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  • @nkaujhmoobmuas26
    @nkaujhmoobmuas26 2 года назад +4

    😭😭😭. Hlub hlub tug txiv tsi txawj tag li 😭

  • @maylee9743
    @maylee9743 2 года назад +8

    Koj Txoj kev npam los txog lawm xwb os. Poj hmoob siab phem. Nyuav ntxim xwb.

    • @pajhmong56
      @pajhmong56 2 года назад

      txhob maj nyos lawv txog yus yus thia paub

  • @Lea-qm1rm
    @Lea-qm1rm 2 года назад +58

    You can’t make someone love you. It doesn’t matter how good, faithful or loving. Everyone calling her out like she’s a bad person. This is what happens when you force someone to marry you. She did her best in her situation. Just think of the person you met once in your life that you were never attracted to and imagine being intimate and married to them.

    • @pnvang2
      @pnvang2 2 года назад +2

      Thank you for the comment

    • @magicalunicorn5853
      @magicalunicorn5853 2 года назад

      Everyone has a choice now a days.

    • @leek-te5dx
      @leek-te5dx 2 года назад +2

      Amen sister I'm with you on this one.

    • @baothao1728
      @baothao1728 2 года назад +2

      you are coming to USA you don’t love him leave him it’s freedom why you still with him go this is America Lol 😂

    • @tophatmellon5739
      @tophatmellon5739 2 года назад +2

      @@baothao1728 I agree too. But its easier said then done for those born in laos or thailand. For some reason or another, they have this og mentality to stay even if ur not happy.

  • @YiYangchannel
    @YiYangchannel 2 года назад +57

    Can’t believe this lady wasted her whole life with her husband and not once love him until he’s gone. I don’t feel bad for you, you don’t deserve his love.

    • @pakhang3020
      @pakhang3020 2 года назад +4

      You can't force someone to love you and you shouldn't force someone who doesn't like you to marry you. I'm sure there has been a guy in your life who pursued you but you did not like him now imagine being forced to marry him and having to be intimate with him. I empathize with her because I would never want to be in her situation and I do not blame her for not reciprocating any love towards him. He did not deserve her love.

    • @msyngseer5560
      @msyngseer5560 2 года назад +1

      @@pakhang3020 so it’s okay to validate her torment toward him? No. She should have left him when they got to the US. Can’t make someone love another but don’t torment someone for loving you!

    • @bchang227
      @bchang227 2 года назад +3

      @@msyngseer5560 No. It's not on her to divorce him. Divorce was his job. He knew she didn't love him. He should've let her go. She was stuck in a tough situation where she saw no way out. She didn't mention she treated him badly so we don't know. All she said was that she didn't love him. You can still be civil, live together and not treat each other badly. Ppl's definition of love is different. I feel sorry for this lady. She was forced into living a life she didn't want to live. Pretty sure all y'all who are pointing fingers at her wouldn't last a week living your forced marriage life. Her situation was a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" kind of situation.

    • @bchang227
      @bchang227 2 года назад

      @@pakhang3020 Imagine so many of our grandmother's, sisters and aunties being forced to marry their rapist. That's even worst! This is the reason why I hate hmoob kev cai. Instead of punishing the rapist, these dumb families reward him with their daughter.

    • @amazinggrace8136
      @amazinggrace8136 2 года назад +4

      @@msyngseer5560 Shaman women have been groomed to believe certain rules in case you forget; a good wife won’t leave,…A women without a husband is worthless…You lose everything from property to children,etc. Her own family will hate her and be on his side regardless of who’s at fault (yes even if he brought home another women). Who forced her to marry him again? Oh yea, her own family!!

  • @chowe3494
    @chowe3494 2 года назад

    Yog lawm lwm tus yuav tsim koj pauj koj txoj kev tsim tus ua ntej

  • @kislauj5459
    @kislauj5459 2 года назад

    koj yog ib tug poj niam siab pheem tiag tiag li o

  • @maipha8560
    @maipha8560 2 года назад +6

    The lesson learned is that love can't be forced. Too much time wasted in a miserable life and history repates itself. Too late for regrets, good lesson to learn as no one should live life in misery.

  • @sacleo786
    @sacleo786 2 года назад +8

    I feel really sad for the man in this marriage. Hopefully you’re resting in peace with your first wife and God bless your soul.

