@@JustMalcolm914 Rejecting someone over something they can’t work on is “worse” than rejecting someone over something they can is what I’m focused on. Preferences exist but let’s stay on topic 😂
I saw where this was going and I couldn't agree more with Tay. So so so many women shame us short guys. Like we have a choice! And what's crazy is big women still manage to get big girls but God forbid a guy doesn't want a big girl. Change it then! Go on a diet! Exercise! Weight and being big can be changed!
5’2 man here; I knew what all the women were gonna answer. Men in general don’t get much sympathy- let alone short ones. We can’t change our height but are treated like trash because of it regardless. But call out a woman on a bad lifestyle choice? God forbid.
exactly when it comes to height a lot of it is genetics while weight is not weight it is about whether you eat healthy drink or smoke if you do any of these things then you can't be shocked when you end up like my mom whose a type 2 diabetes or like my stepfather who has heart problems
I wish alot of women just say they like tall men or prefer talller men. Making fun of a guy because of his height is childish tbh Also I wish women would stop infantizing big women. They know their role/options in the dating world and they don't need our pity or silly double standards comparison between them and short men
@@DreadBoi504 But both a short man and overweight woman can be rejected for those sole reasons and that's okay. Ppl get rejected for way less. Preferences and attraction exist and the truth is it doesn't matter if a factor that is part of you is within your control or not, if that person is not attracted to you, they're just not attracted to you and don't owe you a date.
@@blueiris1542 I disagree, again, I seen a tall woman dating a dwarf on love don't judge. I seen a big woman marry a man and she has twins babies. Can we say Gabby Sidibe??
@@blueiris1542 It’s still worse to get rejected over something you can’t even control or work on is the point I was emphasizing. You say people get rejected for less than that and I disagree entirely with that part. If you get rejected over 1 superficial thing you can’t even work on, there’s nothing more less than that. Are you owed a date, of course not. 😂 I’m more than aware that the world owes nobody anything. You are attracted to whom you’re attracted to. That’s correct. I’d never deny that.
Great points she made. I'm a guy who's 5'10 in height. Overall that's not short, but it feels short to me. However, I honestly wouldn't mind dating/marrying a young lady taller than me as long as she isn't too much taller. I'll never date an obese woman however. Yes intentionally getting fat is a choice, and not a good one.
Thr ONLY thing you said wrong was that you apologize. If the truth offends, then it offends..dont ever apologize for speaking the truth. Being fat is a choice...Im about 50 lbs overweight myself....not because I was born this way, but because I eat a lot and dont work out...its a choice, its a fact...but nothing will change a persons height. They height, and appearance is made in the womb. Dont apologize.
@@savonlofton 5’9 is average but most of the gals want a man that’s 6 ft or taller. I’m the opposite although I’d prefer shorter women; I would date a taller woman 100% *if she meets my expectations* same for shorter women.
I swear, the veritable encyclopedia of excuses that women will trot out for being overweight is insane. Some of them get so heated when you call them on their bullshit, too. I lost more than 100lbs while on dialysis. What most people do not know about dialysis is that it causes diabetes and weight gain because the dialysate used to clean your blood is based on glucose or dextrose, depending on brand. If I can lose that much weight while spending ten years on a treatment that is actively working against that goal, I have zero time for anyone's excuses. Especially when the process of losing weight is as simple as eat less, exercise more.
With the way that a large contingent of women are nowadays I honestly don’t think I will ever date, get married or have kids. I’ll just adapt and learn to be comfortable all by myself
@@EddieDerty like i said, I seen a tall woman dating a dwarf on love don't judge. I seen a big woman marry a man and she has twins babies. Can we say Gabby Sidibe??
Here's my thing. It's obvious one can change something that the other can't. However, a preference is a preference. Men have a right to reject fat women and women have a right to reject short men. No shade from either side is necessary. Like what you like and keep it moving. Being fat is unhealthy at least lose the weight for yourself if not for potential mates.
A man can't control his height, but a woman can control her weight. Keeping it real. I rather date and be in a relationship with a woman shorter than me. It doesn't look right when the woman is taller than the man.
