Welcome to the Tribe. I mean Karma is a patient gangster yes queen itis!!! Bayyyy-bayyyy Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Congratulations queen that’s what I’m talking about you doing it like a boss!! Never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
The ex Narc will think he's winning when we accept hoovers and keep going back. He played me for a fool while he laughed in my face. But once I woke up to his games, I gathered that little strength I had when he gave me the next silent treatment. I got my mind right, spoke with some life coaches, informed my family members, and took ALL of that emotional baggage out to the curb!! After countless hoovers over a period of months, I filed a police report for harassment and stalking. I didn't just draw boundaries, I protected them. Now he can't see me, talk to me, or send anything to my home unless he wants to get reported! I got the last laugh while he waits on his Karma and sits with his basic low life supply. BYE BIRD!! LOL
There she is hey Sis! Exactly they think they win when we answer a Hoover. Never again. I know that’s correct gather your strength snatched your generator and got the heck up out of there. That’s what I’m talking about. Wait lol you didn’t just draw your boundaries you protected them to yes ma’am yes!! Oh yes and Karma is common and it is a patient gangsta. Let him enjoy his basic low life supply exactly. Bye bird lol!!🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Sis!!! He had it all with me. Didn’t have to worry about a thing! But how he thought he was gonna use my good energy to groom someone else? Nope. Not this one! Now he wanna come back. I guess happy meals ain’t keeping him full. Just a matter of time before he exposes himself because of the rage. Take that L Narc and keep it moving!
@@annerane8118 c’mon I already you laid it down Queen. See that they sort of just have them so greedy and stupid thinking the grass is greener on the other side. They play themselves every time. That’s right take the L narc bye bird. His stomach and never before like that again lol.🤣
Girl, I'm over here cracking up, cuz you are telling the truth!! lol They think the grass is always greener, but everywhere they go, that grass will die, dry up, and be crunchy. No life, no joy, no happiness, no peace, no fun, nothing but drama, drama, and more drama.
Now you got me over here cracking up dried up grass and a crunchy Sis I am hollering lol! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Move.✨💖
He left I filed for divorce then I changed my number he emailed me no response when he picks up the kids I SAY NOTHING to him, he doesn't exist to me. Once God opens your eyes to the truth it truly sets you free I'm NOT missing out on NOTHING good! My best days are ahead my best life is living narc free❤ and I'm LIVING......
Welcome to the Tribe. Now this is what I’m talking about that is awesome. Yes don’t ever look back stay low contact. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They are supernaturally and wilfully stupid. I'm so glad I left the ex-narc and divorced him last year. I'm now dating an incredibly empathetic, sweet, intellectually stimulating man who is as affectionate and fun as I am. It's a 180⁰. The key to leveling up was dating myself and infusing myself with love the past year. I leveled up so hard that some people will have hurt feelings. 😉🤷♀️
They sure are I like that term supernaturally and willfully stupid. I like that. That is so awesome you said a mouthful here that’s right infusing yourself with love dating yourself learning to love you. Now you have a tractive empathetic kind king that is worthy of your time that is so beautiful. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
When the Mask completely comes off of the Narcissist, and they go all out to destroy you, you have just met the Devil in action. After you get thru that Hell, there is no chance of them getting you back again!! They have underestimated you, and Karma is on the way to them!! The more evil they have been to you, the more Karma they will get. There will be Karma for each thing they have done to you. And their Karma will never quit. It will follow them all of the way to their grave. Karma will show no mercy!!
I mean it’s a patient gangster it is coming though trust and believe karma is coming. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Yes I understand. Karma took a whole year to come into play, but i think it's energy was already functioning in while I was packing up my home. Thankful for Karma because now I'm doing better than what that narc could ever offer, and they can never give me what I was after, Narcs know no stability.
I’m just looking fwd to hearing you say “BIRD”, “ Selectively Stupid” & “A Viper on Two Feet” I flatline Everytime🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love ya Girl keep doing what you do Gorgeous!!🤩
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis you know I’ve got to give you all that good energy and a good old laugh because these clowns are funny and crazy all at the same time.✨💖
Sometimes they discard as a form of control. They don’t actually want you gone, but they hope it will teach you a lesson…the lesson is be their devoted slave, even though they were never loyal or devoted to you. They hope so bad -that if you take them back, they can use stuff against you- to keep you in fear of another ‘break-up’ The discard is always a gift, say thank you on the inside and never give them any access to you again. They’ll regret the games they played… when the games don’t work.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes!!! That’s what I’m talking about. Stand in your power Sis!!! BAM!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I draw the line at cheating. When I went to break up with him, he told me has a younger woman as back-up. I am like: "I release you." Again, I don't compete with other women in the bedroom or anywhere else. End of story.
"That toad, that bird and maybe even a duck!" "I said it and I mean it!" "That clown, that chicken and that duck!" "We don't do birds around here especially not pigeons!" "Babyyyyyy' I love listening to you! Thank you for being such an uplifting spirit!
That’s right you got all the names right that’s what I said LOL and I mean it.🤣 we downhill with some humor. I’m so happy you love listening to me. You’re so welcome beautiful soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. When I tell you I just love that lol. Take it and run with it Sis! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Narcs are producing and directing a horror movie about themselves, hiring birds 🦅 as bit part characters. Thank God I was written out of the finale. 👏👑💃💖
This comment right here has me laugh so hard right now.🤣🤣🤣 It is the absolute truth. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
"How in the world did I make it through all of that" I put this on my life I think about that so many times and I still do... incredible. I feel so proud and so strong. i love being an empath! Praise the lord. The devil cannot steal this soul because I discovered the devil and in doing so I realized I was going against the word of god myself helping this demon. No more! Narc free is the ONLY way to be Amen!
You are awesome! 💕 I beat my narcissists to the discard. I put up with his craziness for 2 years. But I finally got strong enough to bail. He went to work in the morning and by the time he got home that night I was long gone!
That is so awesome. I’m so happy you got away these clowns do not change. Thank you for being here with us and for your encouragement I appreciate your kind soul.✨💖
I did the same thing ! But he knew I was leaving but he doubted that I would leave . I found out he was sitting on the bed crying that evening. I literally went no contact and I don't mind. He played me and cheated while I was pregnant with our twins and I lost a baby ...
Welcome to the Tribe! Lol!🤣🤣🤣 I’m playing no games with these clowns. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I surprised him when he hoovered. He actually told his friend that she didn’t even look back at me after I ended our wedding and I told his friend look back at what???? I haven’t been happier in my life😂 he’s gonna remember me for his whole damn life. He really is with a toad !
I am cracking up this is funny to me. I know that’s right look back for what?! Lol!🤣 you got away from that mess so you won all day. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You seriously have to be insane to devalue and discard someone and then crawl back to what you devalued. They obviously had some kind of value, even if it was supply.
Welcome to the Tribe. Exactly but this is what these clowns do. They have a whole cycle of abuse that’s attached to their disorder they are a special kind of crazy. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You said it so perfectly!! It blew my mind.,.. they Devalued me and luckily I got out during this phase cuz I was like "No not doing that!" Then they wanted me back!! BAD!!!!! Didn't make any sense!! I''m like... so you treated me like shit for weeks... now you want me back and they Love bombed me again or what you guys call Hoover... Told me how great I was, how much they Loved me, sent gifts in the mail... Confused the hell out of me... but damn it made me feel good! hahahahaha...
