making pavlova, burnout and our DREAM cabinet ☁️✨
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You have good taste in RUclipsrs Zoe ;)
Ooo a ZoeSugg comment 😊
Being honest and acknowledging you're not managing as well as you convince youself is the first brave step❤
What strikes me the most is even though you are struggling you are actually achieving...be kind to yourself life is a lot. Your achievements may be adapted, smaller or not how you usually recognise them to be BUT as a viewer you did so much more than you gave yourself credit for. I don't usually comment but felt like it needed to be said. I love your vlogs ❤
Pavlova tip. Bake on lower for longer. And embrace the defects. Keep the whipped cream more towards soft peaks as to Just plop It on whitout having to spread It/ potentially breaking the meringue further. Also use a spatula on both layers, not a heavy wooden spoon.
Also also, the First attempt was certainly edible, I think I would have gone with that One. I once dressed a pretty flat Pavlova. It was a bit chewier but so Good!!
probably easier to start with room temperature eggs as well, no?
@@SheDeviI yes!!
Thank you for being so real, all the time. No matter how old i get, or where i go, a vlog from you is always like coffee with an old friend. ❤️
If you only know much joy you give this 64 year old grandma!!! I wish you all the best!!
I truly understand your struggles! I am autistic and have ADHD! I am sending you lots of love and support and I always watch all of your videos to the very end. I know I am only one subscriber but I think I can speak for many of us when I say that your being so honest and open with your life is very helpful to those of us who also struggle. Take care
Hearing you talk about how you feel makes me feel so seen. Thank you for always sharing about your mental health.
You're just lovely .I really appreciate you taking the time to explain your struggles with mental health . You've made someone feel less alone in their struggles today x
Hey Rhiannon, I've been dealing with ADHD for as long as I can remember. Now, I realize it's not about struggling; it's about living with it. At first, I felt guilty for making it a central part of my life, but it's clear that it's the only way to get my life back.
Thank you for your vulnerability and candidness. It seems I've found yet another reason why I've been following your vlogs for the past 9 years.
It gets better!
I’ve never found you or your content erratic, but I think that’s because I relate so much to the way you describe your journey with mental health, energy, motivation (or lack thereof) etc. It’s so refreshing to hear someone be so open about these things, but I’m sorry you experience them too. Please know that your honesty and the whole vibe of your videos is a cosy comfort to me as a fellow work from home mum in the final year of my 20s! ❤
Sometimes it’s like you are describing the things that are going on in my brain. Just wanted to tell you how comforting it is to hear that you’re not the only one who goes through seasons like this. Mum to an 18 month old and a 3 year old here and I feel you. The guilt can be so real. Keep opening up about things and keep doing the things that help you. We need people like you. You bring light to so many of us - I hope you can see that from all these comments! ❤
Teary eyed from totally understanding and relating to the rollercoaster of energy and productivity.
So happy that you got your cabinet and it is STUNNING. ❤❤
Just what I needed for a slow sunday ✨🫶🏻 Been following along since 2011 (or around that time) and watching your vlogs is such a sense of comfort and cozy ✨
ADHD girls unite. I needed this! ❤
Exactly what I was thinking 😂
i have adhd and relate to her so much too 😭😂❤
I was thinking exactly the same as it sounds like what my husband goes through often. He’s undiagnosed, but I’ve done a lot of research on my own out of suspicion, and I do think it’s “ADHD fatigue”.
You are my absolute favorite RUclipsr 💕 I’ve been watching you since I was 14 and hearing you talk about your burnout and mental health makes me feel like we’re on this journey together, I appreciate you talking about it all xx
Everything you describe are my symptoms from having ADHD. I adore your vlogs and its so lovely to see your face again ❤ excited for the upcoming vlogs xx
Same here ❤️
Burnout is incredibly real. It feels like everything has reached an apex lately. Your realness is so refreshing. Thank you for being you 🫶❤️🫧
Pavlova tips (seasoned Australian Pavlova maker here): you needed to beat the egg for longer before adding the sugar as it should be stiff super tall peaks. Add sugar verrry slowly. Your mixture was a little too runny. Also, low oven and then baking time is done turn the oven off and let the pav cool slowly as the oven cools down (the night before is usually good as it can cool overnight). But as a second attempt you did great!
