Heather, in the Dr. Phil episode he said that your mother ruined your future. You stated: „I still have a good future.“ you said it like you knew it and you did. Yes you made it 🌺🌱
@@activationvibration currently I'm going thru the no contact phase with my abusive dad. And so yeah, I feel like he's facing his own karma, he even got physically sick so yeah. I do not have hate in my heart for him or anyone, I wish everyone to face their shit no matter how bad or good it may sound like🌸🤍
My whole family is toxic so I have to cut chords with everyone no exceptions. Now they are getting hit financially and physically and mentally. Karma is here. It’s only been 8 months since I cut the contact. Will see how they will progress. I don’t want my dad to die but clearly with that toxic environment and no one to enlighten him he is deteriorating.
@@ladyoy I mean, of course shit will happen to them, it's called karma, it may manifests physically as a sickness or destruction. Before, they were feeding off of ur energy, cuz they're empty, now they're facing their shame and reality all alone.
Since I moved out my relationship with my parents is better and stronger. I did hoponopono, meditation and shadow work. The space apart made a huge difference.
I divorced my mother. I always knew our relationship was toxic but just recently at 42 years young I realized I was a victim of a narcissistic mother. Woah 🤯 As a mother of two lil girls I’m changing the dynamic and healing all the generational trauma.
I admire Heathers strength, lightness, and forgiveness after everything she has been through. When I watch the Dr Phil episode, I can see the pain in her eyes and the heaviness… it’s almost like watching a totally different person compared to where she is now on her journey… her spiritual evolution is truly inspiring and beautiful. This video was divinely delivered 🤍 I loved hearing your guidance through ancestral healing. I believe it is one of the hardest to dig up from our subconscious, and one of the toughest wounds to heal. Beautiful video Heather ❤️
Feel so sorry for you. I'm glad you are doing better today. I had my first Kundalini Awakening in 2010. Then they hospitalized me for mental illness. They drugged me down and broke me so even I thought I was ill. My life fell apart after that. But then in 2014 I had my second Kundalini Awakening & I knew I wasn't Crazy. I came to this Earth to be myself, not who society told me I should be. I also got into contact with people with the same experiences and Guru's that could help me understand what I was going through. I have spent years of my time researching what's scientifically is going on & the truth is that this is more common then what people think. In the East (None modernized at least) its celebrated but in the West it's seen as a Disease or Demonized. Had my 3rd Kundalini Awakening in the 7th November 2021 & I truly feel like myself. My friends & Family is accepting me for who I'm & most of my colleagues. the other's at least respect me & treat me well. I have been trough a lot of hardship in my life. But as long you keep living and apricate what positive and good in your life, Life will get better. Remember it's always Darkest before the Dawn!!! 🌅❣️😇
I've lived with my grandmother for ten years and she's rapidly declining in health. She could go at any time. There is so much family conflict going on right now and I really needed this. 💕
Thank you for this Heather! My family is in a cult (JW) and have shunned me for leaving it for 20 years. My mom kicked me out of our house when I was 17 because it wasn't my truth anymore. I've been on an epic healing journey since then! I wish we could fully reconnect but everytime i try the cult stuff gets slapped in my face and it's just too toxic. I know someday, on some etheric plane we'll reconnect and laugh about the silliness of it all😊 But for now I just allow her space to experience her choices. I sometimes experience grief for the loss of that relationship but it gets easier with time. 💛💛💛🙏🙏🙏🤙
Sending you light and love. One of my childhood friends is a JW and has been all her life. It is so sad the way they shun and basically disown anyone that does not follow their agenda. I am very familiar with their practices because of her and I feel for you. I am her only "Wordly" friend and her family loves and accepts me and they are a bit more open minded but we have had issues before with other people not being as accepting!
@Golden Hawk Oracle similar path here! I've tried to be open with my mom about my beliefs when she asks me and she says the devil has ahold of me😄 couldn't be more opposite obviously, but that's all they can see. Oh well! I'm proud of you for following such a wonderful healing path after starting life as a JW! You are loved Sister! 💛🙏✌
For some of us, that no contact will and should be the rest of this incarnation, and if that's the case, it doesn't mean you failed. If you are healing yourself, but the other person makes no steps toward their own healing, than they leave no room for that miracle. You can continue on with your own path and healing without them. Your healing can affect them on a quantum level, but you may never see it and that's ok. Sometimes it's enough to know that you showed up and were open and you healed yourself.
Heather! I grew up in Rohnert park and my mother passed from mental/addiction when I was 13yrs old..... we are SO much alike mystic mama. Stay strong and healed!
I’m shocked to hear you went through this… I never would have thought. I’ve had my fair share of childhood trauma and yes, I’ve had to cut off family members in order to heal and become the most authentic version of myself.
I feel I desire to cut connection with my mother for a while, particularly cause she has a friendship with my toxic Ex partner and his toxic family. I seperated from him 4 years ago, never married never lived together, I have a child with him him that I raise. And I have never presented my mother to his parents though he did and my mother does not see or hear my desire of being as free as possible from them. Anyway I feel challenged to cut the cord to her totally, specially cause he uses her as a triangle and when he takes on the phone to his daughter keeps on asking wether she has seen my mother. As if it was his decision when and if I see My mother including my daughter. Encouragement welcome Soul family.
I heard that when we heal ourselves we heal our family and ancestors and I’ve been doing so much healing and plant medicine myself but my family is still suffering and set in there ways. I hope they can heal soon. Hearing Heather’s story gives me hope and this post resonates with me because my mom has been having mental health issues and is currently MIA for a few weeks now.
Wow this was so insightful, our healing helps to heal our family members, and the collective as a whole, it’s amazing to see. You see yourself and family members from the past, unaware and experiencing toxic moments, to years later(now) and see them and yourself grow and blossom back into their beautiful selves, reconnect with their souls. I love this, thank you for sharing soul family🌈🦋💕 Blessings to you✨
Having to alchemise a toxic past and heal ancestral karma, when I saw you had walked a similar path to mine & I could see your light and wisdom alchemise your pain, you were one of the main people that kept me going through years of transmutation. Thank you for all you do. I’m so proud of you. I love you 🫂💛
This resonates a thousand percent. Alchemizing and transmuting toxicity in relationships is part of our purpose. Cutting physical ties is often a part of the self love process. I, this incarnation, signed up for some batshit craycrayness. What in the actual bleep was I thinking ?!!!😂 I get though. Thank you Heather for sharing your journey and more important for shining your light. My mother was unusually and brutally abusive. She never consciously worked on integrating her shadow aspects. Then she completely revised our history 😂 What in the world actual cluck!!! I am the only daughter who stepped forward to care for her in her golden years. Thanks to her I am practicing, detachment, acceptance, self-love, self-compassion, compassion for others, and being a bigger container for unconditional love. Many a times I wanted my physical existence to end. Any attempts were thwarted by Divine intervention. Deeply and infinitely grateful to Source. To you, reader, may all of your relationships be fruitful. And may you master, forgiveness, acceptance, compassion, and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Peace and Blessings of pure love to you. ⭐️✨🌟✨💚✨🌟✨⭐️✨🌟✨💎✨🌟✨⭐️✨🌟✨💜✨🌟✨⭐️
I have left my family. I've gone completely no contact, because the dynamic between everyone is so toxic and no one seemed to see it but me and one other sister. I've been doing some deep healing work on my childhood trauma and today I came to the realization that I need to own and embody my decision to leave. I felt such a shift within me. Then I saw this video pop up with perfect timing. I love that you and your mom have been able to reconnect in a way that is loving and healthy. That gives me hope for my situation as well, but for now I'm focusing on just me. Thank you for your video!
