BRINGING UP QUESTIONS: AN ENCOURAGING CONVERSATION WITH KELLY JO BATES, MOM OF 19!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @rebalynn3117
    @rebalynn3117 Год назад +466

    Where can we start a petition to get Kelly and Gil to start their own RUclips channel!? We just love them so much!!

    • @andreafelton689
      @andreafelton689 Год назад +10

      Trace & Lydia recently announced that on a recent video where Gill and Kelly spoke to them about parenting

    • @rebalynn3117
      @rebalynn3117 Год назад +1

      @@andreafelton689 Announced what?

    • @gracecochran4559
      @gracecochran4559 Год назад +5

      Yes!!

    • @ciaramc790
      @ciaramc790 Год назад +12

      ​@@rebalynn3117 Trace asked for people to leave comments if they wanted his parents to start a YT channel.. hopefully they will😊

    • @constanceglad32
      @constanceglad32 Год назад +12

      ​@@ciaramc790 They would have so much to share ❤

  • @margaretm9028
    @margaretm9028 Год назад +17

    I could listen to Mama Bates ALL DAY LONG. ❤

  • @SkySilver777
    @SkySilver777 Год назад +30

    I’ve commented this before but the q&a are my favorite videos!!! So much wisdom from a seasoned mother. We young moms with few role models need role models like these

  • @brendanelkins8524
    @brendanelkins8524 Год назад +31

    I just want to say that you guys are really amazing! God bless you Chad and Erin! GO BATES!!!! 😊😊😊

  • @krisrobert415
    @krisrobert415 Год назад +5

    I love "Mamma Bates" and this very special question and answer. What a privilege to hear her words of wisdom! Thanks for sharing Erin 💞

  • @Kathi-vx3sh
    @Kathi-vx3sh Месяц назад

    Every encouraging ❤

  • @amandanowak5763
    @amandanowak5763 Год назад

    I sure miss Bringing up Bates!! This video was too short, I could listen all day. Thank you💕

  • @heathermartin8918
    @heathermartin8918 Год назад +1

  • @denisediangelo1902
    @denisediangelo1902 Год назад

    Love your family

  • @cindyjohnson5581
    @cindyjohnson5581 Год назад +1

    ❤👍

  • @rebekahshamash-gadd8713
    @rebekahshamash-gadd8713 Год назад

    I used brown sugar water when my babies had issues, then I weaken the Sugar water until it was just water and it worked everytime. And please get therapy for you hand it will be so worth it. Damaged ligaments are so much worse than a sprain or break. God bless you all x

    • @conniecravens6270
      @conniecravens6270 Год назад +2

      I think you meant to post this comment on Travis & Katie's video 👍🙏

  • @susanconyers7742
    @susanconyers7742 3 месяца назад

    GILL AND KELLY
    PLEASE START A YOU TUBE CHANNEL
    GOD GAVE YOU A WONDERFUL GIFT IN LIFE. NOW HIS CHILDREN ARE READY TO HEAR THE WORDS OF WISDOM FROM YOU BOTH..PLEASE WE ARE HERE AND HUNGRY FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF LIFE.
    FATHER, PLEASE LAY ON THEIR HEARTS TO SPEAK TO ALL YOUR CHILDREN. IN JESUS NAME, , AMEN KELLY REMEMBER, YOU SAID YOU WOULD LET GOD DECIDE HOW MANY CHILDREN YOU 2 WOULD HAVE. WELL,PRAISE GOD NOW YOU DON'T HAVE JUST 19 KIDS,YOU NOW HAVE 1000S OF CHILDREN ON YOU TUBE. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR IN JESUS NAME
    LAUGHING GOD BLESS YOU ALL
    SUSIE

  • @KatieLogen
    @KatieLogen Год назад +265

    Your mom should write a parenting book! Thank you for sharing her wisdom with us ❤

    • @leehoffman5275
      @leehoffman5275 Год назад +10

      Your mom looks beautiful. She doesn't seem to age.

    • @brookidy
      @brookidy Год назад +2

      Yes!!!