Most Mexican mem are so that really doesn't count because of course Mexican women will be loyal to their own. Find a white or black guy as short and small as him that's NOT famous and a multi millionaire.
I agree with tay because you can't fix being short but you can fix being overweight. You can exercise regularly and maintain a healthy weight. But the other way around a person can not choose to be tall or short it's just meant to be for certain people who were born to be that way. Some people are born with no legs or arms and they can't do anything about it but yeah it's weird how people judge someone of something not in their control.
Women don’t have to date short men, but men don’t need to date short women either. I’m 6 foot and I don’t want to doom my kids to be short. Nobody should be fat though. I’m fat right now because I’ve been lazy.
The minimum cost of leg-lengthening surgery is $100,000. This does not even take into consideration the cost of rehabilition & recovery, which is anywhere from 18 to 24 months. Let's also remember that these men endure excruciating pain throughout the whole process in order to gain a few inches or several inches of height. It is the equivalent of walking on stilts. The two main reasons for it are to attract women, & to improve their job prospects.
That’s exactly why rejecting someone based off what they can’t change makes more sense. To put it simply lets a girl has to choose between two guys. Guy A is tall but chubby and Guy B is short but fit. Guy A can always trim down and get into shape. Guy B can’t get taller. The girl can grow more attracted to Guy A but with Guy B she’d be wasting his time because she’s never gonna find shortness attractive.
It’s instinctive. Height is a masculine feature the way wide hips are a feminine feature. We don’t know exactly why we love wide hips we just know that we do.
Shit! I can relate to this. I've been rejected in the past all because of my height. I'm 5'10 Sometimes I wish I was 6'1 or 6'2 but God made me the way I am and I understand that. I was put on earth to be real not perfect. 💯
Yoo as a dude my homies call me out and make fun of me for flaws then help with it. Most girls just verbally have girls backs and don’t help them at all just say you still a ten girl. We just built different
I’m 6 foot. I’m too short now to some. I don’t take offense because my height is my height. Weight on the other can mostly be controlled. But as soon as men give women a taste of their very own medicine you’re a bad guy. I don’t shame fat women, so don’t shame our height. My wife is on the plump side but I don’t love her any less. Respect is a 2 way street. Give it as you would like it. Don’t shame if you don’t want to be shamed.
The kicker is I see so many big babes who are genuinely gorgeous n pleasant but too much of an AROUND the way gurl for most guys. SIZE DOES MATTER ! But notice I said most guys; some dudes I grew up with really like em BIG!! Also, Lil Pretty gurlz are meanest, cruel, and unruly to strudy-heavy gurlz. Yo,let large chick hang out with her man, who has it goin on. Lil dames will openly, with no shame, hate on her.
Let me tell you something, I seen a tall woman dating a dwarf on love don't judge. I seen a big woman marry a man and she has twins babies. Can we say Gabby Sidibe. I have to disagree, it's all about the preference on what you like and what your looking for. 😊
Nah they don't bro. Let them keep going to bed ALONE. Truth be told if you real handsome that height stuff goes out the window. I'm 5"7 and plenty women approach me.😂
Not really. If women find height attractive nothing is gonna make them find shortness sexually attractive vs women who can always lose weight and become more attractive in the future.
I'm going to say it's worst for making fun of a short guy. And I'm fat, so I ain't even being bias here. However, you do have some women that can be made fun of for just having bigger body parts. No plastic surgery, just naturally born that way. Like Sherri Shepherd just has big boobs. Even when she lost a lot of weight her boobs make her look huge. Same thing for girls with huge hips. It may genetically not be in everyones cards to be slim.
That’s so crazy. Weight is something everyone can work on while someone’s height isn’t. That’s insane work.
Be a man get the surgery😂
Asian, Hispanic and Indian women don't have a problem with short men so who cares what american women think😂
Preferences
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Rejecting someone over something they can’t work on is “worse” than rejecting someone over something they can is what I’m focused on. Preferences exist but let’s stay on topic 😂
@@DreadBoi504 trust me I get it
I saw where this was going and I couldn't agree more with Tay. So so so many women shame us short guys. Like we have a choice! And what's crazy is big women still manage to get big girls but God forbid a guy doesn't want a big girl. Change it then! Go on a diet! Exercise! Weight and being big can be changed!
