My father left his 1.4 million dollar estate after his death and settlement of mesothelioma, to my 2 sons. We took care of him, including my then teenage sons who are now adults. We learned to drain lungs, give him a bath, hygiene, we drove him to chemo, radiation, we feed him healthy food and paid for prescriptions. My oldest took a year off from college to work and help with the prescription costs. My youngest gave up his room for his grandfather and lived in the basement for 2 years. My husband kept us afloat for two years because I couldn’t work. My siblings understood why. I understood why. My sons paid for their college education and are now planning to start a wedding and event photography and video production business. My oldest has a BFA in film and my youngest has a BA in business and manufacturing.
They shouldnt get a penny,my piano teacher from all her wealth left me the big and best gift of all ,teaching me how to play the piano and unforgettable memories of a kind and generous person, r@@db-Corleone
Geez- four siblings destroyed over 400-500k. Split it and go have a great vacation together and pay down your mortgages as much as possible. In America, this shouldn’t be enough money to destroy a family. 😢 It’s enough money for a car and a little indulgence. They are lucky to have an aunt that wanted to share her legacy with her nieces.
It`s the same in my family, most have fallen out over money. I agree, if this were me I`d just split the inheritance into equal amounts but sadly people are greedy and it`s mostly a case of winner grabs all.
As someone who has received inheritance, it always disgusts me when I hear of people behaving so badly over this. You’ve lost a loving family member and they’re all getting an even share out of this so I really don’t understand why they’re fighting over it. If you don’t visit your dying relative and check up on them, then you have even less right to complain about what was left to you. It’s money that has been left in your hands! It’s not YOUR money, it’s your deceased relative’s and you should be discussing what your aunt would’ve wanted you to do with this money, not squabble over the Will. Pathetic people!!
Splitting some to the grand kids is BS though. It should be divided among the sisters. I know we didn't get jack squat when our grandparents passed on either side.
@@marcuslinton310 It was her money though 😂 she could have left none of it to family if she wanted. If she wants to split it between the grandkids, that's her business
@@Bri-d2k5u Well, no S, Sherlock, we all know it was her money and her business. Doesn't change the fact that she shouldn't have punished her nieces for not having kids, which essentially what it's doing. Unless I missed something and they also had kids who were left out. That would be F'd up and for sure not pass the smell test.
Exactly! As someone who has never received an inheritance nor ever will, I know plenty of people who have and it does not make them better people! It also makes me sad that the deceased person perhaps made a mistake😳
Linda is the problem here... I have a family member like her. Honestly after reading the comments it's like I'm watching a different show. She said she had no reason to do anything because she wouldn't benefit BUT she did benefit along with her children! She's a crook!
@@grcentre1920 it's usually the one that jumps up and takes care of that person when they get sick.. no not always but a lot of the time it is. Then they have time to manipulate that person. And in this situation you notice Linda sent the Aunt to her own lawyer? Right! Also The ONLY person that says the youngest sister tried to borrow against her inheritance was Linda. Sure the Mom said IT BUT she did NOT hear the Aunt actually say it.. LINDA told her mom! My Grandpa died last summer & my Grandma passed away several years ago.. so I'm at my grandparents home getting old photos together for Grandpa's funeral. My family member comes in the house and notices that my grandmother's very expensive mixer isn't where she thought it should be and starts screaming "Where's Grandmas mixer"? #1) I had no idea & #2) I thought are you serious right now??? So I said I have no clue!! Are you accusing me of something?? She said no but BS.. she definitely was. Of course the mixer was in the closet assuming my grandfather put it in there after his wife passed.. The most ridiculous part of the story is that this family member has TWO very nice (expensive) stand up mixers in her kitchen already so what would it matter if someone did take it.. she doesn't even need the damn thing! Some people are just greedy! This Linda lady seems mentally ill in my opinion & my family member and her could be besties. 😭 Edit: also the story about the mixer seems petty but we still have to settle an entire estate.. God help me and my brother 🙏 for me..if ya don't mind. Lol
@@EliRowell-ht7xv poor you. That family could be Linda's clone. Crappy people always show themselves up at some time. Disgusting that yours did when your lovely Granddad passed. I do believe in Karma though. What goes around ,comes around. God bless you❤️❤️❤️
I see why that woman left her fortune to her cat, this is disgraceful and disgusting, the shame you have to be devoid off to be fighting over inheritance must be astounding
Linda is extremely DOMINANT, you know she manipulated the situation to her advantage, and shame on her !!! This is disgusting. We have to protect our elders from these inheritance vultures, just gross.. I feel bad for the other sisters .. Linda wouldn’t pass a polygraph if you paid her to…
What was the point of any of this? They all got their money… so what is there to discuss? How are they not embarrassed? I mean…. I have secondhand embarrassment for all of these “grown women”.
At 5:40 I thought to myself these 4 would be perfect in a American sitcom! Like friends lol. Accept more like realty of them just arguing with each other lol. This would be priceless!
