Dad's Cancer--Cody Carson of Set It Off

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • Cody Carson of Set It Off talks about the loss of his father and how he was able to get through it.
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  • @smithgirl-oo7bh
    @smithgirl-oo7bh 7 лет назад +162

    i agree with cody. if im having a bad day music helps me. people call me obsessed, i say no, im just thankful for this band.

    • @skeletonnotes8216
      @skeletonnotes8216 5 лет назад +4

      smith girl2005 Lol I’m just like “no this is just helping me through this day..........and yeah I may be obsessed”

  • @GracieGrayGoldel
    @GracieGrayGoldel 8 лет назад +145

    I'm crying right now. I'm so happy cody is a christian and i hope that he still is because I'm just so joyful c:

    • @raykrieger6784
      @raykrieger6784 7 лет назад +10

      Riley Fullbuster I Know right! I was so happy to hear him say that!! I've been through a very similar situation with my mom, she had stage 4 colon cancer, and being able to pray and talk to God gave me the hope that no matter what she would be safe. weather she was meant to be here or in heaven

    • @gracechance4724
      @gracechance4724 6 лет назад +3

      atheists triggered from Cody saying he's christian XD

    • @idontlikeyou1509
      @idontlikeyou1509 6 лет назад +17

      I'm an atheist and I think its great that he believes in a god because it was what helped him, and without him my life would be worse. I'm fine with whatever helps people to live better lives.

  • @c0ttonberries
    @c0ttonberries 8 лет назад +97

    And this is why I fucking love this band. Their music is what helps me through tough times. the night before last, I was trying to support two or three friends at the same time and it was suffocating me. I couldn't handle it. I felt so bad for not being able to help them all and I just wanted o curl up and rot. Then my buddy sent me Set It Off gifs (one with Cody doing the little heart finger thing) and I listened to their music and cried. My life really isn't bad, and my heart goes out to all of you who've lost a family member or friend or anyone you love. But keep your head up, because we've always got tomorrow.

    • @lunanight7277
      @lunanight7277 8 лет назад

      Right

    • @blubird6346
      @blubird6346 8 лет назад +2

      There's this song by Set It Off called You Are Loved (might have already heard it) and they sang it because they heard that one of their fans had taken their life. Might have been written for that, or just sang for that, but it's a really great song :)

    • @lunamoonlight2479
      @lunamoonlight2479 7 лет назад

      Rayne Orr you're right...

  • @elijahcastillo6
    @elijahcastillo6 9 лет назад +91

    Wow I didn't know he was Christian! Amazing man. I am too.

    • @corianteri
      @corianteri 4 года назад

      What does that really mean tho?

  • @ditdull
    @ditdull 9 лет назад +45

    And this is why I love Cody.

  • @savannahbaptiste5175
    @savannahbaptiste5175 9 лет назад +38

    I feel so bad for him don't worry he's with god now

  • @lilpippy826
    @lilpippy826 7 лет назад +54

    I'm sorry for your loss Cody. /\
    \/

  • @bootywizard7206
    @bootywizard7206 8 лет назад +59

    Oh my god my poor Cody 😭 I know Cody isn't going to ever see this but I will always be here for you if you need something. Cody I love you so much that I could run to the moon and back and still have energy if I ran off my love for you

  • @acconitedaydream2939
    @acconitedaydream2939 6 лет назад +29

    What an amazing person Cody is
    My dad was diagnosed with cancer when I was 11 luckily he survived I cant imagine losing a parent, I do know how it is to be alone tho it's horrible so if anyone sees this and needs someone I will always be happy to help
    And if by some miracle Cody see's this; know i idolise you brother you are so strong ❤

    • @mowthekitt
      @mowthekitt 5 лет назад

      My dad didn't die from cancer he dies from a cardiac arrest and many other diseases. He managed to stay so strong and happy. He finally died during my elementary school year I think 4-5th grade. I still miss him so much and what made it worse was that I never got to say goodbye.

  • @triggeredpossum6752
    @triggeredpossum6752 6 лет назад +10

    I just found out why he wrote Dad's Song, I'm so happy he is the way he is, he's so positive. Sorry for your loss Cody! ⟠⟠

    • @realsetitofffan6450
      @realsetitofffan6450 4 года назад +3

      Where did you get the diamond emojy?

    • @triggeredpossum6752
      @triggeredpossum6752 4 года назад +2

      Lya Skywalker I honestly don’t remember, I think I copy and pasted it from a friend, I’m sorry :”)

    • @realsetitofffan6450
      @realsetitofffan6450 4 года назад +3

      @@triggeredpossum6752 ok, still thanks

  • @finnmagnus
    @finnmagnus 8 лет назад +27

    cody needs to be on TED

  • @isabellopez2435
    @isabellopez2435 9 лет назад +31

    I love you cody!!!

