Jennifer N - Steps on how to love me correctly

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  • @porshabatis8622
    @porshabatis8622 Год назад +1036

    “Hold me because anxiety doesn’t aways tell me why she’s visiting .” 🔥

    • @GhandiiLove
      @GhandiiLove Год назад +11

      Came to write that part and it was the first one to pop up ‼️‼️❤️

    • @nazrenewilliams6473
      @nazrenewilliams6473 Год назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @justicegusting2476
      @justicegusting2476 Год назад +7

      Interesting that you assign a feminine quality to anxiety.

    • @tapoutmotion4017
      @tapoutmotion4017 11 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@justicegusting2476ooh my world 😂

    • @shineskye6910
      @shineskye6910 11 месяцев назад +2

      Almost teared up🎉where can I find u jennifer N❤

  • @calvinsmith1140
    @calvinsmith1140 Год назад +459

    Hits home as a man. When you've had to love someone pass their past to reassure them that you're not their past

    • @codybryant7026
      @codybryant7026 Год назад +11

      I’ve dealt with this myself and tbh I couldn’t deal with it

    • @calvinsmith1140
      @calvinsmith1140 Год назад +22

      @@codybryant7026 It ban be exhausting but Iwe as men sometimes forget we bring our own trauma and bagage even though we think we dont

    • @codybryant7026
      @codybryant7026 Год назад +13

      @@calvinsmith1140 that’s true we do. In my situation that I dealt with it was past insecurities from previous men but also other stuff she went thru sexual on multiple occasions and it was a lot. I wasn’t patient enough, I was not emotionally supportive enough which was what she needed. She needed someone compassionate with a big heart and that ain’t me so it didn’t work but whatever now.

    • @calvinsmith1140
      @calvinsmith1140 Год назад

      @@codybryant7026 it's hard when you feel like you're doing all the things you're supposed to be doing and more then you've done for anyone else and it seems like nothing is changing and @ that time. You're so right you have to be patient, you have to be compassionate in a time like that sometimes it's worth the fight and sometimes it's not in my situation it's been worth the fight nobody and I mean nobody has loved me like this woman we have a crazy story but I believe she was divinely created for me

    • @Mmmmgood317
      @Mmmmgood317 11 месяцев назад +9

      Salute 🫡 to you sir… because past trauma is a 2way street. Most men and women have some… and the sad part is some ppl think they don’t… when in all actuality most do. I have a man that is loving me through my healing… and I’m doing the same for him (unbeknownst to him)

  • @deannascott1909
    @deannascott1909 Год назад +94

    'Remind me that I am important enough to remember in the chaos...'

  • @rakshetsa
    @rakshetsa Год назад +471

    I am a crying mess right now because every line she spoke felt like it was coming from my soul❤

    • @kwezchyn
      @kwezchyn Год назад +4

      I second that emotion. For You🌹 and For Me🌹

    • @phemelokhaole4047
      @phemelokhaole4047 Год назад +2

      That's me right there,hey🎉

    • @saun_7
      @saun_7 Год назад +1

      🧡🙏🏾🧡

    • @ashleyybabyyy7539
      @ashleyybabyyy7539 Год назад +2

      Same for me. Every word resides with me 💯

    • @beck316
      @beck316 11 месяцев назад +1

      Here here

  • @bryanobarr2857
    @bryanobarr2857 11 месяцев назад +172

    I’m not used to listening to these with the audience interacting so loudly. The energy is definitely there. Cool piece, lots of support. That’s a special experience

  • @owandaisy4147
    @owandaisy4147 11 месяцев назад +32

    Do not excuse my assertiveness for inability to be submissive, I just know what I want so I'm making sure u understand the mission....yessss🔥

  • @No-js8bs
    @No-js8bs Год назад +115

    This hit hard. I know I'm more than hard to love. I feel sorry for everyone who has tried to show me affection. I feel the necessity to keep my heart locked in the cage of my lungs. I do have one contrary to popular belief. It's a bit broken, but it's there.
    It's kinda nice knowing that I'm not the only one who relates to this sensation.

    • @janae296
      @janae296 Год назад +2

      I 10000000000% relate.

