the worst part is that my mom said she understands that i need privacy, yet she still secretly looks through my phone when im sleeping and scolds me for no apparent reason
to be honest, parents do have to check their children's phone. because if you're doing something wrong..they tell you what the right it which i don't see is bad parenting at all. But while sleep?? could be bad..
@@l1zzie680they'll gaslight you so bad into revealing your password or they will do this: (Parent makes password on their own phone then tells the child the password and then will say "I told you my password so you should tell me yours" then do other gaslighting techniques) and if that doesn't work they'll yell at you, and scream. And will also pressure you. Speaking from experience
@@Enchanted_Rose Then try reasoning with them, it's your phone not your moms like you're not looking through her phone so why is she looking through yours Say that you need a password in case someone steals it or tries to do something with it 🤷♀️ i'm so sorry though
I’ve honestly lost my mother’s trust as she lost her’s in mine lmao 💀 Edit: we shall now be called the group of “same” Edit-2: rip to those who said “same” we understand your pain
bro one time my mum took my phone while i was reading WATTPAD! like she legit snatched it and was like "whats this? why are you reading this?" 💀💀the way my shivers were timbered
@@ruffaell. i snatched my phone back from here like SO FAST and i was reading a diluc x reader shit WITH SMUT. and when she took it she was like reading it scrolling through. and when i snatched my phone she told me "delete the app, your too young" BUT i never deleted the app, and now she doesnt check my phone or anything so 😱😱
"Why don't my kids talk to me?" This is exactly why. I'm so sorry for ya'll in the comments 😖 I'm so glad my parents were never like this and I wish more parents could understand the concept of privacy 😭😭 Sending all the love and hope they understand one day and stop doing that. ❤❤
i don’t watch gacha and i clicked this on accident, it turned out to be the most relatable video i’ve ever watched 💀 edit: no bc why did this get so many likes 😭😭 thanks
I don’t like it either, but sometimes online people can be creeps ya know. I mean there’s a lot of missing children cases that go on DAILY. Although tbh my parents doing this sometimes leads to me being more secretive.
I know this is is late but tf did she find that was that bad? 😭 World domination plans??? I grew up with neglectful parents not really strict so I'd really like to know
why are you afraid my phone is perfectly fine I use discord only for friend ONLY and I only use it to call my bsf from another country (I'm Russian he is English) and that's it I don't use it for anything else
I feel like this should not be a joke on the internet I feel like this should be a documentary about how most parents are privacy invading😂 A THOUSAND LIKES?!
Imo it's for our own good ya know like- I also dislike when they check our phones or whatever but they're worried. And for the sake of our moral they have to take a look in it. You know the world these days, full of danger and misguidance that might ruin a person, it is their responsibility to protect us from them ❤ just a small advise yall
my mom finally learnt what privacy is, she looked through my phone one day when i SEEMED upset (i wasn’t upset, it was just one of those times you get mad at everything for no reason), she went on my tiktok, saw i was talking to strangers, just told me “be careful” and talked just a tiny bit, never looked at my phone since
Tbh, I personally don’t think parents should look at priv convos like that. It’s not only invading their child’s privacy but also the other people’s. I think they should find another way to protect their child.😊
My mom doesn’t do it now but once she read a conversation I had with my dad over texts whilst I was sleeping. I’d been telling him about how unsupportive my mom was when I came out and thought it would be a private thing, only for her to read over it whilst I was asleep. She never did it again, but it broke my trust in her that took years to build back
Apparently this isn’t normal because i was like “yeah haha my mom goes through my messages a lot so i have to delete them” and my friends are like “wtf”
So relatable, if my mom touches my phone I start screaming in my mind, it's terrifying. I only have 1 friend online so that's better, I try to get good conversations but never-😂
you're so real for this if my mother took a *glance* at my Pinterest homepage she would pass away. also does anyone else's body heat go up when your parents start looking around in your phone?? like you can *feel* yourself get super hot an stuff? i start sweating worse than how i would feel if i were run for 5 hours straight.
Bro... Your mom relates to my mom fr- she exposing my ass out loud to my dad and my siblings 😭😭 like.. Could you stop, also she never respects my Personal space
Honestly I think that’s just a huge invasion of your privacy and you shouldn’t let your parents snoop through your private things, if you know what I mean.
