Mature कैसे बनें - समझदार कैसे बने - Samajhdar Kaise Bane - Monica Gupta

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  • Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2024

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  • @ombodkhe
    @ombodkhe 5 лет назад +171

    Experiences and responsibilities are also matter on maturity.

  • @priyashinde4871
    @priyashinde4871 5 лет назад +47

    I m immature people Call me cute n innocent but they take me granted now I m Changing myself..

    • @isma4507
      @isma4507 4 года назад +2

      Me too ☹

    • @alicejain1634
      @alicejain1634 4 года назад +5

      Same here... But I believe in myself nd convert that comment in positivity.. 😊😀👍

    • @avnigupta9589
      @avnigupta9589 3 года назад +1

      Same here 😭😭

    • @shwetajain1679
      @shwetajain1679 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @onenightstand938
      @onenightstand938 3 года назад +2

      I love in childhood
      I am perfect immature

  • @channel-bq3di
    @channel-bq3di 2 года назад +3

    मैं खुद को और बेहतर बनाऊंगा धन्यवाद इतनी अच्छी बाते बताने के लिए।

  • @tumultiwary2362
    @tumultiwary2362 3 года назад +9

    I am tired of hearing negative comments from my family. I am very sad. Everyone calls me immature and mad. Thank you so much for this video.

  • @mihirjotangiya5857
    @mihirjotangiya5857 3 года назад +25

    Negativity jab mind me rehti hai tab na chahte huye bhi immature behave hota hai...
    Aur positivity hoti hai tab mature behave hota hai...

  • @alicejain1634
    @alicejain1634 4 года назад +68

    Amezing Motivated video mam.. I must try to follow ur points..
    But in my ways maturity is-
    1- stay focused.
    2- Believe in urself.
    3- Always follow Truth..
    4- never give place to any negativity bcz it's demotivated us..
    5- should have to understand each other thoughts nd respect that..
    6- Always learn through ur failure..
    7- Must have a humanity in everyone..

  • @SandeepYadav-zf1hv
    @SandeepYadav-zf1hv 2 года назад +7

    Be mature but never let your inner child die🙌

  • @avantgarde_23
    @avantgarde_23 5 лет назад +205

    Kaee baar samjh daari ki baat ye bhi hoti h ki ,baat baat pe samjh daari nhi dikhaee jaa.- very nice point

  • @Khan_shahidali
    @Khan_shahidali 2 года назад +6

    Mam thanks for your this topic and ...
    Mature wo hai jo har baat ko gor se sune soche phir react karen this is very nice point

  • @deepakrawat1446
    @deepakrawat1446 5 лет назад +43

    Immature in many thing but i improve myself

  • @nicetemchaubey8017
    @nicetemchaubey8017 5 лет назад +13

    Main point become mature person think always positive

  • @tamannaarora3900
    @tamannaarora3900 5 лет назад +42

    you proved so helpful me ur positive attitude touches my heart mam

  • @kuldeepdinkar4918
    @kuldeepdinkar4918 3 года назад +22

    sabse accha akele raho. 😌

  • @milenipanchal2226
    @milenipanchal2226 5 лет назад +13

    Ya i need to work on topics - positivity , work ethic, listening more than to just speak about my self , be more with mature people , taking criticism , not being impatient. Thank u mam😊

  • @sapanasharma1573
    @sapanasharma1573 5 лет назад +57

    Hello mam thanks itni achi baatein btana ki.......mam Mai dusro ki baato Mai bhut jaldi aa jaate hu ....or fir ak dam ghusa aa jaata h chooty Chooty baato Mai ...... fir us Insaan sa baat karna band ........but aapke baatein sun kr shayad asa na kru thanku so much.....

