Going Deeper with Joel McHale + Met Gala, VPR Reunion Trailer, & Lawsuit Updates

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
  • Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! To start things out, the household gets together to talk about recent headlines, such as the 2024 Met Gala, our thoughts on the Vanderpump Rules Season 11 Reunion Trailer, and updates on Rachel Leviss’ lawsuit against Tom and Ariana. Then, we talk to Joel McHale about working in Hollywood, comedy, parenting, cooking, dyslexia, and working on House of Villains. We also have a Texting Office Hours caller who has been dating a guy on and off for three years, and he isn’t sure if he even wants a relationship. She isn’t sure if she keeps holding on, or if she should let him go.
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    Timestamps:
    00:00 - Intro
    00:52 - Met Gala
    10:20 - VPR Reunion Trailer
    29:31 - Lawsuit Updates
    41:26 - Joel McHale Interview Begins
    01:01:01 - Animal Control
    01:07:12 - The Roast
    01:12:42 - Parenting
    01:19:22 - The Wedding Industry
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    02:06:25 - Outro

Комментарии • 239

  • @es-ro
    @es-ro Месяц назад +179

    Yuck Nick’s take on Ariana is giving such the ICK

    • @kristinemontellano2664
      @kristinemontellano2664 Месяц назад +7

      Nope! He was always team Ariana; but at some point, move tf on and make better decisions for yourself instead of running away on camera and complaining while putting yourself in the same position you hate!!

    • @kurtsims
      @kurtsims Месяц назад

      @@kristinemontellano2664 She didn't run away on camera. She left because Tom wanted to make himself look better on camera, when he wasn't doing anything off camera but trashing her. I hope a guy does you the same way one day

    • @5656moon
      @5656moon 29 дней назад +4

      @@kristinemontellano2664 this was still a few weeks after it all happened

    • @dantecox820
      @dantecox820 29 дней назад +3

      Pretty gross yeah we all have choices but she’s not a Kardashian where she can quiet her job and be surrounded by wealth. She’s currently having to sue him for moving out of a $250,000 investment of hers … I’m sorry a man would never leave a quarter of $1 million investment. The network also had a choice when she said she was not gonna film with him. This was her last time to film with him. They could’ve respected her choice and not force it. There are bravo shows do not talk to each other New Jersey half of the cast doesn’t speak or film with the other half Potomac they don’t film or speak to the other half. She showed up to places on every single episode where he was and when he needed some smoke, she gave it to him

    • @asmrcat5130
      @asmrcat5130 28 дней назад +1

      He’s Ick PERIOD.

  • @TheCharity123
    @TheCharity123 Месяц назад +73

    Nicks take on Arianna is crazy…..

  • @awebbs
    @awebbs Месяц назад +176

    Ariana DID film with Tom. She showed up to the beach, and the events, and did her job. Her cast mates shaming her for not being willing to talk to him or make HIM feel more comfortable was the problem.

    • @kristinemontellano2664
      @kristinemontellano2664 Месяц назад +7

      No; her job is to continue the show as the "main character" and give the audience SOMETHING. she should've never been the main character, she has COASTED for years.
      She needs to move tf on and leave and let the real ones film. She's never been honest.

    • @awebbs
      @awebbs Месяц назад +12

      @@kristinemontellano2664 Umm.. she showed us her new relationship, her business ventures, her female friendships. She gave candid and honest confessional interviews. She showed up to every event and had to endure her “friends” bring up Sandoval and how he’s “changed” every chance they got. What more are you looking for? It’s not her job to interact with her ex - sorry that you just feel entitled to watching that happen.

    • @dantecox820
      @dantecox820 Месяц назад +4

      @@kristinemontellano2664 that girl has not hosted. You obviously don’t watch the show. She’s been through a lot of shit. That’s just the phony narrative that people are trying to pass.

    • @sarahlawrie2057
      @sarahlawrie2057 29 дней назад +2

      The story editors, Alex and Jeremiah and Lisa were/are the problem. Giving the cast an ultimatum half way through filming saying if they don't film with Sandoval then they don't have a show and production will just pack up now and no paychecks for anyone.... They (prod) were just butthurt they laid out an A storyline of Sandoval's redemption and nobody wanted to play ball, so they forced them and this is what we got. A disingenuous clusterfπ€k. The strategy they had in conjunction with his PR failed because he then couldn't stick to the script and kept saying things (like the G Floyd comment in his times article 😬😬) and it was too late to pivot or backpedal on the season. Can't wait for it all to be over so the girls can all become friends again.

    • @carrieduane3790
      @carrieduane3790 29 дней назад +4

      Thank you!! I completely agree. Honestly, I was disappointed with Nick’s perspective. Gave me the ICK.