    • @tracydixon4522
      @tracydixon4522 Год назад +2

      She needs to write her own devotional book for Mom's

    • @MyVlogTherapy
      @MyVlogTherapy Год назад

      Yes just a life skills book 👏🏽

  • @shotkallah
    @shotkallah Год назад +146

    Oh she needs a weekly podcast. She has so much wisdom

  • @evaowens1400
    @evaowens1400 Год назад +104

    I love how your Mom gives each of her loved ones a tribute on their birthdays....it's always so positive and loving, plus, it's obvious she knows everyone really well....she sees the inside qualities of everyone.

    • @mauricekatoen2720
      @mauricekatoen2720 Год назад +3

      I was thinking the exact same thing! It really show just how much she knows all of her children so well.

  • @jodis6234
    @jodis6234 Год назад +127

    There needs to be more Kelly Jo's in the world.

    • @suestephan3255
      @suestephan3255 Год назад

      I will second that. The best Mom cheer leader.😊

  • @kathleencasella4703
    @kathleencasella4703 Год назад +33

    Kelly what an inspiration you are.

  • @candeebishop5736
    @candeebishop5736 Год назад +25

    Your Mom is so precious! Her values and Love for Jesus has never wavered. I don't know how she does it with 19 kids!

  • @jenniferpeterson6617
    @jenniferpeterson6617 Год назад +23

    You have such a blessing in both your mom and your mother-in-law

  • @reetayoung
    @reetayoung Год назад +23

    I love her birthday posts for her kids.I don't know how she finds so much to say

    • @slee7991
      @slee7991 Год назад

      Did I miss it? What birthday posts?

  • @reapwhatyousow9163
    @reapwhatyousow9163 Год назад +50

    Mama Bates needs to write a book!

  • @SunshineBloom777
    @SunshineBloom777 Год назад +2

    Will Mrs Bates write a parenting book 🌷🤍

  • @Aliebalie16
    @Aliebalie16 Год назад +21

    I love how y’all focused on not being negative or complaining about your kids, because as a woman who struggles with recurrent pregnancy loss it is so heartbreaking and irritating to me to hear moms complaining about their kids.

    • @edithfarr3879
      @edithfarr3879 Год назад +1

      Hang in there. The Lord knows the desires of your heart.

  • @marisacassini3732
    @marisacassini3732 Год назад +15

    More Kelly please ! She is just a fountain of wisdom and encouragement for us moms ! Erin , you are so blessed to have her for your mama !

  • @kindnessmatters4068
    @kindnessmatters4068 Год назад +13

    ♡Aww! Love your Momma, Erin! I heard a interview your brother Trace and Lydia did with your parents, about why they had so many children... it was SO good!!! ♡♡

  • @TheKimberlyrider
    @TheKimberlyrider Год назад +18

    Your mom is the most encouraging! Love her so much

  • @lindadaniels2525
    @lindadaniels2525 Год назад +67

    I don't know how anyone else feels about this
    I admire how Gil and Kelly has raised their children and how they support their children.
    These two wonderful parents is not controlling or domineering like Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar
    Gil and Kelly has a close bond with their children
    I miss Bring Up Bates cause I miss seeing this wonderful faithful family

  • @alak325
    @alak325 Год назад +3

    Erin, I'd love you're perspective on your Dad stating its a wives fault for not being supportive enough of her husband having an affair? Do you also believe this? When for instance Josh duggar had affairs was it really Annas fault? Or was it Josh's self entitled behaviour and his responsibility for his own actions, really interested in you're perspective thanks?

  • @rachelmaples9692
    @rachelmaples9692 Год назад +12

    ❤ I believe that's how God sees each of His children too. He sees our unique qualities. Love this

  • @GenerationX3333
    @GenerationX3333 Год назад +8

    Oh my goodness! Kelly Jo and Erin are so wonderful and lovely and graceful and Gorgeous

  • @righteousnessofgodinchrist5555
    @righteousnessofgodinchrist5555 Год назад +6

    Mama B your Joy (and your family's Joy.. thank you Jesus) is the reason we are still wanting to be a part of Your families' journeys, so thank you very much. Yes your family is a Positive Blessing and a Big Reflection of Y'all....thank you, thank you God has Blessed All Y'all and your content is Positive and Family Friendly so Thank you So Much!!!🤗
    P.S. Great Job Erin!

