THE LOVE I KNOW I DESERVE | South African Couple YouTubers
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2021
- What informs the love you think you deserve. Who or what s the source of those ideas and are they sustainable for a healthy, growing relationship. Let's talk!
Sho this was deep. Its really important to heal the child in us so that the heathy adult can leave. We often bleed on those that didn't cut us which is really not fair.
This comment is on point ✅
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So so true🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
So so true
We are humans
Can my husband come alrdy.....ncooo you guys are just perfect for each other nd it beautiful to watch....wee thank God for ur union...
"The ability to see eachother for who we are, seeing eachother 's heart" that is very powerful!!
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Yho hayi guys si-ready for iconference bethuna!
We receive🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you for sharing the ugly and beautiful part of your journey with us. It's so relatable and you guys are still keeping it real. We are taking notes, the Lord bless you.
Thank you so much Wandile❤️
I hardly comment but I have watched all your installments.
What i have learned from you guys is that in the midst of it all, you still managed to have honest uncomfortable conversations with each other, i love how you freely express yourselves and your feelings. I think that is very important. If all couples can talk openly and honestly about the good and the bad, nothing can ever break them. ❤️❤️
Thats what's stand out for me too...their honesty and transparency.
We are so glad that you commented!❤️.. we are so grateful to have learnt the lessons. We continue to learn and believe it never stops❤️
@@TheMakhs much love for you guys 💕💕
Guys I have to personalize this:When God impressed in your hearts to start this channel, He definitely had me in His mind. Yazi through you, I feel so cared for and loved by God. With staff I have been going through for sometime now, God knew who will minister perfectly to me. Ndiya mbulela uThixo ngani.
I love you dearly. ♥️
I feel the same, thank you for your comment. 💝💝
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Yhoo cc, I am grateful to God for them. They always leave me speechless. ♥️💕
This is such a beautiful message Nandi. Thank you. How faithful is God! 😩🙌🏾❤️
Wooow this is me in this season, I’m so thankful for the Makhs🥺❤️
So much power here, the quality and measure of emotional intimacy in relationship is also measured by being able comfortable in having uncomfortable conversation
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This topic could not have come at a better time!! 🥺 #Godstiming 🙌🏽❤️
But I love you guys man! The honesty in your conversations is unmatched. I’m learning so much and I’m not even in a relationship.
You and me both hy🙂
My favorite part is that their so genuine. Like real real.
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Me too..Am learning a lot from you guys
Aaah thank you so much Sisipho❤️
this video was soo deep, the truth is that relationships need you to be healed and whole, if you don't address your childhood traumas and your past relationship traumas they definitely come up in the relationship you're in. Thanx for an enlightening chat guys.
Thank you for joining in Precious❤️❤️. You are 💯 correct!
It's L listening when P is talking. Listening is important bathong. Cheers y'all 🌹🌻
It's Y'alls Honesty For Me! Makes This Soo Relatable And It's More Easier To Continue Listening. Love It!
Thank you so much for your love❤️❤️🤗🤗
I love how sis Pheto graciously admits her past mistakes... She's so aware of it..this is how we grow and learn,by acknowledging our mistakes and being intentional about becoming better people.
“Seeing each other’s hearts” That’s the way. I’ve learnt this over the years in my relationship. I’ve just never articulated it like this.
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Batho ba me, My people. Gang Gang reporting Present. Bona seeing that Redefining Beauty Hoodie proves ukuthi me I’m phakathi inside the golden circle 😆 Ke le rata hooray and I’m here for all the powerful content you’re dishing out. Thank you for being such people 😘 😘 😘
Re go rata thata!! That hoodie gives me life❤️❤️
I’ll subscribe Kamo
What I like about you guys is that you're authentic you don't show us only the beauties about your relationship. We can see you guys fighting at times and solving the issues in front of us, that's why I'll keep watching and do the same in my relationship
Yoh bathong!!! This is CHURCH for me..I'm only like 11 minutes in..I can totally relate to Ous Phethola... I had ALOT of inner healing to do over November.. December.. January... it's better now.. the triggers are there but AWARENESS is key.. because you can actually do something about it or have better control of it..because self-control is one of the fruit of the Spirit...
