Story 1 TLDR; OP: Catches wife cheating Wife: Let's have an open marriage then. OP: Hooks up with a girl during open marriage Wife: Shocked Pikachu face
if i was in his shoes, i wouldnt waste my time with her anymore and leave her, infidelity and ask for its permission wont be tolerated by me. When that person ask to open marriage, i respond she is free to be with everyone else, but not me, i boot up from this relationahip and serve her divorce papers as soon as possible. The prenap is madatory this age, dont let cunning hags use you and then stab your back.
I would be angry too if my backup plan, ATM and babysitter all quit on me on the same day, while I am not done enjoying myself with random partners after only 10 years
It would have if he did it the moment she pretty much said "you're not enough for me i need more sausage" he pretty much was a cuck for most of the open marriage
Story 1: I hate gender double standards it's all BS. When a wife cheats its falling out of love with the husband and demand an open marriage so she can sleep whoever she wants, When a husband found a rebound woman its how could you get her out of the house now!! Lisa had slept with a college student and downplayed it as "wanting to fresh up her wellbeing" when OP found Cathy she's all jealous and mean about it. Story two: Sweet home Alabama
You will be surprised that it's not a gender thing but a cheater thing. Months ago I read this kind of story but with opposite gender. Husband keep demanding open relationship unless he demand divorce. Since she had a small child she doesn't want a broken home. He keeps having multiple affairs to the point he wasn't even there for home. But then when finally OP found the guy for herself he keep trying to sabotage the relationship with him. Infact he got so pathetic he start showing love and affection with her and sleeping with OP while he never close this open relationship thing from marriage. But at the end when OP slept with the other guy he broken and cry that he thought as long as he kept sleeping with wife she won't need another man and he can continue affairs outside of marriage also. They got divorce at the end but in my opinion it's society who normalised this bullcrap.
Ah, of course she did... she always intended for the open relationship to be only on her end, and of course she was already cheating before opening it. As always, "I want to open up the relationship" is code for "I'm already cheating on you and I want to do it without consequences... BUT DON'T YOU DARE DO THE SAME TO ME!!!"
Yes, and the worse of it is that by accepting these terms, the victim comes out looking like a villain no matter what they do... no matter how degrading and humiliating. "She did that while rocking your baby to sleep? With 3 guys?... well, you accepted it, so take the L"
I believe open relationships are possible IF IT'S DECLARED BEFORE YOU EVEN START DATING. But when it's sudden or random then there's definitely something suspicious going on..
As a polyamorous person myself Yes and no Generally yes if you start years in a relationship or even a day after a marriage with that it's almost certainly they are cheating But I would say for the first 6-12 months it can really just be that the polyamorous person is just not comfortable to bring that point up because they don't wanna lose the person they love Also in any open relationship their has to be talking rules and a we stop right here for ever with that set in place before it After that its really no big deal if it's only open on one side (some ppl just wanna watch there spouse having a good time (not for me but no kink shaming Timmy! Don't do it!) But it's really important that both ppl are comfortable, talk and have no secrets, when someone wants to no every single detail and is not comfortable anymore you have to give them that and stop it You have to live with maybe breaking the relationship And because of all of that I live monogamous even though I'm poly and keep my distance from female friends when I'm in a relationship because I don't wanna catch feelings and only love that one person (and it payed of as of this week I'm happily engaged) Also yes polyamory is a real thing and no you don't love one more than the other you love them all for different things and if you truly love them everybody gets enough, ppl can love both there parents, all there grandparents, uncles , aunts, siblings and children Why not 2 partners?
