If you are up a ladder why marry down...i know this maybe a little disturbing for some people, but it's the plain truth. Most especially for women if you are standing tall why crouch down to meet low standards it will somehow find a way to hurt you - as inhuman this sounds its wisdom marriage has nothing to do with love. Lets leave love alone find out who you are marrying first and know whether he's lovable. I've said it countless times and I'll continue to do so i pray it makes sense to some people seeing this message if it doesn't scroll pass abeg 😅
In this life, there’s no humbled poor person until they get rich and remain humbled. Emma should never have resigned, especially when Ojimma got that new car that he couldn’t afford to maintained. The good thing is, she was able to get back on her feet. Great story with a great lesson to learn
Bravo Emma. You did great. No man and I mean no should treat a woman as he did. Who is stopping them to build themselves . Only a weak and simple minded man would act as her husband did . Women let’s love ourselves first and if they can’t love us as we are then let’s leave them behind. What’s this!!.
Love your show.Is there a way to indicate to your guests bahlale kahle.Just a suggestion.Nawe uhlale uhloniphekile singa boni le lasingafuni khona.Yobe mangiqina.
Ojima, is just a controlling fool, .... plus the disrespectful ways he gave Ema an ultimatum, rather working as a Team to be supportive As soon as the ego and pride starts showing; RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN and don't look back. Pray to God for forgiveness to be blinded and make away out. But during that time, MOVE IN SILENT
Emma should move on with her life as she has found peace with her self. Imagine ogima giving orders to Emma in their marriage, he forgets how Emma has lifted him up in his life and he got what he deserved. Nice story.
Any man that tells you to resign from a work that brings food to your table is evil! It's sad that most women are victims of this kind of partner. Plus, they always cheat!
Some ungrateful beings make life difficult for the poor. Not all poor people are ungrateful like Ejema All I. Have to say whether rich or poor anyone can be ungrateful. Because there is always a RED FRAG but, people ignore the RED FRAG in the name of love and saving marriage so they fall victim. Thank God Emma recovered herself in time and another mistake is Going back to your ex. Which she never did.. She made the right choice
I once had a conversation with a male colleague and asked him how he felt about dating or marrying an independent woman. He replied by saying that type of a woman would make his life easier. So, I asked him if he's won't mind if she earned more money than he did and answered: no. And then he said: "only a weak man is threatened by a strong independent woman."
This is one if the reasons why a couple shouldn't work in same Organisation When a man is insecured about this woman finance then it's a red flag Emma should have waited n observe him more after helping him get a job
Knowledge is knowing that tomato is a fruit; wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit smoothie. It's bad enough that she married a mental liliputian who had the audacity to ask her to resign from work. Did he also insist that she must resign before finding another job? Why on earth did she have to dumb herself down to Ojima's level? 23:51
In one way or the other they come around you cause they need or want you is peace in being humble he just weak heart talking bout ppl talking he wanna destroy who boost him help him out who he pose to be a team with
I blamed Emma I will never forgone my career for no man The guy is controlling and that's all he wants No woman should forgone her career for no man or be little herself because of a man Narcissist 🤦
I downloaded the story and was watching from downloads but I had to watch from history so I can comment. Omo ehhh some men are joy killers. Common cleaner? Wtf! Where was his pride when he was a cleaner? This is why women should not date down. It can never end well. Some men are egocentric. They want to be untop. Very bad behaviour.
This man is nothing but arse hole God brought angel 😇 to him and he stupidly chased her away some people are all about their own self interest if wasn't that he lost his job would he came back for her the answer is definitely no
20:23: I would try to arange a job for him in another company, where she is not his boss; even so I don't know, why he has a problem, with his wife beeing boss? I would be proud, if my spouse is boss!... 2134 ....what? is he mad??? they have much more money, when she keep work, ooo ! 21:40: Omg! Red flag! get ridd od this idiot and keep, what u have worked for so hard! U find another, who loves u for yourself! ❤
Facts. As soon as the ego and pride starts showing; RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN and don't look back. Pray to God for forgiveness to be blinded and make away out
THANK YOU FOR your natural authentic speaking voice telling the stories.
Thank you so much 😊😊
I enjoyed every but if this story! I learnt to do good without letting go of myself.
T for thanks Enkay
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I really appreciate you ma for telling this story because i have really learnt a lot from it ❤❤
@@Esther-ib3vc4ib7z I'm glad you found value in the story ♥️😊
Chai Emma just fed a hungry lion 😂😂😂 May God open our eyes to know people beyond the physical 😢
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Interesting story nice one❤❤❤❤
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Amazing story ❤ ♥ Enkay
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Beautiful story
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Sometimes appearances can deceive us all! A surprising and meaningful story that reminds us of the true value of a person.
