yea same in the last 9 years of my life i have had 1 male friend and even that's a huge stretch as we rarely saw each other in person he moved to Germany a few months back so yea
relatable, I ended up being one of them. College days were the best, we could go on for hours. After graduation, we all ended up with jobs. Some of them got married, and just like that we all lost touch with each other without realising it. 🥲
To put light on this depressing situation, one of my friends that were offline for over 10 years DID login finally some weeks ago, nothing serious they just got wrapped up in life and college. It's relieving to know nothing bad happened.
31 here, I never had a gf. Grew up in a relatively strict household where I wasn't allowed to have a gf. As time went on I cared less about having a relationship since I don't find myself ever feeling lonely. And with how out of control today's dating seems to have become I'd rather focus on myself. I have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy and 2 best friends who I always hang out with. But unfortunately one of them passed away.
It makes catching up with them and talking about the old days that much more enjoyable. Everyone gets a bit more selfish with their time as they get older, but not in a bad way. Just simply not enough time in the day and trying to be successful enough to fulfill yourself doesn't fall into your lap. I see the boys a few times a year and it's always a blast. Planning a yearly camping trip, birthday party, or sporting event is a good way to go.
yea that's me you see people walking together now i don't begrudge them but i do always think i wonder what that's like I'm 25 never had a girlfriend hell I've never even kissed a woman before as for why a huge part of it is an ongoing struggle with depression ever since i was 12 years old it's been worse but it's kinda like while i am through the worst of it I've fallen out of civilization and am so unbelievably far behind in human development i don't even know if it's possible to catch up at this point it's not that it's too late for me but for guys the tough reality is once you turn 18 every year your still a virgin after that it will become harder and harder to lose it so that is always my advice to guys use protection and as long as it's consensual lose your virginity asap just get it out of the way the longer you wait the harder it's gonna get
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 I'm 32 this month and I had similar issues to yours in my late teens and 20's and didn't lose my V till I was 28 in a one night stand by chance. Modernity is the cause of our mental illness and yet we are gaslighted into thinking we are the ones at fault and not modernity. One thing which helps me and might be useful to you is to not dwell on your circumstance and accept we are living in the entropy of modernity, but you can still build yourself up as an opposition to that entropy through whatever skills and interests you have, or just go to the gym like i do. Peace
Most people don't go anywhere alone if they can help it like even at the gym it seems like most people go with their friends at least. When I was a student people would even go shopping for groceries together.
One of the enormous limitations imposed by our mind is the constant comparison with others. It wears us down to the point of changing and even destroying us. The final part of this video shows this very objectively
I mean, his friends don't seem too comfortable on their relationships and seem to lack freedom. Are they really happy? Wojak should've picked up on that. You don't need A relationshiop. You need THE relationship, one that is not like his friends'.
What? Have you never been in a relationship? They were portrayed actually really well… it’s said that’s what you consider “lack of freedom.” They both seemed to be in perfectly happy and regular relationships with boundaries and compromise.
Wait til you're 26 and they're married 💀 Nowadays its mainly solo dolo for me as i wage and hit the gym then go home and chill on the computer. Life comes at you fast.
26 as well and my friends that are married have hit the wall hard. Balding fat depressed etc. The wives all ballooned up to 250+ lbs. id rather be single than have that. Still looking for gf though. Was going to ask out my gym crush actually and was talking to her a few days ago when i noticed she just got a huge arm tattoo. Its so over. She was the ONLY normal girl id seen in forever then she goes and gets tatted. Lost all interest immediately
I’m 26 too. Single. Every one of my good friends has a gf. I’ve been single since I was 19. Sucks. Guess it’ll take the burden of having a family away at least
people just live in fantasies these days. I learned that friendships never last when I was just a kid. Your daily best friends will be acquaintances when you get older. this is just life and the sooner you realize this the better. why do you think your grandpa spends so much time with you?
Freindships are mostly just circumstantial you make freinds at school because you're all forced there together and you get along with some people as its fun and makes time pass quicker. I don't speak to anyone I went to school with I occasionally bump into the odd person and thats it. Work is the same you're in a shit job together and get along and have a laugh to make time pass quicker. Freinds for life are few and far between. Nothing wrong with work freinds either but most of the time its only a work thing.
“I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.” ― Robin Williams
I know it's hard same for me but they also have a life. I know movies series animation shows us a wonderful life full of excitement and all that but if that were we wouldn't be watching them. Guys stay strong I know it's hard and tiring this is same for me but you gotta fight and treat yourself with care. They also have a life.
@Aryan_Gentleman_ That's just because of biology. We are more than just biology. So stop judging others if they are failing or not. You are acting just like a hypocritical christian.
@@boaowov8779He is not failing because; 1-He is aryan, a highborn, a purebred that is genetically superior to us plebs. 2-He is a gentleman. Thus culminating into a perfect being that we all love and respect; The Aryan Gentelman 🥹 (whatamacallit).
Chasing others is like chasing a train that never stops, nobody cares about you or your feelings they all use u when it suits them and then disappear into thin air. 😢
Nailed it. After 30+ years of work in production, I cannot think of ONE individual who appeared before me who solely had the intention of being there simply because they believed in my work, ethics, accomplishments, projects, etc. They always WANTED something. Once they got that (or discovered that I wouldn't give them what they desired), they bounced like a rubber ball on asphalt.
All motion is relative. Maybe you think they drifted apart from you but maybe it's some of you guys that made the distance by standing still. Priorities change in life. You can't fault someone because they didn't want to play the same boring game every weekend.
The moment I turned 20, everyone around me - especially on campus and in my own friend group - suddenly had boyfriends and girlfriends. Sickening, really.
Oh wojak I feel you're pain. I'm 38 and single. Never had a relationship before. But you get used to it and it's actually nice being free to travel whenever you want to
It's best to accomplish objectives alone anyhow. That way, *NO ONE* can ever swoop in to claim "Hey, ya see that? He's successful because of ME". 💪😎✌️ If you do the work yourself (or, whatever; 90% or more), then that places you in a position which differs from the majority of people on the planet. Discipline. Consistency. Deadlines. Creativity. Reflection. Repeat. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
Being married I can definitely agree with that sentiment. Being free to travel, game, buy whatever is not so bad lol Not that I'm miserable married either, it's just definitely a tradeoff.
i'm 42 years old, and this is me. FORTY TWO years old. people ive known have long married and some of their kids are now nearly in their teenage years. and i still cant get a partner. its soul destroying.
Well, I’m 43 and married with kids and my life isn’t peaches. I’m always on the verge of divorce it seems and often feel stressed out of my mind. I dream of being single again like before I got married, how simpler life was then. But I’m past the point of no return; just saying my life sucks too very often, and just being married doesn’t make you happy, other people just assume you are.
