It’s true. I dated my ‘twin’ for 7 weeks. But during this time, I felt very uneasy and anxious. Yes, there was a huge attraction and there were moments of deep connection - but also a lot of triggers from the start. I was annoyed by his communication style, was always anxious if there would ever come a next meeting and every time I saw him I was like: this is not the kind of partner I want to introduce to my family. The triggers intensified after we first slept together - which happened very naturally but also very unexpectedly. We started arguing more and more and out of a sudden he didn’t want to see me anymore. Only after this ‘break-up’ I discovered how spiritually connected we were, how we could talk to each other in dreams and how many synchronicities took place during our time together. What we had was definitely not ‘normal’. Although we only dated 7 weeks more than 3 years ago and never had a real ‘relationship’, we kind of treat each other like ‘exes’ by keeping contact every now and then. I also notices he still watches me a lot online and we keep ‘accidentally’ meeting on the street for the past 6 months (although we live in different cities). Yes I feel we belong together in a sense - but I can also feel a lot of anxiety between us (definitely not all butterflies and roses) 🌹
Yes! Very similar experience here. We have dated for around 7 weeks and he was triggering from the beginning, but also it felt like that anxious in love feeling so I kept at it. The we slept together and the triggering has only intensified! Thanks for your comment.
The synchronicities just come you dont need to go looking for them, and in the bubble love stage I was on a high and spaced out, very nervous like a teenager. Never felt like that before tbh. I never looked at my twinflame in that light when i first met, i felt it and it went far deeper than a physical attraction!!! I would say it was definitely full force into a spiritual awakening through the heart chakra ❤️❤️❤️
Wow. This video is so informative. In hindsight, although I was happy in the "Bubble Love" phase, there was always a feeling of uneasiness. I knew we had a connection that was different, but I never felt secure. There were definitely triggers that seemed to be unintentional. Interesting. ( I had become angry with a soulmate in the past, but it was always because of something he did. It was something I could identify)
As I look back, we didn't argue about the things my soulmate or karmics in the past argued about. He used to say I " got on his nerves ". He used to " piss me off". Strange too, that I couldn't stay angry for long , and would never have taken his s**t from another. When he pulled away leading to the breakup, I tried to break up first. I could not do it! So confusing.
Exactly! The second day we saw each other, I started crying out of nowhere. On the 3rd day, I already felt anxiety. It was also due to the fact that I knew that soon there would be a separation, as we live very far away from each other. ❤
I actually love that you state this because If it what I went through or going through is a twin flame journey I can’t say it was a “bubble love phase”. You are amazing so easy to understand!
so well said. looking back i knew i had lots of lesson to learn with my twin and lots of pain to go through. there was no bubble phase but just the imminence and apprehension of upcoming trigger
Thank you for this. I did not experience a euphoric "bubble love" phase, just the obsessive attraction, and I thought maybe I missed something. Recently, I have been thinking about how my concept of real love has never matched the movies or romance novels portrayal. Your explanation provides a little insight into what's happening with me and my spiritual evolution.
Never experience fear and anxious as much as I felt during my 3 month together with my twin. So much love, so much everything, it’s way to much for me to stay in the relationship, I run. Now on my way to let go of him. I ask myself so many time if he is my twin, then this video is the confirmation of the universe. Thank you !
I never felt fully comfortable with who I have felt is my Divine Counterpart. The only time I felt that harmony was when we actually physically touched, listening to music, eating and off on a wonderful conversation of expanse 🤩❤🙏🏻It just felt so overwhelming most of the time!!!
Omg, I love to listen to you bcz you give the essence without romanticizing the things. I read your book and it gave me total understanding of my life. I recognized all five STM and still I cannot believe how did you do it to describe all of the soul family so neatly! Thank you for your work - I trust it❤
Honestly, I never had a "Bubble Love" phase. Yes, there was an intense connection, and the conversations were deep, making it clear that this was not normal. However, there was always some tension around. Every conversation involved some triggering word from either side, and even during the best conversations, there was always a sense of uneasiness.
Thank you again for an amazing video. It definitely resonates. Every reunion phase I’ve had with someone who I feel is twin, my abandonment issues get triggered and anxiety about separation spikes (I swear twins could sense this). During separation, I often questioned how I could feel such a deep love for and from someone who can’t prioritize me the way I want-maybe he is a “karmic partner” even though we always seem to choose and find our way back to each other. The example you used in your book on how the chaser behaves during reunion (anxiety, lack of boundaries, expectations) perfectly sums up my exact emotions. There will never be a “bubble phase” without that underlying tension until you’ve learned your core karmic lesson. The whole point of this journey is growth after all. PEOPLE PLEASE BUY THE DAMN BOOK.
In your opinion, what is the difference between twin flames going into the cycle of separation/reunion vs dealing with a karmic going into and out of one’s life? The discernment seems difficult.
