This Doctor deserves a great excellence award and i love rhe way he says "fantastic" or "excellent" before answering a question. I wish i know his clinic
A good program, but unfortunately, we keep making the mistake of putting marriage on hold to achieve a particular milestone in pursuing our Western education. If this must happen, the period for achieving such should be as short as possible. Let us focus more on getting our wards to become economically empowered early enough, to get married when they need to while pursuing their academic dream.
If things are done the right way without dealing with the unnecessary pauses public university cause in Nigeria the average university student should be done with their first degree between 21-23. Why on earth would you advise a 21 year old to get married?
And one foolish minister wanted to introduce and enforce a policy to bar less than 18 years from admission to university! And this same man is from a background where they give girls in marriage at 12, 13 years,meaning a girl is matured enough to be a mother by 13 but a 17 years is not matured to be an undergraduate.
@@Poetrydoctordiaries Imagine a youtube moniker saying a doctor who practices in the US and Nigeria doesn't know what he is doing😂😂 You wonder how dumb people can be. A wise man should listen to the doctor and apply moral and religious perspective to whatever he said, not throw everything away without a thought.
God's word is above all fact. Obeying God is above all benefits. Nothing shall separate us from the love of Christ whether alive or death. Extramarital sex is sinful and against God's will for us.
They have been westernized too much and don't even know what's true anymore. DAVID, who was God's favorite, had how many wives? What about Solomon? The bible doesn't even specifically tell you to have one wife, it ONLY demands it in the new testament IF you want to serve in church leadership roles. God has NEVER punished ANYONE in the Bible for having multiple wives, ONLY for adultery, which ONLY occurs when a WOMAN belongs to another man. Read your Bible please.
Why it states we live or die for Christ. .. A person can die of cancer and live on in eternity at the side of Jesus. Science is also science. It is established that women who are celibate are very hign on the cancer list. This is proven. So choose which one suits you.
The issue with Nigeria is that there’s an overemphasis on religion at the expense of reality. While I believe in God’s power of salvation through Christ and the truth of the Scriptures, it’s important to stay grounded. Open your eyes, be wise, and avoid hypocrisy. Take medical advice from experts seriously-many health issues can be prevented with proper care rather than solely seeking healing during church services.
I most really commend this Doctor to have the courage to sit with four ladies and discuss this. A Lot of these women find it had to be objective when discussing an issue without getting emotional.
The doctor is as truthful & yet professional in his discussion, kudos to him. But na this kind gist dey sweet men, 21 is 21😂😂, how many times should women have theirs too?🤷
The doctor is not presenting his information as a well-trained, qualified medical professional, and he is at risk of misleading a lot of people. His claim that waking up without an erection signals cardiovascular disease is false. Many factors can cause a weak erection. Age is one of the causes, but he disputed this by citing a 90-year-old patient who fathered a child. However, this does not negate the fact that age can contribute to weak erections. Having weak or no "morning erection" is different from having no erection at all. A man can wake up without a morning erection but still be able to achieve an erection later in the day, even if it's weak. Other factors, such as medication, diabetes, obesity, lack of sleep, alcohol, smoking, and drug abuse, can also contribute to the absence of morning erections. Furthermore, he should provide sources for his claims. Which study confirmed everything he is saying? Is he simply making things up and presenting them without any links for verification? Regarding his statement that men develop prostate issues because they are not having enough sex, this seems like an attempt to justify promiscuity rather than a scientifically backed claim. There is no conclusive data to support the idea that lack of sex leads to prostate enlargement. We should approach such issues critically and scientifically, not indulge in unfounded assumptions. Additionally, the claim that women who are not having sex are at higher risk of developing breast cancer is equally flawed. What about genetics, lifestyle, race, radiation exposure, and other contributing factors? The doctor seems unaware of differential diagnosis and appears to base his assertions on personal beliefs rather than scientific evidence. Do not take him seriously.
