Is It Okay to Desire Marriage?

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  • Опубликовано: 1 дек 2024

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  • @LittleBoxXx
    @LittleBoxXx 2 года назад +5

    Jessy is spot on, you cannot control what people decide to do, but you can control how you react.

  • @charlescreamerii2715
    @charlescreamerii2715 2 года назад +4

    He's talking about living life without fear of loss. In this he is correct.

  • @faithlife_kb
    @faithlife_kb 2 года назад +14

    Wow...I desired to get married. I prayed and asked the Lord for a fo'real saved man... I did get married 35 years ago and we're STILL "honeymooning" and more joyful today than we were when we first married. ...after 3 kids & our share of struggles, we're looking forward to the next 35!🙌🙌🙌

    • @DiddyKatt
      @DiddyKatt 2 года назад +2

      Lol

    • @MistaJG
      @MistaJG 2 года назад +3

      Love to hear it! Hope the next 35 are well!

    • @Michael_Arnold
      @Michael_Arnold 2 года назад +5

      Have you asked HIS opinion?!

    • @rebuildingtheman
      @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад +3

      Amazing.

    • @faithlife_kb
      @faithlife_kb 2 года назад +2

      @@Michael_Arnold 🤣 I already know what HE thinks, he tells me...a lot! Thanks for asking! Lol

  • @Matt10264
    @Matt10264 2 года назад +20

    Its like being a kid again. The last thing you wanna do as a kid is marry a big mama to share a bed and house with... Youre attracted to what you hate, thats why men dont get married to decent women but toxic ones and its hell. Its a love hate Relationship, up and down the ego goes

    • @denniscerasoli6209
      @denniscerasoli6209 2 года назад

      It is God's intention that people marry but people in the Lord it's human nature to want to raise a God fearing family. Jesse interprets the scriptures like no other and he only knows so much about the Bible anyway.

    • @DiddyKatt
      @DiddyKatt 2 года назад +3

      That was deep

    • @Matt10264
      @Matt10264 2 года назад

      @@denniscerasoli6209 human nature is evil.

    • @patientlywatching7775
      @patientlywatching7775 2 года назад

      80% of men are invisible to women. Men don't get to choose which women they get to be with; women get to pick that. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment.

    • @Womanfemale12
      @Womanfemale12 2 года назад

      Facts

  • @nicchaz7220
    @nicchaz7220 2 года назад +10

    this point is so important it is hard for most to grasp in essence a desire leads to a outcome that is not necessary good for you

    • @patientlywatching7775
      @patientlywatching7775 2 года назад +2

      The Buddhists do a good job getting that across.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      @@patientlywatching7775 But they don't KNOW GOD and have not overcome the fallen state. Only those who go and forgive and be still, can truly KNOW GOD! AND bhudda ain't God! He wouldn't let himself get fat like that! Where bhudda at now? He dead!

  • @Matt10264
    @Matt10264 2 года назад +5

    Lust is unforgiveness. What you will see when you realize you are wrong for judging is that women cant help themselves, and when you see they cant help it, you cant judge, you cant lust.

  • @supernalbjj
    @supernalbjj 2 года назад +4

    Amazing, JLP is spot on, he isnt saying dont get married, or you shouldnt get married. he is saying when you have truley overcome and have perfect peace you dont want to get married. but there is plenty of providence in the scripture for people who want to get married, because not every ones power level is set on monk mode.

  • @DazHagen
    @DazHagen 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for sharing, great content. I love your work, Jesse

    • @denniscerasoli6209
      @denniscerasoli6209 2 года назад

      You love Jesse's work? Wanting to get married isn't from the devil Jesse is trolling yyou can't possibly agree with that.

  • @DiddyKatt
    @DiddyKatt 2 года назад +5

    Jesse is something else. In a AmaZzz’en way !!! 😂

  • @goo5976
    @goo5976 2 года назад +5

    Meh, coming together in a fallen state isn’t what happens when two people marry and have a bunch of babies. Jesse also says being in a fallen state isn’t good but yet claims two people have to be in one to get married, and then bring eachother out of it. Jesse makes sense sometimes, but this entire thing is kind of dumb

    • @thegodparticles118
      @thegodparticles118 2 года назад +2

      You have too understand the idea itt is what it is. Jesse is saying if perfect person then marriage is redundant. Thus wouldn't happen. He is not saying what anyone should do. He's not dumb. Try too comprehend and not judge

    • @melkam647
      @melkam647 2 года назад +3

      I think he means that they are both in the fallen state at the time of marriage but if one truly wakes up, likely the husband, after marriage then he can't help but also try to pull out his wife.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      It only seems dumb to someone inna fallen state. But a true child of God will see the truth of it, from within.