@@MikeKollin i’m telling you that disorder is so jacked up it’s a whole abuse cycle that goes along with it. These people are completely insane. I love bomb is a set up. No thank you. I’m happy you got away.✨💖
Except they only see what values them. They don’t value anyone. They set you up to fall in love with them and then you’re in that cycle of abuse with the push pull until they have you so addicted to them you can’t leave. They are con artists/ master manipulators. But they underestimate us - the grade A supply ! that’s watching these videos and getting help to understand what the heck just happened. They expect us to always be at their beck and call after the discard. GO NO CONTACT 🙏❤️
I am a quiet person, I dont talk a lot. But I was analyzing him in my head all the time, and making a puzzle. I played a little bit dummy in communication( although I have a master in communication science) He always said, you are so mysterious..so smart, smarter than me.....I cant read you. Afterwards I was thinking, you mean, you cant play me. I discarded him, and said everyyything I wanted to say during those 8 months, within 2 hours. He was flabbergasted!!! Yes babeyyyy, I spit all my fire out. He looked like an empy shell, totallly shocked😹 he knew I was onto him. I threatened, blocked him, and left him in my past.
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re a critical thinker they love critical thinkers. I’m happy you use the gift of neutrality so he could not understand the mystery of you. When I tell you this right here is what I am absolutely talking about💥💥💥💥. You gave it to him that’s right. Gave that clown the business I know he was sitting there looking like he had saw Casper the friendly ghost. I’m so proud of you that is awesome leave him just where he should be in your past. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships hahaha omygod, exactly like Casper the friendly ghost! Face all innocent, trying to hide his demons.Thank you for the reply sister❤ True, they see critical/smart thinkers as a challenge, but in the end they still underestimate us. This narc was a smart ass, also 2 masters, but in someway also very very stupid😹 incomprehensible. Anyways, I love your work, thanks for the tribe💕
The discard is a favour and we finally realize that. But the narcissist will never realize that. I was feeling so bad, wondering what is going on, and I must say the knowlege is life saving 💖💖💖💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes it was a favor. I’m happy you’re gaining this knowledge the knowledge changes you and empowers you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You have the PROPER amount of outrage for this topic...and I love it. I was hip to the cycle and he never betted on me discarding him. Good people get tired of being good to ungrateful people. We see you for who you are and move amicably👀 For this video, i am subscribing.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much for subscribing Sis. I’m happy you enjoyed my delivery and the content resonated with you. We do get tired and when we get tired we’re gone. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
One Friday...she says "babe...wanna go bowling or skating?" i said "no problem...either or". FAST FORWARD 2HRS LATER: "I got something to tell ya. Im going out of town for a surprise b day party(not even planned in advance which is a lie)spend the night and can i take your car?"😑 i said "you can go...but you're not taking MY CAR!" I left. Went back to my house. she texted me to tell me shes not going (trying to see if i would kill my plans.) i told her you need to go because im not changing my plans. And i was done at that point. Narc games do not work on me. the relationship lasted 70 days. I guess she thought she had me. She underestimated me. i told her to tread lightly with me because im GODS SON and i have a gift of discernment. Now shes struggling, and my life has become more peaceful and prosperous. No turning back.
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen sometimes we just need that real conversation that straight no chaser. It’s OK you found us now I will make sure that I give you our regular reality checks. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They fixate so hard on a target that they are without common sense. That's what is so dangerous about them. Toxic and destructive 100%. They have some serious hate in their hearts. It's a done deal with me. I aint ever going back to that hell. Whoever wants it can have it.
Welcome to the Tribe. This is the absolute truth from start to finish yes indeed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes he thought he would triangulate me with a bum who weigh 60lbs, homeless and didnt have custody of her kids. I guess he thought because we had a new baby I wouldn't leave, been 6months complete no contact, I dont know who he thought I was, he can never come back over here, I left him with the homeless new supply who doesn't even cook😭
You will get better, and God has better for you! You just can't see it when you're enslaved by a mad man so you are shown it and it hurts for a month but watch your life change for the best.
Exactly that’s their game. Break up with you to be with a new supply. Then want to keep you as a side chick so basically downgrade you to a side chick. I don’t think so! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You Too! And I knew that's what he was trying to do just by him trying to hoover a few months after I kicked him out of my house! But BAAABY I changed my #, wouldn't ever open my door when he came knocking & when he'd sit at the corner in his truck I'd ride right past w/out looking in his direction while he was breaking his neck I Tricked his ASS! I'm nobody's side chick or secondary supply! I AM The Starter I've Never Been A Bench Warmer TF🤣🤣🤣
@@kikib7310 amen to that! I had let him back and tried to show love and when I seen how cold he was being that’s what WOKE me up. He had a hidden agenda.
Yea mine tried that too. I was like hell no. You come back home for a few days, get what you want and leave again. Don't come back and leave me alone. I'm not a cheap hoe. I shut that down. I won't be strung along and played like a sucka. I told him he's a filthy, bum, user who treats people like objects. He wanted to stay married but get back together when he "figures out his life." Who does he think he's dealing with? He must think I'm stupid. I said no. No way. I was missing him until I realized what gutter trash he was. So you're going to put me on some sort of hold? What kinda crazy immature crap is that. Bay bayyyy I cut that BIRD right off.
After the final discard as described her on the topic. The ex Narc I was with tried to kill me after answering one of his hoover's. That nut case called family and friends looking for me. Because after his last discard I locked, sealed, deadbolted, the door. Made sure he was unable to get in contact with me. I knew it was coming, the discard that is, and I just waited my time out. So after leaving I blew the dam bridge up. He thought he was coming back but I knew he wasn't. Prayer always work
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow. That is crazy that’s why I say never answer a Hoover they never come back with anything good they just want to finish you off. I’m so happy you blew up that bridge and never going back. Prayer is definitely the key. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Prayer was my deliverance. The narc was a phony youth minister. Overdosed me on NyQuil. Then I caught an intestinal disease after the discard. I would not be surprised if he didn’t put something in my food that caused it. Two people I know of mysteriously died around him. I’m glad god delivered me. Yes they are capable of murder. They are the devils offspring. They behave just like their father steal kill and destroy!
The new supply is now the new victim. He is already planning her destruction. God is watching and he has delivered me from this crazy relationship. Thank you Father God
I used to miss the adventures ,not him anymore our last conversation help to realise he is crazy....no contact is going so well am actually gaining weight😂
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s right D adventures are not worth the heartache. No contact is the only way.🤣 I’m so happy you got away and you are doing so much better now awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You have to play the long game. I have had it all. Girls in my face. Drive by my house with other girls. My Work out side with other girls. No reaction from me at all. Six months on now. He rang me asked me out to dinner. PMSL Now he wants to play her in the game. IM NOT PLAYING. I went DEAD. lol LOVE YOU. xxxx
If you’re gonna be with them you do have to play the long game. Best thing is to just cut them off wow just all of the madness that they put you through I believe everything that you’re saying because it’s typical narcissist behavior. Sending love right back to you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He thought this is gonna be a doormat to come back and forth back and forth come here sometimes and he thought I was gonna give him the key to my place while he was out where he was out no way he can come back on for fear he fooled him he couldn’t I was quite a supply he could never come back again he’s gone to almost a year now
I know that’s correct you showed him good for you no contact and never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
After being separated from my Narc spouse over 3 year ago I get a email today. No apologies just a real short one sentence email. It's sad and funny at the same time.
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow that is sad that’s how they are typical narcissistic behavior. Never go back to that it’s a trap. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Move.✨💖
OMG!!!! Its like you are presenting my life. Scary but on the spot!! The recycled supply, the hoover attempt, the triangulation. He is living with her now. The fat toad who makes a lot of money but smokes weed every day. Yes he can stay with her. She was sneaking around waiting for years. I know he cheats on her and tries to get her to do crazy sex things with other men. Good luck to them both. 👍 Im in med school and lives with a loving empath. Guess thats karma for you. 🙏🏼
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes I’m tell you all these people are all the same and do the same craziness. After what I went through I’m telling all the business. Lol! Sending the love right back.😂😂😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I’m gonna listen to this as my rally cry every time I feel like a victim. For 3.5 yrs, he led me to believe he loved me. At the end I discovered he was lying, sexting, cybersex with strangers and swingers for our entire relationship. No hoover ... just handed over his keys and went to live with his mother. His supply is endless and he is mad and too ashamed to face me ever again. Meanwhile, I’ve been furiously working on myself trying to break this trauma bond.
