INFJ PERSONALITY TYPE EXPLAINED | Are INFJs Lost Without Goals?!
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today, we'll ask the questions are INFJs lost without goals. And at first, you might say, well INFJs are dreamers. We're not about goals. We're about what's going on in our mind, how we experience the world. But the truth is you wouldn't have those dreams if they weren't able to come true. And if we were all right with just being dreamers and not having goals, you wouldn't feel misunderstood. You wouldn't feel like something is missing in your life. If we have an urge to grow, if we have an urge of experiencing more than we experiencing now, then something is missing and I'm here to tell you it's goals. But it's a little hard for us to say what these goals are. It's not like we have this idea and then we're just too lazy or too procrastinating or whatever it is that is keeping us from going forward. And most of the time we don't even know what that is. So today we're gonna talk about how to interpret your dreams, why we always need goals specifically, because we are a cerebral type and how we're going to use this in a way where we don't have to sacrifice our integrity.
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What are your goals for this year?
global domination
Mine is just about my Mind Planning per time. I can't keep to written goals, ever! I may finish everything written, but not sequentially. Not even as I planned yesterday. I can't set goals and go for it, just like that. Wenzes, I set them, store them in my mind, but begin to Wait! Waiting? Yes. For my spirit finds the perfect spot and mental condition, I repeat, mental condition to Go. I can have the goals and mostly be grossly burning out and feeling void. I know through my inner brother that it'll be good later, but I'm constantly, like fighting, seeking for the mind clearance. "IT HAS TO ALL WORK OUT," I say so much. I'm yet watching... So
Oh my Lord Jesus, I feel understood. :D Number one Goal Save Souls? Is that Ambitious enough? Free my brothers and sisters from the Matrix! God Bless.
I have four things I would like to put in place . So:
(1) I'll allow myself to work on each one
(2) I'll find the best way to do it by stepping out and DOING, correcting as I go ...
(3) Trust SE.
(4) Trust that the process itself will allow the priorities to come up as they should.
That's not necessarily the way that a lot of the books say to do it, but I want to trust what I have to work with - and know that the process will work.
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Goals are the one thing that INFJs need because they ground them and give them structure. Goals enable us to climb down from the skies and entrench our dreams and visions into the world.
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I love that I have the gift of vision and that I can understand people and the world in a unique and special way, but sometimes I wish that I maybe had more people in my life that understood me in the same way others feel understood by me. I love that I am gifted naturally as a counselor, a healer, or a catalyst...I just sometimes wish I didn't feel like I am always the one doing the teaching. I feel very blessed to be able to be unique in this way; I don't want to sound ungrateful...but you're right, I rarely, if ever, feel intuitively understood, even in therapy. I just want to be able to experience the kind of growth and eye opening moments my friends and acquaintances often say I have given them. I love my friends so much, and they are good friends. But I can't help but feel like this can't be all there is.
Thanks for your video. Once again, enlightening and you explained with nuance in a way that could be well understood. 💙
Think of it this way...you have acsess to you 24/7 nobody else has that...do for you what you do for others...you don't need the help of others to achieve your goals or to feel good about yourself...you're an INFJ nobody is better at counceling than you are...you're a natural ❤
@@t.c9537 thank you so much for your reply. It is very true that the stronger of a relationship I've built with myself and the more self-validation I've provided myself, the more confident I've become in relying on me, and the happier I have become overall. It's funny that the answer to "I wish I could receive x from others" is practically always "whatever you want from others, focus on giving that to yourself, first." Thanks for the reminder and perspective. I really appreciate it. 💜
@@manicpixiecremegirl There you go...now you're back on track 😉👍❤
What's the difference between goals and vision?
I normally think of my vision as my goals, but if goals is setting up a clearly defined schedule then yeah, I've never had that.
I don't know if this is a common thing for INFJ, but even before I knew I was an INFJ I was already planning every year of my life in detail. I remember having note books or agendas were I'd write down all my goals and I'd actually get excited and strive to accomplish every single goal. I've been doing this since I was about 12, and now at 24 I still do it every year. I do things differently now though, I don't put as much pressure on myself to achieve everything the same year, I am more realistic with my goals, I make sure they are attainable for that time period and I will plan maximum 5 years ahead. All my life this has been very instictive of me and has helped me alot to have solid plans that I can follow through. I'm graduating from university in june 🤗 I think a fear of mine is getting to a point in my life where I don't have anymore goals to achieve, or being unsure about where to go or what to do next. I can't sleep with the thought of having no plan, no direction, no purpose. Knowing what I'm doing is very important to me, and it has to make sense to me, it has to be according to what I idealize and to where I want to be in life.
I don't feel so alone in this anymore. 😭 I didn't realise this was something common. I feel so much better knowing this and knowing how to help.
Can you please talk about INFJ healing themselves? Especially being betrayed...thank you so much...you are a great counselor...this is who you are..not in banking.....you are amazing, I learned so much from you...God bless!😇😇😇😇
Wenzes! 💥💥💥you are da supa bomb! After 8 yrs of experimenting with starting my own biz and now revamping with an expanded and different approach i still have to work so hard to cinvince myself to keep going and building! I appreciate you!
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Thank you for this video, thank you for breaking the existential ni-ti chains ⛓🙏❤💜♥💕
What are my goals for this year ? My career: Achieving more certifications to become more knowledgeable and be that " go to guy" for technical and mechanical assistance. My hobby: Completing my truck restoration project, and placing the truck in a local show. Other areas of my personal life: Hopefully/maybe meet a fine lady that is high quality. I'm working on being high quality, hopefully she is too.
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We are lost without our hearts.
I see this as a way of life. Something to remind ourselves of every morning when we get up. I also see this presented in a way that is flexible and that we can work with. Very good video, Wenzes.
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So here’s the deal Mom, the commercial music paradigm is going to change because I’m bored with the lack of excitement in art-for a long time. So as an infj I am obligated to do this! It’s time to take down the mechanism that is blocking genuine excitement.
Do it!!! Nothing is stopping you
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Thank you so much
I have 3 goals... (1) If they refuse to give me a raise, find a new job that pays better. Which will lead to (2) finally BUYING a house/land to call my own. Which will make me feel confident and secure enough to try to (3) win my love interest's heart.
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I know it is not a Golden Wulf. I love you you know. No Goals well hopefully. All that considers me is that I Got a Plan. That is all that matters. I Will Write a famous song this is understood. I thank you 42. You understand this better than me. I always thought my father was waking me at 3:17am just like in Amityville Horror so I would sound crazy. But now I think I have always been woken by those in heaven as a warning. It is remarkable how close Julia is to Julie which my father always called her, never Julia. In any case I want to love her forever. I really am unconcerned about her Mother ...but her...but her...she is all I ever think about. dad died, Mum died. Saving Mr Julia is my Goal?!
Lost without goals or employment. Hoping for a recruiter to contact me with a dream job soon.
How to get rid of the narcissist that you love outta your life?
How to get out of love with a narcissist?
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