I’m saying tho, I sometimes joke with my mom and be like I can’t believe at one point you were 6 years old little girl too! My mom is in her mid forties and she looks like my peer, I pray I get to make it to be older, it’s such a blessing
I don't think it was said to flex. It's a lot of bitter older women. I hate to say it, but it's true. Between unaddressed trauma and these disgusting guys telling women we lose value at 30, a hot mess. It's one thing to try to guide somebody, but the lady talking slick. "I ain't goin nowhere that thang is". Not surprised she clapped back. Can't tell folks how to respond. She'll learn when she's older and wiser. And ironically it'll probably be some young gal calling her "old and mad". 😂
Yea…. cause Aaliyah pop smoke mac miller 2pac juicywrld biggy, Xxx tentacion and more talented artists / people did not even make 30 y o, ageism is a kind of the blessing….
Truthfully, nobody’s really pushing the image that they say they want to represent black women. Where’s the average woman, the black girl next door, the weirdos, the posh, the laidback, the eccentric? These women are getting no play when we all know they’re out there. Everybody has to be naked, hyper sexualized, or a 10/10 beauty. The IG baddies/hood aesthetic/rapper GF image is the look the black community enjoys and I’ll be glad when people admit that. We really don’t have the privilege of being an individual. I’ve lived in Colorado for 3 years, so I’m already hip to being in a non-black location and it was frustrating trying to join spaces and having people assume the worse stereotypes of you, all because of how a couple of black women act.
Blk folks ain’t really running the media. Unfortunately white people can push the narrative they want because they run shit. But also, like you said, it appears we want to see ratchet shit - for whatever reason.
Agree! From other black people themselves I’ve gotten: “why are you so quiet?” “Why don’t you wear x, y, z” and it is like… the hell? Do you expect all black girls to act this way? Also I’m in Colorado too so trying to get in spaces has always had me thinking about what they portray me as.
Black people need to stop supporting foolishness. If we didn’t support these type of people they wouldn’t be mainstream. We are at fault as a community. We represent what we support.
Yall do know there are other people who support Sexxy Red that arent black....Yall do know the main consumers and concert goers of Hip Hop are majority white. So its a little off based to put this on black people when Hip Hop and Female rap is global.
I kinda disagree, a lot of black peoples call out this behavior and don’t support it. I’m from Stl, and most women ik, do not like her cause they say she makes us look bad. But the industry pushes who they want to push and will play the songs over and over and over on the radio, make sure the song ends up on the fyp etc.
We need to stop age shaming when people are speaking facts, Sexxy isn’t going to stay young forever, just like when Latto called Nicki grandma, getting older is a blessing and you’re supposed to get wiser as you age. This sista said what a lot of people are saying, I’m glad Sexxy made it out the struggle, but Sexxy and women like her are extremely toxic.
Facts. Since when did aging become a crime? I noticed everybody obsessed with age now, its common knowledge that anybody that lives long enough, eventually gets old.
So ghetto and ratchet women don’t exist? Why is it that trailer trash doesn’t represent the average white person yet it’s a lot of them. And YES it’s weird when old ass women try to tell us what to do when YALL was at Freaknik and what not. Y’all act like y’all wasn’t our age at one point and y’all were nuns and good girls when y’all wasn’t.
I think age shaming is kinda necessary is some scenarios especially when adults over the age 25+ are acting like they’re 14. But honestly I agree with aging being a blessing. It’s a wonderful thing to experience every day and every year. ❤
I love that black women are loudly calling out this representation. The world has to know that this is being shoved down our throats. Call me classist or whatever but i do can never be found mingling with girls like that.
I wouldn’t say it’s classless to not want to be apart of what they’re doing but it is if your trying to bring them down or think they are less because of that. They can live their life how they chose just as you can live yours and black women were being tear down before sexy red and I don’t think it’ll be different after that’s why you just gotta be you and keep it pushing fr
This is shoved down our throats? But we must've been willing participants for Khia, Trina, Lil Kim, Meg, City Girls, Cardi B and these other female rappers who push sex heavy.
@@shellesbbythere’s levels to everything, her music is not just hyper sexual. Sis is bragging about getting multiple sti’s and her rise is just so bizzare. There’s not even an illusion of cleverness in her word play. I stg I thought she was making meme music. Most comparable I’d give you in that list is going to be the city girls. And the only thing I’d point out there is the level of saturation for that type of music atp. There’s only so much space for this level of ridiculousnesses, and the cg were the line imo.
I believe the wrong things gets hyped in the black community. I wish communities like HBCU majorettes were more in the international spotlight. Its classy, seductive with taste, and highly talented. Others like traditional african dance, brazilian samba, jazz, theres so much that black women and even men should be exposed for in the media spotlight. Look at even that afro latina (forgot her name) she was in vh1 and even normani ... so much beauty and potential... HIDDEN
Amara la Negra does Latin music hence why she's not pushed to us. But normani even promotes this image. Her last marketing promo she was butt baked with her behind turned to the camera to promote a song. No
@@perdybirdie but even if amara does latin music that should be up there as well, because it shows how diverse black people as a whole are. For example, Janet Jackson ft. Daddy Yankee ( forgot the name of the song lol) but you can see the visuals and how creative it was without the sultry . Now , normani , you're right about her last song I was thinking more on her first solo song motivation. I wish it stayed creative like that. And omg even soul music and neo soul . We have so much to offer
As Black ppl in America, why is it so hard for ppl to separate themselves from less classy ppl without other ppl in our group trying to shame us for it.
Exactly. We always talk about others viewing us as a monolith we we literally treat ourselves monolithically like no there are different types of black people and black celebrities and that’s ok!
As a seventeen year old girl who will be graduating from high school, all my life I’ve never owned any form of social media. My mother refused to let me have it when I was in middle school. When I got to high school, I made the choice not to have any social media (and I still have no desire to own an Instagram or a TikTok account). I’m a very private person and I don’t believe in disclosing every intimate detail of a person’s life online and seeing people post their personal business is a huge turnoff for me. Even though I listen to these raunchy lyrics, what these rappers talk about in their music don’t have an impact on me. If anything, listening to this type of music and observing other people’s toxic relationships encourages me to keep my v-card and reminds me not to give into peer pressure. These females rappers don’t influence me nor does social media make me feel bad about not being like everybody else 💞💕
You are so smart love, you will be blessed. I wish I had this mindset at 17. I was trying to be a part of the crowd, not sticking to my true values, and chasing things that were destined to hurt me. Keep your head on straight, and everything will fall in line. I started RUclips at 17 and went through a lot just to get to where I’m at now and be able to feel confident enough to speak about all of these different topics because for years, I was just consuming media without thoroughly thinking about what I’m looking at. Have fun during your senior year! 🎉💕
I feel like we shouldn’t let what One Black Woman does be the face for all of us. We don’t all act the same, weren’t raised the same, may have some similar experiences but it still doesn’t determine us from having our own identity. If someone think all Black Women act the same, they’re ignorant and that’s a personal problem for them.
Right like stop shaming her, this is her truth, and every black woman deserves to give their perspective. Sexxy is having her young ho* era….and thats fine too!
@@sayitasis8326 Why are you bringing them up in a conversation that’s strictly about BW. If you wanted to talk about them why not go to a video where their the topic of discussion?
As a Russian I can say that my idea of black women is shaped by girls and women like Chioma :) I know I'm just one girl from the opposite side of the world, but I recommended this channel to my friend from Spain. And I'm pretty sure a lot of people all around the world get the glimpse of what it's like to be a black woman (to be aware of difficulties and injustices other women face) through this amazing channel. 🎉❤ You said you hope one day the world's perspective on black women shifts, but you are already one of the women who are making the shift happen.
Thank you so much love! I really appreciate this. I think another thing that some people don’t consider is the international appeal. I always forget that I have a lot of international viewers. There are learning through my channel. Thank you so much, this was so nice. 💗🫶🏾
@@QueenChioma thank you for your reply! I understand that your work is to better women, men and society that are the closest to your heart, thus your words are directed not to international viewers, but to a very specific domestic group. But honestly, ideas that you are spreading are so universal. They go beyond race, culture, ethnic groups. As I understand, your main motive is to teach people to respect themselves, respect other people, be able to walk away when they are disrespected (at any level) and not to let other people manipulate them into believing that they are less (because it's so easy to sell to people who don't know they are enough). These ideas are fundamental to personal growth. And that's exactly why I wish you all the best walking this path. You are not trying to give people quick fixes, your are talking about principles. You speak to black women and black community, but anyone listening can learn something. Your work is admirable!
I just want black women who do multiple genres and fit multiple aesthetic to become mainstream! There’s this artist called Venus in Capricorn, a black female artist who makes pop music that has house elements and I genuinely love it! We are so diverse and I feel like that should be represented
@@alohabrii3 Exactly, they like these ppl for their aesthetic and looks/visuals more than the actual music that’s why they defend Ice so much, cause she’s pretty, and while she is, they need to push ones who are versatile with ACTUAL talent, not just a little. It’s not hating like fans think, it’s just the truth
Hi sis I can't find her on youtube. Does she have a youtube. I'm tired of ppl complaining and never promoting who they want ppl to see. So thanks for doing this ❤
Why can’t they be different types of “black women”. Putting pressure on black women to the uplifter of the black image is crazy. How about we all get to be what we authentically are
Why do young women think that calling another woman old is an insult. We all have to age at some point. These young women are wearing their body down to the ground with drugs , alcohol and sex and will be burned out before 30. It’s a lot of older women who are preserving themselves and looking better,healthier and younger than the actual younger women.
Right especially when they be getting plastic surgery at such a young age. Me and Latto are the same age and I still get mistaken for being a minor and I thought she was way older at first
I keep seeing this. I'm old enough to see sh*t come back around on people who act ugly. Just like these bm are doing surprised Pikachu face that that culture vulture family went back to wm, these girls are going to wish they looked like the women they are calling old now. The thing about youth is that you don't always have the hindsight to know that you're not invincible and life humbles everyone at one point or the other. Same with these red pill folk who don't realise the bed they're making for themselves by devaluing women.
