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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2017
  • Perennially perched at or near the top of lists of America’s most expensive and affluent cities, San Francisco is increasingly out of reach for people who would be card-carrying members of the American middle class elsewhere. VICE Money spent a day with a state university professor to see how her family of four deals with the city’s high cost of living.
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  • @VICENews
    @VICENews  6 лет назад +450

    We spent the day with a state university professor to see how her family of four deals with the city's high cost of living. Watch Next: What It Costs To Live In London - bit.ly/2y1tIKw

    • @xxlizziezxxful
      @xxlizziezxxful 6 лет назад +15

      Similar to living in San Diego :) you could do us next!

    • @tpikake2264
      @tpikake2264 6 лет назад +11

      VICE News You should do a video on cost of living in Oahu, Hawaii

    • @kingsrefrigerationapplianc6858
      @kingsrefrigerationapplianc6858 6 лет назад +4

      VICE News spend time with real people who born and raised here

    • @worldishis
      @worldishis 6 лет назад +5

      That was a very realistic portrayal of trying to live in San Francisco. Mission accomplished, good job Vice

    • @worldishis
      @worldishis 6 лет назад +13

      King's Refrigeration & Appliances Real people? What does that even mean? For somebody with such a sharp criticism you ironically didn't even pay attention because she was raised in San Francisco. They broke down the median rent and also the cost of home ownership as well as a realistic portrayal of monthly expenses. What more could you possibly want? Point is, obviously your hypercritical and you need to breathe and have realistic expectations. If you want a better video catered to your interests, make one yourself.

  • @TheScottAF
    @TheScottAF 5 лет назад +2927

    How to save money while living in SF:
    Step 1: don’t live in San Francisco
    Step 2: see step 1

    • @lnb252
      @lnb252 4 года назад +29

      this is what every city will look like

    • @muthuannamalai8484
      @muthuannamalai8484 4 года назад +11

      Mostly true - but displacement and migration are constant forces in any global city.

    • @streamvaish
      @streamvaish 4 года назад +1

      Suburbs when the market crashes is good

    • @AndyinMTL
      @AndyinMTL 4 года назад +3

      Lmao

    • @jackkokot6243
      @jackkokot6243 4 года назад +5

      Vote out demo/commuhy

  • @nightrider3067
    @nightrider3067 6 лет назад +6864

    *Whats the point in living there if you cant afford to enjoy it?*

    • @SoloTravelerOffTheBeatenPath
      @SoloTravelerOffTheBeatenPath 6 лет назад +613

      There is no point.

    • @RJT80
      @RJT80 6 лет назад +679

      Night Rider Liberal bragging rights. San Francisco on the surface is cool to look at but once you live there it's kind of shitty for anyone who doesn't have their head in the clouds about diversity or some bullshit. The homeless population is huge and nobody gives a shit. Everyone there is a vapid piece of shit who doesn't believe a damned thing that comes out of their mouths. Everyone is clawing for the dollar. It's the most soulless place in the US and the best part is they all think it's deeply meaningful to be a part of San Francisco in the 21st century.

    • @gibbjonathan22
      @gibbjonathan22 6 лет назад +45

      R T AMEN!

    • @airhab
      @airhab 6 лет назад +153

      Because its your home.

    • @nightrider3067
      @nightrider3067 6 лет назад +44

      R T I totally agree with everything you said i was just there filming.

  • @ssays.1998
    @ssays.1998 2 года назад +310

    I grew up in the Bay Area, and at 48 years old, I was part of the last generation that was able to be young, poor, and making your way and still afford to have your own place. I had an efficiency studio in 1996 at Bush and Jones where the rent was $550 a month. Truly sad to see what has happened to SF and all of California.

    • @tryxoso2015
      @tryxoso2015 2 года назад +18

      It's happening in most of the country now

    • @truthalonetriumphs6572
      @truthalonetriumphs6572 2 года назад +6

      I just signed a studio for $2100 on Nob Hill right next to Grace Cathedral

    • @GENXJOPLIN
      @GENXJOPLIN Год назад +6

      @@truthalonetriumphs6572 why

  • @Gsthompson84
    @Gsthompson84 4 года назад +729

    I knew San Francisco was expensive but I didn’t think it was that expensive. My whole view of San Francisco changed in a heartbeat.

    • @ottopotatum5775
      @ottopotatum5775 4 года назад +4

      Same here

    • @baaoziii
      @baaoziii 4 года назад +47

      Garrett Thompson the bay area (although outrageously expensive) is just an amazing place to live though.

    • @SirChimpleton
      @SirChimpleton 4 года назад +2

      Jenn na

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 4 года назад +5

      We spend 4,000 on a 2 bedroom, 2 bath apartment in Santa clara.. it's even more expensive in SF.

    • @californiamade5608
      @californiamade5608 3 года назад

      Diana M no it’s not lol. It’s 4,500 for a 2 bed in SF

  • @Jack-gu4fc
    @Jack-gu4fc 5 лет назад +2496

    Buying your coffee every day instead of brewing your own is such a rookie mistake

    • @ercushkakulmetov7458
      @ercushkakulmetov7458 5 лет назад +61

      Baristas and coffee shops have to make a living too.

    • @joshxx2392
      @joshxx2392 5 лет назад +84

      True BUT homemade is never as yummy

    • @David-tp7mc
      @David-tp7mc 5 лет назад +49

      @@joshxx2392 All you want is the caffeine though.

    • @anatolikim6226
      @anatolikim6226 5 лет назад +13

      @@joshxx2392 not if your good.

    • @angelahagerman5003
      @angelahagerman5003 5 лет назад +12

      josh xx I purely just drink coffee for the caffeine so I don’t care if it’s good I just make some at home before school so I have energy

  • @LIFEwithBAVAN
    @LIFEwithBAVAN 5 лет назад +708

    Even the Fuller family needed like 7 working adults to live in that one house.

    • @imhuemankeepURcolorsforcrayons
      @imhuemankeepURcolorsforcrayons 5 лет назад +25

      Bavan S Facts! They all did have a job didn’t they, even Becky had a job. Who watches all the kids?

    • @Commie_Mike
      @Commie_Mike 5 лет назад +29

      They were the Tanners

    • @mangastar234
      @mangastar234 5 лет назад +9

      @@imhuemankeepURcolorsforcrayons Jesse and Joey did a lot because they were working freelance for a while. Plus they were all also school aged and got home around the same time as their dad.

    • @toyaamos8717
      @toyaamos8717 4 года назад +1

      Lol Right!

    • @shaneg9081
      @shaneg9081 4 года назад +7

      Prices were MUCH cheaper during the original series and the house would be outright owned by the new one.

  • @JimmyG01
    @JimmyG01 4 года назад +732

    Don't live in San Francisco if you're not ready to live in San Francisco. In simpler terms, don't live there unless you're a millionaire.

    • @theblackhole05
      @theblackhole05 4 года назад +34

      thats so terrible tho dont you think. being pushed away from your home so rich people can destroy put their own stuff there and everyone else has to live out side of this supposed golden city on a hill.
      Americans would get mad and they will probably riot or something

    • @mashaurik1797
      @mashaurik1797 4 года назад +3

      or a tech hustler !

    • @Neighbor8773
      @Neighbor8773 4 года назад +26

      I’m guessing now that everyone in San Francisco who owns a house is a millionaire because the houses are over a million

    • @Neighbor8773
      @Neighbor8773 4 года назад

      Robert Bonds I said whoever owns a house because basically every house there is over a million dollars

    • @wendelllaidley3407
      @wendelllaidley3407 4 года назад +11

      I’m grateful to be a 3rd generation San Franciscan. Housing for legacy residents tends to be easier because our families bought property on the cheap (houses were 150,000 in the 70’s, average is $1.7M now) and we inherited or we are rent controlled.

  • @victorpopov3809
    @victorpopov3809 4 года назад +313

    2400$ for 1 room apartment ? Goddamn the incoming recession is gonna be bad

    • @1234kingconan
      @1234kingconan 4 года назад +44

      Victor Popov that’s the below market value as well they’re in subsidized housing. That should be $3500/month

    • @grantgoodman8415
      @grantgoodman8415 4 года назад +2

      Victor Popov bruh, that’s nothing!!!

    • @victorpopov3809
      @victorpopov3809 4 года назад +2

      @@1234kingconan holy shit

    • @rickwalker5203
      @rickwalker5203 4 года назад

      Victor Popov it’s now $2900 on Anza and 32nd!

    • @themanwiththepan
      @themanwiththepan 4 года назад +6

      10 months ago you said this

  • @georgeforeman89
    @georgeforeman89 5 лет назад +703

    just FYI, "low income" for a family of 4 in SF is now $117,400/year in 2019

    • @Tomogeny
      @Tomogeny 4 года назад +34

      Wtf. There goes my wish of doing a PhD over there

    • @jalenr.6542
      @jalenr.6542 4 года назад +23

      @@Tomogeny You still can. Get your money and then move lower down the state to San Diego or an LA suburb

    • @redunicorn7760
      @redunicorn7760 3 года назад +8

      In Germany it's like half of it that's insane

    • @sharuktheexplorer4469
      @sharuktheexplorer4469 3 года назад +4

      What in Michigan that much money could buy you a huge home

    • @georgeforeman89
      @georgeforeman89 3 года назад +4

      Tazkia Tazkia yeah, but then you would have to live in Michigan 🤣 (I was born and raised there).

  • @adrianalvarez1468
    @adrianalvarez1468 5 лет назад +609

    100k IN SAN FRANCISCO IS LOW INCOME?And people say LA is expensive💀

    • @ellement321
      @ellement321 3 года назад +41

      They each only made 50 thousand a year. That is not a good salary.

