THE DAY AFTER VACATION WITH 12 KIDS
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- THE DAY AFTER VACATION WITH 12 KIDS
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In today’s vlog we unpack and resume our normal summer routine. Plus a quick shopping trip to Wegmans!
Welcome To Our Chaos.🥳
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Josh-43
Alicia-41
Alex-16
James-15
Nevaeh-14
Patrick-13
Dayshawn-12
Bree-11
Zoey-10
Dash-8
Jordan-7
Jason-7
Bodhi-5
Harlee-3
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I don’t know which is sweeter: Patrick holding bodhis hand waiting for the bus, letting him win the “race” to get on or Neveah telling Harlee to swim to her and cheering her on. You are raising the sweetest kiddos and I can only hope mine will grow up to be just as sweet from watching your family 💛💛💛
I thought those were precious moments too 🥰.
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And what about Dayshawn at the end? So sweet!
Dayshawn is really opening up. And he has the most beautiful eyes. So soulful.
Yes ❤️❤️❤️ they seem so happy to be there and just fit in like they have always been there.. that’s how you know they are amazing parents making a difference in the world 🌎 ❤️
What a lovely surprise to see Dayshawn, they are certainly fitting in and seem to be very happy.
It was a great surprise for sure! So happy for them all!
Its nice that he is helping her.
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Bodhi getting on the bus for his first time at summer camp. Such an achievement for him. New experience for kids with autism are not the same as for neuro typical kids. He did it 💪🥳
Is Bodhi has autism?
We were shocked he just got on no problem! I thought for sure I’d get a phone call that he was inconsolable with the new situation but nope, he loved it! These are the moments having a bunch of siblings are super helpful. It’s a built in support system for him in new situations. 🧡
I don’t know if I’m just now noticing, but seeing Naveah in New York holding on to her little sisters & now seeing her clap for her littlest sister swimming… it seems like she’s always wanted a sister & you gave that to her! ❤️
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Awwww this is such a wholesome comment
I have a feeling that James is feeling a little left out since the Alex- Dayshawn bond is getting strong. It seems like he misses the attention he used to get from Alex. Don’t get me wrong I’m really happy about their bond, it’s amazing, and it makes Dayshawn feel more welcomed into the family, but I hope they involve James too. He’s the sweetest 🥺❤️❤️
I’ve noticed that too. Don’t think it was intentional or malicious in anyway, but I felt so sad for him walking to football 🥺
Dayshawn's ending was cute as a freaking button. I "aww"-ed
It was. Glad he's opening up
Yes, he should do that more! He's got spunk!
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So did I ❤️
That was the cutest!
“We can’t parent them how we were parented 20-30 years ago because it’s a different world now” - thank you!! I love this parenting mindset
Oh my goodness! Alicia I am so glad that you are so open about the “kids” dating. My parents never let me out of their sight and when I was 18 I got pregnant. Not blaming it on them of course but I wish I would’ve been able to be open about it so it wouldn’t have been in secret and without anyones input. The NYC vacation was awesome!! 🤩 bless you guys
I went through the same thing I was so sneaky smh luckily I didn’t get pregnant till 24
Got pregnant at 18 and went through about the same as you it really does sometimes make kids more sneaky being locked up😣
My parents never had a talk with me about birds and bees. I was boy crazy and really wanted my own baby. I tried for a baby when I was 16. Finally got pregnant and had my first baby at 19, he was born with no bladder an kidney issues and didn’t live long after birth that was 2010. Then had 2 miscarriages after that. Never knew the dad to those 3. Finally got pregnant again and had another in 2012. Not proud of myself I was just trying to give my parents a grandchild because I thought thats what you were suppose to do. But my dad passed in 2008 before my 1st baby and my mom in 2012 a month before my child was born so neither parent got to meet their grandkid.
My husband and I allow our 11 & 12 year old girls “date” for the exact same reason as you! We have discussed the birds and the bees with them and I allow my girls to ask me any questions about anything at any time without shaming them for asking or saying anything rude about it to them so they feel comfortable coming to me about anything.