I'm soo glad that this is being address... I appreciate it!! Cheers to healing!!! Its AMAZING!!!
Relatable!!! I hope you find a calm patient gentle man because I know what you’re going through and you’ll get through it sis! ❤️
@@wanderingcucamber7082 ❤ Thank you! He is a very gracious and calm person..😊😊
Oh my this hits home, Lerato I get u, im a middle child and I'm still suffer from showering people with love, affirmation, and and. You guys are amazing, your talks minister to me, I'm not married but I'm already feeling like aggggh there is no such a man.
You doing phenominal work with the topics, I always watching the channel even though I'm guilty of not subscribing and liking and sharing. Watch all channels though.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 absolutely no one:
Phetola: "how are you going to cast out devils ka Bible ya mablom" that took me out.
Shout out to Kamza
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Ke gobetse..
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😂😂😂😂😂 Ke khopela re beng serious ka di Bible bathong!🤣🤣
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I bumped into one of your videos yesterday and I have been binge watching them. I really appreciate the timing that I bumped into you yesterday, God really knows. Thank you
The honesty is extremely beautiful to watch. Thank you, The Makhs.
Thank you Lethabo❤️❤️
My partner and I are at this stage. When Lerato said "there''s freedom in love" hit me deep. I am doing exactly what Pheto use to do. Thank you for this
installment.
Yho guys you challenge me, this is so deep. You can't watch these angels and not want to do better and work on yourself. This instalment and the previous one challenge me so much they take me to my knees. Thank you so much guys God bless you. You are loved ❤
The transparency on your channel is enchanting. ❤
It's ONLY Feb and you two have me in tears...le tlo fetsa dikeledi tsa ka :-/ NOW I understand why he walked away :( Thank you guys for holding my hand through my healing journey!
Aaaah❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
Iyoh what a mighty God we serve Lerato defining me as the middle child. This is was so deep, I normally say I have abundant love.
Thank you guys may God continue to use you
Totally transformed... Thank you guys for simplifying our struggles and experiences. 💛
Aaah this is incredible! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️
The words the advice the insights and wisdom in here mmmh, Powerful you guys 🙏🏽 God bless you two and continue to shine His light on you and strengthening your marriage ❤️💗
"There has to be freedom and LOVE." Oh wow, this is profound!
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As a middle child, I can relate to what Mr Makhs said... I'm just happy that I got to realize the problem I had by myself and at a young age that I'm at now... I have even made a decision to just back away from relationships and allow myself to lower my entitlements and give a deserving love to the person God is busy preparing for me... until I find him, I'll keep on working on and growing myself...
PS... found your channel not so long ago, but you guys are really helping me grow... thank you Lord for the wonderful couple You have sent my way🙏❤
Your installments are out of these world. I’m definitely sharing this channel with my friends as well. Thank you The Makhs, may God bless you.
Speaking the TRUTH guys! I just subscribed...love you 2 already💛💛
Thank you for being so vulnerable with yourselves and inviting us into that space 🧡 This particular installment echoed the season I am in.
So much wisdom poured out today. Thank you for being so open, transparent and honest. You are really doing the Lord's work. Im off to do some introspection after watching this. Love you guys.
Thank you so much for watching. We appreciate you so much. Introspection is always a good idea❤️
Shu ! This is so relevant for the season I’m in right now. Thank you for sharing ! ❤️
I absolutely love the depth of these conversations. I think you guys are doing such a good job.
As the tears stream down my face. Thank you for this. I've been binge-watching the installments and for some reason could not get to this video.... It means so much more to me today than it would've meant months ago. This really resonates with me. Thank you guys!
