Love, Lust, and Loneliness: Inside Japan’s Sexless Epidemic
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- Опубликовано: 13 апр 2024
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Join us as we uncover the complexities of modern relationships in Japan. From declining intimacy to societal pressures, explore the evolving dynamics shaping the country's social fabric.
Meet individuals navigating the challenges of love, independence, and companionship in a rapidly changing world. Gain a glimpse into Japan's unique social landscape and the quest for connection in an ever-evolving society.
This episode has been filmed in 2017
*This documentary is for educational purposes only.*
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Japan’s work culture is toxic and disastrous for the country’s social well-being. Plenty of Japanese people do seem to understand this, but still nothing changes. It’s depressing.
Work culture is one of the factor but the main factor is different, it's got to do with attraction. Its mostly just the brootal reality of being an average looking man especially in asia where most are seen as unattractive due to neotony (non-masculine looks).
Asian Women just simply don't feel anything for their husbands (whom they settle at 30+) in japan...this leads to the husbands "cheating with escorts" or going to "brothels" and the women is okay with it because : 1. She doesn't have to have sex with her husband anymore (its disgusting). 2. The husband won't leave the family .
There are documentaries explaining this from a scientific point of view (with studies) but of course they are shadow banned because it exposes a cruel reality of human nature.
@@MiguelLHCInteresting you thought it was the men. I find Asian men super attractive, but I don't understand Asian beauty standards for women. They look like frail little girls whose limbs can break off at any point.
My point is... I don't think it's a physical attraction problem.
Much more inclined to believe it's a work culture problem.
The Japanese need to recognize that people can't be working such long hours. 8 hours and clock out.
Alcohol as a form to bond with co-workers is REALLY bad. Too many people drinking excessively instead of spending their free time with their spouse and kids.
Key words: FREE time
@@zenwilds2911 what you think doesnt matter, its what evidence says that matters.
Could you share the names of those documentaries?
This is happening on a global scale.
No its only happening in developed nations, mainly western ones with the exception of Japan and Korea.
You are correct, with the exception being Africa. The median age for the African continent is 18.8 years. In fact, Niger has a median age of 14.52 years, Central African Republic 14.82, Chad 15.12 with Ugandan Amgola, Mali and DR Congo all registering from 16.1 to 16.8 years.
I blame women
@@jole11461 African birth rates will also drop but they are starting from a higher point. Worldwide population collapse will literally be Worldwide
@@ChibindaChipawaStudios Agreed, its called Feminism. This is why more and more men are going MGTOW
I'm 34 and I live alone and enjoy watching fishing videos for fun. I actually enjoy being alone and spending my money on myself. I can relate with Nakamura..
Single life is not good for the economy or a country's fertility rate though
@@extremepsyche3135 Haha r u for real, so u live to make the economy stronger do u my good man
Iv lived alone my hole life n would need to find a really good chick if she was going to move in n in talking about 38 years on my own n its the grouse. wat country u live in Bro, Australia me?
@@extremepsyche3135So in other words, he needs to be a good slave for the economy and do what's best for it rather than what brings him peace? Got it.
@@davechristian7543 I hear ya mate! Melbourne here
worked to death and no sex. what a dystopian nightmare. In that environment I would not work, be homeless and do nothing.
Feminism 2.0 Perfect Cell Dragon Ball X
Many Japanese do exactly that. They are called the Hikikomori:
ruclips.net/video/J-cz9O2bon4/видео.html
That's hikikomori where people lock themselves in their room for years
What is the use of the money if I'm not getting any action?.
@@alphabogeyman7462 You can get action! Look unless you've been living under a rock or a cave you should be aware that modern women are not relationship worthy ,only sex worthy! Meaning you cannot create bonds with todays modern women! You can try to create bonds, but you'll fail miserably I can assure you of that! Hence why men today have resorted to prostitution, escorts, dolls, porn, video games etc.....Less of a fuss for a simple act that men need!
Financially people can't afford families anymore
Yep 100%
I wouldn't be a mother for 10 Million $ a month
No one can afford anything anymore pal
I love my kids so much that I haven't had any. America would only enslave them and make them homeless.
Objects like you are another reason why men are staying single. Not only is it extremely expensive to have family, but most women are unworthy coom Garden tools who don't want families in the first place. Its a lose lose situation.@@CordeliaWagner1999
It's sad that married men's relationship with their wives deteriorated to the point that they need to use dolls for sex.
Well it's better then trumptards they use goat's 🐐 lmfao
The only sad part is that the men volunteered to sign up for that deal without reading the fine print.
Nah the woman is solely responsible for everything going on in Japan. The USA is close. I remember a lady in Japan saying her husband should find a hooker cause sex is a chore for her. She said it in her own way. A few of them said that in that street interview. They suck.
@@hiphopsecopsin general? Y’all need to know who ur going to marry first before actually getting with them. Then it wouldn’t be a “general” thing
lol they were already using dollars for sex, that’s how they became husbands 🤦🏿♂️😂😂
All the money in the world for weapons but little money to support families.
worst part is that people look past that, see the modern architecture/lifestyle, and think that Japan is a good example of a healthy society
@@user-dc9oq2pr6v Anybody that knows the smallest thing about Japan knows how backwards their society is
you talking about US or Japan?
