset with me for divorcing him?

    • @twindem1976
      @twindem1976 3 года назад +1

      Did you remarry? Anyway he has passed so just repent and move on, he is no longer alive so you are free from the covenant law!! 😊

  • @MrBlack-pj1jk
    @MrBlack-pj1jk 3 года назад

    So... what is repentance ?
    What does it look like?
    I know scripture that describes it as visible change. Saying sorry and remaining in the same state is not repentance

  • @jexodustalks
    @jexodustalks 17 дней назад

    We live in a time where the culture norm is to divorce for any reason, thay being said, so many churches have gone luke warm on this subject because of the staggering divorce rate in this country and if they did, it would cause issues with those that dont want to believe they are violating The Fathers Word. Thus these churches run like a business and are lukewarm on calling this out so they lower odds of offending thus retain more poeple in hopes of more profit, but theyll never admit this.

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 года назад +1

    God gave Israel a divorce....but is not seeking another....the remarriage, is the sin....it is called adultery.....

  • @Tahania1
    @Tahania1 4 года назад +1

    If Adultery is being committed after 1st marriage why tell them to stay on that marriage. God said it’s Adultery right?

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

      these pastors need to get other employment...

  • @MySimpleLife9743
    @MySimpleLife9743 4 года назад +1

    What If you husband cheats on you multiply time over a 26 years of marriage and you just got tired of it and divorced you husband Dose that mean I can't get remarried ever again? He has been the only man I ever been with but he kept cheating on me I fought for my marriage but it dose take two people for a marriage to work.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +2

    Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in HONOR (reverence) among ALL, and let the MARRIAGE BED be UNDEFILED, for GOD WILL JUDGE the sexually immoral and ADULTEROUS!!!

  • @klooster97
    @klooster97 2 года назад

    Also if remarriage is adultery, is a remarriage even valid in God's eyes? If you commit to a lifelong relationship, say Syke, then commit again to another lifelong relationship...

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +2

    Romans 7:1-3 3 So then if, WHILE HER HUSBAND LIVITH, SHE BE MARRIED TO ANOTHER MAN, SHE SHALL BE CALLED AN ADULTERESS: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад +1

      So are women to hope and pray that their ex's pass away?! This is where it gets ridiculous.

    • @christopherjordan6237
      @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад

      @@maunder01 are you not supposed to love your husband wife the same way Jesus loves the church and have faith? Have you read about Abraham or Gommer?

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 Год назад

      ​@@christopherjordan6237 no the husband is to love the wife this way.

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

    lets look, at this, from a secular point, of view....if one leaves their spouse, without a divorce and marries another, is this person a bigamist....for as long as they are with this person...or it just the act....or remarriage...and would confession, or any other action make this second relationship legitimate....

  • @ellishabray849
    @ellishabray849 6 лет назад +4

    You didn't speak more about the unbeliever leaves than God has called them to peace. Nor did you speak on abuse. Not everyone marries while being a believer and not all marriages are brought together by God because some people have been abused into marriage. What about those situations?

    • @TheGraftedChurch
      @TheGraftedChurch  6 лет назад +3

      Those are definitely difficult situations. I may have to address them in a future teaching.

    • @MargaretWalkerCellist
      @MargaretWalkerCellist 6 лет назад +4

      The marriage covenant is a union of two people, male and female, in sexual union, 2 flesh becoming one; and over the years they become one in other ways. If one marries into ANY OTHER SIN, such as abuse, crimes, etc., no sin except previous fornication can VOID the marriage covenant. Non-sexual FRAUD is not grounds for remarriage to anyone else. Period. It might be cause for DIVORCE, but NOT remarriage to anyone else. In Jeremiah 3 God Himself divorced Israel because she demanded it. But the rest of the chapter is God's Plan to RECONCILE with her...though He was still "married to her" until His death on the stake (Yeshua), and then even after that, He will "yet choose Israel". Now wouldn't you like a mate that loved you THAT deeply?

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 5 лет назад +1

      neither abuse, nor abandoment allows for remarriage...