Honestly, when my mom is texting someone and I peek to see who's she's texting, she quickly gets out of the convo and exits the app (Like she's slick with it), and whenever I do that, she gets angry af and demamds to know who I'm speaking to and stuff,she doesn't wait for me to even respond, she just takes my phone and searches all my messaging apps (WhatsApp, Discord, instagram, etc..), so thats why i always delete discord after I finish talking to friends, and we're not even talking abt anything wrong, it's just that my mom isn't the best at English and she tends to not understand the abbreviations we use for certain phrases so she gets angry for no reason at all, anyone else relate?
Guys I know how it feels when they check on us but literally, they're doing this for our own good. To protect us from the biases in the Internet, the pedophiles and etc. We're still young and naive in this world, we have to acknowledge that. When you guys are a little more older yall understand what I'm talking about. This life is full of dangers. ❤ Lots of loves yall stay safe
My mom only checks my phone when i lie so its not often but im so glad im not stuck lying about things like the genders of friends because a lot of my online friends are dudes or have masculine nicknames and it makes me so glad my moms bestfriend is a dude and that my mom knows im pan and shit So many of my friends have almost gotten in trouble over my online nickname being monty, i end up having to facetime my friends and their parents to prove im a girl Im not even a girl, im genderfluid, but i was born a female and still look like one sadly
my parents aren’t just ur average “whats discord?” parents. they use it themselves 💀 if im up to some sh they find out FAST BROO- they found my channel like a week after i started posting 😭😭
My mother looked through my phone and took away my best friend in doing so She was an online friend who I’ve known longer than anyone else (who wasn’t related to me) but my mom didn’t trust her and blocked her on everything It was traumatizing and I had completely lost my trust in my mom that day so I didn’t tell her anything because she clearly didn’t trust me so why the hell should I trust her
I understand wanting to keep your kid safe and the importance of staying safe online but kids are more likely to share stuff with there freinds then they are there parents, and when I parent reads there conversations there losing there kids trust. Creating an home with a respect for privacy will acutely make it a lot easier for your kids to share stuff, Since there doing it willingly and not being forced.if a kid is in trouble I want them to want to ask me for help, not be so scared of getting in trouble they won’t tell me. When there no privacy in a home it just teaches kids how to hide things better and how to lie more convincingly
Mine used to forcefully take my phone from me and wait until i was sleeping to check my messages and then torture me psychologically bc she knew everything i was talking abt.
Yall r so fast wth
Lol
HEHEHE, BTW THE END HAAHA
Lol real
U posted the video and expect us not to be?💀
@@moraa2saltyy i obviously meant first ppl, i had 20 likes within the first seconds
the worst part is that my mom said she understands that i need privacy, yet she still secretly looks through my phone when im sleeping and scolds me for no apparent reason
Amazing privacy right there
to be honest, parents do have to check their children's phone. because if you're doing something wrong..they tell you what the right it which i don't see is bad parenting at all.
But while sleep?? could be bad..
Then just make a password
@@l1zzie680they'll gaslight you so bad into revealing your password or they will do this: (Parent makes password on their own phone then tells the child the password and then will say "I told you my password so you should tell me yours" then do other gaslighting techniques) and if that doesn't work they'll yell at you, and scream. And will also pressure you. Speaking from experience
@@Enchanted_Rose Then try reasoning with them, it's your phone not your moms like you're not looking through her phone so why is she looking through yours
Say that you need a password in case someone steals it or tries to do something with it 🤷♀️ i'm so sorry though
I’ve honestly lost my mother’s trust as she lost her’s in mine lmao 💀
Edit: we shall now be called the group of “same”
Edit-2: rip to those who said “same” we understand your pain
Same💀
no kidding
SAME 😭😭
Same
I lost my mom’s trust so many times..
it took my dad finding my Discord about 6 times before he was finally like, "Yk what, you're (age) now. You do you, just don't be stupid."