Yesterday was going lile low but Im feeling too good after watching this video as the way u explained ❤ Thankyou.. yesterday I literally said to self "ego plz stop telling me stories was tired shattered wid no clue why it's happening.m feeling good now much..if many watched this one video too many things between them self will sort
Yes this first phase is weird to describe and it´s not like normally falling in love. There is immense pull and attraction towards this person (although it may not even be your type, my twin is old e.g.) and it´s all very contradictory. On one hand everything they say is like heaven and like in a movie but on the other hand they act and communicate very strange and distant and you feel that there is something not right which you can´t put into words at that time. And then you go and want to treat it like normal dating and in our case it was already over after one sunday we spent together, although we went along very well and we were like little kids enjoying each other´s presence. When I asked him to come over the next day he was very distant and the whole thing exploded, it was very painful. It wasn´t a normal rejection as he could have done it completely different, but he did it worst way possible (and he was really shy and sweet before that) it was totally out of control. He is my neighbor so I guess it must had been so harsh to keep me at distance. We have the same childhood trauma and he has other traumas too. Most of our conversation was about trauma and anxiety. In the end all these "tf stages" are only there to give a rough description for people to recognize the phenomenon. In my case there was also a pre-phase to this bubble love phase with synchronicities. The phase between first meeting and the "date" took almost 1,5 years. The date was like the mountain peak, before that he pulled me closer and closer and at the moment I started to go towards him he pushed me away
It’s probable that this weekend I’ll see my twin the fourth time in a 12 year relationship. She’s married to a soul mate and I might be meeting him. He has known of me from the beginning and wants to meet me. I look forward the opportunity to say that I love him.
Okay! Okay!! So all the bubble phase explanations elsewhere used to confuse me cz though mine was exhilarating, I was so so triggered most of the times and one day just broke down and cried for like 7 hours for no reason , for him , even though he was talking to me nicely. He’s also told me that one day he cried a lot thinking of me. By the time separation came, I was a giant walking talking triggered negative human who still had the dm with me. Then poof, one day my otherwise inane outburst triggered him and he just went away. I’m not sure if I have to be happy or sad with this yet another confirmation that it is indeed a tf journey
I'm wondering if you can do a video on some of the deep complexities of this journey. I love your content, i found you a couple days ago and you're the only creator that I believe has .... really reached meaningful depth. I'm interested in a possible deeper analysis of the run/chase dynamic and the potential negative consequences of assigning gender/energy to roles. I'm a woman, a feminine woman, and I recognized early on in my journey that I was chasing in order to push him away. However, I've come upon my core wound and, knowing him to be a runner (anxious avoidant), I've believed that he has to come back or reach out. The thing is that i KNOW he won't. I know he wont because he saw my behavior before I did. I have the belief that any man that I love, if i believe he loves me back, he will hurt me. My behaviors and patterns ALL show this to be true consistently since childhood. I, since i actually saw that he loves me, I can't walk toward him. In fact, in the 2 years that its been since the triggering i have walked toward him one single time in order to have a conversation with him and left within 5 seconds of him implying that he was interested in me. Its a much longer and more complicated story than that, but. . Idk, i think were both BOTH runner and chaser.
Im excited for your video answering the question, “can twin flames have children together?” ! Also I’m wondering about what sort of synchronicities occur in numerology, astrology, and even Chinese zodiac when it comes to twin flames and compatibility (I know you said your charts mirror each others). Is there anything else that might occur in charts or synastry? I would love examples of different types of mirroring that may not be as obvious 😅. I would also be curious about what you know about twins who have not been in relationships prior to each other and are virgins. Love the insights! 💕
Alexx, im just gonna add a comment here, hoping you will see. There are a thousand coaches out there giving multiple messages about tf journey. I see my df pretty much living his life and extremely happy and I want to get there too. Not with him. By myself. I cannot afford to hire a coach but each day this is getting harder - have lung palpitations. Do you have videos on some sort of step by step guidance on how to proceed? I know i have to surrender but unable to. I do not want to live the rest of my life like this. Everyone says ascend, but how?
Even in the beginning of this relationship it felt on and off and i was scared to fall for him idk if the bubble phase existed.. we talked on a few occasions and then i pushed him away cause i was scared until i started chasing but it was much later more like when we completely stopped talking before that we went a few days without talking cause u thought its not too good to be attached and then when i wanted it he seemed to not ig but what does this mean? There was no separation or no bubble phase like tf’s have so this isnt a true authentic journey??
My tf is 11 yrs younger and when I met him first it felt sooo confusing that why I am so drawn to him while my mind was anxious all the time knowing this will never work ❤ Energy was euphoric though ❤
REQUEST: hi Alexx, I am in love with your clear cut and honest content ❤ I have watched so many videos in the past days, but I couldn't find any video on one topic, so maybe one day you would be interested in making a video about it. My question is: what if you both experience signs of TF, but for external reasons there is no space to express the feelings because it would be absolutely inappropriate. This pain of not being able to directly simply express the feelings is so confusing and painful. What would be your advice? Thanks a lot!
My question would be "what is inappropriate and who decides that?" Because it sounds like a construct that is being used as a justification on both sides.
@@wearethesamenergy maybe twin flames thing is really about being a catalyst for our forgotten-selves - spiritual journey within. "Inappropriate" in this case would mean to jeopardize the work of our lives (projects we do that we are both passionate about), and to hurt our third parties. 😢
Finally I am getting the answers after watching your videos.. I still have some confusion about "inner work" .. Is it possible to disclose the actual concept of inner wok... What is the connection between Meditation or chakra healing with this journey ? .. Isn't it the stuck energy doing anything with the intention to get the twin back?
