Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Again, I Went Through ‘Hell’

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  • @blessingmarwisa6965
    @blessingmarwisa6965 8 лет назад +28

    We leave everything to God, for he is the one who knows your secrets that led to your divorce , Pastor Chris and Anita. We won't judge.

  • @moeketsimgqwetho385
    @moeketsimgqwetho385 6 лет назад +3

    You were right by walking out of your marriage if it was within the word of God e.g fornication/adultery. However if you stayed it would have been more glorious, the bible does not say you must walk away but says you have a right to.
    It would have shown us your flok how matured in leadership and level of christianity you are in and how close to christ by suffering for the sake of the christ embassy church that you built and protecting the faith of your members by not allowing them to see your weaknesses and therefore lose faith because I am sure a lot of numbers were affected by this. If you truly love your husband then you still love him, forget all colon sense, take a plane and go back to your husband, I'm sure he also misses you but his full of pride, at least you are a woman so you can fight your pride, surprise us, do the last thing that the devil expected and just go back...Amen

  • @elizabethshivute5017
    @elizabethshivute5017 8 лет назад +25

    We love you Pastor Chris! you have build life's, with the word of God, and today I am a Victor!!!

    • @nancylakot8139
      @nancylakot8139 7 лет назад +2

      True my dear. He needs our prayers. He is in a battle. It is the end times and women like her can be used to bring down strong men of God. Look what happen benny inn. May the Lord keep Pastor chris strong and humble

    • @lornalewis7953
      @lornalewis7953 7 лет назад +2

      Why take side

    • @hopegospel8813
      @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад +4

      BECAUSE NO ONE WANT TO DIE LIKE THE YOUNG PROPHET SO STICK TO THE VOICE THAT SPOKE TO YOU FROM THE FIRST DAY SO AS TO BE SAVE

    • @mizta_pita
      @mizta_pita 7 лет назад

      GILDAS pillar thank you for that Rhema

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 5 лет назад +1

    Women go through turbulent period in marriage.marriage almost killed me,it squized every good thing out of me leaving me a shell with bitterness and hate.i cannot explain that experience in words but i wish i could to help someone.God bless Anita.

  • @elizabethasenso-okyere6655
    @elizabethasenso-okyere6655 8 лет назад +42

    I'm not a member of Christ Embassy, but my heart bled and continues to bleed for this situation between Pastors Chris and Anita. I was married for 25 years before I became a widow and I know that A LOT happens in marriage. What we humans see is the 'outside'. To think that even the powerful prophet Samuel (in the bible) made a mistake by looking on the 'outside' and God had to tell him, that He God looks at the heart means so much. All that glitters is not gold. As a woman, and having been in marriage, I KNOW that 'ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD'. May our God who sees the heart, the OMNISCIENT GOD reveal all that is hidden from our view, in His time. I believe that God makes all things beautiful in His time. And indeed time will tell. Let's keep them in our prayers.

    • @kensedaniels3371
      @kensedaniels3371 8 лет назад

      You are still interested in God 'revealing' other people's business to you? so that you will understand better? Please get a job.

    • @kensedaniels3371
      @kensedaniels3371 8 лет назад

      You are still interested in God 'revealing' other people's business to you? so that you will understand better? Please get a job.

    • @kensedaniels3371
      @kensedaniels3371 8 лет назад

      You are still interested in God 'revealing' other people's business to you? so that you will understand better? Please get a job.

    • @kensedaniels3371
      @kensedaniels3371 8 лет назад

      You are still interested in God 'revealing' other people's business to you? so that you will understand better? Please get a job.
      People let's get preoccupy ourselves with staying ready to meet or coming Saviour, time Is short

    • @kensedaniels3371
      @kensedaniels3371 8 лет назад

      You are still interested in God 'revealing' other people's business to you? so that you will understand better? Please get a job.
      People let's get preoccupy ourselves with staying ready to meet or coming Saviour, time Is short.

  • @alberthawills6753
    @alberthawills6753 7 лет назад +10

    Let God be the Judge. he knows what went wrong. May the HOLY SPIRIT Keep
    Brother CHRIS HUMBLE and STRONG of doing the WILL OF ALmighty God. ..in
    JESUS NAME. AMEN. P..S...KEEP the FAITH....

    • @nancylakot8139
      @nancylakot8139 7 лет назад

      i agree with you my dear. the devil is a liar. may pastor chris remain humble. I still cant believe its true. But I know he is in a battle against the spiritual world. Lets see if where she has gone to will last. The bible says...do not touch the anointed of God.