    • @ConsolantaKyosimire-ho2cu
      @ConsolantaKyosimire-ho2cu 11 месяцев назад +1

      ❤wow

    • @poetryinmotion5240
      @poetryinmotion5240 11 месяцев назад +1

      The beauty of your broken heart is that the pieces connect making you whole. Putting those together is the hard part.

    • @meowriah333
      @meowriah333 11 месяцев назад +2

      I empathize with this heavily.

    • @reesexxzcg8554
      @reesexxzcg8554 11 месяцев назад +4

      Jesus is there for you. He’s waiting with His arms outstretched!

  • @joeycrow
    @joeycrow 11 месяцев назад +20

    "I just know what I want, so I'm just making sure you understand the mission." Easily the most underrated bar I've heard in a long time.

  • @clarissaruiz1168
    @clarissaruiz1168 2 года назад +87

    “I know I have wife written all over me”!!

  • @justicegusting2476
    @justicegusting2476 Год назад +161

    April, May, and June
    Before the dusky doom
    Before the freeze
    And autumn leaves
    And judgements made too soon
    After all the flowers
    The golden showers
    Of orange juice
    In her room
    Ah, but those three months
    Those precious months
    Time I’ll remember best
    Life was good
    Full of promise
    Her touch, her kiss
    So sensuous
    It was a time of flight
    Into the night
    Upon the wings of a dove
    I’ll ne’er forget
    All the days of my life
    How I felt
    For my late spring love

  • @fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559
    @fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559 10 месяцев назад +4

    Yoo she said: "I still wanna feel like you're crushing on me even after you've had me" PRINT THIS ON A BILLBOARD

  • @j-revealpoetic
    @j-revealpoetic Год назад +86

    As a poet myself, this is "POWERFUL"!!!!!!

    • @jusjesspoetry
      @jusjesspoetry 10 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely it is 🫰🏽 🔥

  • @chengtsai8323
    @chengtsai8323 10 месяцев назад +4

    a response as male bodied: thank you for sharing and trusting me with what I would otherwise not known, and I am sorry; I hear your pain and hurt of the past; I can’t undo your past and how it has shaped you. I love all of you; I will do my best to hold healing space for you, and co regulating squeeze hugs on our journey. When the anxiety subsides and is no longer blinding, see through my manly husk, stripped of strength, and see just a human being inside who also wants to be loved, have cuddles, and connection.

  • @jilyyyyy.
    @jilyyyyy. 3 месяца назад +2

    "I never said it was easy to love me. But if you're still going to then I need to know that you're willing to love me.. properly."

  • @ashleyybabyyy7539
    @ashleyybabyyy7539 Год назад +33

    This came right on time for me. Popped up in my feed at the perfect time. I needed to hear this. I am not alone. I am not the only girl that knows she’s not easy to love BUT my table is always full 💯🔥

    • @amyafenner5317
      @amyafenner5317 11 месяцев назад

      exactly ! i just need a little bit more reassurance 😔 gestures , “remind me that i’m enough to remember in chaos” that’s all .

    • @rokeithajacobs4561
      @rokeithajacobs4561 2 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @ThePeoplesUN
    @ThePeoplesUN 11 месяцев назад +24

    Anxiety in relationships personified 🙏🏾 beautifully captured, sis. breathe it out & remember you are love, no matter if you are loved

  • @RheemaJoy
    @RheemaJoy Год назад +46

    Yes sis! I love that you pushed through those nerves. Amazing poem. Beautiful job…the message is RIGHT on time for so many of us.💜💜✨✨

  • @chasity9122
    @chasity9122 Год назад +51

    Touch my soul. I feel every word she says 💯💯💚💖

  • @chehakoberoi6197
    @chehakoberoi6197 5 месяцев назад +1

    "tell me at 2pm that you miss me"
    the last extract went straight through my heart and i think it is gonna resides there forever. so beautiful 🌸

  • @dcriminologist5347
    @dcriminologist5347 Год назад +16

    Every new couple should listen to this poem!

  • @lisavanoni6552
    @lisavanoni6552 Год назад +24

    So strong and vulnerable at same time Truth equals love

  • @user-kr9ib5ty3p
    @user-kr9ib5ty3p Год назад +10

    She nailed this one to concrete walls. Enjoy the picture.