Yes, I am. My years of experience don’t matter in this discourse. My point is, the world has moved past the era of people boldly making assertions on air without leaving room for proper verification. This simply means his assertions are just his personal opinions and not based on reliable or verifiable sources. If you want people to learn because you stumbled upon some data, the least you can do is provide a reference so others can verify the information. There is no truth in anything he said because it cannot be substantiated. He is talking about breast cancer and prostate hyperplasia, which are very serious diseases. If his claims were true, don’t you think they would be widely known by now? Do you really believe you’d hear it from him first? Doctors worldwide would have been recommending such practices long before now if they were valid. Everything he said is flawed. He also boldly admitted to having side chicks and cheating on his wife. That’s likely why he’s encouraging such behavior. He appears to have no understanding of professional ethics and might even be engaging in inappropriate relationships with his patients-if he’s truly a doctor at all. Watch him carefully, and you’ll see how he constantly deviates from the questions being asked. Unfortunately, we Africans tend to swallow information hook, line, and sinker and base life decisions on it without critical thinking. I know some men will now beat their chests and use his words as justification to cheat. Imagine claiming that having more sex reduces a woman’s risk of breast cancer! How does that work? We’re talking about science, right? There should be a clear explanation. His claims shouldn’t be based solely on personal opinion, but that’s all I see from him.
Chika, I partly concur. I must tell you that am not a doctor. Most researches are sponsored and consequently tilt towards the aims/ objectives of the financiers. There are many diseases that orthodox medical practitioners will tell you that they are not curable but alternative medicine cure easily and comfortably. Humans speak from the angle of their interest. I have listened to the doctor on other platforms before arriving at this conclusion. He tends to support polygamy and promiscuity. As an adult, I know what I want but feel sorry for younger persons. I love his sincerity when it comes to his admission of keeping sidechicks. So many would have avoided that part. Citing research references is like using bible quotations to emphasise areas of our interest.
@@chikaejekwu1804first of all your years of experience matters don't dispute that because you yourself know that; also your area of specialization matters even though you may have general knowledge. Saying the Doc. Argument is flawed because you choose to only pick the Mens early morning erection and the women's breast cancer as related to lack of active sex; your own opinion is also flawed here because you neither provide us with reference as you claim he should do. I agree that more knowledge is going to come through research but the Doctor is not the first to make all this argument and won't be the last. I have watched many argue on same topic on RUclips. He may not be correct to some degree of percentage but he is making valid points. Let's have open mind and learn. There should be a reason why God creat man and woman body though similar but different.
The reason why African lawmakers must not embrace polygamy is that most men that would have more than 2 children cannot care for them. What African men must learn is that not every sex should result in babies. That is wht we must preach love making not sex.
That's no news oh! It's generally believed that african men have side chics nowadays. And men are pushing the narrative for women to accept it; but most of these men are also pushing the narrative that women don't need sex. It's about moral and societal expectations on the part of the women not because they don't need it to be healthy. More research should be carried out in this regards.
You dey believe him? Well I don't. He's just say what he preaches not practice. Someone that said his wife queried him about his previous video that went viral
They nearly turned him into prey because discussing this kind of topic among these brilliant women is beyond difficult but attempting one way of 1000s ways to die…. But l love the way he established his stance with FACT ❤ Great Doc indeed 😊
Exercise never result into ejaculation except sexual activity. Food or exercise has never proven to significantly reduces prostrate cancer….So sex reduces prostrate cancer in men and helps reduce breast cancer, ovarian cancer, cervical cancer in women etc
Abstinence from sex as a result of religious holiness has caused me to have ovarian cyst and doctors said i must have adequate sex. As a single mother, what is the advise you have for me please? The pain is really killing...🙏🙏🙏
The discussants have not given any considerations to the glaring fact that reverend fathers who are celibate do not have higher prevalence of prostate cancer On the other hand most of the men in the villages who married many wives and died couldn't not have had prostate biopsy to ascertain the cause of death The producer of this show as it has turned out to be can add quality by inviting professionals and research scientists
If the doctor has side-chicks and wants a reason to control his wife he us free to do so. He should keep it to himself and not encourage others. He us talking rubbish.