    • @ronniescorgie1798
      @ronniescorgie1798 7 лет назад

      Nancy Lakot

    • @lornalewis7953
      @lornalewis7953 7 лет назад

      this here is about Anita why do people be bias you put too much trust in man Even great men like David made mistake and repented he needed to repent

    • @lornalewis7953
      @lornalewis7953 7 лет назад +2

      this here is about Anita why do people be bias you put too much trust in man Even great men like David made mistake and repented he needed to repent

    • @hopegospel8813
      @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад

      TAKE A DYA OR TWO FASTIN AND PRAYERS ASK GOD TO SHOW YOU HIS PRAYER CLOSET YOU WILL SEE AT THAT 3 OCLOCK HE DISCUSED WITH HIS GOD

  • @kateeweka2339
    @kateeweka2339 8 лет назад +4

    Hello Woman of God.
    Weldone. What will make women especially Christians suffer ABUSE when all we are is Love.
    I Thank God specially for your life. Thank you.

    • @hopegospel8813
      @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад

      TRUE BE BLESS LOVE IS FROM GOD SO IF U FIND YOURSELF BEING ABUSE BECAUSE OF LOVE ASK WHO MADE IT HE WLL TELL YOU THE REASON AND THE REVELATION BEHIND IT \BUT IF U WANT TO BE THE gOd GO AHEAD AND BECOME THE GOD OF DIVORCE ATLEAST YOU WILL HVE COLLEAGUES LIKE THE DEMON baal AND ELIJAH GO DEAL WITH U

  • @kaunapawanakwafila1801
    @kaunapawanakwafila1801 7 лет назад +4

    Amen.God is in control

  • @moeketsimgqwetho385
    @moeketsimgqwetho385 6 лет назад +8

    You were right by walking out of your marriage if it was within the word of God e.g fornication/adultery. However if you stayed it would have been more glorious, the bible does not say you must walk away but says you have a right to.
    It would have shown us your flok how matured in leadership and level of christianity you are in and how close to christ by suffering for the sake of the christ embassy church that you built and protecting the faith of your members by not allowing them to see your weaknesses and therefore lose faith because I am sure a lot of numbers were affected by this. If you truly love your husband then you still love him, forget all common sense, take a plane and go back to your husband, I'm sure he also misses you but his full of pride, at least you are a woman so you can fight your pride, surprise us, do the last thing that the devil expected and just go back and not expect an explanations or anything, just go back and act like nothing happen, go and cook, you have made your point by showing him what happens when you do not like, he is going to treat you differently, go back please.
    That would change a lot of lives.
    Amen

    • @danielaloba001
      @danielaloba001 6 лет назад

      Moeketsi Mgqwetho thanks bro

    • @adeyemidavid1376
      @adeyemidavid1376 6 лет назад +3

      God bless you so much for the comment. How many things has my father done, yet our mothers stay put in those days because of the children and Love. I think upbringing matters a lot and the right people surrounding you. She should surround herself with elderly and positive people who will direct her in the right way and not negative people

    • @steveokojie6853
      @steveokojie6853 5 лет назад

      Thanx for d write up,however they say love is blind nd knows no errors or bounds.while I do not want to prove self righteousness, if d arguments is sexual recklessness etc, that's simple nd manageable, take a swipe on this true story, I know of a man married to a wife who found his wife strayed out their matrimonial home nd was caught by her husband lodged in a brothel at Ibadan some years back etc, whereas the very husband still brought her back to their matrimonial home without even asking her why nd how? This family were not even Christians then,is there any sin between husband and wife that one cant forgive? I sighted this true example cos I was in d very event nd can testifying more of it if asked. I did know you were a joint or cobuilder in Pst Chris ministry, (Christ Embassy)one would have expected you build d faith of other followers in d best way you could than pressed unwarranted debates in d RUclips. I don't come to judge any of you rather advise that even right now its never too late no matter what people may say,i do think that your husband will not mind having you back,no matter d ought my Blvd. I say so cos you guys are d ones that teaches d BIBLE. I had loved seeing both of you manytimes teaching d word of God,are you now saying we fault d words of God that permits forgiveness? Why then did JESUS come if not for d love of God that permitted forgiveness? Dear daughter, in my humble submission,kindly swallow shame/pride nd make Satan shame just once nd for all time nd go back to your matrimonial home nd settle for peaceful marriage. It will be in Guinness book of records and even in d heart of your creator how you cherish him nd his word. Make company with good leaders of thought nd open gate of heaven with good examples that builds others faith in God's word. I believe you will be a very good point of records before d entire body of Christians nd d WORLD as a true woman of virtue. I love you.

  • @merleasesmith336
    @merleasesmith336 7 лет назад +2

    pastor please be strong the devil is fighting back

  • @janetpadmini7994
    @janetpadmini7994 7 лет назад +14

    this Divorce is dose not work at all ,ptr.Anita will be come back to ptr.chris eventually , because ptr.chris is mighty man of GOD,GODS gracious is biger then satans wickedest mind.

    • @lornalewis4547
      @lornalewis4547 7 лет назад +1

      Janet Padmini It is better to trust God than put your trust in men and princes

    • @sophieisrael7524
      @sophieisrael7524 5 лет назад

      Amen and amen let it be in JESUS might name.

