Why Nice Girls Finish Last

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 44

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 3 года назад +128

    Nice women get played and used. Just like the nice guy

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 2 года назад +3

      Nice girls win in the end, nice girls end up wid toxic guys who've slept around wid many

    • @Luv4Kylee
      @Luv4Kylee 2 года назад +6

      Fr im nice and i go thru the worst but im not nice for expecting things in return all i ask people is loyalty and hounestness And to not hurt me and be mean to me and just treat me right i don't ask for anything else but that

    • @beautifulleeme782
      @beautifulleeme782 2 года назад +5

      @@Luv4Kylee I feel the same way...my now ended relationship has shown me that maybe I am too nice or good of a person to be taken seriously...I have been abused as a child and also was in an abusive relationshit before also never had an easy life so trauma probably broke me down to where im too humble and I care too much for others...my now ex literally fought with me over food that I offered him and he was mad at me for offering too much of things...so I dont know how to be anymore besides alone....im also alone no family or friends my grandmother n mom passed away now so its just me....lol I guess I'm not meant to be with anyone 🤷

    • @queenbbeaute2654
      @queenbbeaute2654 2 года назад +2

      @@beautifulleeme782 girl o felt this

    • @queenbbeaute2654
      @queenbbeaute2654 2 года назад

      Agree but all women can get used guys use chicks for sex and resources etc they are users period

  • @roots4140
    @roots4140 2 года назад +48

    This is helpful! As a Christian woman, this stuff gets pretty confusing.

    • @lydiamathipa4596
      @lydiamathipa4596 2 года назад +6

      OMG thought I was the only one feeling this way. Like where do you draw the line? How do I even put myself first when the Bible said I should put others first? I honestly get confused too.

    • @lindagithaiga1974
      @lindagithaiga1974 2 года назад +10

      I think the basic points is#1-stop being a people pleaser
      #2-set healthy boundaries.oh yes, and lastly stop paying for dinners all the time or always being available 👍🏽
      I used to be a nice girl but I learnt the hard way with close friends and family.But not any more and I am still a Christian.

    • @noni-ayannaroach8180
      @noni-ayannaroach8180 Год назад +2

      So true! Like we are called to serve but there has to be boundaries to it I guess. Still trying to figure those out myself now lol. I'm definitely a giver....

    • @roots4140
      @roots4140 Год назад +6

      @@lindagithaiga1974 Paying for dinners???? Is that a thing? Can't relate. 😂😂

    • @lindagithaiga1974
      @lindagithaiga1974 Год назад +4

      @@roots4140 when you are an unaware codependent, you do alot of regrettable shit 😅

  • @itsmikkaa
    @itsmikkaa Год назад +16

    I’m here because I’m a nice girl and I’m tired of being treated like complete trash, my family would call me Cinderella , the men I have dealt with take me for granted.. The mean girls who don’t really care about the guys or are very selfish get everything , literally everything… I need to change because I might go down the deep end.

    • @fabstouchcosmetics3191
      @fabstouchcosmetics3191 11 месяцев назад

      I feel you... I wish you a better level up

    • @christinekagua7247
      @christinekagua7247 11 месяцев назад

      Im exactly the same… the men in my life took me for granted and im always left emptier each time. Its time to unlearn being nice and experience change

  • @alexandrixtargaryen8080
    @alexandrixtargaryen8080 3 года назад +35

    The fact that you called me out throughout the whole video, I cant.

  • @QueenOfPrinciple
    @QueenOfPrinciple 3 года назад +17

    Wow "The go above and beyond girl",...#GUILTY (she'll do it!) People do look fir a week spot. They will call you. Thinking you want friends so bad. Yess? This is so on point, you celebrate THEIR birthdays.
    But my voice is large, like when I speak up for myself I make quick enemies. Still nice,... I mean the type don't keep trying to take advantage. Always calling when they need something,...she will do whatever.

  • @kreativekraftshq8158
    @kreativekraftshq8158 10 месяцев назад +6

    Pickmesha energy is the death of women.