  • @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb
    @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb 2 года назад

    cs lub neej tu siab ua luaj

  • @leek-te5dx
    @leek-te5dx 2 года назад +14

    Niam Thai. I feel bad for you. You were a young victim of your time two times fold. I understand where you are coming from. You can't love someone whom you didn't love. You were forced to live a life you didn't choose that first husband of yours knew it. Selfish of him and your family for putting your one life during this time through this. Do not left anything and his voice haunt you. You need to be strong. All this mind games on you have ruined you. Good luck to you Niam Thai.

  • @tswbpovvaj-suabnkaujhmoob8036
    @tswbpovvaj-suabnkaujhmoob8036 2 года назад

    Cas tus siab ua luaj li o

  • @phoebelor1173
    @phoebelor1173 2 года назад

    Koj yog ib niag poj niam siab lim hiam siab dab ntxwg nyoog mas yog koj koj tsi muaj siab muaj ntsws kiag li os poj hmoob aws koj mas yog ib niag poj hmoob muaj hmoo tshaj plaws koj thiaj li tau ib tug mi txiv siab zoo2 li koj tus mi txiv ntawm ko os mog

  • @hlubkojxwbosxab8912
    @hlubkojxwbosxab8912 2 года назад +1

    Cas koj siab phem ua luaj tus niam laus nyob hauv zaj neej neeg no na😔😔😔😢😢😢😢

  • @ItsYou2
    @ItsYou2 2 года назад +50

    Easy to say she dont deserve him but put yourself in her shoes. Twb paub tias luag tsi kam tsi nyiam but still choose to force her into Marriage, he should've seen it coming. Some will say why didn't she leave but why dont he just divorce her too! There is no one to Blame but themselves in this story.

    • @pkcyang2910
      @pkcyang2910 2 года назад +3

      I agree with you 💯 %

    • @SkyFlower-ug9lm
      @SkyFlower-ug9lm 2 года назад +4

      They both stupid xwb os

    • @nploojsiabhlubheuly7797
      @nploojsiabhlubheuly7797 2 года назад +1

      I totally agree with you.
      No one deserves this sad marriage.

    • @esfkk
      @esfkk 2 года назад +1

      true but guess who regretted??? it was her! she sounds like my mother. she deserved to feel what she is feeling because she did had it good despite the fact that he was not be the person she wanted.

    • @Rough-inevitable
      @Rough-inevitable 2 года назад

      Old mentality. He loved her. She didn't love him. They stayed because of the children but in the end she loss a good man. She probably could've been happy marrying someone she loved

  • @shuanaher5828
    @shuanaher5828 2 года назад

    Tu siab dhau lawm es tuag xwb...koj tsis hlub cas koj tsis khiav es koj yuav tsim ib tug neeg li no

  • @ameeherr876
    @ameeherr876 2 года назад

    Pab tus txiv tsev no tu siab kawg tsis tau tus niam tsev no txoj kev hlub vim yog nws tus niam tuag tiag tiag lawm es thiaj li yuav koj xwb cas koj lub siab yuav phem ua luaj tsis hlub koj txiv tsev li os pab koj tus txiv tu siab kawg li

  • @thestoryofmylife6979
    @thestoryofmylife6979 2 года назад

    Neeg heev muaj neeg tsim.

  • @pnvang2
    @pnvang2 2 года назад +5

    Its true. I kinda feel and understand her the love is not there it's hard to live with that person

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад

      She should have left when he told her to go. She didn’t have to stay and treat him like crap.

    • @pnvang2
      @pnvang2 2 года назад

      @@MissPeachie true, that was kinda selfish of her

  • @nkaujntsuagnoschannel6719
    @nkaujntsuagnoschannel6719 2 года назад

    Cas txaus hlub ua luag li cas tu txiv zoozoo ntaev ho yg yus tu ne

  • @ThePrincessWorrior
    @ThePrincessWorrior 2 года назад

    Niam tais aw…tu siab dabtsi na. Tsis tu li os. Tsa tes dim siab siab rau saum ntuj es hais hallelujah xwb os.
    Dim plaws lub nkuaj raug quab yuam caij tsuj lawm ces luag ntxhi lawm xwb. Tsis muaj txiv los kav yuav li ntawd lawm xwb os.
    Tsuav dim plaws lawm xwb os. Raug txiv neej nrog rau koj txiv quab yuam caij tsuj tsim tag koj sim neej lawm ces txhob ntsia txiv neej ntxiv li lawm niam tais aw.