  • @sanjanayadav2049
    @sanjanayadav2049 4 года назад +2

    Kahiye kase hai aap mam.....
    Mai phle khud ko jyada mature nahin samajhti thi lekin aap ka video dekhte dekhte maturity kuchh jyada hi a gai hai. Thank you mam aap meri inspiration Ho. Love you

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 года назад

      Thanks Sanjana Yadav 🙏🏻🙂

  • @rahuldev3407
    @rahuldev3407 5 лет назад +7

    Thanq you ma'am....... I'm sure ki ab mai samjh Chuka hu Aisi galti nhi karuga

  • @jineshkachhia9936
    @jineshkachhia9936 5 лет назад +3

    Aapne bola ki mature hone me aur kin kin baato ka dhyan rakhna chahiye to uske liye mai batana chahunga ki.....
    Hume jaldi se react nai karna chahiye kisi bhi baat ke liye
    For example samne wala banda humare liye kuchh galat kar raha hai to usko ya kisi aur ko bhi ye baat mat batao ki ye insaan galat hai bas unse dur ho jao kisi ke bhi baare me burai mat karo usse achha us insaan me kuchh to achha hoga....
    Mera ak experience hai ak bande ne mere saath ku6 bura kiya tha toh maine usse relation nai toda par bas smile diya aur thank you bola kyuki muje usme se bhi sikhne ko mila usne bura kiya wo galat tha me manta hoon par....muje sikhne ko ye mila ki usne galat kaam bhi kitni siddat se kiya aur wo kamiyab raha....wo concentration wo siddat.....ye muje sikhne ko mili ke kisi bhi kaam ko siddat se kaise karte hai....
    Waise hi koi bhi insaan hoga har kisi me ku6 to achha hota hi hai to hume wo sikhna chahiye na ki buri chizo ko...
    By the way your video was so amazing i really learn from it and i note down it in my diary...so thank you so much mam...have a good day 😊

  • @sidharthapatra4296
    @sidharthapatra4296 5 лет назад +28

    DEEP STUDY BRINGS MENTAL MATURITY! Forced COSMETIC MATURITY can't convince the Learned and Intelligent!

  • @kusumvarpe8533
    @kusumvarpe8533 4 года назад +1

    Thanks mam i am really unmature but maine apka ye vidio dekha to mai ab accha fill kar raha hu -thanks-

  • @MOHITSHARMA-hs1qk
    @MOHITSHARMA-hs1qk 5 лет назад +11

    Lagta hai ye video ek baar me samajh nhi aayegi mujhe.... kai baar dekhna padega .. thanks mam to touch this topic

  • @jasveerkaur0111
    @jasveerkaur0111 2 года назад +1

    आपकी अच्छी समझ वाली बातों को सुन कर मेरी समस्या हल हो जाती हैं.मैम जी आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद. विश्वास रखना जरूरी है😊👌👌👌👌👌👌💐💐🌺💐🌺💐🌺💐🌺💐💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  2 года назад

      Thanks Jasveer Kaur 🙏🏻🙂

  • @mahinali9479
    @mahinali9479 5 лет назад +74

    set your goals
    speak less and listen more
    don't blame others
    believe in yourself
    sit with mature peoples

  • @souravbhowmick7680
    @souravbhowmick7680 5 лет назад +20

    Thank you mam for those important lines. I will follow your advice..you are just awesome mam..

  • @learninvestment.7889
    @learninvestment.7889 5 лет назад +30

    I like you and your efforts for achieving success

  • @payalrajput8815
    @payalrajput8815 2 года назад +3

    I'm also inmature... Bt I will Follow ur guidance mam❤😊

  • @khushi6816
    @khushi6816 4 года назад +12

    Mam ...i have this qualities...
    Still another which i need to improve ☺️...
    Thank you mam ☺️💐💐😊

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 года назад +1

      🙂

    • @khushi6816
      @khushi6816 4 года назад

      Mam ...how to become senseble humorous person ...make a video ..& u promise to me for this...& I m waiting of this video 😊

  • @devcharancancercare8122
    @devcharancancercare8122 5 лет назад +1

    बहुत अच्छा मेम आपने जो बताया वो में कर रहा हूँ मुझे मेरे जीवन मे कुछ अलंग ही लग रहा है, I love you mom

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks जानकर अच्छा लगा..

  • @subrataroy9226
    @subrataroy9226 4 года назад +8

    Thank you maam for this video I am still implimenting all the above point still work in progress and I have seen the change in me.