Just because something is “authentic”doesn’t make it any less wrong. There are modest rappers it’s just that labels aren’t pushing them and stupid people keep eating up people that act like strippers and sex workers. These people are being pushed and young black women are following these behaviours thinking this is the way to make money in the industry and it’s disgusting. What happened to morality, modesty, self respect. Normal Black women are literally being forced into being represented negatively and it’s depressing
I totally agree. Her content is bit rough and raunchy. You have to separate yourself from certain stuff. I can't relate to it, so I don't associate with it. To each their own.
Thank you soooo much for this commentary Chioma!!!! I 100% agree! And I have these same exact conversations with my close girlfriends daily! It’s agenda being pushed! And our community is just playing into it!!
As a female that’s always about supporting women, especially female artists but I’m sorry, Sukihana is an embarrassment to the rap and women community 🤷🏾♀️
I can’t believe we have gross behaviour representing us!! These labels keep pushing this to put us in a negative light!! We had classy and talented stars such as Brandy, Monica, Aaliyah, Whitney Houston, Janet Jackson ect representing us, especially since I was a teen back then too!! Our black children are already mocked for being called “grown” so pushing the gross and vulgar image into their face makes me real mad!! We need our own music labels and bring back proper black representation and talent like we once had!!
But why are you trying to associate yourself with somebody you don’t even relate to just be yourself as an individual and if you don’t like the music, then don’t listen to it
@@mariamasuni170 Because pop culture has played a massive role in the way people dress, act, set trends ect for centuries!! It’s normal to associate yourselves with celebrities especially children since they are impressionable!! And how can I not listen to the music that’s being played when it’s literally forced down our throats and played all over the media especially in this era of social media!!
THIS IS WHY WE NEED SHOWS LIKE THE COSBY SHOW, A DIFFERENT WORLD, LIVING SINGLE ETC BACK ON TV. I MISS SEEING THE SMART, FUNNY, WELL EDUCATED, TALENTED, BOUGIE, DRESSING CLASSY ETC ON MY TV
Y’all gotta raise y’all children to see music and media as entertainment. I grew up during NASTY ass music but my mom always explained to me that it wasn’t real. That there’s a time and place for all type of music. People who are saying that SexyRed is bad for black women need a small taste of reality. I’m not a fan AT ALL. But I make sure the younger girls in my family understand that it’s just music. Put it on when you partying or getting ready to step outside, not your everyday life
We had nasty music yes, but it was a balance now that’s all that’s being promoted I’m 31 and have a 16 and 14 yr old sister which I know it isn’t cardi’s and etc to be a role model but dang where are the 3lw’s, b2k’s the girl groups we had posters on our wall this new generation is literally skipping the pre-teen age and it’s sad
nah the difference between you growing up on that music is that although there was sexual music out, you still had your fair share of good music. nowadays you really don’t get good music nor good entertainment. everything is full of sex, violence, and negativity. you can’t tell children “oh it’s just entertainment” when that all there is in media and even real life. so please stop comparing your days to now cause it’s not the same, honestly
I do feel like she’s forced honestly! 😂 I really don’t get it. I can’t believe people actually listen to her music and think she actually hard 💀 I CANT WRAP MY MIND AROUND IT!!!! She just doing shit
I'm in my 30s and I usually don't listen to the ratchet music but idk sexy redd feeds my soul and I swear its because she's authentic I don't even care for the music but it's the way that she knows she mediocre and doesn't care😂😂 black women are allowed to be versatile. But I'm not holding sexxy red any more accountable than the community holds these men.
@@Tashone26 I agree with that as well. They don’t represent all of us black woman. However, this is the image sone people see when they think of black women.
Now thats what we should be talking about. Ole girl just being her making thay money. But you know BW always trying to hold another BW accountable to get brownie points from the kangs
Literally it’s so sad bro like we’re all aren’t black women … some people are defending her some people still saying she do mostly black women who wanna get picked and black men
Queen Chioma’s vocabulary: “Because, no”. “Pretty pink put it on a pedestal 🐱”. “Pulsing piping 🍆” “Cut the malarkey”. She needs to put these catchphrases on T-Shirts 🤣❤️👚👕
I loathe the fact that when you are someone like myself who doesn’t equate ghetto, hood, or ratchet music, topics, environments, etc. to black culture you get called anti-black but that’s not what black is just because the large majority of that esthetic is populated by black people… but it was the chuckle for me lol
lol people are so ready to call you anti-black because you’re not ghetto, it’s weird. I’ve been called a white girl a lot in my life just because how I talk and the fact that I’m not hood. Smh lol but yes someone caught the chuckle 😂😂😂
Even though I don’t care for her music ,the damage started well before her. They only care bc she’s dark skin and doesn’t have the typical“aesthetic”. She’s no different than any of the other rap girlies 🤷🏾♀️. This is just the only image that the industry wants pushed……sexual
She's is not dark skinned. and no matter what color someone is I can't listen if they can't rhyme on beat and their lyrical content is the opposite of inspiration. But I support true phenomenal female rhyme spitters from Jean Grae to Flau'jae
Honestly as a black women married out if you arent ghetto people will know. Any yt people that go by stereotypes i stay away from. Best thing to do is be yourself. Good luck out there ladies💜
That’s really the bottom line. I don’t want to be associated with people who think what they see and listen to through the media is a representation of reality. …MY REALITY TO BE PRECISE ❗️
Another thing, is that the aesthetic for most female rappers coincides with hoe culture. So many women now believe that sexual liberty also means being promiscuous. The female rap movement for the last few years has done nothing but continue to push this narrative as well.
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO! Thank you for your perspective. As a masters educated professional black woman, I don’t relate to any of the rappers discussed in this video I’m any way, shape, or form. I’m a nurse practitioner who works in a predominately white area and when I walk into the room, I can from patients reactions that - as back women- we are all definitely lumped into one category and this artists and others like her are forming others’ perception of us, whether we like it or not. A separation and better representation needs to happen. I can do it and try to change peoples perception of us black people in all of my daily interactions, but we need better representation on a wider scale!
My mom raised me, not the music I listened to. Her lyrics aren’t the nastiest lyrics I’ve ever heard, I feel like I’ve heard worst. People don’t have this energy for male rappers AT ALL, and they’ve been talking about guns, drugs, fucking random girls & cheating. Sexy redd isn’t doing anything that hasn’t already been done
Thank you. These male rappers say some of the most wicked things I’ve ever heard on a rap song. They make sexyyred look like just a rebellious little girl
THANK YOU MY MOM EVEN SAID IDC ABOUT YOUR SEXUALITY I'M GAY BTW CONDOM'S GETTING SCREENED AND SCREENING YOUR PARTNERS AND LASTLY SOMETIMES JUST USING YOUR HAND TO AVOID HAVING TO DEAL WITH INFECTIOUS DISEASES IN THE FIRST HAND IS WHAT IM TELLING YOU
It still don’t make it right…. It’s like we love to cry “the men do it” WE TALKING ABOUT SEXY RED!! And we is in a new era this ain’t back then people are actually WAKING UP! THINGS ARE DIFFERENT! These are the conversations that’s needs to be had.
My dentist's office likes to play music in each individual room. It's usually like your typical early 2000s alternative music that really helps to calm patients. I will never forget when one of the hygienists said that she'll play anything as long as it's not Cardi B to my face. This is the problem. We've gotten to a point where individuality is not given to Black women at all. I am college educated and barely even listen to rap music. Yet when I walk in a dentist's office they assume I fit the monolith of what the media tells people about Black women. I agree with everything you said in this video, Chioma. The problem isn't that people like Sexyy Red exists. The problem is that there isn't a balance in the media. Great video!
I really dislike the imagery of ice spice, Cardi b, Megan, sukiana, sexy red, and city girl music & music videos, some white guy in my little town in st Pete, Fl really thought he was gonna buy me a fancy/expensive dinner just to have sex, ummmm no! I don’t Even give city girl vibes tf! I shud have knew what type of time he was on when he asked me if I liked sexy red music during the dinner 🫠 but I just don’t like that some of these dudes think everyone is just casually having sex because of the music that’s currently going mainstream, it’s aggy
Growing up as a kid being told that blk women are ghetto, hood, loud, 304 was a true struggle to fight the stereotype just to become an adult watching those same stereotypes glorified as normal and a flex. It’s not!! I believe she is an industry plant because the industry benefits from the destruction of young blk girls and women. We are better than that yet our community makes excuses to make this crap normal. That’s why on TikTok the 80s esthetics is going viral because it was a time of being cool, fun and a memorable time if you lived in that era which we will never get back. I agree ppl of non melanin look at us as how we represent ourselves in music. No other culture does that but us and that should speak volumes.
I was driving listening to this and came home to reply. I have to say this... sis... keep doing God's work by standing up and speaking on truth in these ages.
I think she’s a plant. She was literally JUST strung out on Percocet pills less than a year ago and not making any music whatsoever; cancelling her spot in local events with other local artist, because she was high off pills. Then the moment she starts back making music she’s everywhere out of nowhere. She said that she stopped taking the pills then hops on a remix to a song promoting using them knowing she’s largely followed by teenagers. She had one minor viral moment 5 years ago and she name was literally local after that. That one small viral moment 5 years ago does not add up to where she is today. Definitely gives off plant vibes to me. I feel they’re pushing her, because the KIDS aren’t checking for Suki, because she gives “old nasty hoe” vibes while trying to come off ass youthful and playful. Suki gives that she’d try to sleep with my man and cook good for him out just to lay it on thick. Red, on the other hand, gives that young “idgaf, because I’m just f*cking to fuck” vibes, and that idgaf spirit is what KIDS gravitate towards. That’s dangerous for the youth. She’s a push for female chaos.