Oh wow! Same here! Right now I’m focusing on myself it’s just easier as I’m healing the trauma. I also believe the same connections we want from them can definitely happen outside of our family! Hope All our connections Gets Better✨
Wow Heather this is so beautiful ⭐️✨🌟 My mom rejected me all my life but even more when I moved away from Christianity. We didn’t speak for 3 years and had a unhealthy relationship for many years. I did my inner work and my mom came from another state to meet me asking me for forgiveness. We hug and cried so much and our relationship is so beautiful now. This has touched my heart ❤️ thank you for such beautiful video and message ☀️🌟⭐️
Good timing, currently at each other’s throats right now My dad is completely blind to his narcissistic mother and how much she has damaged him He always defends his mother over any of his children or his wife A lot of people are set in there ways and I believe there’s nothing you can do but love from a distance
I took space from my parents and 2 of my older siblings 6 months ago, 2 months to the day before my baby was born. I have been going through this period of becoming aware of my past, looking at it through a new perspective of what actually happened. It's been extremely painful and freeing. I hope to heal from all of the trauma and to have my true self come through. I don't want to be trapped anymore.
my heart hears it...my mind just isnt ready yet. i had to not just cut those cords, i had to shred and burn them for my mental and spiritual health. The hypocrisy towards me did not help. i love you too. your videos are so healing for me. i am thankful i found part of my soul family here.
My mom never changed and it was totally okay! I've been married for decades and have amazing grown children. I'm sober today for several decades. She died drunk and angry. It was okay that she didn't change. That was her path. I hope she is at peace now. We were always in touch but I moved to another country. got far far far away
Divine timing. Had a Fallout with Mom and My sister 6 months Ago. My mom is coming this weekend to see My kids, and I was nervous until now. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️
Heather I just saw the show and someone in the comments mentioned you have this channel now and I was so glad to hear it. Your mom is as you know an alcoholic and a narcissist. The twisted vitriol on her face was intense. I was hoping you and your sister got away and never looked back. there is a saying in AA, "constitutionally incapable of introspection and change". I remember thinking your mom is the poster child for constitutionally incapable. Both of my parents were alcoholics and my mom was a narcissist too. I remember saying to my husband decades ago, "If we were dating I would have broken up with her and blocked her long ago". and I thought, why don't we do that when a family member is abusing us? So glad to see you got away! You are beautiful.
I’ve been imagining my mom and dad as children and imagining protecting them from trauma. I believe the divine is above time and space and we can honour their innocence and protect them.
So funny this pops up right after I just ordered several books about Narcissistic Mothers and BPD. Thanks for the confirmation that I’m on the right track :)
i am extremely happy that you and your mother got back together. This is why you the both of you came back as mother/daughter team, to help each other. In the end , LOVE conquers all.
I was brought up by narcissistic parents and all i can remember from my childhood was intense pain and loneliness. Today in my early 30's, all my focus is on my healing, self love and forgiveness. Thankyou for being an inspiration..so proud of you!❤❤
I stopped talking to my dad when I was 12, restraining orders and foster care. It’s been almost a year since I’ve spoken to my mom due to her narcissism. It was because ‘I can’t heal the wounds that she keeps tearing open’. Maybe one day.
I remember you asking how everyone would feel if u went on dr Phil again on Instagram and i remember commenting an idea of sharing the healing you did and now embody after his show, (even if u didn’t see my comment) seeing u share your story here, after dr Phil and how it is a beautiful plot twist makes me sooooo happy, heather ♥️🥰
I love that you are proud of who you are I have been misunderstood by family friends that cut everyone out. I didn’t get to help my mom or mend that with her which was hard till I forgave her and understood she died the way she lived and it was so hard but even though now I feel she knows wherever she is that she is an angel around me and I now understand that we were so much like each other and I have chose to try and show her that if I ever get to see her again that she can be proud of me as I have tried so hard to change the karmic debt for my daughters to know all the good things she was! I now want to make her proud! And I see that in my girls who never got to meet her but I know she has been around to see me now as I am just like her and she taught me to never give up as that is mine and my daughters motto, “Never give up, no matter what!” Thank you for teaching us so many things !
WOW. I totally needed this message. I don’t resonate with current energies in my family, and you reminded me that it’s important to heal so I can guide those relationships to be all they are meant to be. Blessed be, goddess. You’re amazing! Thank you for sharing! 🧡
Its less than a minute I'm in the video. I don't know you, I don't know who you were, but seeing the massive change in energy brought tears in my eyes. I can't wait to go through my transformation and look back at myself in few years lovingly
I had a toxic childhood as well. My mother was 17 yrs. old when I was born. To make a long story short, I have become closer with her as she has become a bit better in her older age. She still has her moments, but, I'm trying to heal karma and wounds as well as well as a trauma from an uncle who passed away from covid. I still see a therapist and my health is not well, but I will keep healing. Thank you for this video and all of them. Love you Soul Sister!
You are such a divine light. I have an extremely dysfunctional and traumatic relationship with my parents as well so your light is most helpful. I am at the stage where I want nothing to do with them because I need to break free of their toxic overbearing energy! But I am good
I remember this Dr. Phil episode and I rarely watched his show. So there must be a good reason why I did. It's amazing how far you've come since. I can see there was a lot of weight and pain resting on you in that time, and it seems to all have lifted. You look so much more radiant and beautiful now even though it's 7 years later (and you were beautiful then too but I think you know what I mean). Great work. I love the transformation.
You are definitely my soul family. I just feel it and know it.☺️ Much love from a starseed healer youtuber that came here to guide the humanity to New Earth✨🙏💫
Thank you for sharing. I come from a toxic family and everything you said resonates with what i go through, even today. Im glad i watched your video and learned some perspectives that i can use to heal with my family trauma..🙏❤️
I have a very similar mother to yours and I was giggling a lot when you were explaining how we chose this, "that sounds entertaining! Let's do it!" HAHA! I see after stepping away from her, that what she gave me was what my soul needed and my time with her was enough. I am grateful for her lessons. On how to be a better human. A better mother, a better wife, a better human. One striving towards ascension. I have a long way to go. But your guidance has been so valuable in this.
Yeah, I feel this so much❤️❤️Definitely chose to heal soooooo much maternal and sexual trauma in this life. Becoming a mother actually helped me heal this the most! Leading me to transform my own dna❤️
😳....this helped me SO much. I know the universe just showed that to me for a huge reason and I'm so very thankful for u Heather, as well as the universe...if I could, I would hug u both. mahalo and namaste my soul sister 🙏🏼🤍♾️👁️ thank u for helping me set myself free for once and for all...🕊️
Heather, I was just talking to my mom about this. Her and I didn’t have a great relationship growing up and after taking space away from each other, we now are so close! I agree it is a miracle and space can be healthy. Thank you for your words and sharing your experience.