Asian , Hispanic and Indian women have no problem with short guys
5’2 man here; I knew what all the women were gonna answer. Men in general don’t get much sympathy- let alone short ones. We can’t change our height but are treated like trash because of it regardless. But call out a woman on a bad lifestyle choice? God forbid.
exactly when it comes to height a lot of it is genetics while weight is not weight it is about whether you eat healthy drink or smoke if you do any of these things then you can't be shocked when you end up like my mom whose a type 2 diabetes or like my stepfather who has heart problems
4'7ft. ♿ man here. It's even worse. At best they see me as a Chi-chia pet or a Pokémon. Any other time I'm invisible.
Weight vs height! I agree with you Tay
Guys Im 5"7. Never approach a woman. Only respond to the ones that approach you. I get plenty women.
Oh b.s😂
@JustMalcolm914 Hang out with me one day and I'll show you how it's done. You guys make yourself look weak chasing after women.
@user-cv7no8bj9v lol wasn't the statement I made tho
I always appreciate it when people keep it all the way 💯
I wish alot of women just say they like tall men or prefer talller men. Making fun of a guy because of his height is childish tbh
Also I wish women would stop infantizing big women. They know their role/options in the dating world and they don't need our pity or silly double standards comparison between them and short men
Them same woman's will get off camera and talk shit about them same woman's
So it's ok for women to reject men cause of their height???
Yes! Just like a man can reject a woman based off her weight
@@blueiris1542
Weight is something you have control over while your height isn’t.
@@DreadBoi504 But both a short man and overweight woman can be rejected for those sole reasons and that's okay.
Ppl get rejected for way less. Preferences and attraction exist and the truth is it doesn't matter if a factor that is part of you is within your control or not, if that person is not attracted to you, they're just not attracted to you and don't owe you a date.
@@blueiris1542 I disagree, again, I seen a tall woman dating a dwarf on love don't judge. I seen a big woman marry a man and she has twins babies. Can we say Gabby Sidibe??
@@blueiris1542
It’s still worse to get rejected over something you can’t even control or work on is the point I was emphasizing. You say people get rejected for less than that and I disagree entirely with that part. If you get rejected over 1 superficial thing you can’t even work on, there’s nothing more less than that. Are you owed a date, of course not. 😂 I’m more than aware that the world owes nobody anything. You are attracted to whom you’re attracted to. That’s correct. I’d never deny that.
Great points she made. I'm a guy who's 5'10 in height. Overall that's not short, but it feels short to me. However, I honestly wouldn't mind dating/marrying a young lady taller than me as long as she isn't too much taller. I'll never date an obese woman however. Yes intentionally getting fat is a choice, and not a good one.
It’s nice to tell a man he’s short
I'm fat, fat can be changed but short can't
This is yet another reason to go MGTOW.
Exactly. I get a lot of women at 5"7 but most of them ain't worth nothing 😂
@user-cv7no8bj9v I don't get a lot, but even the ones I do, turn out to dislike my height!
Wise words ❤
Thr ONLY thing you said wrong was that you apologize. If the truth offends, then it offends..dont ever apologize for speaking the truth. Being fat is a choice...Im about 50 lbs overweight myself....not because I was born this way, but because I eat a lot and dont work out...its a choice, its a fact...but nothing will change a persons height. They height, and appearance is made in the womb.
Dont apologize.
Facts!
Great video, Tay!
100% FACTS Tay as always angel in disguise! Thank you for all your amazing content❤
I’m short “5’9” you know how many times I’ve been told I don’t date men below 6 foot?
I took the rejection like a b0sS though lol
I'm right there with ya
You're average height. You're not short. I'm shorter than you. I'm considered short for a man at 5'7-5'8
@@theparadoxzone87 the struggle is real lol but I make for my “shortcomings” (height) in another department of my body lol 😉
@@savonlofton 5’9 is average but most of the gals want a man that’s 6 ft or taller.
I’m the opposite although I’d prefer shorter women; I would date a taller woman 100% *if she meets my expectations* same for shorter women.