  • @Peteluver145
    @Peteluver145 11 месяцев назад +2

    The fact that she opened this with "I'm nervous" ...thank you for that vulnerability that the world needs

  • @BRODY5540
    @BRODY5540 Год назад +24

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 love her tone and delivery

  • @Jennifer-vd8hw
    @Jennifer-vd8hw Год назад +30

    Omgggg this is so beautiful

  • @green_gurl4628
    @green_gurl4628 11 месяцев назад +9

    This is everything I felt but couldn’t put into words 😭

  • @savannahskyla9988
    @savannahskyla9988 10 месяцев назад +7

    Jennifer you put into words many things i couldn't even express, perfectly! You have talent expression and so much heart❤girl,dont ever stop being you and doing you,your amazing 💯🙌💎

  • @sugarp5421
    @sugarp5421 Год назад +13

    Baybay this is everything!!! Anxiety doesn't always tell me why she's visiting is a bar❤

  • @yagirlmkada
    @yagirlmkada Год назад +12

    This is so beautiful, currently crying while writing this. Thank you for speaking to my soul. Wishing you all the abundance and love that this world has to offer you ❤

  • @brittanycrivello
    @brittanycrivello 11 месяцев назад +14

    Spoken from the heart!! I suffer with PTSD as well. I felt you when you said " I never said it was easy to love me" 2:22 2:23 2:23

  • @viedinternaute8132
    @viedinternaute8132 Год назад +24

    Proper etiquette is to Snap instead of cheer and clap in the middle of poetry recitation

  • @charlesrhodes2493
    @charlesrhodes2493 10 месяцев назад +2

    “Compliments from you feel more like confirmation that it’s going to be a good day” 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @chelsg4611
    @chelsg4611 10 месяцев назад +4

    Real tears streaming down my face🥹😭 You go girl. Speaking all the truths❤️

  • @sanjhsolanki2419
    @sanjhsolanki2419 Год назад +41

    me listening to it again & again to remind me I deserve it all ❤

    • @janae296
      @janae296 Год назад +2

      We do. We can never dismiss the facts that in the midst of it all, insecurities, moments of the confirmations we need, all that we've been thru, endured, and overcome, it's those steps that lead us to being the best versions of ourselves that God created us to be. We are worthy, and we are deserving. 💜It starts with us loving ourselves.

    • @sanjhsolanki2419
      @sanjhsolanki2419 Год назад +1

      @@janae296 so true

  • @spreadlove3937
    @spreadlove3937 11 месяцев назад +2

    DAMN SIS I ALMOST SENT THIS TO HIM but imma chill!!!! Yaszzz baby you spoke for the masses.

  • @ericamcdowell6927
    @ericamcdowell6927 10 месяцев назад +1

    “Learn to love me properly”….Beautiful! Deep!

  • @dianasross1662
    @dianasross1662 11 месяцев назад +5

    You spoke on our behalf. Thank you this humbled me... I love poetry this is true art

  • @simplyvika9733
    @simplyvika9733 Год назад +15

    hits even harder after a breakup

  • @davidlankster9698
    @davidlankster9698 Год назад +12

    This was….intense. In a good way. Hella thought - provoking.

  • @slipperysteev
    @slipperysteev 10 месяцев назад

    Jennifer N. - You are a Queen and you speak like an angel. This message should transcend to ALL single humans.

  • @christinek.5917
    @christinek.5917 Год назад +16

    Crazy goosebumps through out. ❤

  • @mayadaley-tulloch6894
    @mayadaley-tulloch6894 Год назад +4

    this is me. i never related so much to a poem before, thank you for putting my feelings and thoughts into words

  • @kiloook
    @kiloook Год назад +27

    Beautifully written

  • @sussan_E
    @sussan_E Год назад +13

    Wow!!! This resonates with me really well. I love this piece

  • @cpeacewellness
    @cpeacewellness 10 месяцев назад

    This= was. Everything. Absolutely everything. Touched my heart. Touched my soul. Broke me and helped make me. Helped me feel understood and heard. Made me feel all the hurt, in a necessary way. Made me feel all the hope, in a necessary way.

  • @Hopesbrizze
    @Hopesbrizze Год назад +99

    Girl this hit my soul! That was like my exact thoughts you spoke so eloquently. Omg wow. I’m literally crying while watching this. Gave me goosebumps.

