He stated all the exact reasons of my low confidence. I compare myself with others, I tell my plans to my friends to get validation, I always worry about the end result. But Alhamdulillah I have got this video❤️ From now on i'll focus on myself, and inshaAllah I will comment again here after my target is achieved (probably after two months)❤️
I kept thinking why am i worried, why am i under confident, what’s the purpose of my life, what’s making me soo little in my eyes, for the whole night, until i found this in the fajr. I’m starting with learning Arabic, IA. Prayers required
He is so funny, I laugh so much when listening to him, but he also increases my imaan so much everytime. He is very inspiring and an amazing speaker/teacher ! May Allah grant him jannah !
Masha Allah.. I really needed this today! I am an IT engineer working as a BI professional in India. I have been married to old school home where.. girls reading books and working soo much.. indulged in their self improvement and not completely devoted to household chores .. is frowned upon. I have been helping with whatever I can do in specific time to help my mother in law.. but still she found my ways “inappropriate” I am a daily listener to your Khutbas Ustadh.. and I must say I found purpose in life with my work .. my love for books and most importantly I love Allah so much.. that everything else is just secondary to me .. But the desperate times need reminders just like this one… thank you soo much for all the effort you are making.. I know and hope you have changed so many lives in a better way…. because my rabb have chosen u for that . Alhamdulillah ❤️
Good for you, you have every right to live and enjoy your life, just like men, who have always had this privilege in society. It is usually men who police and restrict us, but unfortunately there are some women don't like to see other women succeeding in life, and often resent us when they see us excel (especially in our careers). They feel that we should suffer like they had to. I hope that you ignore anyone who tries to deter you from progressing, and keep up the curiosity. Your life is your life. Focus on self improvement and who knows what you might achieve - in sha Allah there are much better things in store for you :)
Some people are like crabs! They pull others down because they are down. She couldn’t get out of it, she couldn’t get educated so she doesn’t like it that you are.
Ayesha what matters is your worth in Allah's eyes ❤️. Allah knows all you struggles and how much you are trying to please his and people around you. Trust me, to me your so perfect IT engineer + trying to build a connection with Allah ❤️. I pray for you that Allah gives you the strength to go through this. Actually this is even my one of the biggest fear to get married at a old school home which focuses more on culture than religion.
How beautiful our religion is . SubhanAllah . I am really insecure about myself and I didn't know the reason. And by watching this i understood it very clearly . So i truly understand and made sure again that all the answers to our questions hide in our beautiful religion . Alhamdulillah
As introvert person since childhood i have been bully for been quite it is not like i’m shy but i just dont like to talk too much even my own family dont like that i’m quite and been just focuse on me it used it makes me insecure when they say “she dont talk that much “ but now as i’m 22 i avoid it .i love how they say i dont talk bcoz it makes me not to make effort to try and talk i love to observe things 😂
I've been listening to alot of audios on how to get confidence but honestly this has summarised everything. I'm so glad that I've found out this channel. I appreciate your efforts. May Allah's blessings be upon you.
I was in the nursing program and I failed twice. One of the things my teacher said to me was that I needed to be confident. And I think she was referring to being outgoing or speaking up something like that. In my heart I felt confident but when she said that I started focusing on my external features and other aspects of myself. I have felt so lost and confused because I didn’t understand what they meant by being confident exactly.
Thank you so much❤ i feel like loser and stagnant lately seeing everyone has a plan and move forward in life.while me feel content and have no desire to be ambitious. Just enough to sustain life and keep on effort to be faithful servant to Allah.
Alhamdulillah i've been overplayed this talk since July 2022 and now it's November 17, 2023. Still my fav talk of Nouman Ali Khan. Jazakumullahukairan for this wonderful clip.
A child building legos. Doesnt care about others Irrelevant You are sure with what youre doing Good for them, thanks buddy! You dont need validation Walking with purpose You dont need to overpower anybodys voice Theyll come to you. Your concern is other people 1 or tousend people benefit from you Goal Allah gives acceptances to them Work spoke for it self Helps to the people who sincere.