@@borasora I agree but there are also poly persons that don't have a problem to live mono But most ppl don't understand that and that can end in a break up very fast, so some ppl don't I'll try to tell ppl when I date them but also that I live mono and I don't have a problem with living mono
@@borasora I just said that I myself make it clear at the start that I'm poly but I live mono and I don't have a problem living mono (I even tend to not make female friends so it stays that way) so what is your point and there is a lot of other things thaz can break up a relationship after months or years Also generally monogamy is relatively knew because it's something that the Christian church started so yeah it's pretty much a culture thing at this point because biological speaking were all poly, I mean who only had one relationship and died single after the dead of this one partner And you can love your parents and children. Why not another partner , like I said it's a culture thing If you fear just ask them if they are, if they then lie then there shit
That's some audacity right there. She had some nerve to talk about choosing family over selfish desires while she's been sleeping with random men for 10 years.
Idk man… kids see everything. She’s bringing men home and leaving with them to vacations, etc… and dad is ok with it, it must’ve been super confusing to them.
As op mentioned they co parented so i assume they were there for the childrens. Like they were just not there with each other. I guess whenever the children wanted their parents, they were there. Need to make a mind map kinda thing to explain my opinion lol
@Notyourusual that still doesn't mean it was a good childhood. They likely saw the conflict between the parents which will absolutely color their views about relationships and romance going forward. Yoy don't need romantically compatible parents to have a healthy view of relationships, but no one is that good at hiding their resentment or that they are getting a body count higher than covid. Kids see this stuff. It isn't that they don't know what they are seeing its that they don't know how to process it without proper guidance. That is hard to do because with this kind of situation the kids will absolutely ask tough questions. So... yeah. They may nkt have wanted for anything material but that doesn't mean their childhood was a healthy one.
Divorce, divorce, divorce your harming your kids by staying in a loveless marriage and allowing your kids to see you still together while you also date other people. Your wife will make your life harder and harder cos she wants her cake and wants to eat it too, yet as soon as you want some cake she has a fit and wishes to make your life hard.
"No fault" isn't what was stated which js what makes me think the story is fake. No Fault means a couple can get a divorce without requiring to prove a party at fault. It allows for more amicable divorces or divorces that don't require you to game the system in order to have a peaceful break up. If OP had proof of his wife's cheating, then laws in pretty progressive areas state that the offending party does not have custody of children because it's proof that said individuals capability. That is a toxic environment for the child. There are definitely courts and states with laws that favor women unconditionally, but they are not as all-encompassing as people make them out to be. Of a man is having the book thrown at him and is genuinely able to show he isn't as bad as is being considered that ks then a judicial inconsistency and the impartiality of the judge should be called into question thus appeals.
Story 1: The effin audacity. This is "Taking for granted" to the next level. I'm glad in the last hug she knew she really effed up everything. Story 2: This. This is the one of the best way to deal with cheating. Gather evidence, file for divorce, expose them on social media (In order to avoid any chance of cheating SO to make any lies) and move on with your life.
Story 2 is just: 🤮 Story 1: I think it's best that the cheating wife doing it in their house, the children saw everything and like the OP said they're mature for their own age(maybe they realize early that there's something wrong in their family) and because of that they immediately pin point the cause of the Family Problem and smartly choose their Father over the Mother.
I’m aghast and horrified. This man was so spineless he allowed his cheating wife to continue cheating… even in their BEDROOM?!? Seriously? Words fail me for what a mess this is. What are the kids going to learn from this? Does OP think he’s modeling a healthy family for them? So divorce would have sucked. Boo hoo. It always sucks, and sometimes you’re really behind the 8-ball, but there are times you have to fight regardless of the risk. And I would absolutely come unglued if I’d been in this situation (never would happen), and my “wife” tried to break off things between me and a lover. As if the rest wasn’t bad enough, she throws hypocrisy into the mix as well. She doesn’t want OP and wants to F other men right in their bedroom, but she doesn’t want anyone else to have him either. Men, please understand that sometimes you lose, but you can still lose with dignity and self-respect. And you can rebuild yourself after coming out the other side. Life and time living is precious. Don’t squander it on sh*t deals like this travesty of a marriage.
exactly, what a waste of a decade. He was a doormat and now his kids are stuck in this drama that's been festering for 10 years. If I was Cathy id be *far* away from all of them 💀
That's not what No Fault means. The issue is if it can't be proven she cheated aside from He said she said. If it can be proven she is at fault, then in most states the offending party does not have lead in the say of the children.