  • @scottedwards1209
    @scottedwards1209 2 года назад +3

    You started out with some good points, then said that God told Adam and Eve to have babies after they fell. No, He told them to "be fruitful and multiply" BEFORE the fall. The fall resulted in painful childbirth for the woman.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      That painful childbirth brings about anger and resentment towards the man! We are born into sin by being born of the woman!

  • @patientlywatching7775
    @patientlywatching7775 2 года назад +4

    Makes perfect sense that my desire for a wife is demonic. It certainly is not doing me a bit of good and is a major source of discontent. Maybe I need a passport; I hear there are traditional women abroad.

    • @rebuildingtheman
      @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад +5

      I don't recommend going off looking for a woman. It's the same spirit everywhere, just hidden better, but the "nice" ones are some of the worst. Let God add one to you; seek Him.

    • @Womanfemale12
      @Womanfemale12 2 года назад +3

      @@rebuildingtheman
      Facts

    • @sickproduct
      @sickproduct 2 года назад +1

      🎯

  • @Melik1100
    @Melik1100 2 года назад +1

    Hi Jesse. Great session.
    I wonder tho; wouldnt this mean that in a perfect world, nobody has any children? Cause theyre not getting married?

  • @rebuildingtheman
    @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад +3

    00:00 Desire to marry comes from the Devil
    01:38 Have no expectation
    02:17 Life unfolds by itself
    03:51 Looking for a father's love, in a fallen state
    05:02 In perfect peace, you would never marry
    05:57 You've been lied to
    06:04 What if your husband stops paying attention to you?
    08:35 What's going on within you? It's not him.
    10:32 We learned there's nothing wrong with desiring marriage
    11:21 Man and woman hate each other. They marry in fake love
    12:38 Be an example; don't teach
    13:14 If you overcame the fallen nature, you wouldn't marry
    15:46 Isn't that amazing?
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    • @Aleksandra.DaGreat
      @Aleksandra.DaGreat 2 года назад

      I absolutely love you guys!!! Best from Chicago, IL ❤

  • @faithlife_kb
    @faithlife_kb 2 года назад +4

    Marriage is not a business deal or contract...it's a COVENANT designed, ordained, and blessed by GOD NOT MAN. You need Godly wise counsel!!!!!!!

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      He is right and has Godly council. We both have the same Spirit of truth operating from within the temples of our hearts. You've been taught the Bible by the wolves and wolfettes in sheep's clothing. Jesse only says what God reveals to him from within. God does not bless a marriage that we ourselves get into. Only the one that He Himself has ordained, and has brought together 2 people, whose hearts are right and love God and have overcome the fallen state by forgiving their parents and others. That's why most marriages end in divorce. Because they were brought together by sssatan, and their own lusts! God doesn't bless anything that sssatan instigates through the minds of fallen man. What God brings together. No one can separate. The world uses that phrase, but 99.99% of marriages are of fallen man, and not wrought by God! They are destined to fail from the start. It has to be ALL OF GOD, AND NOT OF US!

  • @everythingisfake7555
    @everythingisfake7555 2 года назад +3

    I can speak for myself, my desire for marriage begins from my thoughts and emotions, nothing more. Being of evil and with a family is no better than being of evil and alone (I don't think). Neither are better, but we are social beings, that is how God made us. He made us to be with one another. He made Adam and Eve, he didn't just make Adam. Which is why when people have kids we say to them "Congratulations" or something along those lines. We thank God for a healthy baby and offer praise. It's just a normal thing, a common thing. I don't think it's right that Christians do not get married, I think Christians are able to find themselves in all situations. I think a Christian is able to get married despite the desire, rather than to not get married at all. I think this is a really interesting take, it does contradict some of his philosophy though, for example, he said "God will add the right one on to you", but that contradicts "in perfect peace you will never marry".