  • @Trinachuabeeping
    @Trinachuabeeping Месяц назад +116

    Maybe invite her on your show to ask her rather than making assumptions...

    • @hawazennnnn
      @hawazennnnn Месяц назад +6

      THIS.

    • @mzzthang3912
      @mzzthang3912 Месяц назад +6

      This!!!! He's always making assumptions regarding her it's like they do no fact checking

    • @aliciaw2700
      @aliciaw2700 28 дней назад +1

      ❤@Trinachuabeeping 100%!

  • @carolinedonlon601
    @carolinedonlon601 Месяц назад +77

    nick seems to forget that stassi refused to film w jax for an ENTIRE season... & the show was fine

    • @listedbyMelissa
      @listedbyMelissa Месяц назад +2

      she left the show and lost her paycheck and payment bracket ... she had to start on a newcomer pay.. when you leave and return you don't get paid what you got when you left.

    • @courtneycoleman6849
      @courtneycoleman6849 Месяц назад +1

      Nick hasn’t watched the show until Scandoval he doesn’t know the early seasons/backstory

    • @sh.boogies
      @sh.boogies Месяц назад

      She didnt film with him for TWO seasons hahahah

  • @jesscudi363
    @jesscudi363 Месяц назад +64

    nick saying ariana had a choice every time he got a chance was fucking annoying

    • @cathh3301
      @cathh3301 Месяц назад +5

      It’s like he’s accepted the fact that Tom’s a dirtbag, so it’s up to Ariana to remove herself from the situation. Tom also has the choice to not be a dirtbag. If we’re talking about choices…

    • @CD02132
      @CD02132 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@cathh3301 he likes sandoval bc they did a show together, ever since then he has been stuck up his butt

    • @cathh3301
      @cathh3301 Месяц назад +1

      @@CD02132 So the Sandoval manipulation charm worked on Nick too. I would have thought Nick was smarter than that. Guess not.

    • @ancymonek1984
      @ancymonek1984 27 дней назад

      Agreed, this was so off-putting I decided to take a break from watching this podcast

  • @Quibblyjones
    @Quibblyjones Месяц назад +38

    I used to enjoy the viall files but now it’s just Nick over mansplaining the same redundant point over and over. Dude read the room we heard you, got it, people have choices, who knew, thank god you’re here to explain that to the room full of women. And sweet boy Justin.

  • @Penlopecatz23445
    @Penlopecatz23445 Месяц назад +127

    Nick talking about Ariana is making my blood boil, what an asshole. Thank you scooter for defending Ariana

    • @stack.attack27
      @stack.attack27 Месяц назад +11

      His opinions on certain situations with women make me worried for his daughter. Even if he's an amazing, protective, encouraging dad their daughter can always go online at some point and watch these podcasts

    • @andypatterson1077
      @andypatterson1077 27 дней назад

      He's a complete misogynist asshole

  • @me-shell323
    @me-shell323 Месяц назад +112

    I am really disappointed in the VPR segment and basically hearing Nick crapping on Ariana.
    At the time of scandoval coming out Ariana didn’t have a lot of money. She needed to do season 11. And honestly I’m glad she was on to show the real situation of breaking up and setting boundaries. That’s exactly what she did. She held her boundaries. This should be recognized and appreciated more than it is. It shouldn’t be shit on at all regardless being on TV. This is actual reality.

    • @cathh3301
      @cathh3301 Месяц назад +1

      She was starting a business, in the middle of a divorce… not the time to be spending any money because she doesn’t know how it’s going to all shake out. Smart on her.
      Also, no one has ever mentioned… Sandoval splashing all this cash on James’ proposal, giving $5k to Scheana - how is that not Ariana’s money too?

  • @heatherjohnston5763
    @heatherjohnston5763 Месяц назад +122

    Nick way to be soooo out of touch. Blaming Ariana is insane. You lost brownie points today

  • @cathh3301
    @cathh3301 Месяц назад +26

    Nick has 3 women rebuffing his argument and he keeps saying “she has a choice to leave”. Listen. Just listen.

  • @tdc51781
    @tdc51781 Месяц назад +32

    Maybe consider this. A woman and man work at the same place. They break up. The woman and man both continue to work their jobs, but they aren’t required to interact for their jobs, though their interacting would make everyone else more comfortable. The man keeps harassing the woman, she doesn’t acknowledge him unless he gets in her face, but he gets in her face all the time. SHE is supposed to quit her job? That’s a wild take, man.

  • @elleg6456
    @elleg6456 Месяц назад +33

    I lost a lot of respect for Nick after the VPR segment. I finally understand all of hate towards him.