@@kachi2000 we clearly you do well being a cuckold. You leave. You don't let someone walk on you like a doormat. That's just further making it worse. You're not only allowing emotional abuse you're allowing Financial abuse.
Separating which parent gets to help which kid is such an awful parenting idea holy shit Parents, please don’t do this shit It’s obvious why the eldest was firmer in his decision to move in
Lysa knows her time of fun is ending soon and will need OP to sponsor her life all the way, Cathy is risking her plan of retirement if OP dividing time and finances with the other woman.
At this point ... The children didn't have any parents at all bruh ... Mom with her lovers and then papa with his own lover ... I'm more concerned for the children than for OP himself ... I'm so sorry
I always hear "it was devastating to me" but words cannot express the true horror and intensity of the emotions felt. I feel for everyone that has to use "devastating" to explain their situation
Would have left her and told her she can be as open as she wants because I'm done with her. You can't cheat, demand a Open Marriage and then get mad the second your husband finds someone... That's not how that works...
Depending on how old they were, while cousins by marriage, they didnt grow up together as cousins. Kind of like step siblings who didnt grow up together till after their well in their teens. Not saying the cheating is right, but unless they grew up from young ages together they arent really "cousins".
Threatening to sue for damaging a legal document. Wow, that's some creative writing. Hint: both parties don't have to sign the same document. You can append multiple signature pages to the document. And you can always print out a new copy.
Not creative writing, but thinking. I actually heard such talk from a lawyer before, later admitting to me that it would be a frivolous lawsuit... but that would be up to the wife's lawyer to point that out.
Ladies, as men we will never understand what post partum depression is like nor the insecurities that come with the changes to your body after pregnancy. That being said...that is NOT an excuse to cheat on your man! Women who use that excuse are scumbags. Hell, any excuse to cheat makes someone a scumbag. But to do so after you've given birth to TWO children?! That's a new level of low
How do you know that she has been doing this long before your children was born how do you even know those kids that you call your children or even yours
You don't sleep with someone to help them get over a break up. Then feeling guilt for a second then go back to doing it. And are only angry at everyone knowing.
I am only 14 years old and I have learned so much from this Chanel on divorces 1:if they are acting cold and distant and do not show you their phone get a tracking device2: don’t get upset when you find out your emotions will make you do something you will regret 3: if having children get therapy lined up for you and them 4: lurk form the distance collect evidence with a lawyer4: they do anything to guilt trip you when they find out that you know they are not sorry they are sorry they got caught 5: get housing and legal documents lined up 6: don’t let them know your personal life they will come back 7: move on as fast as 7 Impossible that’s all I can remember op the top of my head if you have any advice please tell me I am young and need advice just in case
Yea no, idc what situation I’m in NEVER allow this level of disrespect. It’s honestly better anyway because the kids will be more affected by growing up in a home where the parents just hate each other…..DONT stay together “for the kids” 🤦♂️
Took you 10 years to just get a hug. 10 years to find another woman while you lived miserable with your kids around. Some men are just so weak its crazy
Story 1:Actually, he should have divorced the moment he found out. He had proof she cheated. Now, he's stooping as low as the wife. I can't respect a person who does that.
In the second story the first we can forgive but after that again and again? What a sl*t she was. Does these ppl have mind? Destroying there family, shattering there love and best childhood friend of life by cheating on them and deny with "it meant nothing to me, it was just s*x"? What is wrong with them?