I do not understand fighting over money when a loved one has passed.. Me, I would be happy to have them for another day with me... that is something i will never understand fighting over money of someone who has passed away.. People can be so greedy
Just because your family doesn't mean you have to get on. Life is too short, have people in your life that love and respect you. Its your life your choice.
My grandmother that raised me was only able to leave me $500. I would give that $500 back in a heartbeat to get her back. I know it’s not much at all, but she was priceless.
It’s math, not magic. Get a forensics accountant to check out if $30,000 ever went from your aunts bank to the family member accused of getting $30,000 early. Easy.
Fighting or having hard feelings about something so petty is such a shame. I have experienced this myself having relatives a mile away that still hold a grudge against me over a piece of land. Ive offered it to them as I quite frankly keep up the taxes on the farm. Yet they would rather just hate me than accept my offer proving they never loved me nor my deceased loved one, just the land.
When my father passed away, my grandmother had her will altered, to ensure that dads daughters got dads share of the estate. Some of my uncles were not happy about this. When my grandmother and grandfather passed, we only got the money side of of the estate. Nanna had some my dads belongings in her bedroom on her wardrobe. The box was clearly marked Freds girls.......It vanished and everyone denied having it. This upset me the most that greed on their behalf, we were robbed of a few possessions, that's clearly should have come to us. We did not receive anything of nannas either as a memento.
The aunt should have given her money to a needy deserving place like the humane society and leave nothing to these ungrateful women. None of them cared about the aunt
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It's ALL Trumps pathological lIES & gaslighted & it's ALL about greed & money! They're spending HER own money that she's wants to dole out the way she sees fit. WHO does that
The grand children should never have been included in the will at all. Split it 4 ways and if Linda dies, then her two children would get Linda’s 1/4 amount.
Why not? If she wanted the grandkids to have money, then they should get the money. The person that earned the money should have the only say so in who it's left to
@@Bri-d2k5u Because it's F'd up and punishing any nieces or nephews who didn't have kids. It's just wrong, but she is gone and obviously doesn't have to care anymore. Also, you never leave any sizeable money to children. You leave it their parents and the parents can make the decision on how much they get and when or if any at all.
If Barbara was happy for the will to be divided between the four, with the youngest getting more, why should it be a problem to her if two more were added and the money evenly split, giving her more than the previous will? Seems odd
Second story: The college daughter can go to community college to save money or look for multiple scholarships or possibly a loan. I went to community college first to not have to take out a loan. Scholarships are easier to search for an apply to now online. The internet was just getting big when I was about to go to college. My high school counselor was no help. I also hope their daughter has a part-time job so she can help at least take care of herself. I worked part-time (almost full-time) and so did my boyfriend (now husband) while we were dating and he went to a top 10 college. We both took a full load of courses each quarter/semester.
"Money is the most replaceable commonity you'll ever have". Yes exactly. And a log cabin your father build with his own two hands is priceless. They where left the house (not money) that his father build with his own two hands. His father wanted to give this house to his son and his family and probably hoped it would be passed on for generations to come. Which is beautiful. The wife however wanted to sell the house. HIS (her husband) fathers house. And emotionally blackmailed the husband into doing that. That is what this is about and why he, the husband, resent his wife. I would resent my spouse too if he did that to me.
The question on this do they even really know what the deceased really want? Can they prove they knew what they want? This is something that is not worth arguing about because their deceased loved wouldn’t want this. What their loved would want is for them to work it or come to a neutral ground where there is no fighting over it.
I would be so utterly embarrassed and ashamed to be adults and to be acting like this on a tv show this is just ridiculous and not to mention petty and completely unnecessary and childish behavior
6,000 pounds destroyed mine. My Grandad left me it and I had no idea until after he died because in my head he was never going to die. My siblings never visited and when my Grandad went to visit them they said they were just going out - every single time. He sat outside one time as he was suspicious and no one went anywhere. He was 80 at this point and was absolutely devastated. My poor lovely Grandad was in tears.
@@O.K.Pemby10 I so agree. I'm sure SHE bullied her aunt into moving in with her AND took more money than she lets on. DEPLORABLE that her kids profited. Ok the Aunt moved in there, but the poor woman certainly PAID for it. Linda is an inheritance SCAB
This Barbara remembers me of my own sister. Always wanting to be right, always thinking others want to overcome her, always making a drama out of her own life to get compassion and attention. Others should do the work and she can benefit from it, too. It's sad for the kids but I'm better off without letting her in into our life, only on Grey rock contact. Patrick is not only depressed about the money. I think he misses his father a lot and couldn't cope with the loss. It's his grieve that's getting in the way to live a happy life. I'm glad Dr Phil offered some help.
This is tragic. But the truth is that this family was a trainwreck long before the aunt died. If it hadn’t been the inheritance that lit the match, something else would have. The real victim is the memory of the aunt who tried to gift her nieces equally.