    • @Matt10264
      @Matt10264 2 года назад +5

      There is no contradiction, as you said youre desire come from the ego devil thoughts. Kids do not have these thoughts. "God will add the right one to you" means if its god will for you to be married he will give you a wife you need to overcome your lust, or not ( suffa and die) whatever his plan is

    • @rebuildingtheman
      @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад +1

      But it's not a contradiction. Do you think God doesn't know that you're in a fallen state, and still work with you?

    • @everythingisfake7555
      @everythingisfake7555 2 года назад

      ​@@rebuildingtheman I believe God knows everything and I think in the fallen-state he gives you eyes to see so you can repent. I don't want to defend the word contradiction so I will concede that it is not, that isn't the point of my comment (my poor use of language). But, I can't see how [" you will date in the right way once you are born again"] and that ["you should not seek a wife, but God will add one on to you if it's meant to be"] can live alongside "in perfect peace, you would NEVER marry". So there's never a scenario in which a Christian (born-again) gets married? There's so many things God says in the bible like ["go out and populate the Earth"]. I do see the logic in what Jesse is stating - no doubt. This is very interesting, I can't for 100% see that to be true that Christians never marry.

  • @dodieodie498
    @dodieodie498 2 года назад +4

    1 Corinthians 7:2
    But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
    Ephesians 5:31
    “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
    Genesis 2:18
    Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
    Isaiah 62:5
    For as a young man marries a young woman, so shall your sons marry you, and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall your God rejoice over you.
    Malachi 2:16
    “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her,” says the Lord, “the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of hosts. “So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

    • @rebuildingtheman
      @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад

      And what does all that mean to you? Do you agree with JLP?

    • @dodieodie498
      @dodieodie498 2 года назад +2

      @@rebuildingtheman I believe he oversimplifies. So generally, on this particular issue, no. I can't say that I agree.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      The epistles in the new testament were written to CHRISTIANS who love God with all their heart soul and might. Not to those inna fallen state. They can't understand it anyway! It's a spiritual book that only the Holy Spirit of truth can reveal the truth of it, to us personally from within, when we go and forgive and be still so that we can KNOW GOD! That IS what you want, isn't it! To truly KNOW GOD. If not, then you are just following sssatan and the wolves and wolfettes, with the many, who teach and preach the Bible! That road leads to destruction. You wanna be on the straight and narrow path with God guiding you from within. Tha path leads to everlasting life. And THERE ARE FEW that find it! GOD deals with us as individuals. He doesn't work or operate in groups! It's the individual heart that ONLY God sees and knows. We all must give an account before God. One on one! Ain't no wolves or wolfettes gonna answer for you then. So why follow them and be led astray NOW! GO AND FORGIVE AND BE STILL! THAT'S IT! ITS THE ONLY WAY TO ENTER THE KINGDOM OF GOD!

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      @@dodieodie498 God is simple, as are His ways. It's man that complicates things. Go and forgive and be still! It don't get any simpler than that. Even a small child can understand it.

    • @dodieodie498
      @dodieodie498 2 года назад +1

      @@kortgreen7725 The subject here is about human desires and feelings, human relationships and covenants, and the human dynamic, and whether people should desire marriage. That is a complicated issue. The subject is not about whether people would consider God simple or not. Though I would definitely dispute that God is merely simple, and I wouldn't describe His ways as simple either, since, for the most part, we are unable to grasp all that He is. That is demonstrated in our continual failure and need for redemption, as well as the need to grow and mature in the faith. Like 1Corinthians 13: 11-12,
      When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a
      man, I set aside childish ways. Now we see but a dim reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face
      to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
      People can interpret that as they will. To my mind, God is the greatest mystery that there could be. Which is why we can only see in the mirror darkly, and why Christ became the stumbling stone. And we were instructed to do far more than to forgive and do nothing more. I get what you are trying to say, but I cannot agree with the way you say it.

  • @faithlife_kb
    @faithlife_kb 2 года назад +6

    "Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Genesis 2 PLEASE read a Bible.

    • @Matt10264
      @Matt10264 2 года назад +3

      Women can be helpers to men without engaging in sin, what da!

    • @Womanfemale12
      @Womanfemale12 2 года назад +5

      @@vegeta8169
      Talking with a woman in a fallen state is a headeache.
      And I'm a woman

    • @faithlife_kb
      @faithlife_kb 2 года назад

      @@Matt10264 ??? ...they certainly can.

    • @faithlife_kb
      @faithlife_kb 2 года назад

      @@vegeta8169 It helps (if both contribute too) and it takes a lot more.