  • @juliegeddes2089
    @juliegeddes2089 Год назад +7

    Will watch live! Loved the interview with Chad’s mom, and also Trace’s interview with your parents. I’m trying to work on prepping meals like Chad’s mom recommended and get that cookbook! Excited to watch this interview :).

  • @janetmcburney4582
    @janetmcburney4582 Год назад +10

    I particularly am amazed with the tributes she writes to eachbof her children/their spouses and grand children.

  • @becca603
    @becca603 Год назад +8

    Your videos have to be my favorite! Your family is so enjoyable to watch and to me the vlogs are so relaxing and wholesome!

  • @christinan7183
    @christinan7183 Год назад +9

    She is a wealth of knowledge and so humble

  • @michelerucker3755
    @michelerucker3755 Год назад +9

    Erin you are so blessed to have such a lovely and godly mother❤️👵😇

    • @michelerucker1426
      @michelerucker1426 Год назад

      Woah….I did a double take and wondered when I commented already 😂

  • @lindaphillips4956
    @lindaphillips4956 Год назад +7

    Thank you for sharing the wonderful wisdom of your mom with us. I know looking back myself on raising my children there are things I would like to have changed. I know as I watch my grandchildren grow that I am trying to make the best decision for them now. Mrs. Bates thank you for being such a wonderful blessing and sharing with us. You need to sit down and start working on writing and series of books about all the different things you do and know.

  • @janhoup
    @janhoup Год назад +6

    Kelly is such an inspiration to women everywhere!! Jesus shines through her !!!!

  • @jeanbroman4814
    @jeanbroman4814 Год назад +7

    What a loving and kind woman you are Kelly. You are surely an inspiration on how to be a Mother.

  • @genevievekelly4998
    @genevievekelly4998 Год назад +8

    What a great video❤

  • @lisaherring7725
    @lisaherring7725 Год назад +5

    Ms. Kelly, please please start your own channel. You have so much wisdom to offer. Your words have such conviction and the ability to help and to heal. We need more people like you in this world and we need more moms who have been through the years of raising children. I know you don’t want to be on camera but you have the ability through your meekness to change a whole generation. We are loosing women like you to a modern world. Thank you for considering it.

  • @ringsha9569
    @ringsha9569 Год назад +3

    You know, I'm not a mom, but I'm going through Chemotherapy right now and I'm choosing gratitude and focusing on blessings every day. I agree. It makes a huge difference!! ❤

  • @blancallara1719
    @blancallara1719 Год назад +5

    Erin you have an amazing mom. She's so down to earth and has so much normal beautiful advice, I could listen to her for hours. No wonder you are such a wonderful woman of God!! ❤❤

  • @betheldridge2403
    @betheldridge2403 Год назад +7

    I love Kelly Jo! Thank you for sharing her wisdom with us.

  • @connihudson1578
    @connihudson1578 Год назад +3

    I'm 71. I listen to these wise words. My reminder to encourage moms to take your godly advise is this: you will not get a do-over! And it can be the saddest while you have to wait for the Lord to undo what you messed up.❤

  • @suefriesen1161
    @suefriesen1161 Год назад +9

    This was wonderful

  • @beachgranny8355
    @beachgranny8355 Год назад +5

    I love Kelly Jo❤️. She has so much encouraging, great advice.

  • @Coopertheminipoodle
    @Coopertheminipoodle Год назад +6

    I feel like you 2 are the example of a Godly woman. ❤

  • @maryjoleverette1558
    @maryjoleverette1558 Год назад +5

    I just want to see them return to a weekly show like before! It was just THE BEST thing on tv! 😢😊❤

  • @eaglinarth123
    @eaglinarth123 Год назад +3

    I’m 42 years old homeschooling my three teen girls l have five kids the older two are young adults l must say Kelly you have helped me in so many ways, lm so encouraged by your words. I love having Bible study with my girls. My husband does weekly devotions with the whole family.
    Kelly Joe can you talk about teen and young adults kids. Have a bless day and thanks Erin l really enjoyed this video🙏🏾😊

  • @franceszayas7005
    @franceszayas7005 Год назад +7

    It is always a blessing hearing you, your husband's and your parents advice and learning experiences. I have learned so much from all of you and wish I would of have this advices when I was raising my kids. I feel like things would be so much different and better... not that is bad at the moment but I would of teach my kids so much more and equip them more with the word and love of God. God bless you all!

