Why I'm in a Wheelchair
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My one is "My legs only work on Mars because I'm an alien." I use to also say "a wheelchair makes good decoration."haha!
Gemma L I would tell little kids I didn’t go outside as much as I should and they don’t wanna end up like me
Gemma L That's amazing and so cool
@Ray Parker Thanks hahaha!
@@LolitaMilena LMBO, so funny and I hope it gets kids to get away from there electronic devices and go play!! Lol
@@LolitaMilena that’s kinda funny. I’ll use that for my kids when they won’t get off of RUclips lol
Omg.
Looking like a Sandra Bullock and Halle Berry mix.
Two of the nicest and prettiest actors in Hollywood.
I am so sorry you were abused. You deserve happiness!
Wow, makes me sad that a person would hurt a child like that. You have an amazing spirit to let it go like that. Kudos to you young lady.
I had to laugh when you said that you use to tell people that you fell out of an airplane without a parachute because that was that first one that came to mind... well, I little more robust "I use to be a spy for a foreign government and when I decided to defect, I jumped from a plane without a parachute"
I am glad you have owned your disability and share your story. I to am disabled, but not in a wheelchair. I grew up with legg calve perthes disease. Had 14 surgeries on my hip including total hip replacements. I was bullied being in a wheelchair for 2 years. Kids and even grown ass adults can be brutal. We live the hand given to us and you are doing great. Keep on keepin on darlin.
Wow.. I watch ur tiktok vids all the time.. Would never expect that 😳.. Sorry to hear it.. all the loves to you 💖💖💖
You have the most genuine funny vibe of all the wheelchair users I've ever known about, myself included, and people think I'm hilarious. Now I'm torn between keeping you a secret from them until I step up my game, and telling them all about you so I'd REALLY have to step up my game. You're awesome, and so much of what you say is also how I feel about things, it's like you're reading my mind! Best wishes from your newest Hungarian subscriber!
I'm a woman that can confidently say you are beautiful inside and out! You rock that wheelchair! You have to have haters so you'll cherish your fans more. Keep being yourself and never lose who you are!
I followed you from tic toc... you are such a beautiful girl! I wondered what happened to you, I am pretty much in a wheelchair also. But I am at the end spectrum of life. You are so young, I wish you the best!!! You have a great outlook I hope that you stay happy & beeautiful.
Darklady429 same
Appreciate you taking the honesty, bravery, and time to share this with all of us. You're a star.
So sorry that you had gone through this horrific experience as a child. Your positivity and beautiful sense of humor here and on TikTok is loved. Thank you
I think we all have our stories of what we used to tell people were the reason for us being in a wheelchair. I have to say sometimes I found it very funny as to what people would actually believe. I admire your honesty and bravery in coming out and talking about your child abuse when you were so young. But I’m so happy to see how well adjusted, happy and confident you are now. Hugs and kisses Jessica
Im 17 years old and I'm in a weelchair too and have been since i was 8 but it is what it is and i love finding new ways to do things in every day life... i love you and your videos.. keep doing you girl!💖😎😃
Sending nothing but love and encouragement to you
Your voice is so soothing and you’re so easy to watch. You’re also absolutely stunning. And honestly, you seem like the sweetest person in the world. I’m happy you seem to have no “what if’s” about the past. Just keep being positive looking forward -Natalie❤️❤️❤️ (I subbed)
Natalie Harrison-Lim awe thank you so much for your sweet words
Regal Sisters no need to thank me. You deserve to be told that. 💕
....thanx!! I follow u on tic tok, I wouldn't have ever asked such a personal question, but glad to see that you're strong enough to share!!
I ran into you in TikTok. I followed you for a while. I have enjoyed your bits. I spent hours, literally, attempting to find a way to ask you about your condition. I surfed your tiktok account looking for a video that would explain. I figured you would get so many questions, that you would have already answered most of them. I found a tiktok that pointed me to this video.
I admire what you are doing. Not because of your life story, but because of your creativity, art, intelligence, wit, drive, realism, verbal and histrionic skills, and productivity!!! My goodness you are a content making machine! Congratulations.
Anyway, I have enjoyed your mind a lot, and I really hope that some day we will meet in person.
Funny to say, but sometimes I just feel like "I love you". Be well.
I’ve always enjoyed you’re positive attitude and resilience that you display on Tik Tok . I’m glad I was able to hear your story on YT. The last 3 years have been really hard for me and apparently your first 3 years seemed to have been your hardest , but now you’re A SHINING STAR!