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow all of this that you said about the narc does not surprise me. This is just how despicable they are. I’m so happy that he is gone and I hope you are strengthened enough to when that Hoover comes you rejected it. Congratulations on working on you that is awesome made that trauma bond be broken expeditiously and your healing be Godspeed. Yes let this be your rally cry each and every time. I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you for sharing this time and space with us. Much Love.✨💖
Link up with Narcissist Chronicles. He is another great coach! You guys are awesome. You guys are the new normal in my healing process! Thank you for answering the call.
Welcome to the Tribe. I love Coach Jesse he is awesome. Thank you so much. I am happy that you are enjoying the content here as well. You’re so welcome beautiful soul.✨💖
SUS I must be true to myself.. I was functioning like a narcissist..ending relationships with good people when I was younger.. my insecurities wouldn't allow me to believe they wanted me for me.. I was toxic and didn't know it.. now that I'm older and wiser I pray for a good and healthy relationship. Because I certainly reaped what I have sown..
This made me smile during one of the toughest times in my life. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with the world and your awesome personality! I needed to hear this message in the exact way you delivered it. ♥️
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome I’m happy I could make you smile during tough times. Sis stay tuned we are here for you to encourage you uplift you as we all do so for each other. As we heal learn and grow. I’m so happy you enjoy my personality and appreciated my delivery.Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
GET IN EARLY WITH THOSE LIKES TRIBE!! 👍👍👍💯💯💯💥 Let's show our lovely Queen Telsha how much we love and appreciate her and all she's doing for us!! 🤗🤴👸💐👑🌹🙏🙏🙏❤️💕
There she is Queen Louise. Thank you so much. I appreciate you. Sending love right back to you all the way over in Australia. You are just a sweetheart. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Oh Telsha I was sooo confused!! 😅 I'm sooooo happy now I made it to your Live at loooong last, YAY!! That was a really good one, really good topic, thank you so much you are the best of the best Queen Tea!! They put pressure on us it's time we put the pressure back on them buuuurds and watch them fly away in fright haha. I've only been doing this since midyear so don't get how it all works yet lol but it's wonderful and so are you lovely lady!! 👍👸💃💕
So true... I’m receiving emails everyday, calls, and texts over the past 2 months after discard over 5 years this was the first time going no contact.. now he on Facebook depressed trying to get me to talk to him.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed this is what they will do. Over five years ago since the discard and here he comes back again. I know you have placed him on the never again list. Do not answer a Hoover it’s only a invitation back to hell. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis gone to get your laugh on bayyy-bayyyy lol.😂😂 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I cut him off..no contact and blocked on all levels...he went to my travel agent to try to get to me...it’s the only connection he had...THEY always come back...lookin ridiculous...BYE BIRD! She has blocked him now as well...she doesn’t do business w/RECYCLED pigeons. God is very good 🙏🏼✨
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes it says hit him with that no contact and keep that thing in place. Permanent no contact that’s right bye bird. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Last narc I dealt with played himself. He would love bomb tf out of me and when he didn’t get the response he wanted he would insult me. He claims he’s the victim and I’m done explaining to him how his actions is what pushed me away. 😑
Welcome to the Tribe. I am sure he did they always do play themselves especially with the victim role. So happy you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I was discarded twice in ten years, not counting the 1000 times I was ghosted. The first time I was broken, confused in pain, I didn't know what happened. I cried for 6 months. I tried to call him I wrote him a letter, , I was a mess especially when I seen a pic of him with the thing. Who was his foster sister, 15 days later. We had been together 9 years. Well 6 months later he started stalking me. I was happy because I wanted him back, its crazy the man tortured me for 9 years. So he came back. I was happy my heart was broken. Well things never changed he said he left because he thought I didn't love him. I was confused I did every thing for him, took care of him, did things I didn't want to do to please him. So I worked harder he has to know I love him. Well six months later I googled a question, up came narcasism. I went to you tube typed it in and started watching the videos. I couldn't believe what I was hearing, I kept watching every day and I finally knew what I was dealing with. I never said a word. Six months later here comes another discard, only this time I seen it coming. He left me without a reason, without a word. I blocked him that day, but I did that the last time and unblocked him a few days later. Not this time. I heard he was with an ex supply, she knew we were together for almost 10 years. She lasted 2 the first time around. But they had been sneaking around for a year before he left me. Well things were falling into my hands. While he was playing house with her in another town, I moved out of town, got a different car, found another job, changed my number all within a month of my discard. Hell no I couldn't do this anymore. Time to get the hell away. I told only my family and why. 2 months later I heard they were getting married. But he never posted a thing or said anything on Facebook, nothing, not even a picture. The person who told me said I wasn't supposed to know. Well I had blocked him, his family and any friends I knew of his plus his flying monkeys. So I found out and it was an ex supply who looked like Jethro off the clampers. So I made a big congratulations post to him and her in a big heart. Never said anything bad. It wasn't 5 minutes someone was watching my page, his daughter and she called him. I guess she told him what I wrote or took a photo and sent it to him. She said to her father omg, how did she find out. He told her he texted me and told me, damn liar he didn't have a clue but it came from his other daughter who hasn't had even a conversation with him in 15 years. She hates him, she tried to warn this ex supply as she knew her too, she just blocked her, didn't want to talk about it. Well they got married he's contacted a couple of my family members talking about nothing really but hinting for information, and if you didn't know what he was you wouldn't be able to figure it out. But they all know, say nothing, and so he gets no where. Oh well I heard its not going good for them, but I've been total blackout 19 months now. I have a couple of family members still on his friends list he never blocked them, I said stay there keep an eye on the snake, but he's not on much anymore, like once or twice a week, still hasn't posted a pic of her or him. Still down as single. Nothing. He reposts a lot of stuff one was something about loosing a diamond while your busy collecting stones. I just laughed, I hope I caused a narc injury , he wasn't expecting me to disappear that's for sure. Well I had to tell one of my stories because this video sounded like my ex narc. Thanks tea for everything, and thank god he was there and helped me get out so fast and easy. God bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊
You better preach sis!!! That’s right! They thought we were pawns, but we are righteous Queens! Kick rocks NPD!!! My crown has been adjusted thanks for pushing me into my gifts and callings💋
Welcome to the Tribe. PREACH QUEEEN YOU HAVE THE FLOOR HERE!!! Yes indeed I love it!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
I set a reminder for this one because I know you are correct in this. Beyoncé has a perfect song for the topic, it’s called Don’t Hurt Yourself. Basically it’s about that she has all the craziness figured out and you cannot play a fast one on HER.
Lmao your humor cracks me up. Bae bae..... But it’s true... dead on..... I would think to myself “this shit ain’t right, what was that? Then I would think , this sounds dumb as hell iD it for real or a joke. And they are serious. Common sense ain’t common
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m glad you enjoyed the humor in the content. Yes indeed you’re mine was telling you the whole time that it wasn’t right. That’s why I always say listen to your intuition it will never led you wrong. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen!! Everything your saying is so true!! He reached out last week. Let me tell you I did before I knew it!! Glory to God!! I'm winning!! Yes! Nothing to come back too!! I love this video❤ you are so right!! He's getting it back!! Lol 😆 🤣🤣🤣😂. He told me I was thinking about you. I told him your going to always think about me for the rest of life!! Because I wasn't Nothing but good to you!! He called me from his mom phone because he knows I wouldn't answer my phone if he called from his phone. I'm done!! Loving me 💝. He got off the phone because he wanted me to tell him I miss him too. It's nothing to miss!! I've moved on and very happy!!
Yes indeed says that’s what I’m talking about queen. You are winning you are shining and glowing never let that clown back into your life. That’s it defiant self love is what we need to have moving forward. Make sure you check out the channel Empath Uprising as well great information on self love. I’m happy you’re never going back to that. Stay on your glow up game and you your no contact game awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Absolutely spot on! They are more like seagulls now looking for scraps! BIRDS!!! Dogs with dirty paws…love your message and energy! Three Ring Circus for sure! Clowns 🤡!
