Fi’s Fight Back - appointment day and a very exciting evening in London!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 авг 2024
  • A very busy few days.
    First off, appointment day which actually went well. My walk got extended by 5 minutes and that also means needing to use the wheelchair abit less. Baby steps (literally!).
    Then a very exciting day with dad (or evening should I say!). I got him tickets to see his favourite show and we had such a lovely evening out.
    This video is a little behind (just by two weeks I think 🤔) , which I’ll explain why I’m the next couple of videos I’m still editing. A lot has been happening. A lot a lot.
    #edrecovery #recovery #anorexiarecovery #dayinthelife #eatingdisorderrecovery #inpatient #recoveryispossible

Комментарии • 115

  • @lisamedlyn3818
    @lisamedlyn3818 2 года назад +5

    The make up looks amazing, and I love a cute dress with Docs.

  • @soraiaafonso8662
    @soraiaafonso8662 2 года назад

    What a fantastic person you are, I follow your videos assiduously, you are a true inspiration, it is difficult to overcome an eating disorder, I have been trying to overcome this hell for years, even at this moment. I thank you for you existing and sharing your videos, thank you Fi

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Oh my love, thankyou! What a truly lovely comment to leave. We can do this, one day at a time

  • @luckyloppy934
    @luckyloppy934 2 года назад +2

    I see your personality shine through more and more in each video. You’re doing so great Fi, very proud of you 🥰

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Thankyou so much, this means an awful lot to me xxx

  • @gemmaking839
    @gemmaking839 2 года назад +1

    You continue to radiate courage, strength and positivity despite your challenges. It’s enriching to see you shine, and your smile is infectious. I love your dress am a huge fan of pockets! You definitely need to arrange more daddy daughter days. Lots of love xxg

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Thankyou so much for your kind comment Gemma. It really does help. Ah I love an outfit with pockets! Lots of love to you xxx

    • @gemmaking839
      @gemmaking839 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi you’re more than welcome lovely. Xxg

  • @what-a-carrie-on2968
    @what-a-carrie-on2968 2 года назад +1

    Seeing you radiate excitment after a rough start to your day is such a joy to see.
    So glad you & your wonderful dad enjoyed yourselves ❤.

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Aww thankyou so much my love xxx

  • @harmonyhope1709
    @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад +3

    The irony that I'm watching YOUR recovery video (today) whilst eating my lunch when you say you watch other recovery accounts while you're eating!🤣❤️ I also watch other different accounts too!!!! It definitely helps during meals xxx

    • @abbie2584
      @abbie2584 2 года назад +1

      Which other ones do you watch? I think they’d really help me too x

    • @harmonyhope1709
      @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад

      @@abbie2584 if you look at my other comment I have listed them in reply to someone else ☺️💞

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +2

      Aww I'm so glad I can be of any help! That really does mean alot to me. It helps me when I have meals by myself! xxx

    • @harmonyhope1709
      @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi ❤️💜🌈 I'm sure you are helping more people than you know!!!! Keep going sweetie

  • @mimiewing922
    @mimiewing922 2 года назад +1

    Just checking in on you. Haven’t seen an update in a few days. Hope all is well ❤️

  • @Bronwen.Forbes.Kotze1983
    @Bronwen.Forbes.Kotze1983 2 года назад +1

    Wow fantastic!!! Glad you enjoyed the show and outing with your dad. I was close very close to my parents. Unfortunately they have since passed on. My mom in October 2018 and my dad in March this year. It has been a tough few years as my dad suffered from Dementia/Alzheimer's the last part of his life. So happy you adore your parents and are close to them ♥️♥️ cherish what time you have with them 🤗

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Thankyou so much Bronwen! I'm so sorry to hear about your parents, that must have been so challenging. I will, always xxx

    • @Bronwen.Forbes.Kotze1983
      @Bronwen.Forbes.Kotze1983 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi Thanks so much ♥️ Parents, family an friend are precious.
      I love your videos, love seeing your updates. Keep at it ♥️♥️♥️

  • @alimoore589
    @alimoore589 2 года назад

    You're doing amazing. We're so proud of you x
    You looked so beautiful for your day out. Seeing you get your sparkle back is making me so happy. You have such a lovely personality xx

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou Ali, this means so much to me. Will keep getting that Fi sparkle back! xxx

  • @annasorelle2700
    @annasorelle2700 2 года назад +1

    So proud of you for pulling your day around!

