What a sweet girl .I don't think I can ever dumped my baby in a trash can ,I'd rather give her up if I can't afford to keep my child .Children are such an innocent soul ,bless day to all reading this
This is one of my favorite videos! As a recovering addict myself, it is very painful to watch what Brenda went through. I am also a Mother, so I can definitely understand where Lisa's adoptive parents/guardians were coming from too. It made sense to me that the Mother was more defensive toward Brenda (Lisa's bio Mom) in the beginning, knowing the circumstances...but I'm glad that Brenda shared her truths with her, and that the husband tried to have a more sensitive approach to Lisa's involvement with Brenda. Children should have the right to meet & have a relationship with their biological parents, so as long as by doing so, they aren't being placed in any danger. Here you can see that despite Brenda's troubled history, she had fought hard against her past demons of addiction & worked toward her goals, so that she could become the best Mom she could be for her little girl. I wish more people would stop judging addicts in recovery. Like Luis says at the end of this video, you really have no idea how it is for someone else, unless you've been in their shoes. Brenda didn't just have addiction issues, she also had poverty, lack of proper upbringing/supervision, sexual assault, & many negative influences along the way. But she got her act together & achieved/maintained her sobriety for her child's sake. I'm sure she wants a better life for her daughter than she had. Please, if you're reading this...if you have someone in your life, especially a family member, who is struggling with addiction, don't give up on them & never lose hope. Recovery is possible! Even for those who have been abusing substances for years. I've seen some of the worst addicts get clean. Miracles do happen. If you're not sure how to help an addict, just love them, listen when they want to talk, support them & offer to help them find programs of recovery, whether inpatient detox/rehab, meetings, or otherwise. Sometimes just knowing people care can make a world of difference. Or if an addict is reading this, know that you are not alone & people do care. Help is available when you seek it.
Of course children should get to know their biological parents, regardless of what the parents did. Afterwards, depending on how people behave, a close relationship can be maintained or not.
My mom raised me and my sister alone because my jerk dad left her when I was 3 and all of the relatives told her to leave either me or my sister but she didn’t wanted us to separate and she never left me or my sister and did a lot of hard work and I can’t thank her enough for what she did for me and my sis
@@MCWalter126 circumstances???I know plenty of people who have had it worse then her and didn't do drugs or throw their child in a dumpster. You have to be a mother for your child, not when it is convenient for you. Also I know pieces of garbage that should have never had kids but did and then chose to abuse them and remind them that they lost a good job because of them. It's not the past that determines our future, it's the actions you make that decides whether or not you're a piece of trash.
Yes folks deserve second chances but the reality is that brenda would never get lisa back in real life. Lisa has been raised with the other family all her life. Visitation possibly. Remember the courts usually side for whatevers best for the child.
Ha. How does she deserve a second chance? Dumping a baby and killing her? What type of a HELL SHE IS? She’s a piece of trash can! Y’all saying the suspect deserves another chance? Y’all think that the world’s worst killer deserves another chance? Wrong. They never get another chance and get executed for the wrong things!
Actually thats not exactly how the courts work these days. If the biological parent does turn their life around they indeed can get their child back. Ik because my mom is a foster mom. They dont always rule whats best for the kids. There's a sibling set that they almost gave back to an abusive home just cuz the moms boyfriend was taking classes to get his daughter back. Luckily, the kids are still in foster care but they still might go back. System isnt always fair and isnt always against it either
@@keeganbayer8877 You should take in mind that Brenda wasn't in the right mind, and a child and on drugs. I get what she did was pretty bad, but she was also raped so you should take that into account, getting raped as a child is horrible especially with no parents? Thats horrible and i get dumping it into a dumpster isn't the best way but she knew she couldn't take care of lisa, and new people found her and now lisa is fine.
Definitely does not deserve a second chance, you can't dump a baby, decide you want them back and unsettle them like that, the kid has her parents and that woman is not one of them. You cant play with a childs life like that, for your own benefit.
@@amburrelizabeth1572 That's why you have to do stuff to earn that 2nd chance. Change in always possible, but sometimes it is so unlikely that people say that it's impossible. She didn't just ask to have her kid back without changing. She actually did stuff in order to earn a 2nd chance.
@@amburrelizabeth1572 Maybe Brenda can start with supervised visits, get into some counseling. A child has the right to know who their birth parents are if they go into foster care.
I was raped at 15 on the way back from school. My rapist told me to keep my mouth shut so that same day when I went home I couldn't keep it in any longer. The next day I took a pregnancy test finding out I was pregnant. Thanks to lord my parents accepted me and supported me through my whole pregnancy. Here I am 17 years old with my baby Lena and Lena's loving dad :)
So, the theme was teenage pregnancy when you abandon your child you will have a sense of burning for what you have done and would want to fix what you have done
The parents are very kind. They shouldn’t have even allowed the girl to visit the kid. What kind of a person throws a baby in the trash bin?! If the girl had given the baby to an adoption Center then it would be reasonable for the girl to visit her child but by throwing the child in the trash can?! Hell no she doesn’t deserve that privilege
What an excuse. Everybody goes through tough times in life. And does that mean if you are going through something means you kill people? What is wrong with you? The 9/11 bombers had bad times in life, you see those shooters on the news who went through bad times! They took their anger out on innocent people! In no heaven way I would forgive a wanted fugitive killer!