My parents were always "iffy" about it all , depended if they liked the guy or not but I always had so many male friends & we always hung around in groups together boys & girls so I could have easily slid one by if some big mouth friends werent around maybe lol. But I never really tried to have them around my house even as I got older & because I didnt want them in my personal business like that. Once I got my own apartment & before that when I had roommates I would. But I did (me & a friend actually) skip school one day at 16 & went to Planned Parenthood & got on birthcontrol. We had to do a little fibbing on the forms but we both got it & were 2 of the only girls in our group(s) that didnt get pregnant in high school. Wanna say maybe 3 of our friends even had 2 kids by the time we all graduated. My dad was very strict as he was a Navy brat & had been in the military hisself also & my mom was (still is) too da*n nosey so all that did was teach me at an early age to learn to be sneaky
Hi there. I am a South African mom of two who recently discovered your channel
I hope to become a foster mom one day soon and your family but especially you have motivated me to not only take the leap but be a better mom to my current two. I wake up earlier and have more of a routine. Today I took my clothes to a laundromat and it was easier for me to do that then try get it dry on the line in our rainy wet weather in winter. It literally took me 45 minutes at the most. I wake up early and prep breakfast lunch and supper by the time the children wake up. My household seems less stressed and I feel i get so much more done. Thank you for your videos. It is much much much appreciated. ❤️
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Dayshawn doing the outro was the best! He seems to be happy and healthy. Loved seeing all the children living their best life. Also, you have a great perspective on the dating issue. My parents always told us we will trust you until you give a reason not to. We always had open communication and expectations.
Exactly. Give them that first...and maybe they wont become sneaky.....
I like your parent’s philosophy!
Good points on pre teen dating . We have to accept and monitor it even though we really wish they wouldn’t .
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I wouldnt say I didnt want them to because thats when its "fun". Thats the ages a lot of good memories are made & you start thinking of what you want for yourself in life & what you dont want. My mom used to always give me the "wait until you're older" or "as soon as you turn 18. . ." Told her then & I still agree you need to get all that out of your system at an early age then when you turn 18 & become an adult you arent out being irresponsible. I used to skip school & sneak out etc etc but I also snuck to the clinic when I was supposed to be at school & got myself on bc. By the time I turned 21 I was pretty much finished with drinking, it wasnt really all that fun anymore once I turned 21 especially when I had to be at work and/or class in the mornings, rent to pay etc etc. Of course things are very different for kids nowdays, they pretty much live life through a screen/on apps. We were in random parking lots meeting up trying to find out where everyone was going- what club or party at someones parents lake house or friends older sibling that had their own house already & wasnt home etc etc. This was mid-late 90s, the main clubs we went to (supposed to be 18 to get in on college nights & we were going at 16-17) are all closed now. Thurs, Fridays & Saturdays during the school year I'll have to pass some of those same parking lots where we'd have it packed & its completely empty, just dead. I'll see my son when he's off work on a friday evening (early 20s) & hes got a phone or tablet or something in his face or some friends with teenaged kids & its pretty much the same. Its just sad to see, teenaged years we definately would have been out somewhere anywhere, getting drunk at the lake or getting ready to go meet up with everyone somewhere until it got later & everyone started to head to the club. Its so strange, there's no way in h**l we would have just been sitting on a couch scrolling
I’m a single mom of a 4 year old girl and I work night shift full time as a nurse which can be very stressful…you have been such an inspiration to me and my parenting style. I used to be so exhausted and felt like a “yelling mom” but watching your videos have really made a difference on my parenting. My little Evelynn is such a sweet and loving kid and we sit together and watch you’re videos all the time. I love you guys so much! ❤️❤️
She’s 4. Read to her. Not watch videos.
Completely agree on your parenting theory of honesty vs. sneaking around and doing it anyway! SO TRUE.
Thank you
Fangirling cuz I got a response!! Love y’all!!