Yo im a 13 years old and i hope you be happy, try to find happiness in the simple things in life. Life is very precious and already being alive is very beautiful. But i hope you find a wife or something like that, Remember that there is always someone you want to see happy and want to make you happy. I want! And you are a unique and incredible person, there is no one like you. YOU ARE SPECIAL.
Same. I’m 17 years old. Chances are I’ll suffer the same fate as you. And to be honest. Considering how shitty modern relationships tend to be, your probably better off.
honestly fr tho i ain't F****** 3rd wheeling this yea no seriously espicaly the scene where its his 2 friends and their girlfriends i would feel so unbelievably awkward in that situation because you just know the other 4 people at least once that dinner has thought huh X is the only single person he's there by himself sad
At first that seems like a great idea, but you're only further isolating yourself. Sure, some are actually bragging about their gf, but at that rate you'll just be spiteful and push away any people with dates. And eventually you'll isolate yourself even more than you were without a girlfriend
@@ahek_mt Agree. I’ll say Just go out with your friends and have a good time. Who knows, you might meet someone there that interests you. And if you didn’t, at least you had a good time.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 don't say the other four people. It's usually the women who think the one single guy friend is the weirdo. Guys are thinking to themselves how they wish they were still single 😂
Being 40, single, not wealthy, no car, no family, no girlfriend, no kids... in the bay area is the worst. People are so cold-hearts. This hit me in the soul.
I think for an average guy being single means no sex whereas in a relationship they can get laid occasionally - and that's the only reason I need to make me prefer relationships to singledom
Nah, all those social media images of those in relationships are only a facade. Once the camera is off, they argue and fight over what money should be spent on that week or bicker over meaningless things. Some married dudes are so whipped that they don’t even wear the pants in the relationship since they have more to lose if they stand up against their bossy wife. Go strong king! Remember, over 50% of marriages end up in divorce and it’s only getting higher!
I feel like everybody I know in my life has a partner and I’m always the odd one out when I’m around couples wherever I go. It’s like it’s within universe’s will for me to stay single and lonely for the rest of my life. I’m constantly being ostracized for not having someone, almost as if it’s illegal to be single. Sometimes I do enjoy the single life, but when I see happy couples having a great time together, I often feel like I’m missing out. I don’t know.. but at this point, I feel like I’m gonna have myself a date with the rope. Life’s too difficult…
Just keep going my friend, there is nothing that can outmatch your pure will to outshine your demons. I assure you that your time will come. Be patient, keep your head up and know that the creator has a plan for your life ❤️
Once you hit specific age - loneliness become easier to bear... Because you understand that in 40 you are already out of this relationship race and it is impossible to have a relationships of your dreams anymore...
Depends. For men, if they take care of themselves mentally, physically and financially, they can become The Nectar gods for all the girl bees to be attracted to them. Loneliness is easier to bear when you have a purpose. If not, make one. If cannot make one, FIND one. Gradually, rise above yourself and become a pillar to your society and culture. Raise kids with a woman for a brighter future for all of us.
I mean... the issue is people dedicate themselves so much to relationships nowadays it's crazy. It's like everyone's so desperate for one that once they find a relationship with a girl like both parties are inseparable. Like why can't you spare like a game night or god forbid two game nights a month with your homies?
Because many people are toxic as h311. Many of 'em want to micromanage *your* hours, and govern what you can or cannot do. It's a terrible trait; people become possessive, jealous, and fixated on what you do when you're NOT with them. Sadly, that represents a metric ton of individuals; they can't accept if you have a life of your own. Goals of your own. Projects which don't involve them. In all honesty, THAT is why nearly all of my partners freaked out on me. They HATED that I always had goals and objectives with or without them. But that's part of being an individual, and no one is permitted to take that from me. 💪😎✌️ No one can take the 30+ years of my accomplishments, and my current goals and achievements have nothing to do with them. If they can't live with that... TOO FLUNCKIN' BAD! GTFOH, lol. 😂🤣😂
It must be an American thing or something. In Sweden where i'm from, this is not an issue. Maybe it's the type of friends i have, but they'll never turn down a meet up with the boys just because their girls tell them to, and it's not like the girls usually have any objections or problems with it in the first place so they're not ever even made to choose.
Just found out my GF was cheating on me after months of me treating her right door dashing flowers to her house, and making her feel special. It really hurts to get cheated on by someone that you loved and held so dear. Its ok to be alone and not be in a relationship, enjoy being your own light and happiness.
Ay man been there people are shitty but that doesn’t mean you should give up on finding someone right for you. Big piece of advice don’t hold it against your future partner seen people do that and it always ruins what could have a been a healthy relationship.
This happened to me basically. All my friends stopped hanging out one by one because they all got girlfriends. Meanwhile I remained single praying one day they would come back again. It never happened.
At least you said some people are happy and not the whole idea was bound for disaster. But I would agree the wrong people stay together for way longer than they should and get roped into marriage.
After 30+ years of dating (and even marrying & divorcing once), I personally believe that most humans are too broken, selfish, brainwashed, and psychologically unstable to function "as a team". It just isn't plausible. And that's understandable to some extent because they usually have NO TRAINING in the disciplines required in order to function as a team. Instead, they're focused solely on themselves, and they contribute little to "the unit" (the two person team). This is unfortunate, but it's also a breakdown in society: most schools and parents do not TEACH teamwork... because they have no idea how it *functions*. 😂 And you can't teach what you don't have mastery over. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
I used to have many friends. Then it became one friend and we used to play computer games together. Then he said he is too busy to meet, even after many attemps across months. Now I don't have any friends and I find it hard to make new ones. Such is life...
Only when you’ve experienced the hell of marriage, you’ll be able to fully appreciate to be alone in your ampartment, feel the quiteness, enjoy beeing with yourself having your inner peace back.
People act like being single is the worst fate a person can have, but imo it goes Being in a relationship with the right person Being single Being with someone you're not right for/settling for fear of being alone
I don't know about that. Not "being right" for someone doesn't mean the relationship sucks necessarily. Abuse is what's worse than being alone. But how likely is an abusive relationship? That's the real question IMO
I bet, everyone’s life sucks it seems, just in different ways. I fight with my wife virtually everyday, it’s extremely stressful. I sometimes dream of being free, at least I would have peace. But I have kids and endure for them and the chance maybe it will improve. So what I’m saying is just having someone doesn’t make your life better or worse than being single.
Many humans are psychological vampires. They're broken, emotionally immature, and live off of base instincts and adrenaline in lieu of using their brains, ethics, compassion, and empathy (if they possess those at all).
26 here, i have never been in a relationship, never had a gf, just working on my buisness to be self employed...all my other friends are in relationship and some are gonna get married soon, honestly its feels empty but the work seems to pass the time..considering the current dating life its more dangerous to be in a relationship nowadays as people are shuffling each other...but i am slowly increasing my social skills to make new friends...so lets see the future...