@@keeganbayer8877 to be honest she had no parent to advise her and she was rape while doing drug so bro life is different for her as it is for u if it was u in her shoes if u r a girl u would have done the same thing or even worse she was practically poor
@@keeganbayer8877 no she doesn’t she was raped and didn’t want the baby and was on drugs at a very young age it’s not all her fault and doesn’t deserve life in jail
She’s not though. Just because she carried and gave birth to her doesn’t not make her her real mother. A real mother wouldn’t throw her child in a dumpster. She terminated her parental rights when she gave up her baby. She may be the bio mom but she is not the girls real mom. The adoptive mom is her real mom.
I have an idea for a part 2 to this episode. Brenda's own mother searches for her and finally finds her and asks for forgiveness for not being a mother to her when she needed her
@UC7suZAc5Vhug6fksd0RNf5A people get rid of their children when they are in these situations that they dont have enough money to take care of them but this a cruel way to do it.
@@briiyonaa Reflecting your flaws and accepting you can portray any role besides just being perfect and goody-two shoes. I think he is pretty mature for that and not just reflecting himself as the perfect goody-two-shoes guy like Dhar Mann mostly does.
@@adomsarpong6696 Think about it. If you were raped,homelesss, no parents, no money, a teenager, hooked on drugs, and a teenager. Your saying you would keep the baby? Idk what I would do in this moment.
Alot of teens want to skin their legs for man and can't take care of a baby. There's a thing called protection if they don't wanna have kids when they skin their legs
Uhm... did you not watch the whole thing? She said she was RAPED (she literally says it clear for you at 7:50). Do you think rapists will use condoms or worry about their victim getting pregnant?! Cuz the last time I checked they didn't and women who are vulnerable in a situation like that have ZERO control.
Also, it's not just women. There are far too many "men" who just can't keep it in their pants. So the next time you point your fingers, check people in your own gender. Another thing I want to mention.. just because you are under the male category doesn't automatically make you a man. Cuz there are so many idiotic ppl who are worse than little boys. Ok? Ok.
@@babygirl_ox8540 a child’s invirinmite shapes who they become as adults your parents are essential to teaching u right from wrong she didn’t have and parents no support system no one to show her what she was doing was wrong and she got raped she had no money no family nobody to help her you can do anything when your backs against the wall and there’s nothing else and she wasn’t thinking straight it doesn’t make what she did okay but it does help u understand just what and why led her to doing that
What I like is that this is actually a pretty morally complex and difficult situation. On both sides. The biological mom went through horrible things and wasn't in her right mind at the time. Years later, after she's well, she suffers from the pain of what she did. meanwhile, Its also not just a story about the Mom her took her in, just being unreasonably petty and ignorant. She has her own moral dilemma, being that what happened to her daughter isn't exactly such an easy thing to forgive. But in the end, people do deserve a second chance. especially if they really, really regret the decisions they made.
I will admit I was like the adoptive mother when I first watched this video so angry that for one she wanted drugs while she was pregnant with her child, two beyond surprised and happy that even the drug dealers had more common sense than that, three she dumped the baby into a dumpster when there were so many programs out there that she could have taken her. I also went into this thinking she was probably raped which is not okay and poor girl. But once I heard her story and that she was sober for so long I thought back to my own situation like this when I was abandoned by my own mother and yet I still loved her very much even now I do and I'm so happy to have been a part of her life. She also later on had my brother when she was clean and sober and she has been such a good mom to him and I thought that was so incredible so in the end when I heard her story even though I thought it was still wrong and could have gone a different way I realized sometimes we don't really know for sure if it could have. Maybe she did try giving her up somewhere else or maybe she tried aborting it and turned to drugs to not only dull the pain but also to just end this life from her abuser growing inside of her herself. I'm not saying it's still right but I was happy to be reminded of the old sang "You never know a person unless you walk a mile in their shoes." In this case I have walked a mile in her shoes I was that little girl Lisa and yet I still turned out to be a strong as hell and maybe a decent person to boot. It takes a lot more strength to be the bigger person than it does the opposite. Thank you for reminding me of this Luis. Thank you so much.
Not all,Think of the man who murdered George Floyd.Think of the murderers out in the world who have killed MANY people. Think of the people who killed celebrities like XXXTENTACION
@@km10023 King David commited adultery and murder, and God forgave him. Saul of Tarsus persecuted and murdered Christians before he converted, and Jesus chose him to be a messenger to the Gentiles. The criminal on the cross beside Jesus probably committed murder, because if he had been a thief, he would not have been crucified.
So this is a tough one for me. I completely believe in giving people second chances as I am a recovery addict as well as my husband and we’re both going on 10 years clean and sober! We both absolutely made stupid decisions while we were high but I can’t get over the idea of Brenda putting her baby in the dumpster! I understand her being scared and not in her right mind and adding the fact that she conceived due to rape is horrible, but there’s so many options available for unwanted babies including literally dropping them off at hospitals, fire depts, etc.. no questions asked. The reason I can’t wrap my head around this is because that baby could have been killed had someone not found it. Also I can understand where the “mom” was coming from because my parents went through a similar situation with my cousin who gave birth while in prison for drugs. They raised the newborn and her 4 year old daughter for almost a year until she was released, she got out took the girls and ended up giving the baby away to someone else after my parents begged her to sign over custody to them! Now no I’m not at all comparing the situation but that couple raised Lisa and that was their daughter, and mom was not only angry at Brenda for abandoning lisa but also afraid of losing her to Brenda after raising her for 7 years. But I understand Brendas story to because we all make mistakes especially while suffering from addiction, she fought her addiction to become a better person and be a part of her child’s life which is one of the hardest things to do. It’s definitely one that touched me deeply🥺
So a young girl living on the streets probably wouldn't know that which is why it actually makes sense. I don't condone it at all, but you'd be surprised how many people even adults don't know the resources and options they can use.