From watching you on Tiktok and now on RUclips you are an amazing and beautiful woman. Keep it up the great work that you are doing and you have an amazing personality 😉 😃❤️
Hey I'm in the same boat regarding not knowing anything different I was paralyzed when I was 13 months old. I'm a c3-4 incomplete quad from transverse myelitis. Your personality is awesome! You have an amazing smile too!
I think you are truly a gift to the world. You've over come obstacles that would have shattered most individuals. You're truly an inspiration to everyone! I think you should go on and try some acting, (perhaps write a play, or v en better a screen play) you are a beautiful young woman who has a very bright future ahead of her with absolutely no limits - it's all mind over matter and you've already conquered that! Can't wait to see you on the "silver screen".
Much respect to you for being such a strong lady! I found you on TIKTOK of all places. Your “push up” looking video was very inspiring. I know I don’t have to say it, but don’t stop being you! Your awesome! ✌️
You are an inspiration and you shows that almost anything is possible.....
You’re definitely an inspirational individual. I first saw you on tik tok and enjoyed your quirky charisma. Keep doing what you’re doing girl! You’re beautiful inside and out 👍🏽
Thanks for sharing. I love that you’re so positive! A role model for everyone, especially younger girls!
I first saw you in your TikTok vids. I was impressed with your performance skills. I know that you have faced an uphill battle to express yourself artistically since people in wheelchairs are not perceived as lead characters. I see you as a pioneer, someone that has to fight stereotypes and established perceptions to reach center stage. Your fight will be long, and there will be many setbacks for every victory. I encourage you to persist, and do not let the setbacks turn you bitter, cynical, or jaded. Your freshness, good cheer, and lightheartedness are keys to your performance skills. I would love to see you in a sitcom. It would be a MAJOR victory for many similarly situated if you can break through the societal barriers that hinder artists like yourself from taking center stage. Perhaps you may have to create the very medium for success.
I have a raspy, quiet voice as a result of trauma as an infant and I HEAR you on the same questions from everyone lol. Sometimes it's easier and certainly quicker to just go with a "yes" when someone says, "ohhhmygawwwd you sound terrible! You poor thing, do you have a cold??" 🙄😂😂 Although, during this 'Rona mess it's probably not the best idea... Also, subbed.
It's also easier than letting some 35 year old know they embarrassed themselves when they ask if I swallowed a 🐸 or something smart... Sidenote: I can't prank call anyone 🙄
Omg that is sickening! I know you don’t remember it at all, but I can only imagine what you went through as a two yr old going through that. This is y I’m so protective over my babies, because of monsters like that man. Idk what I would do if someone hurt my daughter, who’s 2 yrs old right now. It’s good (although not good at all) that it happened while you were so young and you don’t remember any of it. But anyway, saw your videos on TikTok and thought you were sooooooo classically beautiful, was just curious about your story which led me to your RUclips. Keep up the good work, your TikTok comedy videos are so funny 😂 🥰😘
Much love !!!
Omg... But you are the best of the best no matter what!! Keep it up girl!!
nelson tinoco much love
In one of you tic toc videos I wrote this:your super duper pretty way to pretty to be in a wheelchair!” I hope you like your new family and just forget the bad cruel past!
Come across you on TikTok, now a fan of you on here. You're such an awesome chick, you're one of many who have helped keep me positive after my accident. 🤗
Thank you for sharing. I felt inspired to share my disability stories which I’ve always felt scared to do. Your video are giving me a sense of courage to do so. Thank you. Thank you.
Im sorry to hear this but Im so glad your not letting this affect your life negatively. Glad your still out there doing your thing!
You rock, and thanks for sharing. Inspiring to see your disposition on the subject. I find myself wishing terrible things to happen to that first adoptive father. You're probably a better person than I am. 😊
Please try to keep positive thoughts. Wishing ill will to another living creature is never the answer:)
Hi found you first on Tiktok and then found you on here.
Just want to say I love your videos you're a very talented young lady . And you're an inspiration to a lot of people I hope you know. I'm an author that writes fantasy books mainly about like fairies and dragons and unicorns and elves and I'm trying to put like someone you know a fairy or something in a paraplegic but in that johndra thing I'm trying to figure out how to do it if you have any ideas either fairy or elf cuz I already have a death fairy who does sign language in my book The Murry Rose and the Forbidden Rose bi CH Fortenberry but I would like to put more. I like your videos on here and on Tik Tok
Carla Fortenberry same I am from her tiktok too
Lots of love to you, major fan of your tiktok videos especially your Regina from Once Upon a Time
I Saw you on TikTok and I had to know more about you !! You are such a strong beautiful woman ...keep the videos coming!!