I have my bachelors and almost my Master’s degree in social work. I am currently a case manager at a Residential Treatment Center from girls ranging from 12-17.. I tell everyone at work (coworkers) how much I admire your channel and what you guys are doing. I literally look up to you and will like to fall in your footsteps once I finish school. Omg this channel is my peace.. Thanks Alicia
I feel the exact same
Your hair undone, still looks gorgeous 😍. Josh is the most awesomist daddy ever. You two make a great team.
I've binge watched your vids the last few days & I feel like part of the family now. 🥰💐
I've been bragging about the coffee thing & the sweet words at the end of each video. I look forward to words of kindness like that so much. 🥰💐 You all just 'rock' 💐
They are a great team together! And all of them included too!
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My grandfather was in the system in New York 1930's. He and his brother were separated & he was passed around until he lied to join the army early.
The thoughtfulness and kindness you share as a REAL family is very profound to my heart.
I think I cry tears of joy watching these videos. 💐❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️
It is so great seeing Dayshawn opening up. What a beautiful smile he has. Also, Bohdi just getting on the bus with such ease. What an achievement.
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It's cool to see parents that work like a team. Thanks for being such a great example of what teamwork as a couple looks like!
Yes!! I agree with your parenting style. They will always find a way to sneak. Having children that can come to you free of judgement and honestly is better then them always having to be afraid. I'm a parent of a 16 year old boy and it has worked well for us as well.
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To add onto what you're saying, it also teaches them how to be in HEALTHY relationships too! Tweens and teens that are able to be open with their parents about relationships will know what's healthy, and be able to recognize the early signs of an abusive relationship.
A lot of people who have never dated before being adult don't know what a relationship SHOULD be like, and they think abusive behaviors are normal
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This is seriously the most soothing and relaxing channel / family ever. You embrace the attitudes and challenges and messes and I just wanna give you 14 big hugs💛
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James in the living room putting his shoes on and looking at all the suitcases is exactly me after a vacation, looking at all the stuff to unpack 🤣🤣 disheveled hair and all!! Hilarious 😂 hope you guys had the best trip!
LOL! It was a ROUGH day for us all transitioning back to Real Life.🤣
@@DoughertyDozen oh for sure! It always is for our family of 4. Can't imagine 14 😂😂 but you handle it all so well 💜
The kiddos looked like they had a blast on vacation, so glad yall enjoyed NYC ❤️
Thanks!😁
So much work when get home from vacation, need another one to recoup. Might try putting a mesh bag, or like 13 gallon trash bag in each persons suitcase to put dirty clothes in. have to push air out to fit back in suitcase. That way clean clothes stay clean not smelly. Try to relax some this summer.
I hope Bodhi has a great day at camp! 🏕
On a different note, would you consider doing a cleaning routine video? I’d love to see how you keep up with cleaning a house with 12 kids.
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Yes I was just telling Josh today I need to do more of my organization and routine type blogs so I’ll do those soon!
Awww daShaun that was so nice! He’s a sweet boy! I love the fact you do you with your parenting and don’t care about what people say….so refreshing
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I love how understanding you guys are with all of your children. A lot of children have bad relationships with their parents because they are so scared of the parents reaction. It’s beautiful to see how you love ALL of your kids❤️🤞
Loved Dayshawn doing the end bit!!! Love this vlog it’s so real you don’t edit nothing out you keep it real!
Loved Dayshawn ending the video, it's great public speaking practice, hope to see more of this. You guys are amazing, glad your home safe.
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Hi dougherty dozen,hope you all had fun in New York City! Thank you Alicia for making us feel welcome and a part of your family,wherever you go. I'm still watching your videos everyday,you make me feel so calm and focused and ready for anything! ❤
I just love your name 😻😻
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I would LOVE to see a full video on your channel for school supply shopping! As a kid it was always one of my favorite times of the year. I’m 26 now and no longer need new school supplies every year but the memories of it from my childhood are very fond. ❤️
I love that Alex, James and Dayshawn play football together! It's such a great way for them to bond. Hope you all had a wonderful day!
