I understand exactly where youre coming from. I had a relationship like that too, beautiful person inside and out that I took for granted because I was so angry and depressed at the world. Dont give up. Take care of yourself. Youre obviously not unhealthy physically. You are loved
You even said at the end, you have a friend. Take care of him. Accept yourself more, and your friendship with all your friends will blossom even further
“and there will come a day when you suddenly go, oh. That's why. That's why it was worth living and sticking around. I understand. And then the moment passes, and you might forget again. But that's okay, because life is an abundance of such moments. They will come back.” - some random person on tumblr that aside please don’t give up. you’ve survived all your hard days thus far and you can survive the ones that will come. you will thrive sooner or later , I know it. if no one else, ill be really sad if you took away your life.
We are all loveable. The algo sent me here for a reason. Just had another relationship fail and when you're 30 it's harder. Had some hope but that also crashed and burned spectacularly. The hardest part was putting aside that anguish of wanting to be loved by another. I saved my own life by curling up into fetal position during my darkest times, and speaking to a child version of myself and telling her she is loved. If not by anyone else, by me. Sending good vibes from n California. We have a lot in common. I believe in you. hugs
Your gonna be just fine. Even if you don't believe me. Also try and Stay happy and positive. One of the most important things to understand is you are the one who is responsible for your happiness and well being not relying on others to make you happy. Find a passion or different hobby, try to explore or ride a bike. But you have to just Try and fail. Because if you haven't tried then you'll never know. I wish you only the best and for good luck and fortune to come your way. Take care bud. And keep your head always up.
If it doesn’t work for 1 person. It doesn’t work for both. We own no one and are all on a learning journey 🩵 Have some compassion for yourself.. seems you’re doing the best you can. Chin up dear x 💪
Hey man just came across your video I too am going through a similar situation had a separation with the love of my life its a very strange period right now because we have separated but still talk to each other and I too hope to get another chance having a relationship and making it right, Antidepressants help a bit but later on I learned especially for me any exercise even running just lets all those dark thoughts melt away, keep your head up I know depression can feel like forever but there is a light at the end of the tunnel and I know things will get better for you in time.
You CAN NOT DEPEND ON SOMEONE TO MAKE YOU WHOLE they aren’t your missing piece they should complement you never substitute you, Idk why straight guys are like this it’s some weird phenomenon straight guys have, there’s 5 billion women on this planet, wash your hair stop depending on pills and talk to people, trust me I have ASPD and I HATE conversating with people it makes me feel like I’ve drank a big four loco if I can do it you definitely can you’re very handsome just do things that you like and what I found works for me is holding my breath for 10 seconds each in five intervals and I concentrate on what I want to do Zoe just ride my bicycle, and SLEEP IS VERY IMPORTANT, from your pillows to your mattress it’s texture all these things matter I’m a night owl so I don’t start getting sleepy until 6am or 11am. There’s really no easy answer if you have loved ones talk to them, there’s nothing wrong with asking advice from those who love you, I truly do hope you find peace but first you have to take care of yourself, one man to another I’m not gonna lie you look a hot mess but so do I.
You’re allowed to take time to heal when going through something like a break up and it’s okay to take a longer time than what seems normal. Don’t worry everything is going to work out in the end! Hope you’re better soon though!
Hopping on a bicycle, quite literally saved my life. Highly recommended.
The area where I live is trash to drive through with a bike
I literally feel you on this , he left two years ago and I still feel like this , it’s so heavy I feel so numb and lost
I understand exactly where youre coming from. I had a relationship like that too, beautiful person inside and out that I took for granted because I was so angry and depressed at the world. Dont give up. Take care of yourself. Youre obviously not unhealthy physically. You are loved
You even said at the end, you have a friend. Take care of him. Accept yourself more, and your friendship with all your friends will blossom even further
“and there will come a day when you suddenly go, oh. That's why. That's why it was worth living and sticking around. I understand.
And then the moment passes, and you might forget again.
But that's okay, because life is an abundance of such moments. They will come back.” - some random person on tumblr
that aside please don’t give up. you’ve survived all your hard days thus far and you can survive the ones that will come. you will thrive sooner or later , I know it.
if no one else, ill be really sad if you took away your life.
♥️ thanks for Ur comnent
You'll be okay! Best of luck! 👍
We are all loveable. The algo sent me here for a reason. Just had another relationship fail and when you're 30 it's harder. Had some hope but that also crashed and burned spectacularly. The hardest part was putting aside that anguish of wanting to be loved by another. I saved my own life by curling up into fetal position during my darkest times, and speaking to a child version of myself and telling her she is loved. If not by anyone else, by me. Sending good vibes from n California. We have a lot in common. I believe in you. hugs
I’m sorry to hear about your troubles, it does suck immensely. Also I’m from Cali too 😎🙌
Your gonna be just fine. Even if you don't believe me. Also try and Stay happy and positive. One of the most important things to understand is you are the one who is responsible for your happiness and well being not relying on others to make you happy. Find a passion or different hobby, try to explore or ride a bike. But you have to just Try and fail. Because if you haven't tried then you'll never know. I wish you only the best and for good luck and fortune to come your way. Take care bud. And keep your head always up.
If it doesn’t work for 1 person. It doesn’t work for both. We own no one and are all on a learning journey 🩵 Have some compassion for yourself.. seems you’re doing the best you can. Chin up dear x 💪
Hey man just came across your video I too am going through a similar situation had a separation with the love of my life its a very strange period right now because we have separated but still talk to each other and I too hope to get another chance having a relationship and making it right, Antidepressants help a bit but later on I learned especially for me any exercise even running just lets all those dark thoughts melt away, keep your head up I know depression can feel like forever but there is a light at the end of the tunnel and I know things will get better for you in time.
Take care man, good luck today. Sending good energy
Thank you, I seriously hope this is just a transition phase for the meds
@@jonathangunther879 it is quite possible
You CAN NOT DEPEND ON SOMEONE TO MAKE YOU WHOLE they aren’t your missing piece they should complement you never substitute you, Idk why straight guys are like this it’s some weird phenomenon straight guys have, there’s 5 billion women on this planet, wash your hair stop depending on pills and talk to people, trust me I have ASPD and I HATE conversating with people it makes me feel like I’ve drank a big four loco if I can do it you definitely can you’re very handsome just do things that you like and what I found works for me is holding my breath for 10 seconds each in five intervals and I concentrate on what I want to do Zoe just ride my bicycle, and SLEEP IS VERY IMPORTANT, from your pillows to your mattress it’s texture all these things matter I’m a night owl so I don’t start getting sleepy until 6am or 11am. There’s really no easy answer if you have loved ones talk to them, there’s nothing wrong with asking advice from those who love you, I truly do hope you find peace but first you have to take care of yourself, one man to another I’m not gonna lie you look a hot mess but so do I.
You’re allowed to take time to heal when going through something like a break up and it’s okay to take a longer time than what seems normal. Don’t worry everything is going to work out in the end! Hope you’re better soon though!
ima die too
Awwwee buddy. It’ll be ok, keep hitting the gym. ❤
Oh trying to, strength has gone down a little unfortunately
@@jonathangunther879 film gym content! I’ve love to watch
Oh I’ll have plenty soon
You're pretty
Thank you 🙏