  • @krissyfandubs2
    @krissyfandubs2 9 лет назад +25

    God bless him.

  • @monettaisabel6204
    @monettaisabel6204 7 лет назад +17

    I'm not crying. There's just dust in my eye. Not sure if Cody will ever see this but, this is why I look up to him. I'm sure his father is so proud of him at this point.

  • @lambchassidy504
    @lambchassidy504 9 лет назад +17

    it was really hard seeing my aunt zelma go threw lung and skin cancer because when I was little she always look out for me and made sure I was okay so in my head she was the strongest woman I knew she would always do things by herself but when she was diagnosed with lung and skin cancer and she went threw the trails of radiation she became very weak and it was very hard seeing her that way and it was hard for her to let people take care of her, eventually she became weaker and weaker and she drifted away and went to heaven

  • @ramidaraghma2639
    @ramidaraghma2639 5 лет назад +7

    The people who disliked this video were either MONSTERS or they were crying and couldn’t see the like button

    • @Schemingzy
      @Schemingzy 4 года назад +1

      I will find who they are!!! >:0

  • @dinonuggies5551
    @dinonuggies5551 6 лет назад +11

    WAIT CODY'S CHRISTIAN?? SO AM I!!!
    I'm sorry, but it's very rare when I found out that one of my heros share my faith. He's one of the few reasons of why I'm still alive.

  • @ExMachinax4
    @ExMachinax4 8 лет назад +14

    I never knew that chemo bought time and didnt cure things. Doctors dont tell you that?! I actually dont listen to this band but how sweet!! Got me in the feels. He is so right, its easy to get locked away.

  • @GingerKidDiaries
    @GingerKidDiaries 6 лет назад +2

    It's videos like these that helped me when I had my tumor. I hope one day to meet Cody and the rest of the band and thank them in person for everything their music has helped me get through.

  • @katherinereavis8191
    @katherinereavis8191 5 лет назад +1

    I went through the same thing from my great aunt. I knew she was going and when my mom came home and told me, I immediately went to music. Two days later my uncle ended up in the hospital and I was having the best time with my cousin who was four at the time. My aunt walked in the door and I knew he had passed. What killed me though was the fact that my cousin said “Where is papa?” And my aunt had to explain everything to her and I tried my hardest not to cry but I failed. It’s was so hard then those next three weeks. That was a year ago. My great uncle was taken to a resting home since he didn’t have that much time left three days ago for breaking his hip. Two days ago I was told he had passed. I know it gets better it’s just hard sometimes. That’s where music comes into play, it’s my easiest distraction at this point. Thank you who ever reads this💜

  • @MissKateKatie
    @MissKateKatie 5 лет назад +1

    Your song about your dad kills me everytime i hear it. December was the last time i remember speaking to my dad before he died. That song helped me so much. And still does daily.

  • @lunamoonlight2479
    @lunamoonlight2479 7 лет назад +6

    I know what I'm gonna hold on to when I'm down...It's gonna be the songs that Set It Off sing! They help me when I'm down and sad and they make me even happier when I'm happy too! I hope Cody is OK....I wish the best of luck to you Cody!

    • @hounsled
      @hounsled 7 лет назад

      Ayano Aishi Do you hang out on​ Jane's streams?

    • @lunamoonlight2479
      @lunamoonlight2479 7 лет назад

      Blue Jay yes why? Do you recognize me from her streams?

    • @hounsled
      @hounsled 7 лет назад

      Ayano Aishi Yeah I do

    • @lunamoonlight2479
      @lunamoonlight2479 7 лет назад

      Blue Jay cool! I recognize you too now! That's cool that someone recognizes me!

  • @shayrobinson6726
    @shayrobinson6726 6 лет назад +4

    when he said that I just felt closer to him because my grandmother passed away last year on December 16th from a stroke she had the same stroke nine days before she passed and I've known her for 19 years I know what Cody went through and it's so hard but I got through it and marry Christmas granny

  • @halliehauer9895
    @halliehauer9895 7 лет назад +4

    all i have to say is i am sorry cody but thank you I THANK YOU AND THE BAND FOR WHAT YOU DO NEVER EVER STOP PROMISE ME THAT then i will be happy...

  • @lilybarker833
    @lilybarker833 7 лет назад +6

    Don't worry Cody, he's n a much happier place in heaven. It's going to be okay, I've been through something similar and it still traumatises me today. I hope yo and the guys in SIO are doing well. Rest In Peace James.