  • @misskiaLao
    @misskiaLao 2 года назад +3

    This story was so heartbreaking. 💔
    She really did not deserve his love at all. May he receive the love he deserves in the next life. 😥

  • @myself.kuvxwb8406
    @myself.kuvxwb8406 2 года назад +5

    I get it that you were forced, but then you became spoiled and you took advantage of his love for you. If you hated him so much you should have let him go. He had an obligation to take care of you, and he did his part. Yes, you did not deserve his love. In actuality, he did not need you, you needed him. Even your ex-boyfriend know that about you.

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад

      That’s what I am saying! If she didn’t love him, she should have just left instead of staying and being so mean to him. She even has a reputation for being an evil wife. Dang, even her ex knows that!

  • @aliu6946
    @aliu6946 2 года назад

    kj yog ib tug neeg g sawm zoo tiam no tus neeg hlub kj ce tag lawm o tsuas muaj tus lo tsim kj lawm xwb o cov neeg siab phem g sawm zoo na

  • @always-frombliawithlove
    @always-frombliawithlove 2 года назад

    This story is so sad. 😭😭

  • @chailee6256
    @chailee6256 2 года назад

    Ua neej nyob hlub tsis hlub los thaum sib tau lawm sib hlub ma mog. Koj txib ibtug ces koj yeej yuav tau khaws nws txoj kev thiab os mog, koj mas tsis tsim nyog ua neej ibzaug li os.

  • @jessicayaj
    @jessicayaj 2 года назад +6

    Koj tus txiv ntxim hlub rhau lawm os. 😭😭 How can you not love someone at all? If not as a spouse, at least as a human being!! 🥺 Why did you stay with him for so many years if you didn't like him?! 😤

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад +1

      I totally agree with you. She thinks that she will die if she treats him nice. If the world knows how mean she was to him, then it is a true story.

  • @suelo617
    @suelo617 2 года назад

    Nws yuav ua cas taij kom koj hais mov rau noj na tu siab thiab dhuav koj tshaj tawb quav yog zoo li khib nyiab ces ntshe tsheb khib nyiab twb thauj pov tseg ntev lawm os koj na

  • @mabyugyajteb7133
    @mabyugyajteb7133 2 года назад

    Tus tuag tauv txog kev zoo .tus nyob yuav tau txog kev mob siab ... ntshai koj tus txiv niag hnub niam no lawm xwb lau ..

  • @MRTVang
    @MRTVang 2 года назад

    Cas tseem muaj ntsej muaj coj tuaj piav thiab os

  • @maleemalee768
    @maleemalee768 2 года назад

    Mloog zaj dab neeg no thooj kiag li kuv txiv zaj os cov niam tshiab zoo li no ces hai me lo peb twb nkag siab lawm os vim peb twb ntsib ib tug zoo niam tshiab zoo li no lo lawm . siab phem thaum kawg twb tsi muaj chaws nyob ne

  • @juliehawj3385
    @juliehawj3385 2 года назад +4

    How sad... I'm speechless as I understand from this woman's side of the story. Sometimes you can't control how you feel.... but this woman could have been nicer to her husband though...with more compassion...
    Very sad on both sides....

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад +1

      That is true. Just because you don’t love someone, you should still respect them or care a little bit about them as a human. This lady has no compassion for anyone.

    • @Ilikeroblox2017
      @Ilikeroblox2017 2 года назад

      Easy to say when it's not you.

  • @zebsua5320
    @zebsua5320 2 года назад +25

    I feel for you too. You were forced to marry someone you didn’t like or love. And then because you didn’t reciprocate the love/like back, you were the bad one. It was a lose-lose situation for you. It sucks that it had to take him to die before you realized what you had in front of you.

  • @paris3478
    @paris3478 2 года назад

    Koj txawm tau koj tus hluas nraug thaum hluas los kuv xav tias,ib nous xwb nos yeej muab koj ncaws tawm.vim koj yeej yoga ib tug neeg siab lwj tshaj plaws li

  • @ncouazooxwbya1552
    @ncouazooxwbya1552 2 года назад +5

    Wow!! this sister!! We understood that you didn’t like him in the beginning because you were forced to married this man by the patents but didn’t you realizes that you had already been married once and had one child from previous marriage? So felt the hurts, painful inside your dying husband not telling you, he just kept this painful burdens with all those years and you still held grudges against him and not accepted him as your husband, that something hide inside of you telling that you’re so egotistical much better off without him, since you already here in the US why didn’t you left him and let him find someone that loved and appreciated him more!! Please don’t torture anybody if you do not loved that person, let both of you finds someone that you’re fall in love with, married that person😢. Hated the torture each other’s by emotionally and careless

  • @suabcuayaj877
    @suabcuayaj877 2 года назад +12

    you dont deserved a man like this. i wish i meet a man like this and i will love him every inch.