    • @faithlife_kb
      @faithlife_kb 2 года назад +1

      @@Womanfemale12 🤣🤣🤣 I'm a woman too & it sure can be! I can tell when my husband has "left the building" when I've tlked too much!!!🤣🤣 *being friends, humor & being able to laugh at yourself & know your shortcomings helps A LOT!*

  • @iluvrolaz
    @iluvrolaz 2 года назад +4

    Lol kids don't get it these days that until you have that love n fullness inside of yourself you're always gonna be looking for it outside yourself n therefore will never have what they're actually seeking

    • @davecopp9356
      @davecopp9356 2 года назад

      Well said. I only had climpses of short moments of this love but I am not totally sure if it was the real love, but everything felt amazing and the moments occured without drugs. I do the silent prayer but I often am not able to let go the thoughts. You seem to be further ahead in this journey. All the best.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      Keep doing the silent prayer and you will soon see that all thoughts are all lies from the imagination where sssatan only operates. God will give you eyes to see when it's just a lying thought from the ego and the vanity and darkness that IS the imaginations. It won't happen right away. That's why the scripture tells us to pray without ceasing. If you don't give up on it. God won't give up on you. Just remember that God is with you and you can't fail if you keep at it! It will soon become second nature to doubt all thoughts from the imagination when you can truly see them for what they are! Just lies from sssatan and his minions!

    • @davecopp9356
      @davecopp9356 2 года назад

      @@kortgreen7725 How long have you done the silent prayer morning and night and can you explain a little how you do it and how long each day? Do you use an alarm clock? I only do it for a few weeks and then I miss a few days and I start again. Please let me know how you do it. Thanks.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      @@davecopp9356 it's a way of life for me now. I used to do it back in 91 before I ever heard of JLP! I always was in God's presence and life was KEEYAWSOME! I vould feel his presence and I followed where the Holy Spirit led me. I had no more hate, anger or unforgiveness. I understood that we are all born in sin and could not help ourselves. God was my pilot. I went where he led me and it just felt awesome to be following God within my heart. I loved EVERYONE!. THAT was new! Never had that before. But when I decided to follow my mind and sssatans lies, I no longer felt the overwhelming presence of God in my life. I had stopped doing the silent prayer and my life went in a downward spiral of depression hate anger and unforgiveness. I even turned to the wolves in sheep's clothing who teach and preach the Bible. That mess did nothing to get me outta the hell I was in! I did everything possible that they told me. But God allowed me to go through that to testify that ANYONE who teaches or preaches the Bible is just a wolf in sheep's clothing. Only God can reveal the truth of scripture to us personally from within, when we repent from hating, and GO AND FORGIVE our parents. Then God will forgive u. The hardest part is praying without ceasing. You have to reject every thought that comes against God's right way. Once you realize that all thoughts are all lies from sssatan that we overcome by being still and God will show you those thoughts as you go about your day. By staying outta those thoughts and letting them go, is how we stay still in our minds and we can see them coming! I know that voice that sounds like me, AINT ME! BY doubting every thought that pops into our imagination, is how we can hear the voiceless voice of God. He will show his truth in all that you do! At work. Home or play. Life will just happen if we don't have any expectations about life or living. It's so mindblowing to live truly free from sssatan and his lies. And you will also be able to see a lie from sssatan AND his children when presented. It's the discernment from God within that allows us to see. Thst and what Jesus accomplished on the cross. Being the only Son of God who paid the debt of THE SIN. Jesus gave sight to the blind physically. He now does that Spiritually when we go and forgive and be still. You can still have cognitive thought that you need to survive in life. But that comes from you. It's called practical thought! We all do it, but we let sssatan tell us lies about errybody and errything and our own thoughts get overridden and overruled if we give into them! Just be patient because it gets better and better. It all boils down to. HOW BAD DO YOU WANT TO KNOW GOD? Are you willing to let that ego die the death that it deserves? It'll hurt a Lil but it brings peace, and the endurance to withstand all the flaming lies that sssatan can shoot at chew! Iss da best ride this side of heaven!

  • @holy-eradication7058
    @holy-eradication7058 2 года назад

    Paul also stated the principles of marriage in 1 Corinthians ch.7. I think he has a skewed view of marriage.

    • @holy-eradication7058
      @holy-eradication7058 2 года назад

      @@vegeta8169 Right, would you say that's the same as wanting to get married being a sin?

