A man who makes sure he spends time in his relationship with his wife and be a father to his kids and worked in a full time job will almost never be bored.
He was ignored by his wife multiple times. Relationships need to be recharged before they completely die out. Most husbands just want to relax with his wife.
Being a parent comes first but you still have to make time for your relationship with your spouse. When they're grown and gone you still have to be with each other. Let it fizzle out now and you'll never make it.
I agree with Patty, fathers should be more involved in helping their wives when it comes to taking care of their children. It would be a whole lot easier for mothers to not feel overwhelmed when it comes to everything that they have going on such as if they have a job, cooking, cleaning, chores, giving the kids baths, putting them to bed, game practice ... that's a lot for one parent
Especially in this case where he literally just says hes bored. That has gotta be so incredibly frustrating for the wife who never gets a chance to be bored.
This chick is clueless to his needs. Just because you have kids doesn't mean the world revolves around them. This is why kids these days are so entitled and expectant. Spend some alone time for goodness sake. Poor guy.
She does need to listen to him but he is just as much to blame for this situation as she is. He could call a sitter and plan a date night. He also has to make an effort in the relationship. Instead of taking off on his own and letting anger and resentment build.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 my son is my world but I believe in: 1. God 2. Self Care 3. Spouse (if your relationship is strong you’re gonna be great parents to your kids) 4. Kids 5. Everything Else!!
He's at least half checked out, and she's making excuses - sorry, but just because you have kids, you can't expect that your husband surrenders his own needs. Amber still sounds like she doesn't get it - whatever you did to get your man - that's what you have to do to keep him.
Shes going to loose him. Shes a bit over the top. Her husband is telling her what he would like and she could care less. It's obvious why he didnt tell her.
SOOOO, Let me try to understand this. He is depressed, so he gets new after shave, takes care of himself better, WORKS OUT........ to go to the movies BY HIMSELF? OK i am just a rookie at this but he was VERY smooth.
Want to teach your kids responsibilities? Give em chores, they have school etc. jam packing there schedules and not letting them be kids and turning them into mini adults is not what’s up
WIFE'S NOT LISTENING!!! Controlling woman. He also said that she's running the kids to death with so many activities. He's probably tried to talk to her. She doesn't listen. There's plenty of time to read to kids, do plenty. They're really putting the husband down. Therapy won't help. She doesn't listen.
Okay, yes she does need to prioritize her marriage. But he also has to open his fucking mouth and talk to her. There is nothing wrong with him that he can’t call a sitter and plan a date night.
Why isn’t anyone talking about, what she’s not doing for him? People talking bout him. If she acted the way a side honey would act, he would not look at any another honeys. 1. Sex, all the time, anytime, anywhere, do all kind of new things 2. Feed him, make new style of foods. Feed him all the time Guys are like a dog Treat him right, he won’t leave.
Daniel Bell this sound like one I heard a few weeks ago when it was the man who had the concerns and the wife had checked out. Me think 💭 it is a replay of that one with the roles reversed.
Why can't Ryan change his tactics every man already knows about Ryan's Roses. It's always the same line and way of doing this that men have caught on to it. Do something different
The classic you are only focused on the kids. Wow, great job on spinning it around her to play the victim and make her feel in the spotlight. He's grabbing for straws. He's cheating. She shouldn't be explaining herself. This is what he wanted. He's gaslighting.
Why do we give 5 and 6 year old ful time jobs... so dumb not ever kid needs to win a Cy Young. Plus telling you thing the 5 year old A level Soccer player is not going to win a scholarship. is not gonna get scholarship
A man who makes sure he spends time in his relationship with his wife and be a father to his kids and worked in a full time job will almost never be bored.
He was ignored by his wife multiple times. Relationships need to be recharged before they completely die out. Most husbands just want to relax with his wife.
This woman would rather he be cheating than her put in any effort to spice things up... SMH.
Being a parent comes first but you still have to make time for your relationship with your spouse. When they're grown and gone you still have to be with each other. Let it fizzle out now and you'll never make it.
I agree with Patty, fathers should be more involved in helping their wives when it comes to taking care of their children. It would be a whole lot easier for mothers to not feel overwhelmed when it comes to everything that they have going on such as if they have a job, cooking, cleaning, chores, giving the kids baths, putting them to bed, game practice ... that's a lot for one parent
shouldn't have had kids then
Especially in this case where he literally just says hes bored. That has gotta be so incredibly frustrating for the wife who never gets a chance to be bored.
Dog listening like : leave me out of this
This chick is clueless to his needs. Just because you have kids doesn't mean the world revolves around them. This is why kids these days are so entitled and expectant. Spend some alone time for goodness sake. Poor guy.