I’m not a fan of dr.Phil. Thank goodness heather didn’t go the opposite direction and sent to those abusive ranches. You are beautiful heather💕you inspire me so much
The synchronicity! 💕 I broke the walls and talked about the same topic yesterday with some friends on social media. Going through something similar at the moment and you uploaded a video on this!! So much healing is needed indeed, I'm doing the inner work already.. Thank you so much siStar 🌹💗
The fact that I'm seeing this now...in this moment...trying so deeply so transmute my toxic karmic ancestral ties..everything that I am shown from the universe when it comes to you is coming to me literally from god. Because you've acted as a confirmation through every step of the untangling. You have activated me in every way and I am so grateful. I still have so much to learn. But if you can do it. I can.
I remember meeting you once about 2 years go, you where super chill and we talk about music. It was really nice meeting you, I know one day I will meet you again. Hugs 🤗 to you as well…. Much Love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Heather, you are so beautiful! You freed your inner child and family lineage by curing/transmuting your energy. I have gone through the same and love you soul sister for sharing your story! 💗🌷
WHEW.. this comment section. This video definitely took me by surprise. Thank you for sharing🙏 I completely feel and want to let this fam know you guys are warriors and learning how to really step into beautiful truths. Keep going guys, love.
I have to disagree with you to an extent. I had a very difficult relationship with my father. He didn’t speak to his mother until almost the day she died, he and my brother cut eachother off, off and on, again almost to the day he died. I was the one who wanted to break the cycle. I did everything possible to keep a relationship that worked for us, although on many occasions, he tried to quit speaking to me. I thought we were cool until after his death. He wrote me the most awful, hurtful letter, on purpose, and disinherited me, knowing how deeply it would affect me and hurt me. So, In my example, I wish I would have just listened to him, and cut off contact. I have suffered tremendously spiritually, psychologically, and physically as a result of his actions. It was his way to twist the knife in deeper once he was gone. SO, generally speaking, I do agree with you- most parents and adult children need and deserve to have some kind of relationship, but sometimes, you need to listen to those parents who tell you who they are. Sending so much love, and I’m truly glad that you were blessed to be able to heal and reconnect.
Sending you love, Im sorry it’s been that way your strong heart certainly does not deserve it. Yet maybe now, the most healing work for you would to be to forgive him and make amends with his soul. Regardless, he is an extension of you in a way that is eternal. You heal from this forgiveness, and even his soul does too. Sometimes it’s unfathomable what we experience, but we are always strong enough for it. Not talking to my parents, and having one “commit suicide” and blame me for it in writing and thinking she was dead for a while- caused me to have to completely cut ties with her for years as well. It was painful beyond explanation. That’s why I call it a miracle when I say I have reconnected with her, because at one point it was literally impossible. But I did so in the higher realms and somehow miracle made it happen on earth too. Sending you love💖 may your heart heal
@@activationvibration ohhh, thank you so much for your kind words and for reaching out. You certainly endured your share of heartache, too! Forgiveness… whatever that looks like, feels like, MEANS- it’s definitely, spiritually speaking, on the top of my ‘To do List’. It takes time tho But I won’t stop, because I know it’s the only way I can heal and move forward. Thanks so much again for your kindness, and for listening. 💖
I have felt truly and oddly connected with you since since my healing journey started....I found you and it was like an instant familiarity.. I remember watching this year's ago when it aired, sitting on the couch with my mom. My mom was shit talking the whole time to the mom....but I just sat there staring at her wondering how she didn't see herself...the hair was the same, eyebrows the same, facial expressions and body language the same, responses THE SAME...I felt like I was looking into a doppelganger of her and I. Only I had never told her I hated her, I was terrified to....her and my father were so abusive and neglectful. My childhood was filled with fear and horror. As a mother now I am having such a hard time reparenting myself while seeing my reflection in my daughter. I finally after years got the strength to close the door on her due to some life altering truths about the past came out. I needed to close it but I felt like I was mourning a death. It's been almost 2 years since I've cut my abusive step father off & then my mother and sister followed and it's been a year since those ties have been restricted and cut. I needed this Heather and I hope this finds you bc your mother was exactly like my step father + lots of physical abuse, my mother didn't care and acted like everything was our fault and we deserved it. I don't know how to put into words how much you have helped me along my path of healing. How you've guided me to fully love and express myself as I truly am, weirdness and full of love for everyone around me. I needed to hear every bit of this,I thank you so much for your guidance Heather. ❤🙏🤝🙌
My bio uncle has threatened me with a bat and physically restrained me/ hit me in the face. Im incredibly kind and a quiet person, im constantly working on my art. Him and his girlfriend internet stalk and harrass me. I will be getting a restraining order. Some relationships are not worth saving. I focus on my own healing and these people that bother me simply do not exist to me... I give them no energy. I just want to feel safe and get them away, I don't care about them healing..... that will never happen but if it did that's not my responsibility nor wish. This is a wonderful message... just sometimes it does not apply to all families
This sounds so FAMILIAR! my earliest childhood memories are toxic and violent, followed by more crazy. I need to find a way to truly heal my young traumatic experiences and so much more so I can truly become my best self. For me and for my family. I've been watching you since I started this journey a year ago. Thank you! You have taught me so much, and seeing this makes me feel like I now know why I was drawn to you. Get better and get rest darling. So glad your ok, and thank you for sharing the beauty in even situations like the one your going through now! By the way you still look puurrdddyy even all scraped up! Light and love darling 🙏
There are soooo many parallels in your story and mine, I see my mother in your mother. Also a single family home I am the oldest of 2 girls too. It's been 6 years since I have talked to my mother, I'm happy you are able to work things out. I still feel a sense of responsibility toward my mother and wonder how she is especially during these times, but I don't regret walking away, it was and still is for the best.
Thank you so much for the hugs and love you sent. I truly love and appreciate that and your wonderful wisdom. It has found me at a very important time in my life. I am currently having a hard time with my blood relatives and my soul family. It feels like everything is falling apart and your message has given me the much needed hope I needed. So thank you with all my heart for sharing this video! 🌟❤🌈❤🌟
Thank you for sharing your story with us Heather! It is so beautiful to hear about how your relationship with your mother has evolved and healed. I've been thinking of family, ancestors and lineage a lot these few weeks. I believe that the healing we do vibrates out through past and future generations within our family, and I feel it's one of my multiple missions here while on Earth. Always feeling your vibe and grateful for being here with you and all these other magical souls. 🙏🏽❤🌷🌟🌌💝👑
Lmao yeah it’s hilarious I always feel like everyone knew 😂😂😂 I get comments all the time so i just figured, but thought I’d go ahead and just call myself out
Dr. Phil is AMAZING. I learned so much from watching him every day. He helped me realize the type of toxic people my family was and was such a big part of my healing. Thank you for being a part of that! ❤
Dr.Phil is really weird for screaming at her mom. Behaving like he is above her. She is already aware of her problem at the time, he did not need to attack her nor talk her down. Hej should uplift and come from a place of love.