Wow! So she cheated and he allowed her to open their marriage and also allowed her to bring men home to have sex in their bed while he and the children was home and he allowed this for 10 years what the hell is wrong with this man to remain with such a disgusting shameful and heartless woman! If for financial reason he could not leave he could have at least set ground rules like no men at the house ever but he just allowed her to humiliate and disrespect him for 10 years!
it's crazy how women can just break all the vows they made infront of family and friends and if you dont like she also gets to take half of everything and the kids even tho she is clearly the worse parent by every single metric
Are those kids even yours with how quickly she was cheating after giving birth they might not even be dudes and stayed unhappy for 10 years for kids that aint his
I like how he says he's a man of no violence a minute later after saying he grabbed a guy by the neck and was going to punch him.😂 Not trying to be mean but it was kind of funny
She wanted your cake and eat it to so just talk to a lawyer get options and then choose the one best for you bud it's %100 her fault so to hell with her
Ok I'm seeing a lot of messages about story 1, which was rough, I get it... but what in the sweet home Alabama was up with story 2!? Like can we please talk about how she slept with her cousin (even if it was step cousin) to apparently "Help him get over his breakup!?" Like wtf?
If you take what you have for granted you will end up alone in your old age. Love is worth fighting for. Don't fall for the lie that monogamy is old fashioned.
Open marriage is one way street only the one that ask for that can go and cheat (it is still cheating onky with extra steps) but the othe get nothing. Plus no fault states are dumb that help nobody, this keep happening because there is no consequences with this action.
Story 1 TLDR;
OP: Catches wife cheating
Wife: Let's have an open marriage then.
OP: Hooks up with a girl during open marriage
Wife: Shocked Pikachu face
Correction to the wife's request: let's call this separation an open marriage.
People like this woman are hypocrites.
if i was in his shoes, i wouldnt waste my time with her anymore and leave her, infidelity and ask for its permission wont be tolerated by me. When that person ask to open marriage, i respond she is free to be with everyone else, but not me, i boot up from this relationahip and serve her divorce papers as soon as possible. The prenap is madatory this age, dont let cunning hags use you and then stab your back.
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*_TEN YEARS BRUH_*
_AND SHE SAW HERSELF IN THE RIGHT TO GET MAD_
_OH MY GOODNESS_
Damn look like you got the hairy chest... Gotta be a little faster next time, or slower i guess.
How do you italicize on youtube
Well, when you avoid accountability for 10 years, you settle with dillusion, so it is expected for her to react that way
That's a cheaters mindset it's everyone fault except them
I would be angry too if my backup plan, ATM and babysitter all quit on me on the same day, while I am not done enjoying myself with random partners after only 10 years
Why is this happening in front of your school aged children ?
Fr tho, and why does he have to choose between her and the children??
Why is the wife being dysfunctional, why is she acting like a child?
Because divorce laws are unfair in most states and treat women like their shit smells like cinnabunz.
@soullessenderlox239 ultimately he didn't
@@lavonnewr Well yeah, obviously. But the fact that it was even a thought
At least he divorced her. Thats a win isn't it?
After 10 effing years. Dude needs therapy.
It would have if he did it the moment she pretty much said "you're not enough for me i need more sausage" he pretty much was a cuck for most of the open marriage
Idk to me he dragged his feet hard
After 10 years and dragging their kids through their bullsht? Nah. Doing the bare minimum isn’t a win
Just by the age of the kids there IS a high chance they are not his
Story 1: I hate gender double standards it's all BS. When a wife cheats its falling out of love with the husband and demand an open marriage so she can sleep whoever she wants, When a husband found a rebound woman its how could you get her out of the house now!! Lisa had slept with a college student and downplayed it as "wanting to fresh up her wellbeing" when OP found Cathy she's all jealous and mean about it.
Story two: Sweet home Alabama
Sweet home Alabama LOLLLLL Hahahahahah
Sweet home Alabama!😂😂😂
You will be surprised that it's not a gender thing but a cheater thing. Months ago I read this kind of story but with opposite gender. Husband keep demanding open relationship unless he demand divorce. Since she had a small child she doesn't want a broken home. He keeps having multiple affairs to the point he wasn't even there for home. But then when finally OP found the guy for herself he keep trying to sabotage the relationship with him. Infact he got so pathetic he start showing love and affection with her and sleeping with OP while he never close this open relationship thing from marriage. But at the end when OP slept with the other guy he broken and cry that he thought as long as he kept sleeping with wife she won't need another man and he can continue affairs outside of marriage also. They got divorce at the end but in my opinion it's society who normalised this bullcrap.
