This is one of the best interviews Promise, you really did put your heart into this. the part you advised her to realize that she will never stop worrying about her kids, i got that well and i hope she did too. single Mommies, you are not what happened to you, you deserve all the love and care and support a great man can provide. don't over-plan your lives, God is for that, He will take care of you and your kids.... don't let your good man pass you by whilst you worrying about kids. im a single Mom and one day i will be just single if i forsake myself for my kids, they didn't ask me to forget my life, they want a happy mommy in every way possible. those kids will grow and have their lives to live, mommy might be left resentful that she wasted her life worrying about them and then she will want to control the kids-adult lives.....trouble. there is still hope, Thank you Promise, Thank you Mandy for heling us with your story....KUZOLUNGA!🥰
a 100% I agree however for as long as she continues to protect that cheating husband of hers, that guy will never take responsibility and Promise will also continue to see other women as self inflated exactly how " without saying a lot of words she feels Amanda bought all this to herself"
One thing about men, they believe in financial abuse whether in marriages or not.. there are mothers who are fully taking care of their kid with their husbands just doing nothing and claiming to be doing everything just because they are paying bond 🙄
Have you ever just enjoyed listening to a person speak. Sometimes I need to rewind because I get lost in Amanda's voice and forget to actually listening to the contents of what she's saying 😂❤️
I feel like Mandy is doing so well as a single mom.You are actually blessed that you can afford your kids and you are emotionally Available for your kids.. To be honest most wives are single in their marriages and its even harder and painful.. most people wish they were in your shoes.
Let's normalized not having children. How about that?? There's a thing called being "childfree". There's a whole beautiful life without kids. You get peace of mind, you spend your money however you want, you sleep whenever you want, you travel however you want. You don't have to worry about another human being. You literally sleep and make money and enjoy your freedom. Let's normalize this.
Yes cc you are right we need to stop this cycles of struggle as single parents I have a son but I don’t plan to have more kids because I feel one child is enough for me I am not going to add more kids just because society says so I want to have a nice happy comfortable life for me and my son and not struggle in this life
What happens then when you're old and can't do much for yourself? You work hard for years for what? Leave inheritance for people who aren't your children??? Who will plan your funeral?? Who will inherit your hard labor on earth?? People need people. People are social beings. This is why solitary confinement (in prison) drives people crazy. We are not made to be alone. The solution is to vet well, then marry and build your life with your spouse. What we need to normalize is us women being responsible with who we allow to have access to our wombs. Let us normalize birth control. Let's normalize "marry before you carry."
When Mandy said am hoping they don't have kids I was like she's me, am a mother of 2 boys with my ex hubby. My baby daddy's father was dadbeat and he wanted so much to do better hence we only had kids in marriage, but after we divorced it's now 5 years later hes deadbeat... I really don't want that for my future daughters in law shame it's a painful journey. I really hope they don't have kids also.
@@busiluthando451 5 years later, healing is seriously a roller-coaster ride won't lie. Because as much as am healed in my own pain, but the pain from my 15 year old shame marn it's sad to watch. At least the 7 year old didn't experience him that much, but we blessed ke cause the support from his family and mine is amazing for them. Thanks❤️
You Mandy you are called to do great things in this world there's something special about you you are called to stand before multitudes and address people ❤❤may God lead you in Jesus name stay blessed
I get why she gets emotional when asked how she's doing as a single mom.. It's really a lot but we carry the lot with so much grace cz we looooveee our children ❤️❤️❤️
She is a soft person. She just went through a lot. I adopted my daughter so I don't have a baby Daddy. I can't go through even 15% of the things she went through, I will just collapse. ❤
I love how you spoke about single parents , that marriage doesn’t guarantee you that you will never be one , I love your perspective about dating and marriage . I believe you are doing exceptionally well , ❤ “I deserve love not in a form of marriage . “ love this . I love you lots ke sisi.
