My mom told me my daughter marriage can bring you joy if you get the right person and it can also be your worst nightmare with the wrong person. Love doesn't keep marriage only 3 things . 1.knowledge 2, understanding 3. Wisdom. She continued, "Have enough time to know your partner, his/her vision , from background check to where he/she is involve both parents let them know . That is knowledge. Then understand your partner from the perspective of that knowledge and finally use the wisdom to solve your issues...
I don't support cheating but this girl has a point,she is not happy in this marriage na hizi maculture nakuongea lugha hauelewi.jitoe mamii lakini pia ata huyo ex wachana naye start a fresh
All i will advise a lady,is respect your guy,that guy you are cheating with will only love you ukiwa kwako bt hile day utajaribu kutoka kwako you will see the true colors of him😂😂😂
Nimekuja kusikia kuhusu this channel recently. Ilijengekaga stereotype kwamba wanaume wameshindikana lakin ninayoyaona humu...aki its crazy. Ladies tuko na vibe hatareee
That is a true daughter of Mumbi from her behaviour if you know you know. My advice to my Luhya brother kindly do a DNA for those children before you raise other men children.
This guy is so young,kikuyu' s don't have culture,you can't choose where to be born,I married a kikuyu' for 9years and we were blessed with two kids,plus I paid dowry,ile tyme this woman got a job,kiriniramba,I'll never beg for love,I moved out but am peaceful,just working towards rebuilding that love I had for my kids
She cheated!!!!! Would you want your man to discuss your weaknesses with his EX as they remind each other about their beautiful past?!?! Maybe your version of cheating is having a physical affair. She CHEATED AND STEVO IS EXTREMELY FAIR!!!!
Cynthia when dating and committing to marriage she didn’t know the tribe and differences in cultures? The lady is trying to justifying her cheating but it’s not right
Reminder to yesterday's question:dear women do you think when you disrespect someones son and toy with his emotions God will give you a son and expect his woman to treat him better?
Of course not.This is something they don't think about.i have raised such a question before and the answer I got still baffles me.i was told that each will bear his or her own sin and sins cannot be passed on .Am a firm believer in sins of the father/ mother to the next generation.They can deny but in the end we all reap what we sow.
@@Esyvany it's like someone is exploiting me walai. This show has given me sleepless nights by seeing what's going on in this world. Look at how that mama left the guy just like that. Aki Dunia!!!¡
21:22 "Kuna kitu ATA wewe labda unaficha. hakuna vile inawezakuwa eti hakuna kitu..." I knew there and then that she was the one cheating. Her choice of words are so obvious. Psychology teaches one to hone their listening skills. You learn to listen with focus on the person speaking, taking them in, absorbing what you're hearing and being attentive in your bid to understand them fully!
Hiyo ya kukunywa na kukula mbele ya coffin ⚰️ na kukunywa ni culture gani surely....culture zingne weeh hata mimi sioni kama ningerudi hiyo boma ama village...naenda kuenda
He didn't look too defensive so this guy is cheating. On other hand she has quite some reasoning..kukunywa chai infront of a coffin pia mimi I'd bail that culture 😂
Comrades fun let's me educate you There is a new Truck called FH Filisha husband Made in some parts in Nyeri and some parts of Kikuyu land 😂😂😂😂 Am not tribal but weuh 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@karenwambu9818 Aki honestly speaking 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and if don't get the lesson,they teach you ,if you don't get it they leave you with marking submissions like that guy
This was over long time ago " wacha tu ni kae na elvis" OK then let elvis take care of you & the kids. There's no way you can go live with elvis then you expect me to take care of you the kids & your man. Ukichukua Ngombe unachukua pia na kamba yake. Let's wait & see if elvis will accept you with your kids. Bro umekuwa na bibi ya elvis fanya DNA unaweza pata pia watoto ni wa elvis. BMS follow up & get elvis aruke mtu futi kumi.
