How I Went From 4 Dates A Year To 4 Dates A Week (The Ultimate Success Hack)- Devon Brown

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I want to share a secret with you that can help you accomplish more of almost anything in your life. If you understand this Success Hack, reaching your goals will become so much easier.
Whether your goal is to have more dates, more sales, lose weight, or any other goal you can think of.
I discovered this life hack while trying to learn how to date, and I went from 4 dates a year to 4 dates a week!
I’m going to tell you how it transformed my dating life and ultimately my life… and how it can transform your life, too.
Let's jump right in.
The ultimate success hack to achieve any goal is to DETACH YOURSELF FROM THE OUTCOME. If you want to be successful, you must detach yourself from the outcome.
Wait, Devon, you’re saying to reach my goal, I have to detach myself from the very thing that I want? That doesn’t make any sense! Isn’t the desired outcome what drives me and pushes me forward?
No! The desired outcome gets you started, but it is NOT what drives you forward. In fact, the desired outcome (or the fear of not achieving it) is usually the biggest reason people fail.
I know this is hard to digest, which is why I am immediately following it with a real-life example of how this works.
How to Detach Yourself from the Outcome
The story of how I learned this life lesson begins at a diner with my buddy, Jason.
Jason was my real-life Hitch-you know, that Will Smith character that helped lovable losers get the girl of their dreams? I was that lovable loser and Jason was my unofficial dating coach.
We were getting something to eat before hitting the club, and the conversation steered to dating.
I said, “I don’t know how to date, Jason. Shit, I don’t even know how to GET a date!”
Let me give you some background on how much of a lovable loser I was. I was a sweet, smart kid who respected women and loved to dance (and was good at it!). But I wasn’t confident in how I looked because I was 6’2” and only 137 pounds. Seriously, I was so skinny that I had to run around in the shower just to get wet.
So, even though I was a confident guy on the dance floor, I was a gangly goof that froze every time I tried to talk to a pretty girl. I never had a date in high school and could count on one hand how many dates I’d had at this point in college.
Jason knew all of this about me, and he said, “Your problem is you’re so scared of getting rejected, of hearing ‘no,’ that you won’t even talk to a girl. You’re so scared of getting the outcome that you don’t want that you won’t take action in the first place.”
I sat there thinking about this for a while, realizing the truth in everything he said when he suggested a solution.
“Let’s play a game tonight, Devon. The person who says hi to the most girls wins $10.”
Our waitress walked up at that point, and I said, “Hi! You’re pretty, and I like your glasses!”
She thanked me, took our order, and went to the kitchen.
“Is that a point for me?!”
“Yes, that’s a point for you, Devon.”
The game continued over at the club, and before I knew it, I had 4 points racked up. I was already thinking about buying lunch the next day with my $10 when something amazing happened… a pretty girl said hi back to me and that hi was followed by a conversation!
We ended up talking and dancing the rest of the night. I didn’t get a chance to say hi to any other girl, so I didn’t leave with Jason’s $10 that night. But I did leave with a nice girl’s phone number!
I lost the bet, but I won big time, and not just because I got to go on a date with a great girl I never would’ve met otherwise. We didn’t even work out… but that’s not the point! That’s not why I won big time.
I won big time because... continue reading at DevonBrown.com/how-i-went-from-4-dates-a-year-to-4-dates-a-week
How I Went From 4 Dates A Year To 4 Dates A Week (The Ultimate Success Hack)- Devon Brown
How I Went From 4 Dates A Year To 4 Dates A Week (The Ultimate Success Hack)- Devon Brown

[@fgmedia2104]

It makes a lot of sense to me
I will apply it to my business
I will make the calls 📞

[@DevonBrownTV]

Yes!!

[@latricemcglothin]

This is a great and timely video for me. I am a new children’s book author, and I have been challenged to change my subtitle, and I was nearly paralyzed because I was so focused on the outcome. I am going to change my perspective and say thank you in advance.😊

[@DevonBrownTV]

Amazing! Let me know how it goes!

[@earnwithvik]

This is awesome !

[@DevonBrownTV]

Yay!