Never chase women only respond to the women that approach you. I'm 5"7 and get plenty women just by eating right and exercise.
I agree. Even though medicine can make u gain weight there is a difference between being a little chunky and needing special size clothes.
I enjoy watching your videos! You’re such an awesome woman!
I swear, the veritable encyclopedia of excuses that women will trot out for being overweight is insane. Some of them get so heated when you call them on their bullshit, too. I lost more than 100lbs while on dialysis. What most people do not know about dialysis is that it causes diabetes and weight gain because the dialysate used to clean your blood is based on glucose or dextrose, depending on brand.
If I can lose that much weight while spending ten years on a treatment that is actively working against that goal, I have zero time for anyone's excuses. Especially when the process of losing weight is as simple as eat less, exercise more.
With the way that a large contingent of women are nowadays I honestly don’t think I will ever date, get married or have kids. I’ll just adapt and learn to be comfortable all by myself
I've lost count the number of times ive been rejected cause im short.... don't even care anymore
@@EddieDerty like i said, I seen a tall woman dating a dwarf on love don't judge. I seen a big woman marry a man and she has twins babies. Can we say Gabby Sidibe??
U are spot on tay
Imma be honest, i love big woman
Here's my thing. It's obvious one can change something that the other can't. However, a preference is a preference. Men have a right to reject fat women and women have a right to reject short men. No shade from either side is necessary. Like what you like and keep it moving. Being fat is unhealthy at least lose the weight for yourself if not for potential mates.
So much insane work out here. Can't control height tbh
I have to be brutally honest me as a man I love BBW ❤ and I don’t care what nobody says or nobody thinks and that’s just real talk
A man can't control his height, but a woman can control her weight.
Keeping it real. I rather date and be in a relationship with a woman shorter than me. It doesn't look right when the woman is taller than the man.
Rey Mysterio is Short and he's married with 2 kids. no excuses!!
Most Mexican mem are so that really doesn't count because of course Mexican women will be loyal to their own. Find a white or black guy as short and small as him that's NOT famous and a multi millionaire.
Big Rey got that money and he probably married to a Hispanic but I feel you. I'm 5"7 and get a lot of fine women 😂
😂😂
@@user-cv7no8bj9v then how lol
I agree with tay because you can't fix being short but you can fix being overweight. You can exercise regularly and maintain a healthy weight. But the other way around a person can not choose to be tall or short it's just meant to be for certain people who were born to be that way. Some people are born with no legs or arms and they can't do anything about it but yeah it's weird how people judge someone of something not in their control.
American women stupid like that. That's why they have all those diseases because they sleep with the same men.
Straight facts
Women don’t have to date short men, but men don’t need to date short women either. I’m 6 foot and I don’t want to doom my kids to be short. Nobody should be fat though. I’m fat right now because I’ve been lazy.
The minimum cost of leg-lengthening surgery is $100,000. This does not even take into consideration the cost of rehabilition & recovery, which is anywhere from 18 to 24 months. Let's also remember that these men endure excruciating pain throughout the whole process in order to gain a few inches or several inches of height. It is the equivalent of walking on stilts. The two main reasons for it are to attract women, & to improve their job prospects.
Thank you. ( 5'6)
3:34 Facts!!!
God looked at me and said,"Nah, too many 6'2 lightskins on Earth. Gotta nerf you to make it fair for the rest of men." Then decided to make me 5'7🤣😭
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FACTS......on......FACTS
I thoight no one had to give an explanation as to why they reject you? You definitely should not question it from a woman.
Agree
The woman rejecting a short man
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I'm a 6'3 vanilla brunette woman and my hubsand is a 5'11 chocolate man.
You can control or maintain your weight. Love the fact she said women don't drink water. Drink more water for your own health sake.
That’s exactly why rejecting someone based off what they can’t change makes more sense. To put it simply lets a girl has to choose between two guys. Guy A is tall but chubby and Guy B is short but fit. Guy A can always trim down and get into shape. Guy B can’t get taller. The girl can grow more attracted to Guy A but with Guy B she’d be wasting his time because she’s never gonna find shortness attractive.