Im 23 and it gets real annoying when I see women especially black women attack other women for their age as if we all don’t age(or at least have the privilege to and see another day). Before you know it there’s going to be another young woman calling you that too
Before sexy went mainstream she had songs, I followed her before she went mainstream. It’s like she’s only doing this type of rap because it puts her out there
She’s really only doing this type of music because these record labels and PR teams push for sex appeal, hence why she’s utilizing this marketing strategy.
exactly she had songs about shit other than sex, but “pound town” is what made her go viral on tiktok. She already went viral before with her other song but “pound town” is what really got her out there bc of the crazy, raunchy lyrics.
My issue is a lot of women are QUICK to call out the women, while actively supporting men like lil baby, future..etc I don’t listen to sexy red as I feel like she is doing ALOT and that’s saying something as a Jamaican
It's not her fault that a lot of black women don't know who they are or what the stand for so they are easily influenced and conform to whatever is the so-called trend....even if it's the hottest mess.
That’s not what it’s about, use your heads. It’s not just about black women, it’s about young black girls too, and it’s also about promoting negative stereotypes about black women. People will see women like sexy red and generalize us as a whole, because honestly that’s all they see of us in the media. Rachet, hypersexualized, and trifling. I’m so tired of you guys coddling and defending women like her.
@@Las645 shes a grown ass women she dnt got shit to do with these little girls theyre not her target audience. Shes not these kids role models yall need to parent yall kids tf
@@dabrathaute3176I really dislike when people say this as if they weren’t kids before. As if people didn’t have households who did not tolerate this BS and kids still left the house actively seeking ways to participate in it because degeneracy is always so fun til the rabbits got the gun
What about the black girls like me that grew up in the suburbs with two loving parents. Goes to college and have never reallydone things with men, wheres our representation im so tired of feeling left out of media
Could not have said it better myself! If this is the best BW have to offer up as a representative, then whyte supremacy has done its job. It lowered the bar so low that we are genuinely captivated by someone who embodies so many negative stereotypes, it’s almost like watching a minstrel show 🤦🏽♀️
I don't think Red is “hurting black women,” I think she is simply just being herself and she should be able to do that. She shouldn't be forced to behave or act a certain way to please people she doesn't even know. Nobody could truly “represent” black women because we aren't a monolith. At the end of the day, women like red deserve to exist. If y'all want certain type of representation then y'all need to start supporting and promoting the black women y'all claim arent represented
Facts! Rap is not the only genre of black music, where we have a Beyonce selling out stadiums. Last time I checked people been slow to support talent like Tierra Whack, Chika and more. People claim they want certain things but don’t support it.
Beautifully spoken! One person may not act how another would but who are they to tell them what to do, be authentically yourself with your standards and morals and let everyone else do what suits them best
Music is spiritual, influential, and detrimental all at the same time. I’m tired of the Redds, Ice baggs, spice cabinets, Asian doll, cuban doll, Stunna girl, smh there are so many… These artist sell out their own community for fame and fortune. Bizzy bone explained it best their is a gangster rap agenda to push, so they can fill these government funded prisons. Think about how victoria secret and a lot of these high class brands use prisons to make some of their most expensive items. These prisoners only make like a cent or a few cents at the end of the day. The system is rigged and we should not play the game. Black (artist) people don’t beat the system by joining your just insuring these intuitions stayed filled. The USA is one of the most incarcerated country and the system of mass incarceration particularly targets Black people, who are 13 percent of the U.S. population. Right now more than ever black people to unite and promote high vibrational people. I’m tired of seeing chrisean, blueface, sexxy redd, lil nas, uzi, and so many low vibrational people attend high schools or kids choice awards. What they are doing should NOT be promoted to CHILDREN OR TEENS! There is such a shift in this generation. You have children as young as 8 or 9 with demons/entities attached to them because of the music, imagery, and entertainment they consume. I thinks this was all proven during the Kai Cenat riot. There were kids, teens, and young adults being arrested for destroying property and assaulting police officers! AND PLEASEEEE Do not be fooled, or mislead by blac chyna or the Brittnay renners because their are a lot of entertainers out here deceiving true followers! You need to have discernment and be careful of the music or imagery you are consuming even if you don’t think it is affecting you now. You don’t know how it affecting you mentally or spiritually over time. I recommend you all check out bizzy bones interview about the gangster rap agenda and “The Truth is” channel he also spoke about the agenda in the industry. These are challenging times! If we continue to live in a world without morals there will continue to be chaos. Drill music aka death music promotes nothing but death, gang culture, and violence.. HOE music (said what I said) promotes broken homes, soul ties, increase in STDs, and so much more. This is not music and there is nothing artistic about this type of music. Where are the India Airies , Musiq Soulchild, Lauryn Hill, or Queen Latifah's they aren't being pushed into mainstream media so we continue to hear low vibrational artist.
THIS!!!!! Ppl don’t understand that music is a medium through which spirits travel!! These Z-list rappers wanna rap about promiscuity, killing and scamming, and then folks wonder why there’s so much violence and broken homes! It’s because they’re inviting those demons and unclean spirits into their homes and minds, and it’s manifesting itself as tangible destruction in our communities. Once I understood that, I (for the most part) only listen to worship music, cuz the only spirit I need on me is the Spirit of God. I pray for our Black communities, we really have to do better, cuz no one else will do right by us.😔😔
Just got to the part in the video where Chioma talks about how Sexxy Red is going to schools… It gets tiring talking about how detrimental this representation is to young Black girls Some won’t be influenced much, but others will idolise these people and try to emulate them. The media is contributing to a lot of the issues Black girls face. The type of sex promoted is never loving, healthy, it’s always really trashy Like they go out of their way to make it look bad in a way, it’s very weird So schools allowing artists like these to perform at them, suggests this is very much intentional and systemic.
Yes it will and letting all forms of degeneracy to promote us is what led to the destruction of our community. There's no balance and black women think everyone and anything should be allowed just bc they're black and it's led to the mess we see now.
Why do you think a culture of respect won’t get us anywhere? It’s factual that the polite culture in Japan has SIGNIFICANTLY decreased crime on their land
@@nonnieJ94 I'm not sure what this has to do with anything but, it LITERALLY does not matter if Black women are polite or respectful. We will still have to deal with racism, prejudice, misogynoir and violence in North America
I can't tell you how many times I've met men from Europe and Asia and their assumption is that I'm some kind of promiscuous twerk Queen. It feels so disrespectful but at the same time, its easy to see where they would get the idea that this is what black women in America are. Its really disheartening. This image of the ratchet black woman sends the wrong message about black women both domestically and abroad.
I never thought id see the day where black women think degeneracy is nornal and okay. This is scary...im a young black woman and hate that this is the ONLY image we have right now. Even the so called better artists like chloe and halle, normani and sza play into the ratchet, oversexualized image. Anyone who knows american history know how powerful the media is in the perception of our community. These women are embodying the jezevel stereotype, and that DIRECTLY correlates to the number of sexual assaults, DV, cat calls, etc normal everyday black women recieve. You can yell from the rooftop jezebel demons like sexy are ok until you are the one suffering the ramifications of her ilk. And she will be protected. You wont.
Men werent supporting these women, neither where men and women of other races, it was bw supporting this by making excuses for the behavior. Twerking is just having fun, stay out of women’s business, let her dress how she wants she’s not hurting nobody, but bw failed to realize, for every excuse made, there’s another rapper coming up ready to push the envelope and more excuses roll out until we’ve reached the point where we are at now. Rapping about bootywhole colors. We will continue on this path until we stop normalizing demoralizing behavior and morals as black culture.
im a black man from saint louis...i love sexxxy reddd im glad she is alternative to finnesse rap music of women using men for money. i love sex music, Not finnesse use men for money ish. SEXXY REDD is my type
Plenty of non BW support this trash you better learn about it! When a hip hop station came to town the other station was interviewed, They said they didn’t think we had the population to support a hip hop station. That was ignorant as heck considering the stats at the time showed white people being the biggest consumers of hip hop/rap. What the guy basically said was there’s only a handful of Black people in our city.
While i believe that there needs to be different groups of bw, i don't believe in oppressing or shtting groups i'm not a part of. I'm not a hood girl but i know some and i respect their right to exist, i don't dwell in their spaces and they're seldom in mine. Dana Dane thought she was checking sexy red and her likes but all she did was open the door for her past to be exposed.
@@perdybirdie @mmaya772 apparently she was paying for a man, his hoes and children, let him cheat on her, had it out with the ladies ect ect, basically she is no one to speak on anything is the point they're driving at, and you know its only a matter of time before that man in question comes out to give "his side"
This is why I moved back to Lagos.. despite how bad the government is I’m not moving back 😅 it’s really hard being a black woman in America.. when this is your only representation and trying to separate yourself means being vilified..
Syphilis is high in Houston. I wonder why? Is it because of this example? I'm showing my age. Back in my days songs would talk about safe sex. Does that not exist anymore?
Here’s my thing and it may be a hot take… us as black people come from different walks of life. They’re are Sexxy Reds in the world, so why be upset when one of our own who actually lives that life is making money instead of a non black woman who puts on an act e.i Bhad Bhabie, Woah Vickey, Etc… i just personally feel we should allow different type of art come from our people… that doesn’t mean you have to like it but don’t make it seem it’s setting us back when we know that there are different types of black people in the world. Ghetto/Ratchet people are entitled to success as much as the classy people.
This take is being willfully obtuse. Have you not noticed that with the white women they also have taylor swift, Billie eliish, Olivia Rodrigo, etc? Can you name me 5 mainstream black women like that? ALL of our representatives look and act like sexxy red and that's the main problem. We wouldn't have as much an issue if there was a balance but there's not. They ALL act ratchet and like a literals jezebel stereotype. And if you know American history then you know how much that affects everyday black women
But bhad bhabie got money and rebranded, she lost that accent, doing nails.. sexy is putting on a image for young black girls, she getting money and wanna stay with that poverty mindset?? Hell nah I ain’t buying that.
I could listen Chioma speak all day, this girl is super intelligent and full of wisdom ❤ sending you love from Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 I loveeeeee your videos!!!!