YK no go kill me ...say Morayo dey sad. 😂😅...Truth is a lot of homes/marriages dey suffer but because of our kind of society, people are dying in silence. It is well
Does this man understanding how such breaks families and children. Women we're treated us people without feelings. There's nothing that hurt's like infidelity, it break's family bond's
The issue with Nigeria is that there’s an overemphasis on religion at the expense of reality. While I believe in God’s power of salvation through Christ and the truth of the Scriptures, it’s important to stay grounded. Open your eyes, be wise, and avoid hypocrisy. Take medical advice from experts seriously-many health issues can be prevented with proper care rather than solely seeking healing during church services.
This narrative is drawn from a resesrch study. However he deliberately neglected to put the conclusion that the authors of that work that "more studies are required to investigate their finding"
It's only a problem if you've never had an ejaculation at that age. A healthy man who is not having sexual intercourse would have his body helping out through nocturnal emission which happens naturally. So as long as you ejaculated, it shouldn't be a problem.
Pls we will need more of this doctor o, such a sincere man.
This Doctor deserves a great excellence award and i love rhe way he says "fantastic" or "excellent" before answering a question. I wish i know his clinic
This man deserves an award
Very good discussion, thank you Dr
Great Doc ! That’s the type of pragmatic doctor we need in our society ! Carry on doc !!!👍🏽
Good morning Ladies of 'You View'. Well done! I love your programme. I salute the Doctor.
these ladies are not professional enough im really pissed and disappointed
These ladies did not allow the good doctor to speak freely. This is for the public and not their own desires.
Can we please allow this man to answer the question. What kind of rude interjections are these? If you have all the answers why invite an expert?
I salute the Dr for his honesty
A good program, but unfortunately, we keep making the mistake of putting marriage on hold to achieve a particular milestone in pursuing our Western education. If this must happen, the period for achieving such should be as short as possible. Let us focus more on getting our wards to become economically empowered early enough, to get married when they need to while pursuing their academic dream.
@@audumuhammadnuru5849 true but one needs to also be alive to actualize the dreams. So its all balance
@@audumuhammadnuru5849 There's need to balance everything
If things are done the right way without dealing with the unnecessary pauses public university cause in Nigeria the average university student should be done with their first degree between 21-23. Why on earth would you advise a 21 year old to get married?
And one foolish minister wanted to introduce and enforce a policy to bar less than 18 years from admission to university! And this same man is from a background where they give girls in marriage at 12, 13 years,meaning a girl is matured enough to be a mother by 13 but a 17 years is not matured to be an undergraduate.
It appears you didn't read my comment properly. I advice you to go and read it well, thank you
Very beautiful and educative discussion. ❤❤
Be cautious about what you hear and accept. Having the title of a doctor doesn't always mean someone knows what they're doing.
Oga, are you a doctor? This doctor is very correct in his submission
@@Poetrydoctordiaries Imagine a youtube moniker saying a doctor who practices in the US and Nigeria doesn't know what he is doing😂😂
You wonder how dumb people can be. A wise man should listen to the doctor and apply moral and religious perspective to whatever he said, not throw everything away without a thought.
What is your academic qualification?
You are talking nonsense my friend it’s scientific
He is a table destroyer. A man of facts and knowledge. I salute him.
I love the Doctor's patience in the midst of the ladies. 😂
Dr, you are so honest, thank you
Fantastic analysis by Dr. Abbass.
God's word is above all fact. Obeying God is above all benefits. Nothing shall separate us from the love of Christ whether alive or death. Extramarital sex is sinful and against God's will for us.
Do you have anything to say about people in the Bible that married more than one wives and entered heaven?
They have been westernized too much and don't even know what's true anymore. DAVID, who was God's favorite, had how many wives? What about Solomon? The bible doesn't even specifically tell you to have one wife, it ONLY demands it in the new testament IF you want to serve in church leadership roles. God has NEVER punished ANYONE in the Bible for having multiple wives, ONLY for adultery, which ONLY occurs when a WOMAN belongs to another man. Read your Bible please.
Please mention any of them that entered heaven and where it is in the Bible. Before you respond, read John 3:13.
Why it states we live or die for Christ. .. A person can die of cancer and live on in eternity at the side of Jesus. Science is also science.