Nice to see Dayshawn and Nevaeh settling in comfortably 👍
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I love your theory on dating! also it's a learning experience. He may be just 12 but when they are that young it's usually nothing serious and my parents always called it "puppy love" lol He's fine and he's having fun and that is all that matters
And they are so dang cute together lol
Puppy love until someone gets pregnant
@@aminah7174 why would you even say that?
I had my first boyfriend at 12. Glad I did cause the men I dated after were abusive. At least I got that one good relationship to look back on
Alicia, heads up: Plastic bags have been completely banned here in New Jersey effective May 5th 2022 (from grocery stores/restaurants/convenience stores/any retail whatsoever) so when you come visit Ocean City, make sure you pack trash bags for dirty clothes/shoes/wet towels/etc and bring reusable shopping bags if you’re planning to food shop to stock your kitchen for wherever you’re staying. Maybe give a couple to each kid for souvenirs/prizes they win on the boardwalk. I know plenty of people who have come to visit and are shell shocked when they get to checkout and have nothing to carry their stuff in! Like so she sees this, guys!
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So glad to see Bodhi did so good getting on the bus...yesssss...all the unpacking and dirty laundry..you are a super woman....and a great Mom...you are an inspiration to all....stay healthy and blessed ,the whole family.
I love your theory on parenting teens. I agree with being open and honest with our kids. Kids will absolutely still do what they want and be sneaky about it. I know I did! I feel like we learn from our parents mistakes and what didn’t work for us as kids. You’re doing great!
Why is Neveah always dressed in the shortest of shorts and the very low cut tops?
I love how Dayshawn closed it out! I think it’s so important that they learn your affirmations and it shows they do! I think a child should do it more often! I’m sure you have children watching.
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Way to go Bodhi getting on the bus he's such a rockstar!! Alicia I love the natural hair look that's my go to look all summer 😅. I adore Patrick he's such a sweet and gentle kid. Alex before football had me laughing 🤣😂 he's too funny. Welcome home I hope y'all can relax and re-cooperate before heading to Maryland. I absolutely agree about the relationship thing always be open and honest better than sneaking around and lying about it. You and Josh are simply amazing 😍. Dayshawn had me all in my feelings at the end. He's such an amazing and kind kid. Cheers 🥂
Love watching your videos. You raise such good people! Your kiddos will know how to respect and love others, how to care and help. It's the most important and least appreciated thing this days...
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I appreciate you so much. I feel like you voice what everyone else is thinking...at least from my era. I was born in 1980 where kids wrode thier bikes care free, listened to their parents, and were home when the street lights went out. I 100% believe in your parenting. I love watching your family, and feel a sense of belonging when watching your videos. I love how you never let the negative comments get to you. Thank you for your positive messages always.
I like the little switch up on your outro. Would love to see the others kids do it as well. Awesome job Dayshawn
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i like how even during the summer the kids are busy doing something wether is summer school, camp or sports. i hate when it's summer and i have nothing to do but eat and watch. having something to do even when it's a vacation day helps with habits of worksmanship
We stay pretty busy here lol
Such respectful kids! I am really happy to see the new kiddos opening up. I admire your parenting skills and your patience
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Welcome home Dougherty Family👋👋👋 I’m so happy you all had a great time in NY, it’s an amazing place to visit, now it’s back to reality, summer camp and home fun. I love your vids so much bc I love you and your beautiful family. Can we talk about how handsome DayShawn is, he could be a GQ model, he’s gorgeous, god bless him🥰 TYFS, I live vicariously thru nice folks like you who share your lives and adventures bc I’m disabled now and have no children of my own, I was widowed before I even walked down the aisle w/my soulmate who passed suddenly 2 months 2 days before our 92’ Halloween wedding day, I miss him very much, it’ll be 30 years this August 29th, I never found another love and devoted myself to work and caring for my mom, may she RIP. I appreciate you all and I’m thankful to have found you, ‘your awe inspiring to me. Take good care, see ya next time♥️💫✨👼🏻✨💫♥️
I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you for spending time with us. We’re so glad you’re here.🧡
@@DoughertyDozen Thank you so much, you’re very kind, I appreciate you reaching out and welcoming me, that means so much to me🙏🥰 Take good care, have a blessed night and a wonderful tomorrow♥️💫✨👼🏻✨💫♥️
I wanted to say that your big boys Alex, James & Dayshawn did such a good job helping out with the little ones in NYC. Nevaeh was also great. I love watching your videos.