❤ I don’t struggle with mental health but my daughter does and the way you articulate how you feel really helps me to understand her struggles too as she has very similar behaviours and emotions, so thank you for sharing and your honesty. Sending love x
Rhiannon, honestly it’s to refreshing how honest you are. We all function differently but I resonate with so much you’ve said. I have a little boy who is 4 and he is my drive to push myself each day, but so often I find myself wondering around the house just feeling overwhelmed and not really knowing what to do. You are truly inspirational to so many people, sending you so much love! You should be so proud of how far you’ve come 💚
It's so nice when you talk about burnouts etc, because I feel normal for a little while and know that it's not just me that gets like it. When I see that you have posted, i get so happy. Thank you for everything Rhiannon ❤
Hey Rhiannon, thank you for being you!! And the courage to share & be open about the struggles. It certainly makes me feel less alone. Lots of love! ❤
autistic girlie here, thank you the mental health chats they are so validating 💜
I noticed that h and m uk actually sell arket which surprised me
Also, Mary berry’s pavlova recipie is the best one
Girl this is so accurate! Being in a state of almost hyper vigilance and energy and then anxiety anticipating a dip coming, it’s hard I think as a mom I feel this so often and measure success by how productive the week has been but that’s not always doable and it’s ok to have slower weeks and feel down too you’re still a great mom, partner and friend! ❤
Yay a new vlog! What a treat to watch as I make dinner 🥰 Love from Australia!
Rhiannon I totally relate with the overwhelm. I get it too. And feel like there’s so much to do I just want to go back to bed as it’s just too much. You are absolutely beautiful, but I know it’s a feeling from within. Have you tried meditation? Love your videos, don’t pressure yourself to make a certain amount! Having one come around now and then is a real treat xxxx
❤ you’re an amazing person, mother, wife, and content creator! You’re doing amazing
As someone that has an extremely anxious brain I totally relate to this, I also have chronic illnesses and when I get extremely anxious I end up pushing myself to do too much because if I’m busy I’m not over thinking then I end up not able to do anything for weeks sometimes months. It’s hard, just wanted to say I completely understand and thank you for being so open xx ❤
I am a youngish person recovering from a stroke in the past year and a half and have been very housebound. Your channel has inspired me to do one of the only things I've had a choice over which is to completely reorganise my flat and get proper storage solutions, and sell all the clothes I feel half-hearted about and replacing them with ones I feel great in. I share your tastes to a t. You can't imagine how comforting it is to watch such nice, empathetic, fun content when you're stuck at home sick for weeks at a time and your vlogs have ben one of the things keeping me going. I'm also neurodiverse (dyslexic/dyspraxic) and live with anxiety/depression, and like all the girls on here with ADHD relating to your content, it's so refreshing to here the honest talks and reflections on your challenges. Thank you for all you do.
Sending you lots of love ❤️
I don’t think I’ll ever be able to explain how much comfort and relaxation your videos bring me Rhiannon!
Delia Smith has the best pavlova recipe. Key for me has always been to turn the oven off completely and leave the meringue in the oven until it has cooled.
Definitely 👍🏻
I have followed you for years and I don’t know your situation but I have experience the same high moods and low moods for a long time. I talked to my GP and I was diagnosed with Cyclothymia which is a form of bipolar and currently on meds. It’s getting better, maybe something to have a think ? Sending you a big hug ❤
i’ve been watching since i was pregnant with my first and she’ll also be 7 in a couple months 🫶🏽 my husband will come in and say oh you’re watching the english overall girl 😅 love your videos, sending hugs from Texas 💖
There is something so refreshing about watching something so real and raw. It’s beautiful and you’re beautiful ❤️ Congratulations on the up coming wedding!