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou so much Anna xxx

  • @courtneymcguffee5753
    @courtneymcguffee5753 2 года назад

    Watching your eyes sparkle more and more is amazing. I'm so happy for you and proud of you.

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Aww Courtney! thankyou so much. xxx

  • @prayer_tent
    @prayer_tent 2 года назад

    A father/daughter evening! I love this Fi!! Such a precious time with your dad. Blessings hon

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      It was lovely! Thankyou xxx

  • @jessabuns3333
    @jessabuns3333 2 года назад

    Can I just say that this is the first video that I've seen where you really look like you are enjoying life. Your face is so bright and vibrant. It's a privilege to watch your transformation.

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Aww my love, thankyou so much! This means an awful lot to me xxx

  • @patriciasheridan7
    @patriciasheridan7 2 года назад

    What a bright video, so positive, happy (I do understand the few tough times). Pretty, shining Fi. Makeup, dress, out with Dad, eating out. I love the photos with your dog, you looked so wonderful. Great day, Fi! 💕

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou so much Patricia! :) xxx

    • @patriciasheridan7
      @patriciasheridan7 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi I am a U2 fan. One of my favorite songs is “Beautiful Day”. Here is a snippet of the song: “See the bird with a leaf in her mouth. After the Flood all the colors came out. It was a beautiful day, don’t let it slip away.” ❤️

  • @lisanancoff3462
    @lisanancoff3462 2 года назад

    What a nice evening out with Dad ! Memories you will both cherish ❤️ well done, Fi !

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Thankyou Lisa! It was a really special evening. xxx

  • @glynis7970
    @glynis7970 2 года назад +1

    Eyeliner,Daddy daughter date,meal out does it get any better!? And your sparkle is there and getting stronger. Keep going sweetheart 💐

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Ahh I totally agree! thankyou so much love xxx

  • @sandee1000
    @sandee1000 2 года назад

    Wow! The theater. And i love mfl. You both looked so happy

  • @suzyflower8392
    @suzyflower8392 2 года назад

    I love dresses with pockets shirts with pockets are so cool

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      They're the absolute best!

  • @harmonyhope1709
    @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад +1

    Well done for getting longer walks and more time out of the wheelchair. Also well done for eating dinner out with your dad. He will have been so proud. Keep going 💪❤️

    • @Footie_crazy_ella
      @Footie_crazy_ella 2 года назад +1

      Which accounts do you watch , looking for inspiration! Xx

    • @harmonyhope1709
      @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад +1

      @@Footie_crazy_ella Megsy recovery, Ro recovery, Emily Spence, Tabitha Farrar, What Mia did next and Follow the intuition mainly. There are a few others who come up in my recommeded. Oh and also Elzanii/Elzani Singleton

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou so much love! xxx

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      I agree and love all these accounts!

    • @harmonyhope1709
      @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi they're all great aren't they and such a helpful resource especially if there's not a lot of community support or professional input in "real life" ,❤️

  • @jackelpubs2728
    @jackelpubs2728 2 года назад

    You are really doing great and pushing through the tough moments. The dress is perfect on you 😊

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou so much! :) xxx

  • @lorenspath6538
    @lorenspath6538 2 года назад

    Hi Fi, you are doing great! I know how hard it is, I get very anxious and nervous before meals with what i should have. i get very guilty with certain things too. You are very inspiring to me. Keep up the good work! Love, Loren

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou so much Loren. It can be so tough but, we can do tough things. Lots of love xxx

