*BIG LIFE UPDATE!!! and CONSPIRACY THEORIES!* ruclips.net/video/01iQXY-anhc/видео.html Feel free to SKIP TO CONSPIRACY THEORIES 33:15 but we'd love if you hung out with us the whole show :) AHHHH!!!! it feels so good to be back! We love making this show so much! Hope you enjoy the episode! It's a ROLLER COASTER!
For anyone wondering about Uno and that doesn't watch Ryland Podcast the Sip, he told everyone that Uno is fine. They did all the tests and the vet thinks it was a one time thing. thank God he's such a good boy
For the second voicemail, can we please give props to the son? His dad legit told him don't tell your mom, and the son, knowing cheating was wrong and not wanting to harbor a secret, told his mom anyway. Glad the kid is learning to always do the right thing, even when getting peer pressured from.a family member to do the opposite
For Cece: I was a counselor at a domestic violence center and we would always teach survivors about red flags/warning signs for abuse. A big one is moving really fast at the start of relationships; saying I love you very soon, talking about marriage right away, moving in together very early on, etc. It’s a manipulation tactic to gain control over you and secure your trust and attachment to them. I hope this isn’t the case in your situation but please be careful and listen to your gut. Things that seem too good to be true usually are.
I hope she sees this comment! The fact that they’re moving too fast and that she keeps saying that it feels ‘ too good to be true’ it’s kind of like a gut feeling that something is off, her story is giving me alarm bells 🚨
i hope people don’t just assume she’s the victim. i hope neither of them are & they’re both just perfect for each other. but she’s the one who starting to talk about marriage, she got the name tattoo first & she is also choosing to have unprotected sex. i wouldn’t take that chance
To Cece : seriously be careful & take it slow. I’ve been in your position when I was 20, I’m now 24, moved in within 2 weeks, 6 months in I was pregnant, 10 weeks after my 1st baby I got pregnant again… now got a 1&2 year old all I can say is I’m now trying to leave an extremely emotionally abusive relationship & now my poor kids are in a broken family for my poor choices I made because our relationship was “perfect” at the start, it wasn’t until I had his kids he became the complete opposite & controls us. If he truly loves you, he won’t mind waiting, get to know each-other deeply, enjoy your dates together, you’re still just young & we tend me to be vulnerable at this age. I wish you very well!
@@saazoo yeah thats what I found too! I was wrapped in guilt for a while & was heart broken my idea of a family (because I come from a broken one myself) was over. But, now I find it a blessing in disguise I broke the cycle for my babies
Omg Shane Janell is my Mom, thank you so much for playing her message on the podcast! My sister, my mom, and I we're all freaking out!! We love you guys so much ❤️ and feel free to call her anytime...I'd love to hear her reaction 😂
For CeCe, i just want to remind everyone about Shane’s good friend that was nearly trafficked, that whole situation. It sounds SO SIMILAR, her saying it seems to perfect to be true, having an iffy feeling at times, etc.
I really really REALLY think all of CeCe's situation sounds like one string of red flags after another. She sounds so young, happy, and naive and that's the prime target for people who manipulate in relationships. I'm honestly worried for her.
@@dunemaeyeah but it was rushed so fast, narcissists are able to mask for months to like half a year until they usually break. some even last years. only time will tell
@vvheezy but nobody knows what is going on behind closed doors. From the outside it looks good but truly who knows what they're relationship is like behind or now even because she hasn't called much since the birth of her baby
I’m worried for Cece, because it’s a very common behaviour called ‘love bombing’ that abusers and narcissists use in the start of relationships to manipulate women.
You cant get manipulated as a woman like that, if you have some morals, dignity and conservative values, cause what kind of dumb chick is sleeping with a man after first time meeting him and talking about kids and all that...after a few hours? She must be straight up cheap, dumb and naive.
You guys should do a: Am I the Asshole? Episode of the podcast. Audience submitted scenarios/ voicemails. Everyone ( Ryland Chris Shane and Jared) vote yes or no using whiteboards.
My friend’s mom used to say that you should never marry someone until you’ve seen them in every season. Meaning you should know how they react/respond in all situations. What are they like when you guys have a big fight? What are they like when they’re sick? What are they like when they are unemployed, or insulted, or grieving, or depressed, or struggling financially? You should see them in action when things are hard and how they treat you and include you before you even consider marriage.
U will never get married then, unless U actually live 2gether 4 years U don't encounter these situations ❤Note: I married a guy after 1 year, we hung 6 months then he went out 2 Sea 4 six months, engagement was agreed upon his return and now it's almost 42 years ❤❤
@@flightmama3191 your situation is not the norm and therefore shouldn’t be presented as if it is. Most people will never have that kind of instant success, no matter how they go about it
@@whatsarahsays9304 Not instant success lots of hard work, sorry if U think I presented it that way 💗 Nothing is easy 4 a successful marriage it takes work on both parties 🎉
Your friends mom gave y’all good advice. My fiancé purposed to me after 8 years. We both were never super into marriage so I was shocked when he did. Doesn’t make a difference though, I still love him more each day with or without a ring.
OMG CECE LISTEN TO SHANE! I went through the same shit, moved in 2 months after knowing him, he did and said all the right things in the beginning, especially around my family and friends. As time went on the mask started to slip! He proposed the first two weeks of knowing each other! I decided to wait and I’m so glad I did because I dodged a bullet !!
Same here- my “too good to be true” relationship became the most abusive situation I’ve ever been in and went through some atrocious things. I hope she is careful and cautious with this person, as we always should be with new people 😖
For CeCe I felt the SAME way! He got me pregnant in 3 months and 3 years later he turned out to be a fuckjng narcissistic love bombing psycho that wanted to impregnate a woman he saw as “worthy” to him. And I’m mid 30’s. My son is 2 now and I’m still having to deal with his extreme rage and love bombing. I could write a novel but the point is I was 30 and thought this is the guy that I’ve been waiting for! He listens and is thoughtful and wants the same things!! But I didn’t realize that i basically TOLD him myself by saying this is what I want and this is what I’ve dealt with etc so I paved him a path to my heart. Watch out for those guys girls. Esp when they seem over sexual and ONLY talk shit about their exes. If they have nothing but hate or blame for their exes and / or only had a basket full of 1-3 year relationships and that’s it, red flag
She honestly doesn’t sound like she’s really all that sane tbh. She’s the one that got the tattoo first and he just agreed to get one done afterwards. So maybe she’s the issue here? We don’t even know the guy, maybe we should be worried about him! 😂
I’ve never like the thought of being married or having kids, and there absolutely no way I trust people know a days, especially men. Never trust them, It won’t end well. And yes I believe In true love and soulmates, but It doesn’t happen like that. Run Cece!!!! Run!!!!!
@Dakotah Stacy I had my first date in September, engaged by February, and married in May. We discussed every chore, every financial goal, and the decision not to have children. We had stable, professional jobs from which I'm now retired, and my husband is still employed. He was 28, and I was 35. I also believe strongly in not getting too involved until after 3 months. My experience shows 3 months is the "back to reality" stage, and real life creeps in revealing so much.
@Maria L I'm a bit more concerned about CeCe. She doesn't have the maturity to be a good mother. Also, why is she hanging around her sleeping boyfriend's house? She's 20 and should be doing something with her life. She may be doing homework, and/or she may be making sure no one else comes around, but it's odd. A good young couple should be encouraging each other to be their best and follow their dream, not have a baby, and maybe consider marriage. They both have issues imo. I'd love to hear what he has to say. Also, why was he sleeping? Shift work? Living at home? Up studying for a test the night before?
CeeCee's situation is a just a bit scary. There are so many instances where couples meet and "fall in love" at first sight, then, as their relationship progresses (very fast) the guy starts to tighten his hold on the woman, keeping track of where she is at all times, looking at things on her phone, keeping her from going out with her friends, eventually making it difficult for her to even spend time or talk to her family. It's never at first. The guy is "perfect" till it gets to the point where they are living together. Notice CeeCee's bf wants to move closer and then in with her? Lots of times, these guys are narcissists and master manipulators but they are smart enough to wait till they are in a better position to control. And he's already talking about how he can't wait to get her pregnant! Then comes the abuse that gets worse and worse. I'm with Shane. Run, CeeCee, run!