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I have seen women getting forgiven for cheating by basically blaming the man
Ah, of course she did... she always intended for the open relationship to be only on her end, and of course she was already cheating before opening it.
As always, "I want to open up the relationship" is code for "I'm already cheating on you and I want to do it without consequences... BUT DON'T YOU DARE DO THE SAME TO ME!!!"
Yes, and the worse of it is that by accepting these terms, the victim comes out looking like a villain no matter what they do... no matter how degrading and humiliating. "She did that while rocking your baby to sleep? With 3 guys?... well, you accepted it, so take the L"
I believe open relationships are possible IF IT'S DECLARED BEFORE YOU EVEN START DATING. But when it's sudden or random then there's definitely something suspicious going on..
As a polyamorous person myself
Yes and no
Generally yes if you start years in a relationship or even a day after a marriage with that it's almost certainly they are cheating
But I would say for the first 6-12 months it can really just be that the polyamorous person is just not comfortable to bring that point up because they don't wanna lose the person they love
Also in any open relationship their has to be talking rules and a we stop right here for ever with that set in place before it
After that its really no big deal if it's only open on one side (some ppl just wanna watch there spouse having a good time (not for me but no kink shaming Timmy! Don't do it!)
But it's really important that both ppl are comfortable, talk and have no secrets, when someone wants to no every single detail and is not comfortable anymore you have to give them that and stop it
You have to live with maybe breaking the relationship
And because of all of that I live monogamous even though I'm poly and keep my distance from female friends when I'm in a relationship because I don't wanna catch feelings and only love that one person (and it payed of as of this week I'm happily engaged)
Also yes polyamory is a real thing and no you don't love one more than the other you love them all for different things and if you truly love them everybody gets enough, ppl can love both there parents, all there grandparents, uncles , aunts, siblings and children
Why not 2 partners?
@@borasora I agree but there are also poly persons that don't have a problem to live mono
But most ppl don't understand that and that can end in a break up very fast, so some ppl don't
I'll try to tell ppl when I date them but also that I live mono and I don't have a problem with living mono
@@borasora I just said that I myself make it clear at the start that I'm poly but I live mono and I don't have a problem living mono (I even tend to not make female friends so it stays that way) so what is your point and there is a lot of other things thaz can break up a relationship after months or years
Also generally monogamy is relatively knew because it's something that the Christian church started so yeah it's pretty much a culture thing at this point because biological speaking were all poly, I mean who only had one relationship and died single after the dead of this one partner
And you can love your parents and children. Why not another partner , like I said it's a culture thing
If you fear just ask them if they are, if they then lie then there shit
"I'm just helping him get over the break-up!" That's a new one.
Honestly just as delusional as saying her snatch has god-given healing properties.
That's some audacity right there. She had some nerve to talk about choosing family over selfish desires while she's been sleeping with random men for 10 years.
This dude just spent ten years of his life allowing her to cheat so his kids could have a good childhood...that gains my respect
It shouldn’t. No way the kids didn’t notice men coming in out of the house to smash their mom. That’s a horrible way to grow up.
Idk man… kids see everything. She’s bringing men home and leaving with them to vacations, etc… and dad is ok with it, it must’ve been super confusing to them.
I doubt those kids had a good childhood, they definitely didn't see what a healthy relationship looks like.
As op mentioned they co parented so i assume they were there for the childrens. Like they were just not there with each other. I guess whenever the children wanted their parents, they were there. Need to make a mind map kinda thing to explain my opinion lol
@Notyourusual that still doesn't mean it was a good childhood. They likely saw the conflict between the parents which will absolutely color their views about relationships and romance going forward. Yoy don't need romantically compatible parents to have a healthy view of relationships, but no one is that good at hiding their resentment or that they are getting a body count higher than covid. Kids see this stuff. It isn't that they don't know what they are seeing its that they don't know how to process it without proper guidance. That is hard to do because with this kind of situation the kids will absolutely ask tough questions. So... yeah. They may nkt have wanted for anything material but that doesn't mean their childhood was a healthy one.