Japan makes very few weapons and their military is a self defense force. Most of the workforce is in service based work
Japan relies mostly on the US for military action aside from a small self defense force. Do a little research before you get philosophical.
@@xXOOXx-bi9cqяпонцам нельзя иметь армию,иначе они вспомнят свои имперские замашки .а добрым американцам вновь прилется их бомбить)
ive been cheated on so much, it has actually destroyed my desire to seek out sex from others.. its understandable
My guy Totoro being an ENGINEER making more money in dolls than his actual career is wild😭
6 days a week of school into 6-7 days a week work with no days off leads to this
Or you could use US smoke blues usual 2.5 GPA lol and end up with would you like to upsize that order or would you like cheese
I have worked months without a day off. Holidays it didn't matter. Got in trouble if I got sick. And this is common for many of us in America. Working from day to night just to be able to afford a home. In high school you had a 5 day school week sure. But many of us had jobs as well.
@@michaelweston1042 Yeah, now factor in the strict social and work culture combined with an even more crap economy and you got Japan.
@@randymoran67what the fuck did you even say
how about no. compared to old time we have all the time in the world even with full work weeks. restructuring of values lead to it.
Lets be honest guys , this is a world wide problem. No one is having relationships due to fear of infidelity , economic decline , and people have a ego problem.
For me it's because I'm just not wanted by women. Girls just don't like me and I always get rejected
infidelity is a big one fr, women have too many options online and on dating apps, ditching someone easily like they are not even human or cheating on them is so easy for them because they can explore the other 300 options they have. This is a reactionary movement
it's worse in Asia. Your childhood is like wake up and come home at 11pm. Then have nights where you study until 1am. Then you get to the work force and your bosss expects you to pretty much live there working.
Yup
@@skoopdiddywoop8565as a guy I gotta say blaming it on women having too many options online is so lame. This notion that women didn’t have options before dating apps is laughable too. If a woman has a job or is sociable and go’s out other guys are gonna come across her and that’s what you have to deal with.
But yeah Cheating is wrong but no man or woman is wrong for breaking up with someone no matter what reason, no one is entitled to someone staying in a relationship with them.
It’s funny how older people in America accuse younger people of being selfish for not wanting kids. Yet the same thing is happening in Japan, so there is something else going on. Maybe relationships are too difficult to balance with work. More money and time to raise children would be helpful. If the powers that be want us to reproduce, maybe they should cut us some slack.
For me having a steady relationship is having another task to juggle; y'all try juggling water
They don't want you to reproduce which is why they push LGBTQ things and feminism. You are the carbon they want to reduce and in the next few years AI and robotics will replace you. Welcome to the future you wont be included in it just like 80% of mankind.
They don't want us to reproduce. They want to bring foreigners in to work.
Actually a lot of older people are complaining to the government for putting their kids in this situation with increase in prices and cost of living. Saw a few tik toks and news reports of this.
Well obviously they don't want us to reproduce or we would be.
In Australia with the divorce rate & how the males lose everything (custody of kids & house)......i can understand this happening here
the state is pushing for loneliness all over the world, this will soon be the case, since even those people who wanted a relationship fall into the trap of the laws + it too often interferes with private life, for which there will be retribution.
Same thing happening in india, internationally feminist immposed the baised laws, with women victim card
I been alone since brith (28) and am going to stay single. Been rejected twice and learn am not attractive even after working out and everything. Giving up and not caring is the best thing I ever did.
Having given up and not caring has made it a lot easier for me to talk to any woman I meet.
@@mzsov same but since California or my town where there 0 it's hard finding a attractive person here.
Your problem is that you are going for women above your rating and not your look match.
@@datekaname2246 I mean sure but I decided to work out this year for next year when I travel abroad to east Asia
@@unisangalaxystudio keep enjoying with other things bro there more interesting things than women
Basically it all comes down to because everything is so darn expensive these days.
Exactly
And women only wanting chad
So , what is the use of developed country??
@@subhajitsaha5668 what is the benefit of a developed country you mean? There are actually a lot, for example: safety, quality of life, level of technologies, etc.
@@mandasantoso man, if their will be no population left and country like China is your neighbor..How could you manage to be a safe country?? You call it quality of life where people dies alone?
After being with multiple women and such I have gotten to the point in where I don’t want to get married or have kids and I just want peace and no drama or whatever problems relationships brings from these chicks
After being with a few Japanese women it was less drama compared to the girls in the US. I was able to be myself and the Japanese women I dated catered to me. When I go back to work in Japan I am just going to relax and I might get s gf, but it is not going to be priority. My work week isn't going to as tiring because it is a company outside of Japan that follows the US work week.
Im getting to that point
Maybe you are the drama?
If you have drama and conflict in every relationship, really sounds like you're the problem! Please get your fucking shit together before you ruind another womans life. Take some damn responsibility.
@@dancingnachos3634no it’s women, it’s always women.