  • @shaniquarite
    @shaniquarite Месяц назад +53

    Nick trying so hard to defend Sandoval by masking it with I hope she can let go of the anger. It shouldn’t matter if she never gets over it. We’re worried about the wrong things. Instead of condemning Sandoval for being trash, you’re worried about drama. It is better tv that she refuses to go talk to him. That’s reality.

  • @elleg6456
    @elleg6456 Месяц назад +41

    Nick what are these takes on Ariana. It's giving misogyny.

    • @courtneycoleman6849
      @courtneycoleman6849 Месяц назад

      Lol news flash: Nick is and has always been a misogynist, he just realized pandering to women would make him more money and so many of y’all fell for it. Let’s not forget this man couldn’t hold down a relationship until her got with a 20 year old

  • @tracim3080
    @tracim3080 Месяц назад +74

    I don’t see how anyone thinks she’s not over it how come you were quite getting over it would never bring it up again or letting Tom off the hook for all his behaviour?
    Like the girl has a very high functioning career right now, including Broadway, book sales, and hosting love island.
    She’s buying a house she’s trying to get Tom to sell their house so she has absolutely nothing to do with him anymore
    I see a woman who’s moved on everybody else around her seems to not move on or just want her to pretend it never happened as their idea of moving on and that’s bullshit. We shouldn’t have to pretend that Tom didn’t do this awful thing for it to be moved on.

  • @user-wu2mr4nw8j
    @user-wu2mr4nw8j Месяц назад +25

    In an interview with her, she revealed that in her contract with the production for season 11, it was agreed that she would not be obligated to film in situations she is not comfortable with or that are staged Tom had all the time in the world to apologize and he didn't and then he walked up to her at a party full of people in full view of the cameras she felt like a vehicle for the final episode for Tom

  • @julialloyd2876
    @julialloyd2876 Месяц назад +36

    You also have no idea about Ariana’s finances to say she could just walk away

    • @me-shell323
      @me-shell323 Месяц назад +2

      If he watched the after show he would know Ariana wasn’t financially in a good place the the affair became public.
      Yes she was getting brand deals but some of that was actually during filming so she wasn’t making all that money right away. He sounds like a total idiot in this podcast

  • @jaymin1573
    @jaymin1573 Месяц назад +66

    I don’t get nicks point. Ariana is not forced to do anything. Therefore she’s totally allowed to come back for the show and also refuse to interact with Sandoval. I love that she did that and if Sandoval or lala has a problem she didn’t film with him I don’t care. It still made good television to me that she walked away and stood by her statement from the beginning that she won’t film with him

  • @aubriiscooler
    @aubriiscooler Месяц назад +16

    Nick is very quick to judge women for not quitting their jobs bc of the behavior of men in their lives. First Brittany with Jax and now Ariana with Tom. Also normalize your cohosts having different opinions than you 😅

  • @jennifercreecy8091
    @jennifercreecy8091 Месяц назад +32

    Why do you get to decide when Ariana should be over it & for the love of God, can we stop with the the ‘It’s giving …’?

  • @me-shell323
    @me-shell323 Месяц назад +20

    Does anyone else view Ariana’s response in the reunion when she says while crying “I just want you gone” to mean she just wants him to leave her alone…aka no talking, no contact etc but yet they can still be on the show at the same time? I didn’t read it as she wants off or for him to leave necessarily but just to cut the shit. She seemed truly upset and doesn’t want to deal with his antics

  • @tamilee9462
    @tamilee9462 Месяц назад +34

    Arianna has filmed with Tom at least 4 occasions not including the reunion.
    How many times does she have to be in the same room with him to make everybody happy??? These people don't even hang out as it is.
    Lala is an asshole

  • @user-wu2mr4nw8j
    @user-wu2mr4nw8j Месяц назад +27

    Nick, when Ariana signed a contract for season 11, the situation was that the whole team was by her side and supported her and was furious with Tom, so she felt that she was not the one who should leave. The filming things have changed I think Ariana has gotten over Tom but he will always remain a traumatic memory for her and meeting him is quite difficult for her because of things he does such as approaching her and talking to her about the house that is in legal dispute, approaching her at a party full of people when she knows it is a staged scene and not real You should move on and be happy. You don't need to forgive the man who betrayed you, humiliated you and then constantly attacked you and put the blame on you. Let's just say that Tom's behavior is intolerable and narcissistic.

