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  • Опубликовано: 17 апр 2024
  • Making friends as an adult is difficult but here are some of my tips on how I'm trying to make new friends as a 30-something living in a new city!
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Комментарии • 129

  • @oliviatrelles
    @oliviatrelles 2 месяца назад +11

    Loved this video and the topic. Making friends as an adult is a skill and requires patience and practice. I think it’s lovely that you highlighted this. 😊

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much Olivia!

  • @leannezzers
    @leannezzers 22 дня назад +1

    Tip 2 is so important!! I love games and cosplaying so conventions/their gatherings are my go-to for meeting people
    I'll ask for their SNS to keep in touch online but I won't immediately agree to meet ups outside of cons. Socializing is good but always prioritize your safety, everyone!
    It's great that you're trying new things and making the most of your new environment :D

  • @marlenebrockmann1553
    @marlenebrockmann1553 2 месяца назад +19

    Sometimes it’s difficult when you are somewhat of an introvert.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Totally agree! I'm definitely an introvert as well, and it was hard to take the plunge! You got this!

  • @Diabratical
    @Diabratical 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡🧡 always lovely when you share your process and your friends!!

  • @SuSuSham
    @SuSuSham 2 месяца назад +1

    I love stationary and journals - of course I watched this video 😘

  • @amywoolsey6591
    @amywoolsey6591 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 flourishing in a new place. Lovely to see. 🧡

  • @christinemcgregor9970
    @christinemcgregor9970 2 месяца назад +1

    This was a great video and definitely a topic not really talked about. In different stages of life I feel like you lose some friends and gain others. But you're right, it's hard to make friends once you're an adult and you have to put yourself out there.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Yes soooo hard but so worth it! I'm still learning but I'm happy to start the journey!

  • @yolandaabler6688
    @yolandaabler6688 2 месяца назад +1

    Orange ❤. Glad you are enjoying your new city.

  • @jeaniev.5952
    @jeaniev.5952 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for making such a heart felt and needed video. It really is hard to make friends as an adult and having moved to a new city with a, so far as much as I can see, semi-limited stationery/journal enthusiastic area..it can make one feel isolated. Thankful for sweet and thoughtful online communities to share journaling/writting passion and geek out about the same things..still hoping to find like-minded friends where I now live. Good luck to everyone still searching and if your looking for someone to share a love of all things stationery/writting/journal/etc related - lets be freinds 😊✨

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Rooting for you friend! It's definitely harder in areas that don't have a large stationery store hub! I hope you find local friends but this digital community is also always here for you!

  • @deniseramirez9706
    @deniseramirez9706 2 месяца назад +1

    This was fun Job. I'm glad you're getting together with friends and meeting new ones 🧡

  • @sibylyau5544
    @sibylyau5544 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 Really enjoyed and appreciated your video. Your sharing means a lot, so many people are feeling lonely and aren't sure that they will be able to make and keep friends. The tips on how to find/make friends as someone in their 30's applies to people who are in any age group. Looking forward to more videos where you explore this topic. 🧡

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for the thoughtful comment! Will keep this in mind as I move forward!

  • @Aqua_Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli_Sol
    @Aqua_Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli_Sol 2 месяца назад +1

    This was beautiful, Job. Thank you so much for sharing.❤😊

  • @karencolum
    @karencolum 2 месяца назад +3

    🧡 loved the new format and wisdom. So inspiring.

  • @pleinpages
    @pleinpages 2 месяца назад +1

    Such a lovely video with great tips! 🧡 It can be so difficult to actively seek out friends as an adult, but it is so rewarding in the end! I definitely relate to everything in this video, and when I pushed myself to seek out friends with common interests, I made some truly special friendships. ☺️

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Aww that's so good to hear! It's such an ever-changing journey but it's always so worth it! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @ChantelleArts
    @ChantelleArts 2 месяца назад +2

    Such a fantastic video, I love how you've filmed it ☺☺

  • @nanobyte588
    @nanobyte588 2 месяца назад +2

    Loved this new format and was missing the coffee shop journaling and drawings/paintings of yours. 🧡🧡

  • @larademoissac
    @larademoissac 2 месяца назад +1

    I've been working towards connecting with other journalers in my city. Thanks for this video Job! 🧡

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      You got this! Rooting for you!

  • @roxannejade3310
    @roxannejade3310 2 месяца назад +1

    That was a really beautiful video Job, I loved the theme and especially the cinematic opening at the start 😊🧡

  • @jeanrobinson6584
    @jeanrobinson6584 2 месяца назад +1

    Such a lovely video, so happy you are finding your people in California x

  • @snicklesfritz8449
    @snicklesfritz8449 2 месяца назад +1

    YES! Keep going with these videos. LOVE them! 🧡

  • @LaurenFairwx
    @LaurenFairwx 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 I really liked this video, Job! It was beautifully put together and the day with friends looked like so much fun!
    I’ve been thinking about making new content similar to this as well. I used to document my life a lot more on RUclips and I find myself missing the ability to look back since I stopped filming fun days.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      YESSSS! Would love to watch whatever you decide to make! It's always great to revisit vlogs and relive the moment!