  • @yuvraj3-i2f
    @yuvraj3-i2f 5 лет назад +1

    Hello ma'm. Kaise hain aap? I always feel positive listening your words. Ma'm mere office me mere ek staff faltu ke baat ko le kar comments karte hain. Wo mujhse age me aur position me bhi bade hain. Kuch months pehle mujh pe jhoota iljaam lagaa ke sab ke samne bura banaanaa chahte the. Lekin baaki sab staffs unki baat par bhorasha nahi kiye. Kyun ki wo sab unko aachhe se jaante the ki wo kaisa hai. Baaki sab keh rehe the ki, wo mujhse jealous hain toh isliye ye sab kuch kiya. Isme harne ke baad wo aur bhi chaalen chalaaen mujhe nichaa dikhane ke liye, phir bhi naa kamiyaab hue sirf mere khamosh rehene ke bajaah se. Baar baar criticize aur comments kar rehe the. Ese 7 months chalaa. Aur main majbur hua, unhe answer dene par. Ush din mere upper ke bade officers aaye hue the. Maine answer dia aur chalaa gayaa. Lekin mujhe iss baat ka khyaal nahi rahaa ki bade officers aaye hain aur wo log ek dushre room me hain. Main krodh me sirf kehta gayaa. Ab lag rahaa hai maine apni impression kharaab ta nahi kiya naa? Ye meri immaturity thi aur maturity?

  • @avinashchauhan997
    @avinashchauhan997 4 года назад +4

    Now I know in few points thats im still immature...
    But now I'm going to work on my these weakness points and I'll improve it soon. I'll change myself surely.

  • @vershabari500
    @vershabari500 4 года назад +1

    Yes ma'am main jarur se jarur koshish krungi mature hone ke mere paas bhi innmature wali bate thi jo hum apko help sudharne and thank you so much ma'am

  • @samadbagwan4492
    @samadbagwan4492 4 года назад +9

    Great Explanation Monica Madam...
    Daily improement and Mature...
    Daily learn something new things and experinces in our life.
    Because each day is new life and new things learn from...
    To prove myself firstly work on myself...
    Enhance preception and maturity and experinces....👍🏻👆🙏🏻

  • @generalknowledgerajniurfaa3072
    @generalknowledgerajniurfaa3072 3 года назад +2

    ❤️❤️ awaaz Apki Mam ..👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 ✨

  • @AtifasRecipes
    @AtifasRecipes 3 года назад +3

    Mai ek mom Hun I feel immature Always
    I will try ur tips 🙂

  • @AbhishekKumar-fq9zf
    @AbhishekKumar-fq9zf 3 года назад +1

    Mam thankyou so much aapne mujhe itna acha samjhaya, mam main promise karta hu ki ab main maturity jarur launga aapki baateh yaad rakhunga hamesha again thank you so much mam

  • @yesgee1005
    @yesgee1005 5 лет назад +1

    Jo log jaldi mature ho jatay hain woh jaldi old ho jatay hain. This is 100 true.

  • @Mizar8U
    @Mizar8U 5 лет назад +13

    Thank you mam for this helpful advice

  • @vikasyadavyadav7057
    @vikasyadavyadav7057 10 месяцев назад +1

    Aap meri mummy jese baat karte ho ma am
    Thanks you so much ma'am ❤

  • @monikachahal8633
    @monikachahal8633 4 года назад +3

    mam u r great h exact term maturity ki yhi h jo apne btaii h m in sb baato pr jrur dhyn dungi

  • @anuradhasahastrabuddhe4860
    @anuradhasahastrabuddhe4860 3 года назад +2

    Ma'am....Thank you so much...needed

  • @myyoutubeshorts143
    @myyoutubeshorts143 5 лет назад +17

    Dear madam ye video mere liye he kuki me bachpna karti hu esa bahot suna he mere bareme.thnx dear

  • @manpreetkaur-in1lo
    @manpreetkaur-in1lo 4 года назад +1

    I think goals nai h life me... Bki sb h jaise apne btya ...
    Thnku mam... Surely ab goal b bnega mera❤️👍👍