15:38 can’t help but be unsettled at how this doll and a lot of other ones look like a young girl and is wearing a school uniform
как вам отношения с мертвой школьницей!)))? наверно это ужасно на самом деле)
Would be illegal in the US. “Land of the free” BS.
Yeah this is scary asf I think someone in power is trying to run a pedophile based sex ring THEY NEED TO BE FCKING STOPPED
Even though I didn't live in Japan, I understand how being alone can have benefits for one's well-being.
I can’t think of a single good reason to be alone on purpose. Humans are social animals and choosing to be alone indicates some kind of trauma.
@@ROVA00 Socialization is simply not always a positive experience for everyone. What society considers "normal" tends to be things that have to be enforced by social pressure, such as shaming or ostracization, of which your comment is a good example. If people weren't stigmatized for wanting to be alone, it would probably be a lot more common worldwide, as we're seeing in Japan.
@@maelstrom2313 I’m not a sociologist but somehow I don’t think “wanting to be alone” is a natural healthy state for human beings. Human being are naturally social animals, like dogs and chimps.
I could be wrong, but my hypothesis is that humans that want to be alone or have fear of socialization are more of a disorder caused by our social fabrications rather than a natural state. That’s why we see it happening a lot more in Japan where they have adopted extreme work philosophy where socialization is forcefully suppressed. It’s no surprise people there develop such emotional and social disorders. In other words, the extreme social anxiety is a result of the artificial social pressures and rejections, rather than natural and healthy human behaviors.
@@ROVA00 And there is the other side, the ppl who don't want to be alone, but they have to because they can't fit into the "normal". So they suffer from being an outcast and silently forced to be alone. And yes, there are ppl who are totally fine all alone and minimal social interactions are enough for them.
I misread it as "sexiness epidemic" for a second.
lulz
I can see why you made that mistake - every time I see footage from Japan all the women are gorgeous. I'd imigrate if I could.
Libertarian dream!
One could wish
38 Years old and I am alone. Marriage feels like unnecessary liability (eventually results with having children) financially.
Maybe Japan having more problems than other countries but it will be same everywhere.
Give it 3-7 years and population decline will show up in graphs because of upkeep cost of family & children(s).
Lack of companionship and sex and loneliness are killers.
God created us in pairs.
On the bright side no STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
The chance of not getting STDs is the chance of getting a huge pet in pet simulator x
For a single 19 year old, his English language skills are AMAZING
That’s because he rots in his room all day watching western movies and youtube videos.
20 sq meters for an apartment is scary.
Nothing that galvanized square steel and eco friendly wood veneer couldn't fix.
They’re having sex. Prostitution is legal. They’re just not having sex with a regular partner. Also something like 80% of married Japanese people cheat but they don’t consider it cheating if there’s no love confession.
YES WE DO!!
So many are going through divorce now due to cheating
Thing is that the "cheating" has to be consensual with the partner. If one of both does it behind the other's back, it still counts and will bring chaos to the household.
Uguisudani Tokyo..🤐👍
@@butamoe-my7qtdo you live in Japan no
If they don't considering cheating if there's no love confession. It probably shouldn't be surprising since even so much as an "I love you" is not said very often if ever.
meanwhile some Japanese men have sex with about 5000 women in Japan...
not to mention the huge prostitution and brothels can found all over Japan
don't have to believe everything they say about themselves...
just the Japanese don't think of prostitution as sex
Japan don't have love or heart. Only sex and go.
Yup. I've heard that having sex with a prostitute is not considered cheating in Japan. It's like having a massage or any other physical service.
Those men and women aren't having children or stay together to have families so it doesn't count.
@@xanperia I don't understand why they lie that they can't have sex
@@f3reg169 Do they? Maybe they can, but don't want to.
"Sex doll rental" oh no
Show me the money doll pimp
all of those dolls combined have been run through less than a single western modern "woman"
@@MrGnuh What the fuck is wrong with you replying to a month-old comment with your deranged shit.
@@MrGnuh lol, probably right.
@@MrGnuh is it really that bad in the West?
I am a 70 year old American. I respect Japan and the great people there. I have a VERY difficult time getting my head around this video.
Why? The sex doll industry is way bigger in the west than it is in Japan, most things are imported from China like mentioned in the video but only Europe and the US have actual stores with local warehouses
Why? Japan is a flawed and imperfect country and culture just like the rest of us. Late stage capitalism and worldwide societal decay has created a widespread epidemic of loneliness, no motivation, and mental illness in the young generation and this is one of the downsides
Sir these are the times believe it! Lol
It’s not much worse than the US, especially when it comes to the younger population
Um…some of the dolls look like children.
No suprise its Japan.
just look at the anime what they produce..filled with characters who look like little girls..disgusting as hell
May be because alot of Asian women do look like a child?
Even the body. Isn't it obvious? @@chairpants
My 30 year old Chinese gf litterly looks like this. She's 4 foot 7 also
@@JunxCKmbro found a loophole
My Japanese GF is no longer sexless. We did it bois
Is she a goat 🐐
Be real, though - she's an avatar.
She isn't real, wake up homie
Nobody cares about the fake story
In Germany we use to say: there fell a bag of rice
I’m 30 & I don’t have any children..this is a problem everywhere 💔🙃 Children are expensive
You meant to say " Child Support "..