Don't associate with people you do not relate to or who you do not want to represent you, simple. She's being herself, who cares what she does, black women get policed too much.
Loved this commentary. Everything you said was on point. The problem ppl in the US turn a blind eye to ignorance & toxicity in our community. It does raise a red flag that BLACK ppl are the ONLY ones pushed to create sexual music? No other race does but us and we don’t run the industry. It’s that suspicious??? There was a doc called “ Behind the Rhymes” and all the male rappers said the industry didn’t allow them to put positivity in their music. It’s all on purpose.
And girl I got your singles downloaded on my bad B playlist I use for the gym! I see you queen 😍😍 you actually saying something. I actually bought them sis because you know how they be doing us independent artist
Awww You're the best love 💗 it is hard to be an independent artist. And it’s crazy because I have a decent sized fan base, and it definitely helps my music, but I wonder if I was doing something more like Sexxy Redd if I would’ve blown up by now. I’m only 3 songs in, so I’m still working hard, but thank you for supporting and I’m glad you see my vision early. People will catch on later ✨
Have you all ever thought about it this way...currently blk women are on a high...highest in degrees, home ownership ,entrepreneurship financially stable and independent. Do you think as a whole our image is not only being destroyed but it's also effecting the younger generation to change the future of blk women as a whole? In order to tear a community down you have to do it through the youth
In my opinion regardless if sexy redd makes music or not, Ice spice exist, nicki exist, Trina exist, lil Kim exist, stunna girl, City Girls!, joselyn, Cardi, Sukihanna Etc. moral of the story is RATCHET Vulgar Sexual music is ALWAYS gonna exist! So why should this One woman be blamed for tryna make her bag bc ppl like her sound 🤷♀️ It’s not her fault she’s an artist, being herself & ppl happen to like her music. She does not have to be the representation of ALL black woman! If the music is for u listen if it’s not then Don’t. Not everyone is gonna like the same Foods, cars, clothes or live the same. She caters to her Specific Auduence & is doing a good job if she’s creating all this Controversy 💯🤷♀️ why don’t ppl put this SAME energy towards MALE rappers that push unaliving ppl, taking out OPPS, drgz & destroying the black community??
Exactly they act is if the world is gonna go up in flames cause of sexy fucking red like the artist you mentioned don’t exist as well as several male artist who rap about sexual things too! Give me a break!
Saweetie was a really good option before she tried mainstream appeal. She’s college educated and had really positive messages in her songs. Meg is also a good option as the other side of the coin. College educated but a little ratchet.
This imagery is like climate change. It starts off not being viewed as serious until it starts snowing in April and it’s 95 degrees in February. People won’t see the detriment until the detriment is here and in their face.
@@perdybirdieHer version of ratchet is NOTHING close to these ghetto girls. She's so called ratchet for a wealthy girl of means. That's a far cry from your version of ratchet & your existence.
That I didn’t agree with either. Truthfully I don’t support any of these mainstream artists. I don’t know what the kids are listening to fr and I’m only 27. I listen to real artists who have actual talent and passion for their art.
Cardi B started the trend of popcorn artistry. Music with no longevity, ratchet/urban aesthetics and behavior, likeable and authentic personality, and one today, another tomorrow. Sexy red has no longevity we’re criticizing her today and will forget about her tomorrow.
I can't even listen to music anymore sometimes because it's just so trash and inappropriate all the time ( Men and Women artists) but I agree with you 100% and the influencer who spoke out. I would be more concerned about what I'm putting into the world if I was an artist or public figure. I hate it!
I actually thought SexxyRed was younger. 25 is not young and she should know better. I personally don't like her aesthetic, but I'm sure anyone with half a brain knows she does not represent all black women.
Lauryn hill is one of the last lryical and true embodiment of real energy from a woman to grace our presence. I am not a black woman but i am a woman who grew up multicultural and grew up in the city. We had some bangers in the day of the sexy female rappers. But there was something about those few artists like Lauryn who embodied the energy of woman beyond any
The thing is there’s too much ratchet imagery of black women in music
We need a balance
We just need balance lol that’s it, that’s all ✨
True 🤎
I think that's where Beyoncé comes in respectfully lol
@@Kemoraajones Beyonce?! 😂
Let me gon head and log out 😂
@@Kemoraajones That its true Bey is rachet asf she just knows how to make it look classy or whuteva
Being “young” isn’t really a flex, because literally everyone was young at some point. It’s not something exclusive lol
And you can be unalive at any moment.
Exactly that shouldn’t be a flex at all.
I’m saying tho, I sometimes joke with my mom and be like I can’t believe at one point you were 6 years old little girl too! My mom is in her mid forties and she looks like my peer, I pray I get to make it to be older, it’s such a blessing
I don't think it was said to flex. It's a lot of bitter older women. I hate to say it, but it's true. Between unaddressed trauma and these disgusting guys telling women we lose value at 30, a hot mess. It's one thing to try to guide somebody, but the lady talking slick. "I ain't goin nowhere that thang is". Not surprised she clapped back. Can't tell folks how to respond. She'll learn when she's older and wiser. And ironically it'll probably be some young gal calling her "old and mad". 😂
Exactly lmaoooo like trust me someone will be calling YOU old one day....but they don't understand...............yet! 😂
We need to stop ageing shaming when somebody say something is distasteful….
Right lol. The whole “you’re old and boring” is such a dumb response tactic and a clear cope, especially if the person knows that it is true.
No Fr and the woman isn’t even “old” that woman look like she’s in her 30s and funny enough in 5 years sexy red will be 30
U and be talking about people then get mad if they say sum back
Right, as if they wanna d!e young. Ill take old for 500 Alex 😂
Yea…. cause Aaliyah pop smoke mac miller 2pac juicywrld biggy, Xxx tentacion and more talented artists / people did not even make 30 y o, ageism is a kind of the blessing….
Truthfully, nobody’s really pushing the image that they say they want to represent black women. Where’s the average woman, the black girl next door, the weirdos, the posh, the laidback, the eccentric? These women are getting no play when we all know they’re out there. Everybody has to be naked, hyper sexualized, or a 10/10 beauty. The IG baddies/hood aesthetic/rapper GF image is the look the black community enjoys and I’ll be glad when people admit that. We really don’t have the privilege of being an individual. I’ve lived in Colorado for 3 years, so I’m already hip to being in a non-black location and it was frustrating trying to join spaces and having people assume the worse stereotypes of you, all because of how a couple of black women act.
I agree , completely agree
Agree
Agreed
Blk folks ain’t really running the media. Unfortunately white people can push the narrative they want because they run shit. But also, like you said, it appears we want to see ratchet shit - for whatever reason.
Agree!
From other black people themselves I’ve gotten: “why are you so quiet?” “Why don’t you wear x, y, z” and it is like… the hell? Do you expect all black girls to act this way? Also I’m in Colorado too so trying to get in spaces has always had me thinking about what they portray me as.
Black people need to stop supporting foolishness. If we didn’t support these type of people they wouldn’t be mainstream. We are at fault as a community. We represent what we support.
Agree!!
Yall do know there are other people who support Sexxy Red that arent black....Yall do know the main consumers and concert goers of Hip Hop are majority white. So its a little off based to put this on black people when Hip Hop and Female rap is global.
Just foolish at it’s finest and myself I AM TRIED OF IT I AM RAISING 2 GIRLS I HAVE TOO CONTINUE TOO TELL THEM YOU BOTH ARE LOVE PERIOD!!!
I kinda disagree, a lot of black peoples call out this behavior and don’t support it. I’m from Stl, and most women ik, do not like her cause they say she makes us look bad. But the industry pushes who they want to push and will play the songs over and over and over on the radio, make sure the song ends up on the fyp etc.
Exactly Most folk not even uplifting the “conscious female rap” anyway so all this “this too ghetto this not me” fake outrage can stfu
We need to stop age shaming when people are speaking facts, Sexxy isn’t going to stay young forever, just like when Latto called Nicki grandma, getting older is a blessing and you’re supposed to get wiser as you age. This sista said what a lot of people are saying, I’m glad Sexxy made it out the struggle, but Sexxy and women like her are extremely toxic.
Facts. Since when did aging become a crime? I noticed everybody obsessed with age now, its common knowledge that anybody that lives long enough, eventually gets old.
So ghetto and ratchet women don’t exist? Why is it that trailer trash doesn’t represent the average white person yet it’s a lot of them. And YES it’s weird when old ass women try to tell us what to do when YALL was at Freaknik and what not. Y’all act like y’all wasn’t our age at one point and y’all were nuns and good girls when y’all wasn’t.
I think age shaming is kinda necessary is some scenarios especially when adults over the age 25+ are acting like they’re 14. But honestly I agree with aging being a blessing. It’s a wonderful thing to experience every day and every year. ❤
You're on point.
@@xmysxteriaxI agree
I love that black women are loudly calling out this representation. The world has to know that this is being shoved down our throats. Call me classist or whatever but i do can never be found mingling with girls like that.
It's not classist lol. Most people would not want to hang with hood boogers. 😂
I wouldn’t say it’s classless to not want to be apart of what they’re doing but it is if your trying to bring them down or think they are less because of that. They can live their life how they chose just as you can live yours and black women were being tear down before sexy red and I don’t think it’ll be different after that’s why you just gotta be you and keep it pushing fr
I can't deal with hood ppl! I genuinely DISLIKE them!
This is shoved down our throats? But we must've been willing participants for Khia, Trina, Lil Kim, Meg, City Girls, Cardi B and these other female rappers who push sex heavy.
@@shellesbbythere’s levels to everything, her music is not just hyper sexual. Sis is bragging about getting multiple sti’s and her rise is just so bizzare. There’s not even an illusion of cleverness in her word play. I stg I thought she was making meme music. Most comparable I’d give you in that list is going to be the city girls. And the only thing I’d point out there is the level of saturation for that type of music atp. There’s only so much space for this level of ridiculousnesses, and the cg were the line imo.