  • @mritunjaysharma573
    @mritunjaysharma573 5 лет назад +6

    उत्तम! 🙏🌺🌷💐👏🏻
    मेरे मित्र एवं माता मुझे over -mature और rigid कहते हैं। क्या यह सही है?
    एक वीडियो how to be liked by others पर भी अवश्य बनाएँ।

  • @tanuchoudhary9557
    @tanuchoudhary9557 2 года назад +2

    Thanku so much mam maine boht kuch sikha a aap se

  • @gudiyat4469
    @gudiyat4469 5 лет назад +10

    Ma'am this video is realty appreciable

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks Gudiya T 🙏🏻🙂

  • @pabitrafun1344
    @pabitrafun1344 4 года назад +13

    Maturity comes from experience, Realisation,strict on ur own point of view which is right and never lose confidence together with self-believe

  • @sanjanasingh682
    @sanjanasingh682 4 года назад +6

    Thanks mam, for sharing your thoughts to people your thoughts help in life changing.

  • @alexsmith6359
    @alexsmith6359 4 года назад +1

    accept beliving myself

  • @shubhamchoudhary3453
    @shubhamchoudhary3453 5 лет назад +8

    Thankyou so much ma'am please keep posting such kind of vedios.. Your vedios are very helpful to understand the complex situations.. 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @NarinderSingh-kz2zf
    @NarinderSingh-kz2zf 4 года назад +1

    Right mam.. overtaking pe control karna chiye.. self confidence ko zero karti hai.

  • @ramandeepkaur8396
    @ramandeepkaur8396 3 года назад +3

    Thanku mam for this helpful advice 😊😊

  • @sonyhurkat3489
    @sonyhurkat3489 5 дней назад

    Goal banna aur usme stick rahana
    Listen more don't talk in middle
    Respect others point of view patient rahana
    Don't overreact
    Accept
    Don't blame others for ur failure
    Apne upar biswas rakna
    Don't talk extra
    Be polite helpful
    Chote chote baat may ko samjho
    Aaghe God hay think positive
    Mature baneki points

  • @amitkumargoel6866
    @amitkumargoel6866 5 лет назад +7

    Thanks mam
    You are a down to earth person

  • @tabassumparween4005
    @tabassumparween4005 5 лет назад +1

    Mam maturity ki baat ko lekr yahi mai galti kar deti hu. apki ye video dekh kr mujhe feel ho gya k Mai matured hu, but meri baaton ko log faltu samajh mujhe fool samajh lete hain.
    Thanks a lot of your advise mam.
    God bless you and all people who don't know what is maturity.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад

      Thanks Tabassum Parween :)

    • @MohdRehan-ws1gr
      @MohdRehan-ws1gr 5 лет назад

      I'll have to work on this topic. Its also very important for me.

  • @Evaisgalaxy
    @Evaisgalaxy 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you aunty.Aap bahot acha batate hain...maine ye points use kiye hain aur kafi change aya hai.

  • @anitagulia5937
    @anitagulia5937 4 года назад +2

    Thankyou mam very much big positive attitude

  • @archanajadhav4531
    @archanajadhav4531 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for this video 🙏🙏 ...

  • @AYUSHI.SAXENAA
    @AYUSHI.SAXENAA 3 года назад

    Ma'am aapne bilkul shi point bole....m pkka promise isse follow krungiiii....

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 года назад

      Thanks Ayushi Saxena 🙏🏻🙂

  • @poojavyas4292
    @poojavyas4292 5 лет назад +5

    Ap mere mummy jaise ho ap hamesha muje ache pointz dete ho luv u mam❤

  • @divishaparmar8986
    @divishaparmar8986 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much..i am very thankful that i found ur channel

  • @MsKaur-wu5tf
    @MsKaur-wu5tf 4 года назад +3

    Seems real and helpful to hear you

  • @niyati1599
    @niyati1599 4 года назад +3

    Osm n lovely videos n wonderfull experience

  • @sanjanasingh682
    @sanjanasingh682 4 года назад +4

    I try my best to follow your thoughts in my life specially this video 1st,2nd and 3rd thoughts. thanks one again mam.

