What message do you have for Penninah, you can reach her on 0722656083 To share your story on Tuko Talks, send a well detailed brief of your story to lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke Thank you for watching:)
Haujalengwa Just be Patient imagine milions of People send you sms or email in a day. They run in a screen like water u cant read all of them at atime. Someone send 3months ago u send today and just expect to get an answer just be patient.👍❤❤
I'm reading comments and as we watch let's learn Not to judge others before we get to know about their stories..Thanks Tuko family for your great work,,,Keep it up Lynn😇🔥🎊
You can't tell others on how to react on issues, why do most Kenyan like to dictate??? Everyone isn't you and all the opinions are varied even those who want to judge ....
No we have to judge. So we can learn how to grow and move on. Let’s judge do tomorrow we don’t make the same mistakes because we already know how it feels when we do it to others. People make so many excuses for their mistakes. Let’s judge. We Africans think marriage is a badge of honor and it is not. Women are dying to keep an evil man and his demons family happy. Let’s judge because our mothers line to make themselves as victims, that is the reason why us daughters we make the same mistakes as them .
Better broken friendship,relationship,than a broken marriage or being married but is like you've caged yourself ,wasted years in the name of love or children etc
I think women should start knowing their worth,if they don't feel appreciated any longer,mostly in marriage,learn to choose yourself without caring how society will perceive you,peace of mind is everything...learn to walk away and believe that you are enough and can make it on your own with God's help
I totally agree with you. Growing up, I was very observant. I saw how women were treated by their husbands and swore to myself that if I ever find myself being treated like I'm less than, I'm walking away! I'd rather be single and have a peaceful life.
@@EstellNEssy Great you said this since I was the same, I observed and hated how men were treated like small gods. I vowed never to be treated the same would rather stay single if that meant for life. I met a man who appreciated me, the person I am and no regrets.
@@janehughes6927 same here, I noticed men were treated like mini gods... I knew at a young age that I wasn't interested in marriage if I were to spend the rest of my life miserable. To me marriage/ relationship is like an empty box, you take out what you put in it. Sadly, women give themselves too much only to be under appreciated and treated worse than animals...
@@EstellNEssy marriages are not that bad if only the two involved are in for the right reasons and respect each other. It worked for me and never accepted to be treated like a slave or get abused in any form or shape.
Story of my life and such men are the most polite in the eyes of the public..when you judge single mums make sure you know the story behind otherwise keep your mouth shut 🤫
I don’t think that one needs a companion to be happy in life. Sometimes it’s better to be alone and have peace of mind then having someone who puts you through hell. I have been a single parent since when my kids were small and I am now a grandma. So happy to around my family . I haven’t had sex over 25 years and I don’t miss it all. So much temptation in Europe but I kept busy with work and kids and honestly l very much prefer my life without a husband. Some of us weren’t meant to have companionship. This is my opinion
When my marriage fell apart my mom told me she never kicked me out. Make your happiness your 1st priority its not worth it and I ddnt want my son to grow up thinking his fathers behavior was normal or ok. Its okay to walk away and I'm thankful my mom doesn't condone nonsense like most African moms
I have been there. I never stopped praying. My prayers were answered big time. Currently living happily with my children in Europe. May the same God see you through 🙏🙏
I have barrier of"you can say anything to me but you can not hit me"people who love you they don't treat you badly, love doesn't hurt it support to feel good
It's crazily amazing how this woman is still strong and talking. Almost a miracle. The kind of emotional and mental torture she must have gone through woiye. Take heart mama ❤️❤️. You are strong and beautiful and God is definitely on your side.
I passed this after giving birth to my second born,he even changed bed akaenda kulala ya wageni,but I was OK,I suffered 1 year but later we separated,its really painful indeed,I understand you 23 years
This story reminds me my past , I remember living in the forest na mtoto wa 3 weeks only to save my mum's marriage, but I thank God he was there for me because he's GOD by himself anything can be compared by him .Hallelujah!
Writing this from Africa. From the bottom of my heart I wish everyone reading this to prosper in 2021...May you all find peace ✌May we all win, there's enough for everyone, abundance is everywhere. Me or you winning no one is going to lose!!!!!!!
Lyn may be u can bring a therapist to tell us how to solve such cases in the event they happen in marriages... such a good lesson learnt from this story
This story reminds me of my dad he used to behave the same coming and leaving we were so bitter with him as growing up kids until he fell very sick and we discovered he was HIV positive, and did not want to infect my mum,
Mum someone who beats you whether little or senseless does not love you at all .If a man starts to abuse you please move on before its too late. Pole sana .