I honestly find him terrifying. I would take a huuge bow around him if I ever saw him. From my perspective he has VERY toxic character traits. I'm sure he also has his purpose for being on this planet, I'm just not sure he's living it fully. Either way, not what I need and want for sure ! I just find him retraumatising.
I had no idea you were on Dr. Phil! Thank you for sharing this success story of reconnecting with a family member, it gives hope to those of us still in separation
Woah I always thought you looked so FAMILAR!!! SO FAMILIAR and I could NEVER place it. Heather, BIG HUGS& ALL THE LOVE. It takes so much healing to be able to speak on these matters. Heather so so much love. I had seen this Dr Phillips segment, you are UNRECOGNIZABLE TODAY. The healing you have done and inner work shows, so much ! You are a powerful inspiration!!
I needed this Heather, thank you so much. I am crying right now..you gave me the hope I needed. I love you and I am truly so grateful that you are you❤
Thanks you so much,,,how divine it is,,, today I realized same thing your talking about,, and decide to heal myself and become parent for my inner child,,, thank you for sharing,,, I'm going through this process ❤
I just want express as well that it's okay if you can't heal the relationship with your caregivers or family members and that it is normal. I am completely estranged from my family. I have a very abusive and toxic relationship with my mother and all times I've tried reaching out her abuse only continued and it affected my mental health. My father has never been present in my life because he is abusive to all life forms, a drug addict and always in and out of jail. I haven't been in contact with the rest of my family due to their negative energy and simply they have never made the effort to be apart of my life in a positive way, even when I have reached out. I have been sexually abused by family members as well which has caused greater distance. My family is very complex when it comes to trauma and mental health. I am accepting of this but sometimes it can get lonely. Them not being apart of my life brings me great peace and the space to heal the ancestral trauma and break the cycle. I understand that I can change the lineage by healing myself, however I don't believe this is true for all. I've had to mourn the death of connections I never had but if I ever start a family that's when I'll get to experience the true meaning of blood family because I was the one who broke the cycle.
Ur absolutely right loves. I wish spiritual ppl wouldn’t speak in absolutes like that and just focus on their journey and express only how happy they are for themselves. They don’t need to tell ppl what to do if they feel truly healed. being happy for yourself and thriving is a good enough example is enough . every path is not the same and if she’s grown enough as a person and spiritually she should know that, instead of saying how ppl need to heal fully in the same manner she did. no one needs to do what she says, ppl need to do what they feel called to. when you grow you realize you don’t need to push ur journey on others. otherwise they come off as cult/organized religion Bible thumpers.
Imagine you're like a family of plant seedlings all growing close together. Fighting for nutrition and space to grow. Then someone decides to transplant you and the other family members a distance apart. Over time you grow and spread your roots until they get in touch with with a family members roots. There is enough distance to share nutrients and be in contact and grow together 💕
Thank you for sharing and giving hope. 🙏. I I've with my dad who suffers with major depression, he's been to residential school, lost my mother and hecis stuck in his old programming. I am here on my spiritual awakening, praying for him everyday 🙏 I hope he can heal so we can have a better relationship
Omg conversating with my abusive father is night and day, esowcyaince I have healed myself from karmic wounds that affected me most of my life... Great to see that ur human and have crazy moments in ur life, sometimes we idealize others as "perfect" but we all have crazy journeys that we view through this life from different lens of personal perspective... Great video heather.... Another RUclipsr I watch keeps mentioning you so I decided to come and check the channel
Heather, I watched the Dr. Phil episode tonight and I send every one of you love for all the hardships you have endured. I relate and I think It's so beautiful how these events can bring people even closer together. I hope I'm not out of line by saying that I was bothered by the way Dr. Phil treated your mom on stage. I even left a nice comment on the video, opps. Please let her know that I am so proud of her and I saw her strength, will, love and determination from the minute she spoke on stage 💖 Bless you all and keep on shining 🌞
I just watched it. Thank you for sharing, it puts such a richer and clearer perspective on who you are. So crazy. There is and has been so much crazy and trauma in the world, previous generations and oh my god what has been with all the insanity around child sexual abuse, etc. We need serious spiritual warriors like you with medicine. May you continue to heal and strengthen and persevere in life. May you be infinitely and abundantly blessed to assist in the global awakening and healing of our planet and all of life and for us to move into peace and joy to co-create a life and reality that is truly beautiful and heavenly. You are wonderful.
Heather, in the Dr. Phil episode he said that your mother ruined your future. You stated: „I still have a good future.“ you said it like you knew it and you did. Yes you made it 🌺🌱
what episode number is it? Would like to watch the whole story. Thank you
Yes truly she did!!
😭😍😍 thank you for that perspective and reminder babe! Love you, we are rising together 🔥
It’s called “news reporter to drunken mom” if you search RUclips you can find it
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It's called no contact during the healing of narcissistic childhood abuse, rise queen✨🌷
YES BABE- thanks for the perfect summary 😍♥️
@@activationvibration currently I'm going thru the no contact phase with my abusive dad. And so yeah, I feel like he's facing his own karma, he even got physically sick so yeah. I do not have hate in my heart for him or anyone, I wish everyone to face their shit no matter how bad or good it may sound like🌸🤍
My whole family is toxic so I have to cut chords with everyone no exceptions. Now they are getting hit financially and physically and mentally. Karma is here. It’s only been 8 months since I cut the contact. Will see how they will progress. I don’t want my dad to die but clearly with that toxic environment and no one to enlighten him he is deteriorating.
@@ladyoy I mean, of course shit will happen to them, it's called karma, it may manifests physically as a sickness or destruction. Before, they were feeding off of ur energy, cuz they're empty, now they're facing their shame and reality all alone.
She said what she said, 👏🏼
My therapist says that sometimes we have to divorce our family and find healthier relationships ❤️
your therapist is absolutely right
@@Katzykeens 💯 absolutely!!!
This is so true
@@Layla-fr7mf I have found it to be absolutely true!
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Since I moved out my relationship with my parents is better and stronger. I did hoponopono, meditation and shadow work. The space apart made a huge difference.
Yes love those too are my practices 🙏😘
I divorced my mother. I always knew our relationship was toxic but just recently at 42 years young I realized I was a victim of a narcissistic mother. Woah 🤯 As a mother of two lil girls I’m changing the dynamic and healing all the generational trauma.
I admire Heathers strength, lightness, and forgiveness after everything she has been through. When I watch the Dr Phil episode, I can see the pain in her eyes and the heaviness… it’s almost like watching a totally different person compared to where she is now on her journey… her spiritual evolution is truly inspiring and beautiful.
This video was divinely delivered 🤍
I loved hearing your guidance through ancestral healing. I believe it is one of the hardest to dig up from our subconscious, and one of the toughest wounds to heal. Beautiful video Heather ❤️
Feel so sorry for you. I'm glad you are doing better today.
