Koj ua qhov yog lawm! Zoo siab rau koj. We need to learn to love ourselves and put our happiness first, bc no one can give us that. The sooner the better. These hmong guys ain't sh*t.
Why did u wait sooooo long???? What if u get got std from him the first time?! Geez. Divorce n get child support so he can't go or do anything. Why stay n suffer?
Neeg laus sib xws nkaus lawm ces ib tug tsis need yuav qhuab qhia ib tug ua neej. Cia nyias mam li qhuab qhia nyias tus kheej ua neej nkaus xwb vim qhov no thiaj yuav kav ntev thiab tsis muaj qhov tub qaug ib tug twg.
Old tradition Hmong ladies like this lady still need approval from everyone all though she a full grown woman who can pay her own bills without her txiv dev and kwv tij.
if you respect hmong culture you need to. it needs to be official in court as well as in hmong culture because when you get married you did your wedding in both culture and court.
Tos txiv neej xa pojniam es txiv neej xa 1200 los vim yog lawv tsis yuav tus niam lawm ces lawv xa cov menyuam nrog rau tus pojniam es lawv thiaj li xa 1200 os pojniam xa txiv neej ces xa nws 1leeg xwb ces kawg 100 xwb tau lawm
Es puas yog koj tseem nyob nplog teb os? Yog tim koj xwb os... Koj tseem yuav tos ib xyoo dhau ib xyoo nawj... Cas yuav ruam ua luaj li ko os tus viv ncaus aw..
Txhob K tej tug txiv dev ko os....nws los taij nyiaj nej muab rau nws tab sis nws twb tsis noj nws tseem coj mus pub lwm tus noj xwb txhob quav ntsej muab nyiaj rau lawm. Nws ntse2 li cia nws kav tsij mus tuag tim nplog teb xwb ma. Tus txiv dev ko liam dhau lawm tsis zoo yuav ua txiv lawm os.
What do people like him do for a living to have so much time to go to Laos twice a year every year? My understanding is people like him are usually from CA, AR, OK (qab teb) where Hmong farm and grow illegal weeds so after a harvest, they get a lot of money and have a lot of time before the next planting so they go to Laos to party and tev nkauj mos ab ntawv like it's 1999. Wish I can be like them. You only live once and life is short and can't take $ with you. Enjoy it when you still can before you're too old or too sick.
Doesn't sound right but you're right. I know couples where the wife doesn't love the husband, the husband dies and left her with hundreds of thousands of dollars in life insurance and assets and you know what happens next? She dates and marries a new man. She'll bring her new man to live in your house, sleep in your bed, drive your car, use your money for their lavish vacations, etc. If you think about what will happen after you died, you don't want to love her.
Glad you sent him back. You don't need a man who can't be an asset in your marriage.
Sister you did the right things.proud of you
Koj ua qhov yog lawm! Zoo siab rau koj. We need to learn to love ourselves and put our happiness first, bc no one can give us that. The sooner the better. These hmong guys ain't sh*t.
You need a significant other that contributes not someone you got to support entirely. You deserve all the great things coming your way
Hai tau tu siab heev peb nrog koj tu siab kawg 😂😂😂😂
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob mas hais txog lwm yam ces yeej muaj tsawg thiab, yeej zoo thiab tab sis yog hais txog ua hluas mas muaj coob2 thiab muaj plus kawg li nawv. Hais rau poj niam hmoob yog tus txiv neej hmoob twg ua hluas ces kav tsij ua kom txaus nkaus ntas koj thiaj yog ib tus poj niam hmoob tshaj li nawv.
Koj mas keej tshaj plaws li os 😂
Sister you so strong 👏👏👏👏
Yog kawg li!
Kuv los nraug lig me ntsis thiab. Tiamsis zoo tshaj qhov nyob nrog nws.
You were NOT obligated to pay to send him back. I wouldn’t spend a penny.
Yog tug Txiv xas poj Niam ces yuav tsuv yog $1200 yog poj Niam xas tug Txiv $100 ces twb ntau heem lawm os laws.
Why did u wait sooooo long???? What if u get got std from him the first time?! Geez. Divorce n get child support so he can't go or do anything. Why stay n suffer?
I’m thinking the same thing.
Sister aw, tsis vim leej twg, nws vim koj ib leeg xwb, vim nyob ntiaj teb no nws thiaj yog ib tug txiv neej rau koj xwb
Tuag lau !!! Thaj kaus mas nras lau peb os!!!
Ua vaj Tswv tsaug koj xav tau tus dab phem lawm
Neeg laus sib xws nkaus lawm ces ib tug tsis need yuav qhuab qhia ib tug ua neej. Cia nyias mam li qhuab qhia nyias tus kheej ua neej nkaus xwb vim qhov no thiaj yuav kav ntev thiab tsis muaj qhov tub qaug ib tug twg.
Yog tshaj plaws yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb nawb mog
koj ua taus niam kawg li cas tsis ntxov ua ces twb ntxov kaj siab ntxov tau zoo lawm ov mog,
Yog kawg. Koj mas tshaj lij kawg.