MashaAllah, may Allah bless u and u said so right. You inspired and it solved a lot of worries . May Allah grant u ease in worries in return that u ease many peoples worries by ur words.
JazakiAllah khir you put how I feel in words Since I stared seeking knowledge for the sake of Allah nothing matter anymore I’m too focused memorizing reading writing y’a rabb Alhamdouli Allah for this bounty 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's true Noumam Sir himself would have no idea what his words are to us, it's like the exact same thing we are experiencing. How every time he does give practical solutions of complicated problems we face within ourselves? this made me astonished. Only now I've come to know the real definition of CONFIDENCE. Also I'm really grateful for this video as it became the source of my guidance. Thank you so much for uploading this video.
I always have low self esteem I always doubt myself in fact it I prepare every thing I always doubt myself in fact in exam hall iafter knowing every thing I doubt myself ya allah plz increase my self esteem
May Allah bless u,,i think this is the right thing you need whenh u re indulged in deen alot and working alot to spread islam,,,at the momnet shaitan catches u to start showing others u r doin alot,,why to shout aloud,,,when people around u didint let u do wat u want to
Salam Alaykum Waramotullahi Wabarakatu. thanks so much for sharing. May Allah SWT increase our Eeman. May Allah SWT bless you and others propagating our beautiful Deen Islam positively. Jazakallahu Khairan.
I shout at my son to teach him lots of things every day as tecnology has taken over, i shout at him so his souls listens and he improves and he is a on right path and understands, Shouting an adult is waste if time . We hv to say it millions times dont waste time
Really good advice but having ADHD, having focus is not my strongest trait. But its totally fine, ill give my best anyways because im on my own journey.
Great talk. But why do we need to listen to the humming sound in the background. It's so irratating. Goes against what the teacher is actually saying. Does anyone have the link to the original?
My whole life I was in a quest as to how to build self confidence, I am 27 now still the same anxious man nothing changed for me. I should have married by now. Because I don't know my worth, I always think of the outcome and refrain from doing things that might have benefited me. I just can't figure out what to do to be confident . Thoughts 💭?
I want to know my goal because I started dreaming about my life after 10 standard. My childhood was taken away from me so I couldn't get to know about myself,my interest amd so on.. i jumped from 1 to 9 standard that's why I'm bad at studies but I want to do something productive with my life and hereafter life tell me what to do? I've been down and out.
About religion-focus on your relationship with Allah. Never ever listen to Islamophobes or haram police. Research for things yourself while keeping in mind Allah is perfect bcz he is not human. Humans are imperfect so take pride in your imperfections. Many times, religious beliefs and social beliefs don't align. At that time put your faith in Allah. Life is a test my friend!😉 Salam
i am just grateful for this video because first time in my life i have come to know about the definition of CONFIDENCE.
Me too and I think this was what I wanted to hear...Alhumdulillah 💗
Yall have no idea. How true this is!!!!
I totally needed to hear this
Soo true
Now how to know what's your purpose? 😭
Absolutely. This video is eye opening
Alhamdulillah indeed
He stated all the exact reasons of my low confidence. I compare myself with others, I tell my plans to my friends to get validation, I always worry about the end result.
But Alhamdulillah I have got this video❤️ From now on i'll focus on myself, and inshaAllah I will comment again here after my target is achieved (probably after two months)❤️
I will do the same Insh’Allah and will come back to comment as well!
Yes, I'm with you & i wish ourselves good luck
Best of luck👍👍👍
I pray Allah make it easy for you to accomplish your goals. Don't forget to always make duaa to Allah.
Same Insha Allah
I kept thinking why am i worried, why am i under confident, what’s the purpose of my life, what’s making me soo little in my eyes, for the whole night, until i found this in the fajr. I’m starting with learning Arabic, IA. Prayers required
Sub'han Allah. Best of luck. Fiamanillah.