I had my first Kundalini Awakening in 2010. Then they hospitalized me for mental illness. They drugged me down and broke me so even I thought I was ill. My life fell apart after that. But then in 2014 I had my second Kundalini Awakening & I knew I wasn't Crazy. I came to this Earth to be myself, not who society told me I should be. I also got into contact with people with the same experiences and Guru's that could help me understand what I was going through. I have spent years of my time researching what's scientifically is going on & the truth is that this is more common then what people think. In the East (None modernized at least) its celebrated but in the West it's seen as a Disease or Demonized.
Had my 3rd Kundalini Awakening in the 7th November 2021 & I truly feel like myself. My friends & Family is accepting me for who I'm & most of my colleagues. the other's at least respect me & treat me well. I have been trough a lot of hardship in my life. But as long you keep living and apricate what positive and good in your life, Life will get better.
Remember it's always Darkest before the Dawn!!! 🌅❣️😇
I've lived with my grandmother for ten years and she's rapidly declining in health. She could go at any time. There is so much family conflict going on right now and I really needed this. 💕
Thank you for this Heather! My family is in a cult (JW) and have shunned me for leaving it for 20 years. My mom kicked me out of our house when I was 17 because it wasn't my truth anymore. I've been on an epic healing journey since then!
I wish we could fully reconnect but everytime i try the cult stuff gets slapped in my face and it's just too toxic. I know someday, on some etheric plane we'll reconnect and laugh about the silliness of it all😊 But for now I just allow her space to experience her choices. I sometimes experience grief for the loss of that relationship but it gets easier with time. 💛💛💛🙏🙏🙏🤙
Sending you light and love. One of my childhood friends is a JW and has been all her life. It is so sad the way they shun and basically disown anyone that does not follow their agenda. I am very familiar with their practices because of her and I feel for you. I am her only "Wordly" friend and her family loves and accepts me and they are a bit more open minded but we have had issues before with other people not being as accepting!
🙏🏼 wishing you peace of mind
@@avila.j thank you friend! 💙💛
@Golden Hawk Oracle similar path here! I've tried to be open with my mom about my beliefs when she asks me and she says the devil has ahold of me😄 couldn't be more opposite obviously, but that's all they can see. Oh well!
I'm proud of you for following such a wonderful healing path after starting life as a JW! You are loved Sister! 💛🙏✌
@@87Breeezy thank you friend! 💛💛💛🙏
For some of us, that no contact will and should be the rest of this incarnation, and if that's the case, it doesn't mean you failed. If you are healing yourself, but the other person makes no steps toward their own healing, than they leave no room for that miracle. You can continue on with your own path and healing without them. Your healing can affect them on a quantum level, but you may never see it and that's ok. Sometimes it's enough to know that you showed up and were open and you healed yourself.
Absolutely!
just had a fight with my fam today. this video pops up at the evening of the same day with 1111 likes 🦋
Heather! I grew up in Rohnert park and my mother passed from mental/addiction when I was 13yrs old..... we are SO much alike mystic mama. Stay strong and healed!
I’m shocked to hear you went through this… I never would have thought. I’ve had my fair share of childhood trauma and yes, I’ve had to cut off family members in order to heal and become the most authentic version of myself.
I feel I desire to cut connection with my mother for a while, particularly cause she has a friendship with my toxic Ex partner and his toxic family. I seperated from him 4 years ago, never married never lived together, I have a child with him him that I raise. And I have never presented my mother to his parents though he did and my mother does not see or hear my desire of being as free as possible from them. Anyway I feel challenged to cut the cord to her totally, specially cause he uses her as a triangle and when he takes on the phone to his daughter keeps on asking wether she has seen my mother. As if it was his decision when and if I see My mother including my daughter. Encouragement welcome Soul family.
The glow up real Heather. I see you 💖
I heard that when we heal ourselves we heal our family and ancestors and I’ve been doing so much healing and plant medicine myself but my family is still suffering and set in there ways. I hope they can heal soon. Hearing Heather’s story gives me hope and this post resonates with me because my mom has been having mental health issues and is currently MIA for a few weeks now.
You can do it 💙🌌
Wow this was so insightful, our healing helps to heal our family members, and the collective as a whole, it’s amazing to see. You see yourself and family members from the past, unaware and experiencing toxic moments, to years later(now) and see them and yourself grow and blossom back into their beautiful selves, reconnect with their souls. I love this, thank you for sharing soul family🌈🦋💕 Blessings to you✨
Yes love you so get it! We connect and positively influence all realms and realities when we heal one♥️ we start with us and it helps all
Having to alchemise a toxic past and heal ancestral karma, when I saw you had walked a similar path to mine & I could see your light and wisdom alchemise your pain, you were one of the main people that kept me going through years of transmutation. Thank you for all you do. I’m so proud of you. I love you 🫂💛
Hello Lexi, beautiful soul. Fancy seeing you here 😁🤍🤍
This resonates a thousand percent. Alchemizing and transmuting toxicity in relationships is part of our purpose. Cutting physical ties is often a part of the self love process.
I, this incarnation, signed up for some batshit craycrayness. What in the actual bleep was I thinking ?!!!😂 I get though.
Thank you Heather for sharing your journey and more important for shining your light. My mother was unusually and brutally abusive. She never consciously worked on integrating her shadow aspects. Then she completely revised our history 😂 What in the world actual cluck!!!
I am the only daughter who stepped forward to care for her in her golden years. Thanks to her I am practicing, detachment, acceptance, self-love, self-compassion, compassion for others, and being a bigger container for unconditional love. Many a times I wanted my physical existence to end. Any attempts were thwarted by Divine intervention. Deeply and infinitely grateful to Source.
To you, reader, may all of your relationships be fruitful. And may you master, forgiveness, acceptance, compassion, and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
Peace and Blessings of pure love to you. ⭐️✨🌟✨💚✨🌟✨⭐️✨🌟✨💎✨🌟✨⭐️✨🌟✨💜✨🌟✨⭐️
I have left my family. I've gone completely no contact, because the dynamic between everyone is so toxic and no one seemed to see it but me and one other sister. I've been doing some deep healing work on my childhood trauma and today I came to the realization that I need to own and embody my decision to leave. I felt such a shift within me. Then I saw this video pop up with perfect timing. I love that you and your mom have been able to reconnect in a way that is loving and healthy. That gives me hope for my situation as well, but for now I'm focusing on just me. Thank you for your video!
Oh wow! Same here! Right now I’m focusing on myself it’s just easier as I’m healing the trauma. I also believe the same connections we want from them can definitely happen outside of our family! Hope All our connections Gets Better✨
Wow Heather this is so beautiful ⭐️✨🌟
My mom rejected me all my life but even more when I moved away from Christianity. We didn’t speak for 3 years and had a unhealthy relationship for many years. I did my inner work and my mom came from another state to meet me asking me for forgiveness. We hug and cried so much and our relationship is so beautiful now.