Divorce, divorce, divorce your harming your kids by staying in a loveless marriage and allowing your kids to see you still together while you also date other people. Your wife will make your life harder and harder cos she wants her cake and wants to eat it too, yet as soon as you want some cake she has a fit and wishes to make your life hard.
I agree
She also want his cake and eat that as well
Never live in a no fault state or don't get married.
"No fault" isn't what was stated which js what makes me think the story is fake. No Fault means a couple can get a divorce without requiring to prove a party at fault. It allows for more amicable divorces or divorces that don't require you to game the system in order to have a peaceful break up. If OP had proof of his wife's cheating, then laws in pretty progressive areas state that the offending party does not have custody of children because it's proof that said individuals capability. That is a toxic environment for the child. There are definitely courts and states with laws that favor women unconditionally, but they are not as all-encompassing as people make them out to be. Of a man is having the book thrown at him and is genuinely able to show he isn't as bad as is being considered that ks then a judicial inconsistency and the impartiality of the judge should be called into question thus appeals.
Story 1: The effin audacity. This is "Taking for granted" to the next level. I'm glad in the last hug she knew she really effed up everything.
Story 2: This. This is the one of the best way to deal with cheating. Gather evidence, file for divorce, expose them on social media (In order to avoid any chance of cheating SO to make any lies) and move on with your life.
“Sweet Home Alabama “😂🤣
Exactly
So "rules for thee but not for me", huh????
Story 2 is just: 🤮
Story 1: I think it's best that the cheating wife doing it in their house, the children saw everything and like the OP said they're mature for their own age(maybe they realize early that there's something wrong in their family) and because of that they immediately pin point the cause of the Family Problem and smartly choose their Father over the Mother.
I guarantee you all she’s done is normalise her behaviour to her kids, which doesn’t end well
Simp and 304 - the perfect couple. He should have left and got 50% custody
I’m aghast and horrified. This man was so spineless he allowed his cheating wife to continue cheating… even in their BEDROOM?!? Seriously? Words fail me for what a mess this is. What are the kids going to learn from this? Does OP think he’s modeling a healthy family for them? So divorce would have sucked. Boo hoo. It always sucks, and sometimes you’re really behind the 8-ball, but there are times you have to fight regardless of the risk. And I would absolutely come unglued if I’d been in this situation (never would happen), and my “wife” tried to break off things between me and a lover. As if the rest wasn’t bad enough, she throws hypocrisy into the mix as well. She doesn’t want OP and wants to F other men right in their bedroom, but she doesn’t want anyone else to have him either.
Men, please understand that sometimes you lose, but you can still lose with dignity and self-respect. And you can rebuild yourself after coming out the other side. Life and time living is precious. Don’t squander it on sh*t deals like this travesty of a marriage.
exactly, what a waste of a decade. He was a doormat and now his kids are stuck in this drama that's been festering for 10 years. If I was Cathy id be *far* away from all of them 💀
She ruined her own life just because she wanted other men
Of course it’s a no fault state. Of course the woman can fxck everything up and still get rewarded.
That's not what No Fault means. The issue is if it can't be proven she cheated aside from He said she said. If it can be proven she is at fault, then in most states the offending party does not have lead in the say of the children.
We finally found it boys. The craziest Reddit relationship
Will you look up doormat in the dictionary. You find this dude....
As soon as she cheated. You leave
He didn't have enough money, at the time, you clearly do well in exams
@@kachi2000 we clearly you do well being a cuckold. You leave. You don't let someone walk on you like a doormat. That's just further making it worse. You're not only allowing emotional abuse you're allowing Financial abuse.