This right here!!! This is exactly how meeting my now ex was and that is exactly what happened with us. He was so absolutely perfect right up until we moved in together. It was like the second we got the keys to our apartment and it was just the two of us alone, he did a complete 180. The manipulation started, I wasn’t allowed to see or talk to certain friends or family, he had all my passwords to my social media, he had to approve selfies I wanted to post on Instagram or fb. It was all insane and I was very lucky to get out of that situation after just 8 months of dating. I thank God every day I got away.
@@vaishnavityagi4924 she’s the one who mentioned marriage first. she got the name tattoo first. and she’s there at his place while he’s sleeping. she seems very willing & they both play a part
And to Cici…. I have been in this situation, down to the tattoo, met online, baby planning, and everything literally… 4 months in he seriously tried to violently unalive me. Listen to them when they say it is not a good idea in the slightest, and yes you can have fun, and genuine feelings, but you can have fun while slowing down and enjoying each day with each other… weddings are expensive, but divorce is a lot of drama and even more expensive.
Thank you so much! It definitely is starting to feel like I’m alone with friends when we film these days. Which is a really nice feeling. I still feel a bit anxious on the inside. But it’s a lot better these days. I really appreciate you noticing and saying so! ☺️🙏 Thank you.
@@ChrisBstation you’re so precious. I love the dynamic of the four of you. Chris don’t sell yourself short, you’re extremely talented, and giggly and we love you lol ❤
Okay but I need to contact Cece cuz I LITERALLY went through the same exact situation last year and it's terrifying how spot on and similar her story is to mine! All I gotta say is listen to shane hunny and RUN 😅😭
29:39 Shane is 100% correct! Narcissists will “love bomb” in the beginning!!! It definitely seemed too good to be true for me as well! I’ve just recently moved out and left my narcissistic boyfriend! Everything was perfect at first! Once the mask came off, it was absolutely horrible. I experienced non stop fight or flight mode, diminished self esteem, needed therapy… this girl NEEDS to wait a year! Honestly, don’t get married until you’re in your 30’s anyway! Go have fun and fall in love with yourself first! Ty, guys! I love your podcast and your advice! 🙌❤️
Same! My ex acted like the perfect person for me, he talked about marriage and living together within the first two weeks of dating. He also told me “i fee more than like but it’s too early to say it.” And he was abusive after i got attached. She needs to run far away.
I'm still married to mine. Stuck here with 4 kids now. People like then should due! I hope he dies of kidney failure so I don't have to battle him for my kids that he doesn't care about.
@@melmelbry5754 Oh sweetie… I’m so sorry. A friend of mine is in the same position. We’ve bonded over our shared trauma experience. Like you, she has children with him. She is waiting for them to get a little older and when they leave the house she will go too. She’s holding everything together for her kids. I worry about her constantly and I’m in awe of her strength. Please try to find friends or therapy… people who will lift you up and truly help you without judgement. Even though he’s awful, please find support. If there is violence, please call for help! Stay strong… and stay safe! ❤️
Shane is spot on about Psychopaths and Narcissists, they match your energy, it's a manipulation technique called mirroring. Can never say for certain but I had a similar circumstance around the same age and looking back if I had followed through with all the things we spoke of seeing the man for who he truly is now. I dodged that bullet but still got hit by another and unfortunately that's what living in a fantasy world gets you. 😒
I had more than a year of PTSD after breaking up with a covert narcissist. They’re the most manipulative because they don’t have the overt narcissistic traits.
@JustGray people doing out of the top gestures, talking about marriage and babies way too soon, moving in, saying u are their soulmate, wanting to get tattoos together, you feel like you are getting sweeped out of your feet and that "it's too good to be true" and it is indeed, cause it's not real
OMG Cici BE CAREFUL GIRL no one is safe in this world and that sounds shady af. Love how the whole team are acting like worried dads though. Hope I can get this kind of advice from such affectionate people when i need it.
Shane. I am a married woman whose sitting at home quite alot now because I've had a stroke. I've been leaning towards quite alot of depression because I'm alone now I've lost everything including my best friend - but then I remembered you. I feel joy again I love you so much- please don't ever stop I need you your my rock! I hope you find joy your such a help to so many. All my love-jennifer❤
I loved the call with Cece 🤣 you guys should totally do episodes where you bring viewers on or FaceTime them or something like that! Would be so cool to see fans as guests just to hear other people’s lives and opinions 🙌🏼😊
my fav part of this podcast this episode was the blue raspberry candy being brought out and ryland goes “OH MY GOSH WE’RE SO BLESSED” that was so wholesome🥺
Cece, I hope for your sake that this is a one in a million love story- but as someone who worked in mental health- it sounds more like the beginning of so many abusive relationships that I’ve seen happen. It starts amazing, wild, fast. They’re like someone you’ve known forever. And then one day that passion isn’t there as much and they’re acting different. And you think it must just be that you’ve done something wrong. So you try even harder to get back to how it was before. But it never goes back to that. And they start to treat you worse and worse. Until one day you’re doing anything they tell you to do so that they’ll be happy- and they yell and cheat and blame it on you not being good enough. Speaking from experience with others and myself.. Again, I hope it’s not that. But please do wait. At LEAST a year before marrying, and even longer for a baby. And if he’s the right guy and this is all meant to be- then the wait will fly by and only make you stronger. Just Please. Please be safe.
Cece’s story reminds me of shane’s friend’s story about the guy who tried to traffic her and her son it eerily gave me the same vibes love bomb is scary
@@ariellalistigx yes Omg I was reading thru the comments and I was like why isn’t more people talking about this especially the women it’s such an important video to watch to be educated about this and how dangerous it is like know what’s signs to look out for and warn other people about it too o was shoooook and terrified after the video
Cici.. I hope she knows that's exactly how narcissists operate. My mom just got of almost the exact same situation.. She didn't notice the red flags at first either.
Everytime an episode ends I think "already???" even though it's been over an hour. I honestly would watch you guys for three hours or longer per episode
I’m genuinely concerned for CeCe. This reminds me of Shane’s friend, Brittani. Today, you can’t be too careful & I hope she slows everything down. And the same for him too, she could be the crazy one. You never know. 🤷🏻♀️
Let love flourish. She met his family, he met hers, they're both US citizens and have been forever. That is something that Brittani didn't do. She can be with him for at least a year, then she would've seen the worst and best of him. I wouldn't tell a girl to turn away a guy who is "too good to be true" because there is a chance that she threw away her best choice. This is how women end up with shitty men: by throwing out the good ones and realizing it when they get the bad ones
@Tig ol' Bitties you would be surprised that alot of narcissists/abusers can keep up the facade alot longer than a year. It can take years to truly get to know someone or realize that they are a narcissist. Unfortunately if someone seems too good to be true, they usually are. It sounds to me like he may be love bombing her.
I’m in my early 20s too but cece definitely needs some maturing and some reality checks. This is why I find it weird when anyone at least 18-24 is claiming to be so grown and mature to justify weird relationships cuz there’s still SO much growth at that time
but you literally are a grown ass adult once you're in your 20's, especially once you hit 21, like at that point you're GROWN grown. I agree that her situation sounds iffy, but it's nothing to do with her age lmao, i'm 28 and there's no discernible difference in maturity to how i was in the rest of my 20's
@@r4ndom7000maybe you were an overly mature young adult or an overly immature 28 year old but the norm is def not to be late 20s and go, "18-25 is so grown and mature and capable of making great choices in relationships and in life." People that age are still learning and figuring things out. I'm 31 and look at that age as still children. "The law" stating 18 is officially an adult on paper doesn't make them officially grown maturity-wise.
I’m so glad to hear Chris’s dad is doing better. And I’m sorry to hear about Uno. Uno is a beautiful wonderful dog. I hope he pulls through. ❤ Uno you’re amazing and beautiful!!!! *hugs Uno*
Or trafficked. Plenty of guys on dating apps looking to get married quickly and have kids so that he and his family can sell the kids once they're born. It's prevalent
I love you guys, I go from crying, to laughing to almost puking, to “oh my gosh” and to think Shane is the reason for the last 13 or so years of my life and saved me is crazy. I’ll always be here and I’m happy to know that there are older people watching then me because I always think I’m the oldest age range of viewers. Love you all and thinking of Chris, uno, and all of you!
That girl needs to at the bare minimum check her new boyfriend’s ID, and run a simple background check. Maybe they are both just super intense and get attached quickly…but it’s statistically unlikely. Sending all the love and warmth to Uno, it sounds like y’all did the best thing you could do in that situation.