I really feel like the interviewer can be a bit insensitive sometimes. She literally asks the same questions that Amanda is not comfortable talking about, at least ask if she’s comfortable talking about what is happening with her child, or what happened in her past relationship instead of just asking her to tell you more about the situation.🙃
I feel like that’s what interviews with public figures are about. It’s to let us in on stuff we don’t know, otherwise they must not agree to interviews
She is doing her best guys. I feel you Mandy..... it's true forgive yourself and feel free to find love.... as single mum's we seem to feel we don't deserve love and happiness.... being a single mum is a episode or specific part of your life and it's not who you are..... That's what I learned and I'm much more content. It was a journey. though after maintenance court cases constant fighting ... I don't hate the baby daddy's anymore they are just people I used to know. The kids are my blessing, they love me always tickling me and giving lots of hugs and kisses. Everything works out eventually....
I'm with Mandy when it comes to marriage...marriage benefits men and I have always been of the thought that people should only get married when they are old so there's less chance of divorce 😂 Promise speaks about marriage like it's an achievement...
Marriage just like parenting is a thankless job for women. Young women make me so happy when I see them focusing on their careers and travelling. I hope the decentering men movement reaches Africa. Men are work and single women are happier.
@moe_ramz 💯 I agree too with what u say about parenting. I love my babies but I would advise women to have kids if that's what they really want. Don't have kids because of what society dictates
@@HlengiweDube-Bookkeeper 100, I’m a single mum of one and I have to say it’s draining. I advise young women to remain single and not have children. Women are happier when single and living their lives. I’m not anti- relationships. My observation is; women just seem much happier. They get to pour into themselves, verses constantly pouring into other people.
Mandy you are a strong mama ❤️❤️Thank you for loving your children. Today Topic is close to my heart and I can relate to. and ladies one day I want us to talk about parenting with a broken heart. "You're just like your father" can't be your go to line every time a child does something wrong. Being a single mom is hard and I pray we raise wise children and make them proud one day❤
Hmmm Primrose you were a bit too much on Mandy, there way you asked “everyday” when she was talking about her ex was a bit too much. How can you assume she always feel like she is not chosen seems like you we’re already judging and a lot more that you said, I feel like you were too harsh on her. Her facial expressions even showed that she wasn’t comfortable with some of your questions.
I love your relationship with your kids Mandy, the 3 yo and just how you are so gentle with her. I remember one vlog when you were telling her she s wrong while hugging her, warmed my heart. Even the oldest, she s so comfortable around you. You are doing great at parenting, you are a good mom.
Mandy sisi, there is nothing more you can do but love your girls and you also have been loving her so much we see it… it’s not your fault that these men decided to leave and you are doing your absolute best mamma. You going to be okay both of you, I am going to keep praying for you and your babies mamma.
I love Mandy because of relatable vulnerability. I’m not a mom and I don’t necessarily identify with her mom struggles, but definitely with how she tries to weave her journey together and heal from the parts that hurt, whilst embracing those that feel good.
Yaz unokucabangisa okwam lo cc nam ngokhululeka mhla ngakhela my daughter a house I don't trust these men around her but I'm still with the baby daddy we okay I just know we won't get married he's not loyal but trying and he's the best daddy to our daughter.
Life is super complicated. Super complicated. Only God is our judge because he understands everything that happens to us and why. I wish you well Amanda and both your children
Great interview as usual Promise. I pray she doesn't impart her pain on her children. We women are very agreeable and tend to place ourselves in situations we have never experienced just by being in proximity to people who have experienced pain. The goal should always be a nuclear family. Wishing for your kids to be childless wont help, there are kids that want to be mothers from a very young age. I pray she and every single mother finds healing. As a child who was raised in that situation and knows how painful it is to be raised by a single mother and pray daily for my father to come back into my life, i pray the cycle ends with her in Jesus' name.
Yes Amanda don't fight with the fathers because the more u fight is the more o tlo utloa bohloko and catch depression, and don't force marriage or staying in together, I walked out in my marriage 2016 😢but even I have never seen someone that I can share the same roof with, only God will make his plans and that time where by he will bless me with that man, this year on the 25th of August it will be my 8th year leaving my life with out that stress
I love Mandy's idea of marriage, especially as a mom. It makes sense to focus on raising your child, and get married for companionship at 50. At the moment, akho need. Also, the living together part is a lot! Let's not.