That decision can only be made by the person leaving the inheritance so it really doesn't matter. Maybe the grandchildren brought her more joy or did more for her than the children
It seems the easyist remedy would be to supply the receipts, either from the estate or the personal account of the woman who claims she did not receive an advance... or both. The executor would have the estate receipts. Otherwise, it's just bickering. It's no wonder why people leave their estates to charity or their pets. No one should know the contents of someone's will until AFTER the death at the reading of the Will.
I was left trustee when my mom died. I saw my family turned into salvage dogs. I found out I really didn't have anyone in my family stand with me in doing what is right and what my parents will and trust said. I had people lie slandered me.recruited people to come against me. I had my roof damaged and my car damaged and even people who gave me death threats and I had to call police. I saw them exactly who they really are and I will never consider them my family. Been one heck of a nightmare filled with pain . I have not even dealt with my mom's death because of people doing such cruel things with words and actions. My parents would be so a shamed of them all.
My mom and aunt stopped talking, my aunt went after my grandpas will. She forced my grandpa’s second’s wife to split all the money. So now it’s almost going to be two years in march since we’ve seen my aunt. Not only did we lose my grandpa but now we don’t have my aunt since she cared about money more. The point is these women rather be right than happy. It happened they are debating like they can change the past
I believe a person has a right to change their will. The family needs to respect their loved ones last wishes. Before she died she should have told everyone the will had changed the will. So they would have knew it was her wishes. Sounds like she changed her mind when she wanted to leave the nursing home and she to her in her home. It changed her mind what she wanted in the will.
Right? I knew I was written out of my parents will for years, I just always knew my sister would give my mums collection of books to me no matter what, never cared about any money
Yeah she probably knew she would have to spend her last days entertaining 4 grown women who aren’t even her children, crying and complaining about each other and faking interest in her so they could get a bigger piece of the pie.
If a person wants to change their will in the last days of their life it has to be done properly with an attorney and unrelated witness, privately, or it can be contested in probate court and dragged out for years. Turns into a nightmare!!
I believe make a will and don't tell anyone who's getting what. Just let them be surprised afterwards. Why fight over money, at least you're getting something.
It is not about the financial implications but rather the deception and moral integrity that is at the core of this matter. Have you truly violated the trust that I had placed in you? My affections for you were genuine, and yet you chose to deceive me. It is this betrayal that requires resolution and causes emotional distress, not the monetary aspect.
I think all 4 of them are awful. Its like they cared more about the inheritance than their aunt! And how is it surprising in any way that the will was changed to include Lindas children? They presumably lived with their parents, which means they lived with their great aunt as well. And speaking from the experience of having my grandmother move in with us towards the end of her life, i helped take care of her. I got her to bed at night, i helped whenever she needed something. It makes sense that the will would have been changed because Linda and her children were taking care of their aunt. And Carol doesnt seem upset at the fact that she thinks her aunt was manipulated and coerced, she seems upset at the fact that shes now getting less money. none of them deserve that money, imo.
the movie Secondhand Lions 2003 annoying money seeking relatives keep coming to their property. The boys great Uncles are so good and funny. I dont know why but awesome movie came to mind.
No one should want an inheritance, you want your parents and grandparents to have enough money to have a nice, safe, comfortable and happy retirement and to live long enough to spend it all. In Australia you can retire at 67 so someone hopefully has another 30 years of retirement to pay for.
The divided inheritance, I think dividing it so evenly is about the most fair thing other than not paying anyone at all. Also if you are going to claim someone influenced and convinced Virginia to change the will why would they make the change so even and fair? If someone is going to be so conniving then would you not expect them to also favor themselves? I guess the claim is she so deviously manipulated her Aunt and FORCED her to make a fair split? lol makes no sense.
Completely unrelated, but isn’t it wild how little fashion has changed in 25ish yrs. I honestly would never have guessed it was from the early years of the show!
If make mistakes with $ management then learn from your mistakes. You cant undo what was done. Forgive yourself & heal emotionally& change your personal life goals expectations. Say I will do better with $ management now and the future.
None of them deserve a penny!! If aunt wants to leave money that is her choice and her choice only!! Aunt shouldve just gave all the money to charity!! These women are ridiculous!
Sisters are more important than anything. I would give anything to have my brother back. I think Linda did pressure Virginia to change the will. Linda’s kids in the will now, come on.
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was buried and that he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all. .
Money is a necessity but its also what destroy families. How sad that these sisters are fighting for it. I would give all of my share to charities.😅 Money has a nasty way to bring to the surface the true character of people.