I agree with Chris, just because its a robot doesnt mean we should just be free to treat it like crap. It only shows a persons true colours if they are happy to harm anything that reacts like that "because it doesnt have feelings". Thats a slippery slope frame of thought
I'm so glad you're back Shane.. you pulled me through a lot in the past.. just watching your videos to keep my mind busy was everything to me.. so thank you ❤
The whole Cici topic reminded me a lot of me and my other half. We met randomly in a parking lot when I was 19 and he was 22. He walked over and introduced himself and gave me his number. It was like love at first sight... We lived together after a week and had each other's names tattooed within 2 weeks of being together. It was fun and almost to good to be true is what I kept telling myself. There was a lot of struggles as time went on because he was not completely truthful in the beginning about who he was but we worked completely through it and here we are at our 10 year anniversary this year. We never did the whole marriage thing.. but we both wear rings and call each other husband and wife. We both have always said it's just a piece of paper.. and that doesn't change our love for each other. ❤️
@@davidblue78 not really. My boyfriend and I met at 18, started dating, moved in together and have a baby on the way. 😊 been together for less than two years, and have matching tattoos. He is a hard worker. An amazing dad already. And is always kind to me and my family. My boyfriends brother met his girlfriend 4 years ago, already have 3 kids together. Even after one of their kids passed away, he stuck around and is an amazing dad and works very hard for his family. Not every guy is bad. Women are just as capable of being narcissistic, abusive and manipulative. Don’t get into a relationship if you’re so scared of a future breakup, cheating or abuse. Could end up amazing. Also it’s a bit sad that everyone saying they had a bad relationship gets a ton of support and love… but the women sharing their happy stories get “no shade but” 😂
This was one of my FAVORITE episodes!! This podcast is everything and truly makes my day💜 Please never stop making videos, hopefully weekly podcasts are in the works 🙏💗
Usually not a commenter when watching the podcast but I want you and Ryland to know that as a dog owner of multiple seizure dogs that it’s hard but you have to give them time. My 6 year old Chihuahua is no bigger than a mug and the vet told us she wouldn’t make it past 6 months. Don’t lose hope! We are all praying for Uno❤
Regarding CeCe, if you suspect her bf is a narcissist, one sure way to make the mask slip is to see what happens when he doesn't get what he wants. It happened to me. The guy was so nice, fun, sociable. 7 months later when I wouldn't do something he wanted, he turned so quick and shortly after he dumped me and moved to a new town 100 miles away. Spooky. Always be on guard. I hope it's not a narcissistic situation, but it's best to pay attention so that you don't get physically, emotionally and mentally hurt.
I met a guy on a dating app. I was 22, we got engaged 3 months later then got married 1 month after that. I was 23 when we got married and moved in with him after marriage. Almost 12 years and 2 kids later.. we're still here!
so glad the tests came back fine and Uno is okay 🥺 this brought back memories of when my husky had a random seizure a couple years ago, it was terrifying, tests came back fine, she then had another one about 6 months later, what I think happened was that she accidentally licked some antifreeze from around a car, and the second one I realised it was a new treat we gave her that has the same ingredient as in antifreeze 🥲 if you think you've given her a new food/treat, and it happens again, please check the ingredients 🥺💜 I'm pretty sure I was called sodium polyphosphate, hopefully the same in the states 😊💜 big hug to Uno and you guys, and the rest of the fur babies!
RUN CECE!! If you stay, do what Shane and everyone else said and WAIT IT OUT ONE YEAR MINIMUM! You have your whole life, so there's no need to rush marriage and especially kids!! I would love for this to be an honest, true love story but there are also so many other possibilities! Also prayers for Uno
my 15 yr old dog went through something similar and it turned out to be a heart condition she was basically having a little heart attack and she would pass out it looked a lot like a seizure. she got on heart medicine around 3 years ago and she has been so much better but since she is so old other complications are starting to take effect and we dont know how much time she has left. you just have to love and appreciate your dogs while they are here and remember that despite how hard it is for us to lose them you are giving them the best life you can. ❤ i know people who say they cant adopt another dog bc its so painful to lose them and i understand that feeling but if you look at it from the dogs perspective you are doing them a service by giving them the best life you can.
For Cece- I was 22, fell head over heels in “love” got engaged and pregnant… here I am nearly 12 years later with my daughter who hasn’t seen him in 8 years.. Girl- relax!!!! Shane & crew- true story! And so much more I’d be willing to share! Learn from me!
@@firstlast-hb5xf you are the definition of the word “ew” no profile a$s judging people for what they enjoy watching, go be sad and alone somewhere else because you’re not getting attention out of anyone else so go and try to get attention from your parents again :(
Please be careful, CeCe! We're all invested now and just want the best for her. I genuinely feel like she's a part of this podcast family now and we're all trying to protect her. As a social worker, it's important that I add the love bombing is real, and even though it feels amazing, I hope she still keeps her guard up just little. The story so far reminds me of Shane's friend that was featured in a video on his main channel a couple years ago. I rewatched it recently, and I honestly think that's why he's cautious and serious about the situation--as he should be. Obviously, I am wishing the absolute best for CeCe! Also, on a completely unrelated note, the robber emoji 1000% existed.
Shane, all I can say is, I'M SO HAPPY UR FINALLY BACKKK!!!! I have literally watched every single video from u & when u weren't filming it was like a large part of my life was suddenly missing. Ur unapologetically crazy, (sometimes uncomfortably crude,) hilarious, & just Ah Idk I'm so happy ur back. I'm obsessed with ur conspiracy videos & noone does it like u do. Even if they are silly ones, IDC U MAKE THEM SO ENTERTAINING. ❤️ Y'all X a Gazillion.
The CiCi situation is scary af. The fact thats she's so oblivious to the obvious red flags screams trauma bond. I hate that Ryland and Chris were saying "have fun" "enjoy it" only for the 'fairytale love story' 🙄
But… think about it… she is the one who mention marriage and getting the tattoo… I bet she is the one who asked to meet her parents. To me it seems like he is going along with it. Maybe it’s mutual, maybe she is delusional.
I've had a relationship like this before, and it didn't work out. Mainly it was because we rushed so fast that throughout the relationship I ended up learning new things about my partner that made me regret even being in the relationship. Eventually the feelings of the relationship not working was mutual so fortunately we ended it but it definitely was a heartbreak. Cece sounds excited but oblivious at the same time. I hope this is a genuine relationship and not something bad that will unfold.
Uno is identical to my oldest boy and just hearing the story made me ball my eyes out. Much love you guys. No matter what happens just know Uno is the happiest with his family. He loves you all unconditionally no matter what.
Cece, it takes at least a year to really know someone. Everyone is fun, nice, great and awesome when things are going well, but when things aren't going so well is when someone shows their true colors. Most people leave when it's not just "fun" anymore. But life has it's ups and downs. You deserve someone who stays and works things out. Who fights for you and a good life together. It takes time to figure out if someone is like that.
I’ve been watching Shane for almost 8 years and When I heard about what happened to uno I literally started crying my eyes out I’ve had a seizure before and it’s so scary and the idea of an animal having one breaks my heart, I hope uno is ok and well recover ok, sending love and light and positive good energy to uno and Chris’s dad 🥹🫶🏻
Jared saying “who thought of something so STUPID?!” after the dyeing of the wine made me actually spit my drink and I’ve never done that before 🤣🤣🤣 That raw honesty tho! 🫰🏻🫰🏻🫰🏻
CeCe... I just watched Tyler Perry's Temptation and that's all I could think about. Like he was so perfect while he was courting her to leave her husband and then as soon as she did, started beating her and gave her hiv. Like cece's situation sounds like every story that ends in an abusive relationship. And she's so young that she can't see any of the red flags 😭 I wanted them to ask her if they've gotten into a fight yet bc I think the first fight is the first turning point in a relationship. I wanted to know if she had any older sisters or females in her life that are good influences.... but then Jared said maybe it's the other way around and now I can't stop thinking about her being the 5 stage clinger and him being trapped lmao help we need updates 😭
A girl who leaves her husband deserves that though. Be tricked into leaving someone you thought you loved, destroying that family bond with your husband and kids, just because you're crazy enough to go after a guy even though you already said your vows to not separate with your husband unless one of you dies
Had one of the most intense and romantic; burning flame relationships....we moved in together and in about 4 months it fell apart...horrible breakup. I can attest that a hot burning flame can easily burn itself out. Be Aware CeCe!!!