I would suggest watching videos on my Intuition and Empath playlist, and also my videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames" and "Twin Flames and the Heart, Third Eye, and Crown Chakras"
I have a question in regards to the Soul Family Teacher - I am through my energy body the connecting force & soul family teacher / uplifter of frequency meaning I can feel how my actions, movements and energy shifts immediately shift the whole fractal but also how I am being very much weighed on by lots of them when they get heavy - how do you manage that? Besides surrendering, giving back, boundaries, purging? Also re bubble love for me that was more that sense of omg I love everything and everybody and the whole world and everything is beautiful and I find something to love in basically everybody - that’s how I resonated with the bubble love phase caused by meeting my twin, it was only a little bit our physical connection as we basically only had touch & go’s exchanging little words & touches but absolutely huge amounts of energy
😂 I recently found my journal of that initial phase of our relationship before our first separation. When I read it, I was pretty shocked and actually appalled at how anxious and triggered I was all through it. There was a theme that kept coming up, about how I wish this initial phase would be over already, because I felt I knew him, and the “getting to know him” was excruciating. I just wanted to be past that already. There were also the most intimate moments I have experienced in my life. I didn’t know the terms then, but I guess that was 3D versus 5D. It’s been multiple separations and reunions since, still in long term separation, and while I was so hurt this last separation, his essence is with me like a shadow. At least I am no longer obsessing about where he is and what he’s doing. I have a big question about union which probably has a short answer: What you describe as recognising you are the universe - as you put it in your Q&A video “Technicolor Oz” - that’s not a constant, is it? It’s an experience, that passes, and remains a memory - but not your constant state of being. Or is it constant? And if we are the universe, what does anything mean or how does anything still have purpose? (Okay, that’s two questions, and this one I guess is way philosophical, so even a yes or no about the first would be great! 😊)
You are correct on the first, and that is where the healing work comes in; the more you heal, the more constant the feeling will be. Regarding your second question, I suggest reading my book!
Nothing was perfect but I'm not naturally romantic either. I don't even like receiving flowers. it was quite passionate but at the same time annoying. But I already forgot. I was supposed to write down karmic lessons somewhere so I could work on them, but I also forgot. The world did its best, but I prefer to google something and analyze it rather than learn live with another person.
Heyy Alexx, do you by chance have a video about Non-attachment, but in the term of realising youre the universe and don't feel attached to things anymore, does this resemble the core karmic lesson of non attachment but less "chaos" more "peace" if that makes sense. Would love to hear your thoughts as I am beginning to master this more! Thanks again
In short is it like?? if your body and ego is not getting what it actually wants/asked from the one we love they both just shut with time as triggering is happening but still the love is there anyway so it's confused like what to respond and the submission is happened (for Union or just don't know part like) + yes as the love is there but before separation the connection Just triggers eachother in someway bcoz one is actually not aware whats happening knowingly but still unknowingly the response is happened in dat way
This is interesting.. I don’t resonate with all of it but I’ve always noted that our early encounters were what I would primarily describe as ‘uncomfortable’ .. in a way that I can’t really explain as it was this initial immediate I would say inescapable .. just all encompassing .. I don’t know, sandwich? But it was quickly and concurrently.. uncomfortable? I recall crying and being emotionally overwhelmed after our first completely innocuous encounter, like I sat down and felt some stretch of events ahead of me but it was not conscious and I thought I was just tired. I would describe uncomfortable being the main theme honestly along the way for the first maybe one or two years. Which seems insane to say. Like why I would even continue to interact with someone? But with each separation, and with time.. the discomfort transformed into something else but. I don’t know. I sometimes joke that we did a marriage backwards.. like we encountered every disaster problem and eased into what should be a honey moon period later in but by then.. I felt a sense of like I’ve been married to this person forever and I love them but they just annoy me (lol). But also, wanting that. But seriously valuing my alone time more than anything. So weird I know. Also I would almost venture to say that I never felt IN love per se.. rather even though he blurted out I love you after a few days or weeks (and this is someone who takes years if ever to use words like that)…. I would describe what I felt as more.. I love him as a human? the way we’ve each described it, when we first met and even now is.. I love that you are alive, and on this planet. I am not sure why we used that wording, but we both felt that so strongly and discussed it, even when separated. Each time period yes I would say maybe not pedestal as I held him on that early on but with time it both grew and also became more realistic. Like I see all of you… I zero percent see this dreamy image that I maybe once did.. I am not as understanding and tolerant as I once was.. but at the same time I love and respect you as a human even more so? Or like I love where you’ve brought me, or where I’ve brought me as I’ve come to know myself.. through this encounter with you? Haha all of this to say, aside from some early moments of looking back probably glossing over a lot of anxiety with some panacea and chemicals.. there was no love bubble. There was that initial whoa of our connection but it was just as strongly matched with discomfort almost immediately. And something I would normally (I think? Or in retrospect) advise maybe NOT pursuing, but it was this almost caterpillar weaving something without understanding why… alongside a deep and overwhelming feeling of loving a human. And in time that becoming larger and extending far outside of him. Romantic? Hail no. He is like the sibling, old married partner, best friend, coworker, I would say twin but lol.. all wrapped into one that I never asked for. And also just a really amazing, deeply flawed and wonderfully perfect human.