    • @janievee279
      @janievee279 2 года назад

      I agree with you.

    • @tsexiong8065
      @tsexiong8065 2 года назад +1

      Tus pojniam siab phem heev

    • @nkaujhmoobvwj
      @nkaujhmoobvwj 2 года назад

      Agreed

    • @pkcyang2910
      @pkcyang2910 2 года назад +3

      What if you don't like him at all? Would you still able to love someone you never like?

    • @suabcuayaj877
      @suabcuayaj877 2 года назад +4

      @@pkcyang2910 if i dont like him i will leave..if i dont leave i will love him.

  • @oppo-i2f5r
    @oppo-i2f5r 2 года назад +1

    ฟังแล้วน้ำตาไหล😥😥

  • @fuethao756
    @fuethao756 2 года назад

    Cas tus poj niam nyav aav no yuav xeeb kuv txob ua luaj no nej...sim neej no thov kom koj tau tsaws li koj txoj kev ntshaw os, poj hmoob siab phem...

  • @txojkevtauglauj8992
    @txojkevtauglauj8992 2 года назад

    Ca tu poj niam no nw yuav siab phem ua luaj zoo thiab phem lo koj twb lo yuav nw ntev2 lawm yuav tau hlub thiab pab nw thiab os poj niam yeej tsi sawm zoo os

  • @nommoua6359
    @nommoua6359 Год назад

    tus poj niam ko mad yog neeg siab tsiaj xwb

  • @rosavang8404
    @rosavang8404 2 года назад +7

    Please don’t remarry, a woman like you could not find a man who truly love you like this man for the whole of your life and you will regret what you had done to him. I want to see how pretty you are and don’t felt sad if his kids not love you.

    • @kaylaheu4466
      @kaylaheu4466 2 года назад

      I agree with what you say sis. Woman like this lady is just made from pure evil. Whoever’s dad is single please be on the lookout for thia hooker mom. Lolz 😂

    • @nouyang4705
      @nouyang4705 2 года назад +1

      Agree with you, I want to see how pretty she is too.

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад

      I understand she didn’t love him but she should not have been so mean to him. What an evil woman! Her ex, current husband, and kids all told her that she’s evil. Dang!

  • @xuethao3108
    @xuethao3108 2 года назад

    Tej tus no xyov yuav muab hu li cas tsiaj luag twb txawj hlub luag tej me nyuam koj twb tsis txawj hlub leej twg yeej yog li koj tus hluas nraug hais lawm zoo qhov koj ho txawj txaj muag ua neej xuaj tag npaum li tseem muab piav qhia neeg pab niag niam tshiab no txaj muag

  • @kaylaheu4466
    @kaylaheu4466 2 года назад +1

    Zoo siab kawg li os tus niam hlob no na. Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim tiag tiag. Yog kuv paub koj nuag txiv mas kuv yuav kom nws haj yam muab koj tsim es sub thiaj li phim koj os tus niag niam hlob siab phem aw😏😏😏

  • @Andermon75
    @Andermon75 2 года назад

    Cas niag pog laus no yuav pheem ua luaj ib sim neej thiab lo.

  • @yeebntshachannel9254
    @yeebntshachannel9254 2 года назад

    Poj Niam tsis sawm zoo kiag cas ntuj tsis muab Tus zoo rau cov neeg zoo es pheej muab rau cov Niag neeg phem2 tsim neeg li na lawv aw

  • @magicalunicorn5853
    @magicalunicorn5853 2 года назад +19

    Everything is based on your decision. Sad that your pride got in the way of loving someone who was probably meant for you but you kept a living in the past. Even if forced, everyone has a choice to make to leave. Everything is by choice even though it’s difficult. Learn from this.

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад +2

      Agree. He told her that she can go but she chose to stay and made him miserable.

    • @JRxwb
      @JRxwb 2 года назад +1

      @@MissPeachie No he said she can go cheat on him, he never said he would let her go.
      If she go cheat, she would be doing sin and that could just come back and bite her. Plus her parents will just give her back to him if she leave him.
      Think about it, it’s not as simple as you think but it is sad that she never learned to treat him well even if she don’t love him. He loved her and did everything for her.
      If a guy with 2 jobs just to make me happy and give me everything I want in life… I would have to respect him even if I don’t love him.

