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  • Опубликовано: 7 окт 2024
  • In the pursuit of love, Sonia and Cadilux faced a number of challenges. Sonia is older than Cadilux by 4 years, sexual purity was a struggle, pregnancy before marriage and financial challenges. They shared their lessons and what they could have done differently knowing what they know now. They are now 6 years in marriage and can attest to its goodness and the grace of God.
    #agegapromance #datingstruggles #lovestory

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  • @majoriebasiima645
    @majoriebasiima645 Месяц назад +2

    Whenever i feel heart broken, i dont talk to anyone but load data and watch this story

  • @ithankgod5733
    @ithankgod5733 6 месяцев назад +11

    My husband and I have a similar age gap. 4 years and quite frankly it doesn’t matter to us. There is mutual trust and respect.

  • @Kshanice25
    @Kshanice25 7 месяцев назад +71

    This couple is very honest, i love that they openly discussed that they struggled with sexual purity , most Christian couples never talk of these struggles even for leaders. They want people to assume they do t have struggles in that area

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      It’s a real struggle for so many. But God is able to

    • @joshuakisakye201
      @joshuakisakye201 7 месяцев назад +2

      So honest.

    • @kap849
      @kap849 7 месяцев назад +2

      The challenge is this has gone from a struggle to a choice, which makes it harder to deal with because of the guilt. Also, we sometimes downplay temptation and do not make conscious efforts not to fall into this sin.
      That being said, I always appreciate it when couples are walked through the healing process instead of being shunned.

    • @MbabaziPeace-iq8ru
      @MbabaziPeace-iq8ru 7 месяцев назад +1

      Wow this is so sweet

    • @winniekislev8214
      @winniekislev8214 7 месяцев назад +3

      Wow. God bless this couple for their honesty. Reminded me of Mathew West's song : Truth be told. There's a lot of masquerading in the body of Christ and we've ended up shooting our wounded soldiers , isolating each other and yet we too are struggling. God bless them. God bless the host too. This is ministry. Reaching out to those in kamooli.😊

  • @juliandorothy35
    @juliandorothy35 7 месяцев назад +23

    No lieeeessss i love these guys. I was in the front row of their journey and even while they were struggling, they also entered our struggle as well. Accepted to be our Metron and Bestman. Same year, we were also have katemba of our own. Were getting married with also a child out of wedlock and these guys stood by us. I remember that room they were talking about and as Sonia was talk i was just recalling it all.
    Thanks for hosting them dear Lisa.

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 7 месяцев назад +30

    When they said 4 year age gap i laughed😂😂😂😂. That is so small infact, its a full stop. I met a a lady who is 20 years older than her husband. Infact at first i thought her husband was her son. They have been married for a long time and seem to be in love every day.
    Infact one of the former NTV news anchors is 10 years older than her husband. 4 years is an easy piece of cake. That's the same age group.

    • @kap849
      @kap849 7 месяцев назад +8

      When she's 44, he'll be 40. When she's 84, he'll be 80. I see your point 😅😊.

    • @joanjorryn2792
      @joanjorryn2792 7 месяцев назад +5

      My husband en me gal🤨 our gap is 24 years …. But. We literally forget that gap sometimes because we choose to chose ourselves every day

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад +2

      I think you can’t down play someone’s story when you haven’t walked in their shoes

    • @annsaptoe6106
      @annsaptoe6106 6 месяцев назад

      Societal Norms frown upon any age gap. Worse so in church.

  • @namakulajoan6086
    @namakulajoan6086 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great lessons to learn

  • @bathshebakyobuhooro423
    @bathshebakyobuhooro423 7 месяцев назад +18

    We need another month for such stories, every week I think this is the best then you bring another couple and my brain is blown. I love their honesty

    • @ainedenis3041
      @ainedenis3041 7 месяцев назад +1

      U're speaking my mind

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад +1

      Eh pressure 😅😂

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 7 месяцев назад

      ​@LisaKusiima pressure indeed. I find that Ugandans love love stories. You see it from the kind of music Ugandan musicians sing. it's always love love songs. I also notice lots of interviews people are asked about their love life.