I'm real proud for my mom, I have nothing to regret in my life, she gave me good life although she was single mama, RIP mama, kweli usimjaji mtu usiemjua au hata kama wamjua maana hujui ni nini anapitia, kama Huna cha kushauri ni bora ufunge mdomo,
Very true especially when the man best you up until you have miscarriage and you go back there something is wrong there. Woman we need to love and appreciate ourselves
Do men really say when they become impotent? If they feel the shame of saying they can't do the job. They feel it's shameful. Others it's because they have HIV and they don't want to infect you
Sometimes hii story ya marriage I don't even understand. When you are single, you think the married are happy then you listen to such a story! Oya this is hard, but those who thought that one cannot do without sex, story ndio hiyo, 23 years and counting, it's all in your mind!
Let's normalise walking away from pain. Whatever costs you happiness and dignity is not worth it. Its IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT TO BE MARRIED. Let's stop calling people strong for staying in abusive relationships. It has nothing to do with God because He only has plans to prosper us. Walk out of abusive situations please. There is life on the other side. No one was put on this earth to be mistreated and abused by anyone. Walk out! Such a life is not worth living!!!
Hey!!! Reke ngwire it's not bed of roses . If you aren't valued and appreciated let's learn to step big big we only have one life to live unhappy. Shout out to all single mothers
The lady has gone through a lot. Lack of intimacy in marriages is emotionally draining and has led to people doing a lot of bad things. Lynne please try and get a man to share their story along the same line because many are suffering in silence. Thanks for the good work
Somebody tell our women it is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. Suffering in the name of society eye should and needs to be withdrawn. We deserve happiness all the same.
I always say never judge anyone if you don't know his or her story..Many people wanavumilia sana kwa ndoa cos they can't speak it out.We smile out here but deep down we are hurt....
Everytime i listen to tuko talks, i love myself more and appreciate God for making / allowing me to be a single mum 🤗. I understand now that HE is always protecting me from something. Hugs mum God has you in mind
As kids we are sold Cinderella type of love, as teenagers or adults we are sold Telenova type of love of pain, betrayal but in the end it's all roses. But in reality it's never any of them. We need to teach our young girls the truth
My sister you nailed it never enter in a relationship where there in no vacancy , I know what you are talking about , I was there, am now 7 years single never had a man since. ; no sex for 7 years and its because of prayer.
My sister l can relate to this 100%l went through it @27yrs, b strong 💪 hold your son with 💘 leaving everything at the cross of Jesus.ALIFUNGWA NA HAO WANADADA Watalia.
Hi, Lynn. This is so amazing... Please highlight more stories of single mothers and how they end up being single... Plus everything they go through. Kenyans need to change their perspective on single motherhood. Thanks.
No offense but it seems like most of these men are really troubled . It’s like the only example these men had while growing up is their own fathers beating their mothers. So they grow up thinking that that’s how a man is supposed to treat a woman. It’s sad . 😕😕.These days I feel sorry for all these young girls rushing into marriage or rushing to move in with a man. Marriage is hard. Most of these men have no idea how to treat or love a woman the right way, they are not gentle at all.
Lynn,you are strong to be listening to such sad stories constantly.I sincerely hope you have a coping mechanism in place because listening to negative stuff all the time can affect a person mentally.Bit thank you for airing these stories,we learn a lot.
This world is very harsh. Lyn you have opened our eyes very much through Tuko. But in most of these cases have a lot of parental upbringing failure. But as for you Peninah, don't give up on GOD. HE sees everything on earth.
This is yet another one of your awesome 👌releases... its an eye opener to many. Pennina you are a courageous and strong woman. I admire your ability that you have never ashamed your son by bringing a man in your home👍
Thanks Lynn for the lovely show..May God bless Penninah.She has gone through many problems,some are almost similar to the ones I had faced ..But I thank God she is a strong woman.. Most women find it hard to share their past stories and leaving then so depressed and dying miserable deaths due to frustrations and depression..People should know that witchcraft is real.God bless Tuko.
May God see thro you Peninah , she's a wonderful mum , with good spirit who fears God ..the LORD will deliver your husband from those evil N help him to b open . Peninah has a call in her life to serve God. Her patience is of another level n God will bless her son with many children ..the devil is a defeated liar in Jesus mighty name ! .
😂😂😂mi nilikua naitwa Eunice Mara Ruth mwishowe nkaambiwa nkalale na mbwa so I left after suffering a bad depression today am happy very strong single mother of three babies so dear lady be of good courage my dear keep going dear tuko wengi
This woman has been through hell. Thank you for speaking out your story. To the bad men out there, please have fear of God & leave your woman if you aren’t happy with them. Stop hurting them. Yeah, it’s possible to live without sex bc we are the commanders of our brains.
May God fight for you...I think the same way Peninah in the bible suffered rejection from the husband the same pursued you...but God is able to deliver you.Thanks for standing God strengthen you Peninah
This lady was unfortunately likely married to narcissists on both occasions. The first is certainly overt, and the second appears to be neglectful. She is unfortunately stuck in the love bombing phase 23 years in, believing in goodness that was never there in the first place but was a perfect facade to lure her in. she needs to accept the hopelessness of her situation, heal, then move on. Her son will need counselling too because he obviously wasn't spared from this dysfunction and could easily carry forward similar wounds into future relationships.