It is established that women who are celibate are very hign on the cancer list. This is proven. So choose which one suits you.
the definition of worldliness of a man. the man is carnal. and didn't understand spiritual things of GOD.
Tope is so intelligent!!!
This is so so educative oo
This doctor is a realist.
Good conversation. I really had fun watching.
I like the conclusion drawn by the hostess. I think that settles every argument or misconception.
Thank you very much doctor for saying this to people to know.
Tope and Morayo are scared of the reality that their husbands dey nack outside... Dey play!... Thank you so much, doctor, for this reality interview.
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This Man should be protected at all cost .
A Gemstone 💎 !!
National hero!
Ridiculous? Who is after him?
For what?
From who ??
Absolutely amazing program from nice people
What a discussion!
I salute the Doctor for his doggedness to say the truth and giving a good breakdown.
The doctor is very intelligent
I did 21 times this month. Help me praise God for this testimony
I did more... Help celebrate mine!
You can’t be serious! 😂
I love honest people...
Good work Dr,
The doctor is so knowledgeable...kudos to him
A good program
Good programme but let us always balance the equations to also please God on our daily relationships.
The issue with Nigeria is that there’s an overemphasis on religion at the expense of reality. While I believe in God’s power of salvation through Christ and the truth of the Scriptures, it’s important to stay grounded. Open your eyes, be wise, and avoid hypocrisy. Take medical advice from experts seriously-many health issues can be prevented with proper care rather than solely seeking healing during church services.
I most really commend this Doctor to have the courage to sit with four ladies and discuss this. A Lot of these women find it had to be objective when discussing an issue without getting emotional.
This is a very interesting and educative discussing
This doctor is really sound in his health science
I’m a lil bit over mid 30s and I’m not sexually active and by God’s grace I don’t really feel I’m missing out….
You are but you cannot know now but when you get to your 40 50 then the reality will set in
@ nothing will happen in Jesus name. By the way I don’t intend staying that long but there are people like that who have no problem…
Jedijedi don kill you finish...oponu ara Galetia
Morayo is a pretender, she is tired of the programme?
@@rayajao1566now that you have made me use laugh woke my landlady, Weldon oo 😅😅
How i just love this show
Yk vs marayo was hilarious. Well done 👍
The doctor is as truthful & yet professional in his discussion, kudos to him. But na this kind gist dey sweet men, 21 is 21😂😂, how many times should women have theirs too?🤷
21 times also
Lol
great show
This very educative
The doctor is not presenting his information as a well-trained, qualified medical professional, and he is at risk of misleading a lot of people. His claim that waking up without an erection signals cardiovascular disease is false. Many factors can cause a weak erection. Age is one of the causes, but he disputed this by citing a 90-year-old patient who fathered a child. However, this does not negate the fact that age can contribute to weak erections.
Having weak or no "morning erection" is different from having no erection at all. A man can wake up without a morning erection but still be able to achieve an erection later in the day, even if it's weak. Other factors, such as medication, diabetes, obesity, lack of sleep, alcohol, smoking, and drug abuse, can also contribute to the absence of morning erections.
Furthermore, he should provide sources for his claims. Which study confirmed everything he is saying? Is he simply making things up and presenting them without any links for verification?
Regarding his statement that men develop prostate issues because they are not having enough sex, this seems like an attempt to justify promiscuity rather than a scientifically backed claim. There is no conclusive data to support the idea that lack of sex leads to prostate enlargement. We should approach such issues critically and scientifically, not indulge in unfounded assumptions.
Additionally, the claim that women who are not having sex are at higher risk of developing breast cancer is equally flawed. What about genetics, lifestyle, race, radiation exposure, and other contributing factors? The doctor seems unaware of differential diagnosis and appears to base his assertions on personal beliefs rather than scientific evidence.
Do not take him seriously.
Are you a doctor? If yes.what years of experience?
Yes, I am. My years of experience don’t matter in this discourse. My point is, the world has moved past the era of people boldly making assertions on air without leaving room for proper verification. This simply means his assertions are just his personal opinions and not based on reliable or verifiable sources.