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 2 года назад +1

      Why go? He used all sources to force her, of course stay and make him pay with miseries. Would do the same.
      She was kidnapped, forced, rape, then widowed at young age. Forced and raped again by old dude and her own father because father want to sell her bad. Why not make that dude pay to the bone?

  • @Fromspam09
    @Fromspam09 2 года назад +16

    No matter how miserable this lady wanted to be she should not have been forced to marry a man she doesn't love. On top of that it just makes everyone miserable. Too bad it's too late for regrets.

  • @chialor7244
    @chialor7244 2 года назад

    Ntseeg tau tia koj g hlub tus txiv tsev no ces koj yeej tsis hlub cov me nyuam thiab

  • @2009SUJU
    @2009SUJU 2 года назад +2

    I feel so sad for the husband, but I don't blame the wife one bit either. She never loved him, she can't argue against her parents and all the family telling her to marry him. For her generation all she can do is allow her hatred to overcome her and become who she was. When her ex told her it's a good thing he didn't marry her because of how mean she became to her husband, he was being unreasonable. He didn't get forced to marry a random widow or get bride-napped like she did. How would he know the pain she went through.

  • @cindythao369
    @cindythao369 Год назад

    Sad story, too late to love your husband. Now, he's gone you're not going to find anyone like him

  • @foodie1151
    @foodie1151 2 года назад +4

    Gosh this story is too sad and heart breaking for the husband. Also makes me so mad. Lady, you’re s selfish!! You deserve what is happening to you and what will come your way! You took advantage of your ex husband and took him for granted!! He deserves better! I’m glad he’s gone and free from you!

    • @foodie1151
      @foodie1151 2 года назад

      You should’ve just left!! If you never loved him or was that miserable, you should’ve taken off! He did everything for you while you never did anything for him or his kids!

  • @nenhlau4399
    @nenhlau4399 3 месяца назад

    Cag tug yug hlb nwg nwg ho tsi hlub yug thb os tu sb kg

  • @gevang3393
    @gevang3393 2 года назад

    Siab phem tiag2 twb txim2 thawj tug tuag kiag lawm es twb tsis thim xav tseem yuav los tsim tus 2 thiab phem tiag2

  • @tshavntujfemily2632
    @tshavntujfemily2632 2 года назад

    ua neeg nyob peb yeej ntshaw tu txiv li koj tu peb twb tsi tau .koj lim hiam tiag2.kav tsij luag ntxhi xwb ma koj twb tau li koj nyiam2 ntshaw2 lawm 😂😂😂

  • @sombunman5551
    @sombunman5551 2 года назад

    Tus MI zoo txiv aw tau ib niag poj niam siab ntxub ntxim li Cas Los ntxub vam noj tus txiv zoo xwb , lub ntuj mam pauj rau koj MOG

  • @cheexiong1634
    @cheexiong1634 2 года назад +1

    This story go both way both fault ....he knew she dont like him and she had lover so it dumb both way he shld find love and let her go now they just blame her...but its his fault too

  • @susanleeyang
    @susanleeyang 2 года назад +21

    You don't know what you have until it's gone. Always treat everyone with love.

    • @shouacyang6199
      @shouacyang6199 2 года назад

      So sad if he don’t have loved, it’s too late for your love back

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 2 года назад

      Nah, you didn’t love, didn’t like, but still got forced. No body can love after all that. It would just be pay back time. Even it take the whole life time. Which what he had to do. Don’t you forget how he forced.

  • @tradingkite3571
    @tradingkite3571 2 года назад +23

    So heartbreaking! What an honorable worthy husband and father. May he rest in peace.

  • @williamvang6058
    @williamvang6058 Год назад

    The was a horrible and bitter person. She should have left. Feel bad for the brother.

  • @baothao1728
    @baothao1728 2 года назад +3

    Vuag cas koj yuav phem ua luaj li es yog koj phem los yog koj tub nkeeg xwb os tsis nyiam luag npaum ko es pheej ho nyob tsis khiav luag mus thiab qhov no qhia tau tias koj tub nkeeg xwb xav kaus thaub laus lub zog noj xwb sav cas tseem tuaj muab tham rau saum no rau ntiaj teb hnov thiab I don’t feel sorry for you but I feel sorry for the old man.😭😭😭😭