When he was giving me the silent treatment, I told him to never come back to me unless he decides to marry me coz I can't go on like this. After that he started giving blank calls n blank messages but nothing specific. It's been a month now still that way. God knows wats in there. Watching your videos gives me strength to go on. Thank you so much.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome I’m happy that you are watching the content here on my channel and gaining strength. That is my mission and goal is to empower you all enlighten you all and of course love you all while we are healing and learning together. Leave that clown just where he is in your past. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Was seeing a guy for 2 months & when I realised his projections were because he was actually doing, what he accused me of doing. Gave me the silent treatment, I reached out after 2-3 days to clear the air, as I knew I wouldn’t be seeing or talking to him like that again. He deliberately read and ignored my message, made it very clear that I was being punished 😂. Hunnnyyyy I blocked him on everything & continued on with my day!! He thought I was hooked but boy was he wrong !😂😂😂 Discarded the narc x Glad I caught it early-ish, funny thing is I was going to end the entanglement the week b4 but he randomly lovebombed, guess he felt I was starting to realise how empty he was. Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that is correct you notice the red flags right away. LOL he played his self that is hilarious.😂😂 I’m so happy you got away when you did and did not waste too much time there. Thank you I’m happy you love my videos. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
lmao I live for these videos!! - & yep! They didn’t think we would figure em out! Mine told me this themselves! .. but here they are currently trying to hoover me WHILE playing around with the new supply.. a whole mess!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes you say that he told on himself. Same thing happened with me trying to Hoover me while you playing with this other bird. I’m so far over a Hoover. I mean it’s a whole mess. Let him stay over there with that recycle pigeon. Never go back it will only be worse the next time around. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh that is awesome right there wow. Go ahead and run Sis. gets out deliverance yes indeed. That’s right bye-bye blackbirds pigeons. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Seeing these videos and getting closer to god is picking me up! I’m getting stronger inside everyday! There’s no longer a feeling of what to do when it comes to him. (I have kids with this man) I will make sure I’m a survivor! Thank you for all u do
You give me so much strength, cause after listening to you , even if I was hoping the nark would come back , i don't want to see them again . Much love and respect G . The generator is unplugged for real G .
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I’m happy you love my energy. I appreciate you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I just used the term selectively stupid tonight after getting yelled at for asking for the truth! Thank you so much for helping me kill bad vibes with kindness.
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re so welcome take it and run with it sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I really felt some way because she’s younger and wore the makeup wigs and actually is pretty and I don’t wear all that but I realize I’m rare I’m beautiful from the inside out I take care of myself very well but this really did take me down but I’m rising back up🙏🏽
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I appreciate your encouragement. I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I kept getting sick is the Only reason he got a good 9 months before I found out what was going on...I stayed to be nosey...I needed to know...He hurting something awful.
That’s it right there I said and I mean it! Thank you so much I’m happy that you can appreciate my passion for this community. Thank you for the encouragement. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
i love the chess comparison ... if a pawn can survive the whole game and make all the way to the other side...they can be anything they want to be cuz the made it
Yes that’s just what dealing with these nuts is like lol. Sending the love bright back to you!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I wished I would have caught these videos whenever I first broke up with that nutcase. The more I watch these videos, they give me all the evidence for why I left the buffoon.
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re so welcome beautiful soul. I’m humbled to be apart of your healing journey. Bless you my sister continue healing and shining as well all conquer this mountain together.🌟💖
Thank you so much for the compliment beautiful soul. Yes indeed neicy you know I had to come with that content for y’all. Straight snapping on these birds get on my nerves lol. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
"Karma is a patient gangsta, BAY - BEHHH"
Welcome to the Tribe. I mean Karma is a patient gangster yes queen itis!!! Bayyyy-bayyyy Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Leave them with that "bird" 😂😂
Both of them start to look bad and ragedy!! Don't fall for that "special kind of crazy" deal
Dang!! Tired of swatting at these pigeons;)
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Facts
I love how she says "I said it and I mean it!" AMEN 🙏👑😆
That’s right sis I said it and I mean it!! Lol! Can’t stand them birds. They just love the crap on good people and I hate that.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 👑🧡😂
Yes!! Lol love it!!
Or let me tell you BAABAYYY!!!
Get it Got it Good ‼️yesss she said it🤣🤣🤣
It's been 9 month since I threw that Bird out the nest. 9 months of freedom away from nonsense. No Contact is Key.
Welcome to the Tribe. Congratulations queen that’s what I’m talking about you doing it like a boss!! Never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
YES but with kids involved not 100% reality
Lol....I wonder if the cat eat that bird when it fell from the nest...!
The ex Narc will think he's winning when we accept hoovers and keep going back. He played me for a fool while he laughed in my face. But once I woke up to his games, I gathered that little strength I had when he gave me the next silent treatment. I got my mind right, spoke with some life coaches, informed my family members, and took ALL of that emotional baggage out to the curb!! After countless hoovers over a period of months, I filed a police report for harassment and stalking. I didn't just draw boundaries, I protected them. Now he can't see me, talk to me, or send anything to my home unless he wants to get reported! I got the last laugh while he waits on his Karma and sits with his basic low life supply. BYE BIRD!! LOL
There she is hey Sis! Exactly they think they win when we answer a Hoover. Never again. I know that’s correct gather your strength snatched your generator and got the heck up out of there. That’s what I’m talking about. Wait lol you didn’t just draw your boundaries you protected them to yes ma’am yes!! Oh yes and Karma is common and it is a patient gangsta. Let him enjoy his basic low life supply exactly. Bye bird lol!!🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Sis!!! He had it all with me. Didn’t have to worry about a thing! But how he thought he was gonna use my good energy to groom someone else? Nope. Not this one! Now he wanna come back. I guess happy meals ain’t keeping him full. Just a matter of time before he exposes himself because of the rage. Take that L Narc and keep it moving!
@@annerane8118 c’mon I already you laid it down Queen. See that they sort of just have them so greedy and stupid thinking the grass is greener on the other side. They play themselves every time. That’s right take the L narc bye bird. His stomach and never before like that again lol.🤣
😂😂 They are starving for our attention, our good qualities and a good meal!! Never underestimate a woke empath!! 🙌🏽💯 👑
@@annerane8118 😂😂😂 Yes indeed - never.🙌🏽🙌🏽✨💖
Girl, I'm over here cracking up, cuz you are telling the truth!! lol They think the grass is always greener, but everywhere they go, that grass will die, dry up, and be crunchy. No life, no joy, no happiness, no peace, no fun, nothing but drama, drama, and more drama.
Now you got me over here cracking up dried up grass and a crunchy Sis I am hollering lol! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Move.✨💖
He left I filed for divorce then I changed my number he emailed me no response when he picks up the kids I SAY NOTHING to him, he doesn't exist to me. Once God opens your eyes to the truth it truly sets you free I'm NOT missing out on NOTHING good! My best days are ahead my best life is living narc free❤ and I'm LIVING......
Welcome to the Tribe. Now this is what I’m talking about that is awesome. Yes don’t ever look back stay low contact. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Beautiful. BLEZZ.
Mine has taken the kids I was accused of child abuse and now parental alienation, my family is disgusted!🥶
Love it
Absolutely I can’t believe I blew 24 years on a fantasy!🥶
They are supernaturally and wilfully stupid. I'm so glad I left the ex-narc and divorced him last year. I'm now dating an incredibly empathetic, sweet, intellectually stimulating man who is as affectionate and fun as I am. It's a 180⁰. The key to leveling up was dating myself and infusing myself with love the past year. I leveled up so hard that some people will have hurt feelings. 😉🤷♀️
They sure are I like that term supernaturally and willfully stupid. I like that. That is so awesome you said a mouthful here that’s right infusing yourself with love dating yourself learning to love you. Now you have a tractive empathetic kind king that is worthy of your time that is so beautiful. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen amen!