  • @ReeseJ.
    @ReeseJ. Год назад +1

    I miss bringing up bates I watch reruns all the time bc it encourages so much…. I love the way Erin talks she does not sound like she’s from TN. Lol she sounds more like eastern or cali but not country I’m from the country I wish I could adopt her accent and get rid of mine lol much love to all of the bates !!!!🎉❤

  • @elizabetharias9876
    @elizabetharias9876 Год назад +9

    How does it feel to have so many blessings (kids) ❤ God bless you all

  • @jenisecoronado5555
    @jenisecoronado5555 Год назад +4

    I so wish I had been raised by people like Kelly Jo and Gil Bates. You are such wonderful examples and your children are all so outstanding, each in their own way. My parents were the opposite. The world would be a whole different place if children had parents that cherished and loved them the way you do! I agree with everyone I see and hear... Kelly Jo and Gil are so missed! I wish we could watch you on a new program or forum! Erin, you and Chad are doing an awesome job with your kids too....following in your excellent parents' footsteps!

  • @Quilter1970
    @Quilter1970 Год назад +5

    You guys should put all these things in a book. It would be a best seller

  • @candy.yankovska
    @candy.yankovska Год назад +1

    Hi Erin,
    I appreciate your mom so much.
    Loving tip: it kinda felt like you were rushing thru the questions and answers. I think most viewers would love if you took more time, made the videos longer. Especially so that we could hear more from your mom.
    Love and Blessings🥰🦋🩵

  • @toliveischrist3330
    @toliveischrist3330 Год назад +5

    How lucky you are, Erin, to have Kelly as your mom! ❤

  • @carolwhisenhunt7504
    @carolwhisenhunt7504 Год назад +1

    Erin you are a mini Kelly. I love Kelly. She's an amazing lady. Kelly, you blessed me so much today. Ty for sharing from your heart. I love the Bates family and all the in laws. Be blessed.

  • @tinaauten3185
    @tinaauten3185 Год назад +1

    I don’t like this video….I LOVE it!!!! Kelly Jo is SO inspirational! I took notes about things that struck me and resonated with me! Simply fabulous! Thank you for sharing her wisdom.

  • @tami162
    @tami162 Год назад +4

    Kelly as has the best advice! I wish she would start her own RUclips channel so we could see her more!

  • @becca603
    @becca603 Год назад +4

    Wow wish I had Mrs.Bates wisdom when I was raising my babies💜

  • @seventhdayissabbath8747
    @seventhdayissabbath8747 Год назад +2

    Raising children falls mostly on the mom and is a ministry unto itself, they have a huge responsibility in how the child's outlook on life is and how they grow up to be productive adults...
    Mamma Kelly went to God and gives God the glory when she was overwhelmed, we can take a lesson in that for everything in life.. Go to God, he will help!!

  • @christydavenport1259
    @christydavenport1259 Год назад +1

    I love Momma Bates outlook on negativity. I remember when I was pregnant feeling so sick and this one night my husband and friend from church wanted to go eat Mexican of all things. I really didn’t wanna go but I pushed myself and just getting out of the house and fellowshipping made me feel so much better!

  • @connieploeger3704
    @connieploeger3704 Год назад +2

    I just the love the q&a with your mom. I wish I would have had her advice when I was a first time mom and thru the years. She is a special lady

  • @grandmalisa796
    @grandmalisa796 Год назад +1

    Doesn't the IBLP require women to have smiles on their faces?

  • @kellystart6249
    @kellystart6249 Год назад +1

    I’m sorry but the term ‘broken home’ is outdated and harmful! No child should feel like they live in a broken home. Relationships break down for many reasons, for example, abuse and it’s more damaging for a child to grow up in that environment. Single parents can provide a happy home! It’s not broken.