😇you are not wrong in our lives today @FaithVuyanza but if you can carefully listen to this lady,she is a God fearing woman,who is not only cares about God but also her body and her child,some ladies cares about getting married again but they never cares about what their children will go through in life in the hands of the second father, others never cares how many marriages should they get into for them to settle down, your are right that that lady and her son needs healing ❤️🩹 but they also needs prayers . God hates divorce.Malachi 2:15-16; “Has not the God made you? You belong to Him in body and Spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.The man who hates and divorces his wife,’ says the Lord Almighty. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful”. This lady might have red this,that’s why she moved on by remaining single to avoid daily pain.
@@wamush3338 I don't really read from your script of god but if that is the script we are to go by, adultery and unfaithfulness permit you to divorce. Ialso don't believe in a god who forces you to remain in a state of pain, which is quite equivalent to death while still alive. Love liberates. Also, sometimes a second father is the best thing that can happen to your children if you chose wisely and from a place of healing. Besides, there is a big difference between hanging on to hope and making a deliberate decision to be single. This lady is obviously practising the former.
God bless you so much Penninah. Watching from Ghana. And I know God will honour you and give you heart's desire. What your husband is going through is spiritual. Continue to pray for him and your son. And the Lord whom you serve will never shame you. Been there and I know it is not easy but God will vindicate you. All the best, sister.
Tuned from USA. This program is doing alot to many poeple and l am so thankful to it too. One thing l know this tambia of some of Wakamba it's almost the same. Some of our men don't respect their women. I thank GOD because nowadays the government has made laws to help women and children otherwise our time it was you and your husband no turning back. Pole sana my sister and don't get used to these problems.
Lynn thank you for a well conducted interview as usual I love you for your maturity. For some cases like this one I believe some of us may not have an answer why such thing should happen only God really knows. Peninnah you're a wonderful human being and I promise you ,your future is well secured by the God you serve don't worry about anything He'll come through for you. Love you my sister be blessed. 😭😭😭🙏🙏❤❤🔥🔥✝️✝️💯
So sad when a Man calls you another woman's Name, to those who take other people's Husbands your Life will never be Blessed, these women sleep with Prayers asking God to Punish you
So true experiencing this and I tell you what God fights one battles if you ask him. It's good to choose your battles as well as doing what's best for you and your sanity.
@@carolynegichangi8012 No one is blaming the women.. A woman is a gate keeper if she locks it no one can enter.. Women have the power.. We are just encouraging them to know their power's and worth.
I'm so very taken by each and every story that you all have worked extremely hard to bring awareness to the world of those who suffer in silence. This can only be described as apart of God's amazing love plans that will brings us all together ❤ It's one of the most important moments in life to be remember for the love, justice, the Acknowledgment of others.
Thank you Tuko for bringing this, people are suffering in behind the scenes. Thank you mum for sharing this , my take home "we are commanders of our brain", how true, so powerful. We hide our marriages under the Blood of Jesus Christ where the devil can do us no harm, Amen
This my neighbor goes through such like experience. Married for more than 12 years, has three children. Emotional torture she goes through is worse than physical torture.
May the lord bless you mammy ay the lord protect you and your son and always provide for you ,you are a child of God and he will never leave you nor forsake you ,your hubby needs deliverance as well it's not his fault
My husband too was 'taken' by a lady...now she's finished him financially..I pity these men... Just be happy and love your self more...life is short ..and surely God will bless you more
We should say he took himself from that we shouldn't blame other women he went after that lady and spent on her to his last coin don't pity him that was karma
I understand your pain mum .. abstaining is the only option for people like us who don't love kurukaruka..many will not understand you buy truly understand you ..my situation now for 6 yrs now .. but I will give it a chance when I will find the right person.
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What message do you have for Penninah, you can reach her on 0722656083
To share your story on Tuko Talks, send a well detailed brief of your story to lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke
Thank you for watching:)
Hii email yako niki such inakata
Ikiwa nilituma mkanilenga, ! Niliona kama mnabagua.. ila nashukuru .
Haujalengwa
Just be Patient imagine milions of People send you sms or email in a day.
They run in a screen like water u cant read all of them at atime.
Someone send 3months ago u send today and just expect to get an answer just be patient.👍❤❤
May GOD give her more strength.... It's not easy and also bless her for sharing with us.... Many women are going thru this very true
@@penny4310 9z o9m o9ik
Likes za Lynn if u love the way she interviews her guests
Interesting 😀😀
Help yourself and stop asking for likes.its degrading.
me too, she is the best!
All single mothers have a story behind their singleness so pls never judge
Unfortunately they get judged without a chance😏
Well Spoken
@@erenestawanjiru1935 but who cares,,,not me☺
who doesn't have a story in this world??