    • @bgj8608
      @bgj8608 3 года назад +50

      Dave yeah but imagine being one person, making 100k and that being low income lol

    • @jdubz33
      @jdubz33 3 года назад +12

      LA is expensive for a low quality of life hava

    • @jdubz33
      @jdubz33 3 года назад

      Eric Sirias if you don’t mind gang activity and the homeless, also old unkept buildings and streets

    • @jdubz33
      @jdubz33 3 года назад

      Eric Sirias oh ok so that “low percentage” makes the rest of quality of life issues forgivable. Not. Don’t move to California.

  • @yazijaz5292
    @yazijaz5292 5 лет назад +618

    Avocado pushes everything off balance. If she switches that for a banana each morning in a few years they will be living in a 18 bedroom mansion. Thankyou please

    • @ercushkakulmetov7458
      @ercushkakulmetov7458 5 лет назад +25

      haha your sarcasm is on point

    • @SpinningSage
      @SpinningSage 5 лет назад +5

      Yaz Ijaz avocado is the most amazing fruit and everyone who can, should eat them for their health.

    • @yazijaz5292
      @yazijaz5292 5 лет назад +13

      @@SpinningSage tastes like nothingness

    • @SpinningSage
      @SpinningSage 5 лет назад +4

      Yaz Ijaz that is inaccurate. Lol

    • @bradcavanagh3092
      @bradcavanagh3092 4 года назад +8

      Avocados only cost that much in San Francisco if you're buying them from Whole Foods or Safeway. If you go to greengrocers in districts like the Mission or Richmond you can get them a lot cheaper.
      Not that I want to detract from your point about her complaining about the cost of living while burning hundreds of dollars a month on unnecessary conveniences though.

  • @matthewmanion8685
    @matthewmanion8685 5 лет назад +1006

    She get married mid video? Mans went from "partner" to "husband" rq

    • @EPICAP1
      @EPICAP1 5 лет назад +24

      I caught that too!!

    • @aprescoups4593
      @aprescoups4593 4 года назад +142

      Yeah thought it was very odd. People who say partner are usually lesbian or gay couples for some reason

    • @aprescoups4593
      @aprescoups4593 4 года назад +13

      @Jackie ah, that makes sense now. Thanks! Didn't think about that at all.

    • @Rocket..Dr..
      @Rocket..Dr.. 4 года назад +60

      I was about to say the same thing.. every time she said my partner kinda made me cringe.

    • @1234kingconan
      @1234kingconan 4 года назад +57

      Sociology professor...

  • @jamie5303
    @jamie5303 5 лет назад +750

    Make your lunch at home that would save you around 200 a month

    • @ercushkakulmetov7458
      @ercushkakulmetov7458 5 лет назад +22

      not really it depends a lot on ingredients used if you eat white bread and bologna sandwiches using Walmart brand than yes if you are eating vegan leftist avocado/kale/salmon type sandwiches then no.

    • @UserName-ii1ce
      @UserName-ii1ce 5 лет назад +33

      @@ercushkakulmetov7458 I can't afford my lifestyle, it's the state's fault

    • @robsgarage552
      @robsgarage552 5 лет назад

      You're right.

    • @kjjlskdjfljf
      @kjjlskdjfljf 5 лет назад +4

      I meal prep for lunch/dinner and it cost about $1-2 per meal. That price is a fact because I calculated all the cost of the ingredients. I guess it can be higher if I contribute gas, light, and water bill required for cooking...

    • @Shadowodes
      @Shadowodes 5 лет назад +7

      If you have to eat home cooked meals all the time to make it work then the city is too expensive to live in. How happy can a person be if they can't even enjoy a $7.99 sandwich for lunch because of it's cost?

  • @chrispaulbd
    @chrispaulbd 6 лет назад +306

    I live Houston and take home 3k a month after taxes. I have a daughter, own a home 3 bed 2 bath, mortgage is 1050 a month, car is payed off and of course my regular bills like electricity, water, daycare etc. I get it San Francisco is an amazing place but no amount of culture would have me living the way they are. For 2400 they could be living downtown or owning a home with 4000 sq feet here. At what point do you prioritize your living situation for your family instead of making sure you live in a fancy city...just my two cents.

    • @chrispaulbd
      @chrispaulbd 6 лет назад +41

      iebiery If she's a professor she obviously has a higher education. Don't you think she could find a education job anywhere in the country that pays the same or even more? Depending where that job is it could allow them to live a cheaper more stress free life imo.

    • @UnapologeticallyEboni
      @UnapologeticallyEboni 6 лет назад +5

      Reynaldo Campos
      I agree we are in the same boat and I live in Delaware...No way I would consider living in those conditions as depicted in this video
      ....And I'm a single mother to a college freshman and an 8th grader

    • @georgethompson3763
      @georgethompson3763 6 лет назад

      Reynaldo: how much time do you spend commuting or driving your kids around?

    • @chrispaulbd
      @chrispaulbd 6 лет назад +9

      secret We got extremely lucky that it didn't flood in our area, just lots of rain. And as far as looters here in Texas it honestly feels like every other home has a weapon so looting wasn't a issue.

    • @chrispaulbd
      @chrispaulbd 6 лет назад +2

      Thomas Favre It varies between me and my wife but we're lucky our jobs, home, daycare are closely located that we don't drive alot. We do most of our driving on weekends going out for activities.

  • @UrbanCowboy9
    @UrbanCowboy9 4 года назад +531

    $7.89 for a Vietnamese sandwich?!
    Those things are $2.00 in Orange County and $3.00 in Texas

    • @505Vermont
      @505Vermont 4 года назад +45

      You’re out of your mind if you think they sell that anywhere under 4 dollars even in little Saigon

    • @psychedamike
      @psychedamike 4 года назад +5

      @@505Vermont they're at least $3-4 in even the cheapest spots in Portland and Seattle. $7.89 isn't that unreasonable once you factor in sales tax and tip

    • @canyounot4665
      @canyounot4665 4 года назад +4

      That Flippin Guy you can get 6pc chicken nuggets from McDonald’s for 2$

    • @streamvaish
      @streamvaish 4 года назад +1

      @@505Vermont I mean matter where in sf you eat

    • @LukeClosson
      @LukeClosson 4 года назад +1

      UrbanCowboy Most sandwiches are $10 now in SF

  • @anhw3303
    @anhw3303 4 года назад +256

    I don’t understand how Americans manage to succeed at all. The whole system is designed to keep the middle class on the cusp, poor people poor, and the ultra rich richer.

    • @Jobe-13
      @Jobe-13 3 года назад +30

      As an American, I can say that is truth. In order for you to make it here, you HAVE to be willing to hustle. Or else you’ll fall under.

    • @mohamedabdourahman9845
      @mohamedabdourahman9845 3 года назад +4

      @@alvarorubenvera5915 If say the Texan Republicans would be socially liberal or at least socially libertarian sure. It's a place I'd like to live in.

    • @kaydenchan7093
      @kaydenchan7093 3 года назад +2

      Yubi K. Tbh, this seems like a stronger caste system when compared to India’s.

    • @mrquelowhat274
      @mrquelowhat274 3 года назад +9

      I’m an immigrant in the US. The key is to go to school for something that will give you some $ and not go live in an expensive city. I live comfortably with a good job nice cars and house.

    • @nadominhoca
      @nadominhoca 3 года назад +1

      No its not

  • @sieve5
    @sieve5 5 лет назад +2206

    Waitwaitwait holdup she's saving money on transportation but BUYS a coffee every day? girl get a coffee pot from goodwill and start brewing your own coffee you save like $.50-1 every cup you have.

    • @donnal.880
      @donnal.880 5 лет назад +133

      When I worked at a university I got coffee for free as staff, actually. So she might get it for free on campus, to be fair.

    • @ncfo20
      @ncfo20 5 лет назад +131

      But the coffee is only $2.10. Even if she buys that 200 times a year that's still just $420 which really is nothing when looking to buy property in San Francisco.

    • @dominichewitt8392
      @dominichewitt8392 5 лет назад +20

      Instant coffee for life. Like .10 a cup

    • @someguy604
      @someguy604 5 лет назад +12

      I dont drink coffee oh yea i save even more

    • @sarahs2951
      @sarahs2951 5 лет назад +40

      And she wants the government to help pay for childcare?

  • @mediocrebanters
    @mediocrebanters 5 лет назад +1603

    San Francisco is one of those magical places that's overrated, overpriced, over-hyped, overcrowded, over populated and overtaxed. It's a government pensioner's paradise.

    • @chicana_mua8853
      @chicana_mua8853 5 лет назад +41

      B. M. Don’t forget the poop

    • @aldofhister6859
      @aldofhister6859 5 лет назад +16

      And most of them are from China or Mexico

    • @meiai6487
      @meiai6487 5 лет назад +27

      @@aldofhister6859 yea since white people cant afford

    • @dougyeefresh87
      @dougyeefresh87 5 лет назад +8

      So true. I've never understood the allure (unless you're a transplant and never lived here). I do think SF is one of the more laid back cities but the traffic and constant noise eventually gets to you. There's no escape. It's easy to get lost in the crowd.

    • @owenfrank5671
      @owenfrank5671 5 лет назад +79

      "most of them are from China and Mexico", LOL clearly you're an internet racist that doesn't live here.
      This wave of immigration in SF is made up of well paid white and asian tech workers,
      who unlike chinese and mexican immigrants, drive rent through the roof and don't give back to the culture of the city.
      To think it's "government pensioners" raising the cost of living too is laughable.

  • @TigerMonthlyHits
    @TigerMonthlyHits 4 года назад +220

    She could’ve at least packed lunch.. those $7+ lunches add up.