Learning language takes time InshAllah you will handle it.
He is so funny, I laugh so much when listening to him, but he also increases my imaan so much everytime. He is very inspiring and an amazing speaker/teacher ! May Allah grant him jannah !
Ameen Yaa Robbal Alameen
Allah increases your Iman😊
Masha Allah.. I really needed this today!
I am an IT engineer working as a BI professional in India. I have been married to old school home where.. girls reading books and working soo much.. indulged in their self improvement and not completely devoted to household chores .. is frowned upon.
I have been helping with whatever I can do in specific time to help my mother in law.. but still she found my ways “inappropriate”
I am a daily listener to your Khutbas Ustadh.. and I must say I found purpose in life with my work .. my love for books and most importantly I love Allah so much.. that everything else is just secondary to me ..
But the desperate times need reminders just like this one… thank you soo much for all the effort you are making.. I know and hope you have changed so many lives in a better way…. because my rabb have chosen u for that . Alhamdulillah ❤️
Good for you, you have every right to live and enjoy your life, just like men, who have always had this privilege in society. It is usually men who police and restrict us, but unfortunately there are some women don't like to see other women succeeding in life, and often resent us when they see us excel (especially in our careers). They feel that we should suffer like they had to.
I hope that you ignore anyone who tries to deter you from progressing, and keep up the curiosity. Your life is your life. Focus on self improvement and who knows what you might achieve - in sha Allah there are much better things in store for you :)
Sister ! May Allah SWT make it easy for you ! Ameen
Some people are like crabs! They pull others down because they are down. She couldn’t get out of it, she couldn’t get educated so she doesn’t like it that you are.
Ayesha what matters is your worth in Allah's eyes ❤️.
Allah knows all you struggles and how much you are trying to please his and people around you.
Trust me, to me your so perfect IT engineer + trying to build a connection with Allah ❤️.
I pray for you that Allah gives you the strength to go through this.
Actually this is even my one of the biggest fear to get married at a old school home which focuses more on culture than religion.
Sometimes our culture makes it harder.
How beautiful our religion is . SubhanAllah . I am really insecure about myself and I didn't know the reason. And by watching this i understood it very clearly . So i truly understand and made sure again that all the answers to our questions hide in our beautiful religion . Alhamdulillah
As introvert person since childhood i have been bully for been quite it is not like i’m shy but i just dont like to talk too much even my own family dont like that i’m quite and been just focuse on me it used it makes me insecure when they say “she dont talk that much “ but now as i’m 22 i avoid it .i love how they say i dont talk bcoz it makes me not to make effort to try and talk i love to observe things 😂
Now U are 22 wise enough to understand other people's opinion😊
Masha’Allah, that’s good! I’m the same way! Lol 😆
It’s turned up at the very right time when I needed it the most. Alhamdulillah.
Today i made 3 mistakes in approaching my clientele, and i came cross with this video. Alhamdulillah i know what need to be improve
I have started an Islamic project it is very small but I'm super excited may Allah give me more confidence , focus and motivation.
Ameen
Ameen. If you haven't done it yet and you still want to, it is never too late brother/sister. Never too late until we get into our graves.
I've been listening to alot of audios on how to get confidence but honestly this has summarised everything. I'm so glad that I've found out this channel. I appreciate your efforts. May Allah's blessings be upon you.
I was in the nursing program and I failed twice. One of the things my teacher said to me was that I needed to be confident. And I think she was referring to being outgoing or speaking up something like that. In my heart I felt confident but when she said that I started focusing on my external features and other aspects of myself. I have felt so lost and confused because I didn’t understand what they meant by being confident exactly.
Are you still in a nursing program? Curious, what she meant by confidence.
If you listen to most people they will lead you astray...( Quran)...What your teacher has said is projecting his her fears onto you. Follow truth.
I think she meant believe in yourself
I really needed to heard this!!!! Masha Allah ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭 Subhanallah “ Alhamdulillah ya rabi!