  • @nigellarcher919
    @nigellarcher919 7 месяцев назад

    This poem is FIRE, and as real as it gets. Can't wait to hear more poems from Jennifer N.

  • @giokoolinxdkoolingangxd1590
    @giokoolinxdkoolingangxd1590 5 месяцев назад

    Crying in my spirit rn,tryna hold back dem tears...so wonderful🙏🏾🙏🏾you are blessed woman fr🙏🏾💯💯💯

  • @xoxoqueen5257
    @xoxoqueen5257 Год назад +6

    I’m making sure you understand the mission 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ellesmusic4644
    @ellesmusic4644 10 месяцев назад +3

    Wonderfully vulnerable, well delivered and extremely relatable

  • @makaylacourtney2105
    @makaylacourtney2105 8 месяцев назад

    Man its really hard to love a difficult person, but I want them so badly to know that they are not their past, and I want them so badly to know how it feels to really live... this gave me so much encouragement to keep trying. thank you lord

  • @soyearold
    @soyearold Год назад +4

    Beautiful way to put it.

  • @kalena777
    @kalena777 11 месяцев назад +3

    That was the most beautiful thing I heard and the most relating. Kudos to you & your heart whoever’s reading this ❤❤❤

  • @tiffanyvanlengen4393
    @tiffanyvanlengen4393 5 месяцев назад

    You took my breath away. Wow. You gave many of us a voice.

  • @rosesoulgold
    @rosesoulgold Год назад +33

    Literal tears down my face ❤

  • @kevonabdool1202
    @kevonabdool1202 11 месяцев назад +1

    This woman is deep!! I love listening to this poem!!

  • @7soulgreat8
    @7soulgreat8 2 года назад +7

    Sis was spittin! 🔥💯

  • @Kalik8000
    @Kalik8000 11 месяцев назад +2

    AI... I've NEVER watched poetry anything on RUclips. But for the past few days I've been googling about attachment styles theory. And here you are.. a poem about insecure- anxious attachment style......

  • @hopeholistichealermccullou735
    @hopeholistichealermccullou735 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’m just reiterating that I Was Never The One To Mess With 🤯💯♐️🤷🏾‍♀️🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @raywilliams4387
    @raywilliams4387 7 месяцев назад

    I felt this poem the day I met my wife. Love this poem. Love all of y'all be good this year

  • @francesjohnson6852
    @francesjohnson6852 Год назад +6

    You make me wanna release my poetry inside on this one❤

  • @misscoke3351
    @misscoke3351 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love her poetry is a vibe 💞💯

  • @KEOSHAANEILIA
    @KEOSHAANEILIA Год назад +3

    Totally crying…amazing.

  • @michelledziegielewski1226
    @michelledziegielewski1226 Год назад +4

    Amazing 👏 tears down my face

  • @elexussledge6044
    @elexussledge6044 Год назад +3

    This was good I shed tears 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @hustlingwithhaps907
    @hustlingwithhaps907 Год назад +20

    "I never said that loving me was going to be easy" ...

  • @gwenmartin5910
    @gwenmartin5910 Год назад +4

    Speak it young lady!!

  • @tesskennedy4959
    @tesskennedy4959 10 месяцев назад

    Jennifer N
    Fabulous
    A woman not only is she not silenced, you voiced that you have needs.
    I loved it, and you’re a beautiful human and o hope you are appreciated for who you truly are, authentically you. 🎈🎈🎈

  • @jusjesspoetry
    @jusjesspoetry 10 месяцев назад +1

    Beautifully spoken. Love the echoes and the dialogue switches 2:35 1:47 ✍🏾 ❤️‍🩹 ✨

  • @BMgirls-rm4eb
    @BMgirls-rm4eb День назад

    Plss post more Ur words r soo wise. They r really true. Plss post cause I urgently need a new video 😢😢

  • @lizasmilz482
    @lizasmilz482 Год назад +3

    Absolutely no words. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @LuisE2132
    @LuisE2132 11 месяцев назад +4

    Damn.. this hit my soul. Love her words 🔥

  • @milachyc88
    @milachyc88 Год назад +2

    Great job Jennifer. You deserve a big love like your heart ❤️

  • @cryptojadeiamcharley
    @cryptojadeiamcharley 3 месяца назад

    Bless Queen, youu cute! 🔥🔥🔥 Keep write-tings! Spark ya flame!