Not every girl/woman would be willing to have a relationship with their child if they were conceived from rape. It's a painful reminder of what happened to them, especially if the child strongly resembles the attacker
@@laveniacleaver9530 then u don’t deserve a second chance. I get sometimes second chances aren’t possible but to not believe in second chances ENTIRELY. You don’t deserve no second chance
@@gamercentral2417 what that lady did to her child is sick, disgusting, and wrong; if she didn't want her child, she could've taken her to adoption agency and put her up for adoption instead of throwing her in the trash!!
@@gamercentral2417 reason i don't believe in 2nd chances is because my ex boyfriend cheated on me and he begged me for 2nd chance; i didn't give it to him; what he did was unforgivable. i don't care and i don't give a fuck on what happens to him; if he gets hit by a car or gets in car wreck and ends up with whiplash or whatever, i wouldn't visit him at a hospital, and i wouldn't help him recover from his injuries.
Hi Luis, another true reality story that happens to addicts at a young age helpless and are left behind and I feel sorry for those affected women. I enjoyed this episode. Keep up the good and meaningful work, it's worth every penny. My brother many blessings to you and your team. :-)
I've dealt with trying to help those addicted to drugs. My sister's husband's sister and mother. We have tried over and over and forgave them repeatedly but it just gave them an excuse to walk all over us. The ones that want to change will and those who just want to continue doing drugs will never change no matter how much you help them. It may be sad but you can't help them all if they don't want to do it themselves.
I think the adoptive mother has a right to not let her kid see some random women! Giving birth don't make you a mom, love does! the adoptive mother gave that
True but at the same time, the birth mom was a raped, helpless teenager girl who grew up on drugs and without parents. She did not know any better. Of course, any one with common sense wouldn't do drugs while pregnant and won't leave a baby in a trashcan but again, she was a teenage with no love or guidance. Besides, the adoptive mother said that Brenda calls a lot to see her child, meaning Brenda has TRIED to better herself and actually WANTS to be apart of her daughter's life, unlike most who would sell their newborns for more drugs
The mother doesn't deserve to have custody of the child at this point. She dumped her in a trashcan basically terminating her parental rights and the other 2 raised the girl as their own. I get people go through things and some can't handle the trauma but I've known someone who was in a teen home basically. She got raped in 8th grade and she was a great mother. So there's no excuse for doing drugs and being a horrendous human being ever.
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Sometimes we have to give ourselves a second chance, I know what that teenage mom did to the baby was extremely unacceptable, but we have to show that in our hearts we can be forgiving
@@adomsarpong6696 ugh, because she had no wonder else to leave her?? She was scared??? If she kept her, her baby could have gotten killed, sick and died or even stolen from her and raped as well???
Isaiah James: Joe South recorded a song in the 1970s about walking in someones shoes before judging them. It's called Walk a mile in my ashoes. listen to that song(particularly the first verse and the chorus) it says it a lot better than you or I or Anybody else ever coild.
I love how it was stated that Brenda had a bad childhood, no parents, no love or guidance and she was raped and on drugs since a young age because she was with the wrong people and those obviously affected her mind state when she abandoned Lisa in the trash can, and yet almost EVERYONE here is calling her a monster, a horrible mother and that the adoptive mother has every right to deny her to see her child. Tell me something, since when is it okay to start shaming raped women that they can't give up their babies but it's okay for teenage girls or women to get pregnant and then throw the child out like garbage whenever they can go keep a fit body?? Hm?? Look, I agree, no woman should abandon a child in a trashcan, EVER. But I'm not gonna call her a monster and a terrible human being just because she couldn't find help. Yes, she should have gone to the hospital or police station but it's possible she might have gotten caught and arrested and would have lost her baby anyways. Be happy that she didn't kill her baby, or sell it for more drugs like most drug addicts or people. And at least she TRIED to get clean and actually TRIED to see her daughter, unlike most who wouldn't give a rat's a$$
Do People Deserve 2nd Chances????
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Yes and hi
It depends what situation
Yes and also hi
Yes! I love your videos!
Depends on what they did.
What a sweet girl .I don't think I can ever dumped my baby in a trash can ,I'd rather give her up if I can't afford to keep my child .Children are such an innocent soul ,bless day to all reading this
Amen
Amem amen.
Amen
youre so nice
Amen
ngl, the ending did in fact shock me
Evil!
Bro why are you are all over the place😂
How are you here everywhere are you the devil?
You didn’t even finish the video
Fax
This is one of my favorite videos! As a recovering addict myself, it is very painful to watch what Brenda went through. I am also a Mother, so I can definitely understand where Lisa's adoptive parents/guardians were coming from too. It made sense to me that the Mother was more defensive toward Brenda (Lisa's bio Mom) in the beginning, knowing the circumstances...but I'm glad that Brenda shared her truths with her, and that the husband tried to have a more sensitive approach to Lisa's involvement with Brenda. Children should have the right to meet & have a relationship with their biological parents, so as long as by doing so, they aren't being placed in any danger. Here you can see that despite Brenda's troubled history, she had fought hard against her past demons of addiction & worked toward her goals, so that she could become the best Mom she could be for her little girl. I wish more people would stop judging addicts in recovery. Like Luis says at the end of this video, you really have no idea how it is for someone else, unless you've been in their shoes. Brenda didn't just have addiction issues, she also had poverty, lack of proper upbringing/supervision, sexual assault, & many negative influences along the way. But she got her act together & achieved/maintained her sobriety for her child's sake. I'm sure she wants a better life for her daughter than she had. Please, if you're reading this...if you have someone in your life, especially a family member, who is struggling with addiction, don't give up on them & never lose hope. Recovery is possible! Even for those who have been abusing substances for years. I've seen some of the worst addicts get clean. Miracles do happen. If you're not sure how to help an addict, just love them, listen when they want to talk, support them & offer to help them find programs of recovery, whether inpatient detox/rehab, meetings, or otherwise. Sometimes just knowing people care can make a world of difference. Or if an addict is reading this, know that you are not alone & people do care. Help is available when you seek it.