I sincerely honor your work, but I sincerely hope you evolve past your egoic attachment to mental functions Love surpasses the physical, tactile plane. Source is Love and nature reflects it. To say that love is egoic shows how disconnected you are from source.
She is not disconnected from source. She is highly intelligent and not some woo woo new age moron. She is referring to the concept of love not love itself...and if you look up what happens when people are attracted to each other physiologically she is absolutely right on the money. She's also referring to how ego interprets all the biological processes that occur when attracted to someone
I loved this video Alexx! I saw in the past I have fallen in and out of this phase. Even tho the low was so painful, but looking back I am so glad I didn’t end up with those guys and it was a blessing. When you talk about submission, is it to submit to the higher intelligence and letting go of the outcome? Is the true test is when you let go and the person comes back into your life and wants to heal with you? Thank you for guidance.❤
We were very happy and inlove and strongly connected for 10 moths. Beautifull and very empowring love with great sense of soul spiritual bond. . And than suddenly he got scared becouse it was intence. And cut off. I never expected that.
Mostly relieved, but be lying if I said I wasn’t disappointment, this is undeniable proof my person NOW is my twin, and others were not, but I want to experience that with my twin, probably won’t until permanent union happens right? So we met online, she is a RUclips reader, and you said soul recognition happens in person or at least stronger ones, I can’t remember, but anyways point is I met her online, I ordered reading, before we got into it, I was all… hey, I kinda like her, but as soon as we got into the reader I did not like her so much, I was asking if another interest at the time was my twin, and she said no, and I debated with her a bit “my ego” and she then proceeded to say she has a reputation for being accurate, “her ego” and I asked maybe god is with holding info cause your not meant to have it, she pulled a card and was like “nope, this card is my confirmation card that god is telling me everything”, “her ego again” and then she ended the reading off by saying “if your gut is telling you she’s your twin, then by all means disregard what I say” I knew then I didn’t like her as a reader, and complained to her about another reader, how condensing she seemed.” I didn’t like her but yet I got 4 more readings off her before I realized she was my twin”😂
I'm very confused with you saying love is egoic. Source itself is love and we ourselves are love. This is the only ultimate truth of our nature. I'm just having a difficult time understanding your point here. Are you saying love is not present outside of the material planes? I do like that you don't romanticize relationships as ultimately we are all one divine Source. However, it seems you are minimizing the importance of love itself. Love is not an emotion. It is simply the truth of who we are.
Love actually IS an emotion, though before that triggers in any fashion, think of it this way: being in love and feeling love are created by and cause a release of chemicals in the brain; actions are what "show" love; in science, love is used as an emotional gauge for evaluation tests. We utilize the term "love" for a plethora of things that we can technically quantify but personally feel overwhelmed by. The feeling of love that you're referring to, which is pure universal energy does not actually have a term because it is not quantifiable. What it ultimately boils down to is a problem with vernacular and verbiage.
Is there an element of forgiveness involved if you've felt hurt by your twin or is it simply about going beyond the ego and in a sense opening your heart towards them?🫶🏽
That's an excellent question and I will do a video on this when I have time. Just don't suppress your emotions. If you feel you need to heal and forgive, then that's the right for you to do 🙏
Honestly I didn’t feel like I had a bubble love phase. 🫡 and I wasn’t expecting to meet this guy who I know is my TF. We met and I honestly felt so comfortable but because of distance we had solid communication for about a week and then things started to slide backwards which triggered me and I started chasing. Now I know that this could happen with anyone you “like” but almost instantly I went straight into some sort of balancing act automatically where (and I hate the labels but I have more fem energy) I started to shift from fear to self realisation. I even got a new job. I only met him a month ago. 🤔
It’s true. I dated my ‘twin’ for 7 weeks. But during this time, I felt very uneasy and anxious. Yes, there was a huge attraction and there were moments of deep connection - but also a lot of triggers from the start. I was annoyed by his communication style, was always anxious if there would ever come a next meeting and every time I saw him I was like: this is not the kind of partner I want to introduce to my family. The triggers intensified after we first slept together - which happened very naturally but also very unexpectedly. We started arguing more and more and out of a sudden he didn’t want to see me anymore. Only after this ‘break-up’ I discovered how spiritually connected we were, how we could talk to each other in dreams and how many synchronicities took place during our time together. What we had was definitely not ‘normal’. Although we only dated 7 weeks more than 3 years ago and never had a real ‘relationship’, we kind of treat each other like ‘exes’ by keeping contact every now and then. I also notices he still watches me a lot online and we keep ‘accidentally’ meeting on the street for the past 6 months (although we live in different cities). Yes I feel we belong together in a sense - but I can also feel a lot of anxiety between us (definitely not all butterflies and roses) 🌹
this comment is so relatable LOLL !!
Yes! Very similar experience here. We have dated for around 7 weeks and he was triggering from the beginning, but also it felt like that anxious in love feeling so I kept at it. The we slept together and the triggering has only intensified! Thanks for your comment.