I know that when my parents go my 3 siblings will be fighting over the estate and their belongings. They own a horse farm and lots of land my brother allready lives in the granny flat their .supposed to have been for less than a year 10 years later he's still there living for free despite been a police man and having a decent wage . It's my childhood home and I NEVER want to sell it
Unfortunately this scenario is way more common than not. Ask me how I know. Even when things are divided up evenly as parents wanted for their children there was also those physical items in breaking down a lifetime of acquired things, memories, etc. Any unseen cracks that existed in the family dynamics become front stage and center when the last parents dies. Honestly, it can be a shocker when you see your siblings grabbing and tearing while they blame someone else of doing just that when it’s not even close. It’s shameful behavior. Now, listening in this case, I cannot help but agree in regard to “the perfect crime” the lawyer suggests. Linda is completely defensive 100% of the time and the fact that she took 13 k in multiple, (13) checks under 1k, says quite a bit about how she operates. Did I hear her husband became POA? Hmmm, definitely raises an eyebrow or two, especially when you know the POA calls the shots in the distribution process..again, ask me how I know. It’s just sad all the way around. On my parents grave, my Mother chose the verse, “love one another”. Some of us tried to honor that, no matter what. God bless this family for them to let go of their long established biases and truly just love and enjoy each other. Dr. Phil is right, it’s a choice, just don’t put your energy there and choose to love and enjoy your family!
Their argument isn't about the money it's the principle of the situation that one thinks the other was manipulative and coerced their aunt and lied. Not sure why this just keeps going back to money. They made out better with the new will regarding the money portion, this isn't about that. And the sisters have had distrust and problems for years so this last-minute change of the will is just is the icing on the cake. Also, my family has done things similar to how she wrote 13 separate $1,000 checks so we didn't have to go through more red tape. It doesn't mean she did it for bad purposes.
It's amazing how people fight over the convenience of someone's death. These people are insufferable- Its disgusting how often I see this when people are in the hospital. I can't even finish the episode. How pathetic
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Be thankful you were left anything!
Right? That would be a life altering amount of money to my family.
This! Absolutely this! 👏
If I got $70,000 instead of $10,000 I'd be happy and quiet.
Heck, if I got the $10,000 I would be elated. Lol
My father left his 1.4 million dollar estate after his death and settlement of mesothelioma, to my 2 sons.
We took care of him, including my then teenage sons who are now adults. We learned to drain lungs, give him a bath, hygiene, we drove him to chemo, radiation, we feed him healthy food and paid for prescriptions. My oldest took a year off from college to work and help with the prescription costs. My youngest gave up his room for his grandfather and lived in the basement for 2 years. My husband kept us afloat for two years because I couldn’t work.
My siblings understood why. I understood why. My sons paid for their college education and are now planning to start a wedding and event photography and video production business.
My oldest has a BFA in film and my youngest has a BA in business and manufacturing.
Let it go ! You guys got a bonus from your aunt ,be grateful ❤
If I was rich and able to leave an $ inheritance to those I love I would never want them fighting and fussing over it.
Unreal. It's not even their money. A financial inheritance is a test of character. Somehow this kind of money makes people react weird...
Its not even there parents or brother or sister! wow wow wow so crazy.
They shouldnt get a penny,my piano teacher from all her wealth left me the big and best gift of all ,teaching me how to play the piano and unforgettable memories of a kind and generous person, r@@db-Corleone
The short haired one is a nightmare. I hate people who fake laugh dismissively during confrontation
Geez- four siblings destroyed over 400-500k. Split it and go have a great vacation together and pay down your mortgages as much as possible. In America, this shouldn’t be enough money to destroy a family. 😢 It’s enough money for a car and a little indulgence. They are lucky to have an aunt that wanted to share her legacy with her nieces.
Right? Anyone would think they were talking about millions
@@IamPINKIEDaniels this was in 2007, it was pretty close to a million lol
These sisters destroyed themselves long time before this.
SERIOUSLY... when you talk about an ESTATE, you should be discussing 10million PLUS... ANYTHING LESS is not worth the legal and mental distress
It`s the same in my family, most have fallen out over money.
I agree, if this were me I`d just split the inheritance into equal amounts but sadly people are greedy and it`s mostly a case of winner grabs all.
As someone who has received inheritance, it always disgusts me when I hear of people behaving so badly over this. You’ve lost a loving family member and they’re all getting an even share out of this so I really don’t understand why they’re fighting over it. If you don’t visit your dying relative and check up on them, then you have even less right to complain about what was left to you. It’s money that has been left in your hands! It’s not YOUR money, it’s your deceased relative’s and you should be discussing what your aunt would’ve wanted you to do with this money, not squabble over the Will. Pathetic people!!
Exactly, just be thankful to the loved one who left you it
Splitting some to the grand kids is BS though. It should be divided among the sisters. I know we didn't get jack squat when our grandparents passed on either side.
@@marcuslinton310 It was her money though 😂 she could have left none of it to family if she wanted. If she wants to split it between the grandkids, that's her business
@@Bri-d2k5u Well, no S, Sherlock, we all know it was her money and her business. Doesn't change the fact that she shouldn't have punished her nieces for not having kids, which essentially what it's doing. Unless I missed something and they also had kids who were left out. That would be F'd up and for sure not pass the smell test.