When the Mask completely comes off of the Narcissist, and they go all out to destroy you, you have just met the Devil in action. After you get thru that Hell, there is no chance of them getting you back again!! They have underestimated you, and Karma is on the way to them!! The more evil they have been to you, the more Karma they will get. There will be Karma for each thing they have done to you. And their Karma will never quit. It will follow them all of the way to their grave. Karma will show no mercy!!
"Karma is a patient Gangster baby!" 👏👏👏 love it!
I mean it’s a patient gangster it is coming though trust and believe karma is coming. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Yes I understand. Karma took a whole year to come into play, but i think it's energy was already functioning in while I was packing up my home. Thankful for Karma because now I'm doing better than what that narc could ever offer, and they can never give me what I was after, Narcs know no stability.
Narcs are truly sick in their heads & mind !! They can never change !! Sickos !!
I’m just looking fwd to hearing you say “BIRD”, “ Selectively Stupid” & “A Viper on Two Feet” I flatline Everytime🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love ya Girl keep doing what you do Gorgeous!!🤩
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis you know I’ve got to give you all that good energy and a good old laugh because these clowns are funny and crazy all at the same time.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Facts Sis!! 😘💖
Give it to us STRAIGHT with No CHASER! COME ON QUEEN!
I LOVEEEEEE YOU QUEEN T! I SAID IT AND I MEAN IT...LOL
Chow
Let them live with the choice they choose and dog walk them to the females that he thought was a better choice
Absolutely.
Sometimes they discard as a form of control. They don’t actually want you gone, but they hope it will teach you a lesson…the lesson is be their devoted slave, even though they were never loyal or devoted to you. They hope so bad -that if you take them back, they can use stuff against you- to keep you in fear of another ‘break-up’ The discard is always a gift, say thank you on the inside and never give them any access to you again. They’ll regret the games they played… when the games don’t work.
That devil tried to come back here! And when he came, he got turned around in shame, because, God sent me a whole King and I married him!!! BAM!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes!!! That’s what I’m talking about. Stand in your power Sis!!! BAM!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
OMG!! What a blessing! Im waiting for my God sent man!!! Im so happy for you!!! 🥳🥳🥳
over and over the definition of insanity these people are demonic. period.
Welcome to the Tribe. Exactly! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Timothy 3 1-9.
I draw the line at cheating. When I went to break up with him, he told me has a younger woman as back-up. I am like: "I release you." Again, I don't compete with other women in the bedroom or anywhere else. End of story.
Yasss! These men got us Twisted. We don't compete with No! Pigeons.🕊️🦨and Skunk's.💯
Right! I'm glad you let him know.
Underestimate, miscalculate and ALWAYS over play their hand
I didn't care enough to even find out who the new supply is. All I know is she is doomed🤭
Doomed is the word especially with a narcissist.🌟💖
That part
"That toad, that bird and maybe even a duck!"
"I said it and I mean it!"
"That clown, that chicken and that duck!"
"We don't do birds around here especially not pigeons!"
"Babyyyyyy'
I love listening to you! Thank you for being such an uplifting spirit!
That’s right you got all the names right that’s what I said LOL and I mean it.🤣 we downhill with some humor. I’m so happy you love listening to me. You’re so welcome beautiful soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I be saying “I said it and I mean it,” in the mirror lol
Welcome to the Tribe. When I tell you I just love that lol. Take it and run with it Sis! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Narcs are producing and directing a horror movie about themselves, hiring birds 🦅 as bit part characters. Thank God I was written out of the finale. 👏👑💃💖
This comment right here has me laugh so hard right now.🤣🤣🤣 It is the absolute truth. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 🥰🤗 When is the cruise?
Amen!!!!!!
Amen!!! So glad!
"How in the world did I make it through all of that" I put this on my life I think about that so many times and I still do... incredible. I feel so proud and so strong. i love being an empath! Praise the lord. The devil cannot steal this soul because I discovered the devil and in doing so I realized I was going against the word of god myself helping this demon. No more! Narc free is the ONLY way to be Amen!
"WE DON'T DO BIRDS HERE"! SNAP!✌
You already know exactly that part right there!!!
Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You are awesome! 💕
I beat my narcissists to the discard. I put up with his craziness for 2 years. But I finally got strong enough to bail. He went to work in the morning and by the time he got home that night I was long gone!
That is so awesome. I’m so happy you got away these clowns do not change. Thank you for being here with us and for your encouragement I appreciate your kind soul.✨💖
I did the same thing ! But he knew I was leaving but he doubted that I would leave . I found out he was sitting on the bed crying that evening. I literally went no contact and I don't mind. He played me and cheated while I was pregnant with our twins and I lost a baby ...
A lie on two legs 🤣, a walking, talking, breathing lie. BIRD 🤣
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed Sis lol!🤣🤣 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
😂😂😂💪🏽holy shit this woman is a narcissist destroyer
Welcome to the Tribe! Lol!🤣🤣🤣 I’m playing no games with these clowns. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I surprised him when he hoovered. He actually told his friend that she didn’t even look back at me after I ended our wedding and I told his friend look back at what???? I haven’t been happier in my life😂 he’s gonna remember me for his whole damn life. He really is with a toad !
I am cracking up this is funny to me. I know that’s right look back for what?! Lol!🤣 you got away from that mess so you won all day. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You seriously have to be insane to devalue and discard someone and then crawl back to what you devalued. They obviously had some kind of value, even if it was supply.
Welcome to the Tribe. Exactly but this is what these clowns do. They have a whole cycle of abuse that’s attached to their disorder they are a special kind of crazy. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You said it so perfectly!! It blew my mind.,.. they Devalued me and luckily I got out during this phase cuz I was like "No not doing that!" Then they wanted me back!! BAD!!!!! Didn't make any sense!! I''m like... so you treated me like shit for weeks... now you want me back and they Love bombed me again or what you guys call Hoover... Told me how great I was, how much they Loved me, sent gifts in the mail... Confused the hell out of me... but damn it made me feel good! hahahahaha...
@@MikeKollin i’m telling you that disorder is so jacked up it’s a whole abuse cycle that goes along with it. These people are completely insane. I love bomb is a set up. No thank you. I’m happy you got away.✨💖
Except they only see what values them. They don’t value anyone. They set you up to fall in love with them and then you’re in that cycle of abuse with the push pull until they have you so addicted to them you can’t leave. They are con artists/ master manipulators. But they underestimate us - the grade A supply ! that’s watching these videos and getting help to understand what the heck just happened. They expect us to always be at their beck and call after the discard. GO NO CONTACT 🙏❤️
@Aisa Williams 🐹💕
Yes!!! They will try to demote you to the sidepiece. It's insane. The nerve.
I am a quiet person, I dont talk a lot. But I was analyzing him in my head all the time, and making a puzzle. I played a little bit dummy in communication( although I have a master in communication science) He always said, you are so mysterious..so smart, smarter than me.....I cant read you. Afterwards I was thinking, you mean, you cant play me. I discarded him, and said everyyything I wanted to say during those 8 months, within 2 hours. He was flabbergasted!!! Yes babeyyyy, I spit all my fire out. He looked like an empy shell, totallly shocked😹 he knew I was onto him. I threatened, blocked him, and left him in my past.