    • @moseschipapa1861
      @moseschipapa1861 3 года назад

      you were so wrong. she has remarried a new person now

  • @igbinedioniyobosa8573
    @igbinedioniyobosa8573 6 лет назад +1

    To everybody commenting, this is not pastor Anita talking, it is a voice over, and the story here is total false, kindly disregard

  • @hadizalawan1493
    @hadizalawan1493 7 лет назад +5

    Pls pastor Anita forgive u husband and return to back to him. Marriage is not for two perfect people but two forgivers. God hate divorce and remember u said ure a woman of God. No matter what u face in marriage prayers can change things.

    • @emaladorealityshow5063
      @emaladorealityshow5063 7 лет назад +2

      Hadiza Lawan
      Is it only divorce that God doesn't like?
      What about fornications and adultery?
      What about MARRIED pastors sleeping with their staff and members?

    • @adeyemidavid1376
      @adeyemidavid1376 6 лет назад

      Exactly

  • @marilynholdaway5141
    @marilynholdaway5141 7 лет назад +2

    I don't know what is really going on . But any women should tolerate any abuse of any men , God wants us to be happy . I hope God help you both to look at the bigger picture so you can both continue to be a good example for your family and for the world . In Jesus name

    • @victoriapaul7368
      @victoriapaul7368 5 лет назад

      Please why should any woman tolerate the abuse of any man? Where is it written in the Bible?

  • @joemaster453
    @joemaster453 6 лет назад +2

    Yeah

  • @lizzyraytv
    @lizzyraytv 6 лет назад +1

    but Jesus when more dan u ma Jesus Christ love you so much ma

  • @nwanegborobertchinonso9240
    @nwanegborobertchinonso9240 5 лет назад

    Mar 10:11-12: "And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
    Am not a member of Christ Embassy but I have very, very high respect for You and Pastor Christ. I don't care what anybody will say please for the sake of the name of the MOST HIGH please just go back and reconcile with your husband. If your husband did not cheat on you, you did not catch him red handed sleeping with another woman or having an affair with some other lady then there is no reason for the divorce. Marital unfaithfulness(forrnication/Adultery) is the only reason a divorce is allowed nothing more.
    Please go back to your man. You and Pastor Christ are both lovely couples. Go back that the name of the MOST HIGH be not blasphemed amongst the unbelievers.
    Isa 52:5: "Now therefore, what have I here, saith the LORD, that my people is taken away for nought? they that rule over them make them to howl, saith the LORD; and my name continually every day is blasphemed."
    Ezek 36:20: "And when they entered unto the heathen, whither they went, they profaned my holy name, when they said to them, These are the people of the LORD, and are gone forth out of his land."
    Rom 2:24: "For the name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles through you, as it is written."
    Finally Sister,
    1Pet 4:17-19: "For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God? And if the righteous scarcely be saved, where shall the ungodly and the sinner appear? Wherefore let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to him in well doing, as unto a faithful Creator."
    PLEASE THINK ON THOSE SCRIPTURES.

  • @fidelobiboateng8589
    @fidelobiboateng8589 6 лет назад +4

    IT'S obvious what the devil can do to People like Pastor Chris and Anita, but I bet my life that Pastor Chris is a Man of God of a rare kind from the beginning of his ministry. i know him in the spirit, i see him in visions and dreams. And He's been a true servant of Jesus Christ. There are few of his kind in the World. Bishop Oyedapo is one too. This whole thing was a tragic accident to the Christendom . King David fell short, Yahweh did not forsake him. His wives did not divorce him either. GREAT ministry marriage like that of Chris and Anita is not what you chicken out of anyhow, no matter what the offence. David is an example. If the story is true, the lady between these two great couple is the one to suffer not this husband and WIFE and children. Where is the lady involved? where is the very agent in question? It took this agent in question as usual, to disturb this home and the church, which has been the inspiration of many in the World. Exactly the way the old serpent want it! Anita love covers multitude of sins. You know it. God covers or sins, he does not expose us, unless we refuse to repent. Why did you choose to expose YOUR church and husband to this Public Shame? You and YOUR husband were the joy of the Christian world. You ended the Joy of many of us the day you chickened out. You should have followed the example of Joseph Who would not bring his obvious adulterous Wife to public disgrace because he was a good man. Pls don't be offended at my candid opinion since I can't bear the pain of not seeing you two together again. You both were everything I wanted to be in the world.

    • @mecuroy
      @mecuroy 6 лет назад +1

      Fidel obi Boateng God does not cover when you keep pretending outside but you commit impunity in the dark.

  • @steveokojie6853
    @steveokojie6853 5 лет назад

    Is it true that there's hell on earth now?if you don't mind what's d comparison,compared to that which God himself has prepared for Satan nd his cohorts?

  • @loveisallthatmatters1768
    @loveisallthatmatters1768 6 лет назад

    God will punish Sinach if she doesn't confess! She did all this!