Better alone that in bad company, don't feel bad if you don't have someone yet guys and gals, remember to focus on your family, hapiness and work, not to impress someone, but to improve your life, and goals, also give time to fitness and a good hobby, is for your sake, and please learn to say no.
I maybe meet 1 time a year for like 6 hours with my bros from high school we used to pull all nighters playing games then slowly each one lost interest in gaming due to chasing woman around this is way too relatable.
Take it from someone who got into a relationship with an abuser with BPD, "just having a relationship" is a bar that's way too low and a goal that's not worth achieving. If you must, see that first relationship as practice.
I dont mind being single at all but watching that brought me the memory of losing a best friend to a girlfriend and ever since I've hated him with a burning passion for that... No I'm not being jealous,I legit tried to be happy for him finding his girl but I couldnt knowing that that person is the sole reason he left me out in the cold...
I know there are people in relationships/marriages that are happy and it absolutely is a good for both of them. However, we all know the truth in the majority of relationships- abuse, infidelity, jealousy, arguing, nagging, humiliation, etc....in most relationships you are trading time or resources for sex. And it could be said that's what's happening in all relationships. Some of us just aren't put together in a way that is conducive to initiating, and more importantly, maintaining romantic relationships.
After 30+ years of "relationships", I became infinitely exhausted of having to solve my partners' problems or to be their emotional punching bag. It made me disappointed with humanity in general; most individuals don't comprehend the word "teamwork" in any way, shape, nor form. They all think that they're "John McClane" or "Rambo" or something. Especially the females. They'll claim to be "bad arse beotchez", but fold like a flunckin' card table at the weakest sign of turmoil or a challenge. It's embarrassing. 🙄
Let me tell you as a married man, NEVER get married to crazy. This is easier said than done of course as most women conceal their craziness until after they got you trapped. Don’t marry stupid either, but this may be impossible. So basically don’t get married.
Being single is a mindset, you are yourself no matter where you are or who you’re with. Not having a significant other may be lonely at times, but if you take the moments for yourself to do something meaningful and act with a positive attitude you’ll find those moments are few in the long run.
You need to see to positive side! No relationship means: - no financial burden - no child support - no arguments - no vacation on places you hate - you can meet with who ever you want - you can do whatever you want - you have your peace, if needed - you can play as much as you want - you can eat what ever you want - you don't need to argue about which car you buy - you don't settle problems, that aren't yours - you don't have problems, you would have - you are not responsible for what your partner is interpreting, but what you never said - no tears - no shouting - no silly demands I just see upsides on being single.
feck I'm only 25 and reading this i can tell i got a long way to go sigh no but that's the depressing as shit reality if i don't end my own life or get a girlfriend i probably got at least another 50 years to go man that sucks
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 no worries man, its dialectical You miss out something, but you also gain something. Pros and cons, you know I dont regret my life in that regard
I had a date just cancel our dinner plans for this weekend. Apparently I didn't text her enough, so I must not have really been interested? I thought people wanted their space. No big deal, I'll find another victim.
Every person is different and you have no way of knowing how to curtail yourself to them. Keep being yourself, and reflect if you can if you have obvious behaviors you want to change to better reflect the best version of yourself. Onto the next. It's okay to feel upset about it but don't take it personally. Not because it may or may not be your fault, but because the only way forward is you to keep the determination to keep trying. Best of luck wojack anon
Huge red flag if anyone randomly pops up with emotionally vampiric messages like that. Avoid, and be glad that they self-destructed BEFORE you became involved! 💪😎✌️
Honestly you should be happy that anyone who's immature like that canceled it right off the bat so you saved your time and energy. If a girl constantly are trying to play "games" and make you pass some "tests", it's better to just move on. Those people are not worthy of your time.
Theres was a time friendships and relationships were sacred. These days you'll break up a relationship over the pettiest of things. That's why I'm a lone wolf now.
in my teens and early 20s i used to always hang out with my group of 3-6 guys , we were all competitive gamers and used to travel together out of state for tournaments. Nowadays in our mid to late 30s , im the only one still gaming competitively as a single dad while most of them are in relationships or just stopped gaming all together. Ive made new gaming homies over the recent years but nothing beats the times i had hanging out with my OG homies. Ive def become more of a loner type these past few years.
All my gamer friends became toxic and shit got real and now we don't talk anymore, they are all still single, it's just shit got so personal/hateful over discord chats the relationships just expired
@@yeee321 Yea i got a few of those from my OG crew , one of my childhood bestfriends / gaming team mate used to talk really bad shi* about me behind my back. Nowadays i rarely trust dudes because of the b.s i dealt with with him
I completely relate to that last scene. 37 now. All my friends and roommates from college are all married and have kids. The more I stay single the more impossible it seems to be able to live a life like them. Growing together with a spouse seems increasingly unfeasible.
My 1st relationship was full of abuse, untrust, despair and insanity. 2 years later I still cant get over it. My trust issues are out of the roof. I cant keep longer contact with any woman. I think its really over
Hey man. Don't feel that way. It sounds lame but become you're own best friend. I'm 34 and basically future you. Women will come and go. Do what makes you happy. Its just fomo man relationships are sinking like the titanic in 2024. Just focus on you and make yourself happy.
Damn, that hit hard. I am 26yo, living with parents (still), no girlfriend, some health issues, no luck in womans, only friends are from job and I have no other friends... damn, i am sad...
This happened with my friend group. They more or less pushed out the guys who stayed single, especially against renters in the group once house values went up. It's so sad. I was pushed out once my relationship ended and I started dating younger women. lol Oh well! I got my travels, hobbies and live a pretty low-stress life. I will never do the comparison game or keep up with the Joneses. I'm not too good for a dive bar and could care less what people think. I might be the only one left from my group who thinks this way, but at least I stood for something.
This video made me even more incel -ish. Lol. Why cant we find a girlfriend that likes the same stuff as us? Video games, anime, horror movies, have pizza nights with. Seriously, this video is ticking me off lol
Part 2 - Fast forward to the friends getting screwed in family court, no access to their kids because of false allegations, lost all their money in divorce, high blood pressure from work, sitting in a bedsit or worse. One is still married but has an addiction from years of emotional abuse. Wojak meanwhile made peace with his situation. He even got disciplined. He eventually met someone, but on his terms. He still has time to game. His life wasn't ruined. He no longer misses those friends. Maybe he'll even have kid... the sun sets and he feels content, inner peace. It ain't over till it's over, friends.
I keep trying to tell myself "just focus on you. Dating these days sucks anyways" but its difficult when holidays come around or when big things happen to or for you in life, its hard not to lay awake at night feeling lonely.