  • @ew2626
    @ew2626 Год назад +3

    Something I adore about Kelly Jo is her humility. She never says she has the answers, she truly just wants to love and help. Love always to the Bates and Paine family!❤

  • @deborahhopper2682
    @deborahhopper2682 Год назад +3

    God Bless Momma B! Love her so much! Thanks for Sharing her knowledge with us! Love Y’all! Love and Prayers Always

  • @reetayoung
    @reetayoung Год назад +4

    Love your Mom (and you!) 💝

  • @briannamckeehan6919
    @briannamckeehan6919 Год назад +3

    The world needs more mothers like Kelly. She is a special person you can tell a lot by a person s voice and the way they speak. She just sounds so comforting and like a soft place to fall. Her demeanor has definitely rubbed off on her children. What a special family you all have.

  • @jeanneleliakov3609
    @jeanneleliakov3609 Год назад +3

    What a wonderful blessing. Your parents have such a wonderful testimony through all of you children who have your own shows with spouses & now your children. Please continue having them on more often because they have so much wisdom to share in this crazy world. Also would love to see your dad, miss seeing him! Blessings , Jeanne

  • @KatieB-qv5jl
    @KatieB-qv5jl Год назад +3

    This was so beautiful! I want to be like Kelly one day!❤️ I have 4 children and it’s hard to be positive at times!

  • @noraredpath8194
    @noraredpath8194 Год назад +5

    What a beautiful family !

  • @chrissym9697
    @chrissym9697 Год назад +1

    Erin and Kelly I truly thank you for this video. I so pray many expectant mamas watch this..I grew up with a very mentally unwell mother, although I love and appreciate her for what she sacrificed for me, she was very down and stressed all the time. She was also insecure and I tried to be different as a mother but did not have the Lord in my life. My children are young adults and it's never too late to change, I have many health struggles and often lately find myself being more down than I wish, this has been a blessing for me to see as I am now a Christian and know that my Lord and Savior loves me, Thank you both again

  • @walkingtrails7776
    @walkingtrails7776 Год назад +2

    When your husband loves you as much as Gil loves Kelly ...its easy for a woman to flourish! Praise God for Godly men!!

  • @laurale8299
    @laurale8299 Год назад +3

    How can anyone not appreciate and love your mom. She always has great advice. Both of you are precious mothers. Enjoyed the vlog!

  • @ritaturner9906
    @ritaturner9906 Год назад +2

    Two beautiful women. Love the bright pink shirt. ❤ OMG your mom would have been a great boss. The way she talked about praising kids and encouraging their strengths and at same time working on their weaknesses and how kids are insecure and you need positivity. All that plays in workplace. Bosses tend to focus on the “golden worker” and not encouraging, building up, praising the other workers. It leads to low morale, animosity in workplace. I was raised by a mom who was very angry, hateful, strict, mean and never hugged or kissed us. I tend to be negative and judgmental and it is so hard to break. Plus I’ve been through so much, I feel like I can’t take any more and wonder when good things will happen. Everyone judges me at work because I’m not thin or pretty. Family dynamics are a mess. I try to love, forgive, be appreciative of all I have. I didn’t know Gil had dark hair when younger. So many of the kids have blonde hair. Thank you for saying you are not perfect. I did the best I could and wish I could redo some things. I definitely didn’t have a connection being a single parent. And people looked down on single parents like if it was their fault.

  • @crystalretzena5360
    @crystalretzena5360 Год назад +5

    Do you guys want to start filming your lives again for up faith and family? is there anyone that don't like to be filmed? # love you guys so much # your family is such a big inspiration ❤❤❤

  • @erictackettproductions28
    @erictackettproductions28 Год назад +1

    That's awesome... and I got to witness that in your family when you're all young... and we were raised the same. 📖

  • @melmil9836
    @melmil9836 Год назад +2

    I actually find it a bit sad when Kelly said if a Mum is upset or depressed you shouldn’t show it to your kids. That means that you need to hide every emotion from your children, how in turn are they supposed to grow up and know that it’s okay to not be okay. Personally l think it’s healthy for our children to see us at our most vulnerable, then they can always come to us when things in their life are not going good.

    • @juliekeast6175
      @juliekeast6175 6 месяцев назад

      Children also know when an adult is faking happiness, they can tell when mum or dad are putting on an act.

  • @rhondarichmond9259
    @rhondarichmond9259 Год назад +3

    You both are amazing people the love you have for god and your kids is just amazing I wish I had your mama I grew up in a foster home never felt that love Eric your blessed

  • @chelseatroy6175
    @chelseatroy6175 Год назад +4

    Mama Bates is so encouraging!! Loved this conversation Erin.