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

      the term is not enslaved, to that individual, not that you are not bound in that covenant...

  • @incorruptibleword4513
    @incorruptibleword4513 5 лет назад +1

    Sometimes its better to divorce when things are hellish (adultery abuse etc) but it is NOT Gods will for those that believe in him to do so as the reasons for divorce come from sin and disobedience to Gods word and ofcourse God does not want us to be disobedient to him. Love(agape) God and each other and no sin should come between you. Agree with messiah and be whole.

  • @Johnny-ey1gw
    @Johnny-ey1gw 6 лет назад +1

    the other teaching you deleted on the subject made a lot more sense than this message. i have been married and divorced 3 times. they divorced me. i didnt divorce them. because of the hardness of their hearts. why would God punish the innocent party? makes no sense. idk man this message was confusing.

    • @Johnny-ey1gw
      @Johnny-ey1gw 6 лет назад +1

      im not trying to justify my divorces or remarriage.. i will have to study this more in depth. i think alot was left out.

    • @TheGraftedChurch
      @TheGraftedChurch  6 лет назад +1

      I don't think it's about punishing the victim of a divorce. It's about the lifelong covenant that marriage should be.

    • @Johnny-ey1gw
      @Johnny-ey1gw 6 лет назад

      The Grafted Church i thought your previous video gave a better explanation

    • @MargaretWalkerCellist
      @MargaretWalkerCellist 6 лет назад +2

      "innocent party"/"guilty party" makes NO DIFFERENCE; in the case of two virgins with a father's approval: marriage IS FOR LIFE, no matter what SIN occurs thereafter. A person's WORD is their BOND. In the case of previous fornication: Ex.22:16,17/Deut.22:28,29, and Numbers 30 ALL apply. There is no such thing as "interpretation" of the Law. It is ironclad. God is not a liar, nor is He derelict. There are no exceptions when one party is "innocent". Yeshua was innocent also.

    • @MargaretWalkerCellist
      @MargaretWalkerCellist 6 лет назад

      The lifeloong covenant that marriage IS...between virgins with a father's approval. Fornication is another subject, and ONLY when a father's word VOIDS fornication, can a person be quit of the marriage BOND. This is no matter HOW MANY YEARS AGO this fornication occured. God's Laws have NO STATUTE OF LIMITATIONS.

  • @markdumas4587
    @markdumas4587 2 года назад

    My wife was divorced when we married and a lot of teachers out there are saying based on scripture interpretation that in order to repent I have to divorce my wife since I’m in fornication

    • @markdumas4587
      @markdumas4587 2 года назад

      I want to add I’m in my 2nd marriage but both marriage I married divorced women so I never had a covenant spouse

    • @Rmiller488
      @Rmiller488 2 года назад

      Your in adultery not fornication. Just read mark 10:10. Matthew 5:32.

  • @MsJanetLouise
    @MsJanetLouise 6 лет назад

    Pastor Lex, I appreciate your effort on this difficult subject. I'm divorced and remarried. We both committed adultery in my first marriage and my current marriage is 15 years long. This is my husband's first marriage. I'm very confused on the subject. GOD is absolutely number 1 in my life so I'm really looking for an answer. I can live with not having an intimate relationship with my husband but not sure about divorce -there are so many different opinions out there. I'm waiting for Jesus to come back, seeking HIM and taking care of my family are my top priorities. It's definitely confusing...

    • @ajlouviere202
      @ajlouviere202 5 лет назад +7

      Please do not follow the false teachers that tell you its ok to be remarried. The truth is not confusing if you accept it. Romans 7:2-3 is very clear about your situation. So is 1 Corinthians 7:11, and 1 Corinthians 7:39. This man is preaching false doctrine by telling you to ignore what Romans 7:2-3 is saying. Also there is no such thing as innocent and guilty parties. That is completely false. If two people divorce over irreconcilable differences and remarry they are both guilty of adultery and subject to the judgment of God according to 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. Please search the truth for yourself and not listen to anyone that preaches for a paycheck.