    • @bigeurasianstepper
      @bigeurasianstepper 3 года назад +10

      Fr, I live in a cheap area nationally and still assess my spending every month to see where I can cut down on things. Food and drink are the rudimentary things to cut out

    • @wishIKnewHowToLove
      @wishIKnewHowToLove 3 года назад +4

      that is true. But maybe she has nowhere to store her food. And with 2 little kids maybe it's more price/time efficient to do it that way. Or maybe that is what she simply wants. Why should she be cheap? I'm sure if she needed to save money she would cut corners... She is just explaining the average expenses to illustrate her point.

    • @nigelwest5776
      @nigelwest5776 3 года назад

      I agree but at least they meal plan that's more important

    • @care2think611
      @care2think611 2 года назад

      $7+ is cheap. I haven't found a burrito in SF for less than $14.

  • @edgargutierrez1569
    @edgargutierrez1569 3 года назад +79

    I'm living in a 3 bedroom/2 bath in Florida for 1,200 a month! Damn, they weren't lying when they said Cali is expensive 😬😮😯

    • @wishIKnewHowToLove
      @wishIKnewHowToLove 3 года назад +7

      Wow! For someone like me, who has never lived outside of SF, this seems suspiciously cheap!

    • @darealberrygarcia
      @darealberrygarcia 2 года назад +3

      I live in a 1100sqft 3bdrm 1 bath in Saint Louis for only 600 a month! Booya

    • @edgargutierrez1569
      @edgargutierrez1569 2 года назад +1

      @@IIII...... It's actually a house, I got it 2015 when housing prices weren't high. Now an apartment below 1k is difficult to find in Florida.. well, atleast in my area.

    • @vulcanraven9701
      @vulcanraven9701 2 года назад

      @@wishIKnewHowToLove the rent in Georgia is even cheaper than what he said

    • @alanasda7705
      @alanasda7705 2 года назад +1

      The Bay Area has always been an expensive place to live, but it is particularly impossible if you’re low-income and/or working class. San Fransisco’s culture, economy and overall beauty makes it an appealing place, so there is great demand for living here. The housing supply has not caught up, which explains why rent in San Francisco is stupidly high.

  • @itonner231
    @itonner231 5 лет назад +1830

    Her problem is clearly that avocado every morning...

    • @gizmonovack
      @gizmonovack 5 лет назад +35

      itonner231 avocado isn't cheap

    • @rubyh.369
      @rubyh.369 5 лет назад +4

      😅👏

    • @notsure6187
      @notsure6187 5 лет назад +22

      her daughter not liking avocados is a good sign she'll make a proper non-extremist liberal who actually listens to other peoples views with an open mind and forms her own accordingly.

    • @louspussay
      @louspussay 5 лет назад +40

      LOL throwback to all those news segments about millennials saying they can't afford housing and the boomer reporters were like "just stop buying avocadoes then!" as if that's the problem..

    • @IllinoisTrafficAttorney
      @IllinoisTrafficAttorney 5 лет назад +4

      Maybe she hasn't heard of Aldi. Avocados when they aren't on sale are $1.50 each and $0.50 each on sale

  • @priya1568
    @priya1568 5 лет назад +167

    Wow. 2 kids and 1 bedroom. SF is not worth it. Get out of there.

  • @MayaParedes
    @MayaParedes 3 года назад +158

    you think watching this video annoyed you, but imagine how you'd feel being born & raised here and watching all these prices go up in front of your own eyes. Seeing everyone in your life being bought out or evicted. Watching entire neighborhoods being completely torn down and rebuilt for new Twitter and Google parking lots. Your fave $5 burrito from childhood is now $12.87. So yeah if you're thinking of moving here one day, please don't. and if youre super rich and tryna move here too PLEAASSE dont.
    thx for coming to my ted talk

    • @Aw3someOpZ
      @Aw3someOpZ 2 года назад +5

      Bruh, 12.87 for a burrito in the city? Where? I really haven’t been there for leisure but I’m used to the 16 18 dollar mark.

    • @cappuccinopapi3038
      @cappuccinopapi3038 2 года назад +7

      Sorry, I’ll go regardless

    • @stadiummoments2835
      @stadiummoments2835 2 года назад +5

      I’ll keep it simple…if you’re just trying to be a working person and live here, it’s a bad idea. If you’re an entrepreneur with 6 to 8 figure income, or even more, then you can manage to live here.

    • @rocket_1288
      @rocket_1288 2 года назад +1

      @@Aw3someOpZ i bought a green wrap in kaladi brothers that was like 10 dollars and i dont even live in san francisco

    • @p.k.953
      @p.k.953 2 года назад +1

      Where I live, as of 2022, It still costs me 2-4 dollars for an average tasty burrito 🌯 and max to max 7 for a really very expensive one...!!! ✌️😅

  • @user-zy7wv2fk8i
    @user-zy7wv2fk8i 4 года назад +76

    As somebody who has grown up in San Francisco i can not imagine having that little income and surging in the city. I have major respect for this woman and her family.

    • @guilhermefreire8093
      @guilhermefreire8093 2 года назад +8

      As someone born in a different place. I cant imagine 100k a month being "little"

    • @Frazier16
      @Frazier16 2 года назад +3

      Of 100k a year is little than maybe it's best just not to love there

    • @jamesfrazier4005
      @jamesfrazier4005 2 года назад +4

      Honestly, 100k a year is life changing income for a vast majority of the country. Most people go to collge or bust ass for decades to hit 6 figures and over there it's poverty wages. Insane

    • @sayitloudblcknproud
      @sayitloudblcknproud Год назад

      Her income isn't little.

    • @bruhbutwhytho2301
      @bruhbutwhytho2301 Год назад +2

      ​@@jamesfrazier4005to be fair, the two salaries combined are 100k

  • @TheLeader664
    @TheLeader664 5 лет назад +1854

    If they lived in Alabama or Kansas with the same salary they would have been living a luxury life.

    • @TheLeader664
      @TheLeader664 5 лет назад +106

      Marv N true she’d earn less but even with the low housing costs they still be living a comfortable life

    • @akshatshah3717
      @akshatshah3717 5 лет назад +395

      Alabama? No thanks

    • @Mochi-kf3it
      @Mochi-kf3it 4 года назад +292

      eduardo ramirez who wants to live in Alabama or Kansas?? Pfft I could never, lmfao

    • @eldritchpumpkinghost2968
      @eldritchpumpkinghost2968 4 года назад +83

      Kansas sure but Alabama is the home of scum fam

    • @alejandro94zav
      @alejandro94zav 4 года назад +187

      Yeah but who the hell wants to live in Kansas and Alabama? 👎🏼

  • @jaymeez
    @jaymeez 5 лет назад +565

    $1,300 a month for daycare!!! Dayum!

    • @kevindavis7603
      @kevindavis7603 4 года назад +41

      That's more than my rent $1200 month, just outside downtown sacremento.

    • @LaneJane23
      @LaneJane23 4 года назад +8

      Thanks actually pretty typical anywhere.

    • @whatthebleep2810
      @whatthebleep2810 4 года назад +6

      It’s about that price in Arizona. Thank goodness my kids are pretty grown!

    • @potatoeskimos
      @potatoeskimos 4 года назад +5

      Can you buy yourself a high-end 3bedroom apartment with that much money in Malaysia.

    • @Dauntless.steadfast.fortitude
      @Dauntless.steadfast.fortitude 3 года назад +20

      She wants tax payers to pay for child care....wtf ??? Your child so take responsibility or use birth control. You don't have the right to complain.

  • @dkmrap1
    @dkmrap1 4 года назад +320

    "I go grab a bite to eat then head to the office"
    "I go to lunch I go to a local sandwich shop"
    ....
    ....
    ....
    "we like to meal plan"

  • @jessicaaguirre1229
    @jessicaaguirre1229 4 года назад +103

    It's the Daycare people that CAN afford to live there lol !!

    • @megabeatz783
      @megabeatz783 3 года назад +1

      😂😂

    • @doubledutchclutch
      @doubledutchclutch 3 года назад +2

      Hey man, there are nannies in NYC who make up to $80k a year!!

    • @kittycatrittycatalt9523
      @kittycatrittycatalt9523 3 года назад +2

      Ikr my dad pays 1,500 dollars for my little sisters daycare each week 😊🔫

  • @user-js1md4sl6t
    @user-js1md4sl6t 5 лет назад +618

    $2,400.00 a month for one bedroom, that's crazy they can do that... What a rip-0ff...

    • @natenate88
      @natenate88 5 лет назад +55

      William that's actually really cheap for the city.... since it is subsidized and all... a one bedroom apartment in the greater bay area 45 minutes from the city costs can be as much as $2,400... averaging around 1800 on the low end upwards 2500 on the high end.

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 5 лет назад +10

      Brooklyn has two bedrooms for $3000...also crazy.

    • @ciinemaclips
      @ciinemaclips 5 лет назад +9

      I pay $700 for my 1 bedroom apartment in Oakland. It's great for a single person, maybe even a family of 4.

    • @badgirlzeze6794
      @badgirlzeze6794 5 лет назад +12

      In Germany you can get a villa or a castle for that money. I life in Cologne in a 4 bedroom house and I pay 850€ (920$)

    • @taylorholt9684
      @taylorholt9684 5 лет назад

      I live in SF too I live in 3 bed 2 bath and my parents pay 6k a month.

  • @ravenswood118
    @ravenswood118 6 лет назад +1218

    She says she relies on meal planning while we watch her eat out 2x a day? Okay.