Hi Rhiannon, thank you for always sharing your struggles with your mental health, it makes me and I'm sure a lot of others feel so much less alone. I'm obsessed with your cabinet! I've been so tempted to order myself one but I don't have the perfect place to put it in my house. Need to figure that out :D
Also lastly, you can keep geraniums as house plants! Just keep snipping off the spent flower heads. I have a few on my windowsills. They're so lovely and they might not flower as often as they do outside in the summer but mine just randomly pop up a new flower head every now and again and it makes me so happy, especially in winter.
Yay waking up to a new vlog!! That cupboard in the kitchen is gorgeous and suits the space so well 🥰 We had pavlova instead of wedding cake and I’ve always wanted to learn to make it so this might be the sign I needed haha ❤️☺️
❤ you’re not alone. I’m in bed at the moment completely overwhelmed and paralyzed!
I have a weird habit of saving your vlogs so I can watch a bunch in one day ❤ send you and your fam all my love🤍🤍🤍
❤ t-minus 11 days til my wedding, can’t wait to see some bits from your day, feels special to be celebrating at a similar time
💜 you’re a rock star Rhiannon! You’re doing great, living is hard, keep doing your thing girl. Thanks for sharing :)
Please do a 'what I've knitted so far' I'm a knitter and would love to see it. Love all the knitting content ❤❤❤
You're vlogs always bring a sense of calm yet filled with loving memories. I can literally watch you talk all day 😂 thank you for sharing your journey with us. ❤ it does brighten our days 💐
❤ learning what you need and finding a way to enact change and adopt new habits/life skills is a life long task. I think we all reach adulthood, and expect that we are supposed to have everything figured out, only to realize that we are still getting to know ourselves. The challenge is so relatable. Hope this doesn’t sound preachy or rude, I just really appreciate how open you are about mental health. It normalizes my experience and makes me feel less bad about my frequent malfunctions.
Love to you, Doug, and Delilah! It’s so exciting that you are getting married, and watching your family grow has been such a treat❤
I think some warm coloured patterned or gingham curtains would look absolutely adorable on the window next to the new cabinet 😍
❤. Can’t believe Delilah will soon be 7! Lovely vlog and the cabinet was worth the wait it’s beautiful xx
🧡 not you knowing all of the RUclipsrs I watch regularly 🧐 love your vlogs, makes me sad when you’re self-depreciating! Trust you won’t always feel so up and down.
My energy has a similar pattern of peaking and crashing. I call that sort of very high manic energy feeling 'wired'.
❤❤❤ sharing your struggles makes me feel less alone in mine. Life is difficult and some of our brains just respond with anxiety and we easily burn out. You are amazing, and doing better than you think.
Been feeling anxious lately and your vlogs are always the best solution to them.
Thank you for openly talking about your worries even though I know it isn't easy. Thank you for helping me again 🫂
I loved this video. I miss your vlogs when you don’t upload for a bit. ❤ Love you!
What drew me to your videos in the first place was how authentic you always are, I just adore how down to earth you have always been and that is just wonderful to see. Whenever I’m feeling. Bit all over the place I find myself searching for one of your vlogs even if from years ago. X
Thank you for being so open and honest about your mental health. Many can relate, but may not have anyone in their personal lives that understands. Been following since I was early on in college (more than 10 years ago now o_o), and always appreciate the coziness of your vlogs.
That meringue was gorg, I've only done small piped cookies a handful of times and they turn out different everytime ha.
Im sitting on the floor organising my underwear drawer, need to shower and put the washing away and get to bed at a reasonable hour and I feel totally paralysed. Last week I had my "manic, hyper productive" week. Seems to be very related to my cycle. I've headphones on and popped you on and hearing you speak to this has helped me feel not alone ❤
A lovely vlog, as usual. Just what was needed for a Sunday evening. ☺️ the way you explained your bursts of energy and motivation, and subsequent burnout felt like you were speaking directly to me! I can absolutely relate, and it just feels lighter when we all speak about it and share, doesn’t it? Thank you 💖
i love how down to earth you are... you seem to be a really good person and i love your vlogs..Take care...
