Don't Invite Us To Weddings - Just Saying Episode 65
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- Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
- Your partner finds another person hot? Are grudges necessary? Not invited to a wedding?
Ya our lives quite sad actually...
Timestamps :
00:00 -00:07 - Introductions
00:08 - 02:21 - Would You Be Upset If You're Just A Replacement?
02:22 - 04:22 - You're Not Invited? Check Yourself
04:23 - 05:10 - You're invited To A Wedding To Cover Cost
05:11 - 07:08 - You're Upset That Your Partner Loves Your Child More
07:09 - 13:42 - Your Partner Finds Someone Else Hot
13:43 - 18:18 - Do We Hold Grudges?
18:19 - 24:28 - What Does It Mean To Be The Bigger Person?
Just Saying Crew:
Dew Francis - / dewdropzz
Saffron Sharpe - / saffronsharpe
Jade Rasif - / djjaderasif
Munah Bagharib - / munahbagharib
Keisha Sarah - / keishasarah
Jacky : / jackyngcomedy
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25marks Hottake: I feel like the whole "being a bigger/better person" is such a scam. Its always explained in an altruistic fashion when in reality achieving it only benefits one party and not all as preached.
E.g. forgiving your rapist, forgiving the person who abused you/bullied you/pinjam money never paid back etc - forgiving does nothing for your hurt, your trauma, your losses, your PTSD etc; the only people who benefit are those who stand to "feel" relinquished from moral consequences and any burden of guilt for their involvement. It's not human to be whole heartedly accepting and forgiving of any maleficence done untowards you - that just makes you a pushover/spineless, and normalising this platitude of virtue signalling only creates an environment for abusers and assholes to thrive without consequences.
I don't think that's fair, plus to then twist it around and call it 'grudge-keeping' or 'petty' is textbook gaslighting imo. The only time keeping a grudge is bad is when it becomes an obsession and preoccupies your thoughts/energy/time to the point you cannot function normally with your day to day life as you should.
Likewise, I feel like pettiness stems more from having a subconscious urge to inflict greater harm/harbour malicious intent towards the other party in a vengeful, one-up kind of way that in itself goes against your own values/principles reflecting your moral hypocrisy more than anything.
Tldr: Agree with the cast, you do you la and whatever it takes for you to survive and recover - don't let others dictate how you should emotionally respond especially when your reactions and stances aren't doing you or innocent people around you any harm per se. Protect and look out for yourself, others can jaga tepi kain sendiri lor. 🤷♀️
@20:52 I really needed that definition from Francis. Recently held a grudge against someone at work and was undecided on whether to confront her or not.
I was once invited for a wedding in Penang 2 weeks before the wedding and the RSVP indicated on the invitation was 2 months ago. This fella tried to save the already destroyed friendship with the invite but only cast the end in stone.
Jade from HA-HA to HEH-HEH .That was cute and funny
Jade: "his type skinny...but it's ironic cuz he was so fat"
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RIP ears when Dew screams hahahaha 🤣😂
My grudge is !!! Where is berborak je kl version 😢
The last part got me thinking about an episode where you all talk about the thing u dont agree . your views on certain things or wtv . I just wanna see where it ends up ]
damn relatable
Munah delts looking toned.
Respect Munah for owning up where she feels like she is being petty
I am upset because Keisha is not here
What brand is Dew's shirt?
dew should tone down, pls stop shouting!
Stop watching then