I believe the wrong things gets hyped in the black community. I wish communities like HBCU majorettes were more in the international spotlight.
Its classy, seductive with taste, and highly talented.
Others like traditional african dance, brazilian samba, jazz, theres so much that black women and even men should be exposed for in the media spotlight. Look at even that afro latina (forgot her name) she was in vh1 and even normani ... so much beauty and potential... HIDDEN
YES YES YES! To this whole comment. I ESPECIALLY agree with black people exploring other genres outside of hiphop and R&B
Amara la Negra does Latin music hence why she's not pushed to us. But normani even promotes this image. Her last marketing promo she was butt baked with her behind turned to the camera to promote a song. No
@@perdybirdie but even if amara does latin music that should be up there as well, because it shows how diverse black people as a whole are. For example, Janet Jackson ft. Daddy Yankee ( forgot the name of the song lol) but you can see the visuals and how creative it was without the sultry . Now , normani , you're right about her last song I was thinking more on her first solo song motivation. I wish it stayed creative like that. And omg even soul music and neo soul .
We have so much to offer
It use to be!!! I couldn’t wait to watch dancing dolls with my friends
@@hellothere8347 and even the Sensational stingettes
As Black ppl in America, why is it so hard for ppl to separate themselves from less classy ppl without other ppl in our group trying to shame us for it.
Exactly! lf you want to be and act ghetto...do you, but l dont!!
@@mssan2016lmao exactly sis purr
Exactly
Exactly. We always talk about others viewing us as a monolith we we literally treat ourselves monolithically like no there are different types of black people and black celebrities and that’s ok!
Yes . Just like the white folk
As a seventeen year old girl who will be graduating from high school, all my life I’ve never owned any form of social media. My mother refused to let me have it when I was in middle school. When I got to high school, I made the choice not to have any social media (and I still have no desire to own an Instagram or a TikTok account). I’m a very private person and I don’t believe in disclosing every intimate detail of a person’s life online and seeing people post their personal business is a huge turnoff for me. Even though I listen to these raunchy lyrics, what these rappers talk about in their music don’t have an impact on me. If anything, listening to this type of music and observing other people’s toxic relationships encourages me to keep my v-card and reminds me not to give into peer pressure. These females rappers don’t influence me nor does social media make me feel bad about not being like everybody else 💞💕
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You are so smart love, you will be blessed. I wish I had this mindset at 17. I was trying to be a part of the crowd, not sticking to my true values, and chasing things that were destined to hurt me. Keep your head on straight, and everything will fall in line. I started RUclips at 17 and went through a lot just to get to where I’m at now and be able to feel confident enough to speak about all of these different topics because for years, I was just consuming media without thoroughly thinking about what I’m looking at. Have fun during your senior year! 🎉💕
@QueenChioma Thank you so much! 🩷🙏🏾
Your mom raised u so well
@@Pookiebabymuva She did 💗
I feel like we shouldn’t let what One Black Woman does be the face for all of us. We don’t all act the same, weren’t raised the same, may have some similar experiences but it still doesn’t determine us from having our own identity. If someone think all Black Women act the same, they’re ignorant and that’s a personal problem for them.
The point is it's not just one black woman. All the black women rappers being put in the mainstream and some in the underground promote degeneracy.
Right like stop shaming her, this is her truth, and every black woman deserves to give their perspective. Sexxy is having her young ho* era….and thats fine too!
Y’all have the same energy for white/Asian and Latino pepo or nah?
@@sayitasis8326 Why are you bringing them up in a conversation that’s strictly about BW. If you wanted to talk about them why not go to a video where their the topic of discussion?
@@Lanaee1207Always a deflector in the mix, it's to be expected atp. We're clearly speaking "specifically" about BW image.
As a Russian I can say that my idea of black women is shaped by girls and women like Chioma :) I know I'm just one girl from the opposite side of the world, but I recommended this channel to my friend from Spain. And I'm pretty sure a lot of people all around the world get the glimpse of what it's like to be a black woman (to be aware of difficulties and injustices other women face) through this amazing channel. 🎉❤
You said you hope one day the world's perspective on black women shifts, but you are already one of the women who are making the shift happen.
I love this 👏🏾
Thank you so much love! I really appreciate this. I think another thing that some people don’t consider is the international appeal. I always forget that I have a lot of international viewers. There are learning through my channel. Thank you so much, this was so nice. 💗🫶🏾
@@QueenChioma thank you for your reply!
I understand that your work is to better women, men and society that are the closest to your heart, thus your words are directed not to international viewers, but to a very specific domestic group. But honestly, ideas that you are spreading are so universal. They go beyond race, culture, ethnic groups. As I understand, your main motive is to teach people to respect themselves, respect other people, be able to walk away when they are disrespected (at any level) and not to let other people manipulate them into believing that they are less (because it's so easy to sell to people who don't know they are enough). These ideas are fundamental to personal growth. And that's exactly why I wish you all the best walking this path. You are not trying to give people quick fixes, your are talking about principles. You speak to black women and black community, but anyone listening can learn something. Your work is admirable!
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I just want black women who do multiple genres and fit multiple aesthetic to become mainstream! There’s this artist called Venus in Capricorn, a black female artist who makes pop music that has house elements and I genuinely love it! We are so diverse and I feel like that should be represented
it’s like the nasty & mediocre female rappers get acknowledged the most like sexyred & ice spice
Yes!! The only issue is lack of diversity. So now Sexyy is feeling so much hate because there is no balance
@@alohabrii3 Exactly, they like these ppl for their aesthetic and looks/visuals more than the actual music that’s why they defend Ice so much, cause she’s pretty, and while she is, they need to push ones who are versatile with ACTUAL talent, not just a little. It’s not hating like fans think, it’s just the truth
Baby Storme makes alternative rock. Willow Smith makes rock music. We need them to show the world black women aren’t just one caricature
Hi sis I can't find her on youtube. Does she have a youtube. I'm tired of ppl complaining and never promoting who they want ppl to see. So thanks for doing this ❤
Why can’t they be different types of “black women”. Putting pressure on black women to the uplifter of the black image is crazy. How about we all get to be what we authentically are
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Agreed sis. Everybody ain’t the same.
Their are different black women in the industry and in general you just got to support them
Exactly. A lot of people don’t get it lol
Exactly. Like leave these women alone and let them live their life
Sexy Redd is definitely damaging Black American Women image but tbh all these female rappers are lil kim kids
Why do young women think that calling another woman old is an insult. We all have to age at some point. These young women are wearing their body down to the ground with drugs , alcohol and sex and will be burned out before 30. It’s a lot of older women who are preserving themselves and looking better,healthier and younger than the actual younger women.
Right especially when they be getting plastic surgery at such a young age. Me and Latto are the same age and I still get mistaken for being a minor and I thought she was way older at first
I keep seeing this. I'm old enough to see sh*t come back around on people who act ugly. Just like these bm are doing surprised Pikachu face that that culture vulture family went back to wm, these girls are going to wish they looked like the women they are calling old now. The thing about youth is that you don't always have the hindsight to know that you're not invincible and life humbles everyone at one point or the other. Same with these red pill folk who don't realise the bed they're making for themselves by devaluing women.
No clue. I think that's the only clapback they have. Lol
Let’s not act like a lot of y’all old heads aren’t burnt out as well 😂 y’all love to “been there done that”
Facts!!!!👏🏾👏🏾
Just because something is “authentic”doesn’t make it any less wrong. There are modest rappers it’s just that labels aren’t pushing them and stupid people keep eating up people that act like strippers and sex workers. These people are being pushed and young black women are following these behaviours thinking this is the way to make money in the industry and it’s disgusting. What happened to morality, modesty, self respect. Normal Black women are literally being forced into being represented negatively and it’s depressing
It's not just an act. SexxyRedd is definitely a sex-worker.
I totally agree. Her content is bit rough and raunchy. You have to separate yourself from certain stuff. I can't relate to it, so I don't associate with it. To each their own.
Same way a white girl from the surburbs hears the music and doesnt feel the need to change her lifestyle is the same way i take it...its just for fun
Facts👏🏽
Exactly HER. My name not hers and im not her person. Im me. And I don’t even know who she is
Thank you soooo much for this commentary Chioma!!!! I 100% agree! And I have these same exact conversations with my close girlfriends daily! It’s agenda being pushed! And our community is just playing into it!!
You're so welcome! I’m so glad 🫶🏾💗
Yep
So is Sukihana… they both making BW look ratchet as hell.
they making you look ratchet not me, I’m not a monolith.
As a female that’s always about supporting women, especially female artists but I’m sorry, Sukihana is an embarrassment to the rap and women community 🤷🏾♀️
Not me I’m my own woman
BW already looked this way and guess what nothing is going to change thay in America. Why dont yoj guys police the legs you keep opening to BM?
These women represent themselves only.
I can’t believe we have gross behaviour representing us!! These labels keep pushing this to put us in a negative light!! We had classy and talented stars such as Brandy, Monica, Aaliyah, Whitney Houston, Janet Jackson ect representing us, especially since I was a teen back then too!! Our black children are already mocked for being called “grown” so pushing the gross and vulgar image into their face makes me real mad!! We need our own music labels and bring back proper black representation and talent like we once had!!
But why are you trying to associate yourself with somebody you don’t even relate to just be yourself as an individual and if you don’t like the music, then don’t listen to it
@@mariamasuni170 Because pop culture has played a massive role in the way people dress, act, set trends ect for centuries!! It’s normal to associate yourselves with celebrities especially children since they are impressionable!! And how can I not listen to the music that’s being played when it’s literally forced down our throats and played all over the media especially in this era of social media!!
every single one of them women you named >>> ICONS
THIS IS WHY WE NEED SHOWS LIKE THE COSBY SHOW, A DIFFERENT WORLD, LIVING SINGLE ETC BACK ON TV. I MISS SEEING THE SMART, FUNNY, WELL EDUCATED, TALENTED, BOUGIE, DRESSING CLASSY ETC ON MY TV
Me too!!! 😫😫😫😫😫
We had those in in 80s, 90s but did it solve our problems? Tv is not reality. Black women have plenty of “classy” role models.