All work and no play made Jack a dull boy.
"How do you like it?"
ruclips.net/video/CyC1GPSgTh4/видео.html
Imagine being such a cuck that watching fishing videos is your entertainment. I mean fishing is what you do when you can't do anything else and have a boring life. At least when you watch videos it should be something exciting. That's why people watch WWE and action movies and whatever the latest crazy viral video is on youtube. Here he is watching fishing!
Very casual, easy going narration and lounge music used to report the demise of a society.
If youre gonna have a sex doll at least make it look like an adult. That kid shit is sick
I'm not attracted to those dolls either. But I rather have those who are attracted to them go after the dolls than real kids.
@@hmgrraarrpffrzz9763 I agree 😢
What's the problem if they look like children? They are objects, not real children...no one will get hurt...
@@rodrigobonzanini8235 u sound like a real pedo
I am peso, we should respect different sexual orientation at the premise of not hurting anyone, isn’t it?😢
No, the very first footage is Korea, not Japan.
no wonder it was so dirty and ugly
@@wojiaobill Just like your entire fucking family.
@@wojiaobilllike you..
all east Asian countries have a low birth rate, China and Japan maintain a 1.3, Korea and Taiwan Hongkong keep below 1, the aging population spend huge amount of social money and leave youngers high tax, low salary and high social pressure, youngers are working overtime and still can not afford a house, that is why people are losing interest at marriage and having baby.
As an asian I can agree to this. This is very true.
This kinda makes no sense. Yes, having a low salary will be a major drawback if your dream is to buy a house. However, if you were married (with no kids), your combined income with your spouse should eventually make it possible to afford a house some day.
I think that politic only apply in Europe, and It's a bad polític that the banks taken an eye on and are taking a huge profit from it.
Most housing systems in 1st world countries are just signing a contract of slavery with the banks and the governments also take quite a bite at you, specially in socialist countries.
@@rsuriyop You forget to factor in private tutors for the children among with the extra expenses for sports and hobby's.
All that comes to mind since those are mandetory in Asian countries for childeren to compete and be succesfull in those countries.
Blud go to India Bangladesh Asia is not only Japan and china
That young lad, Kisaburo Nakamura, thank you for showing us your life and for clearly taking the time to learn English as a second language. I can't say for sure you did so for this video, but I commend you for giving a great interview for us in the English world.
Problem is, long work hours and work being more valuable in Japan. Everything is expensive and apartments too small. When I lived in Japan, I lived in a 12m² apartment.
The host clubs sound very fun, but mostly only japanese women are allowed in there and second, it easily happens that women spend too much money there. They fall in love, but the love is never, or in very rare cases, are on both sides. Some men there make a lot of money with that.
Currently, in all western and developed countries, actually in all first world countries, we have this problem currently. Everything expensive, work and relationships just don't work out anymore. It got way much harder nowadays than it was in the past. And what I have noticed, the trust in humanity, has reached a low point. So if you can't trust, how can you find a person? And with the current AI, more and more people fall in love with bots and turn to them. And they evolve daily. I am more into that field and also working there. So one week ago I thought, "Wouldn't it be nice if bot can do this?" and now they can already. Bots and AI evolve now at an extreme speed. It is super nice, but the consequence of it is, no real human relationships.
And because some here were shocked about sex dolls. To get to sex dolls, via online, is for the first world very easy. But can be expensive. But when I look online, so many men already have sex dolls at home. And, I can't say it enough, but only putting the market on sex dolls for men, is not enough. Women also feel lonely and want sex. Not only men, and not only men feel lonely these days.
There is a male sex dolls for woman too. Moreover sex toys are more common in woman society than in man. It stigmatized in male society, so males are likely will hide this hobby. (may be not in JP and China, as those countries more patriarchatic)
Consequences is aging humanity (except India and Africa) which make more economic pressure. Also video forgot one common issue - novadys woman do not want to struggle to give birth (and i think humanity will sooner or later implement birthes outside woman body)
There are lots of paid boyfriend escorts in japan. From what I saw. It's very weird world. Work life balance is being ignored on a world wide platform.
Japan is a lot cheaper than any Western country.
I think sex dolls are more common for men because if you're just looking for sex, the average woman has it easier to find a one-time-partner. There are also 3-6% more boys born than girls. Even in countries where it says that there are more women, those are mostly elderly women. In younger generations, there are always more men, they just die earlier.
@@callmepaddy What is an average woman? I am a woman and never in my life it was easy for me to get a sex partner.
Just remember folks only take these videos with a grain of salt.
What you mean 'grain of salt'?
When I was at genz age I have been through so many relationship but unfortunately nothing worked out. I am 34 and don't want to get into any kind of relationship.. I hope I will get married to someone who will respect me and is loyal to me forever ❤❤.. No relationship only for marriage ❤❤
I'm chinese and I travel to Japan every month for work and I can say that while they are super respectful they are also super self controlled to the point that they show no feelings. I don't hang out with japanese people not because don't like them it's just because I like to go out have a beer, and just openly talk to my friends about any topic which it's super hard for japanese people to do so. And every time me and my foreigners co-workers go have lunch we always have fun and chill but you can see a lot of japanese people eating by themself... I hope they can change and be less defensive with their lifes
Sorry but you sound like a Chinese from Singapore not from mainland China. No offense!