Separating which parent gets to help which kid is such an awful parenting idea holy shit
Parents, please don’t do this shit
It’s obvious why the eldest was firmer in his decision to move in
Lysa knows her time of fun is ending soon and will need OP to sponsor her life all the way, Cathy is risking her plan of retirement if OP dividing time and finances with the other woman.
At this point ... The children didn't have any parents at all bruh ... Mom with her lovers and then papa with his own lover ... I'm more concerned for the children than for OP himself ... I'm so sorry
Yes exactly.
When woman suggests open relationship it should be automatic divorce
I always hear "it was devastating to me" but words cannot express the true horror and intensity of the emotions felt. I feel for everyone that has to use "devastating" to explain their situation
What she thought she can only enjoy her cake?? 😂
Would have left her and told her she can be as open as she wants because I'm done with her. You can't cheat, demand a Open Marriage and then get mad the second your husband finds someone... That's not how that works...
The second story was kinda sad. I can understand why the husband did what he did though =(
Op deserved. He should ended when caught her cheating. Instead he stayed. Now enjoy your drama
2nd Story, Paul?!
some state incset is a crime
At least in the end she acknowledged she was being narcissistic and delusional. First time ive seen something like that in one of these stories.
I just don't understand how people can hug their cheating spouse, i wouldn't even touch them even after i forgive them
Depending on how old they were, while cousins by marriage, they didnt grow up together as cousins.
Kind of like step siblings who didnt grow up together till after their well in their teens.
Not saying the cheating is right, but unless they grew up from young ages together they arent really "cousins".
Dude should have done a paternity test on both kids...he stayed so long in a marriage and never knew 100% that they were his kids...
Threatening to sue for damaging a legal document. Wow, that's some creative writing.
Hint: both parties don't have to sign the same document. You can append multiple signature pages to the document. And you can always print out a new copy.
Not creative writing, but thinking. I actually heard such talk from a lawyer before, later admitting to me that it would be a frivolous lawsuit... but that would be up to the wife's lawyer to point that out.
Story 1: That wife is a hypocrite extreme.
Biggest doormat I’ve ever seen.
10 years bruv ??
It's not like he had a choice, if he were to divorce her at that time she would have gained everything while he would have lost everything
Ladies, as men we will never understand what post partum depression is like nor the insecurities that come with the changes to your body after pregnancy. That being said...that is NOT an excuse to cheat on your man! Women who use that excuse are scumbags. Hell, any excuse to cheat makes someone a scumbag. But to do so after you've given birth to TWO children?! That's a new level of low
The man who is posted the 1st strory is not intelligent he should have seen the true colours before marrying her
Both of them sound like stellar parents and people you can admire deeply.
How do you know that she has been doing this long before your children was born how do you even know those kids that you call your children or even yours
You don't sleep with someone to help them get over a break up. Then feeling guilt for a second then go back to doing it. And are only angry at everyone knowing.
I am only 14 years old and I have learned so much from this Chanel on divorces 1:if they are acting cold and distant and do not show you their phone get a tracking device2: don’t get upset when you find out your emotions will make you do something you will regret 3: if having children get therapy lined up for you and them 4: lurk form the distance collect evidence with a lawyer4: they do anything to guilt trip you when they find out that you know they are not sorry they are sorry they got caught 5: get housing and legal documents lined up 6: don’t let them know your personal life they will come back 7: move on as fast as 7
Impossible that’s all I can remember op the top of my head if you have any advice please tell me I am young and need advice just in case
Yea no, idc what situation I’m in NEVER allow this level of disrespect. It’s honestly better anyway because the kids will be more affected by growing up in a home where the parents just hate each other…..DONT stay together “for the kids” 🤦♂️
Every state should be an at fault state
Took you 10 years to just get a hug. 10 years to find another woman while you lived miserable with your kids around. Some men are just so weak its crazy
Story 1:Actually, he should have divorced the moment he found out. He had proof she cheated.
Now, he's stooping as low as the wife. I can't respect a person who does that.