  • @pkcyang2910
    @pkcyang2910 2 года назад

    Ab yog kuv raug yuam yuav yuav ib tug txiv kuv tsis nyiam los kuv yeej laj2 ua lub neej nrog thiab os. Nkim tag yus ib tiam neej tseev nws hlub yus. Thaum laus lawm ces yuav nrhiav tsis tau txiv zoo lawm os niam laus aw. Yuav tau tus zoo ces yog thaum tseem hluas2 xwb. Laus lawm ces nyias muaj nyias menyuam, nyias laus tawv nyias txaus lawm ces laj nrhiav tsis tau tus zoo lawm. Koj tus qub txiv los lwj siab vim muab nyiam koj dhau es yuam koj los nrog nws ua neej. Koj tsis nyiam nws los koj yeej lwj siab txaus tias nkim tag ib tiam tsis tau txojkev hlub raws siab xav

  • @LilyXiongChannel
    @LilyXiongChannel 2 года назад +2

    Tus pojniam no siab phem tiag2 tsis paub hlub nws tus txiv. I understand that if you are forced to married someone who you don't like at all.. but you will learned to love that person back as you see how much that perso show his or her loves you as time passes through. You learned to grow old and the love with the person you never liked it.

  • @Mai1nOnly
    @Mai1nOnly 2 года назад +4

    Sad that you couldn’t leave him so he can go find someone else. Sad that he even decided to stay and lived with you.

  • @Lolelanie
    @Lolelanie 2 месяца назад

    So sad

  • @nkaujtsab4204
    @nkaujtsab4204 Год назад

    cas kuv yuav ntxub koj ua luaj li os koj tus txiv koj yuav los txog tav no koj twb tss hlub tseem muaj plus muab los tham thiab pab koj muag dhau lawm os zoo li koj ces tuag z dua txawm niam ntsuab teev tias kom txhob hais lo lus no los tab sis kuv mloog kuv npau taws thb ntxub koj tshaj plaws li os niag poj niam hmoob siab phem siab dub ntxub tiag2 li lau

  • @saLLy0608
    @saLLy0608 2 года назад +4

    He can’t be sad about his marriage to her, bc he married her against her will. Sucks for him tho. Never force anyone to marry you and expect the same level of love in return…

  • @mayalor5081
    @mayalor5081 2 года назад +1

    Everyone is blaming this lady but you are not in her shoes. She's a victim and never had the opportunity to empower herself. She made it clear at the beginning that she was zij in her 1st marriage and this marriage she was forced. Our culture doesn't leave room for choice for women. I feel bad for her. He knew she didn't love her from the beginning. He was hoping his good will win love but everyone needs to understand that love can't be forced. He did all these good deed because he knew he's in the wrong by forcing marriage. I'm sorry but he shouldn't play victim because he isn't the victim. She is. As a woman in the Hmong culture she was never given a choice. Remember that at the time of this story Hmoob women are not empowered yet. He is older than her and should have known better than to force marriage and in the end blame her. Don't feel bad woman. You don't deserve the blame in this life. Everyone made your decision for you which is not fair.

  • @gaohmongvang7798
    @gaohmongvang7798 2 года назад

    Ca koj yuav siab phem ta npau ko os yuav tsis hlub nw ib qho me2 li

  • @MariaBaokaliaCha
    @MariaBaokaliaCha 2 года назад +4

    It was hard listening to this story, but lesson well learn for you and everyone. Appericate and love the one you have! Thank goodness I have a good husband! ❤ makes me appericate my husband even more!

  • @maryly09
    @maryly09 2 года назад +6

    Idk how i will feel if i got forced to marry someone i don't love too. Idk if i would be able to treat him good either. But I'm so glad i never got forced to marry someone i don't love so I'll never know how evil my heart can be.

    • @kaylaheu4466
      @kaylaheu4466 2 года назад

      Either way it wouldn’t matter cause we youngster’s are so advanced that we wouldn’t do it for anyone. You go and marry the one you love

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад

      It doesn’t hurt to just be nice. Are you only nice to people you like?

  • @blueberrysmilie1
    @blueberrysmilie1 Год назад

    He choose this loveless marriage, she was forced into it. He expresses grief and she expresses anger, don’t hate her. They both choose to stay in that marriage despite the suffering. Its sad for them both. Maybe its their fate to settle karma, who knows…but it seems she does have an ugly personality and very bad luck.

  • @panghouathao4723
    @panghouathao4723 2 года назад +1

    So sad for the both of you. I understand your side and his side as well. He shouldn't married you in the first place. Those og days, men think eventually the woman will learn to love the guy later on the relationship but that's not true on all cases. He knew he is to blame for the marriage that's why he let you do whatever you wanted and said nothing at all.