  • @donnalewis6323
    @donnalewis6323 2 года назад

    Hiya Fi what a lovely video! You had a wobble but got straight up again!
    Much love sweetheart 🥰🥰

  • @kimgreville5523
    @kimgreville5523 2 года назад

    I have you to thank for the houmous brioche roll!! I've become obsessed with them, with a little bit of falafel now, and again xx

  • @nicolaoffert4006
    @nicolaoffert4006 2 года назад

    Wow, what a fab time you two had ! You looked really happy and your makeup looked great too ! 💕💕

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thankyou Nicola! It really was a fantastic time! xxx

  • @janetsheart3139
    @janetsheart3139 2 года назад

    WTG! So proud! Doing sooo well!

  • @maelynnavrilhavelin6816
    @maelynnavrilhavelin6816 2 года назад

    I’ve just discovered your videos Fiona- and you are just so awe inspiring and brave and beautiful and a trooper-I also love the quotes you leave us at the end of your videos-I wish you all the best for the future - keep strong beautiful Fi - love ❤️ from maelynn - watching from Edinburgh xxxx

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Oh Maelynn, thankyou so much for your kind comment. Your support means a lot to me. Lots of love to Edinburgh xxx

    • @maelynnavrilhavelin6816
      @maelynnavrilhavelin6816 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi my pleasure- one day at a time Fi with loads Of love 💕 😊 ♥️ 😃💜

  • @wombawomba8316
    @wombawomba8316 2 года назад

    Love those duck socks!

  • @annabellenoblepi6684
    @annabellenoblepi6684 2 года назад

    so proud of you sunshine 🌼

  • @nicolepoole3501
    @nicolepoole3501 2 года назад

    You look so pretty!! Love the dress and makeup! You look beautiful!!

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Aww thankyou so much Nicole! xxx

  • @Natalia-sw8me
    @Natalia-sw8me 2 года назад

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @nesspumpkin2417
    @nesspumpkin2417 2 года назад

    well done, love the red dress where did you get it? difficult to over come the fear of weight gain whichj is essential to become well and free of this awful illness

  • @Familymealswithailsa
    @Familymealswithailsa 2 года назад

    Hi Fi, just wondered what other recovery RUclipsrs you watch that you find particularly helpful? I’m currently in anorexia recovery also at the moment and really finding your videos helpful. So any others you can suggest would be amazing. Thank you. Ailsa. X

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Hey Ailsa, of course! Primarily Ro's recovery and Elzani :) I'm so glad I can help in any way, that means an awful lot to me. Thankyou Ailsa xxx

  • @sarahwynne2920
    @sarahwynne2920 2 года назад

    💖💖 and POCKETS!!!xx

  • @christineleblanc9006
    @christineleblanc9006 2 года назад

    Did you go to Harvard? Just curious? I support you and am proud of your progress! You are so strong and you look so alive! Your beauty shines through the fatigue that you feel sometimes

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Yes I've been there many times, I love it! Thankyou so much Christine :) xxx

  • @cynthiajackson1807
    @cynthiajackson1807 Год назад

    Hi Fi...this may sound like a silly question...but if you can please, tell me what the name of the background music is playing,I like it. 😊

  • @alimoore589
    @alimoore589 2 года назад

    You look absolutely beautiful xx

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Thank you so much Ali! xxx

  • @mahiasultana3882
    @mahiasultana3882 2 года назад +1

    I was wondering have you ever gotten a bone density scan? I know EDs are known to cause osteoporosis

  • @mandyloreniese6835
    @mandyloreniese6835 2 года назад

    ♥️♥️♥️
    Where do you get the eatser egg from? 🤔😊

  • @AutumnGracebeautywithgrace
    @AutumnGracebeautywithgrace 2 года назад

    Your make up is so cute!