Sure
I'm reading comments and as we watch let's learn Not to judge others before we get to know about their stories..Thanks Tuko family for your great work,,,Keep it up Lynn😇🔥🎊
True💯don't be judgemental
You can't tell others on how to react on issues, why do most Kenyan like to dictate??? Everyone isn't you and all the opinions are varied even those who want to judge ....
No we have to judge. So we can learn how to grow and move on. Let’s judge do tomorrow we don’t make the same mistakes because we already know how it feels when we do it to others. People make so many excuses for their mistakes. Let’s judge. We Africans think marriage is a badge of honor and it is not. Women are dying to keep an evil man and his demons family happy. Let’s judge because our mothers line to make themselves as victims, that is the reason why us daughters we make the same mistakes as them .
Who can feel the pain of this mammy! May God hear her prayer we are together
Better broken friendship,relationship,than a broken marriage or being married but is like you've caged yourself ,wasted years in the name of love or children etc
I'm in tears😭😭 her self-respect is on another level. God bless you mum🙏
I think women should start knowing their worth,if they don't feel appreciated any longer,mostly in marriage,learn to choose yourself without caring how society will perceive you,peace of mind is everything...learn to walk away and believe that you are enough and can make it on your own with God's help
I totally agree with you. Growing up, I was very observant. I saw how women were treated by their husbands and swore to myself that if I ever find myself being treated like I'm less than, I'm walking away! I'd rather be single and have a peaceful life.
You are preaching to me
@@EstellNEssy Great you said this since I was the same, I observed and hated how men were treated like small gods. I vowed never to be treated the same would rather stay single if that meant for life. I met a man who appreciated me, the person I am and no regrets.
@@janehughes6927 same here, I noticed men were treated like mini gods... I knew at a young age that I wasn't interested in marriage if I were to spend the rest of my life miserable. To me marriage/ relationship is like an empty box, you take out what you put in it.
Sadly, women give themselves too much only to be under appreciated and treated worse than animals...
@@EstellNEssy marriages are not that bad if only the two involved are in for the right reasons and respect each other. It worked for me and never accepted to be treated like a slave or get abused in any form or shape.
Behind ever single mother their is a story that should not be taken for granted
Yes 👍👏👏👏👏
💯True and a painful one...Am one of them
True
This should be a book, poor woman she has gone 😢😔through alot
Watching frm Namibia desert. Over here Tuko is almost becoming a National TV. You inspire our Nation
We appreciate
Wow...
Kwanza interview za lynn always the best anjua kunyamaza watu watoe stort vizuri+44 dani ya London kama kaida tuko locked.
Thank you so much
Hope he is not impotent or with HIV
Story of my life and such men are the most polite in the eyes of the public..when you judge single mums make sure you know the story behind otherwise keep your mouth shut 🤫
True...so polite and life of the party to outsiders...Did it happen to you after giving birth too or?
You can still feel the pain in her voice😭😭😭😭may God give her strength to forgive, give her son a loving heart, and the father grace of repentance.
Peninah please change your prayers and ask God to send you a companion. It's not too late for you to experience happiness.
Amen
True
I don’t think that one needs a companion to be happy in life. Sometimes it’s better to be alone and have peace of mind then having someone who puts you through hell. I have been a single parent since when my kids were small and I am now a grandma. So happy to around my family . I haven’t had sex over 25 years and I don’t miss it all. So much temptation in Europe but I kept busy with work and kids and honestly l very much prefer my life without a husband. Some of us weren’t meant to have companionship. This is my opinion
Very true. Let her reverse her prayers esp apo nampeda this man to I pray for another love
@@hannaholuwabunmi177 God bless you ma
When my marriage fell apart my mom told me she never kicked me out. Make your happiness your 1st priority its not worth it and I ddnt want my son to grow up thinking his fathers behavior was normal or ok. Its okay to walk away and I'm thankful my mom doesn't condone nonsense like most African moms
I have been there. I never stopped praying. My prayers were answered big time. Currently living happily with my children in Europe. May the same God see you through 🙏🙏
Happy fathers day to all mums who are mum and Dad their kids
@@angelawambui1468 Amen 🙏🙏🙏 sister
Amen
Amen
Thanks to Tuko News everyday they are bringing new stories which will help our society💪💪💪Keep them coming..
I have barrier of"you can say anything to me but you can not hit me"people who love you they don't treat you badly, love doesn't hurt it support to feel good
Totally agree, women we like to persist but current educated women chei they will bring 3 children different dads
Me I refused someone to say anything to me too, alaaa wachana na mimi kapsaa
It's crazily amazing how this woman is still strong and talking. Almost a miracle. The kind of emotional and mental torture she must have gone through woiye. Take heart mama ❤️❤️. You are strong and beautiful and God is definitely on your side.