At least he has male friends. Some guys don't have that either
yea same in the last 9 years of my life i have had 1 male friend and even that's a huge stretch as we rarely saw each other in person
he moved to Germany a few months back so yea
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 in the same boat here, we've lost that friendship when he moved away and his son was born
@kurtpunchesthings24 same here man!
That is the next step, the video ended too early. The girlfriends insist not to hang out with the gaming bachelor anymore.
I had male friends but they made me paranoid so I'm a hermit now.
When you see your Steam friends list, all ofline for 5+years
Try 10 years. Either they forgot their password, gave it up, or worse…
relatable, I ended up being one of them. College days were the best, we could go on for hours. After graduation, we all ended up with jobs. Some of them got married, and just like that we all lost touch with each other without realising it. 🥲
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yea, seeing that really hurts.
To put light on this depressing situation, one of my friends that were offline for over 10 years DID login finally some weeks ago, nothing serious they just got wrapped up in life and college. It's relieving to know nothing bad happened.
I feel attacked already, and the video isn't even out yet.
Wait what 😭
Same bruh, why do I relate with almost every Wojak video🥲.
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Same bro
my old 'friends' backstabbed me cause of my views
31 here, I never had a gf. Grew up in a relatively strict household where I wasn't allowed to have a gf. As time went on I cared less about having a relationship since I don't find myself ever feeling lonely. And with how out of control today's dating seems to have become I'd rather focus on myself. I have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy and 2 best friends who I always hang out with. But unfortunately one of them passed away.
You were born in religious family, weren’t you?
Stay Strong ❤
Our condolences.
@@sho8567paying them back by ending the bloodline with him lol
Yeah bro other things are really important and nice too
No punch line at the end even... Just darkness
Just cold hard truth
You watch these
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Should I be investing in rope before I watch this?
we probybly should
Invest in reading a book once in a while
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Friend groups breaking up is one of the worst things that could happen
Not really, if your friend group was toxic like mine was
also necessary. people choose different paths, you can't hold onto the past
It makes catching up with them and talking about the old days that much more enjoyable. Everyone gets a bit more selfish with their time as they get older, but not in a bad way. Just simply not enough time in the day and trying to be successful enough to fulfill yourself doesn't fall into your lap.
I see the boys a few times a year and it's always a blast. Planning a yearly camping trip, birthday party, or sporting event is a good way to go.
@@UrlacherBears54so, your friend group hasn't broken up
I think it's what's causing so many of the problems with modern men.
It's kinda depressing sometimes walking by myself in town centre and seeing couples around me. I actually feel like the odd one out
yea that's me you see people walking together now i don't begrudge them but i do always think i wonder what that's like
I'm 25 never had a girlfriend hell I've never even kissed a woman before
as for why a huge part of it is an ongoing struggle with depression ever since i was 12 years old it's been worse but it's kinda like while i am through the worst of it I've fallen out of civilization and am so unbelievably far behind in human development i don't even know if it's possible to catch up at this point
it's not that it's too late for me but for guys the tough reality is once you turn 18 every year your still a virgin after that it will become harder and harder to lose it
so that is always my advice to guys use protection and as long as it's consensual lose your virginity asap just get it out of the way the longer you wait the harder it's gonna get
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 I'm 32 this month and I had similar issues to yours in my late teens and 20's and didn't lose my V till I was 28 in a one night stand by chance. Modernity is the cause of our mental illness and yet we are gaslighted into thinking we are the ones at fault and not modernity. One thing which helps me and might be useful to you is to not dwell on your circumstance and accept we are living in the entropy of modernity, but you can still build yourself up as an opposition to that entropy through whatever skills and interests you have, or just go to the gym like i do. Peace
Most people don't go anywhere alone if they can help it like even at the gym it seems like most people go with their friends at least. When I was a student people would even go shopping for groceries together.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411Same here, I'm 28.
be proud u cree eep
One of the enormous limitations imposed by our mind is the constant comparison with others. It wears us down to the point of changing and even destroying us. The final part of this video shows this very objectively
Social media was the ultimate catalyst of this limitation.
I mean, his friends don't seem too comfortable on their relationships and seem to lack freedom. Are they really happy? Wojak should've picked up on that. You don't need A relationshiop. You need THE relationship, one that is not like his friends'.
Well, at one point too a person should be in a relation to continue the cycle of humanity.
(relationship = being married)
this. You might think you want this in the video, but you dont.
Cope
@@randallbro6749seems like you are the one coping here
What? Have you never been in a relationship? They were portrayed actually really well… it’s said that’s what you consider “lack of freedom.”
They both seemed to be in perfectly happy and regular relationships with boundaries and compromise.
Wait til you're 26 and they're married 💀 Nowadays its mainly solo dolo for me as i wage and hit the gym then go home and chill on the computer. Life comes at you fast.
26 as well and my friends that are married have hit the wall hard. Balding fat depressed etc. The wives all ballooned up to 250+ lbs. id rather be single than have that. Still looking for gf though. Was going to ask out my gym crush actually and was talking to her a few days ago when i noticed she just got a huge arm tattoo. Its so over. She was the ONLY normal girl id seen in forever then she goes and gets tatted. Lost all interest immediately
Go for it. I am picky too but there is something off about everyone. Give her a chance.
@@Andrew-iq5udSo? Does the tattoo change her personality?
No.
She’s still the same person as before.
But hey, she dodged a bullet.
I’m 26 too. Single. Every one of my good friends has a gf. I’ve been single since I was 19. Sucks. Guess it’ll take the burden of having a family away at least
I will be 30 in a few months. Its hell.
Here we go again...
Depressing simulator 3.0
Manic-suicidal-depression simulator 3.0
Yet y'all watch it
This is life.
There’s nothing depressing about being single.
@@OneRelatableGuyhonestly some things are depressing such as losing friends who probably are in a relationship
people just live in fantasies these days. I learned that friendships never last when I was just a kid. Your daily best friends will be acquaintances when you get older. this is just life and the sooner you realize this the better.
why do you think your grandpa spends so much time with you?
Freindships are mostly just circumstantial you make freinds at school because you're all forced there together and you get along with some people as its fun and makes time pass quicker. I don't speak to anyone I went to school with I occasionally bump into the odd person and thats it. Work is the same you're in a shit job together and get along and have a laugh to make time pass quicker. Freinds for life are few and far between. Nothing wrong with work freinds either but most of the time its only a work thing.
Facts i wasted over 10 years thinking i could build friendships and some type of community that would last forever. Waste of energy
@@alanm6o9 Hey man, at least you tried, gotta give yourself some credit at least.
@@Yusa_Beach I just remain stoic at work. If people are used to that, then those are the ones I hang out more.
Then ppl wanna fake start to care when you been awol for awhile @alanm6o9
“I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.”