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      Aww thankyou Autumn! xxx

  • @harmonyhope1709
    @harmonyhope1709 2 года назад

    Was that a packaged croissant? It looked unlike a normal croissant. Fresh ones have better lamination and an airier, flakier texture. Guessing more of a challenge as no nutrition information on them but hopefully soon 🙏

  • @sophiestrong4889
    @sophiestrong4889 2 года назад +1

    Do you think you could get ear muffs or ear defenders from amazon to help with the noises?

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +2

      I have indeed purchased some to help. Thankyou for the suggestion sophie! xxx

    • @sophiestrong4889
      @sophiestrong4889 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi hope they help! :)

  • @maziemason2
    @maziemason2 2 года назад

    What are the Ed recovery RUclips channels that help you? You are so strong well done you are doing amazing 💕

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      Elzani and Ro's recovery primarily :) Thankyou Mazie! xxx

    • @maziemason2
      @maziemason2 2 года назад

      @@Finding_Fi They are great recovery channels and you are definitely following in there footsteps 💕

  • @MrThosestrangekids
    @MrThosestrangekids 2 года назад

    Vanessa Redgrave?!?!?! You lucky ducks!!!!

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад

      I know!!! she was incredible!

  • @kateflack9968
    @kateflack9968 2 года назад

    Omg those eggs look great

  • @ababy6074
    @ababy6074 2 года назад +1

    Hi Fi, great to see you having had such a lovely day with your Dad. I am a new subscriber and also have anorexia. I'm a very old version though! I'm 39. One thing I am finding really frustrating about your videos is that you always tend to say something like, 'I had a really hard morning,' but then usually don't say what was actually hard, and that you just bounce straight back to showing your next meal/snack as if that is the only thing that matters to recovery from an ED. I find it frustrating because it leaves me asking, 'What's wrong?' all the time. What was it that triggered you or upset you, for example. xx

    • @leanneeggenberger9127
      @leanneeggenberger9127 2 года назад +1

      I always wonder the same thing! I think Fi doesn't want to trigger anyone, but I actually think it can be helpful to know what the hard thing is ...at least then maybe I won't feel so crazy in my own struggles lol!

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      HEllo! I'm so sorry, I never really thought about this. I am so acutely aware and worried about every saying anything trigggering that I guess I don't go into it. But I will in the future. Thankyou for mentioning it! xxx

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      This is the exact reason why. But thankyou, I will take this on board and explain a little more going forward :) xxx

    • @cazlovescakes
      @cazlovescakes 2 года назад

      It’s so hard being older and having an ED. It’s great to see younger people sharing their recovery journeys as hopefully it can help motivate and inspire others so they don’t end up still struggling in later life. My body definitely doesn’t cope with it all the way it did in my 20s.

  • @chloecornwell5432
    @chloecornwell5432 2 года назад

    Any tips for the anxiety around appointment days??

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +1

      I find writing things down for appointments really helpful. It means I don't worry about forgetting things I want to bring up, and sometimes I send over the list to my nurse so if it's something I'm nervous about bringing up then he will already know. I hope this helps lovely xxx

  • @IndubianMa
    @IndubianMa 2 года назад

    💚

  • @marisamaelaurie2797
    @marisamaelaurie2797 2 года назад

    🦋

  • @paulamartin6049
    @paulamartin6049 2 года назад +2

    A Pepsi max for energy ??!! it's sugar free zero calories u would be better off with a smoothie or fruit juice defo not a diet anything px

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +2

      I meant a caffeine boost! Clearly it's not energy as in fuel... I had my meals and snacks for that

  • @Natalia-sw8me
    @Natalia-sw8me 2 года назад

    🧡🧡🧡

  • @abbie2584
    @abbie2584 2 года назад

    Which recovery accounts do you watch on RUclips? I’d love some recommendations x

    • @Finding_Fi
      @Finding_Fi  2 года назад +2

      Elzani and Ro's recovery primarily :) xxx

  • @JoJo-vg9sj
    @JoJo-vg9sj 2 года назад

    Have you we watched megsy recovery....highly recomomend