Yoh Mandy you are the bigger person xem...coming back to this channel after the shade that Noluthando and Promise threw at unmarried friends on that deleted video...I felt like that conversation was specifically indirectly about you. @TheMillennialMom1
Sometimes marriage makes people say the wrong things, I also don't understand why they continue speaking shit about their husband's children, irregardless of how those children came about...if you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, then get out! Continuing to stay in a marriage means you take your partner with all their flaws and baggage, including the outside children they come with... act all delulu all you want, but fact is your children and his outside ones are all your husband's children and you not acknowledging and being a mother to all of them won't change the price of bread. The day your man decides to leave you, your children will be treated like how you are currently treating his outside children... hehehe you won't believe it.
@ayandasam2269 it shouldn't matter how the children were conceived. Fact is they are your husband's children and if you were able to forgive and continue loving and being married to the man you should also be able to fully accept whatever he comes with and step up as mother to all his children. Whether you like it or not the children are here to stay.
My ex was the best father when we were together, I've always thought even if we break up he will never change, when it came to his kids. Bathong I was confident, he was those guys who wake up at night, like he was hands on. Take the kids to the park and and and. Yhooo when we broke up yhooooo, he hasn't seen his kids for 5 years. Everyone in his family speaks to them except him, his mom, sister and brother send money and call on birth dates nothing from him. So there is not formula people should stop this, we getting pregnant for bad fathers. Anyone can change
The question you asked by the therapist of why do you think makes this man treat you the same? I was once in the same setuation as you thank God I got married with 2 boys; fathers absent. With my setuation is that I have always been independent even when I lack something I would hustle to get that so this men knew that even if they are not around I will survive because I am naturally a strong person. So I think it can be the same because you sound like that strong person that will so whatever it takes to come out of the setuation. And funny enough after letting go of my independence showing my husband (boyfriend that time)not 100% though that I need you to help me I got married. So I was like ok men want to be shown that " I need you attitude" maybe. But other than that strongs my sister you arr doing great❤
I also think Mandy s expectations are a bit high, especially when she mentioned in the last interview that she wants a man who has kids and has a good relationship with her kids and the baby mommas, and and and. Yho, the calibre of men nowadays? But I also understand where she s coming from. Sometimes, you do get that exact person you want, other times not, as long as you are aware that its a 50/50 chance.
Being a single parent is hard , I so wish Black men realize one day how much they put women through . Sending money to a child monthly is not parenting , Black step up and stop being cowards .
Yoo Mandy, I feel your pain. May God bring more light in your life and just give you a break. You are very strong, but even the strongest people do need some help sometimes ❤❤❤❤🫂🫂
This is one of the best interviews Promise, you really did put your heart into this. the part you advised her to realize that she will never stop worrying about her kids, i got that well and i hope she did too. single Mommies, you are not what happened to you, you deserve all the love and care and support a great man can provide. don't over-plan your lives, God is for that, He will take care of you and your kids.... don't let your good man pass you by whilst you worrying about kids. im a single Mom and one day i will be just single if i forsake myself for my kids, they didn't ask me to forget my life, they want a happy mommy in every way possible. those kids will grow and have their lives to live, mommy might be left resentful that she wasted her life worrying about them and then she will want to control the kids-adult lives.....trouble.
there is still hope, Thank you Promise, Thank you Mandy for heling us with your story....KUZOLUNGA!🥰
I love this. Thank you Futhi???❤
Here because i love and adore Amanda soo much❤. The millenial GANG?????🥂
Girl,you know we've been waiting for this for 2 weeks,since she told us on that vlog
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Just saw her picture and here I am❤
me too
Being a mother while trying to repair yourself mentally and emotionally is the hardest thing to ever
Take on
Let’s give Promise her flowers for her interviewing skills! Ay suka Demedi, she’s good! 🔥🔥
a 100% I agree however for as long as she continues to protect that cheating husband of hers, that guy will never take responsibility and Promise will also continue to see other women as self inflated exactly how " without saying a lot of words she feels Amanda bought all this to herself"
One thing about men, they believe in financial abuse whether in marriages or not.. there are mothers who are fully taking care of their kid with their husbands just doing nothing and claiming to be doing everything just because they are paying bond 🙄
Have you ever just enjoyed listening to a person speak. Sometimes I need to rewind because I get lost in Amanda's voice and forget to actually listening to the contents of what she's saying 😂❤️
She is so genuine I love her... She is not sugar coating anything or trying to be someone else
I love love her voice and how she speaks.She always says she does not speak the best of English..but wow..❤❤❤
@@llt4726 really? I've never heard her say that. I always hear her say she's a "word person" since she is a Journalist and blogger.