Lovely speech
Your a addict to what
Of course children should get to know their biological parents, regardless of what the parents did. Afterwards, depending on how people behave, a close relationship can be maintained or not.
Thank you for sharing.
The good ending of Tuapac- Brenda’s got a baby
I feel bad for babies that have a terrible past but they can have a nice future
“You may not have had a happy start but you decide who you become” Kung fu panda 2
Some people deserve second chances but some don't for what they've been doing
I had a bad past but im doing great, you see i was abandoned by my mom
Stop copying dharman already Luis make your own videos this guy makes dharman looks like a genius
@@jimmyb7479 thats rude
I feel bad for Brenda’s childhood.
Me too
2pac
There's going to be a idoit saying OMG ITS FAKE
AM NOT THAT TYPE
OMG ITS FAKE
I known a bunch of people who've had that kind of childhood. It's not the past that defines you. It's the actions you take in the future.
My mom raised me and my sister alone because my jerk dad left her when I was 3 and all of the relatives told her to leave either me or my sister but she didn’t wanted us to separate and she never left me or my sister and did a lot of hard work and I can’t thank her enough for what she did for me and my sis
My grandma Raised 6 children
Alone
@@polishalastor142my great grandma raised 7 but my great grandpa was with her but hats off to your grandma
Oh mah Gaauuuwwwd
@@polishalastor142 same for my grandma but it’s 4 instead
@@polishalastor142 mine did 7 but her mom did 10
It’s a really sad story that she had to dump her child 😞
Tbh I didn’t expect her to actually try to throw the LIVING BABY away 😭
If I were to adopt Lisa, I would never let her birth mom see her at all
@@laveniacleaver9530 why?
@@MCWalter126 because she dumped her baby. At this point she doesn't deserve to have any kids let alone that baby back.
@@sarahkolakowski2012 well never judge the circumstances behind it all
@@MCWalter126 circumstances???I know plenty of people who have had it worse then her and didn't do drugs or throw their child in a dumpster. You have to be a mother for your child, not when it is convenient for you. Also I know pieces of garbage that should have never had kids but did and then chose to abuse them and remind them that they lost a good job because of them. It's not the past that determines our future, it's the actions you make that decides whether or not you're a piece of trash.
You should never judge somebody before walking in their shoes
-Dhar Mann
He wasn't the one who originally said that but okay
Why did you right darh man at the end
Is it one of his message s
PLS NOT HIM LIKING THE COMMENT😭😭
We're not just telling stories. We're changing lives
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Yes folks deserve second chances but the reality is that brenda would never get lisa back in real life. Lisa has been raised with the other family all her life. Visitation possibly. Remember the courts usually side for whatevers best for the child.
Yup. Black girl blew it
Ha. How does she deserve a second chance? Dumping a baby and killing her? What type of a HELL SHE IS? She’s a piece of trash can! Y’all saying the suspect deserves another chance? Y’all think that the world’s worst killer deserves another chance? Wrong. They never get another chance and get executed for the wrong things!
Actually thats not exactly how the courts work these days. If the biological parent does turn their life around they indeed can get their child back. Ik because my mom is a foster mom. They dont always rule whats best for the kids. There's a sibling set that they almost gave back to an abusive home just cuz the moms boyfriend was taking classes to get his daughter back. Luckily, the kids are still in foster care but they still might go back. System isnt always fair and isnt always against it either
@@imanibell98 they raised her for 7 years. She wouldn't want to leave anyway.
@@keeganbayer8877 You should take in mind that Brenda wasn't in the right mind, and a child and on drugs. I get what she did was pretty bad, but she was also raped so you should take that into account, getting raped as a child is horrible especially with no parents? Thats horrible and i get dumping it into a dumpster isn't the best way but she knew she couldn't take care of lisa, and new people found her and now lisa is fine.
Yeah everyone deserve a second chance. Our past shouldn’t be defined.
Well I some cases yes in some no
Definitely does not deserve a second chance, you can't dump a baby, decide you want them back and unsettle them like that, the kid has her parents and that woman is not one of them. You cant play with a childs life like that, for your own benefit.
@@amburrelizabeth1572 facts
@@amburrelizabeth1572 That's why you have to do stuff to earn that 2nd chance. Change in always possible, but sometimes it is so unlikely that people say that it's impossible. She didn't just ask to have her kid back without changing. She actually did stuff in order to earn a 2nd chance.
@@amburrelizabeth1572 Maybe Brenda can start with supervised visits, get into some counseling. A child has the right to know who their birth parents are if they go into foster care.
Luis' channel is like, the more real-life Dhar Mann, and the endings do actual shock you and you don't expect it like in Dhar's vids
Luis is just a rip off
yeah luis is knock off that’s why I didn’t subscribe
@@rainbowwolf4116 No he’s not he works hard to create good content for us.