  • @RheaRoyHunter
    @RheaRoyHunter 7 лет назад +6

    My granddad (who kinda became my dad after my real dad died in 2010 'cuz of carbon monoxide posioning) died 'cuz of terminal cancer at the end of 2016. He had radiotherepy and it went away for a few months, but then it came back again. He was rushed into hospital boxing day of 2016 and died a couple of days later.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  7 лет назад +2

      So sorry. That's awful. If you want help and support, or just want to vent, post on the support wall at www.heartsupport.com/community

    • @RheaRoyHunter
      @RheaRoyHunter 7 лет назад

      HeartSupport It's fine. I'm starting to get over it. A little.

  • @jamiewells22
    @jamiewells22 8 лет назад +9

    my stepdad was diagnosed with colon cancer when I was about 9 or so and he did treatment and it went away for about a year and a half and then he was rediagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer and lung cancer and he decided not to do treatment again and the doctors gave him 6 months to live and he lied 15 months after that. around the beginning of March he wasn't doing good so his brother flew him my mom and I down to Florida so he could pass with his family but he ended up going about 4 extra months and then July 7th 2016 at about 8pm he passed away and they had the funeral on his birthday (July 16th) and he was in my life for almost 7 years and passed away at the age 65. I'm a 13 atm.

  • @vladimirajuraskova2131
    @vladimirajuraskova2131 4 года назад

    My dad died of cancer and even though I'm not religious, this means a lot to me. Thank you Cody ❤️

  • @shelby2901
    @shelby2901 7 лет назад +4

    this is why i love him

  • @Bluemoon-ih6tv
    @Bluemoon-ih6tv 6 лет назад +2

    Just when I thought I couldn’t love him any more... this made me start sobbing and I started binging on “Dad’s Song” and I had no idea he was Christian and I agree with all of the points he made, :-)

  • @msgatorgirl75
    @msgatorgirl75 8 лет назад +4

    idk why i just found this video but i lost my mom at 17 to disease and hearing this is great to know :)

  • @alltimefalloutatthechemica2106
    @alltimefalloutatthechemica2106 7 лет назад +6

    I lost my sister to cancer

  • @tiacamp9349
    @tiacamp9349 9 лет назад +4

    I was wondering what Cody ment when he said his dad had you go throughs something similar to what my mom is going through, and now I see this and I'm grateful that he actually cared and could relate and give words of advice

  • @pogfrog7635
    @pogfrog7635 5 лет назад +3

    this man is so inspiring omg

  • @averixx06
    @averixx06 5 лет назад

    This is why I love this band so much. Not just the music.

  • @bronaghdowling5559
    @bronaghdowling5559 4 года назад

    i just lost someone to cancer and i immediately came to this video and their story is very similar to codys dads and its really comforting me. Thanks

  • @whosthedankestofthemall6440
    @whosthedankestofthemall6440 7 лет назад +1

    i lost my grandpa about a couple of weeks and damn just by watching this is making me cry a bit

  • @EmilyArtherton
    @EmilyArtherton 7 лет назад +2

    This just gave me so so much more love for this band. There are certain songs that share such fantastic messages and Motos and the fact it's came from such experiences is so truly inspiring. This band mean so much to me and I'm so happy I've found them, I love them.

  • @angelnbc
    @angelnbc 6 лет назад

    My father passed away from cancer around 8 months ago, 4 days before I turned 14-years-old. It was so hard for me because we didn't have a good relationship. Then, a few days ago, a friend of mine passed away, too. This has been the hardest year ever for me, but what makes me feel better is that my father and friend are both happy and in heaven and watching over me, my friends, and family

  • @xoxomaddie.
    @xoxomaddie. 5 лет назад

    Cody is so Truthful and Kind. I love him so much ❤

  • @laylayavritt4454
    @laylayavritt4454 6 лет назад

    Omg I'm sorry for ur loss I lost my grandma 2 yrs and ur band has helped when she died from cancer so I feel ur pain

  • @Jessica-wo6rg
    @Jessica-wo6rg 5 лет назад +2

    The year I was born. Seriously. You also posted the year I was born. I feel so bad. And this happened.

  • @nan6ar825
    @nan6ar825 7 лет назад +3

    why am i crying?.

  • @tazhatesyou8883
    @tazhatesyou8883 6 лет назад +1

    I CRIED SM! CODY IS AN AMAZING HUMAN

  • @kara6530
    @kara6530 9 лет назад +2

    OMFG CODY. IM CRYING. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

  • @bananakid5436
    @bananakid5436 6 лет назад +4

    lmao why isn’t Dad's Song playing in the background?
    rip Cody's dad ;c

  • @isabelospina7298
    @isabelospina7298 9 лет назад +1

    i love cody

  • @DUSN-ec9qh
    @DUSN-ec9qh 6 лет назад +1

    In the year I was born, ‘04 my family was rejoicing. His family was remorseful.