Really praying for uno, my friend just explained to me that his dog was having seizures and they had to put him down 😞 Really hope that doesn’t happen to Uno. On another note, for Ryland’s Recap I LOVE the soft yellow light behind him! The lighting in the room complimented all your outfits. Great job as always!!
sending my thoughts and prayers to uno, it breaks my heart to hear the news and i pray he gets better soon 😢 just want to say thank you for all the hard effort you put into these episodes despite the horrible situations you have gone through in your lives including chris too. i mean it’s incredible and in no way should you feel pressured to film an episode of your behind the scenes hasn’t been so positive lately. we love you guys so much and support you no matter what.
This podcast always brings smiles to my face. I pray for poor Uno :( I hope he's doing much better and being comforted by you, Ryland, Riley, Honey, Cheeto, and Louis!
Love you Shane, been with you since 2008 I was like 6 watching you. Thanks for being you and existing. I’m so grateful for you. Thank you for helping me through so much darkness
Crying my eyes out over uno. Please keep us updated. Poor boy. Animals are what make a house a home. They are everything. I'll ask the universe to take care of your boy. My girl had surgery 6 months ago and they rang me mid surgery to put her down. I said no, let fate decide. They told me she was going to die. She's still here and stronger than ever. She beat the odds. Never give up, despite the outcome, don't let any vet tell you he's too poorly to survive if you get bad news, the universe has a way of surprising us. From one animal lover to another, i wish you all the very best. 😢❤
They have such great synergy together. I would be so down for an all advice episode. They're very wise. Not to mention hysterical. Since the beginning Shane ❤❤ Love everything you do.
😂this episode got me CeCe's story sounds just like my marriage we met online met in person a week later moved in with him the day we went on out first date we got name tattoos and got married less than 3 weeks into the relationship and it's now been 14 years as of April 15th and we were in our 20s 😂😂 also Hope your pup feels better ❤️
@@shezdi5503 no everything is good was just making the point that sometimes you just know that they are your person and that it can work even under those types of circumstances it won't work that way for everyone but it did us
Awwww I'm so glad for Shane & Ryland & the rest of the family & friends who know Uno personally, and those of us who have watched these guys & all of the "crew" from back in the day (some early videos are still my faves....and just saw a video from Drew, that made me proud of him also!) It's been an amazing & sometimes heartbreaking rollercoaster, for anyone watching as well as living it! Thank you, humans and fur babies equally, for sharing your lives with us, we love your family so so so much! One of my teacup fur babies had seizures often, and it was terrifying everytime she had one, and sadly I only got 5 wonderful years with my Cricket, but stuffed as much love & num-nums into every day as possible for her, as I try my best to do with all my babies! Our furry family members take our hearts in a way no human really can, it's such a bond & we are so lucky to be able to have them in our lives, I love seeing you guys spoil all your babies & am excited to share your next chapter....much love!!
Seizures are freaking terrifying!!! My brother has them, and my Australian Shepard used to have seizures too, they eventually stopped but he still gets teeny tiny ones here and there. We put my dog on a seizure medication and it worked pretty well for a while!! Prayers to Uno, I’ve been watching you both for what seems like my whole life. Love you Uno, you got this buddy!!! (I also have a lab so I feel your pain a little extra)💔❤️
My husband and I could tell right away we would be together, but I pushed away bc I was already pregnant, he waited 5 months for me to come around. We also didn't exchange numbers right away, but allowed to meet naturally, we had mutual friends. Finally, I decided to give it a try and dated. We moved in, had extreme issues to go through and deal with before marriage. We were ready after 2 years. We have had extreme ups and downs but stuck through it. We are. We are celebrating 10 years next week. Take your time Cece, so you can see underneath the mask.
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For anyone wondering about Uno and that doesn't watch Ryland Podcast the Sip, he told everyone that Uno is fine. They did all the tests and the vet thinks it was a one time thing. thank God he's such a good boy
gahh-I’m so happy you posted this, thank you!
@@amandapandabb of course! I love Uno. Thank God he's ok
Thank goodness. Thanks for this comment🙏🏻❤
Oh thank you!! Was a second away from tearing up! 🥲❤️
Thank you for posting this!
For the second voicemail, can we please give props to the son? His dad legit told him don't tell your mom, and the son, knowing cheating was wrong and not wanting to harbor a secret, told his mom anyway. Glad the kid is learning to always do the right thing, even when getting peer pressured from.a family member to do the opposite
yes!!!
His mother raised him well. Props to both of them ♥
Men r so disgusting making kids participate in a lie
I also don't think she throws him.l Under the bus. He did nothing wrong it's not him who should be talked about. So I hope she talks to. Her husband
/,+?? M😮😂
For Cece: I was a counselor at a domestic violence center and we would always teach survivors about red flags/warning signs for abuse. A big one is moving really fast at the start of relationships; saying I love you very soon, talking about marriage right away, moving in together very early on, etc. It’s a manipulation tactic to gain control over you and secure your trust and attachment to them. I hope this isn’t the case in your situation but please be careful and listen to your gut. Things that seem too good to be true usually are.
I hope she sees this comment! The fact that they’re moving too fast and that she keeps saying that it feels ‘ too good to be true’ it’s kind of like a gut feeling that something is off, her story is giving me alarm bells 🚨
i hope people don’t just assume she’s the victim. i hope neither of them are & they’re both just perfect for each other. but she’s the one who starting to talk about marriage, she got the name tattoo first & she is also choosing to have unprotected sex. i wouldn’t take that chance
Its funny that people this shes the victim, shes just as into it as he is 😂
Hes love bombing her
100% too fast
As a therapist, I am completely with Shane on his advice of handling it as a family and not having anymore secrets.
To Cece : seriously be careful & take it slow. I’ve been in your position when I was 20, I’m now 24, moved in within 2 weeks, 6 months in I was pregnant, 10 weeks after my 1st baby I got pregnant again… now got a 1&2 year old all I can say is I’m now trying to leave an extremely emotionally abusive relationship & now my poor kids are in a broken family for my poor choices I made because our relationship was “perfect” at the start, it wasn’t until I had his kids he became the complete opposite & controls us. If he truly loves you, he won’t mind waiting, get to know each-other deeply, enjoy your dates together, you’re still just young & we tend me to be vulnerable at this age. I wish you very well!
This advice is golden
Exactly right, very well put. Congrats on getting out of a toxic situation. Your kids will thank you one day.
Yes. It changes once they are not the center of attention anymore. It’s cruel to learn and so hard to get out of this toxic relationship.
@@carver877 aww thank you! 😊 I would hate for them to grow up with the wrong idea of a healthy relationship
@@saazoo yeah thats what I found too! I was wrapped in guilt for a while & was heart broken my idea of a family (because I come from a broken one myself) was over. But, now I find it a blessing in disguise I broke the cycle for my babies
Omg Shane Janell is my Mom, thank you so much for playing her message on the podcast! My sister, my mom, and I we're all freaking out!! We love you guys so much ❤️ and feel free to call her anytime...I'd love to hear her reaction 😂
Your mom is amazing!
Thanks! She can say some pretty ridiculous things 😂
Hahahaha I love that she thought it was weed reference! ❤😂
😂 your mum is so cute. Happy birthday to her.
Your mom is my spirit animal 💚
For CeCe, i just want to remind everyone about Shane’s good friend that was nearly trafficked, that whole situation. It sounds SO SIMILAR, her saying it seems to perfect to be true, having an iffy feeling at times, etc.
Yeah I was thinking about Brittani Louise Taylor, so similar.
i said the same thing!!!
@@theunhingedjournee what happened with her?
@@Userhandleidk She got into a relationship with a complete psycho! Search for her on youtube for the full story it's insane and scary as hell!
@@Userhandleidk he has a video on his old Shane about it
I really really REALLY think all of CeCe's situation sounds like one string of red flags after another. She sounds so young, happy, and naive and that's the prime target for people who manipulate in relationships. I'm honestly worried for her.
She’s VERY naive
@@madisonament2535well they’re still together and have a kid now so🤷🏽♀️
@@dunemaeyeah but it was rushed so fast, narcissists are able to mask for months to like half a year until they usually break. some even last years. only time will tell
@vvheezy but nobody knows what is going on behind closed doors. From the outside it looks good but truly who knows what they're relationship is like behind or now even because she hasn't called much since the birth of her baby
I’m worried for Cece, because it’s a very common behaviour called ‘love bombing’ that abusers and narcissists use in the start of relationships to manipulate women.