Tuko talks is the best thing that happened to Kenya Lynn and and the Tuko crew may you be blessed cause everyday I learn something new.
I passed this after giving birth to my second born,he even changed bed akaenda kulala ya wageni,but I was OK,I suffered 1 year but later we separated,its really painful indeed,I understand you 23 years
Sorry mom, hope you are doing well now..
Woie its psinful. Heri ujitoe tu
Pole Saana Mum
WAITED FOR A WHOLE YEAR .REALLY? SERIOUSLY? TOO LONG. LADIES YOU ARE WORTH MORE THSN THAT. ABUSE AND LOVE DONT GO TOGETHER AT ALL.END OF STORY.
@@angelawambui1468 please understand that this woman had just given birth.
Don't judge someone ,single mother's we are strong
Yes thanks dea
Yes we are am proud mother of two cute boys and I thank God for rescuing my life for that prison sentence of the so called marriage
Nyumba ni mama, women should be the pillar of their home,
Yes we are and we thank Lord
Yes we are
The problem is there and I believe most women are really suffering out there. May God come and intervene to our marriages.
This story reminds me my past , I remember living in the forest na mtoto wa 3 weeks only to save my mum's marriage, but I thank God he was there for me because he's GOD by himself anything can be compared by him .Hallelujah!
hey, that must've been hard ma'am. Thank you for making me know I don't have it the hardest now....
This is more sad 😢
Sorry for that..
Sorry ❤️
Sorry mummy
Why give fellow human such POWER OVER YOU. Patieni God such power....he can never treat you bad
AMEN true
Writing this from Africa. From the bottom of my heart I wish everyone reading this to prosper in 2021...May you all find peace ✌May we all win, there's enough for everyone, abundance is everywhere. Me or you winning no one is going to lose!!!!!!!
Amen🙏
@@maureenmuli5725 be blessed 🙌
Amen
Amen🙏🙏
Amen.
Winning.Shining.Renewed like Eagles.
Amen
Lyn may be u can bring a therapist to tell us how to solve such cases in the event they happen in marriages... such a good lesson learnt from this story
Never judge someone because she's a single mom or father , 😥😥there's a story behind them choosing that life or finding them in that state
This story reminds me of my dad he used to behave the same coming and leaving we were so bitter with him as growing up kids until he fell very sick and we discovered he was HIV positive, and did not want to infect my mum,
Atleast he protected your mum
He could have told her
@@Janetlulonde the shame would not have allowed it
@@lucynjuguna9653 okay though I feel keeping secrets destroys relationships.
@@apparently2972 haki woyee
Mum someone who beats you whether little or senseless does not love you at all .If a man starts to abuse you please move on before its too late. Pole sana .
God of Restoration intervene, No burden He cannot carry away from live. Break every yoke lord With your Mighty power in your Name Jesus.
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
AMEEEEEN!!!
Amen!
Amen
I'm real proud for my mom, I have nothing to regret in my life, she gave me good life although she was single mama, RIP mama, kweli usimjaji mtu usiemjua au hata kama wamjua maana hujui ni nini anapitia, kama Huna cha kushauri ni bora ufunge mdomo,
As women we should learn how to pray and break the chains and bondages the enemy put us through ...May God protect Marriages.
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One word for this situation is witchcraft
God doesn't answer prayers of choice. He can't make your man love you if he doesn't
Amen and amen
I would never condone this nonsense in the name of love. Women should understand that they are worthy and beautiful, what kind of life is this now?🤔🤔🤔
True unamuodokea na nakaa maisha yangu Aiiiih!
Unachapwa unachapwa na uko tu hapo lol
Very true especially when the man best you up until you have miscarriage and you go back there something is wrong there. Woman we need to love and appreciate ourselves
Exactly
Very shameful ,sad and draining for anyone to accommodate pain in the name of love.
"We are the commanders of our brains.".....I love that. Thank you Mum. God bless you.
God We Need You In Our Homes.....We Can't Continue Living Like This Anymore.
Do men really say when they become impotent? If they feel the shame of saying they can't do the job. They feel it's shameful. Others it's because they have HIV and they don't want to infect you
Trur
@@susanapollo284
Well Spoken.....
True. Life is very spiritual.
True
Women/Girls anyone!!!! There is no victory or good reward for suffering. Leave at the 1st chance and never look back!
'Never judge anyone if you don't know his/her story' peninah God will send you a companion it's not too late for your happiness.
If you do not know my story, please do not Judge me.
Faith kerubo question is does she want a companion or she is still hanging onto that "husband" of hers
@@catherinemumbua8251 Women are smitten by bad boys.
9 minutes in 😢 I hate gender-based violence 😭😭 This African notion of women sacrificing their own happiness for men is a thing of the past
Makes me so mad
I second you..😢😢😢😢😢
😭😭 it's sickening
Correct✍💯
Women were never born to suffer and throw away their life and future in the name of 'kuvumilia'
Sometimes hii story ya marriage I don't even understand. When you are single, you think the married are happy then you listen to such a story! Oya this is hard, but those who thought that one cannot do without sex, story ndio hiyo, 23 years and counting, it's all in your mind!