This is so relatable lmao
The synchronicities just come you dont need to go looking for them, and in the bubble love stage I was on a high and spaced out, very nervous like a teenager. Never felt like that before tbh. I never looked at my twinflame in that light when i first met, i felt it and it went far deeper than a physical attraction!!! I would say it was definitely full force into a spiritual awakening through the heart chakra ❤️❤️❤️
Wow. This video is so informative. In hindsight, although I was happy in the "Bubble Love" phase, there was always a feeling of uneasiness. I knew we had a connection that was different, but I never felt secure. There were definitely triggers that seemed to be unintentional. Interesting. ( I had become angry with a soulmate in the past, but it was always because of something he did. It was something I could identify)
As I look back, we didn't argue about the things my soulmate or karmics in the past argued about. He used to say I " got on his nerves ". He used to " piss me off". Strange too, that I couldn't stay angry for long , and would never have taken his s**t from another. When he pulled away leading to the breakup, I tried to break up first. I could not do it! So confusing.
Exactly! The second day we saw each other, I started crying out of nowhere. On the 3rd day, I already felt anxiety. It was also due to the fact that I knew that soon there would be a separation, as we live very far away from each other. ❤
I hardly slept during the first & second reunion. Both lasted about 7 weeks. Tough on the nervous system & so intense.. 🔥🔥
I actually love that you state this because If it what I went through or going through is a twin flame journey I can’t say it was a “bubble love phase”. You are amazing so easy to understand!
I'm so glad it's resonating!
so well said. looking back i knew i had lots of lesson to learn with my twin and lots of pain to go through. there was no bubble phase but just the imminence and apprehension of upcoming trigger
Thank you for this. I did not experience a euphoric "bubble love" phase, just the obsessive attraction, and I thought maybe I missed something. Recently, I have been thinking about how my concept of real love has never matched the movies or romance novels portrayal. Your explanation provides a little insight into what's happening with me and my spiritual evolution.
Never experience fear and anxious as much as I felt during my 3 month together with my twin. So much love, so much everything, it’s way to much for me to stay in the relationship, I run. Now on my way to let go of him. I ask myself so many time if he is my twin, then this video is the confirmation of the universe. Thank you !
I never felt fully comfortable with who I have felt is my Divine Counterpart. The only time I felt that harmony was when we actually physically touched, listening to music, eating and off on a wonderful conversation of expanse 🤩❤🙏🏻It just felt so overwhelming most of the time!!!
God, i really feel you on that! ❤
Omg, I love to listen to you bcz you give the essence without romanticizing the things. I read your book and it gave me total understanding of my life. I recognized all five STM and still I cannot believe how did you do it to describe all of the soul family so neatly! Thank you for your work - I trust it❤
I'm so glad to hear that, and thank you so much for your support!
Beautifully clear and comprehensive explanation.
Thank you ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Honestly, I never had a "Bubble Love" phase. Yes, there was an intense connection, and the conversations were deep, making it clear that this was not normal. However, there was always some tension around. Every conversation involved some triggering word from either side, and even during the best conversations, there was always a sense of uneasiness.
Thanks for putting this up here. It's really helpful when talking about the science involved.
Thank you again for an amazing video. It definitely resonates. Every reunion phase I’ve had with someone who I feel is twin, my abandonment issues get triggered and anxiety about separation spikes (I swear twins could sense this). During separation, I often questioned how I could feel such a deep love for and from someone who can’t prioritize me the way I want-maybe he is a “karmic partner” even though we always seem to choose and find our way back to each other. The example you used in your book on how the chaser behaves during reunion (anxiety, lack of boundaries, expectations) perfectly sums up my exact emotions. There will never be a “bubble phase” without that underlying tension until you’ve learned your core karmic lesson. The whole point of this journey is growth after all.
PEOPLE PLEASE BUY THE DAMN BOOK.
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In your opinion, what is the difference between twin flames going into the cycle of separation/reunion vs dealing with a karmic going into and out of one’s life? The discernment seems difficult.
It is a difficult discernment. My book explains it in great detail
Yesterday was going lile low but Im feeling too good after watching this video as the way u explained ❤ Thankyou.. yesterday I literally said to self "ego plz stop telling me stories was tired shattered wid no clue why it's happening.m feeling good now much..if many watched this one video too many things between them self will sort
I will love to watch one video about your view on compromises.
Currently reading your book. Love it!! ❤
So glad and thank you for your support! Would you mind writing me a review when you're finished with it?