First thing I thought too. He's love bombing.
You cant get manipulated as a woman like that, if you have some morals, dignity and conservative values, cause what kind of dumb chick is sleeping with a man after first time meeting him and talking about kids and all that...after a few hours? She must be straight up cheap, dumb and naive.
I thought of love bombing too. Or if he suggests life insurance maybe take a step back.
@L 🩷 we know she isn't. Were talking about the guy is love bombing her.
@@mdngtnn17 for sure!
You guys should do a: Am I the Asshole? Episode of the podcast. Audience submitted scenarios/ voicemails. Everyone ( Ryland Chris Shane and Jared) vote yes or no using whiteboards.
Omg this is such a good idea!!!
This is such a good idea! B
YES PLS. i’m addicted to AITA by rslash and would love shane to do this with the boys
pls!
Yes!!
PLEASE NEVER STOP MAKING THIS PODCAST - I LOVE IT SO MUCH!!
I agree
I concur 🙋♀️
I back this up
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I agree!! I genuinely look forward to it!!
My friend’s mom used to say that you should never marry someone until you’ve seen them in every season. Meaning you should know how they react/respond in all situations. What are they like when you guys have a big fight? What are they like when they’re sick? What are they like when they are unemployed, or insulted, or grieving, or depressed, or struggling financially? You should see them in action when things are hard and how they treat you and include you before you even consider marriage.
U will never get married then, unless U actually live 2gether 4 years U don't encounter these situations ❤Note: I married a guy after 1 year, we hung 6 months then he went out 2 Sea 4 six months, engagement was agreed upon his return and now it's almost 42 years ❤❤
@@flightmama3191 your situation is not the norm and therefore shouldn’t be presented as if it is. Most people will never have that kind of instant success, no matter how they go about it
@@whatsarahsays9304 Not instant success lots of hard work, sorry if U think I presented it that way 💗 Nothing is easy 4 a successful marriage it takes work on both parties 🎉
Totally agree! Going through all the seasons is SO important and telling of a person.
Your friends mom gave y’all good advice.
My fiancé purposed to me after 8 years. We both were never super into marriage so I was shocked when he did. Doesn’t make a difference though, I still love him more each day with or without a ring.
OMG CECE LISTEN TO SHANE! I went through the same shit, moved in 2 months after knowing him, he did and said all the right things in the beginning, especially around my family and friends. As time went on the mask started to slip! He proposed the first two weeks of knowing each other! I decided to wait and I’m so glad I did because I dodged a bullet !!
'That is what they do, It's called Love bombing!!'
YEAH! LOVE BOMBING VIBES
“Of course she was sad. But now she's glad she dodged a bullet.”
Dude this sounds like class A manipulation.
Same here- my “too good to be true” relationship became the most abusive situation I’ve ever been in and went through some atrocious things. I hope she is careful and cautious with this person, as we always should be with new people 😖
I'm so sorry about Uno. It's the scariest thing to see your dog in pain or distress and I am sending all of the love and prayers.
For CeCe I felt the SAME way! He got me pregnant in 3 months and 3 years later he turned out to be a fuckjng narcissistic love bombing psycho that wanted to impregnate a woman he saw as “worthy” to him. And I’m mid 30’s. My son is 2 now and I’m still having to deal with his extreme rage and love bombing. I could write a novel but the point is I was 30 and thought this is the guy that I’ve been waiting for! He listens and is thoughtful and wants the same things!! But I didn’t realize that i basically TOLD him myself by saying this is what I want and this is what I’ve dealt with etc so I paved him a path to my heart. Watch out for those guys girls. Esp when they seem over sexual and ONLY talk shit about their exes. If they have nothing but hate or blame for their exes and / or only had a basket full of 1-3 year relationships and that’s it, red flag
Sorry you had to go through this. People suck. 😢
Well said
I HOPE SHE SEES THIS !!!
Cece needs to be a recurring guest to keep us all updated 😮 This is sketch
She is lying about to whole thing
@@Xander-Gen good job you're her and able to confirm.
@@kizzyharris3727 Anyone with half a brain would see through the bullshit. Don't be so gullible.
She honestly doesn’t sound like she’s really all that sane tbh. She’s the one that got the tattoo first and he just agreed to get one done afterwards. So maybe she’s the issue here? We don’t even know the guy, maybe we should be worried about him! 😂
@@FynnsMumma I mean we don't even know either of them besides what we're being told
The fact that CeCe is talking about getting pregnant is truly terrifying.
Especially at 22
@Maria L yes thank you! I picked that up too. Sounds a lot like the start of my relationship with my ex narc.
I’ve never like the thought of being married or having kids, and there absolutely no way I trust people know a days, especially men. Never trust them, It won’t end well. And yes I believe In true love and soulmates, but It doesn’t happen like that. Run Cece!!!! Run!!!!!
@Dakotah Stacy I had my first date in September, engaged by February, and married in May. We discussed every chore, every financial goal, and the decision not to have children. We had stable, professional jobs from which I'm now retired, and my husband is still employed. He was 28, and I was 35. I also believe strongly in not getting too involved until after 3 months. My experience shows 3 months is the "back to reality" stage, and real life creeps in revealing so much.
@Maria L I'm a bit more concerned about CeCe. She doesn't have the maturity to be a good mother. Also, why is she hanging around her sleeping boyfriend's house? She's 20 and should be doing something with her life. She may be doing homework, and/or she may be making sure no one else comes around, but it's odd. A good young couple should be encouraging each other to be their best and follow their dream, not have a baby, and maybe consider marriage. They both have issues imo. I'd love to hear what he has to say. Also, why was he sleeping? Shift work? Living at home? Up studying for a test the night before?
CeeCee's situation is a just a bit scary. There are so many instances where couples meet and "fall in love" at first sight, then, as their relationship progresses (very fast) the guy starts to tighten his hold on the woman, keeping track of where she is at all times, looking at things on her phone, keeping her from going out with her friends, eventually making it difficult for her to even spend time or talk to her family. It's never at first. The guy is "perfect" till it gets to the point where they are living together. Notice CeeCee's bf wants to move closer and then in with her? Lots of times, these guys are narcissists and master manipulators but they are smart enough to wait till they are in a better position to control. And he's already talking about how he can't wait to get her pregnant! Then comes the abuse that gets worse and worse. I'm with Shane. Run, CeeCee, run!
This right here!!! This is exactly how meeting my now ex was and that is exactly what happened with us. He was so absolutely perfect right up until we moved in together. It was like the second we got the keys to our apartment and it was just the two of us alone, he did a complete 180. The manipulation started, I wasn’t allowed to see or talk to certain friends or family, he had all my passwords to my social media, he had to approve selfies I wanted to post on Instagram or fb. It was all insane and I was very lucky to get out of that situation after just 8 months of dating. I thank God every day I got away.
Love
Bombing they call it!
That whole thing with CeCe sounds like love bombing and it’s the scariest thing ever… really hope she’s careful..
Omg, that is exactly what I was thinking too. She needs to be careful. This could turn out terrible for her. I hope it works out.
I am getting Narcissistic vibes from that guy
But why do I get the vibes she’s love bobbing him tho 😮
@@vaishnavityagi4924 she’s the one who mentioned marriage first. she got the name tattoo first. and she’s there at his place while he’s sleeping. she seems very willing & they both play a part
They both sound insane tbh 😬
Shane you’re so incredible for recognizing the childs possible trauma, you’re going to be an amazing dad🥹💗
And to Cici…. I have been in this situation, down to the tattoo, met online, baby planning, and everything literally… 4 months in he seriously tried to violently unalive me.
Listen to them when they say it is not a good idea in the slightest, and yes you can have fun, and genuine feelings, but you can have fun while slowing down and enjoying each day with each other… weddings are expensive, but divorce is a lot of drama and even more expensive.
I hope Uno is doing better!! Sending him some love. I remember him being a little puppy when i began watching Shane and Ryland. ❤
I feel like Chris has gotten more and more confident with each episode and I LOOOVE it!!! Also he looks great in that shirt 👏🏼
Thank you so much! It definitely is starting to feel like I’m alone with friends when we film these days. Which is a really nice feeling. I still feel a bit anxious on the inside. But it’s a lot better these days. I really appreciate you noticing and saying so! ☺️🙏 Thank you.