If you want people to learn because you stumbled upon some data, the least you can do is provide a reference so others can verify the information. There is no truth in anything he said because it cannot be substantiated. He is talking about breast cancer and prostate hyperplasia, which are very serious diseases. If his claims were true, don’t you think they would be widely known by now? Do you really believe you’d hear it from him first? Doctors worldwide would have been recommending such practices long before now if they were valid.
Everything he said is flawed. He also boldly admitted to having side chicks and cheating on his wife. That’s likely why he’s encouraging such behavior. He appears to have no understanding of professional ethics and might even be engaging in inappropriate relationships with his patients-if he’s truly a doctor at all.
Watch him carefully, and you’ll see how he constantly deviates from the questions being asked. Unfortunately, we Africans tend to swallow information hook, line, and sinker and base life decisions on it without critical thinking. I know some men will now beat their chests and use his words as justification to cheat.
Imagine claiming that having more sex reduces a woman’s risk of breast cancer! How does that work? We’re talking about science, right? There should be a clear explanation. His claims shouldn’t be based solely on personal opinion, but that’s all I see from him.
Chika,
I partly concur. I must tell you that am not a doctor. Most researches are sponsored and consequently tilt towards the aims/ objectives of the financiers. There are many diseases that orthodox medical practitioners will tell you that they are not curable but alternative medicine cure easily and comfortably. Humans speak from the angle of their interest. I have listened to the doctor on other platforms before arriving at this conclusion. He tends to support polygamy and promiscuity. As an adult, I know what I want but feel sorry for younger persons. I love his sincerity when it comes to his admission of keeping sidechicks. So many would have avoided that part. Citing research references is like using bible quotations to emphasise areas of our interest.
Well said
@@chikaejekwu1804first of all your years of experience matters don't dispute that because you yourself know that; also your area of specialization matters even though you may have general knowledge. Saying the Doc. Argument is flawed because you choose to only pick the Mens early morning erection and the women's breast cancer as related to lack of active sex; your own opinion is also flawed here because you neither provide us with reference as you claim he should do. I agree that more knowledge is going to come through research but the Doctor is not the first to make all this argument and won't be the last. I have watched many argue on same topic on RUclips. He may not be correct to some degree of percentage but he is making valid points. Let's have open mind and learn. There should be a reason why God creat man and woman body though similar but different.
The Dr is right, I'm not a medical Dr but came to conclusions about this matters from my close and far observations and experiences.
The reason why African lawmakers must not embrace polygamy is that most men that would have more than 2 children cannot care for them. What African men must learn is that not every sex should result in babies. That is wht we must preach love making not sex.
Good question Tope
No wonder the Dr is looking so fresh. He is getting the correct number of times. This on its own is proof 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Aunty YK is looking too serious. She be like student wey dey class.
I love you guys, all of you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
THE BEST 'YOUR VIEW' EVER! "Sex Education is not about sex." A vital topic seriously but hilariously addressed. 😂😂😂
Love the intellect
The Dr is on the right path, that's why always from any angle you look at Islam,has solve this problem with polygamy
this has to be the boldest yoruba man ever...admitting to having side chics on national tv looooool you are made differently my G
That's no news oh! It's generally believed that african men have side chics nowadays. And men are pushing the narrative for women to accept it; but most of these men are also pushing the narrative that women don't need sex. It's about moral and societal expectations on the part of the women not because they don't need it to be healthy. More research should be carried out in this regards.
You dey believe him? Well I don't. He's just say what he preaches not practice. Someone that said his wife queried him about his previous video that went viral
@@alhaja19635 Do you live with his wife? Lol
They nearly turned him into prey because discussing this kind of topic among these brilliant women is beyond difficult but attempting one way of 1000s ways to die…. But l love the way he established his stance with FACT ❤ Great Doc indeed 😊
This man is absolutely honest
The doctor is making sense ..weldone
Pls which states the doctor is in the United States?
I love this topic 🙂❤🎉😂
He talked briefly about cardio vascular problem and increase in dht levels but made no mention on how to seek help solving such problems.
Ladies, the truth will set you free, but first it may upset and disturb you
I love this topic 😂😂😂😂
Are you saying 21 times per week or month?