Sjoo😍😭
This is soo profound. Deep and raw👏
Thank You guys..Yall are doing the most...healing!!😍
May God bless u abundantly with more wisdom.💫
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I truly needed this guys, tjo. Wow🙌, im short of words but I'm truly grateful. I love you guys, God bless you super abundantly. Watching this installment in August but it's my relevant word for this season
There is so much powerful in self awareness.
This was such a powerful installment.
Thank you so much 🔥🔥
This spoke to me on so many levels.. ✨
God bless The Makhs! 🙌🏿
You guys are everything!!! ThankYou.
PS: Phetola you are hilarious, that ‘casting out demons with a flowery Bible’ comment launched me 🤣🤣
Needed this. Thanks guys. May your love continue to blossom. ❤
I love all of y’alls videos but this one 🙌🏾 spoke to me because this is something I’ve been thinking about since last year. How important it is to see your partner beyond their imperfections. Seeing their heart instead of human flaws 👏🏾 God continue using you guys ❤️ much love
I love this.The conversation applies beyond patners even with siblings and family as one gets older
Thank you for sharing! I needed this today 💙 I rekindled things with my first love after 15 years and alhamdullilah he’s still as gentle, patient, kind , calm and much wiser just as he was when we were teens. Its so scary at times because triggers will always be there, but to have someone like him makes it hurt less. I resonate with everything shared by both of you, thank you so much 🥲❤️
Love love love the depth of your instalments❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow what an content... Thank you so much for your vulnerabilities. Y'all deserve love talk show on our screens 🔥🔥
Love You guys so much 😊 Thank You for Opening up and being so vulnerable. There's never a time where I don't learn from this channel 🙌 And Yaaay The Makhs Seniors 👏 Excited for that 🎊
I loooooooove you guys!!!!! I see God in your marriage. Mrs Makhs is so meek in the spirit.
This instalment 🥺🥺🥺🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. May God continue to bless your marriage, to many more decades and much more growth
Thank you guys. This is profound. I believe I deserve to be loved and to be happy 😊😻You guys are amazing. Keep it up
Such an amazing conversation! What Ntate Makhetha said about middle child syndrome🔥🔥 He articulated it so well. Realeboga for all the wisdom and looking forward to the Makhetha seniors🤗
Guys, your raw honesty is so attractive and really made me look at myself. Thank you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Honestly love this channel, the fact that i get to reflect and correct my ways
Wow...The two of you are in ministry, these are healing conversations. Such wisdom and spirit filled insights. May the God of grace continue to be the foundation of this union...Be Blessed always❤
Thank you so much for this installment. You just saved a relationship! 😭❤
They saved mine🙏🏾
This is so awesome!!! Thank you Lord🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️
@@tebalelomarobane8496 How incredible!!! We thank God!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yall just start of nice and get too deep!! Qetellong i cried!!! Loved it! Is there a love button!God bless yall!
This was so insightful, Lady you are on fire,dnt let small things ruin love, I learned ,thank you so much for the love and sharing
But you guys are a blessing in the kingdom. Did I mention that you are a vibe.Loads of love.
You guys are awesome! Couple goals right here!!
Can't wait for the valentine's installment 💃🏾😀👏🏾
This was amazing, thank you for putting this out.
You guys are amazing. I thank God for your lives. God bless you!
your 2021 content is lit guys ijooooo. this is year we are on another level..❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm hooked!
Thank you for keeping it 💯, I'm learning so much from your channel.
Wow, I am loving the vulnerable conversations that you are bring. Be blessed. Siyabonga
As soon as I came across you (AMAAAAAAAAZIIIIIIINNNNNNG couple) I am hooked and wow, everything you share is so so invaluable. I now sit with a notebook to take notes, because when the Mr shows up, home girl will be ready😎☺️😁🙃🤗💃🏾.
Loads of love, best of wishes and abundant blessings upon abundant blessings from 🇩🇪 . You two are the realest👌🏾.