  • @annahnabalayi1090
    @annahnabalayi1090 7 месяцев назад +19

    I rushed here from Instagram and I have been blown away by the maturity especially Spiritual maturity. I believe sometimes what looks like s short coming or shameful situation is a perfect recipe for God to redeem others. Like literally, you become the example many would despise but God is rubbing His hands shouting 'Eureka! I have a plan'

    • @ann20B
      @ann20B 7 месяцев назад +1

      Woooow I love this

  • @murungiclaire5438
    @murungiclaire5438 7 месяцев назад +17

    Lisa I love this marriage/love/ relationship series it has me LOCKED!! Beautiful stories, very inspiring and above all God is faithful!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @ann20B
    @ann20B 7 месяцев назад +7

    That has really healed me so much from the guilt shame from family friends and lots of people and from me for not forgiving myself....may God never forsake us...

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      God can set you free from shame

    • @ritamirembe7061
      @ritamirembe7061 7 месяцев назад

      May God show you mercy dear ,we have God of a second chance. I and my husband,we too sinned before marriage,you cnt imagine,we cried to God everyday Nd repeated the same thing. Reached a time nd told to just give us a holy marriage for His sake. Nd He heard us, now almost one year in holy marriage 🙏

    • @ritamirembe7061
      @ritamirembe7061 7 месяцев назад

      sin can seriously make you hate yourself but God still calls us ,lsaiah1:18-

  • @ms.t6051
    @ms.t6051 7 месяцев назад +5

    What a mature and admirable young man! I wish them both a beautiful and long lasting marriage. God bless them and their children and unity ❤🙏

  • @Agaba-k2b
    @Agaba-k2b 7 месяцев назад +4

    Woohoo I have known Sonia since way back she is so so unique and her faith too moves mountains,i love her energy ❤️

  • @prudencemthembu4476
    @prudencemthembu4476 7 месяцев назад +4

    Love you from South Africa. First time i see this show. I love this couple 😊🎉

  • @clairelove9611
    @clairelove9611 Месяц назад

    This is beautiful to listen to. I'm glad to hear this story

  • @faithfun7970
    @faithfun7970 7 месяцев назад +4

    I loved this interview. This couple were very transparent, humble and in touch with reality. Your story was very much appreciated and comforting

  • @twinamatsikocynthia-id2oh
    @twinamatsikocynthia-id2oh Месяц назад

    This was a beautiful story ❤ being committed, kind and being prayerful is also a good thing ❤

  • @sheilawavamunno9372
    @sheilawavamunno9372 7 месяцев назад +6

    See God, the Redeemer!!! Thanks for sharing your story and encouraging others with it. God does redeem!!! And loves to show Himself off💃🤗

  • @simonkine
    @simonkine 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wowwww at least now I know what am getting into with the woman of God, thank you guys biggggg time

  • @apionancylakareber4226
    @apionancylakareber4226 7 месяцев назад +5

    Putting age aside, this is a very bright couple.

    • @JoviaKusiima
      @JoviaKusiima 4 месяца назад

      I have a friend of mine suffering with a difference of 2 months older than her yet the young guy loves her 😢

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine 7 месяцев назад +6

    Aaaaw loved their story..long live Cadilux and Sonia .🙂

  • @joynabatanzi590
    @joynabatanzi590 2 месяца назад

    Mannnn!! The honesty was on a high level. Much much respect to you Sonia and Cadilux

  • @Nankundadiana256
    @Nankundadiana256 7 месяцев назад +1

    Let me keep waiting while nursing my wounds😊this is so encouraging God is the Author ❤

  • @peaceolive1450
    @peaceolive1450 7 месяцев назад +4

    It's the honest stories like this that paint a clear picture that no one is perfect, and that's fine. Otherwise, so many people are quietly dying in struggles that they can not share with anyone for fear of being harshly judged. Thank you Sonia & Caddilax for boldly sharing your perfect imperfections.