Would exercise help to prevent these diseases? Sex is essentially a form of exercise. Keeping active. Balancing hormones.
Exercise is different from sex. 😅😅
Exercise never result into ejaculation except sexual activity. Food or exercise has never proven to significantly reduces prostrate cancer….So sex reduces prostrate cancer in men and helps reduce breast cancer, ovarian cancer, cervical cancer in women etc
Please I need an answer. Ejaculating 21 times does it mean to have in 21 days or it can be achieved in 2weeks?
Their emotions won't even let them listen to learn.
Him accepting it for himself.. Is that your problem to hear and solve? They can't even get out of their emotions
Please we need this doctor for more sensitization
The Dr really shakes table 😮
God bless YK. I also noticed Morayo contenance
Dr. Many thanks
Abstinence from sex as a result of religious holiness has caused me to have ovarian cyst and doctors said i must have adequate sex. As a single mother, what is the advise you have for me please? The pain is really killing...🙏🙏🙏
Simple, have sex
Wahala 😂.
I am still single and I drink bottled water almost everytime.
😊😊😊😊😊😊
The discussants have not given any considerations to the glaring fact that reverend fathers who are celibate do not have higher prevalence of prostate cancer
On the other hand most of the men in the villages who married many wives and died couldn't not have had prostate biopsy to ascertain the cause of death
The producer of this show as it has turned out to be can add quality by inviting professionals and research scientists
I agree with you totally.
21 times 😂😂😂😂we listen, but we don't judge
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If the doctor has side-chicks and wants a reason to control his wife he us free to do so. He should keep it to himself and not encourage others. He us talking rubbish.
YK no go kill me ...say Morayo dey sad. 😂😅...Truth is a lot of homes/marriages dey suffer but because of our kind of society, people are dying in silence. It is well
You are totally right, society morals is killing a lot of homes
Does this man understanding how such breaks families and children. Women we're treated us people without feelings. There's nothing that hurt's like infidelity, it break's family bond's
That is what western world make you believe against African Tradition.
Why does the show always have to end with women's health is it a bad thing to focus on men😢
The issue with Nigeria is that there’s an overemphasis on religion at the expense of reality. While I believe in God’s power of salvation through Christ and the truth of the Scriptures, it’s important to stay grounded. Open your eyes, be wise, and avoid hypocrisy. Take medical advice from experts seriously-many health issues can be prevented with proper care rather than solely seeking healing during church services.
Ladies on your view we listen we don't judge 😅😅😅
Great show quite informative.
Dr Abassi, you're wonderful!
Una no de like let Doctor finish Important lines
.zj
How can we contact the Dr in U.S
Leave their show for them
Did our grandma had sex every time, the cancer is to do with our life style.
This narrative is drawn from a resesrch study.
However he deliberately neglected to put the conclusion that the authors of that work that "more studies are required to investigate their finding"
Thank you
Tope should stop interrupting
Is it 21days or 21 times a month?
21 times a month
questions plenty oh
Good evening. What is the cause of a married woman, not having an urge for sex?
Sir, what is your address in the U.S?
Did I just hear- “Side chick money he will see something” that’s hilarious 😆 so that’s the real problem
That's dopamine for you
Why is tope taking this personal 😅😅it's like her husband is in this table 🤔 😳
Funny but interesting...
Is Murayo married?
He said I don't do that
Nice Topic 😂
Everything the doctor said is fact is science, biology and real fact ..
According to this Doctor," bottled water reduces sperm motility ' THIS IS REALLY SERIOUS o!
i swear and he is saying the truth oo
I'm still a virgin @ 38, please doctor what is the risk of my sexual life and my health.
Doctors don't have final say. The Pope is a very old man without getting married.
It's only a problem if you've never had an ejaculation at that age. A healthy man who is not having sexual intercourse would have his body helping out through nocturnal emission which happens naturally. So as long as you ejaculated, it shouldn't be a problem.
You are very okk dont believe all these lies
Pls there's nothing wrong with you when it's time for you to settle down, you will do well dear.
You need to write all the carry overs.