I so relate to the influx of feeling low and anxious then happy and motivated but also low key anxious still! For me I was recently diagnosed with pmdd so it helped connect so many dots and make sense of the two weeks before my period that I would experience such intense mood changes. Now I can prepare for it mentally, clear my calendar and give myself grace for needing to remain under the radar for a bit ❤️
Yeaaah! A new vid 🎉 your videos will always have me chilled like no one else’s !! Hope you are having a lovely summer !
Wow does the years go by and every year I’m so glad I’m subscribed to you 😊💛
❤ your vlogs are some of my favorites, they are so welcoming and cozy and it’s so nice to see you always being open and vulnerable it’s super refreshing, thank you for posting
Your videos bring me a lot of comfort ❤
💛 like flowers, we all go through stages in the month cycle, weeks where we feel great and motivated like a flower in full bloom & then there’s other weeks where some of our petals are falling off and we’re less in the full swing on things but we will bloom in full again soon 🌼
Thank you so much for posting this video. It completely validated those exact same emotions and feeling of being paralyzed in the moment at times. Sometimes it’s hard to pull yourself out of your head but videos like this helps me pull myself out of there.
Wild is the best thing I found through your channel. Cotton and sea salt is a must have for me! I love the cabinets, you have such good taste and I love how you’re slowly making your house your own. Sending good vibes your way ❤
Thanks for being so open. Hope you’re doing better 💜💜💜
Your vlogs are my comfort ❤
Its actually funny how excited I was to see ur cabinet 😂
Love this blog. Cook your pavlova on a lower heat for longer. Don’t leave it in the oven to cool because the oven stays hot for a while and will continue to cook it for a bit.
letting it cool in the oven helps to stop it from cracking as the sudden change in temperature can "shock" it (not sure if shock is the right word but hopefully you get what I mean hahaha)!
I am so happy for you that you finally have your beloved cabinet! 😂❤ I just love that you saved up with it in mind, I just love you. I would have never skipped through your rambles, as you were right, it’s so relatable. I’m really struggling with my mental health and my brain, my thoughts, feelings. Getting any help is a nightmare, so just realising once in a while that somebody gets it really does lighten the load.
P.s. I’m going to google the Diptyque candle since you said it smells like Parma violets, which is my favourite 🥹💜 lots of love xxx
I think i may of commented before re self esteem, but how difficult is it to "get over". I only recently "discovered" i have low self esteem in the past few years. Knowing i have* it helps more than just hating myself all the time.
Its so diffuclt to know what words to say to people going through hard times, but i would just like to say i absolutely love your vlogs and even re watch your old ones if you havent uploaded for some time ☺️ feel better soon xx
You are great. All of us have things to deal with and manage in our daily lives. So you are not alone. Some can be overwhelming while other we can breeze through. At least you can be honest about what you are going through and share your feelings with us. I love watching your videos no matter how often you choose to share. I always look forward to seeing what's going on in your little family life. You be you and you take care of you. We are always here looking for another video. 💙
❤ your vlogs are just so lovely. doesn’t matter what you’re doing or if you’re just chatting away, they always make me smile!
I have the same productivity/on the go thing and then crashing. I think it's mostly referred to as being 'manic', very common with depression. I'm autistic so that gives me the go-go-go or stop-stop-stop cycle. Sending love.
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I go through very similar stages too. My anxiety is the one thing I always feels let me down from doing what I want. Sometimes I can push through, other times it’s too overwhelming.
I’ve had a few meds in the past, I’ve also had therapy, it’s not a cure, but it can help for some. I hope you find the solution that makes you feel well enough to continue. X
The Cabinet is beautiful. I love the shape of the glass doors and the marble shelf. It looks straight out of a fairy-tale. I have to leave this 💝 because they took away the hands-heart emoji.