    • @ChowmutLe
      @ChowmutLe 6 лет назад +149

      agreed, so many of these types of videos highlight the prevalent patterns that people don't know how to manage their money. I also wonder why if they are struggling, did they choose to have 4 children.

    • @bluebobbyjack
      @bluebobbyjack 6 лет назад +13

      playandrepeat true but she could be trying to save time

    • @reelillusionl123
      @reelillusionl123 6 лет назад +62

      Winnie The Pooh save time? She could be preparing her lunches at night for the next day or waking up earlier in the morning to do so to save time logically.

    • @bluebobbyjack
      @bluebobbyjack 6 лет назад +4

      Dana Joan yeah

    • @hughrblackwell
      @hughrblackwell 6 лет назад +66

      Have coffee at home. Take lunch. That childcare is crazy high

  • @aprescoups4593
    @aprescoups4593 4 года назад +28

    Leave San Francisco, it doesn't make sense for an educated person to be struggling to stay in a overpriced city. The city doesn't owe you anything, just leave man.

    • @TheTallMan50
      @TheTallMan50 4 года назад +2

      Relocating is expensive. They can't afford to leave.

    • @aprescoups4593
      @aprescoups4593 4 года назад +2

      @@TheTallMan50 many colleges offer relocation help. She is very well educated she can find employment that offers relocation help.

    • @DewTime
      @DewTime 4 года назад +2

      Apres Coups exactly

  • @julesdotmp4
    @julesdotmp4 4 года назад +9

    Please do one of these videos on Portland, Oregon! I have lived here my whole life and am just now starting my journey of paying rent and supporting myself, so it would be interesting to see how it compares.

  • @drealm
    @drealm 6 лет назад +321

    It's not worth it. I live around San Francisco my whole life (but never in). Everything costs more, everything smells like shit (thanks to homeless) and whatever culture of the 60's is gone and replaced by rich techies. Even the typically ethnic neighborhoods like the mission and little italy have been completely gentrified. It's nice to visit on a weekend, but not worth living in.

    • @xtaylorxboyx
      @xtaylorxboyx 6 лет назад +5

      drealm what was San Francisco in the 60s like, were you alive then?

    • @drealm
      @drealm 6 лет назад +63

      Many things were different. There was no tech industry, so it wasn't an economic hub for anything. Gays existed but they were a minority fringe group instead of a privileged group pushing an agenda. They were actually pleasant to hang around. Homelessness was about half or less of what it was now. There were neighborhoods like little Italy that had first generation hard working Italians. Hippies were emerging, but they were pretty tame by today's standards. A guy straight out of high school or college could easily get 1 bedroom apartment. It was basically a working class city with a few affluent areas that just happened to be in a nice location. Where as now there's no middle class, everyone pays more and gets less.

    • @SapphireRatner
      @SapphireRatner 6 лет назад +10

      This ^^ SF lost any of its culture a decade ago. Now it's filled with either rich techies or poor Mexicans. There is no place for middle class Americans in SF.

    • @aveuch
      @aveuch 6 лет назад

      xtaylorxboyx Beatniks. Google it.

    • @chocoprincess3311
      @chocoprincess3311 6 лет назад +11

      With a heavy heart, I have to agree. I grew up in East Bay (inland) and used to be awed by how fun and cool (literally, the weather is amazing there) SF was. I wanted to live in the Presidio or near the Palace of Fine arts. But because of the tech boom, it feels different. It doesn't feel the same at all. And it's starting to feel like that in other places around SF, like Oakland and Berkeley. :(

  • @grontelp77
    @grontelp77 6 лет назад +669

    $12 lunch everyday? $240 a month? This one should be a gimme

    • @dertychurchtablet3101
      @dertychurchtablet3101 6 лет назад +5

      MYREALNAME 1.99 purdue chicken on sale, or always 1.99 at top grocery stores for meh chicken. 12 dollars is 6 pounds, enough for my normal behind to eat tacos and nuggets for a week. She wastes 12 on 1 meal and a lot of the time....wtf, that rinkydink shop is way overpriced also, 12 bucks for a a buck cost coffee and 3buck sub ssndwich. Ripped off

    • @heybbg180
      @heybbg180 6 лет назад +8

      Shakir Akbars Actually, there's a lot of people in America who take care of themselves. I lived over there for two years and the only people who are "fat" are the ones who don't know how to properly take care of their diets. It was pretty saddening to see someone have to use a wheelchair just because they were extremely obese when those wheelchairs are meant for people who are hurt, elderly or disabled.

    • @grontelp77
      @grontelp77 6 лет назад +6

      Sangwoo that Yoonbum obesity is obviously a disability, lying somewhere between addiction and physical disability. Like any addiction, obesity is intertwined with mental health issues, and like drugs or alcohol, when it gets bad you can't just blame someone for "choosing" to be that way. They're beyond the pail of choice and satisfying their craving/ addiction has taken over their life. They need compassionate intervention to break the cycle. Shaming people helps no one.

    • @Xrayballer88
      @Xrayballer88 6 лет назад +7

      The funny thing about those commenting on American diets and weights is that San Francisco is actually one of the fittest cities in the U.S. Most of the obese live outside of the U.S.'s major cities.

    • @conorgriffie8781
      @conorgriffie8781 6 лет назад +12

      Also paying $3.50 for a dozen eggs (wtf?? That's insane for eggs) and having avocado and sausage every morning. You can have such a cheaper and healthier breakfast with oatmeal and a banana.

  • @jonnygee489
    @jonnygee489 4 года назад +34

    Q: How do you live in SF?
    A: dont

  • @StingyDNA415
    @StingyDNA415 4 года назад +17

    I'm from SF. Watching this video and knowing exactly where she is at each location is kinda cool... 👍🏾

  • @hackneo64
    @hackneo64 6 лет назад +896

    Now show the homeless problem and street shitting.

    • @glossygloss472
      @glossygloss472 6 лет назад +21

      Lmao you act as if homeless people don't have access to public restrooms and shelters.

    • @ilovejesus3659
      @ilovejesus3659 6 лет назад +66

      Someone else told me that too SF has a problem with human poop everywhere probably from the homeless

    • @VirgoCarnation
      @VirgoCarnation 6 лет назад +56

      Yes. I'm glad someone flippin said this. When I lived in north bay ppl at work didn't believe me when I told them about all the human poop everywhere ( they obviously never went into the city) they were like " surrre. Have you actually seen these people poop?" and I'm like "YES! Multiple times in non-sketchy super public areas, like wtf, I'm not making this up!" I'd always get super grossed out anytime I saw someone walking around with just flipflops on lol

    • @parishiltonASMR
      @parishiltonASMR 6 лет назад +28

      HelloKittyFan 26 let me guess, u never been to SF.

    • @m8trxd
      @m8trxd 6 лет назад

      Ummm..... they don't.

  • @Ijustwastedyourtime0
    @Ijustwastedyourtime0 5 лет назад +217

    Pretty weird that she is a university prof and doesn't have a daycare available at her school. My city has 4 major universities and all of them offer free daycare to their staff.

    • @MrZizzou10
      @MrZizzou10 5 лет назад +15

      San Francisco State Univ. has 2 affiliated daycares and neither are fully subsidized for faculty and staff. Full time day care (as of 2019) is between $2200-2400 per month. This is the case for most universities in San Francisco. On the other hand, several tech companies in the city offer fully subsidized childcare. Not saying tech companies are bad, just offering a comparison.

    • @pneulancer
      @pneulancer 5 лет назад +16

      She's only an ASSISTANT professor of sociology; meaning she is NOT tenured. She most likely doesn't have a Ph.D yet but even if she does it's in sociology, which is not as marketable as say, a chemical or electrical engineering degree. Also, $ 110,000.00 per annum isn't that much anywhere in California, especially when that is your combined income and you have two kids. If she was single with no children and making that on her own it could be doable.

    • @has3219
      @has3219 5 лет назад +8

      @@pneulancer 110k should be enough to live ANYWHERE. The reality of that statement is ridiculous

    • @edgardonieves5158
      @edgardonieves5158 5 лет назад +2

      @@has3219 New York and LA are also as bad as SF.

    • @has3219
      @has3219 5 лет назад +2

      @@edgardonieves5158 yup so is toronto where I'm from its pretty sad

  • @Yourmom016
    @Yourmom016 Год назад +3

    I’m using this video for my college writing class and it’s very useful to hear about how crazy it is to live in San Francisco. What sucks is that it’s even worse today.

  • @QT-Sei
    @QT-Sei 4 года назад +18

    $3/gal in SF? What a bunch of bogus! Regular gas prices in the Bay and surrounding fluctuate between $3.50 and $4!

    • @MrThescriptfan
      @MrThescriptfan 3 года назад

      This was in 2017. Gas prices in SF for 2017 fluctuated between $2.8-$3.2 so they were right.
      www.eia.gov/dnav/pet/hist/LeafHandler.ashx?n=PET&s=EMM_EPMRR_PTE_Y05SF_DPG&f=W

  • @Rinluyen420
    @Rinluyen420 6 лет назад +154

    groceries are $80-$100 a week? for a family of four?! you can cook three meals a day and feed four people for less then $15 a day? yall eating cat food in san fran or?

    • @allahyomama9066
      @allahyomama9066 6 лет назад +20

      Rinluyen420 you could buy rice and beans real cheap.

    • @YKB461
      @YKB461 6 лет назад +16

      They probably don't make lunch from the groceries. Each partner buys their own lunch and the kids probably eat at the daycare.

    • @krnpowr
      @krnpowr 6 лет назад +18

      If you eat like a Mexican: rice, beans, and tortillas, every day, you can get by no matter how much money you make.