Wow...this is so eye opening as a guy. Hopefully she heals and can continue to RAISE her kids 🙌
I feel like Mandy is doing so well as a single mom.You are actually blessed that you can afford your kids and you are emotionally Available for your kids..
To be honest most wives are single in their marriages and its even harder and painful.. most people wish they were in your shoes.
Let's normalized not having children. How about that?? There's a thing called being "childfree". There's a whole beautiful life without kids. You get peace of mind, you spend your money however you want, you sleep whenever you want, you travel however you want. You don't have to worry about another human being. You literally sleep and make money and enjoy your freedom. Let's normalize this.
Yes cc you are right we need to stop this cycles of struggle as single parents I have a son but I don’t plan to have more kids because I feel one child is enough for me I am not going to add more kids just because society says so I want to have a nice happy comfortable life for me and my son and not struggle in this life
@@pileshongwe7827 I am glad you agree with me cc
As a single mother of two, I agree 💯
@@Ladyle4ever thank you
What happens then when you're old and can't do much for yourself? You work hard for years for what? Leave inheritance for people who aren't your children??? Who will plan your funeral?? Who will inherit your hard labor on earth??
People need people. People are social beings. This is why solitary confinement (in prison) drives people crazy. We are not made to be alone. The solution is to vet well, then marry and build your life with your spouse.
What we need to normalize is us women being responsible with who we allow to have access to our wombs. Let us normalize birth control. Let's normalize "marry before you carry."
I've listened to Amanda's story so many times, and each and every time, it's inspiring and beautiful to see her come thru it all
When Mandy said am hoping they don't have kids I was like she's me, am a mother of 2 boys with my ex hubby. My baby daddy's father was dadbeat and he wanted so much to do better hence we only had kids in marriage, but after we divorced it's now 5 years later hes deadbeat... I really don't want that for my future daughters in law shame it's a painful journey. I really hope they don't have kids also.
This is truly a hard pill to sallow. You did everything by the book, by having kids in the marriage, may you please find healing🥰🥰🥰
@@busiluthando451 5 years later, healing is seriously a roller-coaster ride won't lie. Because as much as am healed in my own pain, but the pain from my 15 year old shame marn it's sad to watch. At least the 7 year old didn't experience him that much, but we blessed ke cause the support from his family and mine is amazing for them. Thanks❤️
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Baby mama and wives can perfectly do it as long as there is mutually respect
I love her no matter what,I know she is not perfect but she has taught me how to parent through difficult times.Mega luv Mandy
This is one hard working woman 👌🏽power to she 🔥
You Mandy you are called to do great things in this world there's something special about you you are called to stand before multitudes and address people ❤❤may God lead you in Jesus name stay blessed
This deserves to be a pinned comment.
Millennial gang, we love our very own queen😍
I get why she gets emotional when asked how she's doing as a single mom.. It's really a lot but we carry the lot with so much grace cz we looooveee our children ❤️❤️❤️
She is a soft person. She just went through a lot. I adopted my daughter so I don't have a baby Daddy. I can't go through even 15% of the things she went through, I will just collapse. ❤
I love how you spoke about single parents , that marriage doesn’t guarantee you that you will never be one , I love your perspective about dating and marriage .
I believe you are doing exceptionally well , ❤ “I deserve love not in a form of marriage . “ love this .
I love you lots ke sisi.
This was so triggering for me as a single mom, thank you for reminding me that I am not alone😘
I love Mandy , I searched for single mom in SA on RUclips and I stumbled upon her channel. Love me some strong lady . God bless you sthandwa sami ❤
Queen Mandy. I love this lady and everything she stands for.
I Swear even if I didn't know that Promise's husband has " baby mamma's" her line of questioning gives it away
And the little remarks she makes here and there lol 🌚
she's a good person yes but she needs to understand and also accept that it is never the " other woman's" fault that she's married to a MF@@Yassmiinn.