💜 congrats on the wedding this fall.
Hard relate to hyper focus weeks then weeks of burn out where even moving myself feels like a chore. ND women unite 💗💗 Also, jumper is looking INCREDIBLE 🧶
I wish you could have seen how excited I got when I saw you had posted and this lovely video was ready to make my Sunday morning so much cosier 🥰
I audibly made a noise in excitement 😂
Have a lovely Sunday ❤️
@@RhiannonAshleeVlogs thank you 🥰 you too 💕
@@saracas93 me too 💕
Your vlogs always give me such comfort ❤. I absolutely love the cabinet, it's such a stunning piece!
Also your wedding and Delilah'a 7th birthday in a few months? Time really does fly!
11:00 your hair looks so nice!! 😍
Ahh Rhiannon, sending love. I relate to what you were saying around being productive and doing it all. I'm the same but then it leaves feeling so exhausted and overwhelmed and like I can't do much else, and the mental load of overwhelm and how exhausting that can be (without feeling like you're doing much physically). I'm fully self employed now and really have to be careful not to get myself into the cycle of constantly creating and working/ doing in general.
Thank you for the vlog, love how chilled and calming your videos are😊
♥Hope you feel better soon, the cabinet is gorgeous. I love your vlogs, they are always a pleasure to watch.
i can totally relate
i hope you can find a way to give yourself some grace ✨️
I’m 64 years old, 65 next month and I look so forward to your videos. It just makes my day when I see you have a new one up. ❤
When you are whisking your meringue mixture, you’ll know it’s ready if you can create soft peaks with your mixture and they stay! Or if you tip the mixture bowl upside down and it doesn’t move/ fall out! The more air the better!💓
❤ Love your vlogs. You’re one of the few people I’ve stayed watching for years. I really like when you’re honest about how you’re doing. We’ll still be here whatever you decide with the schedule of the videos so please don’t worry if you don’t upload as much as you think you should
❤ you have such amazing taste- your home is stunning!
Hope you can get the help you need soon and know how much you’re helping others by talking so openly about your struggles ❤️
Rhiannon, I completely understand your cabinet love. It’s gorgeous! Glad you got one in the end, as the saying goes all good things come to those that wait. May it bring you all the joy 😘
Hard relate on the burnout due to a busy brain, decision fatigue and overwhelm with choosing where to start/getting started - I find it so frustrating, despite understanding it’s how my brain works! Thank you for talking about this!😊
I totally understand the love you have for your new cabinet! I still smile at things in my home I bought years ago. ❤
🫶🏼 I’ve been watching your videos for probably 10 or 11 years now, I started watching when I was 18/19, and now I’m about to be 30, and I’m pregnant with my first child. I feel like I’ve grown up with you 🥹 and I think you’re doing a fantastic job 🫶🏼
I’d love to hear how you approach talking about your mental health with your daughter! I’m sure she feels so comfortable with her feeling because of you ❤
❤ those feelings you describe are exactly what I have been like since I hit perimenopause. I just get so overwhelmed with everything I have to do that I just become paralysed and can’t do anything. Xx
❤ You are so sweet and give such a good energy! Please remember this whenever you're feeling low.
A little tip I have for pavlova is to make sure you clean your bowl, spoon and whisk with a bit of white vinegar and also use a metal spoon. I use the crumbs and doilies pavlova recipe and it has always come out just like the video! 😊 love your vlogs! 💕
💚💚💚 the new cabinet is beautiful! Another lovely vlog :)
💖💖💖💖 thank you for your videos they are one of my favourite parts of my week.
Always listening til the end. Love your vlogs, your rambles, your spirit and your cabinet. Thank you so much for not only sharing the good ❤️
Pavalova tips! Cook lower for longer and keep in the oven whilst it cools as long as possible! Preferably overnight the night before an occasion ( it will last perfectly fine) that should stop it from sinking. Also touch it as little as possible before it goes in the oven whilst on the tray! Xx