― Robin Williams
I ended up with Yorkshire terriers
That's a heavy quote
@@mujtabaomar880 but very realistic
I know it's hard same for me but they also have a life. I know movies series animation shows us a wonderful life full of excitement and all that but if that were we wouldn't be watching them. Guys stay strong I know it's hard and tiring this is same for me but you gotta fight and treat yourself with care. They also have a life.
Easy to say when you've never been alone
Why would that be depressing, I’ve seen divorce statistics and that’s changed my mind. 😂
fo real
@Aryan_Gentleman_ That's just because of biology. We are more than just biology. So stop judging others if they are failing or not. You are acting just like a hypocritical christian.
@Aryan_Gentleman_ How about you?
@@boaowov8779 im winning. big time.
@@boaowov8779He is not failing because;
1-He is aryan, a highborn, a purebred that is genetically superior to us plebs.
2-He is a gentleman.
Thus culminating into a perfect being that we all love and respect; The Aryan Gentelman 🥹 (whatamacallit).
Chasing others is like chasing a train that never stops, nobody cares about you or your feelings they all use u when it suits them and then disappear into thin air. 😢
Nailed it. After 30+ years of work in production, I cannot think of ONE individual who appeared before me who solely had the intention of being there simply because they believed in my work, ethics, accomplishments, projects, etc. They always WANTED something. Once they got that (or discovered that I wouldn't give them what they desired), they bounced like a rubber ball on asphalt.
chasing ppl is so draining to me
All motion is relative. Maybe you think they drifted apart from you but maybe it's some of you guys that made the distance by standing still. Priorities change in life. You can't fault someone because they didn't want to play the same boring game every weekend.
A true friend is hard to find. If you’ve found 1 true friend in your entire life you’ve done well.
Very true. I've personally experienced this.
I was about to tell my girlfriend that LowBudgetStories just dropped a new video but I forgotten I didn't have a girlfriend.
feels bad man
I told my sex doll
Celebrate!! No girl to nag you around!
feels great who needa gf?!@@bmp0105
I know this feel
42 year old truck driver (never dated or had any friends). It's important to stay positive and focused on your health.
Ey man come on you not getting any young you can focus on your health while building your own family
Are you happy ?
As long as your happy your happy you can do what you want.
The moment I turned 20, everyone around me - especially on campus and in my own friend group - suddenly had boyfriends and girlfriends. Sickening, really.
Me too 😢😢
Same, cant wait my 40s to feel how desperate decades of being single are🥰
Oh wojak I feel you're pain. I'm 38 and single. Never had a relationship before. But you get used to it and it's actually nice being free to travel whenever you want to
It's best to accomplish objectives alone anyhow. That way, *NO ONE* can ever swoop in to claim "Hey, ya see that? He's successful because of ME". 💪😎✌️ If you do the work yourself (or, whatever; 90% or more), then that places you in a position which differs from the majority of people on the planet.
Discipline. Consistency. Deadlines. Creativity. Reflection. Repeat.
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Cope
That’s brutal
Being married I can definitely agree with that sentiment.
Being free to travel, game, buy whatever is not so bad lol
Not that I'm miserable married either, it's just definitely a tradeoff.
I like vintage audio & video & women don’t value old things.
Nelson's hairline receding is the sadest thing on this video LOL
Lmao nice detail
@@dzllzNorwood Reaper strikes again
It's literally what I look like now lol
why bro, that's normal aging
That's normal
i'm 42 years old, and this is me. FORTY TWO years old. people ive known have long married and some of their kids are now nearly in their teenage years. and i still cant get a partner. its soul destroying.
Fuckin brutal bro. Im 31 and will be you one day. Unless i find her but i doubt it
Well, I’m 43 and married with kids and my life isn’t peaches. I’m always on the verge of divorce it seems and often feel stressed out of my mind. I dream of being single again like before I got married, how simpler life was then. But I’m past the point of no return; just saying my life sucks too very often, and just being married doesn’t make you happy, other people just assume you are.
Yo im a 13 years old and i hope you be happy, try to find happiness in the simple things in life. Life is very precious and already being alive is very beautiful. But i hope you find a wife or something like that, Remember that there is always someone you want to see happy and want to make you happy. I want! And you are a unique and incredible person, there is no one like you. YOU ARE SPECIAL.
or their kids get a girlfriend before you
Same. I’m 17 years old. Chances are I’ll suffer the same fate as you. And to be honest. Considering how shitty modern relationships tend to be, your probably better off.
Stop seeing people that keeps bringing in their dates just to make you feel alone. Worked wonders.
That’s not their intention. Guys do need to make time for themselves. Being around your girl 24/7 is a terrible habit.
honestly fr tho i ain't F****** 3rd wheeling this
yea no seriously espicaly the scene where its his 2 friends and their girlfriends i would feel so unbelievably awkward in that situation
because you just know the other 4 people at least once that dinner has thought huh X is the only single person he's there by himself sad
At first that seems like a great idea, but you're only further isolating yourself. Sure, some are actually bragging about their gf, but at that rate you'll just be spiteful and push away any people with dates. And eventually you'll isolate yourself even more than you were without a girlfriend
@@ahek_mt
Agree. I’ll say Just go out with your friends and have a good time. Who knows, you might meet someone there that interests you. And if you didn’t, at least you had a good time.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 don't say the other four people. It's usually the women who think the one single guy friend is the weirdo. Guys are thinking to themselves how they wish they were still single 😂
Being 40, single, not wealthy, no car, no family, no girlfriend, no kids... in the bay area is the worst. People are so cold-hearts. This hit me in the soul.
in chicago, feels the same
how can you live in US without car? is that even possible
Move out of that area. You are capable of change but that area will devour your soul.
Thats rough, I really don't know what I would do without a car especially in the US.-
@@Firespirit233yes it is.
And then they say, “you’ll find someone and it’s just not your time yet” as they get into back to back long term relationships
What are they supposed to say? ,,You will never find anyone"?, ,,It's your destiny to be alone"?
@@naturazpolski9213 Maybe one could just say nothing instead of this sappy, cringe consolation crap.
@@georgedevries3992unfortunately people hold on to hope. Guess reality has to hit sooner or later
@@favourinyang14 Hope can be good. However, more often than not hope is the first step on the road to disappointment.
@@naturazpolski9213yes. Thats much better.
When I was in a relationship I missed being single and when I'm single I miss being in relationship. Both have it's benefits at the end of the day
What did you miss about being single when in relationships?
Speak for yourself, only time I ever missed being single was during a really shitty relationship.
I think for an average guy being single means no sex whereas in a relationship they can get laid occasionally - and that's the only reason I need to make me prefer relationships to singledom
I feel like this is going to happen to me
@@jackholt6860 post nut clarity makes me not wanna be in any kind of relationship
Nah, all those social media images of those in relationships are only a facade. Once the camera is off, they argue and fight over what money should be spent on that week or bicker over meaningless things. Some married dudes are so whipped that they don’t even wear the pants in the relationship since they have more to lose if they stand up against their bossy wife. Go strong king!