Last 2 minutes changed many thoughts of mine. JazakALLAHU khairan
SubhanAllah ,may Allah bless you and upgrade you in dunya and Aakhirah Ustadh
Ameen
Alhamdulillah may ALLAH grant you the best in this life & the hereafter.
Ustadh, you are a blessing to Humanity ❤ Thankyou so much!
Thank you so much❤ i feel like loser and stagnant lately seeing everyone has a plan and move forward in life.while me feel content and have no desire to be ambitious. Just enough to sustain life and keep on effort to be faithful servant to Allah.
Alhumdulillah for getting a chance to listen this video. I need to hear these words right now. Thank you for making this Video.
I am just grateful for this video because first time in my life i have to know about the definition of confidence.
This is so accurate!💯❤️ May Allaah bless you and your family. Remember me in your prayers.
Ustad Nauman Ali Khan is a gem! 🌟
Still finding my innate purpose so I can build my confidence after it got broken down
Me too !
May Allah help us ! And give us clarity .....ameen ❤️💞✨
@@hey_people4290 Ameen. May we be amongst those who are rightly guided onto the straight path. Ameen.
Some really good qirat in my playlist plz listen with headphones on
examples were so perfect to visualise my situation right now.
Alhamdulillah i've been overplayed this talk since July 2022 and now it's November 17, 2023. Still my fav talk of Nouman Ali Khan. Jazakumullahukairan for this wonderful clip.
He is my most friend Muslim scholar
His words always hit my heart
A child building legos.
Doesnt care about others
Irrelevant
You are sure with what youre doing
Good for them, thanks buddy!
You dont need validation
Walking with purpose
You dont need to overpower anybodys voice
Theyll come to you.
Your concern is other people
1 or tousend people benefit from you
Goal
Allah gives acceptances to them
Work spoke for it self
Helps to the people who sincere.
It's more fun to actually listen :)
MashaAllah, may Allah bless u and u said so right. You inspired and it solved a lot of worries . May Allah grant u ease in worries in return that u ease many peoples worries by ur words.
He's just awesome. Subhaan Allah. One of the best teachers.
May Allah grant you ease in your affairs. Very inspirational MashaAllah
I love just listening to NAK❤
JazakiAllah khir you put how I feel in words
Since I stared seeking knowledge for the sake of Allah nothing matter anymore
I’m too focused memorizing reading writing y’a rabb Alhamdouli Allah for this bounty 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
MA Shaa ALLAH may ALLAH SWT reward Nouman Ali Khan
It's true Noumam Sir himself would have no idea what his words are to us, it's like the exact same thing we are experiencing. How every time he does give practical solutions of complicated problems we face within ourselves? this made me astonished. Only now I've come to know the real definition of CONFIDENCE.
Also I'm really grateful for this video as it became the source of my guidance. Thank you so much for uploading this video.
Exactly what I need to hear ... Alhamdulillah
He is such a good speaker .I don’t believe any rumours started to defaming him
MashaAllah explained very beautifully. I got to know about what is confidence, Alhamdulillah.
Masha Allah!! Really needed this at the time.
It's gonna stay in my heart, Insha Allah!
Alhamdulillah for everything !!😊
Alhamdulillah 🤲 I found this video.thank you Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan 👏👏May Allah bless you and your family always ❤️❤️❤️
Thus the meaning of the word confidence.... finally I get it
I always have low self esteem I always doubt myself in fact it I prepare every thing I always doubt myself in fact in exam hall iafter knowing every thing I doubt myself ya allah plz increase my self esteem
Mashaallah! So beautifully said!
A true meaning of confidence
Ma sha Allah, thanks brother Nouman Ali Khan for mentionaning this very important topic. May Allah bless you in this Dunya and Akhera!
Always so impressive
بارك الله بك
JazakAllah khair!