  • @vikkikilis1285
    @vikkikilis1285 Год назад +3

    I pray that your mom would have her own channel filled with her wisdom about being a wife, mother, friend, grandmother, etc. The wisdom she shared in this video was such a blessing.

  • @shirleyfreeman7101
    @shirleyfreeman7101 Год назад +3

    Kelly Jo is such a wonderful blessing praise God Bless you all

  • @joanneschwartz3753
    @joanneschwartz3753 Год назад +2

    Erin, you are so blessed to have such a wonderful mom! Thank you for sharing this video! I love your family! ❤️🙏

  • @lilywelch-new4369
    @lilywelch-new4369 Год назад +1

    Where did she get that pink top? I'd love to have one too!

  • @darlagoodman6417
    @darlagoodman6417 Год назад +2

    I absolutely LUV Kelly Bates. She is such a Ray of SUNSHINE. I Wish She had a Women's Motivational vlog❤️🙏

  • @meganpepper787
    @meganpepper787 Год назад +4

    I love momma B. There is so much wisdom she gives to others to learn from. ♥

  • @judyplante9276
    @judyplante9276 Год назад +3

    I miss your Mom & Dad so much. Your family is such an inspiration to us all!

  • @edithfarr3879
    @edithfarr3879 Год назад +4

    The mom is the heart ❤️ of the home.

  • @teresahunter7645
    @teresahunter7645 Год назад +2

    I love this SO much! I don't have children of my own, but work with children age 6 wks to 12 years! God help me to have that positive attitude...choose positivity over negativity! You both are a wealth of knowledge, and are beautiful inside and out! God bless you all! 💜🙏

  • @missygonzalez9185
    @missygonzalez9185 Год назад +2

    Thank you for the advice Momma B!🙏

  • @papaapple93
    @papaapple93 Год назад +1

    What a wonderful Question and Answer video Erin and Kelly Jo did! I would love to see Gill and Kelly Jo have their own RUclips channel I love listening to Kelly’s wisdom and her stories she has such a sweet and beautiful family

  • @karenwest2670
    @karenwest2670 Год назад +1

    Erin, I appreciate the way you call children, children. They are not kids, little goats. I wish we would all call them children. I try very hard to do that and I appreciate it when I hear it.

  • @tpenquin.
    @tpenquin. Год назад +2

    Erin, thank you for doing this with your mom! I really miss the show!! She has such wisdom, what a wonderful family! Erin, you and Chad are so blessed to have such a beautiful family.

  • @mercedesharp7681
    @mercedesharp7681 Год назад +1

    I wish your parents would write a parenting book

  • @roseannraupp6623
    @roseannraupp6623 Год назад +2

    There is so much wisdom that Kelly shared. She was and continues to be a shining example and role model to her children and grandchildren. I appreciate Kelly and Erin having this sit down and sharing wisdom with us all. Thank you Kelly Jo and Erin ♥️♥️

  • @suestephan3255
    @suestephan3255 Год назад +1

    What a blessing from God to have a Mom that listened to God, hearing God encourage her. Jelly wa the woman God chose to bless with children 19x’s😀

  • @janetsharpe9558
    @janetsharpe9558 Год назад +2

    How much better the world would be if all parents would praise their children like Gil and Kelly . Had to be hard raising so many, but shows how much love was given the way they all turned out. Love Gil's ministry from his church. I also go to a Baptist church and watch his church on RUclips.

  • @AbiNomac
    @AbiNomac Год назад +12

    How did she have 19 children for which some are adults and be that young? Wow. God bless her.

    • @andreafelton689
      @andreafelton689 Год назад +2

      The religion let's them release stress. Let go and let god = young and fresh! It's why we all should be religious (in healthy way like these people)

    • @quinoasongs2507
      @quinoasongs2507 Год назад +3

      I think she said she was 22 when Zach was born. And doing the math, she was about 45 or 46 when Jeb was born. She'd now be about mid-late 50s; boy does she look good!

    • @AbiNomac
      @AbiNomac Год назад +3

      @@quinoasongs2507 - Yes. Her positive attitude might be the reason.