@@WinxMagicalHeroThe image was out there, that is what this comment means. Some variety
None of that helped. Let's be honest. Yall bring this up but the 80s and 90s was completely tragic in the blk community.
Thats So Raven
Y’all gotta raise y’all children to see music and media as entertainment. I grew up during NASTY ass music but my mom always explained to me that it wasn’t real. That there’s a time and place for all type of music.
People who are saying that SexyRed is bad for black women need a small taste of reality. I’m not a fan AT ALL. But I make sure the younger girls in my family understand that it’s just music. Put it on when you partying or getting ready to step outside, not your everyday life
Thank you. I literally said it all. It’s just a song to vibe to. But young girls, don’t follow the same lifestyle 🙏🏾
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True but unfortunately some people don’t possess discernment and wisdom to differentiate the two
We had nasty music yes, but it was a balance now that’s all that’s being promoted I’m 31 and have a 16 and 14 yr old sister which I know it isn’t cardi’s and etc to be a role model but dang where are the 3lw’s, b2k’s the girl groups we had posters on our wall this new generation is literally skipping the pre-teen age and it’s sad
nah the difference between you growing up on that music is that although there was sexual music out, you still had your fair share of good music. nowadays you really don’t get good music nor good entertainment. everything is full of sex, violence, and negativity. you can’t tell children “oh it’s just entertainment” when that all there is in media and even real life. so please stop comparing your days to now cause it’s not the same, honestly
Off topic, but today was my first day as a high school senior. I graduate in May and I’m applying for college soon! 📚💃🏾🏫👩🏾🎓
Congratulations enjoy your senior year
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You Go Girl🎉
I graduated this year in May, congrats on being a senior!
Congratulations 🩷🩷🩷🩷
I do feel like she’s forced honestly! 😂 I really don’t get it. I can’t believe people actually listen to her music and think she actually hard 💀 I CANT WRAP MY MIND AROUND IT!!!! She just doing shit
I'm in my 30s and I usually don't listen to the ratchet music but idk sexy redd feeds my soul and I swear its because she's authentic I don't even care for the music but it's the way that she knows she mediocre and doesn't care😂😂 black women are allowed to be versatile. But I'm not holding sexxy red any more accountable than the community holds these men.
She's at best a mediocre GloRilla. Next🥱!!!
Ice Spice and sexxy redd are being shoved in our faces 24/7.. im tired of seeing it.
“C**chie pink, bootyhole brown” is literally the only reason she is famous. What a legacy.
Her music bops.
So one or two ratchet black women represents all black women? Nobody represents me but ME
right like how are they hurting black women ? 😭
While thats true, the image ppl have of us give the the narrative on how to mistreat us.
Exactly 💯
@@Tashone26 I agree with that as well. They don’t represent all of us black woman.
However, this is the image sone people see when they think of black women.
@@Tashone26 exactly. We don’t live in a perfect world. Sexy red is not helping the narrative but I digress everyone has their own opinion
I hate that their calling her man and saying she look like thug …. 🧍🏽♀️
Now thats what we should be talking about. Ole girl just being her making thay money. But you know BW always trying to hold another BW accountable to get brownie points from the kangs
Literally it’s so sad bro like we’re all aren’t black women … some people are defending her some people still saying she do mostly black women who wanna get picked and black men
She do
@@goonn337 no she don’t
The irony that people would vilify you for calling her a hoe…..but she calls herself one in her songs.
Right and she does it so proudly too smh
Queen Chioma’s vocabulary:
“Because, no”.
“Pretty pink put it on a pedestal 🐱”.
“Pulsing piping 🍆”
“Cut the malarkey”.
She needs to put these catchphrases on T-Shirts 🤣❤️👚👕
Def would buy the “cut the malarkey” shirt
@@applewood6I was JUST gonna say the same thing 😂
@@niableewould wear it proudly lol
I need the because no shirt right now🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤😅😊
“Cut the MALARKEY” is absolutely needed 😭🔥
I loathe the fact that when you are someone like myself who doesn’t equate ghetto, hood, or ratchet music, topics, environments, etc. to black culture you get called anti-black but that’s not what black is just because the large majority of that esthetic is populated by black people… but it was the chuckle for me lol
lol people are so ready to call you anti-black because you’re not ghetto, it’s weird. I’ve been called a white girl a lot in my life just because how I talk and the fact that I’m not hood. Smh lol but yes someone caught the chuckle 😂😂😂
I can relate. During my middle school years, I was called a white girl trapped in a black girl’s body. Like come on
Even though I don’t care for her music ,the damage started well before her. They only care bc she’s dark skin and doesn’t have the typical“aesthetic”. She’s no different than any of the other rap girlies 🤷🏾♀️. This is just the only image that the industry wants pushed……sexual
You right! Cause she’s not saying nothing we ain’t heard before 😭
Point made! If she was lighter she would be sexy and her raunchy behavior would be tolerated
Yup other artist don’t get the same backlash. Very colorist
She's is not dark skinned.
and no matter what color someone is I can't listen if they can't rhyme on beat and their lyrical content is the opposite of inspiration.
But I support true phenomenal female rhyme spitters from Jean Grae to Flau'jae
THIS. it's because she's darkskin
Her and suki are the mascot for girl who eat hot Cheetos and drink ice tea for breakfast at school
Facts !!! 💯
Omg yes! 😭😂
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Freaking weak 😂😂😂😂
Ice tea for breakfast is firee though
I hate when people say that celebrities are ruining black people's image and then they go do horrible stuff too
Honestly as a black women married out if you arent ghetto people will know. Any yt people that go by stereotypes i stay away from. Best thing to do is be yourself. Good luck out there ladies💜
This… I hate the fact that black women are acting like people can’t tell the difference between a sexy red vs a college educated black woman
That’s really the bottom line. I don’t want to be associated with people who think what they see and listen to through the media is a representation of reality. …MY REALITY TO BE PRECISE ❗️
Another thing, is that the aesthetic for most female rappers coincides with hoe culture. So many women now believe that sexual liberty also means being promiscuous. The female rap movement for the last few years has done nothing but continue to push this narrative as well.
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I need this exact comment to be plastered everywhere because YES.
This is sadly the new normal and it’s the young, impressionable girls who fall for this. It’s disgusting
It’s quite of few that give black women a bad image, Sexy Red is just the cherry on top ..
Nicki, Cardi
you guys are hopeless. I’d love to see the few who give latina women a bad image, or white women
The problem is there are no more lines to cross. It's a free for all.
THIS!!!! There isn't even a line anymore lol
As an older woman (35) thank you for speaking up!! I get called a old hater all the time so I just keep my mouth closed lol ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I hope you're being sarcastic 😭
Omg 35 is young
Gorgeous I'm 37...we not older we just are wiser seriously. I get called a her always. We ain't used to popular shit we are used to real artists.
DO NOT LET THEM SILENCE YOU!
That's crazy 35 is not old 😂
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO! Thank you for your perspective. As a masters educated professional black woman, I don’t relate to any of the rappers discussed in this video I’m any way, shape, or form. I’m a nurse practitioner who works in a predominately white area and when I walk into the room, I can from patients reactions that - as back women- we are all definitely lumped into one category and this artists and others like her are forming others’ perception of us, whether we like it or not. A separation and better representation needs to happen. I can do it and try to change peoples perception of us black people in all of my daily interactions, but we need better representation on a wider scale!
Sexy literally looks like a product of her environment..
And shes making a hige profit off of it. I RESPECT IT. Its fun music
So true
I completely agree, and it’s not just in music, social media as a whole pushes this imagery of black women.
My mom raised me, not the music I listened to. Her lyrics aren’t the nastiest lyrics I’ve ever heard, I feel like I’ve heard worst. People don’t have this energy for male rappers AT ALL, and they’ve been talking about guns, drugs, fucking random girls & cheating. Sexy redd isn’t doing anything that hasn’t already been done
Thank you. These male rappers say some of the most wicked things I’ve ever heard on a rap song. They make sexyyred look like just a rebellious little girl
Omg yall are amart yes
THANK YOU MY MOM EVEN SAID IDC ABOUT YOUR SEXUALITY I'M GAY BTW CONDOM'S GETTING SCREENED AND SCREENING YOUR PARTNERS AND LASTLY SOMETIMES JUST USING YOUR HAND TO AVOID HAVING TO DEAL WITH INFECTIOUS DISEASES IN THE FIRST HAND IS WHAT IM TELLING YOU
It still don’t make it right…. It’s like we love to cry “the men do it” WE TALKING ABOUT SEXY RED!! And we is in a new era this ain’t back then people are actually WAKING UP! THINGS ARE DIFFERENT! These are the conversations that’s needs to be had.
@@hellothere8347 so stop this BW from her bag while everyone else is doing the same and thriving?
My dentist's office likes to play music in each individual room. It's usually like your typical early 2000s alternative music that really helps to calm patients. I will never forget when one of the hygienists said that she'll play anything as long as it's not Cardi B to my face. This is the problem. We've gotten to a point where individuality is not given to Black women at all. I am college educated and barely even listen to rap music. Yet when I walk in a dentist's office they assume I fit the monolith of what the media tells people about Black women. I agree with everything you said in this video, Chioma. The problem isn't that people like Sexyy Red exists. The problem is that there isn't a balance in the media. Great video!
I really dislike the imagery of ice spice, Cardi b, Megan, sukiana, sexy red, and city girl music & music videos, some white guy in my little town in st Pete, Fl really thought he was gonna buy me a fancy/expensive dinner just to have sex, ummmm no! I don’t Even give city girl vibes tf! I shud have knew what type of time he was on when he asked me if I liked sexy red music during the dinner 🫠 but I just don’t like that some of these dudes think everyone is just casually having sex because of the music that’s currently going mainstream, it’s aggy
Agree.
That's one of the reasons I'm against the sukis etc. When it comes to dating many men expect bw to be frks', loose etc. Not a human who has feelings.