Very well explained about confidence !!with the reference of AlQuran ul kareem
Subhan Allah what a gem
I have never thought of the Ayah وبالوالدين إحسانا in this way before.. SubhanaAllah, thank you Ustaz for opening my sight to this ayah.
sorry what ayah did you mean? may I know?. barakallah
@@mohamadadhyprayitno7578Surah Israa, 23
Mashallah, such an insightful talk on building confidence in Islam.
ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ESHEDU EN LA IL LAHE IL ALLAHU WE ESHEDU ENE MUHAMMEDEN ABDUHU VERESULLUHU❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
May Allah bless u,,i think this is the right thing you need whenh u re indulged in deen alot and working alot to spread islam,,,at the momnet shaitan catches u to start showing others u r doin alot,,why to shout aloud,,,when people around u didint let u do wat u want to
وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ !🤍
1:23
وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ ۚ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ
1:57
Wallahi, this is exactly the kind of crisis I am going through these days.
Jazakumullah Khairan sheikh 🌹
Mas Allah... ❤️May Allah bless you all the time...
Salam Alaykum Waramotullahi Wabarakatu. thanks so much for sharing. May Allah SWT increase
our Eeman. May Allah SWT bless you and others propagating our beautiful Deen Islam positively.
Jazakallahu Khairan.
Our goal of life must be to get closer to islam and humanity bcz life is a test not to achieve our goal by destroying others life
Allah reward you Sh Nouman for this beautiful talk
Really helpful, I really needed this. Jajakallahu Khair
Ma sha ALLAH ❤️
Am glad I watched it now..jazakalllah
Working for Allah💝
jazakallah brother
Great speech 👌
That is 💯 true
very motivational and inspirational video
I shout at my son to teach him lots of things every day as tecnology has taken over, i shout at him so his souls listens and he improves and he is a on right path and understands,
Shouting an adult is waste if time .
We hv to say it millions times dont waste time
Jazakallahu khairan fi dunia wal akhira
Best❤Allah Huma Barik
Love you for the sake of Allah for uploading this
assalamoalaykum brother.... everytime I watch your videos I learn something new.... stay blessed
NAK is awesome...
Jazakillah for this
Really good advice but having ADHD, having focus is not my strongest trait. But its totally fine, ill give my best anyways because im on my own journey.
This helped. Thank you.
Absolutely mashallah
Subhan Allah
Kindly share its full lecture?
alhamdulilah
Alhamdulillah hirrabbil allahmeen
May Allah only will give myself confidence in my own life only,Aamiin Ya Robbal Alamiin.
Great talk. But why do we need to listen to the humming sound in the background. It's so irratating. Goes against what the teacher is actually saying.
Does anyone have the link to the original?
Mashallah...Allah bless you
Allahamdulillah
My whole life I was in a quest as to how to build self confidence, I am 27 now still the same anxious man nothing changed for me. I should have married by now. Because I don't know my worth, I always think of the outcome and refrain from doing things that might have benefited me. I just can't figure out what to do to be confident . Thoughts 💭?
Thank u for sharing
ALLAH (S.W.T)
Jazaka Allah khayran
I love it❤
You should add subtitles tooo
I want to know my goal because I started dreaming about my life after 10 standard. My childhood was taken away from me so I couldn't get to know about myself,my interest amd so on.. i jumped from 1 to 9 standard that's why I'm bad at studies but I want to do something productive with my life and hereafter life tell me what to do? I've been down and out.
About religion-focus on your relationship with Allah. Never ever listen to Islamophobes or haram police. Research for things yourself while keeping in mind Allah is perfect bcz he is not human. Humans are imperfect so take pride in your imperfections. Many times, religious beliefs and social beliefs don't align. At that time put your faith in Allah.
Life is a test my friend!😉
Salam
Go to Jesus.
my hart allah my blood nabi my sels quran my all body namaj
Jazakallah KHAIR
Thank you so much
Jazakallah
Very helpful video🌺
FULL LECTURE LINK PLEASE
Masha Allah
Waiting Guys