Sorry for what you go through and went through. You are a beautiful lady.
I'm glad I found you!! I'm really a fan and will continue following up your story. I came here from Tik Tok BTW 😄
You're so beautiful and I love your attitude about life and how happy you are. Good for you!!
I love how positive you are about being in the wheel chair. You don't let it stop you. If you don't mind me asking, I know every spinal injury affects different parts of the body, did your injury just affect your legs or did it affect some organ function as well. I hope I'm not being rude by asking.
It's alright. My legs kind of developed their own minds. They spasm at times, but other than that I'm as normal as one weirdo like me can be
@@LolitaMilena I do remember you saying in one of your videos that you've kicked your mom in the chin I think it was. You're an inspiration for anyone with a handicap. I love your positive attitude.
Hey! I just watched a few of your RUclips videos. Your attitude is amazing, maybe outlook is a better word. You reminded me of Muniba Mazari. With your personality you could be a motivational speaker! You’re on an amazing path and probably have more joy in your life than most people.
I found your channel through tiktok and this is so amazing how you can tell your story and this inspires me to do something like this because im also in a wheelchair and i just want to talk about it so much and kind of don't know how to talk about that sort of thing...😁
A wheelchair is a great fashion accessory!
You are beautiful and amazing. Don’t change for anyone and don’t let anyone get under your skin.
I'm adopted too, so I'm sorry your first family didnt go well. Keep kicking ass!
My son is in a wheelchair. And people ask me does he miss walking. I’m like idk he hasn’t walked since 7 he will be 13 in feb and even before then walking was difficult. My son has duchenne muscular dystrophy. But now you can’t really miss something that your use to not having.
Just clicked subscribe.
Stay strong sister. You are an inspiration to a lot of us. God bless.
You seem like a really nice genuine person. 👌
Fuel to Blaze ❤️❤️❤️❤️
So much support I love your tiktok posts!!! Keep it up! ❤️❤️
Questions like that are exactly why they need to add lessons about disabilities etc to the school curriculum, If kids were taught at an early age about these things they wouldnt come out with stupid questions when theyre older and supposedly more mature.
I remember back in the 80's when i was at school they got a few wheelchairs and had able bodied kids use them for the day, it was a good thing to me a a wheelchair user myself, If they could do that 30 years ago, why cant they now.
Just a thought: I've found that most people who ask me why are looking for a was to assume it won't happen to them. If you were born that way, they're safe. If you were riding a horse, they're safe as long as they stay away from horses. I was driving 35 with a seatbelt on and THAT scares people. They just don't want to think bad things can really happen to them. And, of course, if you're just lazy then it's just not so bad. My $0.02.
Wow. That was a really sweet way of answering that question. You are beautiful in every way.
I can’t believe people actually had the nerve to say those things to you. Times like that I’d like to hurl a fireball at them lol
Jackson Weaver ooomf relate
Sadly it doesn't surprise me much. I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder this past January. I had a nasty reaction where my white blood cells were attacking my red so most of my skin looked like it was going to bleed out through my pores. After the hospital doctors figured it out, I had to take tons of steroids since I'd developed pneumonia too. The steroids make you gain weight rapidly and people didn't seem to mind pointing it out to me. I'm not sure if it's a lack of common sense or a lack of manners but I was hearing about it at least once a day on the days when I would be able to go out. I like Melina's approach. Just make up whatever you want to. If I have to have a backstory, I'd rather it be multiple choice. Lol
Ohh the stretch Armstrong joke makes sense now. I feel so slow
.32 mark I can stop smiling and watching this part!!!! Soooooo cute and funny
awesome video. Its nice to meet someone who had a SCI when they were really young. I was 9. I have a quick question for you. , when you dream. do you dream your disabled? In my dreams Im hardly ever in my wheelchair, Im always walking around. I can remember what it feels like to walk and run. I feel like I could get up and walk right now, but my body stops me!!!! I have a whole video on "what it feels like to be paralysed." and "why do I never dream Im disabled." Loads of people commented that they don't dream they have a disability in their dreams. Would love to know your thoughts.
Hi from Gem
Wheelsnoheels - Gem Hubbard hmmm great question. When I Dream it’s usually 1st person or I’m not even me in my dreams. It’s weird to explain😂 but I don’t usually see any wheelchairs whether for me or others I play in them
I’m here from tiktok I appreciate you queen, a great short video that let me know you 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️
I used to say silly stuff like "oh you know, the sharks.. on mount everest" but now I just stare at them uncomfortably until they learn something or leave LOL
Yes I will sometimes stare at them in disgust if they stare at me in the same manner to start with
Unfortunately we all get judged time to time for being different. This is one of the reasons why I moved way out to the Texas where is there are less people to deal with. I categorize it as ignorance. I called them the "poor little lost souls."