Why should they change when lack of socialization doesn’t have any significant negative impact on their lives? Especially considering the fact that the life expectancy in Japan is longer than in your own country of China? You talk about hanging out with foreigner friends and having beer, the next thing you do after that is promiscuity. I think the Japanese lifestyle is much better, like there is nothing wrong in eating alone in a restaurant.
@@mikehair5651whats the point of living a ling if you are living it this way! Just enjoy life and be happy dont need to make weird social cues for the sake of making them!
@@zuhasajid900 enjoy life and die early? I would rather live like the Japanese and have a long life than “enjoy” and live a short life. And you asked what the point is? Well it is about a long life expectancy. Or doesn’t it matter to you at all?
being alone is way better than having to deal with your girlfriend's drama
but the sex is worth it
Very good documentary
agreed
Japan: I like my air conditioner like I like my women, cold, quiet and remote operable.
That’s their karma
Impressed. Yuki has no accent
lol she has an accent and grammar problems. she can communicate fairly well, but her English is far, far from perfect
@@wojiaobillSpeaks better than many English speakers to be honest. 😂
@@wojiaobilllook she has amazing business English
She definitely has an accent
I was amazed by this too! She sounds very American unless you're paying attention then you'll notice issues with her grammar and she drops out of the accent for a beat frequently.
But honestly, it's very cool! I haven't heard someone talk like her. I wonder she had a language coach?
Dolls are better than marriage
The smooth jazz throughout this video successfully got me in the mood. Has Japan tried Jazz?
Being in a relationship becomes a nightmare after a while. All you have is self-centered and materialistic society that inlfuences it's members to put themselves, and not the relationship, in the first place.
You are continuously fed prompts of fabulous vacations and unsustainable living standards (sex included) as if those are the norm and not the exception.
This makes a relationships last until the as good as it gets phase. Then the nightmare phase begins.
"We've been together for two years and my bf hasn't taken me once on a yatch vacation" isn't an absurd phrase nowadays
Y’know, just a thought…
Have the Japanese people ever heard of a “work-life-balance.”
Having proper time away from work to make love and leisure and form relationships isn’t lazy as long as you balance it with your productivity.
Japanese people desperately need to learn this balance.
For a culture that understands the nature of yin and yang, they certainly don’t practice it with work and life.
Balance, people. Balance is key.
The two things that must struck me are:
A) Japanese couples are encouraged to abstain from sex. I've never heard anyone say that so I'm curious if it's even close to true.
B) Using sex dolls for Alzheimer's patients. That's just insane, especially as the son of a parent with the disease.
Japans view of sex is extremely casual. Sex is just another basic bodily function.
Largely true
Well that's fact.. I don't blame em
What’s you get real deep into the culture you’ll understand
Wild times we are living
It seems affluence, materialism, high educational levels, and massive electronic connectivity, destroy the human urge to maintain some kind of legacy, and ones bloodline. I think the artist and filmmaker Mishima warned about this when the spirit of a nation dies, and no longer becomes sustainable.
What's the point of legacy dude? or even keeping your bloodline. At the end of the day you die, you'll be forgotten within 2 generations of your decedents. You live a low quality of life to provide for future generation, but unfortunately, they'll also be slaves to some other guy. Isn't it much better to you and your bloodline to simply live the best life you can afford and free your bloodline for this curse of servitude?
"Legacy" hahaha. Of what? Mr. Smith or Tanaka? The great legacy of the #1895293841238 monkey that nutted in another.
@@Aloafy There's no honor in selfishness.
There's no good in living for your own selfishness or someone else's. Yet all of us are here today because our ancestors were not looking at life the way we do now. Religion or some kind of similar philosophy is the only thing that might change our ways. What we are doing now just doesn't work.
@@delftfietser Meh dude if you wanna slave off for someone else then do, I live how i want, u live how you want, I'm not a fool to sacrifice my own comfort for others
Great video noticed the dolls are light skin and all have non Japanese eyes. Does anybody notice alot of Japanese men are very feminine. Its like you can hardly tell the difference between a man and a woman. I
No body hair + soft unmuscular physique = Androgyny
Some people are blaming it on Soy
Jpop culture and plastic surgery industry behind it support that beauty standard.
They eat too much vegan they need a good steak or two if they can afford it
LUSTING on the internet causes depression
I'm living in Japan since 2019 and I've experienced some of the cultural and day by day life!
I believe this generation's lack of interest in having relationships with the opposite sex is closely linked to the financial and economics struglings conditions experienced in Japanese society! For example, salaries have not seen a real increasing since the last 3 decades, and in recent years, contrary to what is reported in the media that the country suffers from deflation, in practice and in the population daily lives exactly the other way happens, since in the face of american dollar, the Japanese yen is increasingly devalued every day and inflation in the prices of fuel, energy and food products is increasing at a dizzying pace! Not to mention that the prices for services, rent and admission to universities are appalling and discourage young people from engaging in relationships when they do not have the means to support themselves!