  • @user-tv8qh8sp2s
    @user-tv8qh8sp2s Месяц назад +19

    I find it interesting that Nick along with lala and Tom all say Ariana should move out, should quit..why shouldn’t it be Tom who moves out of the house? Also why aren’t we talking about the love bombing he was doing towards scheana and brock to win them back, along with his mask slipping in the last episode? Or Brock trying to bulldoze Katie at the lunch in Chinatown into changing her lived experience with Sandavol. THESE are extremely toxic traits and it’s interesting that everyone glosses over this instead choosing to and focuses on what Ariana should or shouldn’t be doing. Crazy huh?!?

  • @sofiejunk
    @sofiejunk Месяц назад +31

    Read the comments, not even going to watch this episode.

    • @ashtonblume9933
      @ashtonblume9933 Месяц назад +2

      Same been a loyal viewing but this was sick

  • @Bravofan-xn3uc
    @Bravofan-xn3uc Месяц назад +30

    You have to think of Arianna that whenever she is moving on something else happens. She has the Rachel lawsuit and the house lawsuit. I think she just wants everything about him to be closed. She probably wants a season that she doesn't have to explain her feelings to everyone and they won't stop talking to her about everything. Let her just avoid him and not like him and not make it all about them, she just wants to be her.

    • @hawazennnnn
      @hawazennnnn Месяц назад

      The house is now courts hands too

  • @sarahmoore2225
    @sarahmoore2225 Месяц назад +15

    The VPR segment was a miss. Why is this insane responsibility on Ariana? "They are just tough choices" is diminishing and... she has been on this for 13-14 years. I really think he missed hardcore on this one.

  • @tracim3080
    @tracim3080 Месяц назад +69

    It has nothing to do with the relationship at this point Tom is just an awful human being who keeps poking at her like he keeps saying awful shit about her. He keeps trying to drag her down. He refuses to sell the house.
    Tom won’t let her go at this point
    So at what point are people going to pick and choose because watching a guy just be absolutely horrible and shit to a woman does not make good TV maybe it worked in the 90s but it’s not working for 2024

  • @sarahlawrie2057
    @sarahlawrie2057 Месяц назад +14

    The great thing about an ensemble cast means they all don't have to be doing the same things all together in every scene - it allows for diversity and depth. They need different energy levels, if everyone was/is on 10 all the time the 'drama' would have no impact. Reality is that not everyone in a friend group do everything together all the time. Impressed Ari showed up to film with him in the same vicinity so many times so close to being broken.

  • @Mspendo
    @Mspendo Месяц назад +41

    Nick riding for Tom is just straight up wrong and annoying

  • @tracim3080
    @tracim3080 Месяц назад +48

    The choice is if you abandon your property you lose your property that’s a choice. A lot of women are forced to make it well. If you don’t wanna put up with him you should just leave then they do and then they don’t have a house, so fuck you for calling it a choice

  • @Penlopecatz23445
    @Penlopecatz23445 Месяц назад +86

    Can you please do your research on these topics before you discuss - you keep on saying that Ariana hasn’t watched the episodes and a lot of your arguments are based on that. At the LA times book festival she said that she didn’t watch the episodes during her initial Chicago run but she did eventually watch the episodes (and said she was shocked by the confessionals) Nick is becoming a Tom sympathizer and it’s driving me CRAZY

    • @Ryan_t1290
      @Ryan_t1290 Месяц назад +4

      To be fair she was also on wwhl last week and she hadn’t watched that night’s ep…

    • @mzzthang3912
      @mzzthang3912 Месяц назад

      ​@Ryan_t1290 cause she's probably behind on the episodes since didn't start till after Chicago ended which was Apr 7th but I'm sure she's still booked and busy so trying binge might be harder which is why she isn't up to date

  • @jerryoxo
    @jerryoxo Месяц назад +12

    Nick being a Tom Sandoval apologist…it’s giving…misogynist 🙄
    Ciara kudos for being the only woman in the room having Ariana’s back. We love a girl’s girl.
    Natalie’s silence during that segment is deafening & very telling.
    #RIPViallFiles

    • @eyanandaahmed308
      @eyanandaahmed308 27 дней назад

      i wonder why she stopped speaking up against him? like girl i know you have your own takes dont be shy

    • @jerryoxo
      @jerryoxo 27 дней назад

      @@eyanandaahmed308 honestly looked like she was intimidated to speak against him 💯

  • @sarahmoore2225
    @sarahmoore2225 Месяц назад +12

    Also, Ariana is not the 1st to demand not to film scenes. This has happened for years by many other cast members.

    • @me-shell323
      @me-shell323 Месяц назад

      Tom did the same thing with Kristen

  • @xtinabev
    @xtinabev Месяц назад +7

    They’re clearly talking about their photographer/videographer lol

  • @tanyap7226
    @tanyap7226 Месяц назад +7

    Completely valid for Ariana to appear distressed at the reunion when production and her “friends” repeatedly gaslit and criticized her all season for exercising healthy boundaries. I don’t think it points to her not being over Tom. She is pleading with everyone in that room for the autonomy to not interact with someone who caused her trauma.