Dont you think the kids are old enough to empty their own bags- unless you enjoy being in control
My daughter was last day of school was June 4(i think). For the past 2 months we have not did nothing. The end of July until June 2023. My life will be busy, not like yours, but it will busy with band, every club my daughter can think of for school activity. I have one more week and Im going to enjoy it. But, you are still going in the summertime, BLESS YOU AND YOUR HUBBY HEART!!
I’m 24 and I honestly am so jealous I didn’t have a mom vlogging my childhood! This will be so much fun to look back on later in each of their lives. So cool!
How y’all raise your kids with the whole boy/girl friend situations…..I’m the same way. I want my girls to know that they can come to me about ANYTHING. I do allow them to date as well. My girls are 18 and 16. They’re very intelligent. They know what’s allowed, and what’s NOT allowed. They always keep me in their loop. They always keep me posted, and they always tell me everything that they’re going through. I love knowing that my kids can trust me and know that I’ll have their backs no matter what. But they also know that if they go to jail, they get no bail! My girls are really good kids. Couldn’t be prouder!!!! Y’all just keep up the great work!!! I just recently came upon these videos, and have been hooked ever since. LOL You also help me to be a better mom!!!! Thank you!!!!
LOVE THIS. Your philosophy on parenting and communication is great. My parents were the same way. Open and honest communication, little judgment but an understanding that the consequences are going to be much worse if we lie or aren’t upfront than if we’re honest.
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Aww Dayshawn you are such a cutie and it’s so nice to see you feeling more relaxed. Glad you all had an amazing time in NY, hopefully won’t take you too long to get everything put away 🥰
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Omg day after vacation video!! Yay!!! ❤️💛❤️ I absolutely love your parenting style because you are absolutely correct! Totally better to be upfront with your kids and let them know they can tell you anything! 🤍 I also appreciate how real your videos are. I’m so happy my sister introduced me to your channel! 🤗💛
Thank you!
Totally agree with your thoughts on boyfriend/girlfriend situations. Honest, open relationships with kids s key!!
Omg the ending was the best ❤️❤️❤️ love this family so much ❤️❤️ love seeing bodhi and all his milestones.. my daughter is 4 we are still waiting on her autism testing been on a wait list for over a year but I see her when watching bodhi ❤️❤️❤️ love seeing all the new things and tips u share ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. Oh that wait list is so long everywhere 😔
Yes that wait list is not fun but I’ll be happy to at least have done by the time she goes to kindergarten so we have at least one more year 🤞🏻❤️
Alicia, my parents were very open with us all the time and all they ever asked for was honesty. I can tell it worked, we (my brother and I) are grown ups now and we have really close and honest relationship with our parents. I want to follow this with my 3 children ❤️you and your family are amazing
I agree with you, but I'm from the other end of parenting! My grandparents were always strict with me, so i became sneaky because I felt like I couldn't be honest with them! I had a boyfriend and I had all of these real feelings I couldn't share with them and it was awful! It all worked out for me though because we're engaged adults now, but man all them being strict taught me was how to get away with things! I think being open with your kids is AMAZING!
You guys are a incredible family welcoming all children like there your very own. So inspirational
I love the cute intro, neveah is such a mood I love her. I hope she is adjusting well. I remember how hard foster care was, but I was age 6-11, and I imagine it's just 100x more difficult for a teenager :( but I'm so glad she has a biological sibling with her and that the system always tried to do that. I always had atleast one sibling with me :) there were 7 of us. Anyways love your vids! 🧡🧡
We take it a day at a time. She’s doing well considering the circumstances.
