One of my favorite takeaways from this clip is understanding that there will most likely than not be a characteristic in someone that you have a hard time co-inhabiting with. But being able to understand and work with their differences turns "tolerating" into "respecting." It's all about team work! There is always time to articulate your feelings in a respectful manner!
You shouldn't try to change someone's core personality, but I think it's admirable for both parties to look at their habits and irritations and be able to make small concessions towards a easier life together.
I always felt that sometimes the people we know for a long time, tend to either change for the better or for the worse. However sometimes this can be conceptualised when it is other people who change them, I've noticed that people who were in relationships - either tend to get worse than what they already are - this is through personal experiences - is the effect that is being rubbed on others therefore they say you are the sum of 5 people. I've stop changing people, because a leopard can't change its spots, is no point telling them their bad behaviour because is ingrown in them - while they can continue to be unaware and how they mess things up - theres only so much one can do. The rest is up to them. But thank you for this, change cannot happen overnight but it can happen gradually. But is no point changing people, cause sometimes is their trauma that makes them who they're right now and not everyone has the desire to seek help.
On a 3 week solo trip, the clutter, dishes, cooking got me down. It will be there when I get back, I will be different upon return and an attitude of gratitude. There’s no place like home. I am enjoying just taking care of me!!! Perspective.
Growth. Change. They happen. People transform themselves on their own terms. Accepting a person "as they are in this present moment" is vital to a peaceful cohabitation. Each individual has his or her own characteristics. Harmony can only exist if that fact is respected. Take time to talk. Make time to discuss things and resolve things in a mature way.
I prefer making the distinction between changing people and changing habits. People can’t be changed such as how they process their thoughts but habits can be changed like lifestyle and life routines. We shouldn’t use ‘I can’t change’ as an excuse for our bad habits.
People have different habits ... we have to be respectful to other people ... in my household I tidy up everything ... occasionally I tell my husband and kids to tidy their stuff ... when I see they are in a hurry and not doing it I do it instead of nagging about it. To me it’s really silly to nag and fight with your loved ones for simple things.
Eh, sounds like they aren’t respectful to you. You just don’t want to rock the boat. Your kids should especially be taught to be responsible and put their things away. Otherwise they’ll also grow up and expect t their partners to clean up after them.
I don’t think they are being disrespectful to me. I love tidying up everything. So I don’t mind tidying up their stuff. When kids grow older eventually they learn to manage their own stuff. My daughter is now in college. Now she is doing everything by herself and learning to take care of her stuff. My son will be going to college next year. I know he will also be independent and responsible.
But people change by time. So your husband (or wife) is not the same person than 10 years ago. Thus can be challaging, when people don't grow into the same direction. And I guess not tydiing up ist no reason to get divorced ;)
One of my favorite takeaways from this clip is understanding that there will most likely than not be a characteristic in someone that you have a hard time co-inhabiting with. But being able to understand and work with their differences turns "tolerating" into "respecting." It's all about team work! There is always time to articulate your feelings in a respectful manner!
You shouldn't try to change someone's core personality, but I think it's admirable for both parties to look at their habits and irritations and be able to make small concessions towards a easier life together.
The elevator story was funny 😂
I always felt that sometimes the people we know for a long time, tend to either change for the better or for the worse.
However sometimes this can be conceptualised when it is other people who change them, I've noticed that people who were in relationships - either tend to get worse than what they already are - this is through personal experiences - is the effect that is being rubbed on others therefore they say you are the sum of 5 people.
I've stop changing people, because a leopard can't change its spots, is no point telling them their bad behaviour because is ingrown in them - while they can continue to be unaware and how they mess things up - theres only so much one can do. The rest is up to them. But thank you for this, change cannot happen overnight but it can happen gradually. But is no point changing people, cause sometimes is their trauma that makes them who they're right now and not everyone has the desire to seek help.
On a 3 week solo trip, the clutter, dishes, cooking got me down.
It will be there when I get back, I will be different upon return and an attitude of gratitude. There’s no place like home.
I am enjoying just taking care of me!!!
Perspective.
When there is rain look for rainbows, when there is darkness look for stars
Growth. Change. They happen. People transform themselves on their own terms. Accepting a person "as they are in this present moment" is vital to a peaceful cohabitation. Each individual has his or her own characteristics. Harmony can only exist if that fact is respected. Take time to talk. Make time to discuss things and resolve things in a mature way.
I prefer making the distinction between changing people and changing habits. People can’t be changed such as how they process their thoughts but habits can be changed like lifestyle and life routines. We shouldn’t use ‘I can’t change’ as an excuse for our bad habits.
100% this
I literally had a fight with my boyfriend yesterday about him being so messy 😂😂😂
People have different habits ... we have to be respectful to other people ... in my household I tidy up everything ... occasionally I tell my husband and kids to tidy their stuff ... when I see they are in a hurry and not doing it I do it instead of nagging about it. To me it’s really silly to nag and fight with your loved ones for simple things.
Eh, sounds like they aren’t respectful to you. You just don’t want to rock the boat. Your kids should especially be taught to be responsible and put their things away. Otherwise they’ll also grow up and expect t their partners to clean up after them.
I don’t think they are being disrespectful to me. I love tidying up everything. So I don’t mind tidying up their stuff. When kids grow older eventually they learn to manage their own stuff. My daughter is now in college. Now she is doing everything by herself and learning to take care of her stuff. My son will be going to college next year. I know he will also be independent and responsible.
But people change by time. So your husband (or wife) is not the same person than 10 years ago. Thus can be challaging, when people don't grow into the same direction. And I guess not tydiing up ist no reason to get divorced ;)
People don’t change
What about having separate sink? Seriously. Sometimes people need their own sinks. :)
LOVVE YOUR VIDEO!!!!!!!
Where can I get that "I like weird sh*t" shirt from? I want to get it for my husband lol