  • @chloegilchrist6662
    @chloegilchrist6662 Месяц назад +11

    With the Maria comments last episode, and the Ariana comments this episode …. yuck

  • @jessicamaerickard521
    @jessicamaerickard521 Месяц назад +17

    I’m baffled at the amount of people that think Ariana “should be over it by now” oh she’s “so successful” I think Nick is making some valid points but as he would say “it’s giving dickish”

  • @stacylight6683
    @stacylight6683 Месяц назад +14

    It's a reality show and Ariana is living her reality. We don't want her faking how she feels. The reality is she wouldn't want to talk to him. Also just because things were done a certain way in the past doesn’t mean things can't change and people can't and shouldn't grow. I like that some people have grown past immature behavior where they dont respect others. Thst is great and real It3s not real if people act bad just for the show. For those that are looking for that type of behavior i guess figure out why that is so entertaining to you. I like it when there is grwoth in people. I dont want to watch 35-40+ year olds acting like 20 year old. Why Nick continues to side with the toms is just gross.

    • @TeeVaPool
      @TeeVaPool 29 дней назад

      Now I remember why I hated Nick on the bachelor!

  • @CPG659
    @CPG659 Месяц назад +6

    The wedding vendor is obviously the photographer

  • @katinthechat1660
    @katinthechat1660 Месяц назад +5

    Ariana walking out and refusing to film was authentic, something that the finale revealed that the rest is not. Honestly props to editing/production for baring it all in those last 10 minutes, and fuck anyone trying to force Ariana to speak to Tom for the purpose of some disingenuous, contrived drama.

  • @michieslist2821
    @michieslist2821 Месяц назад +19

    Am I the only one that gets infuriated by all the "It's giving"s????? It's giving fucking brain dead...

    • @stack.attack27
      @stack.attack27 Месяц назад

      I get it with the younger ones even though it's annoying but what gets me is when he tries to use modern slang phrases to seem cool. Sooooooo cringe

    • @MichelleRios-ct2jt
      @MichelleRios-ct2jt Месяц назад +2

      And all the "I'm just sayin...", "All I'm sayin is..." during the VPR discussion. You could make a drinking game out of those few phrases alone.

    • @TheJakeMarc
      @TheJakeMarc Месяц назад

      I can’t stand when people talk like that. What are you a 15 year old girl on tik tok lol

    • @andreegodbout868
      @andreegodbout868 29 дней назад

      😂😂😂

  • @rose_quartz_loveandlight
    @rose_quartz_loveandlight Месяц назад +6

    it's a very unique position for a woman to be in where you share near to a decade with someone, plan your future/family planning and to then be single in your 30's. It's not a regular break up it has layers and the betrayal stings deep, so in my opinion Ariana gets to choose for herself how she wants to engage with Tom for her own wellbeing. I'm not exaggerating when I tell you it takes years to heal from with many stages of grief. 💖

  • @rhondafolk5928
    @rhondafolk5928 Месяц назад +11

    For VPR I also think Ariana didn’t have any other deals made when she signed up for season 11. This was so early on I don’t know if she had dancing with the stars or chocago at that time. And she said she was broke in March and so I think this was her first opportunity to secure money and make a plan to leave the house

    • @me-shell323
      @me-shell323 Месяц назад +1

      Exactly!!! She started to get brand deals and at least one was filmed during season 11. And even if she did have DWTS it didn’t start until after filming so she wasn’t going to get paid until she did the show. So financially she made the right decision to stay in the house and film in season 11.

  • @rjw4159
    @rjw4159 29 дней назад +4

    Just want to point out that when Lala, Sandoval and Scheana were all talking shit about Ariana at the end of the final episode, EVERYONE on the cast and production was there to see and hear that except Ariana. So when they show that scene at the reunion Ariana will be the ONLY person in that room that will be seeing and hearing that for the first time. If you look at the sneak peek of the reunion, Ariana is smiling when Lala and Scheana are talking because she still thinks that they are friends... She was probably heartbroken to hear the things that Lala and Scheana said. And upset that Tom activated them by telling the cast that Ariana “talks shit about all of them and hates everyone “ which he later admitted on Watch What Happens live that he basically lied.

  • @monicagonzalez1411
    @monicagonzalez1411 Месяц назад +5

    Dude acts like he's an authority on morality and relationships. And if I have to hear a middle aged man say "It's giving..." one more time... ugh.

  • @andreegodbout868
    @andreegodbout868 29 дней назад +4

    Ciara, you did God's work this episode. THANK YOU for standing firm on your opinion, even though you kept getting beat over the head with Nick's.