We all agree that this lady has cheated, but she has raised very important issues..Cultural beliefs and language barrier. Which should be taken into consideration while choosing a life partner
Wacha iwarambe if u tell them to marry their tribes they don’t hear eti sijui love does not know tribe now see the wasted years. Maybe even those kids sio wake let him do DNA asap!!!
Huyu dem alianza kujitetea kitambo alipojua kimemramba ju boy Ako na simu mpya... Kama hutaki mtu mwambie hii kukaa na mtu ukimpima ndio maana watu ukasirika wanauliwa ju ya ujinga kama huyu dem fala
Steve is such a biased dude "mbona usilipe fees"??? What kind of question is that?????🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ .. atleast the lady is saying she will take care of food which actually more expensive than fee...
@@kingcyrus7899 dude.... seriously...atleast ata kama hukusoma saaaana jaribu kufikiria... how often do you pay for school fees and how much is it????kwani the kids are going to brook House?????how often will the kids be eating,?every 3 months?????use your little brain 🧠🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
One thing the cheater is always right about is the fact that he or she knows the other party is good ,calm,caring,provides.Good dont get attention. Redflag number 1,laughter may be the best medicine but it's a way of masking the truth.
Watu si muache kucheza na love ak uyo ex akirudiwa atafeel poa alafu dame kitakuramba tymx 10 sasa coz anajua est west north south yeye tu diye kusema kwa life yako😂😂😂ak ningekuwa apo nione vile unapimiwa hewa umecheat round iii sasa wewe diye utacheatiwa
My mom told me my daughter marriage can bring you joy if you get the right person and it can also be your worst nightmare with the wrong person. Love doesn't keep marriage only 3 things . 1.knowledge
2, understanding
3. Wisdom.
She continued, "Have enough time to know your partner, his/her vision , from background check to where he/she is involve both parents let them know . That is knowledge.
Then understand your partner from the perspective of that knowledge and finally use the wisdom to solve your issues...
Thankuu cute I think hii I wll forward to my son in college to take note coz weeh it's dilleming
Wisdom detected
Wisdom detected this has changed my mind also
Sasa hii ni wisdom, umenena Kam 'mhenga'. I'm saving this somewhere for my children.
Nikama nimekua nikikutafuta
Woie 😥 this guy is so humble may his parents be blessed for rising such an amazing Son don't worry bro all will be well ok❤
Wanawake si mpunguze usherati plz it's too much ... am a lady but mnatuaibisha... i will remain royal to.my husband forever
Me too
Mimi huyu wangu nakufa tu nae ata kama Ako poor 😊😊I will never cheat
Me too 😢😢
Hahaha tumeskia❤
Sister ako?
I don't support cheating but this girl has a point,she is not happy in this marriage na hizi maculture nakuongea lugha hauelewi.jitoe mamii lakini pia ata huyo ex wachana naye start a fresh
All i will advise a lady,is respect your guy,that guy you are cheating with will only love you ukiwa kwako bt hile day utajaribu kutoka kwako you will see the true colors of him😂😂😂
I wish she reads this kwanza na watoi 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢kitamramba
The ladies of today are too educated to listen to any word(s) of wisdom.
Wise words from a wise man
Nimekuja kusikia kuhusu this channel recently. Ilijengekaga stereotype kwamba wanaume wameshindikana lakin ninayoyaona humu...aki its crazy. Ladies tuko na vibe hatareee
Kuna ka ukweli kwa huyu dem sometimes kuongea kitu mtu haski n uchungu
Now she has a language barrier after she concurred the money barrier?
Hakuna ukweli hapo no excuse fake za ujinga
If you have an interest , learning a new language is very easy..six years is a lot to learn other languages
😂😂😂l like the way the lady catch catch comrades flavor she has fallen to him😂😂
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For him not to
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That is a true daughter of Mumbi from her behaviour if you know you know. My advice to my Luhya brother kindly do a DNA for those children before you raise other men children.