My parents were strict and wouldn’t let me have a boyfriend so I learnt to sneak around and lie.So I definitely agree with your parenting style 🧡
Omg so excited but it's 1:39 am here down under. I promise you're the first thing I'll watch in the morning. Love you guys ❤️ thanks to you I now know I am loved, I belong, I am important and I am loved. No one tells me that except you
Love that Dayshawn ended the video, it was so sweet, and his eyes are amazing! Naveah with Harlee in the pool was super adorable. You have a bunch of wonderful kiddos!
i am amazed at you & josh!! & i love that you allow each kid to do things / have activities they enjoy & give them those opportunities & the freedom to date, to express themselves, etc. you guys seriously are doing wonderful things for children in foster care. everyone truly does deserve a forever home & a family & love! this channel warms my heart
THANK YOU! I don't have kids but MAAANNNN the parenting about dating was ON POINT! I wish more parents were like you !
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“They will find a way.” I completely agree!
Omg my favorite parts of this video are seeing Neveah helping Halree in the pool and Dayshawn doing the outtro. You can tell they are getting comfortable and fitting right in. ❤️
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Mine, too!
Alicia is so pretty… and not only on the outside but also the inside…. The way she takes care of those kids , gives her a whole different glow!!
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I have 9 kids and coming home from a trip was just like that!! Now it’s just me and my stuff still sits around for a few days!! ❤️
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I love the relationship you have with Alex. I’m sure people can’t believe he’s adopted.
James is so nice. He helps with everything even when no one asks for it❤️❤️🥰
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I am a recent viewer and am loving your videos. I wish I had the energy you do; you get more done in an hour than I do during a day!
The thing I don't understand is why you and your husband do EVERYTHING. Children need to learn responsibility, and from an early age should have age appropriate chores. They're all of an age that they can help with their clothes, empty a wastebasket, or lug water bottles to the garage! They're all part of a family, and should help do little things. It actually helps build their self esteem and gives them a feeling of being part of an unit.
If you do everything for them, they will struggle when they go off to college, or get out in their own. Their future partners will definitely not enjoy them being helpless!!
I love your parenting style. My parents were VERY strict with us, but were wise in certain areas. When we expressed curiosity about their highballs or beer, they let us taste them by taking a sip. It took the curiosity factor out of it and we never snuck around to experiment. Two out of we three, are still non-drinkers in our sixties!
Update on Bodhi? How is he doing at camp?? 💖 glad to see the Fam doing good! Mama you need a spa day!!!! Massage, relax, jacuzzi, wine, Josh make this happen!!!
He LOVES it!!! I wish I could understand what he was trying to tell me but he was just so excited it wasn’t really coming out clearly. But I could definitely tell that it was all GOOD things!
I don't know how you do what you do, but you are an awesome mom. Thank Gid for a mom like you, others would be crazy by now. God bless you and your family. You make me exhausted just by looking all the work you put into family so each and everyone to be happy 💕.
Please check on James. It’s like the two boys leave him out and he doesn’t seem happy anymore like he used to
Thanks for sharing Alicia.🧡 I tell ya it's been so fun watching you and your GORGEOUS family grow together.🧡 Thank you for allowing me to be a part of that..🧡 I always get so excited when a reminder pops up for a new video 🤗.. Its so cool to see how much Nevaeh and Dayshawn have opened up now,you can see just how happy they are.🧡 In the beginning they seemed shutdown,quite and a little sad (im sure that's personal reasons),but ALL of you have welcomed them both into the family and made them feel comfortable,loved and important which I can see that and it's so amazing Alicia!!🧡 Well anyways until next time.. oh yeah I forgot your hair looked so awesome and I'm so jealous,I wish my hair looked that darn good without a hair straightener or curling iron LOL I love your pretty red hair and how it has this hot orange tint to it I mean it's so beautiful🥰😍💋
Thank you!!
James seems a little bit less energetic these days. I also didn’t see if he got anything for himself from NYC as souvenir or I just missed it. The dogs really love him.