Yog tshaj plwg li mi viv n aww 😂😂😂😂
Zoo tshaj plaws ua koj ua tau niam lawm os tsis muaj txiv yuav los yeej tsis tuag nawb
Cov txiv dev zoo li no los muaj thiab
😅😅😅😅😅
Zoo kawg, thov qhuas koj, yog ua tau mas muab xa mus kom txog poj txog yawm mas haj yam zoo
Ohyo. Poob peev loj tiag2 lau npawg. Kav liam os, you deserve it.
This day and age, do you still go to Kwv tij to decide or sort out your life for you? 🤦♀️
Old tradition Hmong ladies like this lady still need approval from everyone all though she a full grown woman who can pay her own bills without her txiv dev and kwv tij.
if you respect hmong culture you need to. it needs to be official in court as well as in hmong culture because when you get married you did your wedding in both culture and court.
Tus neeg zoo ces coj li tus muam no. Tsis sib haum yog nkawd 2 leeg xwb tab sis nkawd 2 cuab neeg tseem yuav ua tshoob ua kos mus ntxiv. Koj ua yog lawm, thov qhuas koj..
@@hmooblor1I respect Hmong culture, but the answer is always to be patient. That’s wrong.
@ im referring to the divorcing part. The lady in the story used $100 to send her husband to his relative is correct and respectful way.
Thov qhuas koj os sister. You don’t need this loser in your life. Love and find happiness for yourself. You deserve more.
Pab koj khuv xim koj 100 dollar xa koj tus txiv.
Yog kuv tus no ces kuv tsis nkim kuv ib lub npib liab os vivncaus.
Zaj dab neeg no Hai tau tu tshaj plwg li o mi viv n 😂😂😂😂
No tsi tu os
Tuag twb tsis xav mus ua ib puwg av cia li yaj li lub lwg luwm xwb os mog😂
Tos txiv neej xa pojniam es txiv neej xa 1200 los vim yog lawv tsis yuav tus niam lawm ces lawv xa cov menyuam nrog rau tus pojniam es lawv thiaj li xa 1200 os pojniam xa txiv neej ces xa nws 1leeg xwb ces kawg 100 xwb tau lawm
The lady clap back after she divorced her txiv dev. 👏🏼 Blasted him about making her hair white and stressed only! Lol 😅 💀
Another txiv dev story. 😭💔
Lol.
Cov neeg zoo li thaub ko ces kuv pab koj khuv xim tias koj xa nws lig zog lm os yog kuv mas peb tag kis xwb twb mag kuv xa lm os tus muam aw
Ab lawv os lawv twb yog koj tseem khib3 koj tus txiv es koj thiaj li haid li ntawd xwb os ua peb cov pog los yog laus li peb na 63 xyoos lawm lawm los peb haj tseem nruj nreem thiab tseem zoo2 nkauj kawg thiab tsis tau ntsws ib pawg thiab nawb txhob lam hais peb cov laus tsis zoo nawb peb tseem haib tseem nruj nreem tseem zoo2 nkauj thiab no nawb
If a man like this man kept doing the shat he kept doing is becus u keep allowing it to happen by staying with him and supporting his habits.
Es puas yog koj tseem nyob nplog teb os? Yog tim koj xwb os... Koj tseem yuav tos ib xyoo dhau ib xyoo nawj... Cas yuav ruam ua luaj li ko os tus viv ncaus aw..
True definition of a good and strong Hmong woman. Hlub koj is tais.
These stories r depressing
Lawm qhuas koj tau nyob xwb os.
Niag poj Hmoob ruam
Txhob K tej tug txiv dev ko os....nws los taij nyiaj nej muab rau nws tab sis nws twb tsis noj nws tseem coj mus pub lwm tus noj xwb txhob quav ntsej muab nyiaj rau lawm. Nws ntse2 li cia nws kav tsij mus tuag tim nplog teb xwb ma. Tus txiv dev ko liam dhau lawm tsis zoo yuav ua txiv lawm os.
Stopped complaining and giving advices when you allowed your txiv dev Liam to cheated you so long?
What do people like him do for a living to have so much time to go to Laos twice a year every year? My understanding is people like him are usually from CA, AR, OK (qab teb) where Hmong farm and grow illegal weeds so after a harvest, they get a lot of money and have a lot of time before the next planting so they go to Laos to party and tev nkauj mos ab ntawv like it's 1999. Wish I can be like them. You only live once and life is short and can't take $ with you. Enjoy it when you still can before you're too old or too sick.
Koj tus txiv ntse tshaj, tus tuag uas tseg tau nyiaj insurance ruam tshaj.
Lol 😂😅
Doesn't sound right but you're right. I know couples where the wife doesn't love the husband, the husband dies and left her with hundreds of thousands of dollars in life insurance and assets and you know what happens next? She dates and marries a new man. She'll bring her new man to live in your house, sleep in your bed, drive your car, use your money for their lavish vacations, etc. If you think about what will happen after you died, you don't want to love her.
This guy is one of those people who makes 25k a year but get 15k when they do their tax. 😢 Lucky... I pay back each year.