Exactly!
As someone who has never received an inheritance nor ever will, I know plenty of people who have and it does not make them better people! It also makes me sad that the deceased person perhaps made a mistake😳
You guys are lucky to get anything. Many of us would never get anything to start with.
This episode should be called dummies with money
Don't fight over someone else's money, earn your own!
It’s $80,000 NONE OF YOU HAD! What the f*ck is wrong with people!
“Linda is SUCH a lovely person”, said nobody…ever!
Neither of you deserve any money. Can't you be happy that you each got something
Having peace is priceless
Linda is the problem here... I have a family member like her. Honestly after reading the comments it's like I'm watching a different show. She said she had no reason to do anything because she wouldn't benefit BUT she did benefit along with her children! She's a crook!
@@EliRowell-ht7xv she did a disgusting thing to her Aunt and family. Who tries to profit off a vulnerable family member 🤔🤢😡
@@grcentre1920 it's usually the one that jumps up and takes care of that person when they get sick.. no not always but a lot of the time it is. Then they have time to manipulate that person. And in this situation you notice Linda sent the Aunt to her own lawyer? Right! Also The ONLY person that says the youngest sister tried to borrow against her inheritance was Linda. Sure the Mom said IT BUT she did NOT hear the Aunt actually say it.. LINDA told her mom! My Grandpa died last summer & my Grandma passed away several years ago.. so I'm at my grandparents home getting old photos together for Grandpa's funeral. My family member comes in the house and notices that my grandmother's very expensive mixer isn't where she thought it should be and starts screaming "Where's Grandmas mixer"? #1) I had no idea & #2) I thought are you serious right now??? So I said I have no clue!! Are you accusing me of something?? She said no but BS.. she definitely was. Of course the mixer was in the closet assuming my grandfather put it in there after his wife passed.. The most ridiculous part of the story is that this family member has TWO very nice (expensive) stand up mixers in her kitchen already so what would it matter if someone did take it.. she doesn't even need the damn thing! Some people are just greedy! This Linda lady seems mentally ill in my opinion & my family member and her could be besties. 😭
Edit: also the story about the mixer seems petty but we still have to settle an entire estate.. God help me and my brother 🙏 for me..if ya don't mind. Lol
@@EliRowell-ht7xv poor you. That family could be Linda's clone. Crappy people always show themselves up at some time. Disgusting that yours did when your lovely Granddad passed. I do believe in Karma though. What goes around ,comes around. God bless you❤️❤️❤️
She looked after her aunt. It’s very difficult having an elderly person live with you at the end of their life.
Linda opened her home. Others didn't. Case closed.
I see why that woman left her fortune to her cat, this is disgraceful and disgusting, the shame you have to be devoid off to be fighting over inheritance must be astounding
Lol a cat doesn't need that much money. Leave it to a charity.
People don’t want anything too spoil their life, not even a sick person.
But when there’s a will involved these people crawl out of the woodwork.🇬🇧
Oh yeah, no doubt people will do anything for money without having to contribute anything for it, they see it as their money and no one else's.
Linda is extremely DOMINANT, you know she manipulated the situation to her advantage, and shame on her !!! This is disgusting. We have to protect our elders from these inheritance vultures, just gross.. I feel bad for the other sisters .. Linda wouldn’t pass a polygraph if you paid her to…
But how does fighting her to get more money to change that ? I’d take my $72K (huge amount of money for me) and be happy
@@canaidianz vulture is THE word. She even looks like one😡😡😡
Just because someone has a dominant personality doesn't mean they are deceitful and manipulative. We really don't know if she did or not.
@@jenniferfenlason8975 face it. Linda is a scam artist
But remember she was the one taking care of her which is not an easy thing to do
What was the point of any of this? They all got their money… so what is there to discuss?
How are they not embarrassed?
I mean…. I have secondhand embarrassment for all of these “grown women”.
At 5:40 I thought to myself these 4 would be perfect in a American sitcom!
Like friends lol.
Accept more like realty of them just arguing with each other lol.
This would be priceless!
sad. it's not even that much money. To lose your family over? Poor aunt to have nieces like that.
I do not understand fighting over money when a loved one has passed.. Me, I would be happy to have them for another day with me... that is something i will never understand fighting over money of someone who has passed away.. People can be so greedy
Just because your family doesn't mean you have to get on. Life is too short, have people in your life that love and respect you. Its your life your choice.
My grandmother that raised me was only able to leave me $500. I would give that $500 back in a heartbeat to get her back. I know it’s not much at all, but she was priceless.
It’s math, not magic. Get a forensics accountant to check out if $30,000 ever went from your aunts bank to the family member accused of getting $30,000 early. Easy.
especially if anything over $1,000 needs approval
So greedy. I’d be so grateful if I was left $72K. I certainly wouldn’t make my life miserable trying to to fight someone like Linda.