damn this just now made me fully realize the beginning of our relationship was a train wreck omg
Lol. Same. Total trainwreck
Exactly. Same
Yes this first phase is weird to describe and it´s not like normally falling in love. There is immense pull and attraction towards this person (although it may not even be your type, my twin is old e.g.) and it´s all very contradictory. On one hand everything they say is like heaven and like in a movie but on the other hand they act and communicate very strange and distant and you feel that there is something not right which you can´t put into words at that time. And then you go and want to treat it like normal dating and in our case it was already over after one sunday we spent together, although we went along very well and we were like little kids enjoying each other´s presence. When I asked him to come over the next day he was very distant and the whole thing exploded, it was very painful. It wasn´t a normal rejection as he could have done it completely different, but he did it worst way possible (and he was really shy and sweet before that) it was totally out of control. He is my neighbor so I guess it must had been so harsh to keep me at distance. We have the same childhood trauma and he has other traumas too. Most of our conversation was about trauma and anxiety. In the end all these "tf stages" are only there to give a rough description for people to recognize the phenomenon. In my case there was also a pre-phase to this bubble love phase with synchronicities. The phase between first meeting and the "date" took almost 1,5 years. The date was like the mountain peak, before that he pulled me closer and closer and at the moment I started to go towards him he pushed me away
It’s probable that this weekend I’ll see my twin the fourth time in a 12 year relationship. She’s married to a soul mate and I might be meeting him. He has known of me from the beginning and wants to meet me. I look forward the opportunity to say that I love him.
Omg ...I love this so much!
Okay! Okay!! So all the bubble phase explanations elsewhere used to confuse me cz though mine was exhilarating, I was so so triggered most of the times and one day just broke down and cried for like 7 hours for no reason , for him , even though he was talking to me nicely. He’s also told me that one day he cried a lot thinking of me. By the time separation came, I was a giant walking talking triggered negative human who still had the dm with me. Then poof, one day my otherwise inane outburst triggered him and he just went away. I’m not sure if I have to be happy or sad with this yet another confirmation that it is indeed a tf journey
I'm wondering if you can do a video on some of the deep complexities of this journey.
I love your content, i found you a couple days ago and you're the only creator that I believe has .... really reached meaningful depth.
I'm interested in a possible deeper analysis of the run/chase dynamic and the potential negative consequences of assigning gender/energy to roles. I'm a woman, a feminine woman, and I recognized early on in my journey that I was chasing in order to push him away. However, I've come upon my core wound and, knowing him to be a runner (anxious avoidant), I've believed that he has to come back or reach out. The thing is that i KNOW he won't. I know he wont because he saw my behavior before I did. I have the belief that any man that I love, if i believe he loves me back, he will hurt me. My behaviors and patterns ALL show this to be true consistently since childhood. I, since i actually saw that he loves me, I can't walk toward him. In fact, in the 2 years that its been since the triggering i have walked toward him one single time in order to have a conversation with him and left within 5 seconds of him implying that he was interested in me.
Its a much longer and more complicated story than that, but. . Idk, i think were both BOTH runner and chaser.
I would suggest reading my book; it talks deeply about all of this
Got the book, it'll be here Friday! Thanks!
Im excited for your video answering the question, “can twin flames have children together?” !
Also I’m wondering about what sort of synchronicities occur in numerology, astrology, and even Chinese zodiac when it comes to twin flames and compatibility (I know you said your charts mirror each others). Is there anything else that might occur in charts or synastry? I would love examples of different types of mirroring that may not be as obvious 😅.
I would also be curious about what you know about twins who have not been in relationships prior to each other and are virgins.
Love the insights! 💕
Alexx, im just gonna add a comment here, hoping you will see. There are a thousand coaches out there giving multiple messages about tf journey. I see my df pretty much living his life and extremely happy and I want to get there too. Not with him. By myself. I cannot afford to hire a coach but each day this is getting harder - have lung palpitations. Do you have videos on some sort of step by step guidance on how to proceed? I know i have to surrender but unable to. I do not want to live the rest of my life like this. Everyone says ascend, but how?
Start with my series "Non-Attachment and Union" on my site. That will give you a pretty step-by-step guide
Even in the beginning of this relationship it felt on and off and i was scared to fall for him idk if the bubble phase existed.. we talked on a few occasions and then i pushed him away cause i was scared until i started chasing but it was much later more like when we completely stopped talking before that we went a few days without talking cause u thought its not too good to be attached and then when i wanted it he seemed to not ig but what does this mean? There was no separation or no bubble phase like tf’s have so this isnt a true authentic journey??
My tf is 11 yrs younger and when I met him first it felt sooo confusing that why I am so drawn to him while my mind was anxious all the time knowing this will never work ❤ Energy was euphoric though ❤
You can also watch my video "3D Differences Between Twin Flames" which speaks about this
REQUEST: hi Alexx, I am in love with your clear cut and honest content ❤ I have watched so many videos in the past days, but I couldn't find any video on one topic, so maybe one day you would be interested in making a video about it.
My question is: what if you both experience signs of TF, but for external reasons there is no space to express the feelings because it would be absolutely inappropriate. This pain of not being able to directly simply express the feelings is so confusing and painful. What would be your advice? Thanks a lot!
My question would be "what is inappropriate and who decides that?" Because it sounds like a construct that is being used as a justification on both sides.
@@wearethesamenergy maybe twin flames thing is really about being a catalyst for our forgotten-selves - spiritual journey within.
"Inappropriate" in this case would mean to jeopardize the work of our lives (projects we do that we are both passionate about), and to hurt our third parties. 😢
Twin Flame journey is ALWAYS about the Self, so you are correct in that!
Finally I am getting the answers after watching your videos.. I still have some confusion about "inner work" .. Is it possible to disclose the actual concept of inner wok... What is the connection between Meditation or chakra healing with this journey ? .. Isn't it the stuck energy doing anything with the intention to get the twin back?