I believe he got 2 video games at the Nintendo store . He may of gotten more stuff but that's all I seen .
Hanes seems so decisive when he shops, so it’s really fast! Even when he was with Alicia at the airport getting ear buds, he picked them out pretty fast.
I though he was seeming a little off too. Like qt the end of your photo shoot he's kinda back just looking at everyone. Looks little sad 😔
James has good days and bad days. He’s shared on many of our livestreams that he has severe PTSD from his early childhood and it drastically effects his mood day by day, minute by minute. It’s why we got him his therapy dog, Miracle, and she’s a big help. And he loves our new puppy too. He missed his dogs all weekend.
Oh and he got 2 games for his switch.
I noticed that too . When he was dropped off for practice Alex and Dayshawn walked off without him , didn’t even wait . While he was sitting on the couch he looked so sad . Haven’t really seen him having a relationship with his other siblings . Hope he doesn’t feel lonely and feels his only “ friends “ are the dogs :(
Do u ever worry about the music in the background with the copyright B.s .. does YT ever try to demonetize ur videos bc of it ?
TIP: The trick is to book a hotel with washer and dryer and to wash a load every night after you are back to the hotel everyday and then you can pack up clean clothes to bring home. place the dirty night clothes into a trash bag the morning you leave and that way the dirty, smelly clothes are not stinking up the clean, washed clothes.
I've gotten addicted to this channel, I found you yesterday. One tip for shopping; get your fruit and cold products last. Lest bruising on the fruit, and the cold items won't be out of the freezer for the duration of your shopping. No dripping strawberries.
10:12 look at Neveah and Harlee once again Neveah gets the best sis award 🥇 2022
I snuck behind my parents back many times growing up. If you don’t let your kid do something they will find a way around.
Oh the ending is so cute.. I think having each time a different kid doing it will be cute 💖💖
O yes your grocery haul bill would be cut in half since your stock pile is usually always stocked . Why do you over shop ?
I honestly really appreciate your receptiveness to your kids dating, really refreshing to see ❤️
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I’m happy people are finally seeing that Neveah and Dayshawn were just young kids trying to get comfortable in a new environment. Now they’re more happy and people are more accepting, just makes me sad for other preteens that are adopted by adults who aren’t as patient as this family with their transition just like some adults weren’t in this comment section. So happy to see them enjoying themselves 💕
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I love the way you and josh parents the children it’s was best for your family and I least you can monitor them and he be open with you’ll keep doing what you doing
I LOVE your RUclips channel; therefore, I am not trying to preach but I was a lifeguard growing up so I strongly suggest making sure Harlee & Bohdi can swim without wings, etc. Harlee is not a swimmer in this video. Someone usually leaves the pool gate open accidentally. The 3 most important things for beginner swimmers are FLOATING ON YOUR BACK without assistance which is head back and arms out to the side. People naturally want to put their chin to their chest but it inhibits floating. People have survived days in the water just knowing how to float on their back. The second most important item is learning to OPEN YOUR EYES UNDERWATER! As a lifeguard, I would throw a roll of new pennies in the pool (of course, the kids can keep the change). The reason this is so important is because people that do not open their eyes underwater often swim further downward than upward. You must be able to see where you are going! #3: BLOW BUBBLES UNERWATER. People intuitively want to breathe/inhale instead of blowing outward. These 3 tips alone SAVE LIVES!
OMG I agree about your parenting Theory. I have three and they have been always honest. Even when they thought they did something wrong or bad they always tell us. Our theory no person is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes and you can always talk to us about it. My son has had the same girlfriend since 12 too. They are going strong as ever. Now he is almost 18. I always believe that your kids should tell you what's going on with them. I never did that with my parents. My friends or my older sister helped with everything. My mom was raised that you don't talk about things. Whether it was female stuff, sex, dating or just anything. I never wanted to be that way with my kids. I totally agree with being open to everything and anything. You guys are amazing.