Let's normalise walking away from pain. Whatever costs you happiness and dignity is not worth it. Its IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT TO BE MARRIED. Let's stop calling people strong for staying in abusive relationships. It has nothing to do with God because He only has plans to prosper us. Walk out of abusive situations please. There is life on the other side. No one was put on this earth to be mistreated and abused by anyone. Walk out! Such a life is not worth living!!!
That was my prayer to get a place to call home with my daughter and God provided glory to God.
I agree, unfortunately it was too late for my sister. I was unable to help her though I tried.
Truth
Exactly 👌
I couldn't agree better
Hey!!! Reke ngwire it's not bed of roses . If you aren't valued and appreciated let's learn to step big big we only have one life to live unhappy. Shout out to all single mothers
Without further ado let me let her introduce herself...Mami,habari yako....
We have all mastered your intro😊
We love you Lynn
Kwanza akisema ,nikuulizee hehehe
Hapo kwa ...... Habari yako.....
Yes!
@@chepkorireddah323 ebu tuelezee tuelewe
Stories that are never revealed i always find them here, tuko big up. Mama ur strong
The lady has gone through a lot. Lack of intimacy in marriages is emotionally draining and has led to people doing a lot of bad things. Lynne please try and get a man to share their story along the same line because many are suffering in silence. Thanks for the good work
Men dont want to speak up, that's the problem
I second that, let one man volunteer and explain to us
Somebody tell our women it is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. Suffering in the name of society eye should and needs to be withdrawn. We deserve happiness all the same.
It applies to both genders...
I always say never judge anyone if you don't know his or her story..Many people wanavumilia sana kwa ndoa cos they can't speak it out.We smile out here but deep down we are hurt....
Very true
Everytime i listen to tuko talks, i love myself more and appreciate God for making / allowing me to be a single mum 🤗. I understand now that HE is always protecting me from something. Hugs mum God has you in mind
amen
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WE AS WOMEN NEED TO GO BACK TO THE DRAWING BOARD AND ASK,'WHAT IS LOVE? HOW DO I KNOW AM LOVED? OR IS IT FANTASY BEING MISTAKEN FOR SO CALLED LOVE.
As kids we are sold Cinderella type of love, as teenagers or adults we are sold Telenova type of love of pain, betrayal but in the end it's all roses. But in reality it's never any of them. We need to teach our young girls the truth
@@NK-so8ep on point
Very true
@@NK-so8ep well said
Angela Wambui well said
Never judge a single/divorced mother. Most went thro hell to get to that. Love to all single mothers.
My sister you nailed it never enter in a relationship where there in no vacancy , I know what you are talking about , I was there, am now 7 years single never had a man since. ; no sex for 7 years and its because of prayer.
My sister l can relate to this 100%l went through it @27yrs, b strong 💪 hold your son with 💘 leaving everything at the cross of Jesus.ALIFUNGWA NA HAO WANADADA Watalia.
What happened? Was it after child birth that you experienced this or?
Hi, Lynn. This is so amazing... Please highlight more stories of single mothers and how they end up being single... Plus everything they go through. Kenyans need to change their perspective on single motherhood. Thanks.
No offense but it seems like most of these men are really troubled . It’s like the only example these men had while growing up is their own fathers beating their mothers. So they grow up thinking that that’s how a man is supposed to treat a woman. It’s sad . 😕😕.These days I feel sorry for all these young girls rushing into marriage or rushing to move in with a man. Marriage is hard. Most of these men have no idea how to treat or love a woman the right way, they are not gentle at all.
I agree with you. Not all of them though . Some people are just born wicked that's all
Ni kueli kabisa.
So true
Very true
@@fatimatual-hassan5121 That’s why I said most men. I never said all men. My husband is one of the good ones too. So I know there are some good men.
I hope Lynn is having a counselor for herself, listening to these stories every time needs a lot of mental support.
yea.. couldn't agree more!
Lynn,you are strong to be listening to such sad stories constantly.I sincerely hope you have a coping mechanism in place because listening to negative stuff all the time can affect a person mentally.Bit thank you for airing these stories,we learn a lot.
Soo painful...but God is faithful
Hopefully she does.
I hope so. it is so important for her to be seeing a counselor once a month.
Wanaume mungu akikupa mke please mlinde like a queen 👑.... God help me and my wife to continue staying together with love and peace 🕊️🕊️💞💞💞💕😊😊😊
Every day i learn something new from this Channel 😀❤️
Salamia diaspora
Wanjiru ur so much supportive,isaw u almost everywhere thanz u gal
I never miss your comment girl! Love fr Canada 💕💕💕
Lol you're allover 😂😂
Oòh here you are.