  • @HarpreetKaur-ph2wn
    @HarpreetKaur-ph2wn 2 года назад

    I'm a short temperd person so it creates so much difficulties in my life so thanku mam now I am change my self threw your video

  • @deeptigupta4807
    @deeptigupta4807 3 года назад +3

    This has got many things to learn👍 thanks ma'am for make the video

  • @JyotiYadav-ji1ro
    @JyotiYadav-ji1ro 4 года назад

    Aap SB jaante ho🙏.....meko khud bhaut kaam krne ki jrrorat h mam.....Aapne Jo bhi iss video m btaya.....same condition here mam.....change Hona h mere ko....aap hmesha sath rehna mam😊😊❤️🥰

  • @swarajaeer2680
    @swarajaeer2680 4 года назад

    Madam aap to bahut superb bat boli . Bahut details aise ki 10 age ka bhi bachha mature ban skta hai.... aapki video helpfull hai..

  • @amitabhachaudhuri7039
    @amitabhachaudhuri7039 3 года назад +13

    🙏 Ma'am.
    I think priorities are more important than goals. A man needs to be a good son/brother; mindful of his occupation; a good husband; a good father/father-in-law and a good grandfather.
    Maybe likewise for a woman.

  • @90s_Song_Live
    @90s_Song_Live 3 года назад +1

    Ek number video God bless you Monica Gupta ji 🙏

  • @nevergiveup8560
    @nevergiveup8560 5 лет назад +5

    I'm boy type.
    I have to improve all the things you've told.
    Mere liye ashirbad vejna

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад

      Best Wishes... YOU CAN DO IT....

  • @sangeetanag2907
    @sangeetanag2907 4 года назад +2

    Hello mam .
    Aapki vidio khafi useful hai .
    Thank you mam .,👌👌

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 года назад

      Thanks Sangeeta Nag 🙏🏻🙂

  • @shraddhaupadhyay3849
    @shraddhaupadhyay3849 5 лет назад +3

    Mam..ap bhut achaa bolte ho or bhut ache se smjhate ho hr topic ko..

  • @shivalishivali7248
    @shivalishivali7248 4 года назад +2

    Mam aapki ek ek point me bhut dum h .gager me sager h...mje bhut acha feel hua ..aj jo maine ye suna .jo mujme kmiya h aj pta chli .thanks mam🌹🌹🌹

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 года назад

      शुक्रिया😊

  • @MohdRehan-ws1gr
    @MohdRehan-ws1gr 5 лет назад +4

    You are absolutely right.
    Nice video

  • @Raj_Jangra
    @Raj_Jangra 3 года назад +1

    Thanks mam it's very helpful vedio to achieve maturity

  • @laxmirajpurohit7068
    @laxmirajpurohit7068 4 года назад +4

    Very nice this video ma,am thank you so much ma,am to tell it all♥️🥰

  • @OrangeCandyShorts
    @OrangeCandyShorts 4 года назад +1

    Apne is topic pe video banai .Thank you....or Apne bahot Acche se Samjhai ...Thank you ..yeh sab problum hoti hai ..👍👍👍

  • @ParveenRawaldhiya
    @ParveenRawaldhiya 5 лет назад +3

    Bahoot Acha lge mam aapki baate, knowledge se bhrpoor baate

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад +1

      शुक्रिया😊😊

  • @mohdsoil5290
    @mohdsoil5290 5 лет назад +1

    Mature bane k liye or kya kre aap ne Jo bola wo to ekdam sai sahi h mam.