Kids do come first, but there is nothing wrong with getting a sitter to watch the brats so the wife and hubby can connect and reproduce another brat.
She does need to listen to him but he is just as much to blame for this situation as she is. He could call a sitter and plan a date night. He also has to make an effort in the relationship. Instead of taking off on his own and letting anger and resentment build.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 my son is my world but I believe in: 1. God 2. Self Care 3. Spouse (if your relationship is strong you’re gonna be great parents to your kids) 4. Kids 5. Everything Else!!
Love how he mentions he has a dog. Like that will make everything better. XD 👌
He's at least half checked out, and she's making excuses - sorry, but just because you have kids, you can't expect that your husband surrenders his own needs. Amber still sounds like she doesn't get it - whatever you did to get your man - that's what you have to do to keep him.
Exactly! The Bible states that you put your spouse over the children.
She isn't hearing him. This is how relationships fall apart
Shes going to loose him. Shes a bit over the top. Her husband is telling her what he would like and she could care less. It's obvious why he didnt tell her.
SOOOO, Let me try to understand this. He is depressed, so he gets new after shave, takes care of himself better, WORKS OUT........ to go to the movies BY HIMSELF?
OK i am just a rookie at this but he was VERY smooth.
It’s called taking care of yourself and having me time. Since there is no we time with the wife.
Her marriage will be dead and gone by the time she finally decides to acknowledge it again.
Yes it is important to spend time with your children, but you also need to spend time alone with each other.
Want to teach your kids responsibilities? Give em chores, they have school etc. jam packing there schedules and not letting them be kids and turning them into mini adults is not what’s up
My ex wife never wanted to go and leave the kids to spend time with each other
thats why so many couples get married and they dont even say to each others that i will be checking up on u all the time
He said this isn’t the life I chose, sir you’re married and have kids. If this isn’t the life you wanted you should have said that
Listen up boys
Don't ever put yourself in this position
Always use protection
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Yes!!! Kids ruin marriage!
This is good!!
Both needs to work at it, just cause you got kids doesn’t mean you leave your husband. Both need to communicate
She says she wishes he would’ve talked to her...but who called radio?
Keith do yourself a favor & leave! It won’t get better
He’s not going to the movies alone. She needs to start paying attention to his credit/debit card transactions.
How doesn’t everyone know about Ryan’s roses after14 years of having the Ryan’s roses
Ugghhh every time Ryan says "Bro or Bra" it makes me cringe like nails to a chalk board. Please Stop.
WIFE'S NOT LISTENING!!! Controlling woman. He also said that she's running the kids to death with so many activities. He's probably tried to talk to her. She doesn't listen.
There's plenty of time to read to kids, do plenty. They're really putting the husband down. Therapy won't help. She doesn't listen.
She's not hearing her husband
Okay, yes she does need to prioritize her marriage. But he also has to open his fucking mouth and talk to her. There is nothing wrong with him that he can’t call a sitter and plan a date night.
Marriage is over, she does not get it.
That’s not the point patty 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Why isn’t anyone talking about, what she’s not doing for him?
People talking bout him.
If she acted the way a side honey would act, he would not look at any another honeys.
1. Sex, all the time, anytime, anywhere, do all kind of new things
2. Feed him, make new style of foods. Feed him all the time
Guys are like a dog
Treat him right, he won’t leave.
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He is talking to you!!!!! he is telling you what is fucking wrong and you are refusing and guilt tripping him!!! make some time for him!!!
He should leave her
Amber sounds like a keeper. They're few and far between. What's this man thinking?
Daniel Bell this sound like one I heard a few weeks ago when it was the man who had the concerns and the wife had checked out. Me think 💭 it is a replay of that one with the roles reversed.
A wife who doesn't care about keeping it fresh and putting in an effort in YOU? This woman sounds like a nightmare.
Why can't Ryan change his tactics every man already knows about Ryan's Roses. It's always the same line and way of doing this that men have caught on to it. Do something different
The classic you are only focused on the kids. Wow, great job on spinning it around her to play the victim and make her feel in the spotlight. He's grabbing for straws. He's cheating. She shouldn't be explaining herself. This is what he wanted. He's gaslighting.
Just because your husband cheated on you does not mean everyone's husband cheats on them.
Why do we give 5 and 6 year old ful time jobs... so dumb not ever kid needs to win a Cy Young. Plus telling you thing the 5 year old A level Soccer player is not going to win a scholarship.
is not gonna get scholarship
I am so glad Patty is gone now.