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No no not physical every time. Shadi ke baad pata chalta hain person selfish hain, not available emotionally, caught many times talking with dating site girls, even not attached to their own children. Then the wife said they need divorce, the person has changed.
90% of men will never be able to cheat. Just by looking at their face one can tell. Remaining 10% are the one who get women all over them. Its simply not logical for them to commit or be someone's emotional t@mpon
@@savitajakhar6191 so its better na cheating vale ke saath rhne se better h na single raho untill u meet actual right person , mila toh thik nhi mila toh thik at least dignity ke saath khus toh rhenge
@@spellsword64Go and read supreme court judgements on misuse of laws ok. 3 lakh men commit suicide due to matrimonial and family disputes. This uncle never understand the pain of those men who suffers in marriage. By his logic all women are sita mata and all men are ravan, on one hand he says men who are afraid of 498A should never get married and on other when men don,t want to marry he called them looser. My view let men to live there life on their own terms and condition. My body my choice is not applicable for women only.
@@MeditationMelodies962 so everyone's marriage ends up in court? It's not even the majority. Let's also talk about all the laws men abuse too, Then you won't have anything to say, because you only wanna attack women. Stop acting like the entire world world according to your yt and facebook algorithm. Nowadays everyone only speaks "facts" but it's funny how nobody can agree with the "facts" How is factual info up for such debate is it's factual, i wonder 🤔
Bachelor huu, fir bhi office ke extra kaam nahi karta huu. boss ko suna chuka huu ki bachelors ko ghar ke kaam akele karna parta hai as parents hometown mei hote hai. to khana banana, ghar safair karne keliye shaadi shuda employees se zyada time to chahiye. kaam wali rakh ke faltu ke 3000 4000 kyu urae mahine ka? Mere pass har mahine 2 job offers tayaar rehte hai. aaj boss nikale to dusra company join karlunga.
Plz talk about divorce and alimony loot happening.. girls marry Rich guys, and then make his life hell.. ans then ask for divorce and get half his property. In Spain, if there is divorce then only the property which was brought both together, only those are shared equally between the 2
This is simply a myth, which girl wants to get into all this, it is not easy even in genuine domestic abuse cases, as filing a case and getting a divorce is a long drawn process with lots of court visits, expensive with lawyer fees etc. Most sane women don't do this, and even many times children are involved also, also no woman wants the tag of divorcee.
@@dilpreet63And what she will do with the money ( if she gets anything after a prolonged battle in courts) , she will be targeted everywhere as a divorcee and will have to manage her home and kids alone, why she will take all this trouble when she can enjoy her husband's money and his help in all aspects of her life by remaining married to him.
@@rajanimenon1780 In which world you are living cases like alok maurya, manish dalal who is falsely accused of dowry by his wife. More than 3 lakh men every year commit sucide due family and matrimonial disputes what about that? This uncle never understand the pain of those mother who lost their son due to these false cases. In this modern world men and women both have criminal mindset and tendencies. In this immoral age of kalyug presuming women as goddess is biggest mistake.
@@rajanimenon1780 salary without job is best thing that can happen to any employee. Maintance without doing any work for husband is best thing for ex-wife
Bro as if men are ready to grow up and accept responsibility in the first place. There's fault on both sides. I dont get why majority of this comments section only want to target women.
@@spellsword64 Men targeting women is not a new thing but happening since a long time. According to men marriage is a sole responsibility of women. Men are there just to earn money and there job is done. Earlier women were suffering in marriage because of domestic abuse, dowry deaths, female foeticide but men don't think that marriage should be stopped because men were benefitted from marriage. But now because of alimony men are thinking that marriage is not a good thing. Alimony and maintenance are there because in India many women don't get property from their fathers and dowry is paid to groom and his family. So there is nothing left to women in marriage. Now the same men who are complaining about their wife taking Alimony from them will not think of giving the share of ancestral property to their sisters.
Ghatiya Knowledge.... Life will be hell if u marry a wrong person..and u will do crime on the counterpart and on yourself.... It's not about the wrongness of the person itself.... The compatibility should be the prime factor....
I got a match from a guy. The guy presented himself as a well behaved person. His parents also portrayed as the guy is very family oriented. Family said he never drinker or smoked. My family was conviced ki he is a good person. But I did not liked the person because of his looks but parents said think practically. But I did not get the vibes . I said I need time . Ek mahine I was talking to him one day we exchanged insta ids and then I found the guys drinking video, his family was hilarious. What if I had not taken a time and just married !!!! Kya hota mere life ka !!!
@@Viewer87456 The issue is not about whether he drinks occasionally or not. The issue is that he told a lie that he is a teetotaler which even his family was not aware of. The lying is the larger issue here. Also, you can have a different set of criteria for marriage than some other person who does not want to marry someone who drinks, even occasionally.
A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free. Arthur Schopenhauer
Apko sun k wisdom nd clarity increase hoti h isme koi doubt nhi h. Ab maturity aane k baad ye pta chal rha h ki achha bura kuch h hi nhi. Jaise politicians ka kuch nhi pta hota ki kb wo kis party k ho jaenge waise hi insaan bhi aaj kisi k seth achha..kal bura...aur parso fir se achha ho sakta h. Ya same time same person ek k sath achha aur dusre k sath bura ho sakta h. Wrong aur right koi h hi nhi aaj...kuch 1% ko chhod k...shayad😅
This guy never speak against draconian divorce ,alimony and false dowry case against Indian men,this is the real reason a lot of men don't want to get married
He does not speak on them because there is no higher thinking involved, it's simply facts and laws which you can gather on internet, his main agenda is to preserve and maintain the fabric of family and relationships , which is getting accomplished, nobody can take theka or zimmedaari of some cheater girls and bitter men , he is just guiding how to find the right girl or man or how to maintain relationship. I don't know what's so hard to understand in this
It is not men that don’t want to get married. It is working women that don’t want to get married because they don’t want to quit paid job and do free service.