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If you are up a ladder why marry down...i know this maybe a little disturbing for some people, but it's the plain truth. Most especially for women if you are standing tall why crouch down to meet low standards it will somehow find a way to hurt you - as inhuman this sounds its wisdom marriage has nothing to do with love. Lets leave love alone find out who you are marrying first and know whether he's lovable. I've said it countless times and I'll continue to do so i pray it makes sense to some people seeing this message if it doesn't scroll pass abeg 😅
I agree!
😂😂😂 it will continue to happen if people don't learn
Thank God she left him! So many great lessons in this story. Thank you, Enkay❤
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Always a great time listening and watching your videos..
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Thank you so much 🙏🙏
If he didn't lose his job, he wouldn't have come back.
FACTS BEEN THERE DONE THAT GREAT STORY
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In this life, there’s no humbled poor person until they get rich and remain humbled.
Emma should never have resigned, especially when Ojimma got that new car that he couldn’t afford to maintained. The good thing is, she was able to get back on her feet. Great story with a great lesson to learn
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Marry your equal ladies or up definitely never down.
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Just wen I was thinking of what to watch. God bless u enkay❤
Same here ❤❤❤
Amen 🙏🙏
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Love it, and I 've learned from it
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Am present ma ✋
Happy new month members, may God bless you and your family and also fulfill your heart desires 🙏❤
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Very interesting
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Amazing 😍😍
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Bravo Emma. You did great. No man and I mean no should treat a woman as he did. Who is stopping them to build themselves . Only a weak and simple minded man would act as her husband did . Women let’s love ourselves first and if they can’t love us as we are then let’s leave them behind. What’s this!!.
True words
Beautiful story ❤️ 🎉
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Nice story thank you ❤❤❤
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Wow thanks for the amazing lesson ❤❤
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Wooooow thank you for amazing story
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Broke meal nke?😂😂enkay go sabi give gist oh her story lines are the best😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 how you take know??
Na my gisting skill I convert to writing now 🙆🙆
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A leopard never changes it's spots, Emma did well not taking him back
True
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Love your show.Is there a way to indicate to your guests bahlale kahle.Just a suggestion.Nawe uhlale uhloniphekile singa boni le lasingafuni khona.Yobe mangiqina.
Please explain well let me understand what you mean
I blame Emma. I will never give up my job for no man. Have a child in a bad marriage would only make things worst. Great story ❤
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Watching from 🇱🇷
Amazing piece love👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️
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The heart of mortal beings are really evil and wicked but, truly! There's a reward in every actions or decisions you make from to end ooo!
Exactly
I have learnt to live people exactly where they are.. don’t help them
It's really sad
Exactly! Cos when they start misbehaving, it won't pain you that much.
Lovely 😊😊
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Sacrifice is very dangerous
Very costly too
Love ur story ❤❤❤❤❤
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She had the patience of a Saint.
It's really sad
@AfricanEchoesByEnkay it is.
I always tell young ladies, "Never marry anyone who is lower than you."
Bitter truth
Ojima, is just a controlling fool, .... plus the disrespectful ways he gave Ema an ultimatum, rather working as a Team to be supportive
As soon as the ego and pride starts showing; RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN and don't look back. Pray to God for forgiveness to be blinded and make away out.
But during that time, MOVE IN SILENT
It's really sad
Emma should move on with her life as she has found peace with her self. Imagine ogima giving orders to Emma in their marriage, he forgets how Emma has lifted him up in his life and he got what he deserved.
Nice story.
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Why did she even resign? Marriage is a great thing , however never sacrifice yourself to stay with a mate who isn’t worthy.
True words
Auntie Enkay which one is broke meal again 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 puff puff and coke
Garri and salt 🙆🙆
@@AfricanEchoesByEnkay😂 garri and salt indeed.
Nice work
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Woah Ojima
Are you from Idoma?
@AfricanEchoesByEnkay
No I'm from Ghana
Sorry for Emma but I can never quit my job or given up my career because of my partner even if he earns more than me 😢
It's good for the woman to have something doing
I like Emma's decision, i hate men who think women are so vulnerable and can ride on it❤
It's really sad
Any man that tells you to resign from a work that brings food to your table is evil! It's sad that most women are victims of this kind of partner. Plus, they always cheat!
Double tragedy
Ego is a relationship killer
Exactly 💯
Some ungrateful beings make life difficult for the poor. Not all poor people are ungrateful like Ejema
All I. Have to say whether rich or poor anyone can be ungrateful. Because there is always a RED FRAG but, people ignore the RED FRAG in the name of love and saving marriage so they fall victim. Thank God Emma recovered herself in time and another mistake is Going back to your ex. Which she never did.. She made the right choice
It's really sad. Few bad ones spoiling show for the good ones
Not all that glitters is gold so, we must learn to treat everybody equally and respect because nobody knows tomorrow ooo hmmmmm!