I would suggest watching videos on my Intuition and Empath playlist, and also my videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames" and "Twin Flames and the Heart, Third Eye, and Crown Chakras"
Thank you so much ❤️🙏
I have a question in regards to the Soul Family Teacher - I am through my energy body the connecting force & soul family teacher / uplifter of frequency meaning I can feel how my actions, movements and energy shifts immediately shift the whole fractal but also how I am being very much weighed on by lots of them when they get heavy - how do you manage that? Besides surrendering, giving back, boundaries, purging? Also re bubble love for me that was more that sense of omg I love everything and everybody and the whole world and everything is beautiful and I find something to love in basically everybody - that’s how I resonated with the bubble love phase caused by meeting my twin, it was only a little bit our physical connection as we basically only had touch & go’s exchanging little words & touches but absolutely huge amounts of energy
😂 I recently found my journal of that initial phase of our relationship before our first separation. When I read it, I was pretty shocked and actually appalled at how anxious and triggered I was all through it. There was a theme that kept coming up, about how I wish this initial phase would be over already, because I felt I knew him, and the “getting to know him” was excruciating. I just wanted to be past that already. There were also the most intimate moments I have experienced in my life. I didn’t know the terms then, but I guess that was 3D versus 5D.
It’s been multiple separations and reunions since, still in long term separation, and while I was so hurt this last separation, his essence is with me like a shadow. At least I am no longer obsessing about where he is and what he’s doing.
I have a big question about union which probably has a short answer:
What you describe as recognising you are the universe - as you put it in your Q&A video “Technicolor Oz” - that’s not a constant, is it? It’s an experience, that passes, and remains a memory - but not your constant state of being. Or is it constant?
And if we are the universe, what does anything mean or how does anything still have purpose?
(Okay, that’s two questions, and this one I guess is way philosophical, so even a yes or no about the first would be great! 😊)
You are correct on the first, and that is where the healing work comes in; the more you heal, the more constant the feeling will be. Regarding your second question, I suggest reading my book!
Nothing was perfect but I'm not naturally romantic either. I don't even like receiving flowers. it was quite passionate but at the same time annoying. But I already forgot. I was supposed to write down karmic lessons somewhere so I could work on them, but I also forgot. The world did its best, but I prefer to google something and analyze it rather than learn live with another person.
Heyy Alexx, do you by chance have a video about Non-attachment, but in the term of realising youre the universe and don't feel attached to things anymore, does this resemble the core karmic lesson of non attachment but less "chaos" more "peace" if that makes sense. Would love to hear your thoughts as I am beginning to master this more! Thanks again
I have a series on my website called "Non-Attachment and Union" that you can check out!
Are you with your twin flame yes that YOU did those beautiful videos with it’s so beautiful to see union 💗?
I'm sorry, I don't understand your question?
In short is it like?? if your body and ego is not getting what it actually wants/asked from the one we love they both just shut with time as triggering is happening but still the love is there anyway so it's confused like what to respond and the submission is happened (for Union or just don't know part like) + yes as the love is there but before separation the connection Just triggers eachother in someway bcoz one is actually not aware whats happening knowingly but still unknowingly the response is happened in dat way
This is heavy duty, it's like she negates your whole existence in the blink of an eye.
POOF! Hahahahaha
Amazing right on the nose ❤
I was married and had two children with my twin flame and our marriage didn’t even have a chance because it wasn’t so wonderful
Did you get a new tattoo on your arm? 🥰🥰 looks amazing!!
Nope, haven't had a new tattoo in probably 7 years!
This is interesting.. I don’t resonate with all of it but I’ve always noted that our early encounters were what I would primarily describe as ‘uncomfortable’ .. in a way that I can’t really explain as it was this initial immediate I would say inescapable .. just all encompassing .. I don’t know, sandwich? But it was quickly and concurrently.. uncomfortable?
I recall crying and being emotionally overwhelmed after our first completely innocuous encounter, like I sat down and felt some stretch of events ahead of me but it was not conscious and I thought I was just tired.
I would describe uncomfortable being the main theme honestly along the way for the first maybe one or two years. Which seems insane to say. Like why I would even continue to interact with someone? But with each separation, and with time.. the discomfort transformed into something else but. I don’t know. I sometimes joke that we did a marriage backwards.. like we encountered every disaster problem and eased into what should be a honey moon period later in but by then.. I felt a sense of like I’ve been married to this person forever and I love them but they just annoy me (lol). But also, wanting that. But seriously valuing my alone time more than anything. So weird I know.
Also I would almost venture to say that I never felt IN love per se.. rather even though he blurted out I love you after a few days or weeks (and this is someone who takes years if ever to use words like that)…. I would describe what I felt as more.. I love him as a human? the way we’ve each described it, when we first met and even now is.. I love that you are alive, and on this planet. I am not sure why we used that wording, but we both felt that so strongly and discussed it, even when separated.
Each time period yes I would say maybe not pedestal as I held him on that early on but with time it both grew and also became more realistic. Like I see all of you… I zero percent see this dreamy image that I maybe once did.. I am not as understanding and tolerant as I once was.. but at the same time I love and respect you as a human even more so? Or like I love where you’ve brought me, or where I’ve brought me as I’ve come to know myself.. through this encounter with you?