  • @swmloojvaj8285
    @swmloojvaj8285 2 года назад

    This woman have no love no heart she own this guy many love, she will never find a guy like this guy and she will do anything for the guy she loved also she will serve the man her love. After her money gone she will suffer.

  • @saowhmongchannel9219
    @saowhmongchannel9219 2 года назад +3

    Koj yg ib tug neeg siab pheem heev li 🙃🙃🙃

  • @xaihlub34
    @xaihlub34 2 года назад +2

    You cant force or expect someone to love you when you never in relationship with them. If you can’t leave that marriage because you never love them then at least try to put little effort to be good.

  • @tophatmellon5739
    @tophatmellon5739 2 года назад +2

    This man already knew before he mary her, that she didn't like him. He forced it anyways!!! What did u expect? Same thing if the table was turned!

  • @amazinggrace8136
    @amazinggrace8136 2 года назад +2

    Evil traditions, culture and religion to allow this to happen and not see anything wrong with it. She was forced to marry him and now is being guilt trip that she didn’t love him. Wow.

  • @yeryang5636
    @yeryang5636 2 года назад +2

    Sister aww! Ua cas es koj siab phem ua laug os. His goodness does not make you love him? Tus txiv tsev no ntxhi hlub heev...If he's my husband I would love him with all my heart. I would never let him suffer like that, I would take a burden of his shoulders by working so he doesn't work two jobs. Working 2 full time jobs is hard. I don't think you deserved him. He deserved someone who love him. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @hlubyang4072
    @hlubyang4072 2 года назад

    Nco ntsoov tias txhua yam koj tau ntawd nws yog koj txoj koob hmoov uas koj tau tsim tseg rau tiam tas los uas tswv ntuj khaws tseg rau koj nyob rau tiam no.
    Koj lub neej nyuam qhuav pib nyuaj xwb os, tseem tshuav qhov nyuaj nyuaj yuav tawm los.

  • @souayang3483
    @souayang3483 2 года назад

    Koj ma yog ib tug poj niam siab phem tshaj plaws

  • @caaspasvang7427
    @caaspasvang7427 2 года назад

    Sister koj ua rau luag ces yuav muaj tus ua rau koj mog

  • @dianeonyxiong9457
    @dianeonyxiong9457 2 года назад +1

    Karma sucks...
    Lady isn't this what you want. You are only sorry because your new husband didn't love you the way your decease husband did. Deal with it. You did nothing for him , you are like a poison that slowly killed him. Tim koj nws thiaj tu tu siab tuag kus.

  • @alanyang8197
    @alanyang8197 2 года назад

    Koj ces quav dev

  • @flryprn745
    @flryprn745 2 года назад

    I would hate to live a life with someone I’m not attractive to. Feel bad for those who end up like this lady. There’s way out but she need strong well.

  • @Loves_DuckSR
    @Loves_DuckSR 2 года назад

    It would be hard to love someone you were forced to marry. Someone you never met or had any feeling to begin with. It's just sad you lived your whole life with him (had children with him) and waited till he died before you finally realized you love him and start to appreciate him. Good luck. May you learn to forgive yourself. RIP to your husband.

  • @yingvang1276
    @yingvang1276 2 года назад +2

    Why should your husband ask you for anything or tell you anything what so ever? He's heartbroken to the core already with you. Why did you waste his life like that, he told you the door is open but yet you chose to stay and break his spirit even more?
    Dang you're still cold hearted even after your husband's death with the way you think woman. What did you mean you're sorry for not knowing how to love him, you CHOSE not to love him?

  • @mainenglee-xiong3344
    @mainenglee-xiong3344 2 года назад +2

    Wow, glad you’re ex-boyfriend told you off. He probably didn’t want you in the first place. Yes, you would have ruined his life like you ruined your husband’s life. What an ungrateful person. Karma will get you.

    • @MissPeachie
      @MissPeachie 2 года назад

      I laughed at that part because even he knows that she is an evil lady. Smart guy!

  • @germoua1228
    @germoua1228 2 года назад +2

    Koj yog neeg siab phem thiab tub nkeeg nyob ntiaj teb no

  • @ialy9
    @ialy9 2 года назад +2

    He was extra good to you. You could at least open your heart a bit to him after all those years.