Baby mommas?! How many does he have? Were the kids born during Promise’s marriage? Sorry I’m a nosy new follower 😂
May you please invite Amo Moagi next or whenever you do? She's a RUclipsr and single mom too.
I really feel like the interviewer can be a bit insensitive sometimes. She literally asks the same questions that Amanda is not comfortable talking about, at least ask if she’s comfortable talking about what is happening with her child, or what happened in her past relationship instead of just asking her to tell you more about the situation.🙃
True.... But Mandy is so smart she saw her way through the difficult questions and she answered without even over sharing......
I feel like that’s what interviews with public figures are about. It’s to let us in on stuff we don’t know, otherwise they must not agree to interviews
Hi ladies. I so much relate with Mandy. I brought 3 sons ,no child support tjo its been tough.I put them first no dating.Just living for them
same .... i have 1 son... when im think of dating lot of things come to mind .... been single since.
I have two and lost interest in men. My focus is on me and my kids
She is doing her best guys. I feel you Mandy..... it's true forgive yourself and feel free to find love.... as single mum's we seem to feel we don't deserve love and happiness.... being a single mum is a episode or specific part of your life and it's not who you are..... That's what I learned and I'm much more content. It was a journey. though after maintenance court cases constant fighting ... I don't hate the baby daddy's anymore they are just people I used to know. The kids are my blessing, they love me always tickling me and giving lots of hugs and kisses. Everything works out eventually....
Love you, Mandy. So well spoken and smart. I'm a wife and yet can relate to your story. Keep soaring sis! God got you!❤
I'm with Mandy when it comes to marriage...marriage benefits men and I have always been of the thought that people should only get married when they are old so there's less chance of divorce 😂 Promise speaks about marriage like it's an achievement...
Marriage just like parenting is a thankless job for women. Young women make me so happy when I see them focusing on their careers and travelling. I hope the decentering men movement reaches Africa. Men are work and single women are happier.
@moe_ramz 💯 I agree too with what u say about parenting. I love my babies but I would advise women to have kids if that's what they really want. Don't have kids because of what society dictates
@@HlengiweDube-Bookkeeper 100, I’m a single mum of one and I have to say it’s draining. I advise young women to remain single and not have children. Women are happier when single and living their lives. I’m not anti- relationships. My observation is; women just seem much happier. They get to pour into themselves, verses constantly pouring into other people.
Mandy you are a strong mama ❤️❤️Thank you for loving your children.
Today Topic is close to my heart and I can relate to. and ladies one day I want us to talk about parenting with a broken heart.
"You're just like your father" can't be your go to line every time a child does something wrong.
Being a single mom is hard and I pray we raise wise children and make them proud one day❤
Hmmm Primrose you were a bit too much on Mandy, there way you asked “everyday” when she was talking about her ex was a bit too much. How can you assume she always feel like she is not chosen seems like you we’re already judging and a lot more that you said, I feel like you were too harsh on her. Her facial expressions even showed that she wasn’t comfortable with some of your questions.
That's exactly how I felt she clearly stated that she is not comfortable talking about it
She said she is not comfortable but Promise does not care... improve on that next time...Promise
That was so weird for me. Even if he beat her once in that 6 years, he was still abusive.
Such a wise, smart, brave, and loving woman she is ❤️
We are here for our fave ......Queen Mandy ❤🎉asfuni lutho ngaye!!!!!
Promise you killed this one, it's so beautiful to see you growing in how you handle interviews. ❤❤❤
Lalela I love uAmanda, I love her authenticity and how relatable she is.
This felt like a therapy session for myself, i saw some parts of myself in Mandy in this conversation and things i need to deal with
I believe there is a special place in hell for deadbeats 😔
I love your relationship with your kids Mandy, the 3 yo and just how you are so gentle with her. I remember one vlog when you were telling her she s wrong while hugging her, warmed my heart. Even the oldest, she s so comfortable around you. You are doing great at parenting, you are a good mom.