In the second story the first we can forgive but after that again and again? What a sl*t she was. Does these ppl have mind? Destroying there family, shattering there love and best childhood friend of life by cheating on them and deny with "it meant nothing to me, it was just s*x"? What is wrong with them?
open marriage=(im cheating you but tell you like this cause im afraid to lose you)
So.....story 2......what a story huh..?
She got some nerve trying to keep her husband when she wanted an open marriage saying that she didn't love him anymore
Wth is wrong with this guy.
What is wrong with this women. Oh my god
Yeah I really dislike the wife. I am glad he found Cathy
Cheaters are trully anoher type of creature.
"i cheated on you with multiple man but how dare you be romantic with another woman???!"
A story of 3 exceptionally terrible and inconsiderate adults
Two interesting stories. Good vid.
At least she didn't cheat on you with her blood cousin
what are you doing step cousins?
Wow! So she cheated and he allowed her to open their marriage and also allowed her to bring men home to have sex in their bed while he and the children was home and he allowed this for 10 years what the hell is wrong with this man to remain with such a disgusting shameful and heartless woman! If for financial reason he could not leave he could have at least set ground rules like no men at the house ever but he just allowed her to humiliate and disrespect him for 10 years!
it's crazy how women can just break all the vows they made infront of family and friends and if you dont like she also gets to take half of everything and the kids even tho she is clearly the worse parent by every single metric
Are those kids even yours with how quickly she was cheating after giving birth they might not even be dudes and stayed unhappy for 10 years for kids that aint his
Narrator: 'Bringing Tom, Dick, and Harry to the house.'
Me: Yeah mostly Dick
Would’ve gotten a divorce while the kids were still young
American Justice system....
This story is just sad and pathetic for everyone involved
YA BOTH THE AH! Don't do all that in front of your kids.
Bro is nothing more than a doormat
Lysa belongs to the streets.
I like how he says he's a man of no violence a minute later after saying he grabbed a guy by the neck and was going to punch him.😂
Not trying to be mean but it was kind of funny
st1 op is one of the biggest spineless simp ever. I cant blame her for took him granted.
Wtf those girls have has staple lives good partners overall good relationships Like why do people cheat 🤨
The reason shes mad is because she couldn't find a replacement for him and eas just getting used by men but he found someone he can see a future with
She wanted your cake and eat it to so just talk to a lawyer get options and then choose the one best for you bud it's %100 her fault so to hell with her
dude 2 lives in alabama
What a fool.
Story 2: Sweet Home Alabama
Women and accountability strikes and again, (they have ZERO accountability)
Everyone in this story are awful people
Sounds like my ex, except she didn’t cheat. She proposed opening and then had issues after i met my current life partner
Choose Cathy and get a divorce...
Story 2: seems fake ngl 😂
If the guy comes out of divorce winning you know it’s fake 😂 no way feminist society will allow that in 2024
Story 2: All i can say is… SWEET HOME ALABAMA 😂
Ok I'm seeing a lot of messages about story 1, which was rough, I get it... but what in the sweet home Alabama was up with story 2!? Like can we please talk about how she slept with her cousin (even if it was step cousin) to apparently "Help him get over his breakup!?" Like wtf?
You know its bad when thr kids are going dad You've done enough also can we live with you
Out of topic but:
What shader do u use in Minecraft?
Both of these parents suck. Y’all are just brining your extra martial partners home on a regular? While they are home? Trash parenting.
yo bro what texturepack and shaders do you use
Fool for sure
If you take what you have for granted you will end up alone in your old age. Love is worth fighting for. Don't fall for the lie that monogamy is old fashioned.
Open marriage is one way street only the one that ask for that can go and cheat (it is still cheating onky with extra steps) but the othe get nothing. Plus no fault states are dumb that help nobody, this keep happening because there is no consequences with this action.
Murderous rage
Can’t say 10 years is long or anything especially when we just seen what was going on with Will and Jada
DNA test
Story 2 didn't happen.
Did OP sleep with Lisa at any point during those 10 yrs?
re-broadcast?
Vid from yesterday ?