GIVE ME YOUR LIFE
LUCKY??? MY PARENTS FOUND DISCORD LIKE 13 TIMES AND STILL HATE IT
Yea my dad basically. Ik how to be safe online so yea.
my parents are like this too LMAOOO
GIRL. SANA OL. I WISH I WAS U 😭😭
bro one time my mum took my phone while i was reading WATTPAD! like she legit snatched it and was like "whats this? why are you reading this?" 💀💀the way my shivers were timbered
THAT'S NOT ENOUGH DETAILS TELL US MORE
@@ruffaell. i snatched my phone back from here like SO FAST and i was reading a diluc x reader shit WITH SMUT. and when she took it she was like reading it scrolling through. and when i snatched my phone she told me "delete the app, your too young" BUT i never deleted the app, and now she doesnt check my phone or anything so 😱😱
THIS EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME BUT I MADE SURE TO DESTROY THE EVIDENCE (aka completely throwing my phone down a flight of stairs)
@@BubboeYOU THREW YOUR PHONE DOWN THE STAIRS? 😭
THIS IS LITERALLY ONE OF MY BIGGEST FEARS
How to lose your trust in your parents 101:
Edit: Oh my goodness, I’m famous!!! Thank you so much for the likes ❤️
Already lost trust in mom cuz of this. It works 👍
@@noviallisSame
😔
storytimes?
More like how to loose your kids trust it’s the kids fault for not telling their parents about their online. Friendships
This is why i clear all my search history and delete text msgs even if my mom isnt planning on checking my ipad😍😍
BUT ACTUALLY
yes
I CAN’T CLEAR MY HISTORY😭😭😭😭
@@PenPalsINC-official- 😦
Then just sign out of that account-
@@PenPalsINC-official-INGOGNITO
@@DaRosaWitch I use that for discord since im supposed to be banned T^T I log out of everything every two hours
"Why don't my kids talk to me?"
This is exactly why.
I'm so sorry for ya'll in the comments 😖 I'm so glad my parents were never like this and I wish more parents could understand the concept of privacy 😭😭 Sending all the love and hope they understand one day and stop doing that. ❤❤
i don’t watch gacha and i clicked this on accident, it turned out to be the most relatable video i’ve ever watched 💀
edit: no bc why did this get so many likes 😭😭 thanks
this is how ypur slowly gonna become a gacha kid it always starts this way. be warned
@@turqussyI became a gacha kid cuz my friend had it and stuff 😃
@@turqussy I became a gacha kid like 4 years ago and I didn’t know what app was it- I didn’t even know how to make videos-
welcome to the gacha community
@@WoodlouseFairy
Have a look around
Parents shouldn’t be looking in their children’s conversations, why do they evade our privacy for?!
I think to "keep us safe".
yeah, That.. doesn’t really work all that well.. Tbh all it’s doing is terrifying me and making me want to commit sewer slide
I don’t like it either, but sometimes online people can be creeps ya know. I mean there’s a lot of missing children cases that go on DAILY. Although tbh my parents doing this sometimes leads to me being more secretive.
@@OMGMyHypeBoyKeita I understand they want to protect us from groomers and creeps, but at the same time it’s invading our privacy
Maybe cause of pedos? Inappropriate content? Us doing things we shouldn't be at our age????
My mom went through my iPad two days ago.
Say hello to someone who’s grounded for the rest of the summer! 😊
Me too🥰
Dang what did she find?
@@Multiuniverse_FemaleYn you locked up in a cage prob
uh I just hope ur still alive? 🤓☝🏻💀💀💀
No fr what did she find❓️🤓☝🏻
I know this is is late but tf did she find that was that bad? 😭 World domination plans??? I grew up with neglectful parents not really strict so I'd really like to know
The worst thing parents could do is to check our phones. Its absolutely breaking kids' trust. Especially when they check chats and private stuff ☠️
Fr
My phone has nothing on it, but I am afraid when my mother holds it 😭😭.
why are you afraid my phone is perfectly fine I use discord only for friend ONLY and I only use it to call my bsf from another country (I'm Russian he is English) and that's it I don't use it for anything else
Same
same
@@thaaSufleBecause what if they check yt and you get recommended inappropriate content even tho you don't watch it???? 😭
yess and things that aren’t that innapropriate for us are very innapropriate for them
I feel like this should not be a joke on the internet I feel like this should be a documentary about how most parents are privacy invading😂
A THOUSAND LIKES?!