Luis and dharr man post content like this and there both amazing so don’t hate on any of there channels
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I was raped at 15 on the way back from school. My rapist told me to keep my mouth shut so that same day when I went home I couldn't keep it in any longer. The next day I took a pregnancy test finding out I was pregnant. Thanks to lord my parents accepted me and supported me through my whole pregnancy. Here I am 17 years old with my baby Lena and Lena's loving dad :)
Oh my god. I'm so sorry you got raped. At least your parents supported you, and I hope karma caught up to that motherfucking rapist.
😱 did you report it? You didn’t deserve that, the rape, not your beautiful child.
Has the rapist found out that they have a daughter?... All the best to you and Lena!
A moment for thoes who think its a real baby🤣😂
Plot twist: its a play doll🤣😂🤣🤣🇬🇾
You're from Guyana ?
that’s was no doll it’s was blankets in the shirt and in the trash 🤣
@@aneisa9666 yes I'm
😂😂😂😂😂 it's thrue
Ohhh...Hell naww 😂😂
Luis actually is once again a bad guy
Looool
@@aminaov098 actually, he has been a couple of times
@@aluisfar4154 i know that
Who did he play this time ?
@@MysteriousGirl10 He played the drug dealer.
So, the theme was teenage pregnancy when you abandon your child you will have a sense of burning for what you have done and would want to fix what you have done
The parents are very kind. They shouldn’t have even allowed the girl to visit the kid. What kind of a person throws a baby in the trash bin?! If the girl had given the baby to an adoption Center then it would be reasonable for the girl to visit her child but by throwing the child in the trash can?! Hell no she doesn’t deserve that privilege
Darn the teen, I will admit her story is really bad. But she can’t just drop back into her life-
Life lesson: never leave your baby alone.
This lesson is don't chose drugs over being a parent
@@nevaehharris9562 bro wht
I feel so bad for you mh
@@nevaehharris9562 I accidentally typed mh
Speaking of second chances, people aren’t defined by their past, they can change for the better.
Bro u got that from Dhar Mann we are Luis fans not Dhar mann
@@HyperActive-nr2lf I’m still a dhar Mann fan and a Luis fan I watch dhar Mann mostly though
Actually People have probably been saying it long before Dhar Mann
@Hocus Focus Gaming yeah right
Sometimes people don't change at all
I read it as “teenager dumps pregnant baby in trash, end is shocking” and I didn’t even question it until I watched the whole entire video PLS HELP
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6:18 She is apparently cooking but the ladle comes out completely clean
Can u do a pt 2 when Lisa finds out she’s her mom?
That would be awesome!
I can’t wait until he hits 1M like he’s so close!keep it up man!
Mabye keep up with your panda profile eat bamboo all day
Lamar Davis bruh what did she do?
He is not close at all
? wel he is halfway there🙄
@@valeria-ry8ty wydm?
Both the moms were right on their places before knowing the truth (my opinion, no offence on anyone)
What an excuse. Everybody goes through tough times in life. And does that mean if you are going through something means you kill people? What is wrong with you? The 9/11 bombers had bad times in life, you see those shooters on the news who went through bad times! They took their anger out on innocent people! In no heaven way I would forgive a wanted fugitive killer!
@@keeganbayer8877 uh I'm sorry but this had nothing with killing.it was abt dumping her so I would request u to calm down no offense im just saying
@@keeganbayer8877 man ur like a twitter user. You bring up claims nobody even bought up, then crank it to the extreme. Nobody said shit about 9/11
Stop bringing 9/11 into the I hate people like you always bringing terrible invest into stuff that has nothing to do with it
@@keeganbayer8877 to be honest she had no parent to advise her and she was rape while doing drug so bro life is different for her as it is for u if it was u in her shoes if u r a girl u would have done the same thing or even worse she was practically poor
This is so sad i will never dump a baby in a dumpster
I know right! That lady who dumped her innocent infant in the dumpster deserves life in JAIL!
why not
@@keeganbayer8877 no she doesn’t she was raped and didn’t want the baby and was on drugs at a very young age it’s not all her fault and doesn’t deserve life in jail
@@ardalrex wdym why not
@@sifojazz dumping a fucking baby is one of the most or possibly the most inhumane thing you can do.
I feel like when Lisa asked for Brendas name she should have said “I am your real mother”
Yhhh, ikr! That’s what I was thinking! x
She’s not though. Just because she carried and gave birth to her doesn’t not make her her real mother. A real mother wouldn’t throw her child in a dumpster. She terminated her parental rights when she gave up her baby. She may be the bio mom but she is not the girls real mom. The adoptive mom is her real mom.
@@sunflowers293 well said!!
People make mistakes but biology is biology
I have an idea for a part 2 to this episode.
Brenda's own mother searches for her and finally finds her and asks for forgiveness for not being a mother to her when she needed her
Why did I know her name was Brenda before they said her name? RIP PAC!!
Brenda got a baby 🤞🏾💯
@@durag777 but brendas barely got a brain. a damn shame the girl can hardly spell her name
2pac
You were thinking the same as me! Brenda's Got a Baby
Don't get rid of your child😢😭
@UC7suZAc5Vhug6fksd0RNf5A people get rid of their children when they are in these situations that they dont have enough money to take care of them but this a cruel way to do it.
Had she dropped her off at a hospital or police station, safe haven law could back her up.
Why was the lady will not giving back the baby it's hers
@@sushilarana4149 Because the minute she put that child into the garbage she was no longer the mother.
She should have been put in jail for life.