Would you allow me to say this: You are so amazing. You are a truly stunning beauty. You are perfect from your head to your toes.
Chair or no chair, will never have a great effect on your beauty. What I think makes you shine, is your good heart and your personable character.
Thank you for being such an amazing woman👍
I think you a such a beautiful person inside and out. I just live watching your videos.
Thanks for sharing. The things that COULD be our weakness CAN become our strength.
Bless your brave heart Lolita!♥️♥️♥️ imma big fan👍
I just got on Tic Tok the other day and one of your videos came up. I'm not sure which struck me first, your table or your beauty. I'm not being a perv when I say you're stunningly beautiful. I'm not hitting on you. I'm old enough to be your grandfather. Do you act? Your presentation is amazing. I love your attitude and zeal.
Love watching your videos. Your so talented. One day soon we will see you in the movies.
I've seen your Tik Tok videos. You are too energetic for your cuteness to get out of gym.
Oh wow what a touching story! Which vertebrae in your spine is it that is broken? Do you have complete SCI injury?
You can always answer
"The reason I'm this way is because of 'nunya'
None ya business " 😉
Thanks for sharing, even though you didn't have too some people are really rude and ignorant on here and Tiktok, you are very lovely and Beautiful and I love your tiktoks. Yes I'm a new subscriber as of today on RUclips but I've been watching your videos on Tiktok for awhile. Hope your having a great day.
Sorry to hear that.
This has nothing to do with the video but you are very, very beautiful.
Hey sweetie pie! Well put together video (as usual). I wonder if putting a link to this video in all of your social media postings would stop people from asking? (Or at least cut down on the number) 🤔
Just wondering 😉 ☮️
(Btw, just to give you an idea of your broad-based demographic: I'm a 44 year-old married mother of 2 teenagers) and I luv ya lots kiddo 😍 Keep up the great work 👍 soon you'll be a big star! 🌠
Thank you so much for your love and support Sara. Sending love back to you and your family
Im also in a wheelchair
You’re amazing and so beautiful! You rock! Keep up the awesome tiktok vids!
You should make cards. Hand them out whenever you get asked his question, then silently roll away.
Well...the wheelchair thing is irrelevant. You are beautiful, funny and talented! (and I first saw you on Tik Tok)
I'm in wc, used the fell out of airplane line before. Lol?
You honestly are amazing.
Im also in a wheelchair and used the shark attack story too 😂
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Thank you for sharing your story...
Sorry if this is offensive in any way but if your in a wheelchair can you swim or does it depend on why someone is in a wheelchair? I'm not sure (feel free to ignore this if it is offensive in any way I apologize)
Yes I can swim:)
I have spina bifida and im also in a wheelchair
I have Spina bifida and am also in a wheelchair. I found you on tik tok and I love you 💕
Thank you so much for being a part of my starling family:)
Does your wheel chair come with drift stick or nos 😀😀 just a joke your awesome
Mine was I was a superhero and I have a disguise lol
Your book is amazing
Ray Parker thank youuu
Thank you for telling us
Now I know why your in a chair 😪 wow. What an amazing person you are much love ❤
So strong really pretty keep up da videos ❤️
Love your hair 😍😍
I was wondering... now I know.
Love watching your videos on kik! Always entertaining
I usually tell people it's because I played video games and one day I couldn't get off the couch
That's actually pretty funny
Tiktok brought me here. I can finally move on with my life. You have no idea what its like to have have the obstacles of not knowing why that taleted, beautiful, funny, sometimes quirky, breath of fresh air is in a wheelchair. Was it a shark? Did she date mike Tyson? Is she faking it? So many questions. My life came to a halt. That is until i saw your tiktok! I immediately rushed over (subscribed of course) and watched the whole thing. Thank you for this. I started showering again, ill be going back to work tomorrow and now am also fully comfortable with returning back to school in the fall! I cant thank you enough! I know I speak for all of your fans when I say Thank you for allowing us to return to our lives and be productive citzens of this great society. Fuck Trump you're MAGA one post at a time.❤
Can u show how u transfer?
I was paralyzed at 13 months old
First of all... thank you for sharing a little insight into you. We all wonder things about the people we see going passed us each day... but I feel it’s bad manners to ask why some people are so fat??? They get upset for some reason. 🤣🤣
I am in Love with your smile 😊 just love it 😍