  • @judymsomi2480
    @judymsomi2480 6 лет назад +3

    God will remember all the Souls Pastor Chris warn and still Winning for Jesus. I for one and my entire family Thank the Lord for what Pastor Chris did as My first Niece. The First Grand child of my Parents got Born again in Christ Embassy. Grew so Mightily in the Lord through Christ Embassy. The Lord moved her to another Ministry as per God's Instructions. Now she is on Fire for the Lord, uncompromisingly Serving Jesus. For That Pastor Chris Will always be Blessed. God has something great for him. May our Lord Jesus bless Sister Anita for the Years You Spent With Your Ministry of Serving the Vessel of God Pastor Chris in Jesus Name.

  • @paulmagaji6526
    @paulmagaji6526 6 лет назад

    You are supposed to be strong ma, so that in holding so, your uniqueness and purpose shines out. I have studied some of the dynamics in your relationship and found out that one of the reasons people regard your husband as controversial is because of some allowance he made for you. So much things to point out, but in conclusion I Will say it is reaction from an armchair of a comfortable situation. You owe those that follow you a deep self soul searching

  • @lindacharlenengondembagou1757
    @lindacharlenengondembagou1757 8 лет назад +1

    Amen, Amen ! Nothing is impossible to God.

    • @hopegospel8813
      @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад

      YES IS TRUE NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE JUST THE SAME WAY THE LION DEVOURED THE YOUNG PROPHET FOR HE FAILED AFTER LISTENING TO THE OLD PROPHET HE WAS KILLED BUT THE OLD PROPHET WAS THERE .

  • @ighomomicrofinancebank4632
    @ighomomicrofinancebank4632 8 лет назад +11

    God said I hate divorce. This is beyond every known issues that is common to marriages. Divorce is prohibited in the kingdom. As much I love pastor Chris I don't want to take side bcos God will restore this marriage and this evil arrow shut from hell into this great man of God marriage will return to sender

    • @edwinanye8466
      @edwinanye8466 8 лет назад +1

      Amen

    • @suemoyo5749
      @suemoyo5749 7 лет назад +3

      Imarhiagbe osariemen not where abuse is involved..God loves all his children and want the best of them certainly not abused

    • @marybello2
      @marybello2 7 лет назад

      amen

    • @jamesdusu9740
      @jamesdusu9740 7 лет назад

      +Sue Moyo thou shall not put assunder.rem for better for....

    • @lalacasuga3581
      @lalacasuga3581 6 лет назад

      Ighomo Microfinancebank m

  • @Franklincnwosu
    @Franklincnwosu 7 лет назад

    THE WORD OF GOD IS FOR DOING ONLY AND THAT WORD IS ENOUGH TO DIRECT YOU ABOUT EVERYTHING CONCERNING LIFE BCS BIBLE MADE IT CLEAR NEVERTHELESS THE FOUNDATION OF GOD STANDETH SURE HAVING THIS SEAL THE LORD KNOWETH THEM THAT ARE HIS AND LET EVERY ONE THAT NAMETH THE NAME OF CHRIST DEPART FROM INIQUITY WARNING

  • @judymsomi2480
    @judymsomi2480 6 лет назад

    The Will of God shall Prevail in Jesus Name.

  • @ayof.i.chapman8915
    @ayof.i.chapman8915 8 лет назад +1

    Amen

  • @judymsomi2480
    @judymsomi2480 6 лет назад

    Jesus is in control, The Call of Upon their Lives.

  • @lauremultimedia6268
    @lauremultimedia6268 6 лет назад

    Thanks mummy for your courage.
    But your divorce hurts me alot

  • @realone3077
    @realone3077 6 лет назад

    Amen I been there behind the shadow of abuse. I survive now an I no with little I found God an peace with me.

  • @omonuwakelvin474
    @omonuwakelvin474 4 года назад

    She look alike with christ

  • @ayaka22_
    @ayaka22_ 6 лет назад

    What happened between you and your husband, don't worry about motivating us for now...

    • @victoriapaul7368
      @victoriapaul7368 5 лет назад

      Why won't she motivate us? Is husband a ticket to heaven?

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 6 лет назад +7

    "Ordinary" women have testified to God giving them miracles through praying in tongues without having to speak to the man.
    Pastor Anita needs prayers. They both do.
    A man will never listen to you no matter how beautiful or intelligent you are.
    It took God to talk to Abraham to listen to Sarah. It took Esther and all of Israel to fast and pray to get the favour of the king.
    It's nice to preach these things but we forget to apply them to ourselves.
    It's the most difficult thing to keep quiet in the face of abuse especially if it is physical. Physical abuse should not be tolerated. Outside of that, you need to put your attention on God and not on your husband.
    No matter how excellent and heavenly your ideas and revelations, your husband can never listen to you until God commands him, opens his eyes and turns his heart heart towards that thing.
    I'm speaking from experience and the examples are from the word of God.
    No matter big the man of God you have to remember that God is your husband and the boss of your husband on earth. Report him to his boss.
    She was hurt but billions of women go through that and we need testimonies of victories to get us along and encourage us to love our husbands as the bible says.
    She needs prayers because it's not everyone that has that revelation regardless of whether they are a pastor or not.
    Beauty and intelligence will win a man but will never carry you victoriously through marriage. Only fasting, prayer and intercession can you succeed.
    Hallelujah!
    God bless you all!
    God

    • @adeyemidavid1376
      @adeyemidavid1376 6 лет назад

      Best piece I have ever read in recent times online. God bless you for that revelation.