Yes Miriam
This guy is so young,kikuyu' s don't have culture,you can't choose where to be born,I married a kikuyu' for 9years and we were blessed with two kids,plus I paid dowry,ile tyme this woman got a job,kiriniramba,I'll never beg for love,I moved out but am peaceful,just working towards rebuilding that love I had for my kids
Pole aki
Gíkúyú have a strong culture, only a few defiant Kikuyu ladies get married outside like this one alafu kinawaramba anaanza kusema heri culture Yao.
She didn't cheat though.... She was venting about culture shock... Na yeye BMS taking sides instead of being unbias😒
She cheated!!!!! Would you want your man to discuss your weaknesses with his EX as they remind each other about their beautiful past?!?! Maybe your version of cheating is having a physical affair. She CHEATED AND STEVO IS EXTREMELY FAIR!!!!
Cynthia when dating and committing to marriage she didn’t know the tribe and differences in cultures? The lady is trying to justifying her cheating but it’s not right
Reminder to yesterday's question:dear women do you think when you disrespect someones son and toy with his emotions God will give you a son and expect his woman to treat him better?
This is a full sermon to think of
Of course not.This is something they don't think about.i have raised such a question before and the answer I got still baffles me.i was told that each will bear his or her own sin and sins cannot be passed on .Am a firm believer in sins of the father/ mother to the next generation.They can deny but in the end we all reap what we sow.
Enyewe beauty depends on how many beers you've had😂😂
Beauty is in the eyes of the beer holder
You reap what you sow, Nowadays pple pretend to love you so that they benefit frm you financially.
You just made me feel guilty and also feel like I'm in that situation😂😂😂😂😂
How@@nyolod
@@Esyvany it's like someone is exploiting me walai. This show has given me sleepless nights by seeing what's going on in this world. Look at how that mama left the guy just like that. Aki Dunia!!!¡
Very true 😢
Very absolutely true
How you Conner your clients is outstanding BMS I admire your work
Stevo hivyo unashikwa wueh😂😂😂😂❤
Mapenzi ya kweli na ya uwongo hujulikana wazi wakati wa shida ee (Moreno Batamba).itajulikana.
Kwani beautiful ilichange meaning stivo 🤣🤣siyuko vile beautiful but huyu aai eti beautiful how naw
😅😅😅😅😅,Urembo ni tricky sana
Stevo is one of the most humble, respectful, down to earth guy that I know.
Hapo there's no love.....huyo ni bure kabisaa bro. Run for your life....ati hiyo lugha yenu is hard for her.
Let her go , don't bother about her.
This year aky ladies nn mbya,me hapa na wish npate mtu juu nko loyal but vile kunaenda Wacha nfanye kazi kwanza team strong tukisonga
This year?😅😅😂😂😂😂
hadi unaitwa fala😂😂😂😂 painful lakini
Nimekwama hapo pa beauty 😊😊or am I blind
😂😂huko peke yko 😅ii ndo comment nlwa natafuta
Color ndo wanaita urembo😂🤣
Nashangaa pia beauty ikoapi hapa
Nashangaa pia
Waah ningezaliwa mwanaume hawa ingekua story stories
Penye tumefika unaeza kua umetulia kwa nyumba unawatch news uone Bibi yako kwa TV eti amepigwa na bwanake
Walai very painful n shameful juu naye mwingine ajulie tu hapo bwanake ana mpenzi ameolewa
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Enyewe huu madam anaongea ukweli somehow....kwanza mm luhya ilinichida
Am supporting this girl's reasoning
21:22 "Kuna kitu ATA wewe labda unaficha. hakuna vile inawezakuwa eti hakuna kitu..."
I knew there and then that she was the one cheating. Her choice of words are so obvious. Psychology teaches one to hone their listening skills. You learn to listen with focus on the person speaking, taking them in, absorbing what you're hearing and being attentive in your bid to understand them fully!