@@ChrisBstation Chris you’re such an Angel bb 🥹💕💕
@@ChrisBstation you’re so precious. I love the dynamic of the four of you. Chris don’t sell yourself short, you’re extremely talented, and giggly and we love you lol ❤
Okay but I need to contact Cece cuz I LITERALLY went through the same exact situation last year and it's terrifying how spot on and similar her story is to mine! All I gotta say is listen to shane hunny and RUN 😅😭
29:39 Shane is 100% correct! Narcissists will “love bomb” in the beginning!!! It definitely seemed too good to be true for me as well! I’ve just recently moved out and left my narcissistic boyfriend! Everything was perfect at first! Once the mask came off, it was absolutely horrible. I experienced non stop fight or flight mode, diminished self esteem, needed therapy… this girl NEEDS to wait a year! Honestly, don’t get married until you’re in your 30’s anyway! Go have fun and fall in love with yourself first! Ty, guys! I love your podcast and your advice! 🙌❤️
Same! My ex acted like the perfect person for me, he talked about marriage and living together within the first two weeks of dating. He also told me “i fee more than like but it’s too early to say it.”
And he was abusive after i got attached.
She needs to run far away.
@@AngelaEAwesome I’m so sorry that happened. It’s incredibly sad to know that there are so many toxic people out here! Be careful CeCe!
I'm still married to mine. Stuck here with 4 kids now.
People like then should due! I hope he dies of kidney failure so I don't have to battle him for my kids that he doesn't care about.
@@melmelbry5754 Oh sweetie… I’m so sorry. A friend of mine is in the same position. We’ve bonded over our shared trauma experience. Like you, she has children with him. She is waiting for them to get a little older and when they leave the house she will go too. She’s holding everything together for her kids. I worry about her constantly and I’m in awe of her strength. Please try to find friends or therapy… people who will lift you up and truly help you without judgement. Even though he’s awful, please find support. If there is violence, please call for help! Stay strong… and stay safe! ❤️
Narcissistic men are even worse in their 30s....
Shane is spot on about Psychopaths and Narcissists, they match your energy, it's a manipulation technique called mirroring. Can never say for certain but I had a similar circumstance around the same age and looking back if I had followed through with all the things we spoke of seeing the man for who he truly is now. I dodged that bullet but still got hit by another and unfortunately that's what living in a fantasy world gets you. 😒
Gave me mirroring and love bombing vibes, but I hope that isn't what going on in her case and I'm just being paranoid. x)
I've been witth a narcisist and that is LOVE BOMBING for suure!
I had more than a year of PTSD after breaking up with a covert narcissist.
They’re the most manipulative because they don’t have the overt narcissistic traits.
@JustGray people doing out of the top gestures, talking about marriage and babies way too soon, moving in, saying u are their soulmate, wanting to get tattoos together, you feel like you are getting sweeped out of your feet and that "it's too good to be true" and it is indeed, cause it's not real
Scary Uno Update :( - 04:31
Fashion Update - 06:45
Viewer Voicemails! - 08:58
Cece Relationship Update - 20:29
CONSPIRACY THEORIES - 33:12
Optical Illusions - 34:50
THE DRESS - 37:36
What's in my Mouth? - 49:38
The Taste of Color - 52:51
Jack in the Box - 56:10
Special Cameo Surprise - 59:48
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OMG Cici BE CAREFUL GIRL no one is safe in this world and that sounds shady af. Love how the whole team are acting like worried dads though. Hope I can get this kind of advice from such affectionate people when i need it.
“What’s crazier is even with all that proof I still don’t believe you” - Ryland .. me asf LOL 😂
Me 😂
Read this just as Ryland was saying it 😂
@@ingridayarza every like I get that brings me too it I re-read it in his voice 😂👏🏼
Shane it’s ok to be sad please never feel guilty for being sad ❤
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@@leahhamo19083 hi Leah I’m Leah 😂❤️ Lili is my nickname 😂
@@lilianjenae well hi Leah also lili 🤣❤️
Shane. I am a married woman whose sitting at home quite alot now because I've had a stroke. I've been leaning towards quite alot of depression because I'm alone now I've lost everything including my best friend - but then I remembered you. I feel joy again I love you so much- please don't ever stop I need you your my rock! I hope you find joy your such a help to so many. All my love-jennifer❤
I Hope you’re doing well
I loved the call with Cece 🤣 you guys should totally do episodes where you bring viewers on or FaceTime them or something like that! Would be so cool to see fans as guests just to hear other people’s lives and opinions 🙌🏼😊
my fav part of this podcast this episode was the blue raspberry candy being brought out and ryland goes “OH MY GOSH WE’RE SO BLESSED” that was so wholesome🥺
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I burst out laughing when he said “This has to be expensive to manufacture” while clearly showing how flimsy it is 😂
"I can speak with a British accent for 3 weeks it don't mean I'm British." I love Jerid so much! He is the best at giving advice!!!
This podcast series is actually my favourite thing ever.
And shane‘s brother is so cool.
Cece, I hope for your sake that this is a one in a million love story- but as someone who worked in mental health- it sounds more like the beginning of so many abusive relationships that I’ve seen happen. It starts amazing, wild, fast. They’re like someone you’ve known forever. And then one day that passion isn’t there as much and they’re acting different. And you think it must just be that you’ve done something wrong. So you try even harder to get back to how it was before. But it never goes back to that. And they start to treat you worse and worse. Until one day you’re doing anything they tell you to do so that they’ll be happy- and they yell and cheat and blame it on you not being good enough. Speaking from experience with others and myself..
Again, I hope it’s not that. But please do wait. At LEAST a year before marrying, and even longer for a baby.
And if he’s the right guy and this is all meant to be- then the wait will fly by and only make you stronger. Just Please. Please be safe.
Cece’s story reminds me of shane’s friend’s story about the guy who tried to traffic her and her son it eerily gave me the same vibes love bomb is scary
Yess.. That exacly what crossed my mind
100% it’s very similar to the Britani Louise Taylor story.
I WAS JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS. THAT BOOK WAS HORRIFYING
@@ariellalistigx yes Omg I was reading thru the comments and I was like why isn’t more people talking about this especially the women it’s such an important video to watch to be educated about this and how dangerous it is like know what’s signs to look out for and warn other people about it too o was shoooook and terrified after the video
Omg yes
Idc what the internet says, you've made mistakes, but you're genuine, human, relatable, I love you Shane 💞
Yesss 👏🏼
Cici.. I hope she knows that's exactly how narcissists operate. My mom just got of almost the exact same situation.. She didn't notice the red flags at first either.
I love that Cris is ALWAYS shook by any “conspiracy” anyone brings up
he’s so cute
Everytime an episode ends I think "already???" even though it's been over an hour. I honestly would watch you guys for three hours or longer per episode
I’m genuinely concerned for CeCe. This reminds me of Shane’s friend, Brittani. Today, you can’t be too careful & I hope she slows everything down. And the same for him too, she could be the crazy one. You never know. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes!!!
Let love flourish. She met his family, he met hers, they're both US citizens and have been forever. That is something that Brittani didn't do. She can be with him for at least a year, then she would've seen the worst and best of him. I wouldn't tell a girl to turn away a guy who is "too good to be true" because there is a chance that she threw away her best choice. This is how women end up with shitty men: by throwing out the good ones and realizing it when they get the bad ones
@Tig ol' Bitties you would be surprised that alot of narcissists/abusers can keep up the facade alot longer than a year. It can take years to truly get to know someone or realize that they are a narcissist. Unfortunately if someone seems too good to be true, they usually are. It sounds to me like he may be love bombing her.
Omg the whole Cece saga, I was yelling no! If it's too good to be true it most likely is. Shane I totally agree with you on the situation.
I’m in my early 20s too but cece definitely needs some maturing and some reality checks. This is why I find it weird when anyone at least 18-24 is claiming to be so grown and mature to justify weird relationships cuz there’s still SO much growth at that time
I feel the same I feel like I'm changing daily. Like... I'm 21. Cece get a lil real with this one .... this is too lightning fast
but you literally are a grown ass adult once you're in your 20's, especially once you hit 21, like at that point you're GROWN grown. I agree that her situation sounds iffy, but it's nothing to do with her age lmao, i'm 28 and there's no discernible difference in maturity to how i was in the rest of my 20's
@@r4ndom7000maybe you were an overly mature young adult or an overly immature 28 year old but the norm is def not to be late 20s and go, "18-25 is so grown and mature and capable of making great choices in relationships and in life." People that age are still learning and figuring things out. I'm 31 and look at that age as still children. "The law" stating 18 is officially an adult on paper doesn't make them officially grown maturity-wise.