@@emix4974 yes it is cruel
I like that Luis is not like other creators because he sometimes makes himself the bad guy in the story .
Yes. I’ve seen no other creator act as the villain
He basically dhar Mann but like more mature
@@DoomGTB how- being a drug dealer isnt mature .
Because he doesn't try and make himself seem perfect
@@briiyonaa Reflecting your flaws and accepting you can portray any role besides just being perfect and goody-two shoes. I think he is pretty mature for that and not just reflecting himself as the perfect goody-two-shoes guy like Dhar Mann mostly does.
Never judge someone before you get to know them such an educative clip I love it.
The ending was amazing for a mother to meet her daughter for the first time in year
I would give people second chances, but a mother who dumps her own child in the dumpster that's different. I would never give her a second chance.
Yeah you're right
That's the most stupid thing a mother would do
@@adomsarpong6696 Think about it. If you were raped,homelesss, no parents, no money, a teenager, hooked on drugs, and a teenager. Your saying you would keep the baby? Idk what I would do in this moment.
@@lillia.rae07 l would keep the baby because she is my daughter
@@lillia.rae07 would you keep the baby
It just hurts watching this 😣
Alot of teens want to skin their legs for man and can't take care of a baby. There's a thing called protection if they don't wanna have kids when they skin their legs
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did u not watch the video? 🤨
Uhm... did you not watch the whole thing? She said she was RAPED (she literally says it clear for you at 7:50). Do you think rapists will use condoms or worry about their victim getting pregnant?! Cuz the last time I checked they didn't and women who are vulnerable in a situation like that have ZERO control.
Also, it's not just women. There are far too many "men" who just can't keep it in their pants. So the next time you point your fingers, check people in your own gender. Another thing I want to mention.. just because you are under the male category doesn't automatically make you a man. Cuz there are so many idiotic ppl who are worse than little boys. Ok? Ok.
@@beyoncaxd9962 literally 🙄
WE NEED A PART 2 PLEASE
Everybody deserve a Second Chance! 🙏🖤
I just loved the way the husband explained his wife to give her back...
really amazing Luis. .!!
anyone else notice lisa’s room was upstairs in the beginning then at the end when they said “go play in your room” she went downstairs?😂
Shhhh....... 🤫🤫🤫
@@LifeLessonsWithLuis Lois you’re cute 🥰 and I love your videos keep up the great work
@@LifeLessonsWithLuis omg hi i wasn’t expecting a reply
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Why would she do that to her OWN child ?
Idk she wasn't happy to do it she might of haft to do it for a reason idk
Maybe watch the video again ~
@@mack3ncheese But then again she was pregnant and it's her own fault that she was on drugs
@@babygirl_ox8540 a child’s invirinmite shapes who they become as adults your parents are essential to teaching u right from wrong she didn’t have and parents no support system no one to show her what she was doing was wrong and she got raped she had no money no family nobody to help her you can do anything when your backs against the wall and there’s nothing else and she wasn’t thinking straight it doesn’t make what she did okay but it does help u understand just what and why led her to doing that
She WAS a child
What I like is that this is actually a pretty morally complex and difficult situation. On both sides. The biological mom went through horrible things and wasn't in her right mind at the time. Years later, after she's well, she suffers from the pain of what she did. meanwhile, Its also not just a story about the Mom her took her in, just being unreasonably petty and ignorant. She has her own moral dilemma, being that what happened to her daughter isn't exactly such an easy thing to forgive. But in the end, people do deserve a second chance. especially if they really, really regret the decisions they made.
I will admit I was like the adoptive mother when I first watched this video so angry that for one she wanted drugs while she was pregnant with her child, two beyond surprised and happy that even the drug dealers had more common sense than that, three she dumped the baby into a dumpster when there were so many programs out there that she could have taken her. I also went into this thinking she was probably raped which is not okay and poor girl. But once I heard her story and that she was sober for so long I thought back to my own situation like this when I was abandoned by my own mother and yet I still loved her very much even now I do and I'm so happy to have been a part of her life. She also later on had my brother when she was clean and sober and she has been such a good mom to him and I thought that was so incredible so in the end when I heard her story even though I thought it was still wrong and could have gone a different way I realized sometimes we don't really know for sure if it could have. Maybe she did try giving her up somewhere else or maybe she tried aborting it and turned to drugs to not only dull the pain but also to just end this life from her abuser growing inside of her herself. I'm not saying it's still right but I was happy to be reminded of the old sang "You never know a person unless you walk a mile in their shoes." In this case I have walked a mile in her shoes I was that little girl Lisa and yet I still turned out to be a strong as hell and maybe a decent person to boot. It takes a lot more strength to be the bigger person than it does the opposite. Thank you for reminding me of this Luis. Thank you so much.
Luis the bad guy I like it when he plays the good guy
No. I would never forgive my mom if she dumped me in a dumpster as if I was nothing but trash...
@jayxfrost Same here
Everyone always make mistakes but they all deserve a second chance
Not all,Think of the man who murdered George Floyd.Think of the murderers out in the world who have killed MANY people. Think of the people who killed celebrities like XXXTENTACION
@@km10023 oof
Not hitler or starlin
@@km10023 King David commited adultery and murder, and God forgave him. Saul of Tarsus persecuted and murdered Christians before he converted, and Jesus chose him to be a messenger to the Gentiles. The criminal on the cross beside Jesus probably committed murder, because if he had been a thief, he would not have been crucified.
@@masterofdeath5648Im an atheist btw,so i don't know a single thing you actually said there,but im just going to agree?