This has touched my heart ❤️ thank you for such beautiful video and message ☀️🌟⭐️
Good timing, currently at each other’s throats right now
My dad is completely blind to his narcissistic mother and how much she has damaged him
He always defends his mother over any of his children or his wife
A lot of people are set in there ways and I believe there’s nothing you can do but love from a distance
Babe! ❤ You’re AMAZING 😭🥹🫶🏼
Thank you for being here 🦋
I took space from my parents and 2 of my older siblings 6 months ago, 2 months to the day before my baby was born. I have been going through this period of becoming aware of my past, looking at it through a new perspective of what actually happened. It's been extremely painful and freeing. I hope to heal from all of the trauma and to have my true self come through. I don't want to be trapped anymore.
my heart hears it...my mind just isnt ready yet. i had to not just cut those cords, i had to shred and burn them for my mental and spiritual health. The hypocrisy towards me did not help. i love you too. your videos are so healing for me. i am thankful i found part of my soul family here.
You are not alone, we love you. May all heal♥️
I needed this! I have been healing a whole lot and have been feeling hopeless with my mom changing. Thank you Heather! ✨💛✨
My mom never changed and it was totally okay! I've been married for decades and have amazing grown children. I'm sober today for several decades. She died drunk and angry. It was okay that she didn't change. That was her path. I hope she is at peace now. We were always in touch but I moved to another country. got far far far away
Divine timing. Had a Fallout with Mom and My sister 6 months Ago. My mom is coming this weekend to see My kids, and I was nervous until now. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️
Sending love to your experiences!😍
Heather I just saw the show and someone in the comments mentioned you have this channel now and I was so glad to hear it. Your mom is as you know an alcoholic and a narcissist. The twisted vitriol on her face was intense. I was hoping you and your sister got away and never looked back. there is a saying in AA, "constitutionally incapable of introspection and change". I remember thinking your mom is the poster child for constitutionally incapable. Both of my parents were alcoholics and my mom was a narcissist too. I remember saying to my husband decades ago, "If we were dating I would have broken up with her and blocked her long ago". and I thought, why don't we do that when a family member is abusing us? So glad to see you got away! You are beautiful.
I’ve been imagining my mom and dad as children and imagining protecting them from trauma. I believe the divine is above time and space and we can honour their innocence and protect them.
So funny this pops up right after I just ordered several books about Narcissistic Mothers and BPD. Thanks for the confirmation that I’m on the right track :)
i am extremely happy that you and your mother got back together. This is why you the both of you came back as mother/daughter team, to help each other. In the end , LOVE conquers all.
I was brought up by narcissistic parents and all i can remember from my childhood was intense pain and loneliness. Today in my early 30's, all my focus is on my healing, self love and forgiveness. Thankyou for being an inspiration..so proud of you!❤❤
I stopped talking to my dad when I was 12, restraining orders and foster care. It’s been almost a year since I’ve spoken to my mom due to her narcissism. It was because ‘I can’t heal the wounds that she keeps tearing open’. Maybe one day.
I really felt the soul family hug. Right back at you Heather 🤗
I remember you asking how everyone would feel if u went on dr Phil again on Instagram and i remember commenting an idea of sharing the healing you did and now embody after his show, (even if u didn’t see my comment) seeing u share your story here, after dr Phil and how it is a beautiful plot twist makes me sooooo happy, heather ♥️🥰
The second i saw you, i already knew you are a powerwoman!! 🥰
You, Vic, Aaron, and Pat are definitely my soul family
😍😍😍 love you sis
@@activationvibration The Goddess in me recognizes and honors the Goddess in you. I love you too sister. 💓
"Casually Major" love it! You add so much value to my life Heather NBD just casually major. Love you!
I love that you are proud of who you are I have been misunderstood by family friends that cut everyone out. I didn’t get to help my mom or mend that with her which was hard till I forgave her and understood she died the way she lived and it was so hard but even though now I feel she knows wherever she is that she is an angel around me and I now understand that we were so much like each other and I have chose to try and show her that if I ever get to see her again that she can be proud of me as I have tried so hard to change the karmic debt for my daughters to know all the good things she was! I now want to make her proud! And I see that in my girls who never got to meet her but I know she has been around to see me now as I am just like her and she taught me to never give up as that is mine and my daughters motto, “Never give up, no matter what!” Thank you for teaching us so many things !
WOW. I totally needed this message. I don’t resonate with current energies in my family, and you reminded me that it’s important to heal so I can guide those relationships to be all they are meant to be. Blessed be, goddess. You’re amazing! Thank you for sharing! 🧡
Talk about a complete turn around. Congratulations on becoming happy, healthy and healed. Never would have known that you were on Dr. Phil.
Its less than a minute I'm in the video. I don't know you, I don't know who you were, but seeing the massive change in energy brought tears in my eyes. I can't wait to go through my transformation and look back at myself in few years lovingly
I'm sure You will. All the best to You ! 🤗💓💐✨
Heather ❤️ Thank you. I deeply get this and know this walk. I am so grateful for your sharing.
I had a toxic childhood as well. My mother was 17 yrs. old when I was born. To make a long story short, I have become closer with her as she has become a bit better in her older age. She still has her moments, but, I'm trying to heal karma and wounds as well as well as a trauma from an uncle who passed away from covid. I still see a therapist and my health is not well, but I will keep healing. Thank you for this video and all of them. Love you Soul Sister!
You are such a divine light. I have an extremely dysfunctional and traumatic relationship with my parents as well so your light is most helpful. I am at the stage where I want nothing to do with them because I need to break free of their toxic overbearing energy! But I am good
I remember this Dr. Phil episode and I rarely watched his show. So there must be a good reason why I did. It's amazing how far you've come since. I can see there was a lot of weight and pain resting on you in that time, and it seems to all have lifted. You look so much more radiant and beautiful now even though it's 7 years later (and you were beautiful then too but I think you know what I mean). Great work. I love the transformation.
You are definitely my soul family. I just feel it and know it.☺️
Much love from a starseed healer youtuber that came here to guide the humanity to New Earth✨🙏💫
Thank you for sharing. I come from a toxic family and everything you said resonates with what i go through, even today. Im glad i watched your video and learned some perspectives that i can use to heal with my family trauma..🙏❤️
Sending you so much love and light Heather ❤️❤️❤️
My god I love you!
Grateful to have stumbled across your DIVINE energetic essence. Sending you love Queen 👸🏼✨💕
I have a very similar mother to yours and I was giggling a lot when you were explaining how we chose this, "that sounds entertaining! Let's do it!" HAHA! I see after stepping away from her, that what she gave me was what my soul needed and my time with her was enough. I am grateful for her lessons. On how to be a better human. A better mother, a better wife, a better human. One striving towards ascension. I have a long way to go. But your guidance has been so valuable in this.
Oh You’re such a better soul!!!! Love your energy!!!! Incredible 🧡💚❤️
Yeah, I feel this so much❤️❤️Definitely chose to heal soooooo much maternal and sexual trauma in this life. Becoming a mother actually helped me heal this the most! Leading me to transform my own dna❤️
Me too
😳....this helped me SO much. I know the universe just showed that to me for a huge reason and I'm so very thankful for u Heather, as well as the universe...if I could, I would hug u both. mahalo and namaste my soul sister 🙏🏼🤍♾️👁️
thank u for helping me set myself free for once and for all...🕊️
Heather, I was just talking to my mom about this. Her and I didn’t have a great relationship growing up and after taking space away from each other, we now are so close! I agree it is a miracle and space can be healthy. Thank you for your words and sharing your experience.