    • @nellrenee305
      @nellrenee305 5 лет назад +2

      Yes, my dear friend please do not be deceived. The Lord is very serious about the matter of Divorce and Remarriage because it is a direct resemblance of Jesus’s marriage to the church. The same way Jesus leaves his arms open for reconciliation for us back to him until we die. We also must keep our arms open for our spouse. Remarriage closes the door for the Lord to do a work in either party. When you become one flesh that covenant can not be broken by a divorce. Only by death. Please see my video. I left a remarriage because the Lord called me to leave. Please don’t reject the truth.

    • @lucyda6079
      @lucyda6079 5 лет назад +1

      I am divorced and remarried again,my new husband never been married so I’m his first wife is this means that I have to leave him and go back to my ex-husband? What about my new husband ?I am his first wife what he has to do? He have to wait until I die so he can be free to marry again?And my ex-husband was Divorced to it’s so confusing so my ex-husband has to go to his ex-wife Or I have to go back to my ex husband?

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 4 года назад +1

      @@lucyda6079 you are committing adultery because you are divorced....and your so called husband is committing adultery because he married a divorced woman...you need to separate, from this relationship, which is usually a divorce and either remain single or reconcile to your original spouse...

    • @amkr186
      @amkr186 4 года назад +1

      I don't know about the situation. But she is not allowed to go back to her first (Deuteronomy 24:4).

  • @izakopalma7093
    @izakopalma7093 5 лет назад

    Question iam divorce and remaried but we stop having sex it makes 7years known we have three children together so iam i ok with God or should i walk out and go live alone with my children.

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 5 лет назад

      it seems that you are doing the correct thing.....

    • @christopherjordan6237
      @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад

      4) Bible True Repentance Definition-ONLY WAY TO BE FORGIVEN
      =NOT ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND CONTINUE THE SIN, NO! REPENT!
      Say sorry? NO!!! REPENT!!!!
      It means TURN FROM THAT SIN!!!.
      Acts 26:19-20
      19 I OBEYED that vision from heaven. 20 I preached...that ALL MUST REPNT of their sins and TURN to God-and PROVE they have CHANGED by the good THINGS THEY DO. Proof of Repentance
      Acts 26:20 I preached that they should repent and turn to God and demonstrate their repentance by their deeds
      Hebrews 6:1
      Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity, not laying again the FOUNDATION OF REPENTANCE FROM ACTS THAT LEAD TO DEATH!(say your sorry? NO!!! TURN AWAY FROM EVIL ACTS THAT LEAD TO DEATH(eternal separation from God), WHAT GOD CALLS EVIL, THAT NAILED CHRIST TO THE CROSS!!!!)
      Romans 2:4
      Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you??? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to TURN YOU FROM YOUR SIN!!!?
      2 Chronicles 7:14
      If my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and TURN FROM THEIR WICKED WAYS, THEN I will hear from heaven and WILL FORGIVE THEIR SIN and heal their land. (Say sorry??? NO!!!! TURN FROM WHAT GOD CALLS WICKED AND THEN HE WILL FORGIVE)
      Matthew 3:8
      Bear fruit in keeping with REPENTANCE.
      8Therefore BEAR FRUITS WORTHY of REPENTANCE, 9and do not think to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father.’ For I say to you that God is able to raise up children to Abraham from these stones. 10And even now the AXE is laid to the root of the trees. Therefore EVERY TREE which DOES NOT BEAR GOOD FRUIT is CUT DOWN and THROWN into THE FIRE.
      Proverbs 28:13
      Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and FORSAKES them will obtain mercy. (Say sorry??? NO!!!! FORSAKE SIN!!)
      Acts 3:26
      Unto you first God, having raised up his Son Jesus, sent him to bless you, in TURNING AWAY EVERYONE of you from his INIQUITIES!!!(say sorry? NO TURN AWAY!!!)
      Revelation 2:5
      Jesus: Remember therefore from where you have fallen; REPENT, and DO THE WORKS you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place, unless
      2 Corinthians 7:10-12
      GODLY SORROW(OVER EVIL SINS THAT CRUCIFIED CHRIST) brings REPENTANCE THAT leads to SALVATION and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.
      James‬ ‭4:7-10‬
      Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. CLEANSE YOUR HANDS, YOU SINNERS, PURIFY YOUR HEARTS, YOU DOUBLE MINDED. LAMENT and MOURN and WEEP! Let your laughter be turned to MOURNING and your joy to GLOOM. HUMBLE yourselves in the sight of the Lord.
      Psalm 51:17 The sacrifice YOU DESIRE is a BROKEN SPIRIT. You will not reject a BROKEN and REPENTANT HEART, O God.
      Acts 17:30
      The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent
      Hebrews 12:17
      For you know that afterward, when he desired to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found NO CHANCE to REPENT, though he SOUGHT it with TEARS. (Esau couldn’t say sorry? NO!!! He could not change he vowed over his birthright for soup)
      Luke 13:3
      No, I tell you; but UNLESS you REPENT, you will all likewise PERISH.