    • @alidaheavenly2188
      @alidaheavenly2188 5 лет назад

      You talk fine

  • @temitayoomoyele4966
    @temitayoomoyele4966 7 лет назад +4

    I just hope the love of God shine on them expecially her , cos the wife is d gate keeper of the home, n she is drifting from that.

  • @andrewomo5429
    @andrewomo5429 7 лет назад +2

    This is not the time for documentary. Why this issue of divorce U couldn't endure whatever U said went wrong. I think this is foundational problem. No place is perfect. Remember Hillary and Monica Lowisky. Did Hillary separate from Clinton. U should have stayed for Ur name sake. Do you know how many people u have mentored. Now, what do you tell them?

  • @gmbappe2077
    @gmbappe2077 6 лет назад

    Marriage hmmmmmmmmmmm

  • @ee528
    @ee528 4 года назад

    ABUSE?

  • @anielle1411
    @anielle1411 7 лет назад

    Being the wife of a man of God is a heavy task. people look into you well as they look up to your husband. i understand they always busy , their time is precious. now i was in an abusive mariage myself i know how much it hurt and pain. i'm not judging you ( this is God task to do) but i can say only who is wearing the shoe who know how and where it hurt. if you dont speak loud no one will know. I love Ma so as i love our Man of God. I pray for you for wisdom in whatever decision you make in life is according to God's will. God bless you.

    • @marjoriechinyemba7775
      @marjoriechinyemba7775 7 лет назад +2

      I think pastors wives go through untold suffering. It's not easy for women to give up on marriages .women let's support each other let us not blame our own. Even Sarah suffered until God had to intervene and Abraham to send away his maid wife Hagar.

    • @LukaksPInc
      @LukaksPInc 6 лет назад

      GOD's WILL is for people NOT to divorce...

    • @alidaheavenly2188
      @alidaheavenly2188 5 лет назад

      @@marjoriechinyemba7775 but Sarah brought the suffering to her home. It wasn't Papa Abraham's idea to have a child out of wedlock.

  • @gezachewbegashaw1281
    @gezachewbegashaw1281 7 лет назад +5

    I didn't see anything in this narrative that points to God............It is all about Self............It is all about what one can do with the life given to him/her by God. It is all about celebrating life without iterating the very purpose it is created for called worshipping God and living for Him. This inaugurates the downfall of every life and every Christian marriage. Getting somehow disconnected from the very source of our existence is only a slip away in our time. You hear a ton of "inspirational advices" centered on our fallen Adamic nature like this all over. But for me they are far from inspirational...........they are lethal to our spiritual lives. I am so sorry I heard this from a wife of a man committed to serving the Lord!!!! I'm not belittling whatever she claims to have passed through in her marriage. But I can reasonably see how off the right path she was in the way she handled it. I don't call this inspirational to Christian sisters........Watch out Christian sisters all over the world. Don't tap counsels from the wrong person!!!!!!

    • @danielaloba001
      @danielaloba001 6 лет назад

      Gezachew Begashaw well said bro, I wish my Christian sisters out there stay strong in God

    • @deboraholuwaseun5503
      @deboraholuwaseun5503 5 лет назад

      You're right

  • @nathalieagathe8875
    @nathalieagathe8875 8 лет назад +2

    Your words make me cry . and also faith .

    • @hopegospel8813
      @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад

      DONT CRY WIPE YOUR TEARS PRAY GOD MAKE YI GIVE YOU YOUR OWN MONEY FOR SHE TALK BUT ACCPOUNT DON HEAVY

  • @blessingsaflow4854
    @blessingsaflow4854 8 лет назад +3

    the Lord who knows the secret (and will bring it to the open soon) will vindicate who stands right with God among this God. Irrespective of what people think, i pray that with time may our Righteous God expose who is wrong between Pastor Anita and ex husband in Jesus Mighty Name. Nothing is hidden before Our God. man may be blind to many things but He is not. May he settle this matter about who was wrong and who was right between these two persons bringing them to divorce. Time shall tell. That is all I have to say. God bless.

    • @okohpamela242
      @okohpamela242 7 лет назад +2

      Who's wrong or right is not the issue. That's not our business. Just pray for them. They're God's servants and accountable to him only. Let us not incure the wrath of God.

    • @okohpamela242
      @okohpamela242 7 лет назад

      Who's wrong or right is not the issue. That's not our business. Just pray for them. They're God's servants and accountable to him only. Let us not incure the wrath of God.