I’m not a fan of dr.Phil. Thank goodness heather didn’t go the opposite direction and sent to those abusive ranches. You are beautiful heather💕you inspire me so much
You are soul family.
And i love you too.
So many humble thanks 💫💫💫
I am so grateful for you. My family is so toxic and is hurting my health so much. They don’t leave me alone.
loved meeting you last week. I needed to watch this.
The synchronicity! 💕 I broke the walls and talked about the same topic yesterday with some friends on social media. Going through something similar at the moment and you uploaded a video on this!! So much healing is needed indeed, I'm doing the inner work already.. Thank you so much siStar 🌹💗
The fact that I'm seeing this now...in this moment...trying so deeply so transmute my toxic karmic ancestral ties..everything that I am shown from the universe when it comes to you is coming to me literally from god. Because you've acted as a confirmation through every step of the untangling. You have activated me in every way and I am so grateful. I still have so much to learn. But if you can do it. I can.
I remember meeting you once about 2 years go, you where super chill and we talk about music. It was really nice meeting you, I know one day I will meet you again. Hugs 🤗 to you as well….
Much Love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Great video, my mother is sooo difficult and toxic, it's nice to know there is hope things will turn around 💛✨
Sister! You lived my life! Wow. Gives me hope maybe one day the relationship to heal, I’m on year 5
Heather, you are so beautiful! You freed your inner child and family lineage by curing/transmuting your energy. I have gone through the same and love you soul sister for sharing your story! 💗🌷
I cried during the end of this video. Thank you for unlocking the healing codes within others
You are loved, you are loved💟✨
WHEW.. this comment section. This video definitely took me by surprise. Thank you for sharing🙏 I completely feel and want to let this fam know you guys are warriors and learning how to really step into beautiful truths. Keep going guys, love.
I have to disagree with you to an extent. I had a very difficult relationship with my father. He didn’t speak to his mother until almost the day she died, he and my brother cut eachother off, off and on, again almost to the day he died. I was the one who wanted to break the cycle. I did everything possible to keep a relationship that worked for us, although on many occasions, he tried to quit speaking to me. I thought we were cool until after his death. He wrote me the most awful, hurtful letter, on purpose, and disinherited me, knowing how deeply it would affect me and hurt me. So, In my example, I wish I would have just listened to him, and cut off contact. I have suffered tremendously spiritually, psychologically, and physically as a result of his actions. It was his way to twist the knife in deeper once he was gone. SO, generally speaking, I do agree with you- most parents and adult children need and deserve to have some kind of relationship, but sometimes, you need to listen to those parents who tell you who they are. Sending so much love, and I’m truly glad that you were blessed to be able to heal and reconnect.
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Sometimes the best relationship you can have with somebody like that - is a nonexistent one, as you said.
Sending you love, Im sorry it’s been that way your strong heart certainly does not deserve it. Yet maybe now, the most healing work for you would to be to forgive him and make amends with his soul. Regardless, he is an extension of you in a way that is eternal. You heal from this forgiveness, and even his soul does too. Sometimes it’s unfathomable what we experience, but we are always strong enough for it. Not talking to my parents, and having one “commit suicide” and blame me for it in writing and thinking she was dead for a while- caused me to have to completely cut ties with her for years as well. It was painful beyond explanation. That’s why I call it a miracle when I say I have reconnected with her, because at one point it was literally impossible. But I did so in the higher realms and somehow miracle made it happen on earth too. Sending you love💖 may your heart heal
@@activationvibration ohhh, thank you so much for your kind words and for reaching out. You certainly endured your share of heartache, too! Forgiveness… whatever that looks like, feels like, MEANS- it’s definitely, spiritually speaking, on the top of my ‘To do List’. It takes time tho But I won’t stop, because I know it’s the only way I can heal and move forward. Thanks so much again for your kindness, and for listening. 💖
@@Be12397 take your time. This work isn't easy :) though it does get easier over time ^^
I have felt truly and oddly connected with you since since my healing journey started....I found you and it was like an instant familiarity.. I remember watching this year's ago when it aired, sitting on the couch with my mom. My mom was shit talking the whole time to the mom....but I just sat there staring at her wondering how she didn't see herself...the hair was the same, eyebrows the same, facial expressions and body language the same, responses THE SAME...I felt like I was looking into a doppelganger of her and I. Only I had never told her I hated her, I was terrified to....her and my father were so abusive and neglectful. My childhood was filled with fear and horror. As a mother now I am having such a hard time reparenting myself while seeing my reflection in my daughter. I finally after years got the strength to close the door on her due to some life altering truths about the past came out. I needed to close it but I felt like I was mourning a death. It's been almost 2 years since I've cut my abusive step father off & then my mother and sister followed and it's been a year since those ties have been restricted and cut.
I needed this Heather and I hope this finds you bc your mother was exactly like my step father + lots of physical abuse, my mother didn't care and acted like everything was our fault and we deserved it.
I don't know how to put into words how much you have helped me along my path of healing. How you've guided me to fully love and express myself as I truly am, weirdness and full of love for everyone around me.
I needed to hear every bit of this,I thank you so much for your guidance Heather. ❤🙏🤝🙌
I see your strength, beauty! I also had a hugely traumatic childhood/young adult life! Phew…the things we sign up for 🤦🏻♀️ Thanks for sharing 🌸
My bio uncle has threatened me with a bat and physically restrained me/ hit me in the face. Im incredibly kind and a quiet person, im constantly working on my art. Him and his girlfriend internet stalk and harrass me. I will be getting a restraining order. Some relationships are not worth saving. I focus on my own healing and these people that bother me simply do not exist to me... I give them no energy. I just want to feel safe and get them away, I don't care about them healing..... that will never happen but if it did that's not my responsibility nor wish. This is a wonderful message... just sometimes it does not apply to all families
This sounds so FAMILIAR! my earliest childhood memories are toxic and violent, followed by more crazy. I need to find a way to truly heal my young traumatic experiences and so much more so I can truly become my best self. For me and for my family. I've been watching you since I started this journey a year ago. Thank you! You have taught me so much, and seeing this makes me feel like I now know why I was drawn to you.
Get better and get rest darling. So glad your ok, and thank you for sharing the beauty in even situations like the one your going through now! By the way you still look puurrdddyy even all scraped up!
Light and love darling 🙏
There are soooo many parallels in your story and mine, I see my mother in your mother. Also a single family home I am the oldest of 2 girls too. It's been 6 years since I have talked to my mother, I'm happy you are able to work things out. I still feel a sense of responsibility toward my mother and wonder how she is especially during these times, but I don't regret walking away, it was and still is for the best.
Insanely Encouraging....thank you Thank you Goddess Heather 🌬
girl i feel you on all levels, im doing the same thing but with every area of my life!