P.s Now I am shamelessly going to copy paste this until I get a shout out😂😂
Always such a good time with The Makhs💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 hay maaaaaan! Kumnandi apha
Hey!!! ✋Hello!!! "it was necessary for my growth" power right there!!! This is beautiful guys. Am glad I landed on your page! I took a bit longer to warm up because I thought damn! They so serious, I know am a little bit serious so I am always looking for something lighter. Lol! But now am inlove with you guys. I love the love you have for God, the passion guys😊😊😊.
My name got called!!! I love you guys so much. You both dropped Gems in this instalment.
So much wisdom from you guys, and I think it comes from learning everyday, sometimes it's trial and error but we eventually get it right.
What an authentic and honest conversation 🙏🏻empowering ...!💪🏽
Yho I can't wait for the Makhs seniors... I can already hear the wisdom that's going to be dropped 🙌💃 super super excited!!! And you two are right behind them with your wisdom, you are wise beyond your years. Truly igqabi aliwi kude kunomthi walo 😁
This is so candid, so real. God-love lives here for real❤️
Your salvation stories brought me to your channel, i have been binging on your channel for the past 3 days😭❤️
"Service in love is important" 🙌🏿
WOW! Is so soothing to listen to you both! What a tender conversation... and so feel of the sweet spirit of God.. I cannot stop watching you guys! Don’t ever change PLEASE!!! This is what my children my friends my family my husband need to watch all the time.. Is like watching a loving romantic movie that everyone in the home can watch and learned from.. Thank you for charging you real story! May God continue blessing your marriage and family!...
Thank you once again for a lovely installment. Life is definitely about a dream #
Gang, gang we are so early today yaaaay💃🕺
We hope you enjoyed the installment! ❤️🙌🏾
Guys, this is another powerful segment. This really spoke to me. Thanks for the excellent content.
"Sometimes scars heal but they're still visible" yoh!!!!!!!😭😭
This conversation is relatable. I relate to almost everything you both have shared👌👌 Thank you Fam❤
And by the way, I got a shout out yaaaaaayyy🙊😍💃💃💃
Bona I’m here for everything including watching the Ads. I love you guys, thanks for affirming my work.
Your topics are meaningful and building. You spiritually building souls through your ministry
The honest and transparency in this channel 😍❤. You are really God's gift to our lives❤❤
I ,again, Love how Phetola will take us to the Word. The paper Bible!!!
Absolutely loved this one, it hit home
So many of us have unrealistic expectations
Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and reflected on so much. I completely related to what Phetola went through. Thank you so much for sharing your stories and wisdom. 🤗
Shuuuuuu I loved it guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you so much fam for sharing ...may God continue to bless you guys in order to be a blessing to us 🙏🏽🙌🏽
Shuuu that sat deep..."Interrogating your heart's posture".
🥂 to your love and life, praying God shows up for you everyday. I love all the topics keep dropping them gems. ❤️
this is so beautiful💗may God bless your relationship😘💗
(1st )of the scripture you opened with is apart of my daily affirmation ✨✨ (2nd) thank you for sharing your experiences I identified with them both and (3rd) This blessed socks to the point where I’m going to truly shift my perspective on truly being intentional about seeing the heart 💜 LOVE IS FREEDOM! AMEN
You 2 are a absolutely amazing. I needed to watch this. Did so much for me. I am moved. Please write a book toe💗🙌🏽
You guys are honestly relationship key point ❤️💕❤️. I appreciate you guys
I have learned a lot from this topic. This made me do some self introspection and also realised that I really need to work on my "crazy"expectations . Thank you so much guys ka le rata❤
This was just insightful. Absolutely Beautiful. Thank You so much.
You two are so real, it's rare to a point of discomfort and I can't emphasize how much of a blessing you two are... this is the Lord's work. Thank you for the authenticity, may God reward you for it.
The Makhs... Lena mara🤗you are some of us's gift from God👏
My, my. You too are such incredible humans, so deep. Lerato's outlook on life - everything works together for good, and Pheto's thoughtfulness. You two are so enlightened and exceptionally beautiful. God bless you and your family. 💕💜💕