Thanks for the advice to move on from things that are over and make a plan for the future Phil. ❤
Right!? I'm sure many people watching needed to hear this excellent advice!!🫶 💚🇦🇺
Aunt Virginia, knew what she was doing . There’s so much hurt and greed. Money brings out the worst. 🇬🇧
This whole things is disgusting! It’s not their money and they got $78k each! Greed tears families apart😢
Fighting or having hard feelings about something so petty is such a shame. I have experienced this myself having relatives a mile away that still hold a grudge against me over a piece of land. Ive offered it to them as I quite frankly keep up the taxes on the farm. Yet they would rather just hate me than accept my offer proving they never loved me nor my deceased loved one, just the land.
When my father passed away, my grandmother had her will altered, to ensure that dads daughters got dads share of the estate. Some of my uncles were not happy about this. When my grandmother and grandfather passed, we only got the money side of of the estate. Nanna had some my dads belongings in her bedroom on her wardrobe. The box was clearly marked Freds girls.......It vanished and everyone denied having it. This upset me the most that greed on their behalf, we were robbed of a few possessions, that's clearly should have come to us. We did not receive anything of nannas either as a memento.
Blah, blah, blah, blah.
Just terrible to fight over a Will....shame on you all!!
How childish they are.
I just wish I had sisters. They are so blessed.
If only they would realise this and stop fighting.
Just FORGIVE take the money and peace to everyone ❤
Linda is definitely responsible for that will change.
Abbbbbbbbsoooollllutely. She is a gross cold sociopath.
I LOVE that Switzerland lives in San Francisco. Just over there in there in peace.
What a shame selling that log house the father made with his hands. Very sad!!
The aunt should have given her money to a needy deserving place like the humane society and leave nothing to these ungrateful women. None of them cared about the aunt
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It's ALL Trumps pathological lIES & gaslighted & it's ALL about greed & money! They're spending HER own money that she's wants to dole out the way she sees fit. WHO does that
Oh my! From South Africa. I trust that there are not such extensive damage.❤
The money that they didn't work for. They are fighting.
She changed. Bcs, she seen probably the one looked after her. While others didn't.
If Linda wants to give her children money, give it out of her part.
The grand children should never have been included in the will at all. Split it 4 ways and if Linda dies, then her two children would get Linda’s 1/4 amount.
Agreed, the grand children should not get in on the shares. We sure as heck didn't get squat when our grandparents passed on either side.
Why not? If she wanted the grandkids to have money, then they should get the money. The person that earned the money should have the only say so in who it's left to
@@Bri-d2k5u Because it's F'd up and punishing any nieces or nephews who didn't have kids. It's just wrong, but she is gone and obviously doesn't have to care anymore. Also, you never leave any sizeable money to children. You leave it their parents and the parents can make the decision on how much they get and when or if any at all.
Look at these women who love free money. Go make your own.
For real.
I can't believe that they are bickering about money, none of them seem to care about thier deceased aunt.
If Barbara was happy for the will to be divided between the four, with the youngest getting more, why should it be a problem to her if two more were added and the money evenly split, giving her more than the previous will? Seems odd
You lost the money..don't lose each other..that's tragic
Second story: The college daughter can go to community college to save money or look for multiple scholarships or possibly a loan. I went to community college first to not have to take out a loan. Scholarships are easier to search for an apply to now online. The internet was just getting big when I was about to go to college. My high school counselor was no help.
I also hope their daughter has a part-time job so she can help at least take care of herself. I worked part-time (almost full-time) and so did my boyfriend (now husband) while we were dating and he went to a top 10 college. We both took a full load of courses each quarter/semester.
"Money is the most replaceable commonity you'll ever have". Yes exactly. And a log cabin your father build with his own two hands is priceless. They where left the house (not money) that his father build with his own two hands. His father wanted to give this house to his son and his family and probably hoped it would be passed on for generations to come. Which is beautiful. The wife however wanted to sell the house. HIS (her husband) fathers house. And emotionally blackmailed the husband into doing that. That is what this is about and why he, the husband, resent his wife. I would resent my spouse too if he did that to me.
The question on this do they even really know what the deceased really want? Can they prove they knew what they want? This is something that is not worth arguing about because their deceased loved wouldn’t want this. What their loved would want is for them to work it or come to a neutral ground where there is no fighting over it.
Life is never fair - get used to it !
I would be so utterly embarrassed and ashamed to be adults and to be acting like this on a tv show this is just ridiculous and not to mention petty and completely unnecessary and childish behavior
6,000 pounds destroyed mine. My Grandad left me it and I had no idea until after he died because in my head he was never going to die. My siblings never visited and when my Grandad went to visit them they said they were just going out - every single time. He sat outside one time as he was suspicious and no one went anywhere. He was 80 at this point and was absolutely devastated. My poor lovely Grandad was in tears.