  • @ameliaconrad6681
    @ameliaconrad6681 6 лет назад

    You have such a beautiful testimony! ...all choked up...

  • @drown3546
    @drown3546 6 лет назад +1

    This so sad I have internally crying now

  • @jackietanner843
    @jackietanner843 9 лет назад +1

    I love Cody so much :((

  • @user-pg1uw3sp6p
    @user-pg1uw3sp6p 5 лет назад +2

    My father died 2015, he had a heart attack and I feel the pain cody went through :C

  • @KDOGG331
    @KDOGG331 9 лет назад +1

    I love Cody

  • @melodieferrin3196
    @melodieferrin3196 5 лет назад

    Well, this really helped :) Especially since I went through a similar situation. My mom passed away from cancer when I was thirteen, but ever since then I just wanted to stop suffering and be happy. But every once in a while I start to feel hopeless again. But I know that I’m still young and I don’t need to have everything figured out right now. At least I’m trying and I’m hopeful ❤️

  • @KsupremeG
    @KsupremeG 9 лет назад +1

    Life is testing you and that's the chance to overcome. I'm actuall at my worst.

  • @spaghetti.0s
    @spaghetti.0s 4 года назад

    I was thinking about this song for one of my OCs.Basically his dad was the only one in his life who really seemed to accept him,And his father was a cop diagnosed with cancer.But i didn't know Cody's dad passed away because of cancer--😭💔

  • @princesspuppypaws6647
    @princesspuppypaws6647 6 лет назад +1

    im sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry

  • @Jessica-wo6rg
    @Jessica-wo6rg 5 лет назад

    I cried.

  • @tazhatesyou8883
    @tazhatesyou8883 6 лет назад +3

    Who lese noticed cody was about to break (like crying)

  • @heehawhawhee5292
    @heehawhawhee5292 6 лет назад +1

    I AM CRYING I DONT HAVE EYES ANYMORE
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  • @uservia
    @uservia 7 лет назад +1

    My mom had cancer. She died back in 2014 only 2 days before my 8th birthday.

  • @Dinonuggies214
    @Dinonuggies214 5 лет назад

    Definitely needed this rn

  • @foxgibson-dunlop8996
    @foxgibson-dunlop8996 5 лет назад

    I’m cryyying

  • @cobrafangss
    @cobrafangss 7 лет назад +1

    This Was Uploaded On My 🎉 BIRTHDAY

  • @cupcake_nyancat3869
    @cupcake_nyancat3869 5 лет назад +1

    Those three dislikes are heartless.

  • @megancollier9945
    @megancollier9945 5 лет назад

    Okay why on earth did they put Dream Catcher on the background as if this story wasn’t sad enough😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I’m so sorry that Cody and his family had to go through this💔💔💔 I nearly lost my Nanna to cancer and I am so grateful that she beat it and she is now perfectly healthy💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @chrishansen4418
    @chrishansen4418 7 лет назад +2

    Why is there a dislike on this video.

    • @RheaRoyHunter
      @RheaRoyHunter 7 лет назад +1

      Nicholas Rios Because they don't know what love is.

  • @ToothNF1n
    @ToothNF1n 6 лет назад

    Ah-- I'm having a rough time with my girlfriend-- Our relationship is as healthy as it can be at this moment, but she's insanely depressed. She talks about killing herself all the time and I'm so fucking terrified, if I loose her I don't even know if I can survive on my own. She's the light of my life but I just can't seem to help her..

  • @elizabethhamilton574
    @elizabethhamilton574 4 года назад

    Cody: our lord and savior

  • @chrishansen4418
    @chrishansen4418 7 лет назад +1

    Will someone tell me wether I should like this or dislike this.

  • @highsoldier420
    @highsoldier420 4 года назад +1

    Cody: I’m a Christian
    Me: *jaw drops to Australia*

  • @luquimay5645
    @luquimay5645 5 лет назад

    Do you want to make me cry?

  • @kriichan6100
    @kriichan6100 6 лет назад

    Now we know what No Control is about 3:

  • @suiciderainbow3010
    @suiciderainbow3010 5 лет назад +1

    Cody I'm so sorry but not even my counselor wants to talk to me

  • @victoriachlane964
    @victoriachlane964 8 лет назад +1

    hey. 😦

  • @TheAlphaWolfAce
    @TheAlphaWolfAce 6 лет назад +2

    My dad lost a finger beacause it got cuted off by a roundsaw

  • @Katie-ws7xp
    @Katie-ws7xp 5 лет назад +1

    3 dislikes that's what I like to see

  • @shinxen8181
    @shinxen8181 6 лет назад

    Love Cody to death, but the thumbnail makes him look like MatPat