Thanks for vlogging a lot of your trip. I got some good ideas of things to do the next time we go to NYC. We haven't been in about 10-11 years. I love Junior's and Times Square. We'll definitely go to those places again.
The Food alone is worth going to NYc for lol
Hahaha i saw that big ole smile Dayshawn when he left the car for his gf house.
Well what did the house sitter do?? Just make sure yall didn't get robbed?? 🤣🤣. They don't clean if the dogs have accidents?
If you leave the top of the nest boxes up all the time (I noticed you left it up when you left the enclosure), that might be why they're not laying there--chickens like to feel safe and secure while they're laying, and it probably feels safer under the hen house. Along with covering the boxes, you could try putting fake eggs or even golf balls in the nest boxes to show them where to lay.
such a sweet family. the Dougherty dailies & adventures are my favorite vids. some of the kids looked like they had a little too much sun might need some aloe vera so they don't peel or have a bad sun burn. High five for Bodhi that's a big step for him. Deshawn just doing his thing, being a teen. Alex is really funny & James is my mood in the morning. seems like James might need some attention so he feels valued seems like he takes on a lot of stress or he's not himself right now he's not really showed his interest in becoming a chef, he might want to explore that in one of the videos.
I agree about James,I've noticed here lately he seems sad,idk he could just be going through something as teens do but with he isn't just your every teenager but yeah I'm sure if Alicia wants us to know then she will tell us otherwise its none of my business so yeah I just hope he's ok is all🧡🧡🧡
James is very open about sharing his PTSD struggles maybe he’ll join me on a live soon if he wants to. He’s actually going away this weekend though to spend it with his older biological sister, brother in law and nieces and nephews so that will be good for him.
And yes that sun was HOT at the Mets game we kept putting sunblock on but it didn’t seem to matter. Alex and James got it the worse.
@@DoughertyDozen I have PTSD & depression myself I was diagnosed a couple years ago, I know there could be some triggers or somethings that may remind him of traumas. James is a sweet kid & I want him to explore his creativity in cooking or whether he wants to share with us, he seems to be going through a lot & may need a support team because PTSD is hard & the world can seem so loud at times. I deal with trolls on the internet myself & it hurts & hits a lot harder when you have PTSD. I miss funny James unboxing the mail, he was just as excited with the first muffin pan as he was the 8 other ones he unboxed, his personality will make him a very successful person in his career or job. I'm very sorry James went through some traumatic stuff early in life but I know he'll get through it. it takes time.
3:59 Who's handicap sticker are you using in your van? Its hanging from your mirror and the name and # are on it. Just an FYI
Is James ok? He doesn't seem his happy self .
Why do you not invest in to two washers and dryers just wondering
Love you guys!!
Also loved the NYC vlogs, but glad you are back to at home vlogs!!
Dayshawn and Naveah are really feeling that they are truly part of the family. So very cute😘💖👍👌😎🧡
Thank you! Yes I’ve missed my morning routine vlogging! Can’t wait to be back to routine tomorrow!
Was not expecting Dayshawn for the outro! His personality shines thru! I thought you looked cute with your hair undone! It reminds me of the way that Zoey's hair parts!! Like mother like daughter!
You are correct about kids sneaking around. With the parents involved, there can be chaparonung, age appropriate activities, and honest communication of how to respect one anotber.
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dayshawn is only 12???
I really like your hair the natural way.
hahaha, so nice seeing Dayshawn do the exit message, I've noticed how he likes the camera now, opening up nicely. Love the way you encourage all your children!
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The children are really opening up Love watching them grow and be strong ,and independent. Your doing a amazing job with all those children!!!
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This is so sweet! I’m so happy for you all! New York was very good to you ♥️🥰
P.s. Is James ok? He looked a little sad in this video. I’m sorry I don’t mean to be nosy, I promise, I’m not..and I don’t want or would even expect you to answer me. Just a polite observation.
Please tell him I said Hello! And, I Love to see him with his dog, Dixie! She is a beautiful girl!🐾♥️🥰