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To me that question is a toss up. Both are equally as bad. Both the plus size woman and the short man will get their feelings hurt.
Also a lot of women don't even know why they like tall men, they just repeat what their friends say.
It’s instinctive. Height is a masculine feature the way wide hips are a feminine feature. We don’t know exactly why we love wide hips we just know that we do.
Shit! I can relate to this. I've been rejected in the past all because of my height. I'm 5'10 Sometimes I wish I was 6'1 or 6'2 but God made me the way I am and I understand that. I was put on earth to be real not perfect. 💯
I get rejected sometimes I’m 6’1 don’t wish for more height g 😂😂
@rastafit23 I'll take it under consideration 😂👍🏾💯
@quintinjxander You not short at all bro 5’10 is tall .
@@rastafit23 Thank you so much. It's good to know their still genuine down to earth people out there. 💯🙏🏾
Be you bro don’t change yeah bro being authentic is very rare now . ✊🏾@quintinjxander
Yoo as a dude my homies call me out and make fun of me for flaws then help with it. Most girls just verbally have girls backs and don’t help them at all just say you still a ten girl. We just built different
Yall see the meme before:
Women call lizzo stunning and amazing:🥰😍
Women when men call them lizzo: 😡😡😡🤬🤬
I wonder what would be said if it is a fat man and a short woman
I’m 6 foot. I’m too short now to some. I don’t take offense because my height is my height. Weight on the other can mostly be controlled. But as soon as men give women a taste of their very own medicine you’re a bad guy. I don’t shame fat women, so don’t shame our height. My wife is on the plump side but I don’t love her any less. Respect is a 2 way street. Give it as you would like it. Don’t shame if you don’t want to be shamed.
If a person can't respect themselves enough to be at least a healthy weight, then why tf should I?
The kicker is I see so many big babes who are genuinely gorgeous n pleasant but too much of an AROUND the way gurl for most guys. SIZE DOES MATTER ! But notice I said most guys; some dudes I grew up with really like em BIG!! Also, Lil Pretty gurlz are meanest, cruel, and unruly to strudy-heavy gurlz. Yo,let large chick hang out with her man, who has it goin on. Lil dames will openly, with no shame, hate on her.
If they bot short its a win win.
Let me tell you something, I seen a tall woman dating a dwarf on love don't judge. I seen a big woman marry a man and she has twins babies. Can we say Gabby Sidibe. I have to disagree, it's all about the preference on what you like and what your looking for. 😊
Dam this woman is amazing 😍
I love this lady. Please let's date each other 😊
Exactly. They’re so full of crap.
Facts
I'm 6'2 and I have & would reject fat women. Not attracted to them.
As far as height on a woman, short and tall I'm cool with.
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You can control your weight but not your height.
Absolute idiocy. This height thing makes me laugh as a dating assessment requirement.
Straight men wouldn’t understand
Respect 🫡
Weight can be managed but your height can't. Insecurity at super all time high right now. 🤦🏾😒
Nah bro only American women are stupid like that. Think about it the Hispanic, Asian and Indian women all have short men. Get one of them 😂
@@AndyHall48 Let most of these women take their make up off and they go from a 7 to a 5😂
@user-cv7no8bj9v 🤣🤣😂😂 Ikr! U can't make this s🤬t up!
At some point yall got to stop discriminating against height .
Nah they don't bro. Let them keep going to bed ALONE. Truth be told if you real handsome that height stuff goes out the window. I'm 5"7 and plenty women approach me.😂
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The woman is worse...
Weight can be managed and controlled.
Height is not
Not really. If women find height attractive nothing is gonna make them find shortness sexually attractive vs women who can always lose weight and become more attractive in the future.
That’s my opinion tho
The entitlement and fakeness women.
I'm going to say it's worst for making fun of a short guy. And I'm fat, so I ain't even being bias here. However, you do have some women that can be made fun of for just having bigger body parts. No plastic surgery, just naturally born that way. Like Sherri Shepherd just has big boobs. Even when she lost a lot of weight her boobs make her look huge. Same thing for girls with huge hips. It may genetically not be in everyones cards to be slim.
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