    • @MrKikoboy
      @MrKikoboy 6 лет назад +7

      Maybe - but you'll need an air exchanger running 24/7

    • @krnpowr
      @krnpowr 6 лет назад +4

      MrKikoboy LOL

  • @Creek1
    @Creek1 6 лет назад +65

    You can save a lot of money making your own coffee and packing your own lunches. Paying $2 for a coffee every morning adds up.

    • @xtaylorxboyx
      @xtaylorxboyx 6 лет назад +1

      Creek buying packs of instant coffee for $5 is cheaper and tastes ok as regular coffee shops.

    • @genuvive
      @genuvive 6 лет назад +5

      You can't get coffee anywhere in the city for $2

    • @adanlopez1011
      @adanlopez1011 6 лет назад +2

      I used to spend $2 everyday for coffee aswell, but then I started boiling my own water and drinking instant at home. It adds up, you're right but, that really isn't too significant.

    • @moirad6632
      @moirad6632 6 лет назад +2

      Creek and a $8 sandwitch

  • @muthuannamalai8484
    @muthuannamalai8484 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your story! Hope you get that tenure soon!! Best wishes.

  • @zamamaz.7612
    @zamamaz.7612 3 года назад +8

    As a person from the Bay Area, we live there mostly because of the location, because of all of the diversity and sightseeing. I personally love it here, but I know that its rlly expensive and hard, especially with a large family. I remember going to SF state on a field trip, and I think I've met her before.

    • @wishIKnewHowToLove
      @wishIKnewHowToLove 3 года назад +1

      SF is not meant for big families or low income people.

  • @jolanferrer7591
    @jolanferrer7591 6 лет назад +1550

    You know she's from the Bay the moment she said hella

    • @gemeni3000
      @gemeni3000 6 лет назад +13

      Jolan Ferrer who cares

    • @tekkenfan01
      @tekkenfan01 6 лет назад +14

      Yeah sure, wonder what they would say in LA and NY

    • @lovegalore3598
      @lovegalore3598 6 лет назад +28

      Jolan Ferrer I say that and I’m from the south 💀(Florida )

    • @elliexo8225
      @elliexo8225 6 лет назад +24

      I say that and I’m British lol

    • @fauxmanchu8094
      @fauxmanchu8094 6 лет назад +4

      Jolan Ferrer They could be Filipino-Americans.

  • @TMM-N
    @TMM-N 5 лет назад +529

    Brew your own coffee..save you $10/ week..$40- $50 per month.
    And you can cook your lunch , $100- $200/ month...no brainer

    • @TV-xv1le
      @TV-xv1le 5 лет назад +70

      Because saving an average $150 a month will suddenly make her be able to afford something better. Shes already only paying $2400 for her apartment that would otherwise cost over 1k more a month. Your not going to go from paying $2400 a month rent to suddenly getting a 2-3 bedroom for 4k+ a month because you saved $150 a month on coffee/lunch.

    • @markhayes2003
      @markhayes2003 5 лет назад +36

      Why does she need a car or a high rise apartment? Why does her daughter need daycare when the husband seems to stay with the son everyday? This girl shouldn't be complaining. Most of her expenses are by choice.

    • @TV-xv1le
      @TV-xv1le 5 лет назад +29

      @@markhayes2003 she spends nearly 30k a year just in rent. Let's say she makes around 100k a year. That's maybe 60 to 70k once you factor taxes and health insurance. Nearly half of her pay is going forward rent. Why shouldn't she have a car? Do you know how often she needs to travel and especially having a family of 4. Oh and normally her apartment would be closer to 45 or 50k a year.

    • @markhayes2003
      @markhayes2003 5 лет назад +11

      @@TV-xv1le but again...why a high rise? She lives and works in the city, why a car? When her husband takes one child, why does the other need daycare? Its hard for me to feel badly, I make much less then she and proportionately, my $1400(1/3rd of an apartment) rent is probably more (I make half as much And I'm single) but, I don't have a car and two meals out everyday. There's no avocados at my breakfast table ($3, really?) And I don't complain, because I love NYC and understand I'm there by choice.

    • @ercushkakulmetov7458
      @ercushkakulmetov7458 5 лет назад +13

      People in the Coffee and fast food industry have to make a living too. If only kings and billionaires would be able to afford it many of them would go out of business.

  • @AlexCab_49
    @AlexCab_49 2 года назад +2

    She complains about gas prices/drives a car in SF but has access to the best public transit and walkablity in California!

  • @Clone683
    @Clone683 4 года назад +79

    1: Relies on meal planning and cooking at home
    2. Spends $8 on a sandwich and buys Avocados
    pick one

  • @MrCaliboy97
    @MrCaliboy97 6 лет назад +345

    When she said "hella" I cracked tf up. she really from the bay.

    • @ucfknight239
      @ucfknight239 6 лет назад +8

      Same here. I immediately paused the video and started looking in the comments for it. lol

    • @garconworldwide8475
      @garconworldwide8475 6 лет назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kimberlydickens3545
      @kimberlydickens3545 6 лет назад +6

      Doesn't everyone say hella ?

    • @kaylah6175
      @kaylah6175 6 лет назад +6

      kimmie a hella is mainly used by northern Californians

    • @babyyangie1594
      @babyyangie1594 6 лет назад +1

      kimmie a hella started in the bay

  • @alexcorso1308
    @alexcorso1308 5 лет назад +432

    It’s like a theme park priced everything

    • @jigglybandito9505
      @jigglybandito9505 5 лет назад +1

      Alex Corso I thought so too until I actually went. going out wasn’t really much more than HB or LA.

    • @jigglybandito9505
      @jigglybandito9505 5 лет назад

      Just gotta look around at different places.

    • @danceballetacro
      @danceballetacro 5 лет назад

      spot on

  • @maeflower522
    @maeflower522 4 года назад +4

    As a San Francisco native, and I talked to my friend about this, San Francisco locals who are currently in their 20's feel screwed over by the high rent and leasing in San Francisco. No matter if you went to college, earned your degree, and working a steady job, you're living at home with your parents. These days its no longer a stigma to being 25 and living with your parents, but it's such a pain in the ass that a city I've called home all my life is so expensive that I'm considering moving out of California with my boyfriend.

    • @cadds8055
      @cadds8055 3 года назад

      Please stop spreading your propaganda towards people who have actually succeeded 😊

    • @omomeidontaya3143
      @omomeidontaya3143 3 года назад +5

      @@cadds8055 she’s speaking the raw truth and facts. Compare the people that have succeeded to the population. Get it now ?

  • @linnetteresendiz
    @linnetteresendiz 2 года назад +4

    This makes me sad because growing up in San Jose and always visiting San Francisco, i always wanted to live there since I was young because of the ocean and the architecture inspired me as an artist :(

  • @Samogon2009
    @Samogon2009 6 лет назад +381

    Buy a 2 pound bag of coffee at Costco for $10 and make coffee at home for like three months... You're welcome.

    • @jjlatinopedia
      @jjlatinopedia 5 лет назад +26

      and condoms

    • @youtubestopdeletingmyaccou387
      @youtubestopdeletingmyaccou387 5 лет назад +1

      Vasiliy S God damn it I didn't think to be another genius in his universe finally someone gets it God I was saving so much money by shopping at Costco

    • @DeematheFashionDesigner
      @DeematheFashionDesigner 5 лет назад

      😂

    • @sk8raz2k1
      @sk8raz2k1 5 лет назад +9

      My God you just saved her a massive $20 per month...

    • @thecrazymuzician1
      @thecrazymuzician1 5 лет назад +3

      You're missing the point of the video completely.

  • @sharronking
    @sharronking 6 лет назад +1272

    I didn't know how annoying the words "My partner and I" could be, until now...

    • @adrenaline19
      @adrenaline19 6 лет назад +21

      Truth^

    • @monique_pryce
      @monique_pryce 5 лет назад +47

      Ikr?? LOL. I’m relieved to see I’m not the only one.😂

    • @SMUGGLING-SCHOOLBOY
      @SMUGGLING-SCHOOLBOY 5 лет назад +77

      And then she said she had a husband so I'm confused

    • @RosySpeaks
      @RosySpeaks 5 лет назад +8

      Sharron King I thought it was just me.

    • @mebcalif
      @mebcalif 5 лет назад +55

      partner and husband/wife are nowadays used interchangeabley, mostly to fight off the oppression of patriarchal structures in our society

  • @DOC_951
    @DOC_951 5 лет назад +150

    Always hard to feel bad for someone who purposely makes a stupid decision.

  • @RovingRoy
    @RovingRoy 5 лет назад +36

    I left my life savings in San Francisco is what the song should be called!

  • @personalaccount186
    @personalaccount186 6 лет назад +344

    lol where I live 100k a year will get you 2 nice cars, a family of 4, 2 acres of land, and a 3bed 2bath house that you can pay off in less than 6 years

    • @shanweeboy
      @shanweeboy 6 лет назад +51

      So the midwest where people aren't insane?

    • @afowler830
      @afowler830 6 лет назад +9

      shit even more then that lol im from the Bay Area but moved to WA lol pretty much waay fuckin better

    • @personalaccount186
      @personalaccount186 6 лет назад +6

      Hell, we own 2 cars and 2 trucks, and you can even afford other buildings on your property, and a nice camper upwards of 20K

    • @MizzMelan
      @MizzMelan 6 лет назад

      Where is this?

    • @personalaccount186
      @personalaccount186 6 лет назад +11

      Bowling green

  • @Zoutepoel
    @Zoutepoel 6 лет назад +390

    Maybe make a sandwich at home instead of eating a local $8 per sandwich store. Will save you $160 a month. Also instead of an $4 iced coffee just a regular coffee made with a simple coffee machine (so saves $3,50 per coffee) x2 is another 7 now you're up to saving $160 + $140 a month, already $300.