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад

      What happened? What did you decide to do?

  • @rodneycrosby6754
    @rodneycrosby6754 3 года назад +1

    TURN TO JESUS TODAY , FOR WHOSEVER WAS NOT FOUND WRITTEN IN THE BOOK OF LIFE WAS CAST INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE , REVELATION 20-15

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 5 лет назад

    someone needs to do another translation, of the Bible...because there are too many such as you....coming up with your own translation.....why do most translations say...divorce...

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +1

    at about 40 when he says one can remain in a relationship, defined by the Bible as adultery...one has no other option to call him out, as a false teacher.....and the intimation that this teaching will have serious consequences of anyone following it....

    • @noelle457
      @noelle457 2 года назад

      Some pastors mislead people. Before I come to this topic of divorce/remarriage I thought I only committing fornication by living with a divorced man that wasn't my husband( we have 3 kids ) I spoke to my pastor about stopping all intimacy until we where right in the eyes of God... My pastor not only told me to not leave the home but to not stop intimacy as we already were a family.
      So when God revealed to me about this topic I thought it was even pointless to speak to my pastor I had to ask the Holy spirit by myself.

  • @christopherjordan6237
    @christopherjordan6237 3 года назад +1

    A HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE IS NOT THE UNFORGIVABLE SIN EITHER THEN YOU ARE A HERTIC AND WILL BE JUDGED BY THE WORD! YOU CALL IT DIVORCE GOD CALLD IS DISSOLVING AN ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIP.

  • @monicamarie2441
    @monicamarie2441 6 лет назад +6

    Lex, you said “divorce” and you did not distinguish between “putting away” and “divorce”.
    I didn’t watch every minute of the video but I didn’t hear you mention the Greek or the Hebrew translations.
    Putting away and divorce are two different things.
    Jesus says- if a man “puts away his wife”- this is different from divorcing his wife.
    The man who puts away his wife is still married to her. There is no divorce certificate given.
    If he or she marries another- it is adultery.
    However, if there is a bill of divorcement given, the covenant is terminated, they may both remarry, it is not sin. However, there is 1 stipulation- the woman may not to back to her former husband .
    Also, when Jesus says “save for sexual immorality “ this does not include adultery, adultery in the Greek is a different translation. “Sexual immorality” is listed in Leviticus - the sexual sins. And in that case, he doesn’t need a bill of divorcement, he may put her away.
    There’s so much condemnation.
    Divorce and remarriage is permitted in the Torah and Jesus establishes and confirms Torah.
    God commanded the priests to put away their wives in Ezra.
    People assume that because someone is married, it must have been God who brought them together
    That isn’t always the case.
    God himself is divorced. And because of His own law, he could not take Israel back because of Deut 24:1-4.

    • @TheGraftedChurch
      @TheGraftedChurch  6 лет назад +1

      I agree, there are some differences between a legal divorce and simply putting her away.

    • @Rmiller488
      @Rmiller488 2 года назад

      Your so off.