They are all slimey but Linda is definitely a bully and probably manipulated the poor aunt
@@O.K.Pemby10 I so agree. I'm sure SHE bullied her aunt into moving in with her AND took more money than she lets on. DEPLORABLE that her kids profited. Ok the Aunt moved in there, but the poor woman certainly PAID for it.
Linda is an inheritance SCAB
This Barbara remembers me of my own sister. Always wanting to be right, always thinking others want to overcome her, always making a drama out of her own life to get compassion and attention.
Others should do the work and she can benefit from it, too.
It's sad for the kids but I'm better off without letting her in into our life, only on Grey rock contact.
Patrick is not only depressed about the money. I think he misses his father a lot and couldn't cope with the loss. It's his grieve that's getting in the way to live a happy life. I'm glad Dr Phil offered some help.
Any wonder she lifted it to the cat 😂😂😂
This is tragic. But the truth is that this family was a trainwreck long before the aunt died. If it hadn’t been the inheritance that lit the match, something else would have. The real victim is the memory of the aunt who tried to gift her nieces equally.
It is just money that they didn't earn.
They are owed nothing.
Yeah all the sisters should get their share and the children should get none.
Agreed, the grand children should not get in on the shares. We sure as heck didn't get squat when our grandparents passed on either side.
That decision can only be made by the person leaving the inheritance so it really doesn't matter. Maybe the grandchildren brought her more joy or did more for her than the children
@@Bri-d2k5u Oh wow, that decision can only be made by the person leaving the inheritance? Really? I had no idea, Sherlock once again to the rescue.
It seems the easyist remedy would be to supply the receipts, either from the estate or the personal account of the woman who claims she did not receive an advance... or both. The executor would have the estate receipts. Otherwise, it's just bickering. It's no wonder why people leave their estates to charity or their pets. No one should know the contents of someone's will until AFTER the death at the reading of the Will.
How about go to work and not worry about it 😂
17:37 wow dr phill says it all right here!!
Please let me come along for a laugh!!
I was left trustee when my mom died. I saw my family turned into salvage dogs. I found out I really didn't have anyone in my family stand with me in doing what is right and what my parents will and trust said. I had people lie slandered me.recruited people to come against me. I had my roof damaged and my car damaged and even people who gave me death threats and I had to call police. I saw them exactly who they really are and I will never consider them my family. Been one heck of a nightmare filled with pain . I have not even dealt with my mom's death because of people doing such cruel things with words and actions. My parents would be so a shamed of them all.
My mom and aunt stopped talking, my aunt went after my grandpas will. She forced my grandpa’s second’s wife to split all the money. So now it’s almost going to be two years in march since we’ve seen my aunt. Not only did we lose my grandpa but now we don’t have my aunt since she cared about money more.
The point is these women rather be right than happy. It happened they are debating like they can change the past
People go 180 over inheritance! Very sad and predictable
I believe a person has a right to change their will. The family needs to respect their loved ones last wishes. Before she died she should have told everyone the will had changed the will. So they would have knew it was her wishes. Sounds like she changed her mind when she wanted to leave the nursing home and she to her in her home. It changed her mind what she wanted in the will.
Right? I knew I was written out of my parents will for years, I just always knew my sister would give my mums collection of books to me no matter what, never cared about any money
@@IamPINKIEDaniels Did you get the books? I hope so.
Yeah she probably knew she would have to spend her last days entertaining 4 grown women who aren’t even her children, crying and complaining about each other and faking interest in her so they could get a bigger piece of the pie.
@@NunyaBizness2.0 Lol So true Lol
If a person wants to change their will in the last days of their life it has to be done properly with an attorney and unrelated witness, privately, or it can be contested in probate court and dragged out for years. Turns into a nightmare!!
I believe make a will and don't tell anyone who's getting what. Just let them be surprised afterwards. Why fight over money, at least you're getting something.
They all deserve eachother🗑
It is not about the financial implications but rather the deception and moral integrity that is at the core of this matter. Have you truly violated the trust that I had placed in you? My affections for you were genuine, and yet you chose to deceive me. It is this betrayal that requires resolution and causes emotional distress, not the monetary aspect.
I think all 4 of them are awful. Its like they cared more about the inheritance than their aunt! And how is it surprising in any way that the will was changed to include Lindas children? They presumably lived with their parents, which means they lived with their great aunt as well. And speaking from the experience of having my grandmother move in with us towards the end of her life, i helped take care of her. I got her to bed at night, i helped whenever she needed something. It makes sense that the will would have been changed because Linda and her children were taking care of their aunt. And Carol doesnt seem upset at the fact that she thinks her aunt was manipulated and coerced, she seems upset at the fact that shes now getting less money. none of them deserve that money, imo.
They all need to shut up!
the movie Secondhand Lions 2003 annoying money seeking relatives keep coming to their property. The boys great Uncles are so good and funny. I dont know why but awesome movie came to mind.