Haha all of this to say, aside from some early moments of looking back probably glossing over a lot of anxiety with some panacea and chemicals.. there was no love bubble. There was that initial whoa of our connection but it was just as strongly matched with discomfort almost immediately. And something I would normally (I think? Or in retrospect) advise maybe NOT pursuing, but it was this almost caterpillar weaving something without understanding why… alongside a deep and overwhelming feeling of loving a human. And in time that becoming larger and extending far outside of him.
Romantic? Hail no. He is like the sibling, old married partner, best friend, coworker, I would say twin but lol.. all wrapped into one that I never asked for. And also just a really amazing, deeply flawed and wonderfully perfect human.
Do you have a video about false flames?
No, the concept is very dense, so I have a large section in my book on False Flames
Got it, thank you!
I sincerely honor your work, but I sincerely hope you evolve past your egoic attachment to mental functions
Love surpasses the physical, tactile plane. Source is Love and nature reflects it. To say that love is egoic shows how disconnected you are from source.
I agree. If you meant it's a different love than universal love, I don't think you got that point across at all.
She is not disconnected from source. She is highly intelligent and not some woo woo new age moron. She is referring to the concept of love not love itself...and if you look up what happens when people are attracted to each other physiologically she is absolutely right on the money. She's also referring to how ego interprets all the biological processes that occur when attracted to someone
I loved this video Alexx! I saw in the past I have fallen in and out of this phase. Even tho the low was so painful, but looking back I am so glad I didn’t end up with those guys and it was a blessing. When you talk about submission, is it to submit to the higher intelligence and letting go of the outcome? Is the true test is when you let go and the person comes back into your life and wants to heal with you? Thank you for guidance.❤
You may want to watch my series called "Non-Attachment and Union" on my website. It talks very deeply about submission
So if i had 10 month of beautifull and happy and harmonios loving relationship , than its actually a soulmate and not a tf?
It depends on when you went into your first separation
We were very happy and inlove and strongly connected for 10 moths. Beautifull and very empowring love with great sense of soul spiritual bond. . And than suddenly he got scared becouse it was intence. And cut off. I never expected that.
Love is not real? It is the strongest force in the Universe. It also exists beyond Earth-3D.
Mostly relieved, but be lying if I said I wasn’t disappointment, this is undeniable proof my person NOW is my twin, and others were not, but I want to experience that with my twin, probably won’t until permanent union happens right? So we met online, she is a RUclips reader, and you said soul recognition happens in person or at least stronger ones, I can’t remember, but anyways point is I met her online, I ordered reading, before we got into it, I was all… hey, I kinda like her, but as soon as we got into the reader I did not like her so much, I was asking if another interest at the time was my twin, and she said no, and I debated with her a bit “my ego” and she then proceeded to say she has a reputation for being accurate, “her ego” and I asked maybe god is with holding info cause your not meant to have it, she pulled a card and was like “nope, this card is my confirmation card that god is telling me everything”, “her ego again” and then she ended the reading off by saying “if your gut is telling you she’s your twin, then by all means disregard what I say” I knew then I didn’t like her as a reader, and complained to her about another reader, how condensing she seemed.” I didn’t like her but yet I got 4 more readings off her before I realized she was my twin”😂
I would like more info on 'others dont exist'... will the resourse list in your book help me access more information?
The science resources will
I never heard of it. I think all the terms are cheesy as it is.
I'm very confused with you saying love is egoic. Source itself is love and we ourselves are love. This is the only ultimate truth of our nature. I'm just having a difficult time understanding your point here. Are you saying love is not present outside of the material planes? I do like that you don't romanticize relationships as ultimately we are all one divine Source. However, it seems you are minimizing the importance of love itself. Love is not an emotion. It is simply the truth of who we are.
Love actually IS an emotion, though before that triggers in any fashion, think of it this way: being in love and feeling love are created by and cause a release of chemicals in the brain; actions are what "show" love; in science, love is used as an emotional gauge for evaluation tests. We utilize the term "love" for a plethora of things that we can technically quantify but personally feel overwhelmed by. The feeling of love that you're referring to, which is pure universal energy does not actually have a term because it is not quantifiable. What it ultimately boils down to is a problem with vernacular and verbiage.
“You might not want to hear this but…” 🤣 seriously my favorite. Every. Time. 😂🪦💀
Is there an element of forgiveness involved if you've felt hurt by your twin or is it simply about going beyond the ego and in a sense opening your heart towards them?🫶🏽
That's an excellent question and I will do a video on this when I have time. Just don't suppress your emotions. If you feel you need to heal and forgive, then that's the right for you to do 🙏
Honestly I didn’t feel like I had a bubble love phase. 🫡 and I wasn’t expecting to meet this guy who I know is my TF. We met and I honestly felt so comfortable but because of distance we had solid communication for about a week and then things started to slide backwards which triggered me and I started chasing. Now I know that this could happen with anyone you “like” but almost instantly I went straight into some sort of balancing act automatically where (and I hate the labels but I have more fem energy) I started to shift from fear to self realisation. I even got a new job. I only met him a month ago. 🤔