Growing up as a kid being told that blk women are ghetto, hood, loud, 304 was a true struggle to fight the stereotype just to become an adult watching those same stereotypes glorified as normal and a flex. It’s not!! I believe she is an industry plant because the industry benefits from the destruction of young blk girls and women. We are better than that yet our community makes excuses to make this crap normal. That’s why on TikTok the 80s esthetics is going viral because it was a time of being cool, fun and a memorable time if you lived in that era which we will never get back. I agree ppl of non melanin look at us as how we represent ourselves in music. No other culture does that but us and that should speak volumes.
I was driving listening to this and came home to reply. I have to say this... sis... keep doing God's work by standing up and speaking on truth in these ages.
I’m a 47 year old woman and I tune into your page religiously. Chioma, you’re such a breath of fresh air! Keep doing what you’re doing!!!!! 🥰
Rap as a genre is OVER ! Mark my words , pin my comment 😂
Ive been saying this for a while now lol
I'm so ready to bury this mess and move on 😂
No it's not your sadly mistaken Fam because it's about to revert back to lyricism 😮
I think she’s a plant. She was literally JUST strung out on Percocet pills less than a year ago and not making any music whatsoever; cancelling her spot in local events with other local artist, because she was high off pills. Then the moment she starts back making music she’s everywhere out of nowhere. She said that she stopped taking the pills then hops on a remix to a song promoting using them knowing she’s largely followed by teenagers.
She had one minor viral moment 5 years ago and she name was literally local after that. That one small viral moment 5 years ago does not add up to where she is today. Definitely gives off plant vibes to me. I feel they’re pushing her, because the KIDS aren’t checking for Suki, because she gives “old nasty hoe” vibes while trying to come off ass youthful and playful. Suki gives that she’d try to sleep with my man and cook good for him out just to lay it on thick. Red, on the other hand, gives that young “idgaf, because I’m just f*cking to fuck” vibes, and that idgaf spirit is what KIDS gravitate towards. That’s dangerous for the youth. She’s a push for female chaos.
Well said everything you said was articulated well
Facts facts and more facts!
Im 23 and it gets real annoying when I see women especially black women attack other women for their age as if we all don’t age(or at least have the privilege to and see another day). Before you know it there’s going to be another young woman calling you that too
Before sexy went mainstream she had songs, I followed her before she went mainstream. It’s like she’s only doing this type of rap because it puts her out there
She’s really only doing this type of music because these record labels and PR teams push for sex appeal, hence why she’s utilizing this marketing strategy.
@@niabelizaire3596agree and so many people don't get this which is scary
@@niabelizaire3596 yea, only for the push
exactly she had songs about shit other than sex, but “pound town” is what made her go viral on tiktok. She already went viral before with her other song but “pound town” is what really got her out there bc of the crazy, raunchy lyrics.
@@cheesecakeh8r and how gutter it is. Like, ok, rap about ‘poundtown” but the “bootyhole & choochie” part is so fuckin cheap.
This was such a good breakdown, you put into words exactly what I’ve been feeling with her😭
My issue is a lot of women are QUICK to call out the women, while actively supporting men like lil baby, future..etc I don’t listen to sexy red as I feel like she is doing ALOT and that’s saying something as a Jamaican
Facts they hate on women more but respect the men
Also, this world is strange. They shame people for aging but dont want people to die young...🥴
It's not her fault that a lot of black women don't know who they are or what the stand for so they are easily influenced and conform to whatever is the so-called trend....even if it's the hottest mess.
Exactly
That’s not what it’s about, use your heads. It’s not just about black women, it’s about young black girls too, and it’s also about promoting negative stereotypes about black women. People will see women like sexy red and generalize us as a whole, because honestly that’s all they see of us in the media. Rachet, hypersexualized, and trifling. I’m so tired of you guys coddling and defending women like her.
@@Las645 shes a grown ass women she dnt got shit to do with these little girls theyre not her target audience. Shes not these kids role models yall need to parent yall kids tf
@@dabrathaute3176I really dislike when people say this as if they weren’t kids before. As if people didn’t have households who did not tolerate this BS and kids still left the house actively seeking ways to participate in it because degeneracy is always so fun til the rabbits got the gun
@@nonnieJ94 then thats on them . These celebrities are not these kids parents tf
Industry plants, copycats, they’re everywhere in Hollywood 🤦🏾♀️
What about the black girls like me that grew up in the suburbs with two loving parents. Goes to college and have never reallydone things with men, wheres our representation im so tired of feeling left out of media
They want you to be like them.
Could not have said it better myself! If this is the best BW have to offer up as a representative, then whyte supremacy has done its job. It lowered the bar so low that we are genuinely captivated by someone who embodies so many negative stereotypes, it’s almost like watching a minstrel show 🤦🏽♀️
I don't think Red is “hurting black women,” I think she is simply just being herself and she should be able to do that. She shouldn't be forced to behave or act a certain way to please people she doesn't even know. Nobody could truly “represent” black women because we aren't a monolith. At the end of the day, women like red deserve to exist. If y'all want certain type of representation then y'all need to start supporting and promoting the black women y'all claim arent represented
Best comment🏆
Facts! Rap is not the only genre of black music, where we have a Beyonce selling out stadiums. Last time I checked people been slow to support talent like Tierra Whack, Chika and more. People claim they want certain things but don’t support it.
Beautifully spoken! One person may not act how another would but who are they to tell them what to do, be authentically yourself with your standards and morals and let everyone else do what suits them best
AGREEDDD!
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Music is spiritual, influential, and detrimental all at the same time. I’m tired of the Redds, Ice baggs, spice cabinets, Asian doll, cuban doll, Stunna girl, smh there are so many… These artist sell out their own community for fame and fortune. Bizzy bone explained it best their is a gangster rap agenda to push, so they can fill these government funded prisons. Think about how victoria secret and a lot of these high class brands use prisons to make some of their most expensive items. These prisoners only make like a cent or a few cents at the end of the day. The system is rigged and we should not play the game. Black (artist) people don’t beat the system by joining your just insuring these intuitions stayed filled. The USA is one of the most incarcerated country and the system of mass incarceration particularly targets Black people, who are 13 percent of the U.S. population. Right now more than ever black people to unite and promote high vibrational people. I’m tired of seeing chrisean, blueface, sexxy redd, lil nas, uzi, and so many low vibrational people attend high schools or kids choice awards. What they are doing should NOT be promoted to CHILDREN OR TEENS! There is such a shift in this generation. You have children as young as 8 or 9 with demons/entities attached to them because of the music, imagery, and entertainment they consume. I thinks this was all proven during the Kai Cenat riot. There were kids, teens, and young adults being arrested for destroying property and assaulting police officers! AND PLEASEEEE Do not be fooled, or mislead by blac chyna or the Brittnay renners because their are a lot of entertainers out here deceiving true followers! You need to have discernment and be careful of the music or imagery you are consuming even if you don’t think it is affecting you now. You don’t know how it affecting you mentally or spiritually over time. I recommend you all check out bizzy bones interview about the gangster rap agenda and “The Truth is” channel he also spoke about the agenda in the industry. These are challenging times! If we continue to live in a world without morals there will continue to be chaos. Drill music aka death music promotes nothing but death, gang culture, and violence.. HOE music (said what I said) promotes broken homes, soul ties, increase in STDs, and so much more. This is not music and there is nothing artistic about this type of music. Where are the India Airies , Musiq Soulchild, Lauryn Hill, or Queen Latifah's they aren't being pushed into mainstream media so we continue to hear low vibrational artist.
"Ice Bag, Spice Cabinets" CRYING 😂
THIS!!!!! Ppl don’t understand that music is a medium through which spirits travel!! These Z-list rappers wanna rap about promiscuity, killing and scamming, and then folks wonder why there’s so much violence and broken homes! It’s because they’re inviting those demons and unclean spirits into their homes and minds, and it’s manifesting itself as tangible destruction in our communities. Once I understood that, I (for the most part) only listen to worship music, cuz the only spirit I need on me is the Spirit of God. I pray for our Black communities, we really have to do better, cuz no one else will do right by us.😔😔
Just got to the part in the video where Chioma talks about how Sexxy Red is going to schools…
It gets tiring talking about how detrimental this representation is to young Black girls
Some won’t be influenced much, but others will idolise these people and try to emulate them.
The media is contributing to a lot of the issues Black girls face. The type of sex promoted is never loving, healthy, it’s always really trashy
Like they go out of their way to make it look bad in a way, it’s very weird
So schools allowing artists like these to perform at them, suggests this is very much intentional and systemic.
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Wish I could like this comment more than once.
Respectability politics will not get us ANYWHERE 👏🏾 But I’m glad people are making the decision to CHOOSE and voice how they want to be represented!
Yes it will and letting all forms of degeneracy to promote us is what led to the destruction of our community. There's no balance and black women think everyone and anything should be allowed just bc they're black and it's led to the mess we see now.
It really won’t lol
It really won’t. People still had an issue with The Obamas and there being a black little mermaid
Why do you think a culture of respect won’t get us anywhere? It’s factual that the polite culture in Japan has SIGNIFICANTLY decreased crime on their land
@@nonnieJ94 I'm not sure what this has to do with anything but, it LITERALLY does not matter if Black women are polite or respectful. We will still have to deal with racism, prejudice, misogynoir and violence in North America
I can't tell you how many times I've met men from Europe and Asia and their assumption is that I'm some kind of promiscuous twerk Queen. It feels so disrespectful but at the same time, its easy to see where they would get the idea that this is what black women in America are. Its really disheartening. This image of the ratchet black woman sends the wrong message about black women both domestically and abroad.
Thank God. Even the women are calling this mess out.