  • @viviantran6227
    @viviantran6227 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤Really Job?! An orange heart! I cant find one so you get an orange heart that is disguised as a red heart! 😂 Thanks for the video. You are right. Adults have a harder time making a new tribe. But you've inspired me to open up more and reach out more to those around me. Thanks!

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      You got this, Vivian! Rooting for you!

  • @megjournals
    @megjournals 2 месяца назад +2

    so wholesome and beautiful storytelling/cinematography!!

  • @evrythngiseverything
    @evrythngiseverything 2 месяца назад +1

    Job! I loved this so much. Thanks for sharing! Very good tips. 🧡

  • @BeThePurpleStarlight
    @BeThePurpleStarlight 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 very fun to watch 😀

  • @missEllenSaturnino
    @missEllenSaturnino 2 месяца назад +2

    This is such a heartwarming video Job

  • @Odette2512
    @Odette2512 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 adulting and finding real friends that can click is hard. It’s a matter of luck too I feel.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      So true! Thanks for watching, friend!

  • @AvivaHadas
    @AvivaHadas 2 месяца назад +2

    🧡 I so appreciate seeing this side of your adult life.

  • @harp.archives
    @harp.archives 2 месяца назад +1

    🥹🥹🥹 you absolutely captured the spirit of the day in this video - so touched! Grateful that journaling brought us together! ❤

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thanks so much, friend! Grateful to have you in my life!

  • @annakitching5975
    @annakitching5975 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 Thank you so much for creating and sharing this 😊🧡✨ xx

  • @shazyoung6530
    @shazyoung6530 2 месяца назад +1

    I loved this video format!!!!

  • @ruzellapaper
    @ruzellapaper 2 месяца назад +1

    Omg. I love this and you 🧡 I’m so glad I met you at the TRC coffee event and we are now passengers on the stationery bus 🫶🏼 excited to make more memories!!

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thankful that we met at the TRC event! Thanks for the friendship, Ruzanne!

  • @kariwinsor283
    @kariwinsor283 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡. You do you! Absolutely loved it 😍

  • @RobertaMosseri
    @RobertaMosseri 2 месяца назад +1

    Loved this video...I have dreams of joining stationery pals for real and recently found a group meeting so booked my place and so looking forward to next weekend...hope it will be as I imagine!!! I have to travel for this as far away...making a 2 days trip adventure xx

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      I'm rooting for you, friend! I know you'll enjoy your time SOOO much!

  • @debrakirsch309
    @debrakirsch309 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 Love this video!!

  • @samanthajones4942
    @samanthajones4942 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡🧡🧡 loved this Job!

  • @khinojosable
    @khinojosable 2 месяца назад +1

    What a wonderful, meditative, contemplative, and sweet video. The orange heart - care and friendship - is a wonderful touch. Wishing you the best! 🧡

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for the thoughtful comment!

  • @lauraodonnell6946
    @lauraodonnell6946 2 месяца назад

    I love that you talked about this. Loneliness and depression are such a problem these days. People need to connect with other people. Your friend group looks so nice.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Aww thanks so much Laura!

  • @dlmarsh1916
    @dlmarsh1916 2 месяца назад

    🧡 I really enjoyed this video and look forward to more videos in this format. And, I appreciate your tips on making friends as an adult. I think this hobby attracts loners, so it is great to see the meet-up videos.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! Hope to share more content like this!

  • @thosewithwords
    @thosewithwords 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 This video was so beautifully made! I'm so happy for you and your new friendships. Seeing you all having so much fun together made me smile 😊

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      Thanks so much, Chelsea! Thankful for your friendship too!

  • @kathrynsargent5769
    @kathrynsargent5769 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤great video, Job!

  • @slastenushkaslast3402
    @slastenushkaslast3402 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡 We love you :)

  • @carrielynnmiller
    @carrielynnmiller 2 месяца назад +1

    your new friends seem like a lot of fun! Loved the video + your journal entry 🥰🧡

  • @Budgie511
    @Budgie511 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡Loved this, inspired me :)

  • @alisonjones3057
    @alisonjones3057 2 месяца назад +1

    Lovely video job 💛

  • @lizzy_cake
    @lizzy_cake 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for the advice, Job!🧡

  • @i.m.8767
    @i.m.8767 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡I really enjoyed your open and calm story telling video, and I am looking forward to seeing more of this side of Job 🙂

  • @JackieXje
    @JackieXje 2 месяца назад +1

    I also meet new friends since i journal…so great!, thanks for this lovely video❤❤❤🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @planesydiarios
    @planesydiarios 2 месяца назад +1

    I loved this video so much! 🧡

  • @StationeryDumpling
    @StationeryDumpling 2 месяца назад +1

    The cinematography of this video was just incredible 😍. If I was in your area, I’d love to be friends 🥹🧡

  • @craftyoldlady
    @craftyoldlady 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡I enjoyed this video very much!