You get yourself into a bad position. You can't get rid of your baby and now trying to get her back. The child is first priority no matter what.
People absolutely deserve second chances! Even when it comes to raping, abusing, or even killing!
I love how Luis is so chill in his villainous role.
Exactly. U can't even tell Luis was playing a drug dealer. Only Luis can play a shady character and still seem caring. ❤
Hi Louis! Haven’t watched it but I know it’ll be great
The saddest part is the baby did not ask to come here but you brought him and made it suffer 😑💯⚠️🚶🏾♂️
Yes, we humans are horrible people...
But she was raped...
@@DarkKnightOfficial99 just because she was raped doesn't change what they said tho
The baby didn't suffer because it went into a loving home
@@CommanderBruh true
You can say that about anyone regardless of whether or not you were dumped in the trash
So this is a tough one for me. I completely believe in giving people second chances as I am a recovery addict as well as my husband and we’re both going on 10 years clean and sober! We both absolutely made stupid decisions while we were high but I can’t get over the idea of Brenda putting her baby in the dumpster! I understand her being scared and not in her right mind and adding the fact that she conceived due to rape is horrible, but there’s so many options available for unwanted babies including literally dropping them off at hospitals, fire depts, etc.. no questions asked. The reason I can’t wrap my head around this is because that baby could have been killed had someone not found it.
Also I can understand where the “mom” was coming from because my parents went through a similar situation with my cousin who gave birth while in prison for drugs. They raised the newborn and her 4 year old daughter for almost a year until she was released, she got out took the girls and ended up giving the baby away to someone else after my parents begged her to sign over custody to them! Now no I’m not at all comparing the situation but that couple raised Lisa and that was their daughter, and mom was not only angry at Brenda for abandoning lisa but also afraid of losing her to Brenda after raising her for 7 years.
But I understand Brendas story to because we all make mistakes especially while suffering from addiction, she fought her addiction to become a better person and be a part of her child’s life which is one of the hardest things to do. It’s definitely one that touched me deeply🥺
So a young girl living on the streets probably wouldn't know that which is why it actually makes sense. I don't condone it at all, but you'd be surprised how many people even adults don't know the resources and options they can use.
Dam that stuff took a turn great writing my man
Edit: i was heart broken i had to watch 105 hours of memes to recover!
Not every girl/woman would be willing to have a relationship with their child if they were conceived from rape. It's a painful reminder of what happened to them, especially if the child strongly resembles the attacker
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I learned a valuable lesson today people are not defined by their past they can grow and change for the better
Definitely one of the best creators on RUclips! Every video he makes has a powerful message and story and is shot beautifully.
I Concur... He Is ONE Of The Best!!!!!
Glad you enjoyed 😉
Thank You So Much!!!!
Very reminiscent of Tupac’s song ‘Brenda’s Got A Baby’. ❤️
He definitely got this storyline from Tupac’s Brenda’s Got A Baby
Are we not gonna talk about the fact that Louis looks AMAZING
Let's talk about it 🙈🙊
I view one minute ago!
People are normally excited to have a baby, she doesn’t look like she is..
That is kinda rude tho, putting a baby in the trash
You know I think people deserve second chances OK, everyone makes mistakes
I don't believe in 2nd chances
@@laveniacleaver9530 then u don’t deserve a second chance. I get sometimes second chances aren’t possible but to not believe in second chances ENTIRELY. You don’t deserve no second chance
@@gamercentral2417 what that lady did to her child is sick, disgusting, and wrong; if she didn't want her child, she could've taken her to adoption agency and put her up for adoption instead of throwing her in the trash!!
@@gamercentral2417 reason i don't believe in 2nd chances is because my ex boyfriend cheated on me and he begged me for 2nd chance; i didn't give it to him; what he did was unforgivable. i don't care and i don't give a fuck on what happens to him; if he gets hit by a car or gets in car wreck and ends up with whiplash or whatever, i wouldn't visit him at a hospital, and i wouldn't help him recover from his injuries.
@@laveniacleaver9530 yeah that’s okay he doesn’t deserve a second chance but sometimes someone does deserve a second chance depending on what they did
SHE NEEDS A CHANCE TO RAISE HER OWN BABY YOU KNOW ❤️
They could have at least made the pregnancy belly look more realistic not like they stuffed a pillow in there
Hi Luis, another true reality story that happens to addicts at a young age helpless and are left behind and I feel sorry for those affected women. I enjoyed this episode. Keep up the good and meaningful work, it's worth every penny. My brother many blessings to you and your team. :-)
I've dealt with trying to help those addicted to drugs. My sister's husband's sister and mother. We have tried over and over and forgave them repeatedly but it just gave them an excuse to walk all over us. The ones that want to change will and those who just want to continue doing drugs will never change no matter how much you help them. It may be sad but you can't help them all if they don't want to do it themselves.
nice lesson, the ending really was unexpected lol...not everyone is as lucky as lisa to get that ending but thanks for this message luis!
I hate when baby’s get given up on
The sound of the pot while stirring dwl 😂😂😂🤣 empty barrel makes the most noise... lovely message for the teens
The ending was like the most predictable thing ever
As soon as I got a notification that you posted I clicked on this video so fast
What has our world come to?
I would NEVER put a baby in the trash no matter whose it was....
I mean well there are people who does it but don't take it to seriously its just an act.
That's because you never walked in their shoes
I think the adoptive mother has a right to not let her kid see some random women! Giving birth don't make you a mom, love does! the adoptive mother gave that
Amen!