I never thought id see the day where black women think degeneracy is nornal and okay. This is scary...im a young black woman and hate that this is the ONLY image we have right now. Even the so called better artists like chloe and halle, normani and sza play into the ratchet, oversexualized image. Anyone who knows american history know how powerful the media is in the perception of our community. These women are embodying the jezevel stereotype, and that DIRECTLY correlates to the number of sexual assaults, DV, cat calls, etc normal everyday black women recieve. You can yell from the rooftop jezebel demons like sexy are ok until you are the one suffering the ramifications of her ilk. And she will be protected. You wont.
Normani and Halle don't really play into that image tho.
I agree tho the media is very powerful and there is way too much of this
Right. Dating is a headache in part due to them making us look like cm buckets.
What has Halle done? 🤔 I've never seen her be overly sexual or ratchet.
@@Lisette121 y’all was getting treated like that either was if sexy red influences your dating like or how guys perceive you it might be you
@@respectfullyg5580”it might be you” yeah leave the chat mandingo. You’re too dumb
Men werent supporting these women, neither where men and women of other races, it was bw supporting this by making excuses for the behavior. Twerking is just having fun, stay out of women’s business, let her dress how she wants she’s not hurting nobody, but bw failed to realize, for every excuse made, there’s another rapper coming up ready to push the envelope and more excuses roll out until we’ve reached the point where we are at now. Rapping about bootywhole colors. We will continue on this path until we stop normalizing demoralizing behavior and morals as black culture.
im a black man from saint louis...i love sexxxy reddd
im glad she is alternative to finnesse rap music of women using men for money.
i love sex music, Not finnesse use men for money ish.
SEXXY REDD is my type
Agreed
Plenty of non BW support this trash you better learn about it! When a hip hop station came to town the other station was interviewed, They said they didn’t think we had the population to support a hip hop station. That was ignorant as heck considering the stats at the time showed white people being the biggest consumers of hip hop/rap. What the guy basically said was there’s only a handful of Black people in our city.
While i believe that there needs to be different groups of bw, i don't believe in oppressing or shtting groups i'm not a part of.
I'm not a hood girl but i know some and i respect their right to exist, i don't dwell in their spaces and they're seldom in mine.
Dana Dane thought she was checking sexy red and her likes but all she did was open the door for her past to be exposed.
What was exposed?*
What you mean? What's her past
Exactly! We are not a monolith!
@@perdybirdie @mmaya772 apparently she was paying for a man, his hoes and children, let him cheat on her, had it out with the ladies ect ect, basically she is no one to speak on anything is the point they're driving at, and you know its only a matter of time before that man in question comes out to give "his side"
@@darkskinbae3544I feel like Dana talked about this before which probably explains why she stands firm in being single.
OH MY GOODNESS!!! I am SOO glad the algorithm put you in my recommendations because lil sis you are speaking on it!!!!
Thanks for watching love ❤️
This is why I moved back to Lagos.. despite how bad the government is I’m not moving back 😅 it’s really hard being a black woman in America.. when this is your only representation and trying to separate yourself means being vilified..
Syphilis is high in Houston. I wonder why? Is it because of this example? I'm showing my age. Back in my days songs would talk about safe sex. Does that not exist anymore?
Yes I just told my bf this , they was saying wrap it up back then idk wtf these folks on
I’ve never commented before… but you snapped on this one.
Thanks love 🫶🏾
Here’s my thing and it may be a hot take… us as black people come from different walks of life. They’re are Sexxy Reds in the world, so why be upset when one of our own who actually lives that life is making money instead of a non black woman who puts on an act e.i Bhad Bhabie, Woah Vickey, Etc… i just personally feel we should allow different type of art come from our people… that doesn’t mean you have to like it but don’t make it seem it’s setting us back when we know that there are different types of black people in the world. Ghetto/Ratchet people are entitled to success as much as the classy people.
This take is being willfully obtuse. Have you not noticed that with the white women they also have taylor swift, Billie eliish, Olivia Rodrigo, etc? Can you name me 5 mainstream black women like that? ALL of our representatives look and act like sexxy red and that's the main problem. We wouldn't have as much an issue if there was a balance but there's not. They ALL act ratchet and like a literals jezebel stereotype. And if you know American history then you know how much that affects everyday black women
But bhad bhabie got money and rebranded, she lost that accent, doing nails.. sexy is putting on a image for young black girls, she getting money and wanna stay with that poverty mindset?? Hell nah I ain’t buying that.
I’m def screen recording that 18:00 Ted talk lol that was spot on. As a human I appreciate your honesty 💙💙💙💙
When Saweetie came out with Icy, I felt like she was classy
I could listen Chioma speak all day, this girl is super intelligent and full of wisdom ❤ sending you love from Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 I loveeeeee your videos!!!!
Wow, thank you! Would love to visit Jamaica one day. I appreciate your support babes 💗
I'm 17 and before my dad paseed away last year , I used to tell him he's old and he told me I'll be lucky enough to make it to his age❤.
Don't associate with people you do not relate to or who you do not want to represent you, simple. She's being herself, who cares what she does, black women get policed too much.
Say it again!!
I dont think u listened to her......
As a black woman living in a non-black country, separation is very difficult but heavily needed.
Loved this commentary. Everything you said was on point. The problem ppl in the US turn a blind eye to ignorance & toxicity in our community. It does raise a red flag that BLACK ppl are the ONLY ones pushed to create sexual music? No other race does but us and we don’t run the industry. It’s that suspicious??? There was a doc called “ Behind the Rhymes” and all the male rappers said the industry didn’t allow them to put positivity in their music. It’s all on purpose.
And girl I got your singles downloaded on my bad B playlist I use for the gym! I see you queen 😍😍 you actually saying something. I actually bought them sis because you know how they be doing us independent artist
Awww You're the best love 💗 it is hard to be an independent artist. And it’s crazy because I have a decent sized fan base, and it definitely helps my music, but I wonder if I was doing something more like Sexxy Redd if I would’ve blown up by now. I’m only 3 songs in, so I’m still working hard, but thank you for supporting and I’m glad you see my vision early. People will catch on later ✨
I agree with you… SPEAKING FACTS 💯💯
Have you all ever thought about it this way...currently blk women are on a high...highest in degrees, home ownership ,entrepreneurship financially stable and independent. Do you think as a whole our image is not only being destroyed but it's also effecting the younger generation to change the future of blk women as a whole? In order to tear a community down you have to do it through the youth
I’m sorry but sexy redd just seems so disgusting 🤣 but she’s trending so 🤷🏽♀️
Agreed, I haven’t listened to her but have no plan on it
Thanks!
Nothing wrong with her succeeding it’s jus other artists who have better music who aren’t getting those opportunities that makes me upset
In my opinion regardless if sexy redd makes music or not, Ice spice exist, nicki exist, Trina exist, lil Kim exist, stunna girl, City Girls!, joselyn, Cardi, Sukihanna Etc. moral of the story is RATCHET Vulgar Sexual music is ALWAYS gonna exist! So why should this One woman be blamed for tryna make her bag bc ppl like her sound 🤷♀️ It’s not her fault she’s an artist, being herself & ppl happen to like her music. She does not have to be the representation of ALL black woman! If the music is for u listen if it’s not then Don’t. Not everyone is gonna like the same Foods, cars, clothes or live the same. She caters to her Specific Auduence & is doing a good job if she’s creating all this Controversy 💯🤷♀️ why don’t ppl put this SAME energy towards MALE rappers that push unaliving ppl, taking out OPPS, drgz & destroying the black community??
You read my mind
Exactly they act is if the world is gonna go up in flames cause of sexy fucking red like the artist you mentioned don’t exist as well as several male artist who rap about sexual things too! Give me a break!
I'm a grown man Im not listening to that shit
The only thing that can ruin a person is that individuals personal choices
Saweetie was a really good option before she tried mainstream appeal. She’s college educated and had really positive messages in her songs. Meg is also a good option as the other side of the coin. College educated but a little ratchet.
Yess. Her Icy Girl era was everything.
This imagery is like climate change. It starts off not being viewed as serious until it starts snowing in April and it’s 95 degrees in February. People won’t see the detriment until the detriment is here and in their face.
Don’t blame it on age! She is💯
Thank God for Halle Bailey !!! We needed her fr
Halle is the same as these girls...she just did an interview with vogue saying people see her as innocent but she's ratchet too 😑
Not if she pregnant with DVD baby 😭
Hailey isn’t different it’s a persona.
@@perdybirdieHer version of ratchet is NOTHING close to these ghetto girls.
She's so called ratchet for a wealthy girl of means. That's a far cry from your version of ratchet & your existence.
@@babygurll7Lmaooo "DVD" 😂😂😂
BW are not a monolith period 💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾
Not the tiktoker willing to support Drake but not sexy redd 🥴
That I didn’t agree with either. Truthfully I don’t support any of these mainstream artists. I don’t know what the kids are listening to fr and I’m only 27. I listen to real artists who have actual talent and passion for their art.
At least drake has talent
I really like your commentary on this video/topic Chioma! Well done!!
Thank you so much! Glad you liked it 🫶🏾
Cardi B started the trend of popcorn artistry. Music with no longevity, ratchet/urban aesthetics and behavior, likeable and authentic personality, and one today, another tomorrow. Sexy red has no longevity we’re criticizing her today and will forget about her tomorrow.
I can't even listen to music anymore sometimes because it's just so trash and inappropriate all the time ( Men and Women artists) but I agree with you 100% and the influencer who spoke out. I would be more concerned about what I'm putting into the world if I was an artist or public figure. I hate it!
I actually thought SexxyRed was younger. 25 is not young and she should know better. I personally don't like her aesthetic, but I'm sure anyone with half a brain knows she does not represent all black women.
I'm glad you brought up that movie. I think about that everyday looking around the world and seeing some of it actually happen. 😥
Lauryn hill is one of the last lryical and true embodiment of real energy from a woman to grace our presence. I am not a black woman but i am a woman who grew up multicultural and grew up in the city. We had some bangers in the day of the sexy female rappers. But there was something about those few artists like Lauryn who embodied the energy of woman beyond any
Chika, Noname, and Rhapsody offer great lyrical content. However, no one supports them.
Great video and so much wisdom shared, keep shining Chi!