  • @mzzthang3912
    @mzzthang3912 Месяц назад +9

    your lack of comprehension baffles me at times she is willing to coexist with him she's been to most events that she could attend but she doesn't want him to directly talk to her which he does to get a reaction from her she doesn't want to get back with him so what is the purpose of a convo who does that benefit other than Tom? Also, what's hard for yall to understand you can move on and still be hurt from ur past hurt doesn't just go away u keep saying u get it but u hope well duh we all hope but she's reliving the pain of hearing him say vile things about her while trying to claim he's "genuinely" sorry when we see he's not it's gaslighty and it would frustrate anyone to tears. Forcing fake convos between ppl isn't reality tv they could have filmed a million things if everyone worried about their own storylines instead of Ariana's

  • @jtyarbrough8073
    @jtyarbrough8073 Месяц назад +32

    I want them to bring Randall on next season and I want Ariana to befriend him. Let’s see if we keep a ride the fence and soft season Lala!

    • @LB-eq5bk
      @LB-eq5bk Месяц назад +1

      I get this for sure, but a little different. Randall was/is not part of the cast and people were only friendly with Randall because of Lala. Most of this group was friends with Tom before he was with Ariana.

    • @Ryan_t1290
      @Ryan_t1290 Месяц назад +2

      Yeah but then Lala should stop comparing her situation to Ariana and how she should just film with Tom and get over it.

  • @partialartsblackbelt8384
    @partialartsblackbelt8384 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for showing us what y’all are looking at on the screen

  • @danaSL99
    @danaSL99 29 дней назад +4

    It was in her contract that she wouldn't film with Tom. In. Her. Contract. Get over it.

  • @sh.boogies
    @sh.boogies Месяц назад +3

    Nick. Ariana went through a very traumatic thing on a NATIONWIDE SCALE. She's *NEVER* going to be over it. Her success now doesn't negate the intense pain she felt in the beginning.

  • @lalaa8653
    @lalaa8653 Месяц назад +9

    Joel McHale is awesome love community the show and his comedy stuff!

  • @haleywhite8192
    @haleywhite8192 27 дней назад +2

    This was REALLY enjoyable and lighthearted! You need to consider more comedian guests!! What about Kevin Hart?!

  • @aprilarmendariz5597
    @aprilarmendariz5597 Месяц назад +6

    Why does Ariana need to quit the show? To make others happy because her “fragile” state of mind is making you feel uncomfortable? She deserves to be there. It’s also a good thing to show other that it’s ok to set boundaries and it’s ok to take a long time to heal. She was with that poor of an excuse of a man for 10 years!!! When you have hopes and plan a future with someone it takes a long time to like how Nick puts it “get over it”. I like that we’re seeing her process this heartbreak in her own way, and I can’t wait to see her rise up! I want to see her move in to her new house and celebrate her newfound success. Let her be. Love is a difficult emotion. Just because you break up with someone it doesn’t mean that you stopped loving them and the memories don’t just go away over night. It’s been a year, yes but she was with him for 10 years! She never wanted to have kids until him! She had her eggs frozen for him! To make him a dad! That’s a big deal for a woman. Anyway, I wish we could get over the narrative that she needs to get over it just because others can’t comprehend the pain or the healing process she’s going through.

  • @jennval1418
    @jennval1418 Месяц назад +4

    She’s not triggered she just doesn’t want to talk to him that’s not hard to understand

  • @courtneycoleman6849
    @courtneycoleman6849 Месяц назад +7

    Loll Ty comment section, Nick always gives me the ick I just watch these for the recaps but it sounds like it’s not even worth it rn…..
    Lol ariana doesn’t need Nick cavils feeling bad for her 😂

  • @lightweights
    @lightweights Месяц назад +8

    Joel is an icon

  • @sl2kool
    @sl2kool Месяц назад +7

    Love Joel but this was a tough interview to watch lol! I think Nick was expecting to bond a little more. Don't meet your heros 😂

    • @hattiemartinson4515
      @hattiemartinson4515 Месяц назад

      I agree, Joel seemed tired in way. It was a strange vibe between him, Nick and Natalie. Not sure how to explain it otherwise, just felt a little off.

  • @LaaLaa901
    @LaaLaa901 28 дней назад +2

    Katie and Dayna need to have a long chat with their boss Nick and straighten him out.

  • @JaneWoodBranam
    @JaneWoodBranam Месяц назад +4

    Give me a break Nick! If your wife has an affair with your best friend 9 years from now, tell me you wouldn’t go ballistic.

