Some guy is going to be incredibly lucky to love and be loved by Vanessa. He needs to be loyal, reliable, have integrity, be good fun and incredibly thoughtful and caring.
Love this series. She is so lucky that he told her though. I’ve had that experience over and over and they have just disappeared and ghosted. Very common sadly.
It's so easy for men when they become single because they're pack creatures. They can join a golf/cricket/football/motorcycle/railway etc club and hang out (usually in a pub after the meet) and quickly establish an easy friendship circle if nothing else. Sadly women don't run in packs and have to wait in line (usually behind women half their age and twice as beautiful) for a man to ask them out, and those that aren't physically beautiful wait many years because men ALWAYS choose a partner based on looks, not character.
Vanessa your a lovely lady it's his loss if i was you i would try reverse psychology and ignore him he will hopefully🤞 realise what he is missing ..Don't chase him or else he is going to run further away .....Play it cool my dear 😊... But whatever happens hope you find lots of happiness in your future.
Vanessa's a great laugh. It sounds like they had a great time as friends and he really enjoyed spending some time together and carry on the night. Who knows what the snogging was about but he decided that she wasn't the one for whatever reason. She'll only really know if she asks him outright though. But it sounds like 2 extroverts having a great night or 2 out together.
I think older guys cannot be bothered by any kind of hassle or just won’t put up with anything they don’t want or don’t like , I met a lady on a site , we talked and had lots of conversation before we Decided to meet up , we went to a small coffe shop cafe, we ordered coffee and home baked scones with home made jam , and before the owner got two steps away from us the question arose , are they gluten free , the owner looked at me I rolled my eyes and shrugged, I could see the pain in his eyes , he asked his wife who had baked these lovely delicious scones, she confirmed they had some , we had our coffee and scones left the tea room and that was enough for me , she has a gluten problem I don’t want her gluten problem of having to find somewhere all the food is ok for her
Vanessa, guys want a girl that doesn’t try too hard. You are naturally vivacious and chatty… That guy was a bit shallow but straight too.. You need a guy who you can have shits & giggles with who is like you.. He was testing you out sexually with those kisses and especially snogging you in a restaurant was testing your boundaries… Not a classy move from him! Don’t write yourself off!!! Just keep your boundaries tight.. A gentleman would ask for permission for a kiss…and only after you had excited each others brains.. slow to get to know is key!! Don’t get wrapped up in teenager lust!! And he should put his hand in his pocket if he invites you out.. You pay for takeaway later✔️
Yeagh it was a joke from begining ti end he was a total conman .why did he kiss her and hug her for 15 mins .kissing on the first date is to intimate why did he kiss her and group her total con man
Vanessa when are you gonnalet go of this "pick me"attitude,this old fashioned notion that as a woman you have to wait for a man to choose you,giving them the power and control. Why not take your time to know someone,to decide if you like them !!! why be so quick to move into romance or kissing etc.Why not just slow down and be aware of your insecurities because those are what are keeping you at the beck and call of whether this man will phone you back or not or pick you !!! Work on your insecurities and self esteem and DON'T put in in teh hands of another,its too much power for them and its a lack of taking responsibility on your part. You need to take control and stop waiting "to be picked"by them !!!! Ask them directly if you like them and feel a connection if they want to meet up,don't just be passive and wait to be asked.If they say no then you know but take control !!!!!!! Don't wait for the phonecall and when you feel like phoning then phone them.What rule is it you follow that you think you ahve to wait for them ? Thats an old fashioned "passive woman"thing.take control Vanessa,take control
Sounds like he got cold feet re her stardom. Speed dating is great for extroverts not so much for introverts. I had a chakra healing ❤️🩹 wow - it cleared so much negativity in me.
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Some guy is going to be incredibly lucky to love and be loved by Vanessa. He needs to be loyal, reliable, have integrity, be good fun and incredibly thoughtful and caring.
Love this series. She is so lucky that he told her though. I’ve had that experience over and over and they have just disappeared and ghosted. Very common sadly.
It's so easy for men when they become single because they're pack creatures. They can join a golf/cricket/football/motorcycle/railway etc club and hang out (usually in a pub after the meet) and quickly establish an easy friendship circle if nothing else. Sadly women don't run in packs and have to wait in line (usually behind women half their age and twice as beautiful) for a man to ask them out, and those that aren't physically beautiful wait many years because men ALWAYS choose a partner based on looks, not character.
Trouble is she does'nt stop talking....she is always right..and judges people in the first five minutes .
What Vanessa said about her bald date was very revealing about her. And yes, her energy is very manic.