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 7 месяцев назад +3

    I wanted the uncomfortable questions but they did hint on the subject of age! Glad our society is opening up to this. Age is just a number

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      I think the answer was in the story.. because here they are 6 years later so…

  • @kemkem9621
    @kemkem9621 7 месяцев назад +1

    How i love authentic, candid and honest conversations like this!!!!! Blessings to u

  • @ronniekavuma1638
    @ronniekavuma1638 7 месяцев назад +8

    Our God is really Soo faithful

  • @kihembodoreen7368
    @kihembodoreen7368 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love how they share their story. Honest, unburdened and true to themselves

  • @judithakite3164
    @judithakite3164 7 месяцев назад +3

    Am locked here. These series are such a learning and inspirational safe space❤

  • @user-cy5rj4hg7q
    @user-cy5rj4hg7q 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is amazing!!! Sonia’s story has really reminded me of Gods faithfulness in all situations! I’m very proud of this couple, I wish them many years of love, happiness and fulfillment in their marriage ♥️.Lisa you are doing such a great Job! May God grow your Horizons ✨

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Amen amen thanks Liz❤️

  • @cordeliaakahirwa6249
    @cordeliaakahirwa6249 7 месяцев назад +4

    Wow, Cadilux & Sonia, I love these guys. They are so real, Unique and True. I was so blessed by their story. Thank you Lisa for bringing them on the set. ❤.. Personally i am inspired to go build a strong marriage🙏🏾😇!

  • @ayebarebrendah1395
    @ayebarebrendah1395 7 месяцев назад +5

    Lisa!! Ooh your content ❤ Glory to God and thank you for allowing Him to use you! God bless you 🙏🏻

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      😊😊😊😊❤️😊

  • @daphneampire9740
    @daphneampire9740 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this Lisa, age shouldn't hold you back, with God's grace my person and I got through those tough years of marriage inspite if the age difference, we now help other couples grow and progress, marriage is beautiful both matter the circumstances.

  • @winfredkobusinge3383
    @winfredkobusinge3383 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank Lisa for hosting this amazing couple. Tr. Cardilux supervised my son in grade 3&4.
    He is an amazing person.

  • @namakulajoan6086
    @namakulajoan6086 6 месяцев назад +1

    Had i learnt about this video like last year…!
    But ohh yes thank you Jesus I landed on this video.

  • @janenanono1319
    @janenanono1319 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, I didn't want you to stop, you are so real and God will use you mightly among the young people. Thank you for the inspiration.

  • @hildamiriam8028
    @hildamiriam8028 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Lisa soo inspirational and lots to learn... ❤❤❤

  • @barbratukamushaba3180
    @barbratukamushaba3180 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow this is so touching 😢 it was really nice hearing from this powerful couple 😢

  • @charlottenatumanya4168
    @charlottenatumanya4168 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow!! Such a beautiful testimony of God’s grace. God bless you

  • @favouredann3127
    @favouredann3127 6 месяцев назад

    Sonia is so beautiful. I really love the testimony. Powerful.

  • @rebecca-the-light
    @rebecca-the-light 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Lisa for bringing couples that share freely about life realities❤ i love it. For you and for us

  • @ronaldmusapiti5315
    @ronaldmusapiti5315 7 месяцев назад +3

    I think this couple was God chosen, cause it wasn't shaken by obstacles!

  • @anzoasarah7595
    @anzoasarah7595 7 месяцев назад +1

    Very blessed couple, great things await them. They are going to impact nations

  • @kasiimwecreations619
    @kasiimwecreations619 7 месяцев назад +2

    lisa this particular video was for me. God sent, thank you so so much. I send you cyber hugs Lisa

  • @douglasmartinssemaganda
    @douglasmartinssemaganda 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks to the Nyekorachs for sharing your story. The Body of Christ is like an army, and I think it's time her commanders have a conversation on strategic steps to take on how they ought to embrace their soldiers who have crossed lines of set combat standards, how they can be accepted, rehabilitated, and redeployed back to the frontline. Much thanks to the Lakors and other colleagues who came alongside them. Lisa K, thank you for hosting. These are stories we wish to have in 2024 going forward. Talking reality, inspiring hope!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      The army analogies hahah👏🏾👏🏾

  • @RachelKing-rh4kh
    @RachelKing-rh4kh 7 месяцев назад +1

    Best couple on the show,beautiful,beautiful couple,the maturity from both of them!!thanks Lisa

  • @muwongebrighthosea
    @muwongebrighthosea 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much Mr & Mrs Nyekorach
    This is such a good sharing & straight forward no sugarcoating but honest. Will look u up more Cadilux

  • @christinenakazzi280
    @christinenakazzi280 7 месяцев назад +16

    I love that this is a safe place for married couples 😊😊.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад +1

      It really is🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @asiobernadette1394
      @asiobernadette1394 7 месяцев назад +2

      Right…. It’s beautiful to watch
      Lisa keep it up
      Keep bringing happy interesting couples.