  • @LivingModestlyNaturally
    @LivingModestlyNaturally 3 года назад

    This is Not a matter of Opinion its about what the word of God says and we all must come into obedience to the Word. Its clear in
    Romans 7:2-3 "For the woman which hath an husband is BOUND by the law to her husband so long as HE LIVETH; but if the husband BE DEAD, she is LOOSED from the LAW of her HUSBAND. So then IF, while her husband LIVETH, she be MARRIED to ANOTHER MAN, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but IF her HUSBAND be DEAD, she is FREE from that LAW; so that she is NO ADULTERESS, though she be married to ANOTHER MAN.
    It is a difficult situation BUT it doesn't change the fact that God's WORD remains the same whether we like it or not and is to be accepted just the way it is without trying so hard to avoid what He is really saying. Let us receive and take heed TO the Word of God so that we won't be found guilty BY the Word of God in the end of time.
    This is a very serious topic. Marriage is for life! Period.

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +1

    another one that claims adultery can be changed into something holy.....one has to invalidate a covenant and change adultery into a covenant.....

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад

      So David remained with Bethsheba?

  • @jermainewatson4194
    @jermainewatson4194 5 лет назад

    Well other than sexual sin. Which means if she sleep with your brother, father, animal, etc. If she does that you can divorce, but other than that it was not so.

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 3 года назад +1

      fornication.....sex in the engagement period....

  • @renjn718
    @renjn718 3 года назад

    God killed their first son you left a little part out of that. Not saying God will punish someone for divorce but dont use a story unless you tell the truth

  • @carmenmcmurtrey3429
    @carmenmcmurtrey3429 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you

  • @ajlouviere202
    @ajlouviere202 5 лет назад +1

    I commend your acknowledgement of the truth that remarriage after adivorce is adulterty. However, you seem to be confused when it comes to remaining in sin. Did Herod repent after John the Baptist rebuked him for being married to his brother's covenant wife? No he had John beheaded. This topic is only difficult for those who do not accept what the scriptures say. As far as the many opinions or theories out there, in regard to divorce and remarriage, only exist between those who advocate divorce and remarriage against what the scriptures say. We see so many so-called teachers that advocate for divorce and remarriage saying that God told them and showed them the truth yet very few get the same exact message. Thousands upon thousands of them saying that God showed each of them the truth as they each make God a liar. How can he give so many theories that contradict his word to each of these people as well as contradict the scriptures? The word does not instruct anyone to remain in adultery. In fact, it clearly calls people to forsake sin and turn away from it otherwise 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, and Romans 1:28-32 would not exist. I pray that you decide to go further with the truth in your repentance from your other videos and teach repentance from the sin of adultery. All of the sins in the above scriptures that are unrepented of will not be pardoned as made evident by what is taught by Christ in the Parable of the Banquet.

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад

    if women were left, at risk, by Jesus....what does that say, about him...

  • @broderen6234
    @broderen6234 6 лет назад +2

    are you sure you are reading it right?? its not sin for man to have multiple wives in the bible.

    • @TheGraftedChurch
      @TheGraftedChurch  6 лет назад

      I admit that the subject of divorce and remarriage is a very difficult one.

    • @MargaretWalkerCellist
      @MargaretWalkerCellist 6 лет назад +1

      There are Biblical figures with multiple "wives", but a BOUND WIFE is only 1 of them: I cite Jacob and Leah...marriage between virgins with her father's approval is a DONE DEAL for LIFE. One cannot be "no more twain but one flesh" with any more than JUST TWO PEOPLE that are male and female, virgins. "No MORE" means exactly that.

  • @moisesg.v.1575
    @moisesg.v.1575 6 лет назад +1

    Yeshua said that you can remarry if you get the bill divorce AFTER sexual immorality occurred in the marriage. And only in this case. You will commit adultery if it's not for this one reason or if you marry someone else being only separated and not legally divorced again only for the reason of sexual immorality. Yeshua is right, this new approach of not being able even in the exception Yeshua Himself expressed is wrong.