Remember, over 50% of marriages end up in divorce and it’s only getting higher!
All I can hear is that between 30-50% of the marriages succeed.
@@nirorit The other marriages are miserable, but you are not allowed to leave.
@@nirorit They can't separate due to being too poor to survive or their own or have kids threading them together. Cuck life basically.
😂😂😂😂😂 the shit people tell themselves
Hello saw whats ws cookin today ? Miss@@thebrunetteinroom7
I feel like everybody I know in my life has a partner and I’m always the odd one out when I’m around couples wherever I go. It’s like it’s within universe’s will for me to stay single and lonely for the rest of my life. I’m constantly being ostracized for not having someone, almost as if it’s illegal to be single. Sometimes I do enjoy the single life, but when I see happy couples having a great time together, I often feel like I’m missing out. I don’t know.. but at this point, I feel like I’m gonna have myself a date with the rope. Life’s too difficult…
Just keep going my friend, there is nothing that can outmatch your pure will to outshine your demons. I assure you that your time will come. Be patient, keep your head up and know that the creator has a plan for your life ❤️
Not wrong. Women dont see me as anything more than a public servant.
Real
@@LivingLifefor_theLord We do what we must. Keep going forward. That's the only direction we need.
I thought that way too, but trust me, its better to be alone, than with the wrong person
Once you hit specific age - loneliness become easier to bear... Because you understand that in 40 you are already out of this relationship race and it is impossible to have a relationships of your dreams anymore...
Nonsense.
Depends. For men, if they take care of themselves mentally, physically and financially, they can become The Nectar gods for all the girl bees to be attracted to them.
Loneliness is easier to bear when you have a purpose. If not, make one. If cannot make one, FIND one.
Gradually, rise above yourself and become a pillar to your society and culture.
Raise kids with a woman for a brighter future for all of us.
You just gotta have a lot of money and young attractive women will be willing to date you, so get cracking on those millions!
@@shadywaitamin2409fuck society
this is what worries me right now
At least he has friends. I don’t have shit.
Same man...same...
@@__Fives where are you from?
@@samibeg4780 Ukraine
I mean... the issue is people dedicate themselves so much to relationships nowadays it's crazy. It's like everyone's so desperate for one that once they find a relationship with a girl like both parties are inseparable. Like why can't you spare like a game night or god forbid two game nights a month with your homies?
Because many people are toxic as h311. Many of 'em want to micromanage *your* hours, and govern what you can or cannot do. It's a terrible trait; people become possessive, jealous, and fixated on what you do when you're NOT with them. Sadly, that represents a metric ton of individuals; they can't accept if you have a life of your own. Goals of your own. Projects which don't involve them.
In all honesty, THAT is why nearly all of my partners freaked out on me. They HATED that I always had goals and objectives with or without them. But that's part of being an individual, and no one is permitted to take that from me. 💪😎✌️ No one can take the 30+ years of my accomplishments, and my current goals and achievements have nothing to do with them. If they can't live with that... TOO FLUNCKIN' BAD! GTFOH, lol. 😂🤣😂
It must be an American thing or something. In Sweden where i'm from, this is not an issue. Maybe it's the type of friends i have, but they'll never turn down a meet up with the boys just because their girls tell them to, and it's not like the girls usually have any objections or problems with it in the first place so they're not ever even made to choose.
Just found out my GF was cheating on me after months of me treating her right door dashing flowers to her house, and making her feel special. It really hurts to get cheated on by someone that you loved and held so dear. Its ok to be alone and not be in a relationship, enjoy being your own light and happiness.
Ay man been there people are shitty but that doesn’t mean you should give up on finding someone right for you. Big piece of advice don’t hold it against your future partner seen people do that and it always ruins what could have a been a healthy relationship.
"me treating her right door dashing flowers to her house, and making her feel special" This is probably why she cheated.
Being alone is hard, but being in a relationship is also hard. So choose your hard, but choose wisely....
wisdom
Ikr
Bro said "choose" like we're making a decision to have no one interested in us💀
Relationship all the way, because you can decide to not be at anytime. Whereas when single you can't just be in one when ever you feel like it..
Can i choose soft
After dark at the end was a nice touch 👌
This happened to me basically. All my friends stopped hanging out one by one because they all got girlfriends. Meanwhile I remained single praying one day they would come back again. It never happened.
When everybody has cancer but u
lol!
When everybody is jaaaabed but you
Jesus Christ man ... That's dark as fuck.
Godzilla don’t need a girlfriend.
😂😂wtf
bro you wouldnt want a relationship if you knew how toxic and annoying it becomes a while later. The ones who are really happy are only %10
So basically you’re a loser and women leave you on read?
I doubt the number is that high. Do you have any statistics to back up your 10%?
I'm so glad I'm in that 10%. Fuck yeaaaaaah 🔥
At least you said some people are happy and not the whole idea was bound for disaster. But I would agree the wrong people stay together for way longer than they should and get roped into marriage.
After 30+ years of dating (and even marrying & divorcing once), I personally believe that most humans are too broken, selfish, brainwashed, and psychologically unstable to function "as a team". It just isn't plausible. And that's understandable to some extent because they usually have NO TRAINING in the disciplines required in order to function as a team. Instead, they're focused solely on themselves, and they contribute little to "the unit" (the two person team). This is unfortunate, but it's also a breakdown in society: most schools and parents do not TEACH teamwork... because they have no idea how it *functions*. 😂 And you can't teach what you don't have mastery over.
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We are all Wojak, that is why these videos resonate so much with us.
I used to have many friends. Then it became one friend and we used to play computer games together. Then he said he is too busy to meet, even after many attemps across months.
Now I don't have any friends and I find it hard to make new ones.
Such is life...
Only when you’ve experienced the hell of marriage, you’ll be able to fully appreciate to be alone in your ampartment, feel the quiteness, enjoy beeing with yourself having your inner peace back.
Sorry to hear you married someone and later you both stopped caring for each other and it turned like that
@@naturazpolski9213 etam, po prostu zle sie dobrali
Single forever gang ⬇️
No shame!
4real
fr dude.. this video shows how much i would hate it not being single.
Me too man .Right in the feels
fist bump
People act like being single is the worst fate a person can have, but imo it goes
Being in a relationship with the right person
Being single
Being with someone you're not right for/settling for fear of being alone
Disagree. Men tend to kill themselves from crippling loneliness far more than simply having an unlikeable partner.
I don't know about that. Not "being right" for someone doesn't mean the relationship sucks necessarily. Abuse is what's worse than being alone. But how likely is an abusive relationship? That's the real question IMO
You’re just assuming all single people would prefer to be single and not in a semi-unideal relationship, which is just fundamentaly untrue
Third option is what 50% (maybe more) couples have
Being alone can be terrible or bliss. Being in a relationship can be terrible or bliss.