  • @fortheyoung1320
    @fortheyoung1320 7 месяцев назад

    I really like Sonia’s spirit. God bless this couple

  • @winniewixakiror
    @winniewixakiror 6 месяцев назад

    Lord bless these happy souls.. For you to share this you have no idea how many hearts you touching. My first time on this channel and now I have a reason to subscribe

  • @tiny_k738
    @tiny_k738 7 месяцев назад

    I love how open these two people have been. They are a blessing to the young generation. May God bless and sustain their union 🙏

  • @imacayebazibwe6412
    @imacayebazibwe6412 7 месяцев назад +2

    Truly inspired. The lady is so cool

  • @Hellen802
    @Hellen802 7 месяцев назад +1

    Lisa host these people again. What a honest story

  • @lynndakay
    @lynndakay 7 месяцев назад

    It’s been nice watching a couple I know ! Cadilux is an amazing Person ? Thank you for the show ! 😊

  • @shamelesstumuhaise3364
    @shamelesstumuhaise3364 7 месяцев назад +1

    We all needed this episode. Thank you

  • @ayopamella
    @ayopamella 7 месяцев назад +2

    But this love story; i can't help but comment again in the middle of the video. It has a lot of hope vibes❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @Victoria-qr4xr
    @Victoria-qr4xr 7 месяцев назад +1

    wow this was a beautiful conversation👏🏾👏🏾

  • @oduochagodwin6391
    @oduochagodwin6391 7 месяцев назад

    Similar case with Mine..But the grace of God is sufficient.we have a young toddler

  • @serafiamungandjera
    @serafiamungandjera 7 месяцев назад +9

    By the way, I love your sense of humor Lisa ☺☺🥰🥰😅😅. I enjoy watching your channel. May God bless you more.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you! You are so kind

  • @Kshanice25
    @Kshanice25 7 месяцев назад +3

    Lisa you are glowing ❤❤❤

  • @rhonaagaba4218
    @rhonaagaba4218 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you Sonia & Cadilux for sharing your journey, it’s really inspirational 💕

  • @perrywambui8954
    @perrywambui8954 7 месяцев назад

    Wow, what an inspiration... Thanks Lisa for this... I'm encouraged.

  • @ndulaottance7297
    @ndulaottance7297 7 месяцев назад

    Nice piece of encouragement. I have and believe everything will be ok with me

  • @simonkine
    @simonkine 7 месяцев назад

    Wowwwwwww, the secret marriage of our parents is soooooo relatable, I guess understanding and getting to know the woman's family too is oba expedient, am surely noting what to looooookkkk at intricately✍️✍️✍️

  • @peaceolive1450
    @peaceolive1450 7 месяцев назад +3

    Sonia is amazing..

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much Lisa May God bless you

  • @cpkm5425
    @cpkm5425 7 месяцев назад +2

    Such a message of hope what Cardi said "you can be so broken and God can turn it around and you become a good man"

  • @CatherineAllenKavuma
    @CatherineAllenKavuma 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great story

  • @serahtrillionaire832
    @serahtrillionaire832 7 месяцев назад

    Wonderful story, so inspiring ❤

  • @priscillakange237
    @priscillakange237 7 месяцев назад

    This is so insightful way to go Sonia and Cadilux

  • @joshuakisakye201
    @joshuakisakye201 7 месяцев назад

    Woooo, I am inspired, Cadilux is my OB, and I am blessed hearing this true story.

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 7 месяцев назад +1

    It doesn’t have to start beautiful always 😊😊❤

  • @daphneoboth9846
    @daphneoboth9846 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your story Our friends Cadi n Sonia. .