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re a critical thinker they love critical thinkers. I’m happy you use the gift of neutrality so he could not understand the mystery of you. When I tell you this right here is what I am absolutely talking about💥💥💥💥. You gave it to him that’s right. Gave that clown the business I know he was sitting there looking like he had saw Casper the friendly ghost. I’m so proud of you that is awesome leave him just where he should be in your past. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships hahaha omygod, exactly like Casper the friendly ghost! Face all innocent, trying to hide his demons.Thank you for the reply sister❤ True, they see critical/smart thinkers as a challenge, but in the end they still underestimate us. This narc was a smart ass, also 2 masters, but in someway also very very stupid😹 incomprehensible. Anyways, I love your work, thanks for the tribe💕
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The discard is a favour and we finally realize that. But the narcissist will never realize that. I was feeling so bad, wondering what is going on, and I must say the knowlege is life saving 💖💖💖💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes it was a favor. I’m happy you’re gaining this knowledge the knowledge changes you and empowers you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You have the PROPER amount of outrage for this topic...and I love it. I was hip to the cycle and he never betted on me discarding him. Good people get tired of being good to ungrateful people. We see you for who you are and move amicably👀 For this video, i am subscribing.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much for subscribing Sis. I’m happy you enjoyed my delivery and the content resonated with you. We do get tired and when we get tired we’re gone. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
One Friday...she says "babe...wanna go bowling or skating?" i said "no problem...either or".
FAST FORWARD 2HRS LATER:
"I got something to tell ya. Im going out of town for a surprise b day party(not even planned in advance which is a lie)spend the night and can i take your car?"😑
i said "you can go...but you're not taking MY CAR!" I left. Went back to my house. she texted me to tell me shes not going (trying to see if i would kill my plans.) i told her you need to go because im not changing my plans. And i was done at that point. Narc games do not work on me. the relationship lasted 70 days. I guess she thought she had me. She underestimated me. i told her to tread lightly with me because im GODS SON and i have a gift of discernment. Now shes struggling, and my life has become more peaceful and prosperous. No turning back.
Wow. That sounds just like a female Narc. Be thankful you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thank you for the platform to be able to share and help others👊
Smart man!🥰
I needed a friend to talk to me like this when i was w my ex
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen sometimes we just need that real conversation that straight no chaser. It’s OK you found us now I will make sure that I give you our regular reality checks. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Same. I would laughing with tears running down my face 🥲
I think of that scene in the exorcist every time - the narcissist will lie, the narcissist will gaslight, the narcissist will triangulate...
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow chilling. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They fixate so hard on a target that they are without common sense. That's what is so dangerous about them. Toxic and destructive 100%. They have some serious hate in their hearts. It's a done deal with me. I aint ever going back to that hell. Whoever wants it can have it.
Welcome to the Tribe. This is the absolute truth from start to finish yes indeed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes he thought he would triangulate me with a bum who weigh 60lbs, homeless and didnt have custody of her kids. I guess he thought because we had a new baby I wouldn't leave, been 6months complete no contact, I dont know who he thought I was, he can never come back over here, I left him with the homeless new supply who doesn't even cook😭
You will get better, and God has better for you! You just can't see it when you're enslaved by a mad man so you are shown it and it hurts for a month but watch your life change for the best.
Amen.✨💖
That is his karma right there please never look back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Facts!
Wow lol I just had a baby too and snap I bounced and he thought I would never leave. Left him with his whore lol
Thank you, I needed this!! I just discarded the narc I was dating for the past 9 months. Please pray for me as I stay strong through no contact. 🙏🏽
Omg .... yessss he tried to make me the side chick.
I can’t lie I was thinking what in the hell is going on... I mean no
Understanding at all...
Exactly that’s their game. Break up with you to be with a new supply. Then want to keep you as a side chick so basically downgrade you to a side chick. I don’t think so! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You Too! And I knew that's what he was trying to do just by him trying to hoover a few months after I kicked him out of my house! But BAAABY I changed my #, wouldn't ever open my door when he came knocking & when he'd sit at the corner in his truck I'd ride right past w/out looking in his direction while he was breaking his neck I Tricked his ASS! I'm nobody's side chick or secondary supply! I AM The Starter I've Never Been A Bench Warmer TF🤣🤣🤣
@@kikib7310 amen to that! I had let him back and tried to show love and when I seen how cold he was being that’s what WOKE me up.
He had a hidden agenda.
@@Rashonabledsoe They Always Have A Hidden Agenda! They Ain't Bout 💩! You Woke Up & That's All That Matters! Congrats O Happy Day😘
Yea mine tried that too. I was like hell no. You come back home for a few days, get what you want and leave again. Don't come back and leave me alone. I'm not a cheap hoe. I shut that down. I won't be strung along and played like a sucka. I told him he's a filthy, bum, user who treats people like objects. He wanted to stay married but get back together when he "figures out his life." Who does he think he's dealing with? He must think I'm stupid. I said no. No way. I was missing him until I realized what gutter trash he was. So you're going to put me on some sort of hold? What kinda crazy immature crap is that. Bay bayyyy I cut that BIRD right off.
After the final discard as described her on the topic. The ex Narc I was with tried to kill me after answering one of his hoover's. That nut case called family and friends looking for me. Because after his last discard I locked, sealed, deadbolted, the door. Made sure he was unable to get in contact with me. I knew it was coming, the discard that is, and I just waited my time out. So after leaving I blew the dam bridge up. He thought he was coming back but I knew he wasn't. Prayer always work
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow. That is crazy that’s why I say never answer a Hoover they never come back with anything good they just want to finish you off. I’m so happy you blew up that bridge and never going back. Prayer is definitely the key. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Prayer was my deliverance. The narc was a phony youth minister. Overdosed me on NyQuil.
Then I caught an intestinal disease after the discard. I would not be surprised if he didn’t put something in my food that caused it. Two people I know of mysteriously died around him. I’m glad god delivered me. Yes they are capable of murder. They are the devils offspring. They behave just like their father steal kill and destroy!
The new supply is now the new victim. He is already planning her destruction. God is watching and he has delivered me from this crazy relationship. Thank you Father God
Facts.💯💯💯
I used to miss the adventures ,not him anymore our last conversation help to realise he is crazy....no contact is going so well am actually gaining weight😂
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s right D adventures are not worth the heartache. No contact is the only way.🤣 I’m so happy you got away and you are doing so much better now awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You have to play the long game. I have had it all. Girls in my face. Drive by my house with other girls. My Work out side with other girls. No reaction from me at all. Six months on now. He rang me asked me out to dinner. PMSL Now he wants to play her in the game. IM NOT PLAYING. I went DEAD. lol LOVE YOU. xxxx
If you’re gonna be with them you do have to play the long game. Best thing is to just cut them off wow just all of the madness that they put you through I believe everything that you’re saying because it’s typical narcissist behavior. Sending love right back to you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He thought this is gonna be a doormat to come back and forth back and forth come here sometimes and he thought I was gonna give him the key to my place while he was out where he was out no way he can come back on for fear he fooled him he couldn’t I was quite a supply he could never come back again he’s gone to almost a year now
I know that’s correct you showed him good for you no contact and never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
After being separated from my Narc spouse over 3 year ago I get a email today. No apologies just a real short one sentence email. It's sad and funny at the same time.
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow that is sad that’s how they are typical narcissistic behavior. Never go back to that it’s a trap. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Move.✨💖
Preach. What he did to me someone will do to his daughters and he will feel the pain. Trust. It will come back and bite him hard.
Same thing I told my ex. He would get so upset but it’s the truth. “Don’t do anything you don’t want done to your own daughter or mother.”
OMG!!!! Its like you are presenting my life.
Scary but on the spot!! The recycled supply, the hoover attempt, the triangulation. He is living with her now. The fat toad who makes a lot of money but smokes weed every day. Yes he can stay with her. She was sneaking around waiting for years. I know he cheats on her and tries to get her to do crazy sex things with other men. Good luck to them both. 👍 Im in med school and lives with a loving empath. Guess thats karma for you. 🙏🏼
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes I’m tell you all these people are all the same and do the same craziness. After what I went through I’m telling all the business. Lol! Sending the love right back.😂😂😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I’m gonna listen to this as my rally cry every time I feel like a victim. For 3.5 yrs, he led me to believe he loved me. At the end I discovered he was lying, sexting, cybersex with strangers and swingers for our entire relationship. No hoover ... just handed over his keys and went to live with his mother. His supply is endless and he is mad and too ashamed to face me ever again. Meanwhile, I’ve been furiously working on myself trying to break this trauma bond.