  • @segunkay1237
    @segunkay1237 7 лет назад +14

    Hello ma, I just want to remind you of what I believed the Holy Spirit spoke through you in one of the services. 'Thank you LORD I'm a partner with my man of God'. According to you ma 'we owe Pastor a lot'. I owe him my prayers as I'm not a member of your esteemed Church, but ma, I tell you the truth you owe him your forgiveness. Forgive and let go whatever may have transpired between you and your lovely, anointed husband. Please ma let the people of God rejoice and put the camp of the devil to shame by reconciling with your dearest friend, husband and Pastor. Remember ma, our Lord's prayer- Forgive us our sins for we also forgive EVERYONE that sins against us Luke 11:4. Blessed be the name of the LORD ma for HE reigns forever in your spirit soul and body as you honor and submit to HIS will and counsel. AMEN and AMEN.

    • @marianyake7146
      @marianyake7146 6 лет назад +3

      Segun Kay, I hear your concern and I understand. However, forgiveness does not mean a person has to stay in the abusive dangerous situation just to keep up appearances. Life happens to the best of us. I applaud pastor Anita's bravery and honesty.

    • @oliviaseed1199
      @oliviaseed1199 6 лет назад

      Segun Kay .
      I personally don't care about them.
      There are more problems in Life.
      I love your maturity in your comment, unlike some of their members (male) calling her a bad wife and a money hungry woman. etc.
      I love your maturity and you didn't take sides.

  • @beautyforashes8964
    @beautyforashes8964 7 лет назад +2

    Awwwwwww I didn't know this,am crying listen to this, my goodness it's beautiful 😍 I went threw abuse very violent too.......beautiful way you put that.......I love Pastor Chris & I just no know,what ever I do behind closed door's,it's the same behaviour that I'd done outside the door........You are a beautiful lady thank you for sharing your story it's your story no one else's,am just glad you shared it with me........I cried & am sad for you both,God bless you in YOUR Knew Journey THANK YOU FOR BEEN YOU XO 😘

  • @lesliesmith3452
    @lesliesmith3452 7 лет назад +3

    Seven years divorced thank God no more abuse

    • @mecuroy
      @mecuroy 6 лет назад +2

      leslie smith Excellent !! I praise God for you. No woman should endure abuse from a man under any circumstances. It destroys your soul. It's worse where children are involved. I'm a 50 year old man still haunted debilitated by the vicious cycle of abuse my mother endured for over 25 years. By all appearances I am a successful professional but inside I was dead for over 40 years. Everyday is a struggle especially as I refuse to use alcohol or drugs. It's only by the grace of God and salvation through Christ that I function. So, kudos to you for standing up for yourself. Blessings

  • @evansaddae9156
    @evansaddae9156 7 лет назад +2

    Pastor Chris has been a blessing to me ever since I met him.thank u oh Lord

  • @christinesingalong7290
    @christinesingalong7290 7 лет назад +5

    I know nothing about Christ Embassy or Chris Oyakhilome and his ex-wife but was invited to a local meeting and went this evening. I came home and decided to do some research on this organisation and the people that lead it. I have just read another comment on another video about the divorce between Pastor Chris and Pastor Anita, going into details about the circumstances but offering no evidence to verify what was stated. However, if what was stated is true, then according to the bible, she has done nothing wrong to divorce him but has the freedom in Christ to do so. This reflects Torah teaching where adulterers were put to death, leaving the innocent party free, presumably to remarry. I came home with mixed feelings, and could not verify what I have read, other than the divorce has happened and the grounds on which it was granted, but I feel I do not want to get involved in this movement. I am grateful that this lady Anita has had the courage to speak out and not cover up anything being done in God's name (IF - AND ONLY IF - the detail I read was true, then that would make any wrongdoing, and the lies and deception that go along with it, BLASPHEMY, would it not? And it would be quite right to walk away and not collude with any such practices, IF this is the case. Look what happened to Ananias and Sapphira in the early church). We may never know the truth, but God does.

    • @leob4543
      @leob4543 6 лет назад +1

      It's so easy to make conclusion on she is saying but have you heard from him as well?Most people would be shocked to hear the Mans side of the story.

  • @collinsani4943
    @collinsani4943 5 лет назад +1

    BUT DON'T FORGET THAT HUSBAND IS MASTER .
    NOT ROOMMATE

  • @hopegospel8813
    @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад +1

    i thank God for the grace and i appreciate her inspiration but i pity the beatings jesus received for us and i pity followers for if we are not carefull many wll end in hell for we no more know if they are showing us the choice of God or their choice ''YOU CAN DO SOMETHING TO CHANGE THE PAIN '' NOOOOOO JOB DIDNT DO SOMETHING WHEN THE WIFE DIDNT HEAR HIM NEITHER DAVID BUT IT GOD .NOT MY HEAD NOT MY BLOOD NOT MY WIFE NOT MY CHILDREN NOT THE MINISTERS IN MY MINISTRY MAY GOD SAVE US ALL .I SALUT ONCE MORE THE GRACE .BUT THE YOUNG PROPHET WAS DEVOURED BY THE LION AFTER LISTENING TO THE OLD PROPHET AND IGNORING God's instructions.