Bathong Mandy was a little nervous at the beginning but got comfortable eventually ❤ girrl I didn't know you could be this shy 😭❤️
Here for Millennial mom. Love you Mandy.❤
I am inspired by her beautiful stories...very inspiring guys🙏🏾Love her❤
Mandy sisi, there is nothing more you can do but love your girls and you also have been loving her so much we see it… it’s not your fault that these men decided to leave and you are doing your absolute best mamma.
You going to be okay both of you, I am going to keep praying for you and your babies mamma.
Thank you Mandy for explaining marriage in a way that I see marriage too but I was beginning to doubt my explanation of marriage ❤❤❤
That part where Mandy s lover from high school was calling her in her dreams scared me hey and it doesnt help that Im watching this at night😭
😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you ladies. This is an honest discussion. It forced me to look within me.
"There is a lot of guilt and shame that single mothers carry. " Yo..
Millennial Gang Representation. 😍😍😍😍😍,
two parent households are very important.
I love Amanda and her content even though I am not a mom. She is beautiful ❤
I love Mandy because of relatable vulnerability. I’m not a mom and I don’t necessarily identify with her mom struggles, but definitely with how she tries to weave her journey together and heal from the parts that hurt, whilst embracing those that feel good.
❤❤much love Mandy watching from 🇧🇼 Botswana stay blessed
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Millennial gang☺❤
Mandy, I’m rooting for you mama❤️
Yaz unokucabangisa okwam lo cc nam ngokhululeka mhla ngakhela my daughter a house I don't trust these men around her but I'm still with the baby daddy we okay I just know we won't get married he's not loyal but trying and he's the best daddy to our daughter.
Life is super complicated. Super complicated. Only God is our judge because he understands everything that happens to us and why. I wish you well Amanda and both your children
I’m glad you took down the video of Noluthando . I commented about 10 times on that video. I was livid .
Me too. I was so aaaangryyyyy
I had to watch it twice,I think Noluthando wanted to be relevant at some point andazi shame but hayi
yo...she appeared like a wholesome hun but yuu i was shook with that interview@@yolandaninise3472
Whyyyy please share 😢
@@HlengiweDube-Bookkeeper I'm so curious because Noluthando seems to be such a good hun and very level headed.
Great interview as usual Promise. I pray she doesn't impart her pain on her children. We women are very agreeable and tend to place ourselves in situations we have never experienced just by being in proximity to people who have experienced pain.
The goal should always be a nuclear family. Wishing for your kids to be childless wont help, there are kids that want to be mothers from a very young age. I pray she and every single mother finds healing.
As a child who was raised in that situation and knows how painful it is to be raised by a single mother and pray daily for my father to come back into my life, i pray the cycle ends with her in Jesus' name.
I watched the other episode and I must say- I just love Amanda❤❤ she's so confident
Mandy a really strong lady 💪 keep up the good work😊
Beautiful soul
I love mandy bathong….
I love Mandy yoooo.
Yes Amanda don't fight with the fathers because the more u fight is the more o tlo utloa bohloko and catch depression, and don't force marriage or staying in together, I walked out in my marriage 2016 😢but even I have never seen someone that I can share the same roof with, only God will make his plans and that time where by he will bless me with that man, this year on the 25th of August it will be my 8th year leaving my life with out that stress
I struggle with guilt as well.
The choice of a father I made for my son.
Not staying in a relationship with the dad.
Here for Mandy😊❤
I love Mandy's idea of marriage, especially as a mom. It makes sense to focus on raising your child, and get married for companionship at 50. At the moment, akho need. Also, the living together part is a lot! Let's not.
I love love love her so much ❤❤..
D truth about single parenting,evry lil thing triggers us😭
Yoh Mandy you are the bigger person xem...coming back to this channel after the shade that Noluthando and Promise threw at unmarried friends on that deleted video...I felt like that conversation was specifically indirectly about you. @TheMillennialMom1
I think ths episode was short before ya ga Noluthando.... Promise's interviewing skills sometimes it's not make sure...
Sometimes marriage makes people say the wrong things, I also don't understand why they continue speaking shit about their husband's children, irregardless of how those children came about...if you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, then get out! Continuing to stay in a marriage means you take your partner with all their flaws and baggage, including the outside children they come with... act all delulu all you want, but fact is your children and his outside ones are all your husband's children and you not acknowledging and being a mother to all of them won't change the price of bread. The day your man decides to leave you, your children will be treated like how you are currently treating his outside children...
hehehe you won't believe it.