    • @Zoutepoel
      @Zoutepoel 6 лет назад +17

      Not saying anything about the housing prices. Ridiculously high.

    • @YKB461
      @YKB461 6 лет назад +24

      You're not accounting for the ingredients it takes to make the sandwiches and the price of buying a coffee machine, the coffee grounds, etc. Plus it's hot there and people need energy, let the lady enjoy her iced coffee. Realistically all you do by following your steps is add more work into your life and save like $30 a month.

    • @superchile0083
      @superchile0083 6 лет назад +6

      I was thinking the same thing, but they make over $100k a year...if I was making that much with a partner, I'd feel okay to indulge in a $4 coffee

    • @culterwaleddy
      @culterwaleddy 6 лет назад +10

      It takes literally seconds to a minute to make a sandwich and or brew coffee. Also a regular old coffee maker will run you at most $30. 2 pounds of coffee beans is $7. Now depending on how much coffe you make a day let's say 12oz a day two pounds of coffe will get you 48 days worth of coffee.

    • @ShaneLeGrand
      @ShaneLeGrand 6 лет назад +2

      But they aren't living off 100k a year sure thats how much but an economic sense they are living in or around poverty. Everything around the area and in California in general just costs more

  • @danielgallagher4884
    @danielgallagher4884 3 года назад +3

    Imagine quarantining there. Those parents are troopers

  • @Zach-qo7mz
    @Zach-qo7mz 2 года назад +4

    I started to doing Uber in between my career change living in SF. Most drivers who do it full time clear $100k a year which is pretty insane for a zero experience/training work when you want gig. It’s an amazing place to live with so much but of course has problems. When people say how ridiculous prices are here it’s true, but they don’t think about the higher income/paying jobs that come with it.

  • @MyMommyDays
    @MyMommyDays 6 лет назад +902

    She needs to start making her lunch for work 😂 I live in California....the struggle is real

    • @Martib
      @Martib 6 лет назад +6

      exactly what i said

    • @avoqado89
      @avoqado89 6 лет назад +17

      I think they split the sandwich in half.

    • @Martib
      @Martib 6 лет назад +9

      its still alot tho

    • @holatio4028
      @holatio4028 6 лет назад +3

      indeed!

    • @RJT80
      @RJT80 6 лет назад +8

      MyMommyDays You can live very cheaply in California. Even within commute to LA.

  • @ibenzawla
    @ibenzawla 6 лет назад +75

    "$1300 in day care a month" and then they wonder why birth rate is so low.

    • @wavywithjiana7703
      @wavywithjiana7703 5 лет назад +5

      Not only that but 2400 for rent for a ONE BED ROOM APARTMENT!!!!

  • @Matt-wf7ry
    @Matt-wf7ry 3 года назад +4

    Yes it is expensive to live in San Francisco but you also get a much higher pay in San Francisco so it evens it out. For instance with current data available - the average income for an individual in San Fran is $52,700 and average rent for 1 bed in San Fran is $2,650. Average income for Minneapolis is $32,900 and average rent for 1 bed in Minneapolis in $1,550. In both cities you end up paying very close to the same % of your income towards housing and when looking at other costs of living they are pretty much identical. It only sounds very expensive to live there because if you don't live there and live in Wisconsin it sounds like you can't afford anything but you aren't taking into account the higher pay you will get for doing the same job in California that you are doing now in Wisconsin.

    • @alanasda7705
      @alanasda7705 2 года назад

      San Francisco has long had the highest rent prices in the nation, even as the minimum wage in the city is currently $16.32 per hour. With that high minimum wage, you’d expect people would be paid enough to afford the rent in San Fran, but you’d be wrong.

  • @ashleymorello8368
    @ashleymorello8368 4 года назад +4

    I just moved out of this apartment complex and to update everyone only 2 years later the rent for a one bedroom in park merced is now $2800/month not $2400 as listed in this video.

    • @wishIKnewHowToLove
      @wishIKnewHowToLove 3 года назад +1

      sadly if the next person moves it may be even 3K the next time around! In SF you DON"T MOVE!!!!

  • @jordanspringstroh8302
    @jordanspringstroh8302 5 лет назад +586

    YO! Where'd you get that $7 sandwich tho?? I live in SF and I've never seen a deal that good lol

    • @DeematheFashionDesigner
      @DeematheFashionDesigner 5 лет назад +2

      Jordan Springstroh 😂😂😂

    • @padussia
      @padussia 5 лет назад +2

      Jordan Springstroh 🤣🤣🤣

    • @DKT.84
      @DKT.84 5 лет назад +1

      Subway duh

    • @jays9572
      @jays9572 5 лет назад +1

      I know right.

    • @JohnDoe-wx2oo
      @JohnDoe-wx2oo 5 лет назад +1

      Even sandwiches are CHF 7 in Zürich. No way are they more expensive in SF.

  • @pinthetailproductions4859
    @pinthetailproductions4859 5 лет назад +464

    San Francisco has a car culture?
    No. No it doesn't. Muni train, Muni bus, Bart, skateboarding, Uber,Lyft, Biking. Hell even walking. All these are probably way cheaper ways to get to work than a car. Hell, the city is less than 10 by 10 miles wide. I'd hate to say this but all these toxic comments are right. I was living in a couch in SF for $400 a month in college and this is what happens when you just HAVE to live in San Francisco.4 in a 1 bedroom apartment barely making it.But no. Just to say"I live in SF" has enough cache for it to be worth it.

    • @apgjones86
      @apgjones86 5 лет назад +10

      Bad money practices are all about feelings, convenience and lying to ourselves. It has nothing to do with math. What she’s saying is she wants to live a certain lifestyle and I don’t understand why it doesn’t work because I’ve never dissected my reasoning or method.

    • @Yazzy8639
      @Yazzy8639 5 лет назад +2

      I think wat she meant to say is the bay and central valley, just riding around any city you'll see not that many ppl walking on the sidewalk or in general, looks like a ghost town from an outsider's perspective

    • @lavishlifezeene2439
      @lavishlifezeene2439 5 лет назад +11

      Your basically a nobody if you live in the Bay Area if your over 21 and don’t own your own mode of transportation

    • @psychedamike
      @psychedamike 4 года назад +49

      It's easy to live without a car when you don't have kids to take care of. Try getting little kids to daycare or school on time via public transit and then we'll talk.

    • @streamvaish
      @streamvaish 4 года назад

      Ikr

  • @relajad0
    @relajad0 5 лет назад +14

    Watching this as I live in SF

  • @KingHarambe_RIP
    @KingHarambe_RIP 3 года назад +7

    People keep asking why she switches from “partner” to “husband” but nobody is considering the possibility that they are two different people.

  • @InternationalSpaceForce
    @InternationalSpaceForce 6 лет назад +287

    I lived in San Francisco for almost a year and I can honestly say it's only worth every penny if you're really into that "fast life" type of living. So much to do. So much to see. So many people to meet. You're gonna create a lot of great memories living there. I had so many good times there. Even though I was living in a musty dirt nasty studio apartment for 450 a week (1800/month) in the city, I still managed to enjoy every second of it. Everyday after work I would get on my longboard and cruise the piers and city sidewalks. I'd love to go back but there's gonna be a moment where you realize, wait I could get way more for my dollar if I left this place. And that's why I left. Way too expensive. But I promise if you love that fast life, you're 100% gonna love San Francisco

    • @lovehearts9710
      @lovehearts9710 5 лет назад +6

      President Moore you would probably love it to if you where rich

    • @amannexus13
      @amannexus13 5 лет назад +25

      Anybody else read the so much to do and so much to see part and sang it like smash mouth, or just me

    • @zacharywoodford8530
      @zacharywoodford8530 5 лет назад +2

      Aman Chetan nope me too lol.

    • @rgdssd
      @rgdssd 5 лет назад +17

      Shi Lle it's the Democrats fault that homeless people come to California in droves from other states?
      Because if you interview them, most of them come from other states. They come for the weather.
      CA has inherited the poor from the rest of the US.

    • @misssativa9260
      @misssativa9260 5 лет назад +8

      Yea and now the cities just covered in poop 💩

  • @titotrees437
    @titotrees437 6 лет назад +130

    San Francisco Native,
    Yuppies ruined it. The city used to be great and affordable. Now its crowded and busy

    • @phant0m0th_
      @phant0m0th_ 6 лет назад +12

      Tito Trees the districts used to be cooler and fun to hang out in. Like the Mission district but there's this thing called gentrification. Not only that but now it's just full of white people obsessed with technology and trying to be a little more "diverse."

    • @alexkrasnic3850
      @alexkrasnic3850 6 лет назад +1

      Those yuppies who "ruined it" doubled the value of your house, making your family $100,000+ profit when they choose to sell it. so you made over $100,000, cry me a river

    • @aerodynamicbullshark
      @aerodynamicbullshark 6 лет назад +1

      same for every popular city in usa...

    • @titotrees437
      @titotrees437 6 лет назад +4

      alex krasnic
      100k profit. Please.
      If that means losing latino/black/asian culture in the city i rather die than SELLOUT TO YOU.
      alex krasnic..Born and raised “bro”. Go home and make your community a better place to stay and earn rather than coming over here and raising our cost of life, i mean living
      Please dont take offense. Idgaf

    • @adsensedd
      @adsensedd 6 лет назад +1

      God damn prosperity. If only it was more like Detroit...