Nobody's talking about how justin disappeared...
fax
Its true. Often when your Friends get a girlfriend they disappear and you dont see them anymore.
She's got him mowing the lawn, doing the laundry and looking after the kid while she goes out to yoga class
I have watched this video 5 times already. Now, all I want to do is to cry.
there there (hug) cheer up!
You'll cry far more when your heart gets broken by someone who you thought felt the same and thought you could trust.
Stay strong stay firm, Jesus knows everyone’s pain
@@SamboJones-vs1rh if only we could pin comments or give them a prize BECAUSE THIS COMMENT RIGHT HEREE💯HITSSS
From someone who's been single for 20 years this really hits home , hard. It's brutal trying to meet someone especially going out bye yourself.
I bet, everyone’s life sucks it seems, just in different ways. I fight with my wife virtually everyday, it’s extremely stressful. I sometimes dream of being free, at least I would have peace. But I have kids and endure for them and the chance maybe it will improve. So what I’m saying is just having someone doesn’t make your life better or worse than being single.
Hey man, if you have a hobby you could meet a friend or someone to bond over it. It could help you get to know new people
Wow. Takes me right back to 2009 again.
Being in a relationship can really suck honestly. Just coming out of a long one I'm honestly really relieved and like 80% of my stress just vanished
Many humans are psychological vampires. They're broken, emotionally immature, and live off of base instincts and adrenaline in lieu of using their brains, ethics, compassion, and empathy (if they possess those at all).
that is called a bad relationship
That 80% stress will be replaced with 90% stress of staying single as you age.
Yeah that means it was a bad relationship that needed to end. Ideally, a relationship should be the opposite of that.
@@YarmoxOnly if you see relationships as worth the effort, then it will be sad if you don't have relationships.
Seems like everyone got boring to be around
That's usually how it works.
some people are just boring 🤷♀
Honestly. Miss the old times 😢
Trust me being in a relationship is not all it's hyped up to be some of these women can make you miserable 😂
26 here, i have never been in a relationship, never had a gf, just working on my buisness to be self employed...all my other friends are in relationship and some are gonna get married soon, honestly its feels empty but the work seems to pass the time..considering the current dating life its more dangerous to be in a relationship nowadays as people are shuffling each other...but i am slowly increasing my social skills to make new friends...so lets see the future...
This is awesome but sad at the same times
Better alone that in bad company, don't feel bad if you don't have someone yet guys and gals, remember to focus on your family, hapiness and work, not to impress someone, but to improve your life, and goals, also give time to fitness and a good hobby, is for your sake, and please learn to say no.
Discipline. Consistency. Deadlines. Creativity. Reflection. Repeat.
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No
@@northwestcoast hahaha, no what?
@@papabloodharvest9542Are you sure about that?😂😂
I maybe meet 1 time a year for like 6 hours with my bros from high school we used to pull all nighters playing games then slowly each one lost interest in gaming due to chasing woman around this is way too relatable.
Take it from someone who got into a relationship with an abuser with BPD, "just having a relationship" is a bar that's way too low and a goal that's not worth achieving.
If you must, see that first relationship as practice.
I dont mind being single at all but watching that brought me the memory of losing a best friend to a girlfriend and ever since I've hated him with a burning passion for that...
No I'm not being jealous,I legit tried to be happy for him finding his girl but I couldnt knowing that that person is the sole reason he left me out in the cold...
I know there are people in relationships/marriages that are happy and it absolutely is a good for both of them. However, we all know the truth in the majority of relationships- abuse, infidelity, jealousy, arguing, nagging, humiliation, etc....in most relationships you are trading time or resources for sex. And it could be said that's what's happening in all relationships.
Some of us just aren't put together in a way that is conducive to initiating, and more importantly, maintaining romantic relationships.
After 30+ years of "relationships", I became infinitely exhausted of having to solve my partners' problems or to be their emotional punching bag. It made me disappointed with humanity in general; most individuals don't comprehend the word "teamwork" in any way, shape, nor form. They all think that they're "John McClane" or "Rambo" or something. Especially the females. They'll claim to be "bad arse beotchez", but fold like a flunckin' card table at the weakest sign of turmoil or a challenge. It's embarrassing. 🙄
In godless western relationships, yeah….
@@Novastar.SaberCombatYou preach it brother!!
My ex did not even wanted sex anymore in the relationship and after getting apparently a better option she made me literally homeless💀
Only Western relationships
Extra credit for including Mr Kitty - After Dark
I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that
Definitely!
omg Wojak is literally me
I feel you Wojack, now I am at the point where several friends have kids as well, once that happens, yours bros really become AWOL from your life.
This video hit´s me so hard man.
I understand your pain brother. Always remember your not the only one
its like looking into mirror
Literally my life. I’m just working and playing games daily while all my friends and even brothers are raising there family’s living there life’s.
I was really looking for a plot twist, like Wojak showing the freedom of life by being single
Yeah, I wanted the video to be longer.
not much freedom as a wagie
I didn't expect to hear After Dark in piano version, well done 😂
All my married friends tell me DUDE, NEVER GET MARRIED
You can get married, but don't just marry the first best girl you find. You have to find someone who's actually compatible with you.
@@captainoblivious_yt you can get married but why would you
That's because they chose poorly and moved too quickly.
Let me tell you as a married man, NEVER get married to crazy. This is easier said than done of course as most women conceal their craziness until after they got you trapped. Don’t marry stupid either, but this may be impossible. So basically don’t get married.
fr
Your life will not be better just because you have a girlfriend...
Aww
It depends on the situation. It can add to your life or make it worse
exactly people are slow
Have you already had a relationship before? Those who say that generally already have experience in relationships
@@derek_3054it will
surely "add" to
your life either positively or negatively.
"growing up" like that is repulsive. Never change for a girl.
thanks for doing video of my life :)
I feel this. But sound advice is to go out and explore hobbies and sports. That’s what I’ve been doing - met a bunch of great friends that way.
Being single is a mindset, you are yourself no matter where you are or who you’re with. Not having a significant other may be lonely at times, but if you take the moments for yourself to do something meaningful and act with a positive attitude you’ll find those moments are few in the long run.
You need to see to positive side!
No relationship means:
- no financial burden
- no child support
- no arguments
- no vacation on places you hate
- you can meet with who ever you want
- you can do whatever you want
- you have your peace, if needed
- you can play as much as you want
- you can eat what ever you want
- you don't need to argue about which car you buy
- you don't settle problems, that aren't yours
- you don't have problems, you would have
- you are not responsible for what your partner is interpreting, but what you never said
- no tears
- no shouting
- no silly demands
I just see upsides on being single.