EXACTLY and then their like "yOu KnOw I NeVeR hAd "pRivAcY" wHeN I WaS yOuR agE" like-
@@froggii_crochets they think it’s an excuse- like no, it’s not 💀
@@angéliqueeeeeeeeeeee frfr
Fr 😭
Imo it's for our own good ya know like- I also dislike when they check our phones or whatever but they're worried. And for the sake of our moral they have to take a look in it. You know the world these days, full of danger and misguidance that might ruin a person, it is their responsibility to protect us from them ❤ just a small advise yall
my mom finally learnt what privacy is, she looked through my phone one day when i SEEMED upset (i wasn’t upset, it was just one of those times you get mad at everything for no reason), she went on my tiktok, saw i was talking to strangers, just told me “be careful” and talked just a tiny bit, never looked at my phone since
Well, at least she didn't ground you or anything
Tbh, I personally don’t think parents should look at priv convos like that. It’s not only invading their child’s privacy but also the other people’s. I think they should find another way to protect their child.😊
EVEN WHEN U HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE ITS STILL SCARY😭😭
I hate it when parents invade your personal privacy
If my mom saw my chai chats I’d be dead💀💀
OMG YES LMAO WTH😭😭
SAME\
I downloaded chai on my moms iPad 😀
@@thetidesriseWHATT
I edged on christmas
When your mother/father can’t check your phone because they don’t know your password 😇
but then they threaten to ground you if you don't give a password:
@@TheBuilderPro2024tbh I would rather be grounded them getting yelled at for 5 hours straight n getting grounded after that
@@povas9698yeah it's worth it more than getting caught having QUESTIONABLE things on the phone
This happened to me a little while ago I got my phone taken away for awhile 💀💀💀😢😢
WHHAT DIDDD U DO?
@@hellooooooooo720 u don’t wanna know 😨
@@Livtheweirdo3
Did you get grounded? I’m scared!
My mom doesn’t do it now but once she read a conversation I had with my dad over texts whilst I was sleeping. I’d been telling him about how unsupportive my mom was when I came out and thought it would be a private thing, only for her to read over it whilst I was asleep. She never did it again, but it broke my trust in her that took years to build back
Same I texted my dad we sent each other colorful hearts and my mom was upset bc I talked w my dad:(
Even worse they force you to stay with them when you try to run away 😢
“who’s zike?”
jumps off building
frrrrr.....this is so relatable....but when my mother check youtube....im dead 💀💀
lmao i hate it when parents check conversations like babes I would tell you who I was talking to if you wouldn't murder me
"why don't my child trust me? 😢"
Apparently this isn’t normal because i was like “yeah haha my mom goes through my messages a lot so i have to delete them” and my friends are like “wtf”
Sometimes I’m happy to be an innocent child
But dont you like privacy still😭
@@DaRosaWitch yes but my parents don’t care 🤷♀️
So relatable, if my mom touches my phone I start screaming in my mind, it's terrifying. I only have 1 friend online so that's better, I try to get good conversations but never-😂
you're so real for this
if my mother took a *glance* at my Pinterest homepage she would pass away.
also does anyone else's body heat go up when your parents start looking around in your phone?? like you can *feel* yourself get super hot an stuff? i start sweating worse than how i would feel if i were run for 5 hours straight.
OMG THAT HAPPENS TO ME and I'm not even hiding anything I Judy get really hit
@@mystique20109 exactly fr why are parents like this T^T
This is exactly why they have to check our phones 😅 I also feel the same way done worry bruv 😂
@@froggii_crochetsto protect us :> it's their responsibilities too
Exactly why I never leave my phone anywhere and if they're mad and I feel like they're gonna take it to look through it I hide it in a secret spot 😋😋
I start shaking whenever my mom takes my phone or I can’t find it because i already went through 4 looking throughs and they was hell💀💀🏃♀️
Bro... Your mom relates to my mom fr- she exposing my ass out loud to my dad and my siblings 😭😭 like.. Could you stop, also she never respects my Personal space
Our conversations are….yk
😅😅
Me and my bestie be talkin abt our fictional crushes and how we wanna... uh... them.