  • @bilahn1198
    @bilahn1198 Год назад +5

    I am grateful to live in Minneapolis/Saint Paul. It's a great place to live with culture and nature. It's not cheap, but it's not overly expensive either.
    The winters? Formidable but you learn to love it! To me it's a small price to pay for such a great place to live. Summers are gorgeous.

    • @uzin0s256
      @uzin0s256 9 месяцев назад

      I live in San fran. I have relatives in plymouth. I found MSP to be very boring. Rahter be in SF.

    • @Stefan-ji2ek
      @Stefan-ji2ek 3 месяца назад

      I live in the Twin Cities and I agree it's a great place to live!!!

  • @mikec.1783
    @mikec.1783 4 года назад +70

    Whaaaaat? A sociology prof believes the government should help and subsidise everything? Nooooooo way

    • @michellejoyce5207
      @michellejoyce5207 4 года назад +4

      I go to a university when professors shove social justice stuff in our throats. Trying to leave the Bay Area is getting harder as the cost of living goes up.

    • @jasperxalicecullen
      @jasperxalicecullen 2 года назад

      ...you know sociology has nothing to do with socialism, right? like those are two different topics entirely...

  • @jnbalmer448
    @jnbalmer448 6 лет назад +38

    Is anyone forcing people to live there?

  • @nicko198718
    @nicko198718 6 лет назад +277

    Buys a $8 sandwich the in next scene talks about meal plaining ffs.

    • @ilovejesus3659
      @ilovejesus3659 6 лет назад +1

      nicko198718 They at lest want to try to one meal at home that's how my family is too we are out and about with work and stuff we buy food but we cook dinner everyday

    • @joeyoung1498
      @joeyoung1498 6 лет назад +2

      nicko198718 - 8 for a sandwich is cheap. Last time I went out in the bay sandwiches were like $13.00 or more.

    • @dhazelcamacho
      @dhazelcamacho 6 лет назад +3

      Exactly $8 times 30 days is $240 , she can make her own sandwiches and save over $100 a month

    • @kevinmael3862
      @kevinmael3862 6 лет назад

      the cost of living here is insane, I am getting priced out.

    • @SepherStar
      @SepherStar 6 лет назад

      I can only eat half at a time so that would be like buying two $4 sandwiches. If I lived off of sandwiches that would be 45 sandwiches a month, which would be about $360 per month. Not bad.

  • @ms.soapii
    @ms.soapii 3 года назад +6

    I live there, and it's insanely expensive. Three of my friends moved because it was too expensive. But, I still freakin love San Fransisco

  • @HISTORYGRL
    @HISTORYGRL 3 года назад +3

    I’m going to make this simple . When you live in a major city , you are paying for the popularity of said city . There are going to be few ways to save money in a metro living environment because the alternative living structures become just as expensive due to high demand . I think one of the things that trap people in major cities is they think about better job opportunities. Yet that becomes irrelevant when the cost living is so high you barely break even. I’m currently pregnant and I recently moved out of Cali to Florida . I wanted to try a more affordable living environment even if the wage is 2-5 dollars less .

  • @BPS10-Ga
    @BPS10-Ga 6 лет назад +33

    Make coffee at home, don't stop and buy it, also brown bag lunch. Those 2 things alone will save $200 a month.

  • @AmericanWardog
    @AmericanWardog 6 лет назад +161

    All of this talk of housing prices and not a peep about the reason.

    • @FALslayer
      @FALslayer 6 лет назад +3

      Unwitting Kilo tourism maybe?

    • @eosornio1558
      @eosornio1558 6 лет назад +2

      They said why ...

    • @krnpowr
      @krnpowr 6 лет назад +28

      The professor at the beginning of the video did. She said everybody wants to be there. Housing prices are commensurate to demand.

    • @mistermood4164
      @mistermood4164 6 лет назад +13

      all the techies are moving there.

    • @Tonto8245
      @Tonto8245 6 лет назад +6

      demand? Theres a limited supply of houses and if someone wants to pay more why would you turn that down as the seller?!?!? It's bullshit that people expect to be able to get these houses and complain about people outbidding them. If people had room to make more houses they would.

  • @tesstikles3225
    @tesstikles3225 4 года назад +1

    I bought a home back in 2004 for $675k and now it's worth $1.1 million. Back in 2010-2013 it was worth $330k when the housing bubble burst. My wife and I own 4 car's ( well 2 of them are our 2 kid's) and we make $150k a year combined put our kids through private school and now college. It hasn't been easy but hard work and overtime has helped but yes it's gotten goddamn ridiculous here in San Francisco.

  • @implicxt5297
    @implicxt5297 4 года назад +1

    i just went to san francisco and i don’t understand why anyone would want to live there. i get that it’s where all the tech jobs are but it’s not worth the hype imo. so crowded, full of tourists, insanely expensive, and it’s very dirty. trash laying in the street, human waste on the sidewalk, syringes. i’d heard about san francisco having problems, but i didn’t expect it to be THAT bad.

  • @goodgirl140
    @goodgirl140 6 лет назад +400

    Why do so many families who grew up in the city insist on living in expensive urban centers? They almost always say it's because of the culture and diversity and things to do in the city. A) other places have that too and B) how often do you actually go out to eat and party when you have kids? It'd be more responsible to move away so you can save for your children's education or at least so they can have their own bedroom!

    • @latintrader
      @latintrader 6 лет назад +50

      Growing up in the impersonal suburbs raises alienated youth. You need a sense of community...

    • @georgethompson3763
      @georgethompson3763 6 лет назад +54

      Parents should be able to raise their kids in the suburbs AND in the city.

    • @DjJooze
      @DjJooze 6 лет назад +1

      Carlos Aguilar thats what family and friends are for

    • @hudsonjamesc
      @hudsonjamesc 6 лет назад +19

      NO they should live where their income permits them to live

    • @airhab
      @airhab 6 лет назад +2

      HAHAHAHAHAHA..................HAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @itsallgood5314
    @itsallgood5314 6 лет назад +503

    San Francisco is beautiful. Definitely worth visiting but I wouldn't live there. I'm from Houston, I feel like everything is cheap. I read somewhere that our salaries were worth the most in the nation. I thought that was worth a share.

    • @itsallgood5314
      @itsallgood5314 6 лет назад +6

      Leansifer 69.0 near it. Yeah Texas coast.

    • @TheTritan408
      @TheTritan408 6 лет назад +35

      Houston you say... how's the water in your back yard..? or in your house ?

    • @Char12403
      @Char12403 6 лет назад +39

      Luckily your Houston properties will go up in price now that they're wall waterfront property.

    • @itsallgood5314
      @itsallgood5314 6 лет назад +26

      Angelo Stevens just live somewhere that doesn't get flooded? The flooding honestly isn't that bad. My area has never flooded

    • @itsallgood5314
      @itsallgood5314 6 лет назад +7

      Tritan not bad actually. Didn't even see an inch of rain, how's your back yard?

  • @ShibaDoggie939
    @ShibaDoggie939 4 года назад +2

    That's why they call people who are born here that stay unicorns. Cause we are so rare and most of us leave if our families don't own their house or have rent control. Even with with cheap rent, saving for a house feels like a pipe dream with how expensive it is. A decent house is around 2 mil after everyone bids up the prices.

  • @gabyo5806
    @gabyo5806 4 года назад +7

    My mom’s tiny apartment in sf costs the same and her cousin’s three story mansion in Canada. That’s San Francisco for you

    • @Rollify
      @Rollify 2 года назад

      What part of Canada?

  • @ezzar8165
    @ezzar8165 6 лет назад +187

    I don't understand her tone: she's trying to get the audience to sympathize with her lifestyle and its "struggle," when in fact no one is forcing her to continue living there.

    • @ajrichards1190
      @ajrichards1190 6 лет назад +5

      I don't think people understand the city lifestyle. If she's an extrovert, it works in her favor to interact with a large group of people and makes a decent income to live in the heart of the city. SF is her backyard, it has a function in itself.

    • @dantan1249
      @dantan1249 6 лет назад +6

      ez zar she not even struggling though. They live within their means. They just can't buy a house there from what I gathered.

    • @alexkrasnic3850
      @alexkrasnic3850 6 лет назад +22

      if you spend $13 for lunch everyday when you can make the same exact lunch at home and bring it with your for $2, you aint struggling. For $5 you can make a whole gallon of coffee at home, cream included.

    • @alexkrasnic3850
      @alexkrasnic3850 6 лет назад +2

      aj richards Ya but there are a lot of cities in south california she can move to. Im sure she can get a job at a different university if she tried.

    • @aerodynamicbullshark
      @aerodynamicbullshark 6 лет назад +6

      and no one forcing her to drop $20+ a day on overpriced food and coffee

  • @BlazenRocker93
    @BlazenRocker93 6 лет назад +225

    You can't afford to live in San Fran. That's it.

    • @DJ_BoomBear
      @DJ_BoomBear 6 лет назад +15

      its mostly a tourist city, like portland and seattle.

    • @Icix1
      @Icix1 6 лет назад +17

      Seattle and Portland aren't even close. Rents run 3k easily in SF, Seattle can get as cheap as $1000, Portland even cheaper.

    • @AJL_90
      @AJL_90 6 лет назад +2

      Please don't call it 'San Fran'.

    • @DaVeTheWaVe3094
      @DaVeTheWaVe3094 6 лет назад

      osufann69 San Fran

  • @dslsdad1
    @dslsdad1 5 лет назад +10

    Why should the state help pay for your child care? If you can't afford kids maybe you're not in a position to have them yet.