Was looking for you.
Show ya Lynn haijakamilika bila kukuona.
😍😍🤩🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🙌🙌🙌
Today I am praying for all single people outta there
Pray for your self first before you volunteer,kizuri chajiuza kibaya chajitembeza.
This channel has taught me alot Lynn God bless you....some men are really heartless animals
This world is very harsh. Lyn you have opened our eyes very much through Tuko. But in most of these cases have a lot of parental upbringing failure.
But as for you Peninah, don't give up on GOD. HE sees everything on earth.
Never make a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.
Am with you 100% on this one.
True
What about a woman
Amen to that
Yes
This is yet another one of your awesome 👌releases... its an eye opener to many. Pennina you are a courageous and strong woman. I admire your ability that you have never ashamed your son by bringing a man in your home👍
Many women have gone through such situations but the thing is how you handle yourself.
I'm just imagining if there were no platforms like this, there would be no outlet for some...
Thanks Lynn for the lovely show..May God bless Penninah.She has gone through many problems,some are almost similar to the ones I had faced ..But I thank God she is a strong woman..
Most women find it hard to share their past stories and leaving then so depressed and dying miserable deaths due to frustrations and depression..People should know that witchcraft is real.God bless Tuko.
May God see thro you Peninah , she's a wonderful mum , with good spirit who fears God ..the LORD will deliver your husband from those evil
N help him to b open . Peninah has a call in her life to serve God. Her patience is of another level n God will bless her son with many children ..the devil is a defeated liar in Jesus mighty name ! .
Total respect mami. That one son will wipe away your tears
Lynn Ngugi nakupenda bure❤❤❤👍👍👍kazi safi sana... you and your crew you must be overworking guys video after video💪💪💪 am here to stay...
Thank you for the love and support:) We love you
Welcome Tuko keep them on board💪💪
😂😂😂mi nilikua naitwa Eunice Mara Ruth mwishowe nkaambiwa nkalale na mbwa so I left after suffering a bad depression today am happy very strong single mother of three babies so dear lady be of good courage my dear keep going dear tuko wengi
This woman has been through hell. Thank you for speaking out your story. To the bad men out there, please have fear of God & leave your woman if you aren’t happy with them. Stop hurting them. Yeah, it’s possible to live without sex bc we are the commanders of our brains.
May God fight for you...I think the same way Peninah in the bible suffered rejection from the husband the same pursued you...but God is able to deliver you.Thanks for standing God strengthen you Peninah
Leah
Eh! Yawa! The only Peninah I know wa bible ni ule cowife wa Hannah the mother of Samuel. She used to mock Hannah coz she did not have a child.
A story like mine wangu tulizaa na yeye halafu nguvu za kiume zikaisha now its 16 years.
This lady was unfortunately likely married to narcissists on both occasions. The first is certainly overt, and the second appears to be neglectful. She is unfortunately stuck in the love bombing phase 23 years in, believing in goodness that was never there in the first place but was a perfect facade to lure her in. she needs to accept the hopelessness of her situation, heal, then move on. Her son will need counselling too because he obviously wasn't spared from this dysfunction and could easily carry forward similar wounds into future relationships.
Well put Faith 👏
😇you are not wrong in our lives today @FaithVuyanza but if you can carefully listen to this lady,she is a God fearing woman,who is not only cares about God but also her body and her child,some ladies cares about getting married again but they never cares about what their children will go through in life in the hands of the second father, others never cares how many marriages should they get into for them to settle down, your are right that that lady and her son needs healing ❤️🩹 but they also needs prayers . God hates divorce.Malachi 2:15-16; “Has not the God made you? You belong to Him in body and Spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.The man who hates and divorces his wife,’ says the Lord Almighty. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful”. This lady might have red this,that’s why she moved on by remaining single to avoid daily pain.
after all the prayers? Christ must be the lead narcissist
@@wamush3338 I don't really read from your script of god but if that is the script we are to go by, adultery and unfaithfulness permit you to divorce. Ialso don't believe in a god who forces you to remain in a state of pain, which is quite equivalent to death while still alive. Love liberates. Also, sometimes a second father is the best thing that can happen to your children if you chose wisely and from a place of healing. Besides, there is a big difference between hanging on to hope and making a deliberate decision to be single. This lady is obviously practising the former.
@@evankimani5075 haha, possibly
God bless you so much Penninah. Watching from Ghana. And I know God will honour you and give you heart's desire. What your husband is going through is spiritual. Continue to pray for him and your son. And the Lord whom you serve will never shame you. Been there and I know it is not easy but God will vindicate you. All the best, sister.
Tuko talks your program has a huge following in TRINIDAD and TOBAGO i love this show
Take home from today's story: " Never Judge anyone if you don't know his/her story"
Soo true
Definitely
Hapo tume kubali kabisa.