Omgah.💀 I swear if my mom checked my history.... oh h3ll no..I would be gone before 2025🥲
Incognito mode🎉
@@F4iryXtale oop I mean goolgle and yes I use that
Honestly I think that’s just a huge invasion of your privacy and you shouldn’t let your parents snoop through your private things, if you know what I mean.
if my mom saw my phone in 2 seconds i would be in my grave
As a person without a mom I feel loved 🥰🥰
This reminds me of when my mom found my sketchbook/diary thing and read it completely, there was nothing bad in it but still got grounded for a month
DAWG WHAT?? thats unfair. Howd you get grounded? because you kept your feelings from them?
The music just😂😂🤣
This is soooo relatable
My mom always checks my gadgets cuz hiding some stuff and my mom looking at my watch history and art made me cry
Bro if you can reply to this I got 21 in my test and I’m moving down a set and my mum never checks my phone
And this is why I refuse to let my parents touch my stuff
this is the most accurate video i have seen today. you have wrapped up my life in 44 seconds.
I always have this uncomfortable feeling my mom will missunderstood everything in my phone even tho I have nothing to hide 😭
This is why i allow my parents to look through my phone because if i dont, they will actually search through it 💀😭
Honestly, when my mom is texting someone and I peek to see who's she's texting, she quickly gets out of the convo and exits the app (Like she's slick with it), and whenever I do that, she gets angry af and demamds to know who I'm speaking to and stuff,she doesn't wait for me to even respond, she just takes my phone and searches all my messaging apps (WhatsApp, Discord, instagram, etc..), so thats why i always delete discord after I finish talking to friends, and we're not even talking abt anything wrong, it's just that my mom isn't the best at English and she tends to not understand the abbreviations we use for certain phrases so she gets angry for no reason at all, anyone else relate?
LITERALLY WHAT HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE DAMN TIME.
@@Nachomiya LOL
This is so relatable I was crying on the inside 💀
My privacy gets invaded not fun 💀👊
THE SONG THO- IM WHEEZING 😂😂😂😂😭✋
The music makes me love this 12x more 😍
My mom sometimes goes through my stuff but she finds the convos I have funny 😭 and we be talking about the most out of pocket shit
If my mom looks my phone i CANNOT stay alive
My mom just be like
“I payed for it so it’s mine then she looks through my messages and everything 😂😂😂
is no one gonna talk about the fact she has db in her character list?💀
Guys I know how it feels when they check on us but literally, they're doing this for our own good. To protect us from the biases in the Internet, the pedophiles and etc. We're still young and naive in this world, we have to acknowledge that. When you guys are a little more older yall understand what I'm talking about. This life is full of dangers. ❤ Lots of loves yall stay safe
I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND.. BUT OUR PRIVATE MESSAGES AND STUFF THAT WE WANT TO EEP PRIVATE
sry caps
I'm trans so them going through my phone would end up being the total opposite of protecting me 💀
Yes thank you
So true!!!
safe to say all mothers are like that when checking peoples devices (my mom counts)
Not mine. Shes just like "as long as you aren't involved with the dark web, ok"
@@BaconQueen973bro istg I feel like my parents are gonna find a drug deal on my phone
tbh I feel like parents should give their kids privacy 😭
LMFAOOO THE END AND THE AUDIO I CANT 💀💀💀
If my mom went through my discord/Pinterest/youtube I would get kicked out of the house 💀💀
The end just killed me💀
So true👀💀
It's always the ”A girl in my class/grade" 😭
My mom only checks my phone when i lie so its not often but im so glad im not stuck lying about things like the genders of friends because a lot of my online friends are dudes or have masculine nicknames and it makes me so glad my moms bestfriend is a dude and that my mom knows im pan and shit
So many of my friends have almost gotten in trouble over my online nickname being monty, i end up having to facetime my friends and their parents to prove im a girl
Im not even a girl, im genderfluid, but i was born a female and still look like one sadly
Me: I will be the the coolest parent ever 😎
Future me: *typical Asian mom*
Nope that ain't happening kiddo😏
i would be having full blown panic attack bro
you've described my entire fucking life in 0:44 seconds-- how tf did u manage that
my parents aren’t just ur average “whats discord?” parents. they use it themselves 💀 if im up to some sh they find out FAST BROO- they found my channel like a week after i started posting 😭😭
Mine do too, but this was like,, long ago
@@cleophxbi same
@@cleophxbimine still haven't found my wattpad account with my fanfic😜
That’s.. such an invasion of privacy
The WROST part is when they force u to stand by them while they look into ur phone😭😭
I’m not scared of what’s on my phone, I’m scared of character ai.