  • @stanleyandre828
    @stanleyandre828 7 лет назад +1

    well,Anita should say it in public what's wrong.If she hide it's a sin.Then the others will have an example for not doing some kind of mistake.God hate divorce!!!!!!

  • @lesliesmith3452
    @lesliesmith3452 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks im focus on God and my three boys now men I try to help my mom out of 50 years abuse that caused her to have a heart attack abuse is a silent killer pray for me although I've been trying to get on my feet was a house wife now everythings in my lap im 43 but thats okay i survived

  • @eternallife1094
    @eternallife1094 7 лет назад +3

    Anita or whatever you are called, why are you still ranting, seeking attention all over the place?
    You have got the divorce you sought for. what else are you seeking again?
    keep your stupid advice to yourself, nobody needs it.
    You can't give what you don't have...ok?
    I'm not a Christ embassy member and neither a fan of Oyahkilome, though I like his evangelical passion. I'm core Catholic, a proud son of Mary the great mummy of Jesus.
    The young man has since moved on with his life and that is what I admire much about him.
    You thought you will pull him down and destroy his church with divorce scandal but, the Good Lord has shamed you. The church is even stronger today.
    So, go and live your life the way you want ...may be as an Angel.
    Enjoy your divorce that you craved for.... stop ranting about.

    • @oliviaseed1199
      @oliviaseed1199 7 лет назад

      Eternal Life And why are you ranting on the video? Hypocrite.

    • @eternallife1094
      @eternallife1094 7 лет назад

      olivia seed ...haaaaaaahahaha.
      join her. mumu

    • @oliviaseed1199
      @oliviaseed1199 7 лет назад

      Eternal Life Stop forcing yourself to laugh cuz there's nothing funny. Fool

  • @RichesandWealth-vc1do
    @RichesandWealth-vc1do 7 лет назад +3

    Christ Embassy has no examples of Good marriage

    • @ifeyinwaaaririguzo2180
      @ifeyinwaaaririguzo2180 6 лет назад

      You said well

    • @ruthpomaa6564
      @ruthpomaa6564 5 лет назад

      @@ifeyinwaaaririguzo2180 God should forgive you because you don't know what you are saying. Shame!!!

    • @sophieisrael7524
      @sophieisrael7524 5 лет назад

      It's not by might but by the spirit of the living GOD.
      All is well, no one on earth has power to judge the church of GOD.
      Who started in the beginning of their lives He is able to do mightily.
      Who is us He is greater than the one of this world.
      So my dear do not mock ur maker.
      If u truly love God u can never stand against these two precious servants of the most high GOD.
      Blessings

  • @KOBOSTAR
    @KOBOSTAR 6 лет назад

    Pass it over woman you are, were an help to the anointing enjoy the money serve the kingdom.

  • @kwihanganajanvierjedidiah3580
    @kwihanganajanvierjedidiah3580 7 лет назад

    What life truth!! Emotional moving right? But only the word of God can save us, can give us a true definition of our lives, so share what the word of says but not what sound wiser to human being. give a reason to your style of life using the word of God

  • @romaric207
    @romaric207 7 лет назад

    this women never looked at the people of God looking up to this man .God dont judge from human perspectives .what anita did to the kingdom of God is as compared to what mr devil is doing now

  • @ikwikwi
    @ikwikwi 7 лет назад

    Be wise woman. Those who want u to talk like this have no interest other than gossip and to spite the way of God. Rise above flesh.

  • @lancemarchetti8673
    @lancemarchetti8673 6 лет назад

    Apparently Chris verbally abused Anita for a long time, until she broke...but on stage, before the crowds Chris had to keep up the show...now his 4-story mansion and many cars cannot save him...sad :(

  • @davidselby8435
    @davidselby8435 7 лет назад

    pastor pls go back to ur wife

    • @steveokojie6853
      @steveokojie6853 5 лет назад

      I think this counsel wrong,cos I have never heard Chris said he is divorced or ready to get divorced. Help me to advise Anita to go back to her husband.

  • @eliamanigolitagolitamsengi9348
    @eliamanigolitagolitamsengi9348 7 лет назад +3

    Dear Pastores Anita I think your wrong and I don't know if you really know who you are? Do you think that a new Man will fulfill your S/excitement no no no.. your are feeding your soul with dust and wind. Go back to Pastor Chris.

    • @Therricliff
      @Therricliff 6 лет назад

      You are not God, so dont jugde Pastor Anita ,you cant only advise her to go back

  • @eternallife1094
    @eternallife1094 7 лет назад

    Anita or whatever you are called, why are you still ranting, seeking attention all over the place?
    You have got the divorce you sought for. what else are you seeking again?
    keep your stupid advice to yourself, nobody needs it.
    You can't give what you don't have...ok?
    I'm not a Christ embassy member and neither a fan of Oyahkilome, though I like his evangelical passion. I'm core Catholic, a proud son of Mary the great mummy of Jesus.
    The young man has since moved on with his life and that is what I admire much about him.
    You thought you will pull him down and destroy his church with divorce scandal but, the Good Lord has shamed you. The church is even stronger today.
    So, go and live your life the way you want ...may be as an Angel.
    Enjoy your divorce that you craved for.... stop ranting about.