Love that movie, so full of life
@@sharon-b7k6z ❤
No one should want an inheritance, you want your parents and grandparents to have enough money to have a nice, safe, comfortable and happy retirement and to live long enough to spend it all. In Australia you can retire at 67 so someone hopefully has another 30 years of retirement to pay for.
The divided inheritance, I think dividing it so evenly is about the most fair thing other than not paying anyone at all. Also if you are going to claim someone influenced and convinced Virginia to change the will why would they make the change so even and fair? If someone is going to be so conniving then would you not expect them to also favor themselves? I guess the claim is she so deviously manipulated her Aunt and FORCED her to make a fair split? lol makes no sense.
Skip the will and put your assets in a trust.
This when see who real family members are the claws come out when money involved
Completely unrelated, but isn’t it wild how little fashion has changed in 25ish yrs. I honestly would never have guessed it was from the early years of the show!
I never had to worry about that I've been left nothing and don't care
What little money I have is going to the Humane society, already done , relatives are out, puppies and kitties in.
To leave 12 million dollars to a dog and nothing to the grandkids speaks to just how wicked she was..
The sisters probably stopped talking to each other after the show!!!!!
Its amazing how families get greedy over money they didnt earn. Its so discusting that rhe money is more important than your loved ones.
This is so crazy. They should be grateful she gave them anything. They’re greedy af.
If make mistakes with $ management then learn from your mistakes. You cant undo what was done. Forgive yourself & heal emotionally& change your personal life goals expectations. Say I will do better with $ management now and the future.
Anyone else notice there fighting over inheritance but 3 of them have had face surgery so there hardly on the poverty line .
As judge Judy says, you don’t visit me regularly, you aren’t getting anything from my will.
None of them deserve a penny!! If aunt wants to leave money that is her choice and her choice only!! Aunt shouldve just gave all the money to charity!! These women are ridiculous!
They act like they're entitled to their aunt's money when they're not owed a penny. She should've spent it all on herself.
Sisters are more important than anything. I would give anything to have my brother back. I think Linda did pressure Virginia to change the will. Linda’s kids in the will now, come on.
These sisters have been at each other throats all their lives.
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was buried and that he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all. .
So how did Jesus dying for us help us at all...Explain that
@@BruceLee-fd7uwaren't you still alive? Haven't felt Gods wrath yet?
Beautiful words ❤ you too. I'm not religious but I love good good religious people. Bless you too
@grcentre1920 why wud his death cleanse away ur sins
@freyamccauley Are you trying to say that if he didn't die I wouldn't be alive lol what logic is that
Money is a necessity but its also what destroy families.
How sad that these sisters are fighting for it.
I would give all of my share to charities.😅
Money has a nasty way to bring to the surface the true character of people.
I know that when my parents go my 3 siblings will be fighting over the estate and their belongings.
They own a horse farm and lots of land my brother allready lives in the granny flat their .supposed to have been for less than a year 10 years later he's still there living for free despite been a police man and having a decent wage .
It's my childhood home and I NEVER want to sell it
What they say: Its not the lousy $5, its the principle of the thing!
What they really mean: Its the lousy $5!
Unfortunately this scenario is way more common than not. Ask me how I know. Even when things are divided up evenly as parents wanted for their children there was also those physical items in breaking down a lifetime of acquired things, memories, etc.
Any unseen cracks that existed in the family dynamics become front stage and center when the last parents dies. Honestly, it can be a shocker when you see your siblings grabbing and tearing while they blame someone else of doing just that when it’s not even close. It’s shameful behavior. Now, listening in this case, I cannot help but agree in regard to “the perfect crime” the lawyer suggests. Linda is completely defensive 100% of the time and the fact that she took 13 k in multiple, (13) checks under 1k, says quite a bit about how she operates. Did I hear her husband became POA? Hmmm, definitely raises an eyebrow or two, especially when you know the POA calls the shots in the distribution process..again, ask me how I know. It’s just sad all the way around. On my parents grave, my Mother chose the verse, “love one another”. Some of us tried to honor that, no matter what. God bless this family for them to let go of their long established biases and truly just love and enjoy each other.
Dr. Phil is right, it’s a choice, just don’t put your energy there and choose to love and enjoy your family!
Money from sold inheritance doesn't last.
Their argument isn't about the money it's the principle of the situation that one thinks the other was manipulative and coerced their aunt and lied. Not sure why this just keeps going back to money. They made out better with the new will regarding the money portion, this isn't about that. And the sisters have had distrust and problems for years so this last-minute change of the will is just is the icing on the cake.
Also, my family has done things similar to how she wrote 13 separate $1,000 checks so we didn't have to go through more red tape. It doesn't mean she did it for bad purposes.
It's amazing how people fight over the convenience of someone's death. These people are insufferable- Its disgusting how often I see this when people are in the hospital. I can't even finish the episode. How pathetic
Fighting over money and dividing the family just like politics I rather get a refrigerator box and live under a bridge.