Japan is broke, with the highest public debt ever seen and is at the top of the list of debtor countries, and this undoubtedly has repercussions on the habits of society and the population!
But they sell cars to the whole world,how are they broke 😂
It would be great for Japan and the world as a whole if they started focusing on sexual tourism like Thailand. There is a huge scope for sex tourism in Japan, if they ever opened up to the idea then everyone and their mother would be lining up for a trip to Japan and spending their money out there. It will boost their economy and help their young generation as well.
@@bonfacewachira3297 only brand, most parts are assembled somewhere else and there is a small cut for the government. For instance, Suzuki Motorcycles comes from Thailand.
The sex dolls are so disturbing, they have the body of a teenager and the head of a child. Ew!
AI Robots will take over the working class.
When? 😂
Sex without desire feels awful. No love shared, there’s no desire. Women, in general, have only 25-50% of the libido men do. Many of us can live without it just fine. If we marry, it’s expected at male libido demands and with enthusiastic performance. But like I said, without love shown there’s little, if any desire, and it feels awful. Women have had to endure it for millennia. Thankfully, women in western countries don’t have to anymore unless they find love, have a matching libido to their partner, and want to. It’s such a gift to have such freedom.
....if you are a women you only speak for yourself!.....but def NOT for the majority of all females! Most women CAN feel lust outside a love relation too
In other words, an average woman has always disliked an average man.
And now, she no longer needs to hide this fact.
@@user-sy2jy1si8f no, it’s not that they dislike men. It’s that women need to be shown love in romantic ways to be able to have more sexual desire. Men just always automatically have sexual desire. It’s there because of their strong libido. Women have less libido in most cases-it isn’t automatically there except 1/4 to 1/2 the amount of time men have it, and even then, it’s weaker in strength because we don’t have testosterone. But God made us so that romantic words and actions outside the bedroom help us have more desire sexually. Men typically don’t like saying and doing romantic things after the honeymoon phase ends. Women interpret that as not loving us because we feel loved by those things, not by sex. You feel love through sex. So both genders must do things that don’t come naturally to them to have their needs filled and for their relationship to be rewarding and growing for both partners. But both genders get mad at having to do things they don’t want, or even like, to do. So the relationship goes downhill. Men think women are withholding sex as a weapon or punishment, and they feel rejected and unloved….used only for a paycheck. That’s pretty bleak, as well as being a completely distorted reality. Women think they aren’t loved when they are no longer receiving the romantic words and gestures once freely showered on them. Without feeling loved, their lower libido drops even further so they have little-to-no sexual desire for their partner and feel he only uses them for sexual gratification, being a maid, and raising his kids. That’s pretty bleak, as well as being a completely distorted reality. And to make matters worse, few couples can communicate their bleak perceptions without conflict and turmoil erupting so harshly they end up not understanding each other at all, and end up going different directions to sulk and seethe, and thus further perpetuate their completely distorted realities. Blame, bitterness, and resentment take hold and do not let go unless both people get true guidance and help, and are willing to change this pattern of blind and deaf communication within themselves about their partner. If they don’t, live will definitely die and the relationship will end in loathing and hatred, grief and despair, and finding a new partner to rinse and repeat the same old cycle because they wouldn’t learn how to stop their cognitive distortions.
And their kids will grow up and do relationships in the exact same way they learned at home.
Mental problem detected 😂
@@user-sy2jy1si8f ....and do average men like average women? ...... or do they just shut up and take 'the best 'they can get?
Feel like tbh it’s not just Japan that’s going through this, feel it’s a world thing tbh
*Australians are doing fine but they need to get rid of those big ass insects....*
40% never having sex is just incredible, and I’m sure most of them are men. The hypergamy of women have never been so prevalent in history. Most of the women end up sleeping with the same men. Roughly a 15% of male population have access to 90% of female population. A man in that 15%, dates and have sex with multiple women throughout his life. And he rejects or not even considers only the 10% of the women in the dating market. But women are all looking for the same guys. They sometimes still date outside of that 15%, but rarely and shortly. That’s why you hear some guys getting a sexual experience once in a blue moon and others hooking up with multiple women in a single week. Believe it or not, not even in the Medieval Ages, hypergamy of women were this much rampant. Not even in the Islamic conquest era. Not even in the Stone Age! Just a 75 years ago though, the hypergamy was in its lowest point. More than 95% of men were married back then, and most of the remaining 5% had sexual or romantic relationships. It was the norm. 50s were also the peak era of monogamy. But today, not just the hypergamy of women is in historical rise, but the polygamy as well. Back in my childhood, rich men with multiple partners were shunned. Nowadays they’re encouraged to have multiple “sugar babies”, it’s considered a validation of success. Of course not every rich guy has a harem, but it’s started to be normalized. And that’s basically the origin story of the historical polygamy we all know about. There’re also open marriages, which are also a direct product of the hypergamy. Sometimes hypergamy forces women to marry a man they really don’t find attractive, mainly for monetary reasons, and they find the solution in open relationships, if they can somehow convince their partners of course. Although monetary gain is one of the main aspects of the hypergamy, it of course is not what it is all about. The bad boy archetype is a sexual object for most women, as well as a healthy and good looking man. Intelligence, the status, and manners in overall are also quite important for hypergamy. Finding all of these attributes at the same time is almost impossible. That’s why we end up with only 15% of male population. In which not all of them are meeting all the criteria already, but at least if you’re a bad boy, you still end up in this 15% anyhow. This phenomenon leaves us with a huge male population that is lone and sexless. They always end up being rejected for various reasons. Which we never experienced in our history as a spicy. How did we end up here? I really don’t know. I’m also not sure what it will lead to.