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And as the Bible says, it ends up a curse to put your reliability on mortals ooohmm so, be careful and watchful!
True. Trust no man
Some people are so ungrateful
It's really sad
This is what happens when you pick up a dog from the garbage disposal, sad but it's true
Bitter truth
Granny told us a baby will not keep a man or make things better in a relationship.
Exactly 💯
The name Ojima resembles one in my tribe in Uganda, though we call it Onjima with an "N" between
Wow! That's similar to this one. Ojima is a Benue State name
@@AfricanEchoesByEnkay oh wow I've observed similar Igbo names to ours, like Ojukwu, Chidi, Amaka among others
That man sent to destroy the lady, the person who tells you to resign whether man or woman just know something bad is infront kai
Exactly
I once had a conversation with a male colleague and asked him how he felt about dating or marrying an independent woman. He replied by saying that type of a woman would make his life easier. So, I asked him if he's won't mind if she earned more money than he did and answered: no. And then he said: "only a weak man is threatened by a strong independent woman."
He sounds mature but then talk is cheap. Many men will say they are okay but when it happens, their ego will start crying
@AfricanEchoesByEnkay I've that happen many times.
❤❤❤ am the first from the pearl of Africa 🌍 Uganda 🇺🇬💎
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Wait, she really resigned?
God abeg oooooooooo
😂😂😂 love is what again...
@@AfricanEchoesByEnkay I bind that kind of love in Jesus name
God abeg indeed ooo
Cos there are women that are on this table. Chopping insult in the name of marriage.
@@HamidatSuleiman 😂😂😂😂
This is why women choose to stay single
It's really sad
This man doesn't love you,a man who doesn't want your progress???
It's obvious
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This is one if the reasons why a couple shouldn't work in same Organisation
When a man is insecured about this woman finance then it's a red flag
Emma should have waited n observe him more after helping him get a job
Bitter but true
Knowledge is knowing that tomato is a fruit; wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit smoothie.
It's bad enough that she married a mental liliputian who had the audacity to ask her to resign from work.
Did he also insist that she must resign before finding another job?
Why on earth did she have to dumb herself down to Ojima's level? 23:51
Your first statement hits hard and true 💯💯
The man is so greedy
True
In one way or the other they come around you cause they need or want you is peace in being humble he just weak heart talking bout ppl talking he wanna destroy who boost him help him out who he pose to be a team with
I'm glad you enjoyed it 🥰🥰
I blamed Emma
I will never forgone my career for no man
The guy is controlling and that's all he wants
No woman should forgone her career for no man or be little herself because of a man
Narcissist 🤦
It's really sad
Who gave her permission??? Omo eh
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This is why you don’t lay your meat where you make your bread!
Exactly 💯
Ojima was so mean and hurtless am happy Emma didn't stick with him some men waah, thanks for the amazing lesson ❤❤
It's really sad
I downloaded the story and was watching from downloads but I had to watch from history so I can comment. Omo ehhh some men are joy killers. Common cleaner? Wtf! Where was his pride when he was a cleaner? This is why women should not date down. It can never end well. Some men are egocentric. They want to be untop. Very bad behaviour.
You can never tell a man's true character when he's down.
Give am small money, you go see action film
Let ujima eat crow for his ungratefulness and inappropriative character and attitude.
Thank you for watching 🥰🥰
This man is nothing but arse hole God brought angel 😇 to him and he stupidly chased her away some people are all about their own self interest if wasn't that he lost his job would he came back for her the answer is definitely no
It's really sad
She married him out of pity not remembering she could be marrying a useless person
Chai
It hits hard 😭
💕🇺🇸….
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20:23: I would try to arange a job for him in another company, where she is not his boss; even so I don't know, why he has a problem, with his wife beeing boss? I would be proud, if my spouse is boss!... 2134 ....what? is he mad??? they have much more money, when she keep work, ooo ! 21:40: Omg! Red flag! get ridd od this idiot and keep, what u have worked for so hard! U find another, who loves u for yourself! ❤
She doesn't have the power to get him a job in another company. He doesn't have experience
This is one of the reasons I don't like marriage.
No, please. Marriage is beautiful.
These stories are meant to make you wiser so you don't make a mistake when you are ready for it.
@AfricanEchoesByEnkay I've been a victim of stressful marriage, that's why I say that.
@@DolineDibabonga oh dear. I'm so sorry about that 🙏🙏
Your peace of mind is paramount and that should be all that matters ♥️♥️
@@AfricanEchoesByEnkay Yes dear
Why did she even resign? Marriage is a great thing , however never sacrifice yourself to stay with a mate who isn’t worthy.
Facts. As soon as the ego and pride starts showing; RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN and don't look back. Pray to God for forgiveness to be blinded and make away out
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