  • @ayushbharti9880
    @ayushbharti9880 5 лет назад +25

    You are really awesome mam, I like your smile and your positive character 😊
    i am studying Engineering in JNU.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад +1

      बहुत बहुत शुक्रिया 🙏

  • @052sannidhivellala3
    @052sannidhivellala3 3 года назад +3

    Well explained maam. Thank you so much😊

  • @everythingispossible4083
    @everythingispossible4083 4 года назад +1

    Thank u aap jo boli wo sb mujhse milta h.mai khud ko badalne ki kosis karenge

  • @payalchoudary7521
    @payalchoudary7521 3 года назад +4

    Ur video is so amazing mam🥰🥰👌👌nd I get married but I feel immature but after seen ur video I recive lots of knowledge 🥰🥰❤️❤️ thanks a lot dear mam

  • @prashantkumar3600
    @prashantkumar3600 4 года назад +1

    understanding is called maturity

  • @PreetiKumari-ml5gs
    @PreetiKumari-ml5gs 4 года назад +3

    Thank u very much ma'am 👍

  • @anil_k_bhatia
    @anil_k_bhatia 2 года назад

    Respected Madam 💐 Monica ji, i m 55 & also a writer, आपकी इस प्रस्तुति को बहुत ही गहराई से सुना और समझा भी, आप एक महिला हैं, और मेरे लिए महिला की RESPECT और उसकी सेल्फ रिस्पेक्ट से बढ़कर कुछ भी नहीं है, मायने नहीं रखता कि वो महिला मेरी फैमिली से है, या नहीं, मायने ये रखता है कि वो एक महिला है Thanks 👍 Madam

  • @sradhasradha6023
    @sradhasradha6023 5 лет назад +4

    Thank you mame this topic is very important to me

  • @nimisingh4672
    @nimisingh4672 4 года назад +3

    Thanks alot mam for all ur videos as very informative n guide us to live happily positively

  • @aadilameer5466
    @aadilameer5466 4 года назад +2

    maturity depend upon how to behave and talk in front of people but you know your look matters in making maturity. usually people say don't be judgmental, but whenever you meet new people or any other people meet us, they already judge us just be looking us.
    In this video,
    1.set a goal in your life, vision should be clear, if any distraction coming between your goal, work out to fix that.
    2. talk less and listen more, never try to cut down when anyone else is talking, try to understand what someone else is talking and reply according to that
    3. never become impatient or depend upon others
    3. if someone compliment and criticize you accept that, and try to give reply nicely
    4. tackle your fear, its only going to happen when think positive.
    5. stay with mature people circle and talk mature topics

  • @firdoussheikh6485
    @firdoussheikh6485 5 лет назад +29

    Hi mam
    Kaise ho aap
    Bht hi achcha vedio ye topics tu mere liye hi hai thanks mam ☺️

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад +2

      हैलो.. कैसी हो तबस्सुम ??

    • @abujunaid3313
      @abujunaid3313 5 лет назад

      Same pinch

  • @pgcpdc
    @pgcpdc 5 месяцев назад

    Your maturity positivity and gentleness shines through and is so inspiring 🙏

  • @tigergoku4335
    @tigergoku4335 5 лет назад +6

    Thanks mam for helping out!

  • @LaughterBoy
    @LaughterBoy 4 года назад +1

    Kaee baar samjh daari ki baat ye bhi hoti h ki ,baat baat pe samjh daari nhi dikhaee jaa.- very nice point
    Kya baat hai waaaah!!!!!

  • @ShineBeautySalon007
    @ShineBeautySalon007 5 лет назад +5

    Thnx so much and luv u bhut sara

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  5 лет назад

      Thanks आपका भी बहुत सारा

  • @nehamishra9184
    @nehamishra9184 4 года назад +2

    Thanks mam

  • @punjabitikka
    @punjabitikka 5 лет назад +7

    Thank you Monica ji !! Best point underestimating yourself is also immaturity.
    My weakness is over reacting to my criticism.

  • @DrAnkitJangid
    @DrAnkitJangid 4 года назад

    Mature banne ke liye targets banane chahiye apni social or personal life ke...nayi chiz apnane ke liye or galat chiz hatane ke liye sochna chahiye...

  • @nehakumari7002
    @nehakumari7002 4 года назад +1

    I am immature...🥺😟😟😟 I want to be a mature life.......... But now i try my best♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ but mam i have a problem i am talk too much .......😔😔😔😔 I am trying to change my life & give 100% & i fill yes can do it......tq so much mam❤️❤️❤️😊😊