  • @kellystewart9291
    @kellystewart9291 Месяц назад +3

    River chiming in with the convo made my WHOLE day😍

  • @lordeflockatee3399
    @lordeflockatee3399 Месяц назад +3

    I wonder why most breakup advice and suggestions goes to the person that was done wrong…

  • @user-hw5ui8fv2b
    @user-hw5ui8fv2b Месяц назад +4

    Nick, Ariana doesn’t need to speak to him

  • @justjenni3910
    @justjenni3910 Месяц назад +2

    Ariana was just slapped with a lawsuit before they recorded the reunion. I think she’s aloud to still be upset over it

  • @DdJ20248
    @DdJ20248 Месяц назад +5

    Admit it Nick. You support your buddy Tom Sandoval. You have refused to condemn him. Even when you knew he was lying. Shut up.

  • @jenniferyuma9620
    @jenniferyuma9620 29 дней назад +1

    everyone commenting on nick's take on ariana and all I wanna know is the vendor nightmare they were talking about that got cut out lmaoooo

  • @clairecoburn1820
    @clairecoburn1820 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you sweet boy Justin for your dissertation on Met Gala looks

  • @dantecox820
    @dantecox820 Месяц назад +2

    She simply doesn’t want the guy to intrude on her personal life space and that’s fair….. they have been in the same places on every freaking episode. She just doesn’t wanna interact with him the way that you may want it, but she gave you that standard before she filmed, but you thought that you were gonna be able to remove her boundary and you were not successful.

  • @harrylederman1679
    @harrylederman1679 Месяц назад +4

    Nick criticises Maria and then follows it by criticising Ariana..... is he becoming just Nasty and that uninformed

    • @TeeVaPool
      @TeeVaPool 29 дней назад +1

      Nick is making my blood boil

  • @rydercrisologo
    @rydercrisologo 29 дней назад +3

    Disappointed with Nick’s take. Started listening because he was reasonable. His take on Ariana sucks.

  • @cmarieh5362
    @cmarieh5362 15 дней назад

    Why is this even a debate Nick...Ariana made her choice she chose to stay and she's showing what's going on. What's going on is she will film with Tom but won't gove him yet another conversation.

  • @vickinathan8777
    @vickinathan8777 Месяц назад +2

    I love seeing Natalie with baby River!

  • @jeskuo
    @jeskuo Месяц назад +9

    Maybe Ariana wants Tom out of their jointly owned house

  • @sarahlawrie2057
    @sarahlawrie2057 Месяц назад +2

    We also have to recognise that the show has been on air for over a decade and during that time there has been a profound shift in societal consciousness towards women and how they are treated by the opposite gender. Patriarchal and misogynistic stereotypes and archetypes are no longer praised and pushed into the zeitgeist and pop culture is reflective of that change.

  • @stephaniewatts5807
    @stephaniewatts5807 Месяц назад +3

    How many times do I and others have to say we can't see what you guys see on that little little little T.V. unreal! Please figure this out, maybe instead of added another person in the house hold put some energy in the right areas 😮

  • @jenjacobs5499
    @jenjacobs5499 Месяц назад +3

    Here's the thing, how is she supposed to get over or have different feelings when since this situation has broke that she's constantly been bombarded with this questions about this past relationship, which I get she was in for a really long time now how can anyone heal when the wound is constantly being ripped open.

  • @nataliebuckley9313
    @nataliebuckley9313 23 дня назад

    Well, as possibly the only person in the comments who skipped the VPR segment (because I don't watch or care), I really enjoyed this episode! I love Joel and his dry humour, as usual. I usually skip the advice segment, but I loved the way Joel spoke to and encouraged that woman.
    Really fun episode (minus the VPR stuff, I guess). 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

  • @esthergergen7415
    @esthergergen7415 27 дней назад +1

    Why is Ariana not letting go of the hurt a sad thing? Would anyone be so concerned about it if she was not on the show? Everyone has their own version of healing and moving on. The problem is that all are imposing their version of what moving on should be..... and newsflash, if anyone knows life is not fair, it is Ariana.....

  • @clairecoburn1820
    @clairecoburn1820 Месяц назад

    👏 so good

  • @JaneWoodBranam
    @JaneWoodBranam Месяц назад +1

    Emily D Baker has a great episode here on RUclips focusing on the Rachel lawsuits.

  • @zeebee6370
    @zeebee6370 27 дней назад +1

    How was Nick so on point during the show and now he’s got the worst shit to say about Ariana?? Wtf happened!?

  • @cmarieh5362
    @cmarieh5362 15 дней назад

    This is a big part of her livelihood. She's had opportunities from this but how long will it all last. I'm sure Ariana wants the show to fall back on. Anyone in her situation would worry about losing that incone after 11 years.