  • @oyinkansolakukoyi9964
    @oyinkansolakukoyi9964 5 месяцев назад

    Love love their story

  • @stellakongai8845
    @stellakongai8845 6 месяцев назад

    Beautiful beautiful couple inspiring words

  • @WendyOjok
    @WendyOjok 7 месяцев назад

    Very beautiful indeed...thanks Lisa for hosting the Nyekorach's 🍾🍾to countless years of a blissful Christ-centred marriage for Cadilux&,Sonia❤❤

  • @macklinel.nbuhungiro5894
    @macklinel.nbuhungiro5894 7 месяцев назад

    what a humorous couple... Their Joy/vibe surely rubs on people around them. i love them. ❤❤❤❤

  • @mediusteriyeitu1653
    @mediusteriyeitu1653 4 месяца назад

    4 years gap is so small, such a beautiful couple!❤❤❤

  • @tukahirwabrendah8055
    @tukahirwabrendah8055 7 месяцев назад

    We have learnt a lot Bambi . God bless

  • @barbraayesiga2036
    @barbraayesiga2036 7 месяцев назад

    Wow Lisa God bless you for bringing in such conversations, this story is almost similar to mine, but i thank God we are making 4 years in our marriage.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching

  • @mercynamara5045
    @mercynamara5045 7 месяцев назад

    What a beautiful story! Sonia is amazing

  • @jescaineza7811
    @jescaineza7811 6 месяцев назад

    Lisa, thank you for hosting them bambii

  • @roseatukunda
    @roseatukunda 7 месяцев назад +1

    Well.done Lisa. Keep.moving

  • @hildaninsiima2506
    @hildaninsiima2506 7 месяцев назад

    This couple is so unique you can see it through their eyes . God bless them ❤

  • @mercyimusalaba6320
    @mercyimusalaba6320 7 месяцев назад

    I have loved 🥰 this episode so much !! Such a beautiful journey and inspiring 🙏 thank you Lisa , please invite them again

  • @perezb2020
    @perezb2020 7 месяцев назад

    This is such a beautiful story,
    So touched

  • @melissahngosa1287
    @melissahngosa1287 7 месяцев назад

    Wow so so beautifully orchestrated.. It doesn't always start all rosy, but this was worthy it. God bless you guys i had a lot of lessons to learn and to unlearn some things ❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      The lessons are beautiful

  • @ShamimNabukenya-k9n
    @ShamimNabukenya-k9n 7 месяцев назад

    Wow
    You guys have given me hope.

  • @kabagyeniphionah448
    @kabagyeniphionah448 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love the guy's name 😊... So unique ... And ohhh their story is beautiful. Thanks Lisa for bringing them

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 7 месяцев назад

    Wow I feel like rewatching it

  • @Convention-yw7nb
    @Convention-yw7nb 7 месяцев назад

    Incredible.
    Thank you for an excellent episode, the Lord bless and keep you!

  • @birungifaith4394
    @birungifaith4394 7 месяцев назад

    This is so beautiful, it how God comes through amidst everything

  • @greatstar3866
    @greatstar3866 7 месяцев назад

    Wow❤ I've really learnt alot. Thank you Lisa for the guests. Very honest couple with an inspiring story. Thanks again.

  • @rhodantoreine5861
    @rhodantoreine5861 7 месяцев назад +3

    Lisa thanks for the videos, they encourage. How does one reach you?

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Please send an email to lisamugisa@gmail.com

  • @somebodysdaughter7855
    @somebodysdaughter7855 7 месяцев назад +8

    Had to like before I even watched.

  • @nanderabarbra724
    @nanderabarbra724 7 месяцев назад +2

    We need one for an inter-religious couple

  • @mourinieenatukunda
    @mourinieenatukunda 7 месяцев назад

    Indeed marriage is redeemable...Thank you LISA .we re learning.

  • @winniewixakiror
    @winniewixakiror 6 месяцев назад

    Wow wat a story.., thank you for sharing

  • @serafiamungandjera
    @serafiamungandjera 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks to the couple for sharing their true feeling and experiences. May God bless you all. ❤❤

  • @simonkine
    @simonkine 7 месяцев назад

    Really really alot to learn, thank you big Sis

  • @ellaeduke6418
    @ellaeduke6418 6 месяцев назад

    So happy believers are becoming more open with their struggle with sexual purity. Alir of married people in church makes it look like they don't struggle or didn't struggle in that area! Thank you for such vulnerability.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      So many are struggling