  • @Shortiie
    @Shortiie 2 года назад +10

    Loved the video great insights. I'm still deciding if I'm gona change this about myself or just live a life of isolation. It is hard living in a world where no one respects you even family will not respect you so it's 10x harder to get Non family to respect you as well.

    • @noni-ayannaroach8180
      @noni-ayannaroach8180 Год назад +3

      Don't isolate. You have a gift the world needs to see. God has a plan for you that's why He gave you a good giving heart. Just learn from this vid to set some boundaries and love yourself first. Something just hit me. We are to love others the way we love ourselves. Always putting yourself on the backburner to help everyone else is not loving yourself.

  • @Luv4Kylee
    @Luv4Kylee 3 года назад +9

    I do those things because i care and im a good person and i alway Finsh last and get shit i don't desurve

  • @jasminehicks2082
    @jasminehicks2082 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for this . This explains so much💓💓💓💓 now I understand why my friendships and relationships were the way they were

  • @Aja.S
    @Aja.S 3 года назад +9

    When I realized how nice I've been to people who did not deserve it ! All I want to be is a real bitch smirking all the time ! no niceness anymore I swear

  • @Minni-FBA
    @Minni-FBA 11 месяцев назад +1

    This hit home!!!! .Thank you for the profound insight.💯💯

  • @ladii3d46
    @ladii3d46 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this video, Love. You are like the sister I never had

  • @anastasiabolu2213
    @anastasiabolu2213 Год назад +1

    I feel bad because you described my situation exactly 😢I need to change this

  • @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
    @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 2 года назад +1

    Really good content! Real that’s why I stopped being nice

  • @iknowisuck6587
    @iknowisuck6587 3 года назад +12

    Hm very interesting! While I don’t agree with everything said in this video I do think that many well points were made, not all people will take advantage of kindness and not all kindness means zero backbone (also I know you said that I just want to emphasize the point that not all people will take advantage of the kinder people). Anyway very good video I’m glad I subscribed! I will most definitely be watching your other videos on gaining confidence.

  • @adishtnid6094
    @adishtnid6094 2 года назад

    Every word you said here is true!!

  • @serenitymuslimah
    @serenitymuslimah 2 года назад

    Very informative. Thank you

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397
    @generationalcursebreaker5397 2 года назад

    This video is so good thank you

  • @nonokoo3313
    @nonokoo3313 3 года назад +1

    It’s helpful video thank you

  • @okay1627
    @okay1627 3 года назад

    This video is so true x

  • @davidperry4310
    @davidperry4310 2 года назад +7

    WTF is this lady talking about. It's not that she's nice, It's that she has a poor taste in men. Women and men are different and not equal. To where a nice guy is repulsive, a nice girl is desirable. But modern woman want to compare themselves to men, but that's apples and oranges. Men want peace, and bad girls, strong independent, non submissive boss babes, masculine women are repulsive to men. It does not matter what women tell each other either. Consider getting a man in your family or religious leader to vet a man for you, because by in large, women have terrible taste in men, with a laundry list, trying to make a Frankenstein man from ghost of relationships past.

    • @samuelchimezie
      @samuelchimezie 2 года назад +1

      I see you’ve taken the red pill 💊

    • @ruqaiyahkhan8145
      @ruqaiyahkhan8145 2 года назад +1

      Not really! I know so many guys who will turn down nice girls and their attractive for a hoe because those girls have a stronger sex appeal and their more ‘fun’.

    • @davidperry4310
      @davidperry4310 Год назад +1

      @@noni-ayannaroach8180 Best of luck to you in all of your endeavors!

    • @noni-ayannaroach8180
      @noni-ayannaroach8180 Год назад

      Thank you.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 3 месяца назад

      Nice men aren't repulsive. Only bad women want bad men.

  • @chrischapin222
    @chrischapin222 2 года назад

    If this is true then both nice guys and nice woman finishing last which means nice people will become extinct due to all the bad guys and girls?
    As I guy I see many guys say “nice girls finish first”

  • @kalavathyaparajendran1789
    @kalavathyaparajendran1789 3 года назад +4

    UR voice is not clear

  • @rickflose
    @rickflose 2 года назад +2

    Nice girls finish first