  • @TeeVaPool
    @TeeVaPool 29 дней назад +1

    Hey Nick tell your “buddy” Tom to sell the house!!!!

  • @lolamar6064
    @lolamar6064 Месяц назад +3

    Nick is definitely speaking about the photographer as the vendor who’s duped them

    • @_Sunday_Morning
      @_Sunday_Morning Месяц назад +1

      I was thinking the videographer because he mentioned “footage of people and speeches”

    • @hailsatan316
      @hailsatan316 Месяц назад +1

      videographer i think. he got some of whatever he wanted , but not all of it. sounds like he either wanted what they cut out or he only originally paid for X minutes of footage and they’re trying to charge him more for the rest of it.

  • @lmoldow1
    @lmoldow1 Месяц назад +1

    Joel McHale looks ❤‍🔥

  • @chocolatchiklet
    @chocolatchiklet 27 дней назад +3

    if we're going to treat Tom with kid-gloves, Ariana deserves the same. Ariana isn't asking for pity. Let her have her emotions. Sandoval still brings up how Kristen wronged him from 10 years ago. We've all asked him to get over it, and yet he still brings it up. Let's have this conversation about Ariana when she's the one forcing this narrative, not when production is forcing the conversation. You can't ask Ariana how she feels about something and then get weird when she expresses her feelings. Like what in the ever loving hell are we talking about here? the drama is interesting but I only watch for Ariana because it's great to see someone inject a bit of normalcy amongst the drama. we all fancy ourselves to be the type of person who adds sense in the midst of the nonsensical. that's what Ariana represents to us, that's why I watch. if I wanted super trash television, I'd watch Zeus.

  • @connie0613
    @connie0613 25 дней назад

    I like life update segment

  • @jadynasct
    @jadynasct 18 дней назад

    So I think I totally know what Nick was talking about 😅 videographers these days only do the 3 minute or 15 minute videos of the wedding and do not provide the raw footage of the entire wedding. My husband and I talked to so many videographers until we found one that would provide us with the 3 minute video, PLUS the 3 hour long video of the ceremony and reception AND gave us the raw footage too. Mind you it was the same price for the 3 minute/15 minute video combo which is typical now from videographers and such a rip off!! We wanted every second to be able to go back and watch. We were so lucky to find a vendor who gave us exactly what we wanted.
    My suggestion to Nick & the show - have a wedding planner/coordinator come on and discuss the entire process and what is typical service for each vendor so you can blend it in lol but from my own experience I think I guessed correctly because this was a struggle for us too! Sorry to hear you guys got cornered :( hope you get all the footage!! ❤

  • @cmarieh5362
    @cmarieh5362 15 дней назад

    Nick do some research pn grieving....she's been fighting the sad part...the loss part...now she's going through it. This is the final stage.

  • @kirstyngarland5271
    @kirstyngarland5271 Месяц назад +2

    Why is everyone still obsessed with 2 rando people they don’t know on a television show completed based off the drama between the cast. That’s literally all anyone is talking about in these comments and this episode was about 45 minutes of VPR. Why can’t we focus on Joel, he had me laughing for the rest of the pod.

  • @briacunaxo
    @briacunaxo Месяц назад +2

    Nick your vpr/ariana take is so wrong it’s actually insane lol

  • @kellytriebwasser5001
    @kellytriebwasser5001 Месяц назад

    Raquel’s lawyers have the suit! So happy for her

  • @TeeVaPool
    @TeeVaPool 29 дней назад +2

    Nick’s take on Ariana is why I unsubscribed to his podcast and this is why this will be the last one I listen to.

  • @Agh576
    @Agh576 27 дней назад

    Nick is right. Ariana is in a serious relationship supposedly but still seems completely not over Tom . It’s been a year now and if she still not over it, I’m not sure why she’s in another relationship.

  • @andypatterson1077
    @andypatterson1077 27 дней назад +2

    Nick, as the straight while male, thinks he is right as always.

  • @Prof_Loredana
    @Prof_Loredana 27 дней назад +1

    1:26:35 VIDEOS and PHOTOS !!!

  • @harrylederman1679
    @harrylederman1679 Месяц назад +1

    Typical of Nick calling out the abused woman ....Ariana..... As though she's not still traumatised And she is not entitled to cry

  • @vixstar73924
    @vixstar73924 28 дней назад +2

    It shouldn't be on Ariana to save the show. In reality she would not speak to Tom so why film something with him alone just to be villianise and to give Tom a redemption ark. It ain't natural. Ariana, Katie and James were the only authentic.cast members and the rest were heavily produced and scripted. Tom and Lala looked ridiculous. I loved the ending with Ariana walking out.