    • @yantiibu7834
      @yantiibu7834 7 лет назад +1

      Michael Uche Nwatah I need her advice and comment.

  • @Kdavid500
    @Kdavid500 8 лет назад +4

    that's the reason as to why the scripture says that women should remain silent in church and do not speak, women are a weaker vessel. if u realize, pastor Chris did not divorce her but she is the one who divorced him, and i believe she knows that Christians are not supposed to do so. then how can such a woman be a pastor, Paul said that it was the woman who was deceived not the man ....Women should not be given authority in the churches, that's usurpation of authority.1 Timothy 2:14-15 says, " And Adam was not deceived but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in child bearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety." even prophet Isaiah was condemning Israel when he said that women ruled over them (Isaiah 3:12). 1 Timothy 2:11-!5 clearly states; "Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But i suffer a woman not to teach nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence........." Anita should not even be a pastor of any church according to the word of God because she is a woman, you have even seen how she acts in marriage. so there is no way a woman who cannot respect the institution of marriage can lead a church of God, so God has shown you by experience that she cannot pastor a church. That's usurpation of authority. 1 Corinthians 14:34-37- " Let your women keep silence in the churches for it is not permitted to them to speak but to be under obedience.......

    • @Franklincnwosu
      @Franklincnwosu 7 лет назад

      OLIVIA NOBODY BEATS ANYBODY DONT JUMP INTO MARRIAGE WITHOUT ASKING YOUR GOD FOLLOW PROVERBS 3.5.6

    • @Suzan1988
      @Suzan1988 6 лет назад +1

      David Kayanja with all due respect don't quote scriptures you have no understanding of. It's best to read different versions of those sculptures than to make a fool of yourself online. And don't just read one verse n finalise it read the whole chapter. Why would God create someone after his own likeness give her dominion then tell her when you come into my presence don't speak??? Yet anoint the some gender to carry the saviour??? When the bible says women should not speaks it does not mean literally it just means if you have anything ie discussion pending with your husband wait till u get home and sort it then. Educate yourself with the ministry of Jesus n women in the bible sir.

    • @feyfey5678
      @feyfey5678 5 лет назад

      I pray men dont continue to use God’s word to make yourselves believe u r superior .... U took that verse completely out of context to justify superiority complex men r far from perfect sir some they adulerate , kill , abuse , even rape their kids and many men who really desire womens silence dont want their abuse exposed

    • @feyfey5678
      @feyfey5678 5 лет назад

      Franklin.c. nwosu whatever the case abuse is wrong franklin jumping or not it is not of God

  • @eternallife1094
    @eternallife1094 7 лет назад

    Anita or whatever you are called, why are you still ranting, seeking attention all over the place?
    You have got the divorce you sought for. what else are you seeking again?
    keep your stupid advice to yourself, nobody needs it.
    You can't give what you don't have...ok?
    I'm not a Christ embassy member and neither a fan of Oyahkilome, though I like his evangelical passion. I'm core Catholic, a proud son of Mary the great mummy of Jesus.
    The young man has since moved on with his life and that is what I admire much about him.
    You thought you will pull him down and destroy his church with divorce scandal but, the Good Lord has shamed you. The church is even stronger today.
    So, go and live your life the way you want ...may be as an Angel.
    Enjoy your divorce that you craved for.... stop ranting about.

  • @marianyake7146
    @marianyake7146 6 лет назад

    Thank you Rev Pastor Anita for your encouragement! You have no idea how many people the world over you are encouraging by your words. We love you! Stay very blessed!

  • @nyentyeteng4988
    @nyentyeteng4988 7 лет назад +7

    Anita, you cannot talk about encouraging others because you have failed God's public exam. you were supposed to be an icon for women out there. there's no problem that God cannot solv. divorce is not the answer, and you know it,unless you were just pretending to be who we thought you were. I pray your soul finds peace. God bless you.

    • @lornalewis7953
      @lornalewis7953 7 лет назад +1

      Why are you judging this woman

    • @hopegospel8813
      @hopegospel8813 7 лет назад +1

      she is just feeling the pain i understand her and i feel the same pain for mankind too i dont know why the ones we look up to do such manifestation

    • @yantiibu7834
      @yantiibu7834 7 лет назад +3

      Elizabeth Oben you are judgeing this women and forgot that she is only human. At least her comment can be usefull to others. Do not judge anyone wheather you think you know them or not. for no one know anyonelse better than them theirself. and being honest even us we do not know our self at time. also jesus told us not to judge.

    • @hannahjames6
      @hannahjames6 7 лет назад +8

      Elizabeth Oben when it never happened to you you can't understand why woman give up on their marriage

    • @oliviaseed1199
      @oliviaseed1199 7 лет назад +2

      Nyenty Eteng You are already taking side? Well Dont assume Your precious pastor is a Saint.