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow all of this that you said about the narc does not surprise me. This is just how despicable they are. I’m so happy that he is gone and I hope you are strengthened enough to when that Hoover comes you rejected it. Congratulations on working on you that is awesome made that trauma bond be broken expeditiously and your healing be Godspeed. Yes let this be your rally cry each and every time. I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you for sharing this time and space with us. Much Love.✨💖
Link up with Narcissist Chronicles. He is another great coach! You guys are awesome. You guys are the new normal in my healing process! Thank you for answering the call.
Welcome to the Tribe. I love Coach Jesse he is awesome. Thank you so much. I am happy that you are enjoying the content here as well. You’re so welcome beautiful soul.✨💖
I’ve reviewed him too and Jesse is the bomb too. Love listening to him, jer amd a few great others.
Coach Jesse is awesome!! I don't miss a video
These fools will triangulate you with precious
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SUS I must be true to myself.. I was functioning like a narcissist..ending relationships with good people when I was younger.. my insecurities wouldn't allow me to believe they wanted me for me.. I was toxic and didn't know it.. now that I'm older and wiser I pray for a good and healthy relationship. Because I certainly reaped what I have sown..
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This made me smile during one of the toughest times in my life. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with the world and your awesome personality! I needed to hear this message in the exact way you delivered it. ♥️
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome I’m happy I could make you smile during tough times. Sis stay tuned we are here for you to encourage you uplift you as we all do so for each other. As we heal learn and grow. I’m so happy you enjoy my personality and appreciated my delivery.Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
GET IN EARLY WITH THOSE LIKES TRIBE!! 👍👍👍💯💯💯💥
Let's show our lovely Queen Telsha how much we love and appreciate her and all she's doing for us!! 🤗🤴👸💐👑🌹🙏🙏🙏❤️💕
There she is Queen Louise. Thank you so much. I appreciate you. Sending love right back to you all the way over in Australia. You are just a sweetheart. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Oh Telsha I was sooo confused!! 😅 I'm sooooo happy now I made it to your Live at loooong last, YAY!! That was a really good one, really good topic, thank you so much you are the best of the best Queen Tea!! They put pressure on us it's time we put the pressure back on them buuuurds and watch them fly away in fright haha. I've only been doing this since midyear so don't get how it all works yet lol but it's wonderful and so are you lovely lady!! 👍👸💃💕
A lie on 2 feet 👍
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
So true... I’m receiving emails everyday, calls, and texts over the past 2 months after discard over 5 years this was the first time going no contact.. now he on Facebook depressed trying to get me to talk to him.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed this is what they will do. Over five years ago since the discard and here he comes back again. I know you have placed him on the never again list. Do not answer a Hoover it’s only a invitation back to hell. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You’re doing well continue ignoring him..let him remain living out his karma. It always catches up with them.💖x
After he discard me for 4 months now he calling me hell no am not answering that fool
I'm laughing so hard right now. BAYBAY! Im that super empath that tore that ass up😂😂I'm quietly recovering, regaining my energy💜Thank you
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis gone to get your laugh on bayyy-bayyyy lol.😂😂 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes!!! Super Empath!
I cut him off..no contact and blocked on all levels...he went to my travel agent to try to get to me...it’s the only connection he had...THEY always come back...lookin ridiculous...BYE BIRD! She has blocked him now as well...she doesn’t do business w/RECYCLED pigeons. God is very good 🙏🏼✨
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes it says hit him with that no contact and keep that thing in place. Permanent no contact that’s right bye bird. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
😂😂😂😂😂😂 recycled pigeons,hahahaha,i m dead,love from Sweden 🇸🇪
Last narc I dealt with played himself. He would love bomb tf out of me and when he didn’t get the response he wanted he would insult me. He claims he’s the victim and I’m done explaining to him how his actions is what pushed me away. 😑
Welcome to the Tribe. I am sure he did they always do play themselves especially with the victim role. So happy you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I was discarded twice in ten years, not counting the 1000 times I was ghosted. The first time I was broken, confused in pain, I didn't know what happened. I cried for 6 months. I tried to call him I wrote him a letter, , I was a mess especially when I seen a pic of him with the thing. Who was his foster sister, 15 days later. We had been together 9 years. Well 6 months later he started stalking me. I was happy because I wanted him back, its crazy the man tortured me for 9 years. So he came back. I was happy my heart was broken. Well things never changed he said he left because he thought I didn't love him. I was confused I did every thing for him, took care of him, did things I didn't want to do to please him. So I worked harder he has to know I love him. Well six months later I googled a question, up came narcasism. I went to you tube typed it in and started watching the videos. I couldn't believe what I was hearing, I kept watching every day and I finally knew what I was dealing with. I never said a word. Six months later here comes another discard, only this time I seen it coming. He left me without a reason, without a word. I blocked him that day, but I did that the last time and unblocked him a few days later. Not this time. I heard he was with an ex supply, she knew we were together for almost 10 years. She lasted 2 the first time around. But they had been sneaking around for a year before he left me. Well things were falling into my hands. While he was playing house with her in another town, I moved out of town, got a different car, found another job, changed my number all within a month of my discard. Hell no I couldn't do this anymore. Time to get the hell away. I told only my family and why. 2 months later I heard they were getting married. But he never posted a thing or said anything on Facebook, nothing, not even a picture. The person who told me said I wasn't supposed to know. Well I had blocked him, his family and any friends I knew of his plus his flying monkeys. So I found out and it was an ex supply who looked like Jethro off the clampers. So I made a big congratulations post to him and her in a big heart. Never said anything bad. It wasn't 5 minutes someone was watching my page, his daughter and she called him. I guess she told him what I wrote or took a photo and sent it to him. She said to her father omg, how did she find out. He told her he texted me and told me, damn liar he didn't have a clue but it came from his other daughter who hasn't had even a conversation with him in 15 years. She hates him, she tried to warn this ex supply as she knew her too, she just blocked her, didn't want to talk about it. Well they got married he's contacted a couple of my family members talking about nothing really but hinting for information, and if you didn't know what he was you wouldn't be able to figure it out. But they all know, say nothing, and so he gets no where. Oh well I heard its not going good for them, but I've been total blackout 19 months now. I have a couple of family members still on his friends list he never blocked them, I said stay there keep an eye on the snake, but he's not on much anymore, like once or twice a week, still hasn't posted a pic of her or him. Still down as single. Nothing. He reposts a lot of stuff one was something about loosing a diamond while your busy collecting stones. I just laughed, I hope I caused a narc injury , he wasn't expecting me to disappear that's for sure. Well I had to tell one of my stories because this video sounded like my ex narc. Thanks tea for everything, and thank god he was there and helped me get out so fast and easy. God bless.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊
You better preach sis!!! That’s right!
They thought we were pawns, but we are righteous Queens! Kick rocks NPD!!! My crown has been adjusted thanks for pushing me into my gifts and callings💋
Welcome to the Tribe. PREACH QUEEEN YOU HAVE THE FLOOR HERE!!! Yes indeed I love it!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
This is the new comedy central. 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🤪🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Lol! These birds get on my nerves. I’m happy you got a good laugh. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I love how each video starts so calm, cool and collected....and then the energy just keeps escalating, and then BAM, I said it and I mean it!!!
Lol!😂
i was playing chess he was playing checkers ❤️
That part right there says that part!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
you’re welcome babyyyy lol 😂 ❤️
Chess not checkers! Periodt!
I set a reminder for this one because I know you are correct in this. Beyoncé has a perfect song for the topic, it’s called Don’t Hurt Yourself. Basically it’s about that she has all the craziness figured out and you cannot play a fast one on HER.
That is a perfect one perfect song. It will definitely be interesting.✨💖
Karma does not skip an address!