True but at the same time, the birth mom was a raped, helpless teenager girl who grew up on drugs and without parents. She did not know any better. Of course, any one with common sense wouldn't do drugs while pregnant and won't leave a baby in a trashcan but again, she was a teenage with no love or guidance. Besides, the adoptive mother said that Brenda calls a lot to see her child, meaning Brenda has TRIED to better herself and actually WANTS to be apart of her daughter's life, unlike most who would sell their newborns for more drugs
There was literally nothing in that pot
A lot of safe places to leave a baby, a dumpster isn't one of them. She deserves the worst
WATCH THE VIDEO TO UNDERSTAND DUM Y
I just hate the fact that people don't give others a chance is for real upsetting it's like that people always care about their last than their now.
I meant past typo sucks man :/
@@oranged2497 ok so give a second chance to the people who died becoz of Cameron hermine HUH?
@@lonelydragon8522 it's probably my typo problem so you may need to read the comment that I put there
@@oranged2497 ok sorry
@@lonelydragon8522 ur fine ;D
I still don't forgive the mother. But hey that's just my opinion. I understand why others forgive her
'Unless you have walked in some ones shoes, you should never judge a person' ~Luis
The mother doesn't deserve to have custody of the child at this point. She dumped her in a trashcan basically terminating her parental rights and the other 2 raised the girl as their own. I get people go through things and some can't handle the trauma but I've known someone who was in a teen home basically. She got raped in 8th grade and she was a great mother. So there's no excuse for doing drugs and being a horrendous human being ever.
Why would she dump the baby is she Mad to do such a thing baby is a blessing
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for another blessed and marvelous day. Today, we can get through anything knowing that You are beside us every step of the way. We thank You in advance for opening doors for all who need jobs, for healing the sick, and for keeping us and our loved ones safe from all harm, seen and unseen. We are depending on You, knowing that our help cometh from the Lord. In Jesus Name we pray, Amen. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m not sure god reads the comments
@@wyattboerger well he knows everything we do
Amen
God knows all and sees all
@@wyattboerger Are you serious right now, God knows all and sees all?
Sometimes we have to give ourselves a second chance, I know what that teenage mom did to the baby was extremely unacceptable, but we have to show that in our hearts we can be forgiving
Hes not just telling stories hes changing lives
Best creator,best actor,best content. You're the best by far Louis! Love you
*cough* Dhar Mann
Luis is not just making videos, he's selling drugs. You thought I was going to say the dhar mann message
Everyone deserves forgiveness
💜 this! Yes, people do deserve second chances. People can change when they help themselves 🙂
Yeah!
Seriously in a dustbin out of all places wow I can't believe there are actually people like this in the world 🌎😞😞
How's it called a dustbin like bruh
@@talalempos lmao
@@stacy3 ya lol
@@talalempos did you hear about the LS tuners update
@@stacy3 wdym whut is dat
I love how theres not even a baby in the towel LOL
Please dont ever put your baby in the trash, Call child services and give your poor baby to them. 🥺
yes the ending did shock me like u instructed. LOVE YOUR CONTENT
Brenda should have a medal with the words, "Worst mother ever."
She was a kid… kids don’t think before they act especially when they are drugged out…
well thats not very nice. she didn't even want to be a mother.
@@kimpedersen5708 doesn’t give her the right to attempt to murder her kid
@@jovantesobers7789 She didn't attempt to murder her kid what-
@@ultimateswiftie3658 yes she did in the court of law that is attempted murder
You never know what someone's going though, so always be kind
Never judge someone before you walk into their shoes
Why did she dump her baby in the trash can
@@adomsarpong6696 IDK???? WHEN I WATCH LIFE LESSONS WITH LUIS IT KINDA RUINS MY APPETITE
@@adomsarpong6696 ugh, because she had no wonder else to leave her?? She was scared??? If she kept her, her baby could have gotten killed, sick and died or even stolen from her and raped as well???
Isaiah James: Joe South recorded a song in the 1970s about walking in someones shoes before judging them. It's called Walk a mile in my ashoes. listen to that song(particularly the first verse and the chorus) it says it a lot better than you or I or Anybody else ever coild.
I love how it was stated that Brenda had a bad childhood, no parents, no love or guidance and she was raped and on drugs since a young age because she was with the wrong people and those obviously affected her mind state when she abandoned Lisa in the trash can, and yet almost EVERYONE here is calling her a monster, a horrible mother and that the adoptive mother has every right to deny her to see her child. Tell me something, since when is it okay to start shaming raped women that they can't give up their babies but it's okay for teenage girls or women to get pregnant and then throw the child out like garbage whenever they can go keep a fit body?? Hm?? Look, I agree, no woman should abandon a child in a trashcan, EVER. But I'm not gonna call her a monster and a terrible human being just because she couldn't find help. Yes, she should have gone to the hospital or police station but it's possible she might have gotten caught and arrested and would have lost her baby anyways. Be happy that she didn't kill her baby, or sell it for more drugs like most drug addicts or people. And at least she TRIED to get clean and actually TRIED to see her daughter, unlike most who wouldn't give a rat's a$$
Her dumbing the baby makes me cry 😢
Oh My God. Sameer, Luis and Vid Chronicles all uploaded within the course of 10 minutes.
Luis from where do u get such creative ideas pls tell.... 😉😉😉
love the messaage ...big up fotr todays message
Everyone turn to God before it's too late plz don't let God down plz ♥️♥️♥️🙏
This video is a reference to 2Pac's song called "Brenda's got a baby"