One reason; zero pressure/allowed to “find themselves”. Experiment in scholastics, domiciles, safe areas to visit.
Unlike generations prior that were pressured by family, society, not accepted being alone without a label..
I live alone in London and yet maintain a great relationship and I had 5 kids who always need me and I love every second of it. I don’t need much to be happy. I just don’t get this.
At some point one has to say to one self I will not comply, I mean I will be the best worker above all the others so when I am done I will leave and do what I want, ie, have a social life. Don't like it, fire me, I know my skills and what I have to offer is not easy to replace, so let us reason together or too bad, so sad, I will go, that is why I am my own boss .Got it, good! I guess that is why I am not Japanese, however I respect Japan and their people.
Japan's present is the world's future
15:45 "please save me, i've done things that can no longer get me into being a proper mannequin at a fashion store." *internally crying*
But we are constantly being bombarded by Japan's stellar education, values, cleanliness, respect, etc...
Compared with the disaster that is the west is something to admire. Maybe we could learn to be more respectful and clean like them, although I doubt it.
"respect" lol... japanese are the MOST disrespectful people on Earth, their notorious "politeness" is just a protective mechanism against anything human, a disguise to hide their robotic nature, narrow-mindedness, lack of genuine curiosity, and xenophobic inferiority complex towards those able to LIVE THE LIFE without sacrificing 100% of it to the never-ending repair of the flimsy "MADE OF JAPAN" facade
And what's wrong with that?
Don't forget the stellar suicide rates
@@BorisEysbroek yes, that was my point, thank you
Ive always thought this had something to do with how androgynous japanese men have become
Thats what white men want you to believe
Japanese men seem very feminine
yeah anime twists people, characters are always pretty, girls big titted and men almos indistinguisable from the girls (long hair etc). Men is girly, girls are overly sexualised.
this creates weird preferences in both men and women.
It has never been about how people look, really, its what people EXPECT them to look like that is the problem.
And ofc, men working desk jobbs reduces the muscle build that generations before had due to manual labour further reducing attractiveness.
I remember a japanese comicbook writer complaining when her readers called her male character ugly for being manly and slightly rude. She said she liked that sort of man. I forgot the name of the comic, but it's about a really cute, tiny and well mannered girl falling in love with a big burly man. Some people thought it was a parody of love stories, but it was actually a proper romance.
@@Lampoluke hmm.. i wonder if those people complaining were male readers who felt it wasn't a realistic portrayal or something the average comic book fan couldn't relate to? I don't imagine that many of her fans were female, due to the typical demographic of comic book fans being mostly male
For the sake of it's own mental wellbeing and a complete population decline, Japan should announce a mandatory one month holiday, and during that month provide free mental counselling, discounts on outdoor activities, legalize weed, drop tourism and immigration control. Let it be a healthy party! This trend will reverse within a month... But given Japan's toxic work culture, yeah nothing's gonna permanently change. I wouldn't want to live in Japan even if I earned one million dollars a year. It's a dystopian nightmare, devoid of all basic human needs. NOTHING, no amount of technology or beautiful landscapes can save you when you're THAT detached from humanity, THAT isolated, and THAT deep into clinical depression. Japan is a prime example of how turbo capitalism and excessive material comfort, do not in fact make humans happy. I've been to the biggest "slums" in the world, but damn the sunshine, the palm trees, the amazing people, a beer on a beach during sunset is more than I could ever ask for. Now I'm earning good money, while that gives me great mental stability, sometimes I ask myself if it was ever worth it, when your only prospect in life is perpetual loneliness, constant darkness (literally in winter) and just overworking yourself to death each day... like why? So you can have a crappy apartment at age 60?? So you have some stupid paper called CV that does not matter once you're gone? And then you look back... damn wish I just watched the sunset with that special someone on that special day instead of trying to get in 16 hours of work that day... Humans ain't built for this. Like literally, biologically, psychologically. You need inner fulfilment. Never forget that!
Damn I hope Japan figures it out because the culture is so cool I don’t want them to die out
is it just me or do all the doll faces look like children?
Why was the reporter doing that to the dolls toes though? 😂 #OnTheRoadTo100K. #Robloak.
Japan is a clear example of were we are heading. People finding artificial substitutes because they cannot achieve the real thing with their effort. Jobs, partners, creativity.. everything is going artificial, fake, a product for each need. Also thank capitalism for that.
#OnTheRoadTo100K #Robloak.