Vanessa your a lovely lady it's his loss if i was you i would try reverse psychology and ignore him he will hopefully🤞 realise what he is missing ..Don't chase him or else he is going to run further away .....Play it cool my dear 😊... But whatever happens hope you find lots of happiness in your future.
ms feltz your date lost his bottle x your an amazing lady beautiful good health much respect x
I think that guy was on blue Peter? Very cute….
Oh dear Vanessa poor you!! That has happened to me so many times. Also men not even bothering to say anything they just disappear 😢
I'd have Vanessa as my partner. I think she's wonderful, loving, fun, strong, intelligent.
Just come acrossed your channel been single nearly 10 months
Subscribed looking forward to chats
Vanessa's a great laugh. It sounds like they had a great time as friends and he really enjoyed spending some time together and carry on the night. Who knows what the snogging was about but he decided that she wasn't the one for whatever reason. She'll only really know if she asks him outright though. But it sounds like 2 extroverts having a great night or 2 out together.
love Vanessa 😊 beautiful kind woman 💕 any man would be lucky to have her as their companion/partner x
Love Vanessa ❤
I think older guys cannot be bothered by any kind of hassle or just won’t put up with anything they don’t want or don’t like ,
I met a lady on a site , we talked and had lots of conversation before we Decided to meet up , we went to a small coffe shop cafe, we ordered coffee and home baked scones with home made jam , and before the owner got two steps away from us the question arose , are they gluten free , the owner looked at me I rolled my eyes and shrugged, I could see the pain in his eyes , he asked his wife who had baked these lovely delicious scones, she confirmed they had some , we had our coffee and scones left the tea room and that was enough for me , she has a gluten problem I don’t want her gluten problem of having to find somewhere all the food is ok for her
Vanessa explans that the guy she went on a date with was attentive and enthausiastic, but did she show the same back?
You deserve better. Older women have less chance. Men can chop and change.
Yes love boming is the first sign if narrisum
Vanessa, guys want a girl that doesn’t try too hard.
You are naturally vivacious and chatty…
That guy was a bit shallow but straight too..
You need a guy who you can have shits & giggles with who is like you..
He was testing you out sexually with those kisses and especially snogging you in a restaurant was testing your boundaries…
Not a classy move from him!
Don’t write yourself off!!!
Just keep your boundaries tight..
A gentleman would ask for permission for a kiss…and only after you had excited each others brains..
slow to get to know is key!!
Don’t get wrapped up in teenager lust!!
And he should put his hand in his pocket if he invites you out..
You pay for takeaway later✔️
Tim, I'm single !!! Any chance lol?x
How odd - I grew up on a farm in Somerset. We always gave the animals pet names - I will never forget the dear old cow called Vanessa
I think I have a few more flirting in me but honestly there has got to be spark between the of us
Hope I can take notes 😂
I think he suddenly realised he wouldn't be able to keep up with Vanessa in the bedroom, if you know what I mean...
He watched a couple of episodes of Celebs go dating.
Yeagh it was a joke from begining ti end he was a total conman .why did he kiss her and hug her for 15 mins .kissing on the first date is to intimate why did he kiss her and group her total con man
Oh Vanessa, he's obviously not got gentleman traits 😔
Never kiss too early....keep them guessing...im 70 and have had 2/3 interests trouble is they are too old 😅
She is so full of herself and ungracious vanessa
Could be that the bloke found the speed Vanessa talks off putting.Blah,blah blah.Sounds awful after a while.
I thought Tim Vincent was gay 🤷🏼♂️ ( no offence) …was he married then …🤔😳
Maybe in the closet?
She should not have let him kiss her unreal
Vanessa when are you gonnalet go of this "pick me"attitude,this old fashioned notion that as a woman you have to wait for a man to choose you,giving them the power and control.
Why not take your time to know someone,to decide if you like them !!! why be so quick to move into romance or kissing etc.Why not just slow down and be aware of your insecurities because those are what are keeping you at the beck and call of whether this man will phone you back or not or pick you !!! Work on your insecurities and self esteem and DON'T put in in teh hands of another,its too much power for them and its a lack of taking responsibility on your part.
You need to take control and stop waiting "to be picked"by them !!!! Ask them directly if you like them and feel a connection if they want to meet up,don't just be passive and wait to be asked.If they say no then you know but take control !!!!!!! Don't wait for the phonecall and when you feel like phoning then phone them.What rule is it you follow that you think you ahve to wait for them ?
Thats an old fashioned "passive woman"thing.take control Vanessa,take control
Vanessa is lovely.......she will meer a great man.....
Maybe he was married 🤔
What if they look at bit younger
First thing Vanessa needs to do is calm down a bit, and then talk less. Gezzus can that wummin yap.
I thought she was married is she divorced there
Sounds like he got cold feet re her stardom.
Speed dating is great for extroverts not so much for introverts.
I had a chakra healing ❤️🩹 wow - it cleared so much negativity in me.