True
Very true
Lovely presentation as usual. I want to encourage the lady to continue to hold on to God . Her labor to her son and others will be rewarded one day.
Tuned from USA. This program is doing alot to many poeple and l am so thankful to it too. One thing l know this tambia of some of Wakamba it's almost the same. Some of our men don't respect their women. I thank GOD because nowadays the government has made laws to help women and children otherwise our time it was you and your husband no turning back. Pole sana my sister and don't get used to these problems.
"Our time" when was this ? Just asking.
She should focus on her happiness. It's okay to move on and find better. She seems too focused on the principle of morality, she forgets life is short
Peninah, you are a blessed lady. May God give you peace...but hio family lineage inataka deliverance so it doesn't happen to your descendants
Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦, tuko talks has become my favorite youtube channel. Keep bringing us more stories Lynn.
Lynn thank you for a well conducted interview as usual I love you for your maturity. For some cases like this one I believe some of us may not have an answer why such thing should happen only God really knows. Peninnah you're a wonderful human being and I promise you ,your future is well secured by the God you serve don't worry about anything He'll come through for you. Love you my sister be blessed. 😭😭😭🙏🙏❤❤🔥🔥✝️✝️💯
No one should tolerate this type of violence. Hakuna kuvumilia!!!! LEAVE!!!
So sad when a Man calls you another woman's Name, to those who take other people's Husbands your Life will never be Blessed, these women sleep with Prayers asking God to Punish you
Very true
Sure. Na malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.
Smart woman
Remember most men do not mention that they have families so some of the women could be innocent
So true experiencing this and I tell you what God fights one battles if you ask him. It's good to choose your battles as well as doing what's best for you and your sanity.
Thanks Peninah for being this strong and may God grant peace of your heart
This was too much emotional torture,🥺🥺.Women Let us learn to love ourselves,sio lazma mwanaume akupende..
Unaweza jipenda mwenye lakini we are social beings, we need affection and love from others unless you are numb..
@@MK37TV I one of the orchard women it's very painful and no more love.
I wish women could learn to say no to married men. Imagine the pain this woman has gone through 😥😥😥.
I wish men would stop cheating on their wives, thats the narrative!
@@shakweilifestyle9912 I wish women would learn to say NO.
Why blame the woman only?.. it's usually a 50-50 participation from both the married man and the other woman
@@carolynegichangi8012 No one is blaming the women.. A woman is a gate keeper if she locks it no one can enter.. Women have the power.. We are just encouraging them to know their power's and worth.
@@wambsmie I get you now
I'm so very taken by each and every story that you all have worked extremely hard to bring awareness to the world of those who suffer in silence. This can only be described as apart of God's amazing love plans that will brings us all together ❤
It's one of the most important moments in life to be remember for the love, justice, the Acknowledgment of others.
Thank you Tuko for bringing this, people are suffering in behind the scenes.
Thank you mum for sharing this , my take home "we are commanders of our brain", how true, so powerful.
We hide our marriages under the Blood of Jesus Christ where the devil can do us no harm, Amen
This my neighbor goes through such like experience. Married for more than 12 years, has three children. Emotional torture she goes through is worse than physical torture.
What kind of emotional torture?
I just like how lynn asks,,,,,,""na ebu niulizeeee""😂😂😂😂
Kwanza Mimi I love you Lynn, she is great in this role of interviewing people
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We as women we passed true hard time my husband also did to m almost 4 yrs without touching m it's Soo painful. I understand how she was feeling
A prayerful Woman is a Strong Woman. Many blessings to you Peninah.
its always Tuko time when you want to be inspired or educated ...Lynn Great Job your interviews are really from another level
I had almost the same experience. My hubby called me Marlyn yet am Betty. Maryline ni jina la girlfriend wake
May the lord bless you mammy ay the lord protect you and your son and always provide for you ,you are a child of God and he will never leave you nor forsake you ,your hubby needs deliverance as well it's not his fault
The society should stop judging single moms, God intervene, thanks Tuko, we learning,bila kusahau mama you are beautiful.
They should NEVER BE JUDGED. Many times a man's irresponsibility is what led a woman there. Cowardly so called men.
Onething I realized is that behind every single mother, there's a story .
May God bless this lady and her family.
It's the courage for me.
" We are the commanders of our brains"
This is powerful.
My husband too was 'taken' by a lady...now she's finished him financially..I pity these men...
Just be happy and love your self more...life is short ..and surely God will bless you more
We should say he took himself from that we shouldn't blame other women he went after that lady and spent on her to his last coin don't pity him that was karma
Sorry you have to go through that's
l love this lady coz she really respect herself continue keeping yourself coz your body is the temple of God
I understand your pain mum .. abstaining is the only option for people like us who don't love kurukaruka..many will not understand you buy truly understand you ..my situation now for 6 yrs now .. but I will give it a chance when I will find the right person.