    • @DAINVISIBLEGURL
      @DAINVISIBLEGURL 5 лет назад +2

      Can you please share the scripture where Yeshua says specifically is ok to remarry another? And perhaps explain Mark 10:11-12, Luke 16:18 and 1Cor 7:10-11...Im here seeking Truth based on the uneadulterated Word of God..no pun intended. Thx

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад

    here is the deceit.....of this teaching....you have made a commitment....honor the marriage, that you are in....so the question is....same sex marriage.....honor that commitment....and when the Bible calls something adultery....would you honor such a relationship that the Bible calls sin....after all John the Baptist said.....to Herod....it is not lawful....he did not say.....honor the marriage that you are in....this, in, and of itself labels this one, of the many, false teachers out there....

  • @joshgonzales2285
    @joshgonzales2285 3 года назад

    Love this channel
    The word shows you can remary, they will say its falls teaching but if you are declaired a divorced person for ever then that means God never forgives divorce. Wich will make Him and the bible a liar, wich the word says I am not man to lie. For His word shows thought scriputre He is a God who forgives and forgets the offense.
    Plain and simple jesus says if you commit adultry your covenant or marrige is released.
    And what does jesus declaire a second marrige? "Adultry"
    Wich he claimed himself only then can one be released from that covenant.
    It's a sin to divorce, but it is a sin that He forgives.
    Note I'm not saying let's divorce left or right, just like any other sin in our lives we do our best not to commit again. But if you are remarried by scripture you are forgiven and free from condemnation.
    If you feel in your convition that it is still wrong even tho I've given the facts. Then dont remarry or divorce the person you remarried. But then we are saying two wrongs make a right and that's not who God is stay blessed and be careful to listen to the religious pharisees 🙏😁

    • @twindem1976
      @twindem1976 3 года назад

      Are you for real?

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 3 года назад

      you are correct....on one aspect....two wrongs dont make a right.....first wrong remarrying after a non Biblical divorce, and second wrong, remaining in a relationship, that the Bible calls adultery....after all why did not John the Baptist not tell Herod....you are illegally married....but not to worry....confess this...sin...and remain where you are....it would have save him, his head.....literally....

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

    if one steals money.....is one allowed to keep the money and merely needs to repent, of the theft....

    • @deadlystylzcal2913
      @deadlystylzcal2913 3 года назад

      Apparently it’s different because the remarriage is a covenant. What if I were to enter into a legal contract with someone that I knew was morally wrong etc? Am I required to stay in it because I signed and committed? Again, most will call it apples and oranges.

  • @Job_Siciliano
    @Job_Siciliano 2 года назад

    1 Corinthians 7:39

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

    the term is to the married.....not the remarried....oh you want someone to honor what the Bible calls adultery....so when it is a wrong to end an adulterous relationship....

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

    once again, blah, blah, blah.....but if you are divorced, and remarried.....lets pull out that old tired response, the straw man, it is not the unforgivable sin.....just repent....so what did John the Baptist say....it is not lawful, to Herod...he may should have said....hey, but dont worry, just repent....and by the way, what does repentence mean..admit the sin, quit the sin....where is this one asking people to quit the sin....so here is his message...marry divorce, remarry, repent, repeat.....another false teacher preaching emotions, and not the word of God....

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад

    the example, of David does not fly because Jesus changed the game plan....by the expression....but I say, unto you....

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 3 года назад

      Give me a break he murdered her husband!!!

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 3 года назад

    in what other sin....does, what you call repentance....change a sin, into a non sin....you steal a car....and repent.....what happens to the car......is it then legally yours....or is it still a stolen property that needs to be returned to the first owner.....the same with a spouse.....interesting....you can remain in adultery if you just say....oops, sorry....

  • @philipbuckley759
    @philipbuckley759 4 года назад

    I cant follow......too much emotion.....and no consistant lesson plan...

  • @naverno
    @naverno 4 года назад

    I think it’s not applicable anymore

  • @marissahess8084
    @marissahess8084 Год назад

    When I read your previous video, the one you deleted, gave me HOPE and was convince I can remarried with God's blessings.
    What about GRACE? The Rey David sin again God, and God forgive him.
    I can not trust you anymore. What about if your others videos are wrong.too.