Being single is more bearable if you've been in a serious relationship that didn't work out.
Yeah when you’re alone in the hospital dying of old age you’ll sure be happy you bought that car you wanted.
@@Reihe_sechsIf it’s my dream car, I’ll be happy as hell that I got to experience it
I like being single. My family is always telling me to get a gf. I get annoyed by it.
@@Reihe_sechs the car won't actively work towards this very moment...
You are a simp, listening to simp argumentation. 🤣
Same for me
34 yo, no gf ever, except one for a bit in high school
All friends, even b-tards, have settled down
feck I'm only 25 and reading this i can tell i got a long way to go sigh
no but that's the depressing as shit reality if i don't end my own life or get a girlfriend i probably got at least another 50 years to go man that sucks
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 no worries man, its dialectical
You miss out something, but you also gain something. Pros and cons, you know
I dont regret my life in that regard
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 there are 80 year olds getting gfs and bfs
i'm 32, never had a relationship before. kinda sad though
@@iggymlqhave you put yourself out there? Are you actively looking for a gf?
“Everybody’s falling in love & I’m falling behind”
- Laufey
Mr.Kitty - After Dark always hit my soul = |
Thank you for adding
Today there are no real friendships, neither relationships
Big truth
Yes. Everyone is to each of their own.. Man becoming lone wolf.
With your attitude, certainly you won’t have any.
Damn I'd hate to have your mind set !
*you* dont have
I had a date just cancel our dinner plans for this weekend. Apparently I didn't text her enough, so I must not have really been interested? I thought people wanted their space. No big deal, I'll find another victim.
Every person is different and you have no way of knowing how to curtail yourself to them.
Keep being yourself, and reflect if you can if you have obvious behaviors you want to change to better reflect the best version of yourself.
Onto the next. It's okay to feel upset about it but don't take it personally. Not because it may or may not be your fault, but because the only way forward is you to keep the determination to keep trying.
Best of luck wojack anon
Huge red flag if anyone randomly pops up with emotionally vampiric messages like that. Avoid, and be glad that they self-destructed BEFORE you became involved! 💪😎✌️
Honestly you should be happy that anyone who's immature like that canceled it right off the bat so you saved your time and energy. If a girl constantly are trying to play "games" and make you pass some "tests", it's better to just move on. Those people are not worthy of your time.
She is emotionally needy and greedy it seems. You likely dodged a bullet on that one, but what about the next one….
Theres was a time friendships and relationships were sacred. These days you'll break up a relationship over the pettiest of things. That's why I'm a lone wolf now.
Same. People are overrated. Not that I could make friends anyway
This is like my close group of friends and I. At least we're all in this together now
Well done! Very relevant ending. Many good men will relate. These times are something else.
I've lived with my married friend and that was hell. Fuck that
Btw this was THE most accurate video you've made so far 😂
Watching these Wojak videos is like watching a documentary about my life and I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing.
in my teens and early 20s i used to always hang out with my group of 3-6 guys , we were all competitive gamers and used to travel together out of state for tournaments. Nowadays in our mid to late 30s , im the only one still gaming competitively as a single dad while most of them are in relationships or just stopped gaming all together. Ive made new gaming homies over the recent years but nothing beats the times i had hanging out with my OG homies. Ive def become more of a loner type these past few years.
All my gamer friends became toxic and shit got real and now we don't talk anymore, they are all still single, it's just shit got so personal/hateful over discord chats the relationships just expired
@@yeee321 Yea i got a few of those from my OG crew , one of my childhood bestfriends / gaming team mate used to talk really bad shi* about me behind my back. Nowadays i rarely trust dudes because of the b.s i dealt with with him
I completely relate to that last scene. 37 now. All my friends and roommates from college are all married and have kids. The more I stay single the more impossible it seems to be able to live a life like them. Growing together with a spouse seems increasingly unfeasible.
Hey man, I have a spouse and growing together with a spouse seems unfeasible to me too!
You look hot in your avatar (warning I'm a dude) even though you are making a serial killer pose there it looks like, lol.
Bro even managed to cram in the after dark music. Total legend.
I’m in my room rotting away alone
My 1st relationship was full of abuse, untrust, despair and insanity. 2 years later I still cant get over it. My trust issues are out of the roof. I cant keep longer contact with any woman.
I think its really over
You’re not alone anon
You're boy or girl ?
these wojak videos are much better than most shows
Why is the video accurate down to EACH AND EVERY DETAIL 😂😂😂
The start and end of the video is like a video taken of me
Needs more alcohol and cigarettes tho
I'm 21, so lonely, all of my friends, classmates and cousins are in a relationship and has a kid. This video describes my life so much.
I am 33 and don't care about all of that)
having kids at 21 ? lol how
Sucks for them
Wait till you hit 25
Hey man. Don't feel that way. It sounds lame but become you're own best friend. I'm 34 and basically future you. Women will come and go. Do what makes you happy. Its just fomo man relationships are sinking like the titanic in 2024. Just focus on you and make yourself happy.
20 years in, remember, the grass is always greener.
That's true! Somewhere else you can't find, lol.
Wojak should just be happy by himself, being in a relationship is another hell
Damn, that hit hard. I am 26yo, living with parents (still), no girlfriend, some health issues, no luck in womans, only friends are from job and I have no other friends... damn, i am sad...
military...
This happened with my friend group. They more or less pushed out the guys who stayed single, especially against renters in the group once house values went up. It's so sad. I was pushed out once my relationship ended and I started dating younger women. lol Oh well! I got my travels, hobbies and live a pretty low-stress life. I will never do the comparison game or keep up with the Joneses. I'm not too good for a dive bar and could care less what people think. I might be the only one left from my group who thinks this way, but at least I stood for something.
Love the piano composition of Mr. Kitty- After Dark. 6:55 🫶
This video made me even more incel -ish. Lol. Why cant we find a girlfriend that likes the same stuff as us? Video games, anime, horror movies, have pizza nights with. Seriously, this video is ticking me off lol
Sadge
Love the after dark piano cover at the end
Part 2 - Fast forward to the friends getting screwed in family court, no access to their kids because of false allegations, lost all their money in divorce, high blood pressure from work, sitting in a bedsit or worse. One is still married but has an addiction from years of emotional abuse. Wojak meanwhile made peace with his situation. He even got disciplined. He eventually met someone, but on his terms. He still has time to game. His life wasn't ruined. He no longer misses those friends. Maybe he'll even have kid... the sun sets and he feels content, inner peace. It ain't over till it's over, friends.
yeah, anything can happen.
I keep trying to tell myself "just focus on you. Dating these days sucks anyways" but its difficult when holidays come around or when big things happen to or for you in life, its hard not to lay awake at night feeling lonely.
I wish I couldn't relate so much to this video
Fuck sake.... I felt so bad about myself at the end.. Wtf man