Cece needs to do a background check! Make sure there’s no domestic violence or any kind of prison record
Still thinking of your dad chris. Sending prayers ❤ you are such a positive and bright person!!
@marye.decuyke4801👼❤🧸🙏
I’m so glad to hear Chris’s dad is doing better. And I’m sorry to hear about Uno. Uno is a beautiful wonderful dog. I hope he pulls through. ❤ Uno you’re amazing and beautiful!!!! *hugs Uno*
Would love to know more about CeCes past relationships and childhood. She could just be easy bait for a narcissist. Stay safe girl
I agree!!!
Or trafficked. Plenty of guys on dating apps looking to get married quickly and have kids so that he and his family can sell the kids once they're born. It's prevalent
The fact it hasn’t even been 2 months and they’re already talking about having a baby and he said I hope it happens.... YIKES
I love you guys, I go from crying, to laughing to almost puking, to “oh my gosh” and to think Shane is the reason for the last 13 or so years of my life and saved me is crazy. I’ll always be here and I’m happy to know that there are older people watching then me because I always think I’m the oldest age range of viewers. Love you all and thinking of Chris, uno, and all of you!
I always thought I was the oldest too as I'm 43. it's great to know that there are more of us here. 😁
I’m 31…that’s older right..? Lol
Shane saved me thru my divorce lol.
That girl needs to at the bare minimum check her new boyfriend’s ID, and run a simple background check. Maybe they are both just super intense and get attached quickly…but it’s statistically unlikely. Sending all the love and warmth to Uno, it sounds like y’all did the best thing you could do in that situation.
I agree with Chris, just because its a robot doesnt mean we should just be free to treat it like crap. It only shows a persons true colours if they are happy to harm anything that reacts like that "because it doesnt have feelings". Thats a slippery slope frame of thought
I'm so glad you're back Shane.. you pulled me through a lot in the past.. just watching your videos to keep my mind busy was everything to me.. so thank you ❤
1:06:16 Chris breaking the fourth wall and blankly staring into the camera while aggressively opening the push pop is the funniest thing I’ve seen. 😅
The whole Cici topic reminded me a lot of me and my other half. We met randomly in a parking lot when I was 19 and he was 22. He walked over and introduced himself and gave me his number. It was like love at first sight... We lived together after a week and had each other's names tattooed within 2 weeks of being together. It was fun and almost to good to be true is what I kept telling myself. There was a lot of struggles as time went on because he was not completely truthful in the beginning about who he was but we worked completely through it and here we are at our 10 year anniversary this year. We never did the whole marriage thing.. but we both wear rings and call each other husband and wife. We both have always said it's just a piece of paper.. and that doesn't change our love for each other. ❤️
No shade Amanda but you guys are an exception
@@davidblue78 not really. My boyfriend and I met at 18, started dating, moved in together and have a baby on the way. 😊 been together for less than two years, and have matching tattoos. He is a hard worker. An amazing dad already. And is always kind to me and my family.
My boyfriends brother met his girlfriend 4 years ago, already have 3 kids together. Even after one of their kids passed away, he stuck around and is an amazing dad and works very hard for his family.
Not every guy is bad. Women are just as capable of being narcissistic, abusive and manipulative. Don’t get into a relationship if you’re so scared of a future breakup, cheating or abuse. Could end up amazing.
Also it’s a bit sad that everyone saying they had a bad relationship gets a ton of support and love… but the women sharing their happy stories get “no shade but” 😂
@@davidblue78he lied to her and she chose to stay. Is that really an exception 💀
This was one of my FAVORITE episodes!! This podcast is everything and truly makes my day💜 Please never stop making videos, hopefully weekly podcasts are in the works 🙏💗
Hearing Chris give an update about his dad about made me cry. Sending love to all of you & uno!
Usually not a commenter when watching the podcast but I want you and Ryland to know that as a dog owner of multiple seizure dogs that it’s hard but you have to give them time. My 6 year old Chihuahua is no bigger than a mug and the vet told us she wouldn’t make it past 6 months. Don’t lose hope! We are all praying for Uno❤
Regarding CeCe, if you suspect her bf is a narcissist, one sure way to make the mask slip is to see what happens when he doesn't get what he wants. It happened to me. The guy was so nice, fun, sociable. 7 months later when I wouldn't do something he wanted, he turned so quick and shortly after he dumped me and moved to a new town 100 miles away. Spooky. Always be on guard. I hope it's not a narcissistic situation, but it's best to pay attention so that you don't get physically, emotionally and mentally hurt.
I met a guy on a dating app. I was 22, we got engaged 3 months later then got married 1 month after that. I was 23 when we got married and moved in with him after marriage. Almost 12 years and 2 kids later.. we're still here!
so glad the tests came back fine and Uno is okay 🥺 this brought back memories of when my husky had a random seizure a couple years ago, it was terrifying, tests came back fine, she then had another one about 6 months later, what I think happened was that she accidentally licked some antifreeze from around a car, and the second one I realised it was a new treat we gave her that has the same ingredient as in antifreeze 🥲 if you think you've given her a new food/treat, and it happens again, please check the ingredients 🥺💜 I'm pretty sure I was called sodium polyphosphate, hopefully the same in the states 😊💜 big hug to Uno and you guys, and the rest of the fur babies!
Thank god. I cried
RUN CECE!! If you stay, do what Shane and everyone else said and WAIT IT OUT ONE YEAR MINIMUM! You have your whole life, so there's no need to rush marriage and especially kids!! I would love for this to be an honest, true love story but there are also so many other possibilities! Also prayers for Uno
Right!!! The alarms bells I got from her story and I got chills when she said that he couldn’t wait to get her pregnant!
my 15 yr old dog went through something similar and it turned out to be a heart condition she was basically having a little heart attack and she would pass out it looked a lot like a seizure. she got on heart medicine around 3 years ago and she has been so much better but since she is so old other complications are starting to take effect and we dont know how much time she has left.
you just have to love and appreciate your dogs while they are here and remember that despite how hard it is for us to lose them you are giving them the best life you can. ❤ i know people who say they cant adopt another dog bc its so painful to lose them and i understand that feeling but if you look at it from the dogs perspective you are doing them a service by giving them the best life you can.
Every time one of these gets posted my day automatically gets so much better! Thank you!
I literally love everyone in this podcast - each bring such a great personality to the table!! Love you guys!
For Cece- I was 22, fell head over heels in “love” got engaged and pregnant… here I am nearly 12 years later with my daughter who hasn’t seen him in 8 years..
Girl- relax!!!!
Shane & crew- true story! And so much more I’d be willing to share! Learn from me!
I’m back here rewatching and we can NEVER forget that Ryland saw blue and black at first
My heart goes out to little Uno 😭 I’ve been with you guys since you got him. I hope this was just a fluke and he makes a speedy recovery ❤
Does anyone else rewatch all of Shane and Ryland‘s videos until they post a new one… hahaha
Yes I do 😂
@@firstlast-hb5xf you are the definition of the word “ew” no profile a$s judging people for what they enjoy watching, go be sad and alone somewhere else because you’re not getting attention out of anyone else so go and try to get attention from your parents again :(
Oh my god litetally Shane is all I watch. All of his old videos and everything
@@savannamichelson1929 same!
Okay, we need monthly updates from Cece! I think we are all so invested in the love story!
I have ALWAYS seen white and gold but when you painted the colors onto the side with the dropper it had me shook.
Please be careful, CeCe! We're all invested now and just want the best for her. I genuinely feel like she's a part of this podcast family now and we're all trying to protect her. As a social worker, it's important that I add the love bombing is real, and even though it feels amazing, I hope she still keeps her guard up just little. The story so far reminds me of Shane's friend that was featured in a video on his main channel a couple years ago. I rewatched it recently, and I honestly think that's why he's cautious and serious about the situation--as he should be. Obviously, I am wishing the absolute best for CeCe!
Also, on a completely unrelated note, the robber emoji 1000% existed.
Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about Uno. It's so hard seeing our furry family members go through something so scary. Sending love to you all ❤
Ryland is easily making his way to the very top of my favorite people list! He’s so funny! I just can’t! 😂
Wholeheartedly agree with this comment! Dude is really hilarious and so cute
He’s always been this great 😂 my favorite videos are some of his first on Shane’s channel bc he’s so authentically himself.
Shane, all I can say is, I'M SO HAPPY UR FINALLY BACKKK!!!!
I have literally watched every single video from u & when u weren't filming it was like a large part of my life was suddenly missing.
Ur unapologetically crazy, (sometimes uncomfortably crude,) hilarious, & just Ah Idk I'm so happy ur back. I'm obsessed with ur conspiracy videos & noone does it like u do. Even if they are silly ones, IDC U MAKE THEM SO ENTERTAINING. ❤️ Y'all X a Gazillion.
The CiCi situation is scary af. The fact thats she's so oblivious to the obvious red flags screams trauma bond. I hate that Ryland and Chris were saying "have fun" "enjoy it" only for the 'fairytale love story' 🙄
Fr. She knows what's coming anyway and she's laughing it off
She must be mental like what!?
Cici needs to run before she gets turned into a lamp shade in psychos basement
To be fair, I don't even think that she's going to listen to their advice. She's just going to say 'yeah, you're right' and still do some crazy sh*t.
But… think about it… she is the one who mention marriage and getting the tattoo… I bet she is the one who asked to meet her parents. To me it seems like he is going along with it. Maybe it’s mutual, maybe she is delusional.
I've had a relationship like this before, and it didn't work out. Mainly it was because we rushed so fast that throughout the relationship I ended up learning new things about my partner that made me regret even being in the relationship. Eventually the feelings of the relationship not working was mutual so fortunately we ended it but it definitely was a heartbreak. Cece sounds excited but oblivious at the same time. I hope this is a genuine relationship and not something bad that will unfold.
Poor Uno, sending prayers!!! Also sending good luck to Cece.... That whole situation seems worrisome 😟
Jerid is so iconic, his voice of reason, comedic relief, in the middle, random thoughts are everything
I think Cece really needs to protect herself. Being someone who falls hard fast, that just like recipe for breaking your own heart. You know?
Uno is identical to my oldest boy and just hearing the story made me ball my eyes out. Much love you guys. No matter what happens just know Uno is the happiest with his family. He loves you all unconditionally no matter what.
Cece, it takes at least a year to really know someone. Everyone is fun, nice, great and awesome when things are going well, but when things aren't going so well is when someone shows their true colors. Most people leave when it's not just "fun" anymore. But life has it's ups and downs. You deserve someone who stays and works things out. Who fights for you and a good life together. It takes time to figure out if someone is like that.
Right! See how they are around all the holidays etc. a year is great plus you need to to plan a wedding! Just NO BABY before a big rock and marriage!
I’ve been watching Shane for almost 8 years and When I heard about what happened to uno I literally started crying my eyes out I’ve had a seizure before and it’s so scary and the idea of an animal having one breaks my heart, I hope uno is ok and well recover ok, sending love and light and positive good energy to uno and Chris’s dad 🥹🫶🏻
Jared saying “who thought of something so STUPID?!” after the dyeing of the wine made me actually spit my drink and I’ve never done that before 🤣🤣🤣 That raw honesty tho! 🫰🏻🫰🏻🫰🏻
CeCe... I just watched Tyler Perry's Temptation and that's all I could think about. Like he was so perfect while he was courting her to leave her husband and then as soon as she did, started beating her and gave her hiv. Like cece's situation sounds like every story that ends in an abusive relationship. And she's so young that she can't see any of the red flags 😭 I wanted them to ask her if they've gotten into a fight yet bc I think the first fight is the first turning point in a relationship. I wanted to know if she had any older sisters or females in her life that are good influences.... but then Jared said maybe it's the other way around and now I can't stop thinking about her being the 5 stage clinger and him being trapped lmao help we need updates 😭
A girl who leaves her husband deserves that though. Be tricked into leaving someone you thought you loved, destroying that family bond with your husband and kids, just because you're crazy enough to go after a guy even though you already said your vows to not separate with your husband unless one of you dies
Had one of the most intense and romantic; burning flame relationships....we moved in together and in about 4 months it fell apart...horrible breakup. I can attest that a hot burning flame can easily burn itself out. Be Aware CeCe!!!
Really praying for uno, my friend just explained to me that his dog was having seizures and they had to put him down 😞 Really hope that doesn’t happen to Uno. On another note, for Ryland’s Recap I LOVE the soft yellow light behind him! The lighting in the room complimented all your outfits. Great job as always!!
sending my thoughts and prayers to uno, it breaks my heart to hear the news and i pray he gets better soon 😢 just want to say thank you for all the hard effort you put into these episodes despite the horrible situations you have gone through in your lives including chris too. i mean it’s incredible and in no way should you feel pressured to film an episode of your behind the scenes hasn’t been so positive lately. we love you guys so much and support you no matter what.
Them spending a solid minute freaking out about the Push Pops and how they spring up on their own, was adorable and wholesome ❤
This podcast always brings smiles to my face. I pray for poor Uno :( I hope he's doing much better and being comforted by you, Ryland, Riley, Honey, Cheeto, and Louis!
These podcasts help me get threw my chores inevitably loving them 🩵
Love you Shane, been with you since 2008 I was like 6 watching you. Thanks for being you and existing. I’m so grateful for you. Thank you for helping me through so much darkness
Crying my eyes out over uno. Please keep us updated. Poor boy. Animals are what make a house a home. They are everything. I'll ask the universe to take care of your boy. My girl had surgery 6 months ago and they rang me mid surgery to put her down. I said no, let fate decide. They told me she was going to die. She's still here and stronger than ever. She beat the odds. Never give up, despite the outcome, don't let any vet tell you he's too poorly to survive if you get bad news, the universe has a way of surprising us. From one animal lover to another, i wish you all the very best. 😢❤
They have such great synergy together. I would be so down for an all advice episode. They're very wise. Not to mention hysterical. Since the beginning Shane ❤❤ Love everything you do.
😂this episode got me CeCe's story sounds just like my marriage we met online met in person a week later moved in with him the day we went on out first date we got name tattoos and got married less than 3 weeks into the relationship and it's now been 14 years as of April 15th and we were in our 20s 😂😂 also Hope your pup feels better ❤️
❤ thank God happy ending 😊 not really ending but I meant you are happy, I thought something went wrong
@@shezdi5503 no everything is good was just making the point that sometimes you just know that they are your person and that it can work even under those types of circumstances it won't work that way for everyone but it did us
Shane - “I don’t want to judge… But I’m gonna judge” 😂
Cee Cee - Be safe, Stay safe girly 💗
Awwww I'm so glad for Shane & Ryland & the rest of the family & friends who know Uno personally, and those of us who have watched these guys & all of the "crew" from back in the day (some early videos are still my faves....and just saw a video from Drew, that made me proud of him also!) It's been an amazing & sometimes heartbreaking rollercoaster, for anyone watching as well as living it! Thank you, humans and fur babies equally, for sharing your lives with us, we love your family so so so much! One of my teacup fur babies had seizures often, and it was terrifying everytime she had one, and sadly I only got 5 wonderful years with my Cricket, but stuffed as much love & num-nums into every day as possible for her, as I try my best to do with all my babies! Our furry family members take our hearts in a way no human really can, it's such a bond & we are so lucky to be able to have them in our lives, I love seeing you guys spoil all your babies & am excited to share your next chapter....much love!!
Seizures are freaking terrifying!!! My brother has them, and my Australian Shepard used to have seizures too, they eventually stopped but he still gets teeny tiny ones here and there. We put my dog on a seizure medication and it worked pretty well for a while!! Prayers to Uno, I’ve been watching you both for what seems like my whole life. Love you Uno, you got this buddy!!! (I also have a lab so I feel your pain a little extra)💔❤️
My husband and I could tell right away we would be together, but I pushed away bc I was already pregnant, he waited 5 months for me to come around. We also didn't exchange numbers right away, but allowed to meet naturally, we had mutual friends.
Finally, I decided to give it a try and dated. We moved in, had extreme issues to go through and deal with before marriage. We were ready after 2 years. We have had extreme ups and downs but stuck through it. We are. We are celebrating 10 years next week.
Take your time Cece, so you can see underneath the mask.
Ngl I love how Chris and Ryland match as well as Shane and Jerid match I don’t know if that was intentional but I’m loving it💗💗💗💗