Sex dolls don’t talk back, and take half of everything you have. 🤷♂️
They need more Latinos in Japan, the men will love the women and the women will love the men.
I can’t imagine my self without love. I am working 6 days a week 10h a day, workout 4 times a week and I have plenty of time for my girl. It’s the most wonderful thing hug someone you are in love with. Why on earth I would try to become better ,try to make more money ,try to improve my self if I would be alone? It seems pointless for me just live to work, without someone waiting you on house….
Not everyone wants to have children or a relationship for that matter, but there's still a lot of people who want those very things.
Great story of life
Smart people. Respect.
choosing playful and peaceful life rather than responsibility
It's like that over here in America for most people. Being alone and sexless for the past 3 years has just left me numb to having any interest in being in a relationship or wanting to be sexually active.
Single is much better... Having in a relationship or kids is not necessary... Every people has choices in life...
LOL
Good way to lost your country history and way of life
Sure and those people should be marginalised or the system that leads to such choices destroyed.
They're winning when people like you give up,modern politics hate families
@@DonaldWheelis-xb1lu u should focus on ur country then slave
I'm 34, live alone and never had a partner. I never thought of it as a problem, I enjoy it like this.
I can see the economic problems if everyone would think about it like this, though.
Still I don't like the undertone on this topic in many documentaries, not everybody has to strive for marriage and children or even boy/girlfriends.
I'm guessing you are introverted like me. It's the extroverts who suffer.
@@ThouSwell-zx3fd maybe
take some accountability... say you are selfish and never learned to share or help someone. That's many people, no shame.
You can always strive for....hmm
@@atilla4352 cry river... it is what it is
From the, "study hard and keep studying." To, "work all day to barely support yourself." To, "here's everything going up!"
They wonder why their kids either don't talk to them or give them grandsons and or granddaughters.
Its alot of problems that need to be addressed and because the older to elderly people love being stubborn. They need to be handled first and have their eyes open to the current times.
I'd rather not be alone, but I'd rather be alone than wish I was.
my hot take: romance is dead in Japan and somehow the work culture is a major contributor.
No time for romance, life = work
I mean, Japan is one of only two Stage 5 countries through the Demographic Transition Model. This is exactly what experts knew was coming. For anyone who is curious, look up the 5 stages of the DTM. Germany is the only other Stage 5 country aside from Japan.
This is only one of many models and systems experts use to track the progress of nations and determine where to go next. It's not the most favorable position, given the wonky population growth and aging, especially when it comes to the difficulty in supporting that aging population, but it's not impossible. Japan has already implemented different things to help. I'm interested in seeing where they go with this. I would totally move there with my tiny family, but I don't think I'll have a proper income to do so.
The fringe outcomes of such population changes will always be interesting to me, though. Such as how reproductive-related behaviors are affected, like in this video, as well as other societal changes.
I truly believe Japan needs to overhaul its entire culture. Its work culture is toxic. It's culture on people's self-expression is toxic, etc. They have too many problems all contributed to by the current model of how their culture currently exists, and they need to review those aspects in order to have a different future.
Companies: No, we will not raise wages or benefits!
Also companies: WHAT DO YOU MEAN ALL THE EMPLOYEES HAVE RETIRED AND THERE IS NOBODY TO TAKE THEIR PLACE!?!?!?!
Even the WEF must realize that their plans require a stable population, right?
"One of his favorite pastimes is making vegetable smoothies..." This is why you never, ever, agree to appear on TV.
Why those dolls look like children tho 🤨
It's better that there aren't kids around if they feel that way about them
no wonder some of them migrate..I heard one of their favorite second home in Malaysia.
wait until they find out how bad is Msia is.
Iife is so simple and we are making it complicated looking for perfection and convenience.
Japan has the HOTTEST babes in the world. There is NO REASON for the guys there to ignore them.
came from youtube recommend after watching How Japan Came to Have a Standing Women Problem by Asianalysis
honestly, youtube never fails to be an immersive library
Maybe this is one of the reasons why we have not found intelligence outside earth: it seems intelligence is a risk factor for species survival, not only because of self destruction but also for this, personal wellbeing over species survival. There will always be a cohort of humanity more connected with their animality, willing to procreate. Those shall inherit the earth, it seems.
Maybe this is why there are no other civilizations in the universe. When a civilization reaches a certain point of technological advancement and comfort, it goes extinct.
I don't care anymore if I have a partner or not. . I just care about bettering myself.
They make some high quality Dolls there in Japan. Those were the bargain bin version compared to what i have seen. Still they don't hold a candle to Abyss Creations Dolls.
There's me with just a cabbage patch doll
The situation in a nutshell...
Japanese government: Have more kids. Repopulate! Please!
Japanese workers: mute, silent, stuck at work, waiting for the boss to go home.
Japanese government (gathering together, spending millions on research): Hmmmm.... why are these people not meeting and mating?
Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: You are unable to solve this problem? Really? You're kidding me, right?
Japanese government: We have tried everything.
Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: Well... for starters... just spitballing here... you could ask the boss to go home at a reasonable time.
Japanese government: No... we can't do that!
Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: Well, suit yourself. Have fun with your dwindling population.