I mean it never loses an address absolutely. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Your welcome
Lmao your humor cracks me up. Bae bae.....
But it’s true... dead on..... I would think to myself “this shit ain’t right, what was that? Then I would think , this sounds dumb as hell iD it for real or a joke. And they are serious.
Common sense ain’t common
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m glad you enjoyed the humor in the content. Yes indeed you’re mine was telling you the whole time that it wasn’t right. That’s why I always say listen to your intuition it will never led you wrong. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen!! Everything your saying is so true!! He reached out last week. Let me tell you I did before I knew it!! Glory to God!! I'm winning!! Yes! Nothing to come back too!! I love this video❤ you are so right!! He's getting it back!! Lol 😆 🤣🤣🤣😂. He told me I was thinking about you. I told him your going to always think about me for the rest of life!! Because I wasn't Nothing but good to you!! He called me from his mom phone because he knows I wouldn't answer my phone if he called from his phone. I'm done!! Loving me 💝. He got off the phone because he wanted me to tell him I miss him too. It's nothing to miss!! I've moved on and very happy!!
Yes indeed says that’s what I’m talking about queen. You are winning you are shining and glowing never let that clown back into your life. That’s it defiant self love is what we need to have moving forward. Make sure you check out the channel Empath Uprising as well great information on self love. I’m happy you’re never going back to that. Stay on your glow up game and you your no contact game awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I don’t understand who is giving these videos thumbs down ! That’s weird …must be one of the BIRDS
Narcs lol.💯💯💯
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Absolutely spot on! They are more like seagulls now looking for scraps! BIRDS!!! Dogs with dirty paws…love your message and energy! Three Ring Circus for sure! Clowns 🤡!
When he was giving me the silent treatment, I told him to never come back to me unless he decides to marry me coz I can't go on like this. After that he started giving blank calls n blank messages but nothing specific. It's been a month now still that way. God knows wats in there. Watching your videos gives me strength to go on. Thank you so much.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome I’m happy that you are watching the content here on my channel and gaining strength. That is my mission and goal is to empower you all enlighten you all and of course love you all while we are healing and learning together. Leave that clown just where he is in your past. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
The QUEEN is HERE!!!! LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!
Yes indeed Queen - let’s talk about it that’s it yessss. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
It’s not even about the selective stupid anymore they just don’t know any other stupid way to get the discard done
Lol!!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Those idiots try to play us....then they get played and then..... THEY PLAY OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Was seeing a guy for 2 months & when I realised his projections were because he was actually doing, what he accused me of doing. Gave me the silent treatment, I reached out after 2-3 days to clear the air, as I knew I wouldn’t be seeing or talking to him like that again. He deliberately read and ignored my message, made it very clear that I was being punished 😂. Hunnnyyyy I blocked him on everything & continued on with my day!!
He thought I was hooked but boy was he wrong !😂😂😂 Discarded the narc x
Glad I caught it early-ish, funny thing is I was going to end the entanglement the week b4 but he randomly lovebombed, guess he felt I was starting to realise how empty he was.
Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that is correct you notice the red flags right away. LOL he played his self that is hilarious.😂😂 I’m so happy you got away when you did and did not waste too much time there. Thank you I’m happy you love my videos. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Good for you!💖
I love ur strength bigg up u think just like me sis.
“Lookin like a whole heel, and a whole mountain, BAAAY-BAAAY!!!”
I hit the floor laughing.😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Ohmygudner…💯
Lol!!😂😂😂
lmao I live for these videos!! - & yep! They didn’t think we would figure em out! Mine told me this themselves! .. but here they are currently trying to hoover me WHILE playing around with the new supply.. a whole mess!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes you say that he told on himself. Same thing happened with me trying to Hoover me while you playing with this other bird. I’m so far over a Hoover. I mean it’s a whole mess. Let him stay over there with that recycle pigeon. Never go back it will only be worse the next time around. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻😂💃🏻😂💃🏻💃🏻🥰🥰GOT ME RUNNIN AROUND THE WHOLE CHURCH WITH THIS ONE MY SISTA!!!!💃🏻💃🏻🎁🌹🌹. BYE BYE BLACK BIRDS!!!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh that is awesome right there wow. Go ahead and run Sis. gets out deliverance yes indeed. That’s right bye-bye blackbirds pigeons. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Seeing these videos and getting closer to god is picking me up! I’m getting stronger inside everyday! There’s no longer a feeling of what to do when it comes to him. (I have kids with this man) I will make sure I’m a survivor! Thank you for all u do
That's the definition of insanity, doing the same thing over and over again looking for a different result
You give me so much strength, cause after listening to you , even if I was hoping the nark would come back , i don't want to see them again . Much love and respect G .
The generator is unplugged for real G .
This woman has saved me ! I thought I was crazy
I love your energy
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I’m happy you love my energy. I appreciate you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
GOD PROTECT ME FROM ALL EVIL THINGS AND MY BABY MOTHER CHOYA TOXIC VICTORY TO GOD ALWAYS 💫🤝🏽💫🎆🎇
I just used the term selectively stupid tonight after getting yelled at for asking for the truth! Thank you so much for helping me kill bad vibes with kindness.
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re so welcome take it and run with it sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
That’s right! That ain’t no Coke bottle, that’s a can of busted biscuits!!!🙌🏽💯
Lol!!!😂😂😂😂💯💯💯
They never get right he thought he was bully until stood up against him then after check him said ok goodnight hung up.
I’m so happy you stood up to him back that bird down.
Yes took my power back told him still Queen my crown is still intact
I really felt some way because she’s younger and wore the makeup wigs and actually is pretty and I don’t wear all that but I realize I’m rare I’m beautiful from the inside out I take care of myself very well but this really did take me down but I’m rising back up🙏🏽
She smokes and drink and I don’t he smokes and drink to
You are so amazing!! This is all 100% gold!! You rock!💜
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I appreciate your encouragement. I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I kept getting sick is the Only reason he got a good 9 months before I found out what was going on...I stayed to be nosey...I needed to know...He hurting something awful.
100% FACTS... Love your hair color 💛💛💛
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you for the compliment beautiful soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He do not want to. Listen to you so i I put my headset on.
Yesssss girl you couldn't have said it no better preach sister so true AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN
Ms T you are so powerful and anointed. Everything you said is 100% what happened to me.
I love your passion! I said it and I mean it!!!❤️😘
That’s it right there I said and I mean it! Thank you so much I’m happy that you can appreciate my passion for this community. Thank you for the encouragement. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
i love the chess comparison ... if a pawn can survive the whole game and make all the way to the other side...they can be anything they want to be cuz the made it
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Right out of a Hollywood horror movie!! I just want to see that movie called” Revenge “!!
I love you Tea!!!❤️
Yes that’s just what dealing with these nuts is like lol. Sending the love bright back to you!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I wished I would have caught these videos whenever I first broke up with that nutcase. The more I watch these videos, they give me all the evidence for why I left the buffoon.
Thanks for teaching us ladies and men. All your videos are valuable. I'm learning and recovering by God's grace and all the information you impart
Welcome to the Tribe. You’re so welcome beautiful soul. I’m humbled to be apart of your healing journey. Bless you my sister continue healing and shining as well all conquer this mountain together.🌟💖
That’s exactly right ! I did call on the Lord to help me get out that stupid fools 😂house ! I dumped his ass and went NO contact !!!
Sooo we not gonna talk about this beautiful new auburn color of her hair 🥴😍😍😍 GO OFF AUNTIE and thanks for the content ❤️🎀
Thank you so much for the compliment beautiful soul. Yes indeed neicy you know I had to come with that content for y’all. Straight snapping on these birds get on my nerves lol. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships anytime gorgeous! And yessss get these demons/birds right on up outta here 😭😂😂 praise God ❤️
@@AlahjeLLC Amen Sis!✨💖
Go off!!! I screamed in tears bc bay bay! You are preaching Fire! Thank you for this video!
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