  • @karmenjohnson6078
    @karmenjohnson6078 2 месяца назад

    🧡Such a wonderful video! Thank you.😊

  • @jesusc6215
    @jesusc6215 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanks x Sharing ❤im your friend too

  • @studioanko
    @studioanko 2 месяца назад +1

    GREAT VIDEO TOPIC

  • @SanKelly
    @SanKelly 2 месяца назад

    🧡🧡🧡 lovely advice - thank you for sharing!

  • @sasjastroo
    @sasjastroo 2 месяца назад +1

    💛

  • @ChenyeTripp
    @ChenyeTripp Месяц назад +1

    🧡

  • @MS-dw6zu
    @MS-dw6zu 2 месяца назад +1

    What a fun outing. Love the tips you gave. As someone with severe anxiety and depression, I understand. May I ask what stationery shop is it that you visited?

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      We visited Mitsuwa which had a Kinokuniya Bookstore inside! I hope this helps! Rooting for you!

    • @MS-dw6zu
      @MS-dw6zu 2 месяца назад

      @@JobsJournal Thank you 🙂

  • @VCPaSe
    @VCPaSe 2 месяца назад

    Loved this video Job! Thank you! I also wanted to say that as your follower, for some years now, I ‘d love to get to know you more. You are an inspiring artist but I can feel that you are also an inspiring, deep and positive person that has a lot to give.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      Aww thank you so much! This comment totally made my day! Thank you and I hope to share more videos like this in the future!

  • @iowajewel
    @iowajewel 2 месяца назад

    it is so had for me right now to make new friends!

  • @marinageorge7345
    @marinageorge7345 2 месяца назад

    I really enjoyed this video

  • @carolshizu9916
    @carolshizu9916 2 месяца назад +1

    end of video gang! 🧡

  • @shelbseroo
    @shelbseroo 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡🧡

  • @iowajewel
    @iowajewel 2 месяца назад +1

    I have lots of online friends but no one in the Boston/New Hampshire area😢

  • @cmf322
    @cmf322 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡🧡🧡

  • @raegeesu
    @raegeesu 2 месяца назад +1

    haha, the teal TRC pen was still there like a week ago.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад

      *runs to mitsuwa again haha*

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    @sabinemetscher6449 2 месяца назад

    📚🧡

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    🧡🧡🧡🧡

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    @denisewilliams8575 2 месяца назад +1

    🧡📚📖📝✍🏿

  • @iowajewel
    @iowajewel 2 месяца назад

    so fun!!!! I would put $$ in everyone of those machines 😂

  • @lorengaffin4469
    @lorengaffin4469 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @katieannwicked
    @katieannwicked 2 месяца назад

    Ahh! lol Don't read "A Little Life", its a traumatizing experience 😱😭😆

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      I’ve already read it years ago! I enjoyed it!

  • @arcboy2011
    @arcboy2011 2 месяца назад +1

    This was a good video with some good advice. My first pen show was the California pen show in Torrance and I met quite a few good people there. My second event was the O.C. Pen Club meet at M. Lovewell in Santa Anna where I also meet some really great people, as well as two of my favorite RUclipsrs. I have been in Long Beach for about twenty years but have just gotten into the fountain pen hobby in the last year and have found that all my interactions with folks from the community have been 100% positive. Fountain pen and Journal people are really friendly, helpful and just generally lovely people. Let me know if anyone out there is interested in starting a Long Beach Stationary/pen club.🤎

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you! For sure! Will definitely post on here if there is ever an event in the area! Hope to meet you in the future!

    • @arcboy2011
      @arcboy2011 2 месяца назад

      @@JobsJournal I will most likely be at the next O.C. Pen club meet up. They have the locations times, and date up on their website now. Hope to see you there.

  • @fagerdam
    @fagerdam 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for an inspiring video! I moved right at the start of the pandemic and unfortunately I ended up isolating more than I needed to. And then I was on sick leave with a broken leg. After that I’ve tried to come out of my shell, started a new hobby, asked work friends out for a swim, found a bf on Tinder, invited my old friends to visit me here.

    • @JobsJournal
      @JobsJournal  2 месяца назад +1

      Aww that so great to hear! I'm glad you're doing well now!

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