  • @user-ym8ee5dm1w
    @user-ym8ee5dm1w 10 месяцев назад

    Damn young woman. You clarified some things for this older man. Thing's I slept on in my last relationship. Thing's I felt I was missing. In the midst of try to keep things balanced amongst a my family. You got a powerful strong soul luv, keep doing ya Thang. God bless queen. Wish I knew it all soon.

  • @whybev
    @whybev Год назад +4

    You are speaking for me ‼️ Spit poet‼️💪🏽💅🏽

  • @thegrowthdiary
    @thegrowthdiary Год назад +4

    I can't stop watching this. I relate too bad

  • @karmab7412
    @karmab7412 Год назад +5

    I had to shed these tears babygirl 💕TALK YO SHIT HONEY 🤟🏾👏🏾

  • @leirno
    @leirno 11 месяцев назад +2

    speaking from the heart 💯

  • @jenniferburgess8492
    @jenniferburgess8492 Год назад +2

    Shook me to the core.❤

  • @ErastusUso
    @ErastusUso Год назад +4

    Jennifer you're amazing.

  • @eladmitchell752
    @eladmitchell752 Месяц назад

    when u find the one u love show appreciation, theres no money,status or education, treat people as u would want to be treated,because a beautiful soul is all u really needed,tell how special she is buy her roses,rub her back kiss her deep rub them toeses😮protect her keep her warm at night,love is real simple just be real and do it right ❤

  • @daffonidixon5157
    @daffonidixon5157 11 месяцев назад +1

    My true feelings are every word you shared!

  • @veronicazmayrant4258
    @veronicazmayrant4258 11 месяцев назад

    Yesss girl, I never said that it was easy to love me but if you’re still going to , I need to know that you’ll love me properly

  • @user-sp9zw1et5b
    @user-sp9zw1et5b Год назад +1

    Teach me the love... Woman you know just how to magic words😍🎨you're painting canvases

  • @mandya.6032
    @mandya.6032 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love this poem it’s true correct and beautiful.

  • @Trd_jayy
    @Trd_jayy Год назад +2

    Wow this made me tear up

  • @cassandramcxxxx9558
    @cassandramcxxxx9558 10 месяцев назад

    That was incredible! You hit the nail on the head with that. So perfect! Thank you for sharing.

  • @sheberry8597
    @sheberry8597 Год назад +4

    Still got some healing to do.. alot of that is insecurities.

  • @StrangeRecords
    @StrangeRecords 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank You For Your Simple But Very Honest, Big Words. I‘ll Keep That Knifes For You By Myself, Because There’s No Much People That Understand Your Soul. But Well I Do. I Love U. And That Only By Random Words, That NoOne Else Understand Or Even Recocnize Or Apriciate Your Brave To Show Your „Mariana (12Km)“ Emos ❤❤❤

  • @tew04d
    @tew04d 11 месяцев назад +1

    That was lovely 🥰

  • @francesjohnson6852
    @francesjohnson6852 Год назад +3

    You sound like you took these words str8 from within me

  • @sarahvasquez6494
    @sarahvasquez6494 10 месяцев назад

    I SEE MYSELF IN HER

  • @Livvvvv21
    @Livvvvv21 11 месяцев назад

    I haven’t cried in a while thank you

  • @innovativearts9511
    @innovativearts9511 8 месяцев назад

    Couldn't have been said better. Anxiety never tells me when she is visiting 😢.

  • @user-ow6hg6ev1c
    @user-ow6hg6ev1c 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for helping me get out of my way

  • @FreedomMeansLearning-ke7dk
    @FreedomMeansLearning-ke7dk 4 месяца назад

    Wow. She's inspiring !

  • @D.S24
    @D.S24 11 месяцев назад +1

    Nice👌🏾, I felt this❤🙏🏾

  • @darlenebonilla226
    @darlenebonilla226 Год назад +6

    Girl had me crying ! I felt that 💙

  • @melisacelebi6077
    @melisacelebi6077 11 месяцев назад +1

    Home girl you killed it !!!
    You got this "