    • @rebuildingtheman
      @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад

      Jesse didn't call wanting to be married a sin. He said the desire comes from the Devil.

    • @holy-eradication7058
      @holy-eradication7058 2 года назад

      @@rebuildingtheman oh, I misunderstood then. So he's saying that the desire to want to be married comes from the devil? How so?

    • @holy-eradication7058
      @holy-eradication7058 2 года назад

      @@rebuildingtheman Because God told the first men and woman in Genesis to multiple and be fruitful, I don't agree with that statement.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад

      @@holy-eradication7058 Adam and Eve were in a perfect sinless relationship with God when He told them that. They disobeyed God and lost that perfect relationship with God. They and errybody else after that were inna fallen state as sssatan became their God. WE are driven by sssatan, until we overcome the fallen state by going to forgive our parents and others so that God will forgive us ! Then if it's God's will for us to marry, HE will make it happen! Whatever man puts his own hand to, is destined to failure, without God guiding him from within. The fallen state must be overcome for a marriage to prosper!

  • @PlasmaBurns
    @PlasmaBurns 2 года назад +1

    I refuse to beg my political masters for permission to marry the one I love. Marriage License.

  • @Matt10264
    @Matt10264 2 года назад

    I would like to see Jesse ask the expertz about this, whether they want to get married or not and then dig abit😂... Because i remember they said they did in the paul morgan vid

  • @CC-cy1uk
    @CC-cy1uk 2 года назад +1

    So stay a virgin love god love yourself worry about yourself have a friend have no expectations so if they go or die it want matter. 🤣 welp that’s an option to live in peace . You don’t need a mate just be free and alone and fulfilled tho

  • @DAViDD767
    @DAViDD767 2 года назад +1

    I'm not getting marry to the church nor the government, sorry ladies.

  • @BabyAngelV
    @BabyAngelV 2 года назад +1

    And why are his s’s so pronounced?

  • @humbleservant6685
    @humbleservant6685 2 года назад +2

    epic

  • @faithlife_kb
    @faithlife_kb 2 года назад +1

    Yes you should have expectations... BUT even the best husband makes a POOR god!

    • @davecopp9356
      @davecopp9356 2 года назад +1

      It is about the order of god. Nowhere does it say that your husband should be your god, but you should obey him. God over Christ, Christ over the man, the man over the women and the women over the children.

    • @kortgreen7725
      @kortgreen7725 2 года назад +1

      Expectations are of sssatan. As are emotions. They build you up, and then they will pull the rug out from under you. God doesn't work like that. HE WORKS from stillness! Thus the silent prayer. He shows us His truth from within, and that is sufficient for us to live an abundant, KEEYAWSOME Spirit life! Following wolves and wolfettes who teach and preach the Bible will only lead to false expectations, and disappointment, when those expectations aren't met! It's part of sssatans merry go round of emotions and expectations of the mind. You are happy when you get on and you get sick when you realize that you can't get off or make it stop! One minute your up, and the next, your down in the dumps! The only way to escape it, is to go and forgive and be still ! God doesn't give out motion sickness pills! He stops the ride, so we can GET OFF OF IT FOR GOOD!!

    • @davecopp9356
      @davecopp9356 2 года назад

      @@kortgreen7725 Well said.

  • @BabyAngelV
    @BabyAngelV 2 года назад

    Is this guy married?

    • @Matt10264
      @Matt10264 2 года назад +1

      That would defeat his point wouldnt it 😂, god bless.

    • @supernalbjj
      @supernalbjj 2 года назад

      nah he made a baby when he was a s1ut maker, then repented

    • @rebuildingtheman
      @rebuildingtheman  2 года назад +2

      No. JLP's been engaged twice, but broke it off. He does have a son, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, though. (Unfortunately made the baby out-of-wedlock at 18, but the mother married someone else and kept the son from him.) But Jesse has counseled couples for over 30 years.

    • @BabyAngelV
      @BabyAngelV 2 года назад

      @@rebuildingtheman I understand. Thank you for the explanation.

    • @BabyAngelV
      @BabyAngelV 2 года назад

      @@rebuildingtheman I’ve listened to him here and there. I don’t know anything about his personal life. I can tell by the way he speaks that he is bitter against women. I wonder what his home life was like and relationship with his parents.

  • @CynicalDad81
    @CynicalDad81 2 года назад

    🙄🙄🙄