Yhoo Kgomotso...iza nazo sisi before they delete your comment..I've been dying to find out why that upload was deleted 😮
@@HlengiweDube-Bookkeeper I think it's because of how the step child was conceived, it gave very shady and illegal.
@ayandasam2269 it shouldn't matter how the children were conceived. Fact is they are your husband's children and if you were able to forgive and continue loving and being married to the man you should also be able to fully accept whatever he comes with and step up as mother to all his children. Whether you like it or not the children are here to stay.
Here for Mandy❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am here because of Amanda ❤️❤️
much Love for you Mandy.... There Lots love out there Man Have a Thousand Children Out there, are happy be happy your Kids
Great conversation. Thank you
Mandy Lady...love love love her❤
I love Mandy ❤
Ba2ng I love ds 2 women so mch,guys ur mutuarity is on another level.M learning a lot from u❤️
Who is this girl...I love her..listening to this conversation and learning a lot, very insightful and inspiring...Thanks for this episode
real question here. what makes women want to sleep with men who won't be good fathers? asking for a friend.
Most times they are good fathers until we break up or divorce them.
How can you tell if a man will not make a good father if they don't have kids yet? In most instances man change after the break up.
It's not written on their foreheads
My ex was the best father when we were together, I've always thought even if we break up he will never change, when it came to his kids. Bathong I was confident, he was those guys who wake up at night, like he was hands on. Take the kids to the park and and and.
Yhooo when we broke up yhooooo, he hasn't seen his kids for 5 years. Everyone in his family speaks to them except him, his mom, sister and brother send money and call on birth dates nothing from him.
So there is not formula people should stop this, we getting pregnant for bad fathers. Anyone can change
@@ayandasam2269 arg man I'm so sorry 😭
I can relate with guilt... I feel you
Guilt relatable...
And it sucks😮😮
I have beeeeeeen waiting for a follow up interview with Mandy 💃💃💃
Mandy😊❤ifave yethu madoda. I'm so happy for Amanda's success bethuna
Love love Mandy! Such a realistic hun bathong😍
❤ thank you Mandy for your return. I am inspired
I love you Mandy ❤❤❤❤🎉
I love her and I hope the deadbeats finally show up and she finds love❤
Promise, you actually ask good questions hey.
The question you asked by the therapist of why do you think makes this man treat you the same? I was once in the same setuation as you thank God I got married with 2 boys; fathers absent. With my setuation is that I have always been independent even when I lack something I would hustle to get that so this men knew that even if they are not around I will survive because I am naturally a strong person. So I think it can be the same because you sound like that strong person that will so whatever it takes to come out of the setuation. And funny enough after letting go of my independence showing my husband (boyfriend that time)not 100% though that I need you to help me I got married. So I was like ok men want to be shown that " I need you attitude" maybe. But other than that strongs my sister you arr doing great❤
I really enjoyed this interview and I learnt a lot hey 👌👌
This was a beautiful interview
This lady interviewer though😢
I also think Mandy s expectations are a bit high, especially when she mentioned in the last interview that she wants a man who has kids and has a good relationship with her kids and the baby mommas, and and and. Yho, the calibre of men nowadays? But I also understand where she s coming from. Sometimes, you do get that exact person you want, other times not, as long as you are aware that its a 50/50 chance.
I'm glad Mandy has a standard. Too many women settle.
Here for mandy ❤️🔥❤️love you mama 🍾
Mandy is a gem. I'm watching this episode because of her.
@@vuyiprecious5157 tell me about it ❤️
Being a single parent is hard , I so wish Black men realize one day how much they put women through . Sending money to a child monthly is not parenting , Black step up and stop being cowards .
LOVEEEEEE U MANDDDDDDDYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
What a spoil! I love Amanda mna shem❤
Enjoyed watching ❤😊
Yoo Mandy, I feel your pain. May God bring more light in your life and just give you a break. You are very strong, but even the strongest people do need some help sometimes ❤❤❤❤🫂🫂
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Mama minimills is an inspiration to us❤
We really love Amanda 🥰