    • @theblackhole05
      @theblackhole05 4 года назад

      i think we shouldn't tell people they cant have kids. i think there's a system working against them. they are clearly hard working Americans and they deserve a little bit of help and happiness

    • @DewTime
      @DewTime 4 года назад

      Teufel Hund exactly. Blows my mind how people don’t see this

    • @DewTime
      @DewTime 4 года назад

      Denzel Dickenson the only thing working against them is their poor decision making

  • @ifyouseekay1000
    @ifyouseekay1000 4 года назад +5

    She has a high rise apartment, buys coffee and lunch everyday, owns a car in a city with no real car culture (despite what she says), and sends her kids to day care.
    The problem here is not San Fran but her.

    • @grod805
      @grod805 4 года назад +1

      She's a college educated woman. This doesn't seem at all extravagant to me

  • @earlh
    @earlh 6 лет назад +11

    Earning over 100k a year to live in a small apartment and struggle? No matter what memories you might have in that place justify that. She seems like a well educated, experienced person. Plan your move already.

  • @SeaJayBelfast
    @SeaJayBelfast 6 лет назад +35

    So it's expensive, has high homeless rates, a really high public defecation rate and is built on a serious geological fault. You have to ask yourself why.

    • @ajrichards1190
      @ajrichards1190 6 лет назад +1

      Street cleaners use power washers and soap in most of Downtown, Tenderloin has the pockets of homelessness. It's one of that can have a busy nightclub with valet parking in the middle of a slum.

  • @richardcoleman9932
    @richardcoleman9932 4 года назад +39

    Just visited San Francisco was really rough homeless everywhere ,rubbish everywhere and overpriced would not revisit

    • @californiamade5608
      @californiamade5608 4 года назад +10

      Richard Coleman good don’t come back we don’t care

    • @yuvraj7214
      @yuvraj7214 4 года назад

      @@californiamade5608 well, there are used syringes everywhere, isn't it?

    • @californiamade5608
      @californiamade5608 3 года назад +5

      BERNigga I walk San Francisco everyday and I have yet to come across syringes and poop that the media says there is

    • @californiamade5608
      @californiamade5608 3 года назад +3

      Bennett McCoy um no, we didn’t destroy anything. I don’t work in city hall. It’s idiots like you that believe fake media. Go to pier 39 and tell me if you see “syringes” or “poop” cause I don’t.

    • @kaydenchan7093
      @kaydenchan7093 3 года назад +2

      Orlando Nunez is it because you live in the Sunset or Richmond? Those are the clean parts of San Francisco.

  • @nikko9961
    @nikko9961 4 года назад +1

    Whewwww the motivation grows stronger every day

  • @TONAH
    @TONAH 6 лет назад +781

    "MY PARTNER AND I" coming this Fall to San Francisco

    • @joyphillips1821
      @joyphillips1821 6 лет назад +57

      I know right.... looks like she didn't get married until you find out at the end.

    • @Tokyo2LA
      @Tokyo2LA 6 лет назад +36

      My partner lol

    • @mre1004
      @mre1004 6 лет назад +82

      I moved to DC from Texas and I noticed that women here also say "partner" instead of boyfriend/husband. At first I thought they were lesbian when they said it haha.

    • @thanib7796
      @thanib7796 6 лет назад +11

      Do people not use the term partner in other states or...?

    • @GearZNet
      @GearZNet 6 лет назад +69

      They usually say husband, bf(boyfriend), or spouse. Often, when they say partner it's a homosexual relationship.

  • @MrKillfield
    @MrKillfield 6 лет назад +427

    "the state should pay for child care"
    *Eats out twice a day

    • @alexkrasnic3850
      @alexkrasnic3850 6 лет назад +51

      I agree with her. I live in a Manhattan sky rise overlooking central park but i barley have enough money to pay my rent. the government should help me

    • @ryancollins1202
      @ryancollins1202 6 лет назад +2

      alex krasnic XD

    • @bels9773
      @bels9773 6 лет назад +19

      MbseedM she didn't say the government pay full price but that they should be helping more. She grew up and lived in that city where her friends and family are.. But screw her because she wants to keep on living there?? I'm not one to defend welfare or dispute govt aid but it's understandable that she deserves some help in the city that she grew up in.

    • @MilesDeighton1
      @MilesDeighton1 6 лет назад +12

      This comment has a lot of thumbs up but eating out twice a day can make sense to mitigate time investment depending on how your day is split up. Unless you're the kind of person who prepares lunches for the whole week on one day and doesn't mind eating a six day old sandwich.

    • @bels9773
      @bels9773 6 лет назад +4

      MbseedM Lol discriminate? It sounds completely fair. San Francisco was where she grew up, ofcourse she wants to live there. That's why she is staying in a shitty apartment. You are saying that the government doesn't owe her anything because it is her responsibility to live the life that she wants but she pays taxes like anyone else and deserves some type of aid. I do believe that San Fran natives should have help from the city (like in New York) because they grew up their and have memories. It isn't about the glory of living in San Fran but the sentimental-ness of it all. Cool for you that could leave your hometown but not everyone is like you and I do believe she and other San Fran natives should get some type of aid. For gods sake she only asked for help with her child's daycare while she WORKS.

  • @youf2941
    @youf2941 4 года назад +1

    sf is really expensive like groceries can be like $3.00 for a pound of the simplest things and the houses and rent are really expensive. the minimum wage is $15.00 an hour and when the wage goes up just by a bit everything in stores start becoming more expensive.

  • @RanochVTX
    @RanochVTX 3 года назад

    To be fair the same thing applies to all major cities. Boston, NYC, LA, San Francisco. Live in the heart of the city if you can afford it, if you can't you relocate elsewhere. Boston became uber expensive for our family so we moved 2hrs away and never looked back.

  • @bballerryday
    @bballerryday 6 лет назад +268

    She's doing the most. The gas station she's going to on Mission and Sickles/Acton isn't even the cheapest. She also has avocados, which I haven't been able to afford for months and buys coffee and lunch frequently. A lot of things she's doing are plain excessive.

    • @ajrichards1190
      @ajrichards1190 6 лет назад +6

      She's a city woman. If she lived in areas outside SF (Eastbay), her lifestyle would be different.

    • @dantan1249
      @dantan1249 6 лет назад +17

      Jonathan they seem to make enough money though. They just can't afford a bigger place.

    • @ieatgremlins
      @ieatgremlins 6 лет назад +38

      Having avocados is excessive? It shouldn't be.

    • @alexkrasnic3850
      @alexkrasnic3850 6 лет назад +5

      Anyone who buys avocados regularly is dumb. They are all hype. Its just a vegetable like spinach or broccoli but about 4x the cost of other vegetables. Its not a "super" food. thats just a marketing phrase companies use to sell overpriced products. Avocados are just trending like how pomegranates were a "super" food in 07-08. Now you never hear about them. After people realize avocados are a scam, there will be another "super food"
      As for the price of that lunch she eats everyday, she can make coffee and wraps at home and have lunch for 3-4 days for that price.

    • @aerodynamicbullshark
      @aerodynamicbullshark 6 лет назад +1

      yup

  • @denisbarbosa6638
    @denisbarbosa6638 6 лет назад +212

    1. Don't live in a place you can't afford
    2. Cook and pack your own lunch
    3. Stop eating out everyday
    4. Stop having kids. Having kids when you're broke doesn't make things easier.
    There's the solution to your problems!

    • @christinat.m5384
      @christinat.m5384 6 лет назад +7

      Denis Barbosa better to have the kids when your broke, than save the money up only to realise you will never have kids of your own. Lots of people get trapped like that

    • @denisbarbosa6638
      @denisbarbosa6638 6 лет назад +14

      Christina T.M I disagree; no need to have 4 kids when you’re struggling and barely making it by. I think it’s a bigger trap rushing to have kids to not miss that beat and be stuck struggling in life with several kids. At least dedicate up to certain age, let’s say 32, to bust your behind and put yourself in a good position then start having children.

    • @christinat.m5384
      @christinat.m5384 6 лет назад +21

      Denis Barbosa dude she has two kids. Plus her partner is still with her. I hate the fact that people celebrate the fact that there grandparents could:
      1. Get married at around 18
      2. Buy a house at 20
      3. Have anywhere from 2 - 5 kids by the age of 25
      *with only the man going out to work, 1 pay-check could afford to pay for all that.
      How in today’s society do people who have children before the age of 32, be accused of not working hard. Or being told they should of waited.
      How is that the answer, when a woman’s biological clock is still the same as 200+ years ago

    • @denisbarbosa6638
      @denisbarbosa6638 6 лет назад +5

      To each his own. I never accused of women with children before 32 of not working hard. It just doesn't make sense to me when you at look at certain decisions people make yet, complain about life's difficulties when they themselves helped cause many of those difficulties they are facing. It just doesn't add up. I see many in worst scenarios than the family in this video; have more kids, make more complaints, yet continue to expand the family or, eat out everyday! Just doesn't make sense in my eyes. I try not to live beyond my means. If I cant afford a child, I won't have one. That's just me. If I'm struggling financially, you won't see me at starbucks everyday making their CEO richer while taking from my plate. I also don't understand the 3 things you mentioned. I don't believe in marriage at 18 or taking on the debt of a house at age 20 (unless you can truly afford it), and don't believe in the idea o the stay-at-home mom while the man works. The relationship I'd want to be in is one where me and my wife are both out working. Both men and women, husband and wife should be out trying to reach there full potential.

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 6 лет назад +1

      Christina T.M who cares

  • @ramseybones2635
    @ramseybones2635 3 года назад +8

    Bruh dn even Oakland these days like especially around lake merit and some parts of west Oakland crazy asf in prices

    • @FernandoGarcia-nz9el
      @FernandoGarcia-nz9el 3 года назад +1

      yes but totally worth it, so beautiful and fun in SF and Oakland!!