Culture shock, the lady has some sense
Uko na caption za maajabu skuizi😂
Mtu shingo refu mkonde😂😂
Stevo usishikashikwe ivo tena aki am trying not to cry😂😂😂😂😂😂anyway uyu dame kitamramba where will you get a humbled guy like this Gosh
Ati she looks genuine...................🤑🤑
Unfortunately, she's right. Culture ukiona haziendanishi, wachana na mtu
Hiyo ya kukunywa na kukula mbele ya coffin ⚰️ na kukunywa ni culture gani surely....culture zingne weeh hata mimi sioni kama ningerudi hiyo boma ama village...naenda kuenda
Kuna vile na understand huyu dame😂😂😂😂 rusheni mawe
Hkna cha kuoa tribe yako huyu dem is just jastifying her cheating thing......
the way this lady is talking about co-parenting just live without fear aki boychild
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Men are in for love, it is business for women; pesa ikiisha, amejitoa.
Kikuyu sio wa kuolewa
MAMA IS SOUNDING KUWA NA KA UKWELI FLANI.....
Kwani ni vibaya kukula unga ya kisiagi.
Stevo vile wewe huzubaa si simu itajilock mbio😅😅😅
Across the world, we have biological fathers and social fathers.
So social fathers are becoming more than expected. 💔💔
Mkataze kugeuka tafadhali😂😂😂
Relationship nowadays is investment not love anymore 😢😢😢😢😮
It’s friendship with benefits 😢
Wait ✋️ murisema beauty ni nn tena coz weeeeh😢😮
Most likely ata hao sio watoto wake
Beauty lies in the hands of the beer holder 😂😂😂
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🙅🙅🙅🙅
as for me I understand this lady very well some cultures are scary no matter how much you pretend to accommodate them
Hatuko na yeye!!
Stevo but heri yeye 10 times😂😂😂
This woman will regreat badly na itakua too late 😢jamaa achukue watoto wake dame atembeze tu
Huyu dem ata nguo😂😂😂😂
Nipewe subscription kinapoenda kumramba😂
Wueh mapenzi shikamoo
It’s the kushema for me 😂
He didn't look too defensive so this guy is cheating. On other hand she has quite some reasoning..kukunywa chai infront of a coffin pia mimi I'd bail that culture 😂
Comrades fun let's me educate you
There is a new Truck called FH
Filisha husband
Made in some parts in Nyeri and some parts of Kikuyu land
😂😂😂😂 Am not tribal but weuh 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@karenwambu9818 Aki honestly speaking 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and if don't get the lesson,they teach you ,if you don't get it they leave you with marking submissions like that guy
This was over long time ago " wacha tu ni kae na elvis" OK then let elvis take care of you & the kids. There's no way you can go live with elvis then you expect me to take care of you the kids & your man. Ukichukua Ngombe unachukua pia na kamba yake. Let's wait & see if elvis will accept you with your kids. Bro umekuwa na bibi ya elvis fanya DNA unaweza pata pia watoto ni wa elvis. BMS follow up & get elvis aruke mtu futi kumi.
I pray God bless mu son to b a good husband and get a good wife
huyu boyz namjua vizuri kumbe kilimramba boychild tunaumia sana 6yrs into waste ivo
Very painful kuitwa fala then you stand there to listen to her. Bro can you walk away
Flat tire pia imerudi soko.😂😂
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Wacha nikae na kienyenji wangu😊
Miriam just took it from Njeri!
She cheated thinking he was also cheating.....she can't believe he's clean......huyu kimemramba
Nowadays cheating in marriages has fully overtaken loyal couples to be precise😅😅😅
People are attempting all questions
@@martinkaindi4988 hahaaa tough in deed
Nowadays cheating in marriage is like promises of ruto 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Boy child it's high time wasee wajimezoo
In this particular situation DNA ni muhimu sana my heart goes out to all kids being raised by generation genzy.
Hana akili vile hana haga
Shenzi sana akikuoa haukuwa unajua kuna language barrier ndoa siku hizi ni situationship bora u can pay bills
Its like loyalty does not appear in kenyan's marriages 🧬😢😢😢
The problem is we don't understand the marriage dynamics ...premarital classes do help
And dating and relationships Sasa watu wako busy Wana cheat halafu Ile ya lesbian wife tall short hair mi nilikufa 😂😂😂😂Steve pooo
Bro DNA ya watoi muhimu, if the children are genuinely yours she'd put an effort to try cope with this culture.