Awwww! When you said you are part of the soul family and you love us, my heart welled up. I love you too Heather!!!
Thank you so much for the hugs and love you sent. I truly love and appreciate that and your wonderful wisdom. It has found me at a very important time in my life. I am currently having a hard time with my blood relatives and my soul family. It feels like everything is falling apart and your message has given me the much needed hope I needed. So thank you with all my heart for sharing this video!
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Thank you for sharing your story with us Heather! It is so beautiful to hear about how your relationship with your mother has evolved and healed. I've been thinking of family, ancestors and lineage a lot these few weeks. I believe that the healing we do vibrates out through past and future generations within our family, and I feel it's one of my multiple missions here while on Earth. Always feeling your vibe and grateful for being here with you and all these other magical souls.
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I would have never guessed you were on dr. Phil because you just looks so healthy in and out you shine like sunshine love bless 🙏✨❤️
F**k Ooofffff! You was on Dr. Phil Show?? Love you Heather! 😊
Lmao yeah it’s hilarious I always feel like everyone knew 😂😂😂 I get comments all the time so i just figured, but thought I’d go ahead and just call myself out
Thanks for sharing your story about the challenges of your relationship with your mom & taking the call to action for your healing.
Dr. Phil is AMAZING. I learned so much from watching him every day. He helped me realize the type of toxic people my family was and was such a big part of my healing. Thank you for being a part of that! ❤
Dr. Phil manipulated Heather before she went on the show. You should listen to her whole story,
Dr.Phil is really weird for screaming at her mom. Behaving like he is above her. She is already aware of her problem at the time, he did not need to attack her nor talk her down. Hej should uplift and come from a place of love.
@@flybabyskybaby I think love is not his kind of medicine
I honestly find him terrifying. I would take a huuge bow around him if I ever saw him. From my perspective he has VERY toxic character traits. I'm sure he also has his purpose for being on this planet, I'm just not sure he's living it fully. Either way, not what I need and want for sure ! I just find him retraumatising.
@@cartooneyed Where does she tell this part of the story ? I only know the Dr. Phil episode and the beginning of a podcast with her now bf she was in.
LOVE you sooooo much, Heather. Our stories are so connected, as are we. Blessings to you, beautiful.
I have so much respect for you! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ and being so geniune and real! Your energy is so influencing 😊! Much light!
I had no idea you were on Dr. Phil! Thank you for sharing this success story of reconnecting with a family member, it gives hope to those of us still in separation
So touching ! 💕💕🌹
Ur such special sweet and brave soul!!!!!!
Sending u so much love!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙂
I didn't realise this was your journey... thank you so much for sharing it with us. You've come so far 💖💖💖💖
So powerful, puts everything into perspective , respect!!!
Thank you Heather, I deeply resonate with your activations of healing. Everything is working out best case scenario! Let's keep rising!
I just want to say that your energy is wonderful. Great job doing the work!
Woah I always thought you looked so FAMILAR!!! SO FAMILIAR and I could NEVER place it. Heather, BIG HUGS& ALL THE LOVE.
It takes so much healing to be able to speak on these matters.
Heather so so much love. I had seen this Dr Phillips segment, you are UNRECOGNIZABLE TODAY.
The healing you have done and inner work shows, so much ! You are a powerful inspiration!!
I needed this Heather, thank you so much. I am crying right now..you gave me the hope I needed. I love you and I am truly so grateful that you are you❤
Thanks you so much,,,how divine it is,,, today I realized same thing your talking about,, and decide to heal myself and become parent for my inner child,,, thank you for sharing,,, I'm going through this process ❤
That is so inspiring and beautiful how much your relationship with her has healed. It gives me a lot of hope for my relationship with my own mother.
I just want express as well that it's okay if you can't heal the relationship with your caregivers or family members and that it is normal. I am completely estranged from my family.
I have a very abusive and toxic relationship with my mother and all times I've tried reaching out her abuse only continued and it affected my mental health. My father has never been present in my life because he is abusive to all life forms, a drug addict and always in and out of jail. I haven't been in contact with the rest of my family due to their negative energy and simply they have never made the effort to be apart of my life in a positive way, even when I have reached out. I have been sexually abused by family members as well which has caused greater distance. My family is very complex when it comes to trauma and mental health. I am accepting of this but sometimes it can get lonely.
Them not being apart of my life brings me great peace and the space to heal the ancestral trauma and break the cycle. I understand that I can change the lineage by healing myself, however I don't believe this is true for all. I've had to mourn the death of connections I never had but if I ever start a family that's when I'll get to experience the true meaning of blood family because I was the one who broke the cycle.
Ur absolutely right loves. I wish spiritual ppl wouldn’t speak in absolutes like that and just focus on their journey and express only how happy they are for themselves. They don’t need to tell ppl what to do if they feel truly healed. being happy for yourself and thriving is a good enough example is enough . every path is not the same and if she’s grown enough as a person and spiritually she should know that, instead of saying how ppl need to heal fully in the same manner she did. no one needs to do what she says, ppl need to do what they feel called to. when you grow you realize you don’t need to push ur journey on others. otherwise they come off as cult/organized religion Bible thumpers.
4:15 🤣😆 This was so good, thank you! For everyone reading this message, wishing all the love you need
Imagine you're like a family of plant seedlings all growing close together. Fighting for nutrition and space to grow. Then someone decides to transplant you and the other family members a distance apart. Over time you grow and spread your roots until they get in touch with with a family members roots. There is enough distance to share nutrients and be in contact and grow together 💕
Thank you for sharing and giving hope. 🙏. I I've with my dad who suffers with major depression, he's been to residential school, lost my mother and hecis stuck in his old programming. I am here on my spiritual awakening, praying for him everyday 🙏 I hope he can heal so we can have a better relationship
Omg conversating with my abusive father is night and day, esowcyaince I have healed myself from karmic wounds that affected me most of my life... Great to see that ur human and have crazy moments in ur life, sometimes we idealize others as "perfect" but we all have crazy journeys that we view through this life from different lens of personal perspective... Great video heather.... Another RUclipsr I watch keeps mentioning you so I decided to come and check the channel
Heather, I watched the Dr. Phil episode tonight and I send every one of you love for all the hardships you have endured. I relate and I think It's so beautiful how these events can bring people even closer together. I hope I'm not out of line by saying that I was bothered by the way Dr. Phil treated your mom on stage. I even left a nice comment on the video, opps. Please let her know that I am so proud of her and I saw her strength, will, love and determination from the minute she spoke on stage 💖 Bless you all and keep on shining 🌞
I just watched it. Thank you for sharing, it puts such a richer and clearer perspective on who you are. So crazy. There is and has been so much crazy and trauma in the world, previous generations and oh my god what has been with all the insanity around child sexual abuse, etc. We need serious spiritual warriors like you with medicine. May you continue to heal and strengthen and persevere in life. May you be infinitely and abundantly blessed to assist in the global awakening and healing of our planet and all of life and for us to move into peace and joy to co-create a life and reality that is truly beautiful and heavenly. You are wonderful.