  • @gaoyang5064
    @gaoyang5064 2 года назад

    How sad! I'm sad for your husband. Lady if you didn't love him that much like you say how come you didn't leave him. Lady you have a cold heart. It wasn't like you were single.

  • @Ilikeroblox2017
    @Ilikeroblox2017 2 года назад +12

    the audacity of Hmong men when they force a young woman to marry them . He's selfish living his sad life making her look like she was the bad one because she don't reciprocate the same love back. what were you expecting when you force someone to marry you?? it's true he gave her the freedom to leave, but why? after you already ruined her life? 🙄

    • @chongkiez
      @chongkiez 2 года назад +1

      Forreal. Tragic that he took her freedom and then says she free to go after already using her and ruining her reputation. Another selfish guy.

    • @ItsYou2
      @ItsYou2 2 года назад +1

      AGREE 💯

    • @tophatmellon5739
      @tophatmellon5739 2 года назад

      Sooo freakin true!!! Just because u don't beat them does not mean u love them. Men will always think they are correct.

    • @nkaujhmoobvwj
      @nkaujhmoobvwj 2 года назад

      @@chongkiez he did not ruined her reputation, she was already ruined. She was a widower.

    • @leek-te5dx
      @leek-te5dx 2 года назад

      Agreed with you.

  • @yausncokojmusibsimxyoojxyo9833
    @yausncokojmusibsimxyoojxyo9833 2 года назад +2

    Niam laus a cas yuav hlub koj tu txiv thiab nrog nw tu siab ua luaj li os niam niam laus..!😭😭😭😭

    • @pajkubcilynhiavue5181
      @pajkubcilynhiavue5181 2 года назад

      yog kawg os , cas tu siab ua luaj yog tus niam laus no tsi hlub es ho tsi tso nws tus txiv mus 😭😭

  • @maimoua1371
    @maimoua1371 2 года назад +1

    I don't blame all fault to this woman she deserves to marry the one she love . I hate in this story is hmong people culture 💯 xwb poor ex husband

  • @郭嘉星
    @郭嘉星 2 месяца назад

    tus poj niam no lub siab phem tshaj ntxim ntxub

  • @maoyang3597
    @maoyang3597 2 года назад

    I’m sorry this happened to you. All your parents and your late husband for making you marry someone you didn’t love. Don’t look back in sorrow but make the best of the future. No matter how good someone does you, if you don’t love them back their good deeds are taken for granted because you can’t reciprocate. It’s human nature….it’s not your fault. Your late husband shouldn’t have wasted your youth…lesson learned, don’t imprison someone who don’t want to be with u.

  • @cuavangvangchannel4709
    @cuavangvangchannel4709 2 года назад

    Kj siab phem tshaj plaw li os tu niam tai aw...peb ua neeg ib zaug xwb ca kj tsis txhawj xav li ntshe kj tsis muaj siab ntsw ho

  • @yajcaivplawv88
    @yajcaivplawv88 2 года назад +2

    Lig dhau!!!! Neeg twb ntsib kev kev tsaus ntuj ua poj ntsuam es rov qab tau lub neej dua. Tseem ua liam hiam npaum koj ces ntshe yeej yog neeg siab phem tsis paub hlub lwm leej lwm tus. Kawg koj tus tub uas koj coj los twb nyos koj, yeej qhia tau tias koj yog neeg li cas lawm.

  • @mouavang3371
    @mouavang3371 2 года назад +5

    Sister, koj mas lub siab phem tiag tiag. Ua cas nyob ntiaj teb no yuav muaj cov neeg zoo li koj coob coob ua luaj li.

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 2 года назад

      Nah, all of us would do the same, if we have been forced again and again. She was forced, raped, manipulated, beat-up mentally, tortured all her life. With such environment, anyone would be bitter and heart of stone ice. It’s our human defense mechanism. When our own parents doesn’t even love and care for our lives, anymore, there’s nothing in us to love and care for the very personal that forced to put up with us. No way. Just like prison, I would say. The old man thought he would force and manipulate her to prison her with him, but in return, she mentality prison him.

  • @oppo-i2f5r
    @oppo-i2f5r 2 года назад

    🥰🥰

  • @nhialor7959
    @nhialor7959 2 года назад

    Yog kuv no kuv yuav tsis nco koj lawm os .

  • @simonyang4792
    @simonyang4792 2 года назад +1

    See some folks criticizing this woman yet forgot that she was forced to marry someone against her freewill. This is what happens when you force someone to be with someone they have 0 connections with. The man is an amazing man! But let’s not rip this woman for learning slow.