The CPR instrumental
"You still use Instagram?"
Me: you still use Facebook?
But you can't forbid things to your mom, her mom didn't mean that Instagram was old 😂
Not me deleting everything before she checks it😍😍
Fr if my mom went through my phone
Y’all don’t wanna know what’s on my phone 😳
If my mom checked my phone I would be grounded since my death
I REMEMBER ONCE ON A TRAIN MY MUM CHECKED MY TABLET AND I WAS HER LOOKING AT IMAGES SO I PANICKED AND TAKE SLEEPED 😭
My parents don't look at my phone lol
This is exactly what happened to me.
17 days of hospital 😊
Wow.
"YOU HAVE DISCORD?!" "YOU HAVE GUILDED?!?!"
moms/dads will never understand wtf privacy means
Mike make everything more intense even when you know you didn’t do anything at all you still feel nervous
Jit went to the rooftop cuz she got caught rip I feel u girl 😭
Our parents pretend find just good things in our phones but we are adolescents we don't have "just good things" in our phones
I lost my mother's trust before she lost mine
My mother looked through my phone and took away my best friend in doing so
She was an online friend who I’ve known longer than anyone else (who wasn’t related to me) but my mom didn’t trust her and blocked her on everything
It was traumatizing and I had completely lost my trust in my mom that day so I didn’t tell her anything because she clearly didn’t trust me so why the hell should I trust her
“What’s wattpad? NO. “What are asmrs-“ NO. “What is smut ?” I WAS CURIOUS OKAY⁉️😭😭😭😭
BRO THIS IS SO RELATABLE 😭 I had discord and my dad saw me go on it so he checked my phone and thats how i got my phone tooken away for months 😭😭
I understand wanting to keep your kid safe and the importance of staying safe online but kids are more likely to share stuff with there freinds then they are there parents, and when I parent reads there conversations there losing there kids trust. Creating an home with a respect for privacy will acutely make it a lot easier for your kids to share stuff, Since there doing it willingly and not being forced.if a kid is in trouble I want them to want to ask me for help, not be so scared of getting in trouble they won’t tell me. When there no privacy in a home it just teaches kids how to hide things better and how to lie more convincingly
parents when human right #12: 😱😱
Not me thinking I'll never be a gach kid but here I am with 3 gacha apps 😭
Its over for me if my mom ever finds out abt character ai
👁️👁️
The same happened to me, except I had no excuses and my parents and sister lost all trust in me and now I feel watched 25/8 😍🔫
This is so true because I do hide things from my mom and I recently stopped but I still get nervous like I’m hiding something 😂
i remember crying bcz she saw me and my guy friend chat, turns out its ok for me to text guys that she knows😍 love u ma
So relatable🤣
I would die right there on the spot
Why do I feel like my head is boutta explode-
My mother doesn't even bother to check my phone and she mainly leaves me alone
I’m like terrified at night thinking they look at my phone to see if I have a bf but it’s a girl 💀💀💀💀😎
I'm so happy cause my money has a app so it's hooked up to MY phone so she can check WHENEVER SHE WANTS WITHOUT ASKING FOR MY PHONE HAHAHA-
WHY IS THIS SO FUCKING RELATABLE
Whenever my parents ask to look at my phone I quickly delete discord :3
I'm lucky . My mother never looks in my phone, she doesn't care what I do
Mine used to forcefully take my phone from me and wait until i was sleeping to check my messages and then torture me psychologically bc she knew everything i was talking abt.
I can understand you...that's the case with me too 😭❤.....