We all agree that this lady has cheated, but she has raised very important issues..Cultural beliefs and language barrier. Which should be taken into consideration while choosing a life partner
Very true
Its not a must she is just trying to fix things....many people are here married wth different tribes let that not he an excuse
Ungeambiwa okuyu will never stay with any other than themselves ungekasirika
Wacha iwarambe if u tell them to marry their tribes they don’t hear eti sijui love does not know tribe now see the wasted years. Maybe even those kids sio wake let him do DNA asap!!!
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I have always said, Marry your own!!! Marry your tribe!!! Western men, Luo men, Kisii men marry your own women!! It does not end well!!
Ikiwezekana just marry your tribe
Wacha nikae na elvis waaa
Huyu dem alianza kujitetea kitambo alipojua kimemramba ju boy Ako na simu mpya... Kama hutaki mtu mwambie hii kukaa na mtu ukimpima ndio maana watu ukasirika wanauliwa ju ya ujinga kama huyu dem fala
The more l watch the more the feelings to love die😂
Huyu mama anashiksshika stevo mbona 🤣🤣😂
Ni dem uyu si mama😂😂
@@joashsoita2545 Sawa kababa
If you truly love someone, you would really want to learn their language.
I agree
Hata Watoto Si Wako !
BMS uko na mdomo😂' eti mimi si Elvo mexplainie😂, ' mimi nikucheat na wewe
Steve is such a biased dude "mbona usilipe fees"??? What kind of question is that?????🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ .. atleast the lady is saying she will take care of food which actually more expensive than fee...
Unasema Nini wewe? Unajielewa? How can you compare buying food na kulipa fee?
@@kingcyrus7899 dude.... seriously...atleast ata kama hukusoma saaaana jaribu kufikiria... how often do you pay for school fees and how much is it????kwani the kids are going to brook House?????how often will the kids be eating,?every 3 months?????use your little brain 🧠🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@anniew4357umeshinda mkuu
Uyo boyz alkua anajua kuna santization,,,,,,,coz hana pressure lkn mapenzi ww
How men still remain there to be explained by a woman why she cheated. I don't have that time and patience, walk away without a word
😂😂😂the gaslighting 😢
Alafu mbona madem tunapenda toxic men😂
Alafu tukiuliwa tunalalamika vile femicide imezidi😂
Ladies ...wee mugumo bado iko i need to kuzunguka nichange cos ile aibu iko too much
Mmi nkaambiwa Mapenz n kama Bahari,ukishazama ndo basi umepotea,kumbe mwenzangu alikuwa na thamani badala kuzama me kwangu nikaelea😒
Waluhya where did we go wrong surely
Eeh hapo kwa lugha na culture wueeeh. Ndo maana me nilitoka Keroka mbio 😂😂 sahii niko na wa kwetu 😅
If that the case, olewa na mwenye mnaelewana lugha
Vile bigman ameshtuka kuskia ati bado people are getting married 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
One thing the cheater is always right about is the fact that he or she knows the other party is good ,calm,caring,provides.Good dont get attention.
Redflag number 1,laughter may be the best medicine but it's a way of masking the truth.
Mwanaume fala lazima ubebwe ufala simple
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Mbona unashika shika steve babygal wewe 😂😂😂!!!!
Jamaa wa maaari mari ako wapi
I understand you girl 😢 when you marry from different tribe atleast ongeanga lugha ya taifa bana 😅😅😅
Watu si muache kucheza na love ak uyo ex akirudiwa atafeel poa alafu dame kitakuramba tymx 10 sasa coz anajua est west north south yeye tu diye kusema kwa life yako😂😂😂ak ningekuwa apo nione vile unapimiwa hewa umecheat round iii sasa wewe diye utacheatiwa