Sir, I had my mrrige fix done.. n the kind of behaviour THAT BOY did to me.. that for a time being gave me mental trauma. Now i am out of it. So i am telling this ki i wanted to settle down but that boy ruined everything and wounded me emotionally and mentally.. isse acha toh mai pehle hi thi ..this I felt that time. Really. Disguisting behaviour of him and his mother.
To kya sab kuch target karein? 4-5 hour ka video dekhoge aap? Kuch bhi likhdenge yaar log aajkal. What is with this logic? You can dislike certain things about someone, why should you only like 100% or dislike 100% of someone?
Kich log 40 mein bhi nahi badalte. Better refrain from expectations that someone will change. Single nahi bhi rehna hai to bhi galat se nahi karni shadi, kabhi nahi. No!!! Never.
Im in 40s and i am a vastly different person than i was in 20s. Completely different. My wife and i have very little in common. But boy am i glad i come back to a house filled with people, laughter and human presence. Guruji is absolutely correct
I feel it can be because of two reasons 1. You think you and your wife have nothing in common, but you may have figured out some commonalities, or maybe you both are good at heart and decided to keep the differences aside for the kids 2. You may have suppressed your actual feelings, and pretend to be happy. If item 2, then this is dangerous. You might not be feeling the same way a couple of decades later. But either way, God bless you
@jeetlahkar894 you can't put the burden of being everything on your partner. We have friends, relatives, children, colleagues, authors, youtubers etc to close the gaps in your social requirements. Most couples realize they are better off with each other than without. We don't need to make marriages too complex. Give whatever you can, take what's on offer, pursue other hobbies. Most important need fulfilled by the spouse is to help raise our children and further our families.
I can tell you the exact same thing though? The comment defeats the purpose it made? Aap jo sochte ho, kya aap prove kar sakte ho ki wo sabke liye sahi hai? Matlab kya baat kar rahe ho?
People change yes. What should remain constant is core values like respect, empathy willingness to do things with other people and support each other. This is what doesn't work over a period. People don't invest enough in their relationship with others by communicating and doing things with other people.
With 11 years of successful marriage I am saying that change will happen in all the domains of life but things become easier if we are a little accepting and forgiving not just for our partner but for his family our family and everyone around us.
Brother ill repeat what sir said Its easier to say something in english than to guide with practicality. I dont think I'm helping you, but I doubt its going to be of use typing through yt comments.
Majority of Men/Boys jo iss type ki baatein karte hai are not at all . Financial stable. (Not all but most of them) . Vaise bhi kisi n karni ni unse shaadi, toh aise Akele rahe tension free raho jaise baatein karte hai.
Guruji mantra: if he has to talk about finance, bash akshat and ankur To talk about life : bash acharya prashant. Bade RUclipsrs k against Bol k, wants to get their haters as followers
It is good that lots of people nowadays are not willing to get married. Inferior people full of fear and anger should be removed from the gene pool. Earth is meant to be inherited by strong and courageous.
So why this feminist uncle and people like you always scold men for not getting married calling them as lossers. Let them live their life as per their wife. Everyone is not made for marriage. Basic aim of feminist is to extort money and property of men in the name of marriage.
Atleast the angry or fearful people once they end up learning some important lessons in life, can teach their offsprings about how to avoid making the same mistakes in future. Darwinian theory doesnt seem to be working in modern era. There is no guarantee at all that the offsprings of your superior people will not be filled with fear and anger in future generations. Because of advent of technology and shorter attention spans, and the impact of changing environments in general post industrialization and severe modernization, the way the next generation ends up in terms of temperament and behavior is becoming less and less dependent on how the previous generation of the family was. It is becoming more dependent on the social friend circles which are mostly based on life in the web and schools. Parents are being made to have less and less control over kids nowadays. American school kids for example are being taught things about sex and gender that they aren't even allowed to discuss with their parents.
Guruji i hope aap mere problem pe video banaoge Mere mom aur dad ka relation hamesha se hi kharab raha hai jiske vajhah se maine bohot suffer kiya hai. Meri mom world ki best mom hai. Last year mere dad ki death ho gayi thi, tab maine socha tha ki mom ab khush rahegi kyunki unka jeevan ka saara problem ek hi aadmi se tha. After my dad’s death, i took care of my mother and did everything for her. But i saw her other side after my father’s death, she doesnt talk to anyone properly and doesnt accept her mistake. She doesn’t trust me with anything like anything related to money. She thinks i am going to steal her money. Our relationship has gone from inseparable to bitter and bitter day by day. It has come to this point that both of us dont want to stay with each other. But o really want to take care pf her and make her happy. Please help me in this situation
@@sangitanath5618mother must have developed insecurity and suspicious behavior after being abused by husband for decades. It will take her time to trust again.
It is better to take a job, earn and separate from her. She isn't your priority, your priority will be your wife and your children in future. If she's not behaving nicely, it's not your duty, your duty is to improve your own life.
To the question regarding who decides who is the wrong person, it's the people who choose. Let's assume I want certain qualities in my man, and if I don't find them in him, then he is the wrong person for me, sir. He may be right for another woman. I know that you are a pro-marriage person, but not everyone wants to get married. And change happens in a person regardless of whether they are married or not.
Jis din inpey ya inkey betey pain false 498a aur alimony chalega,aur police and courts key chakkar lagengey,tab pata chalega,he may be expert in real estate,astrology, but in such matter his vision is very skewed kinda myopic. He lost my respect the day he said parents have no role in upbringing of a soldier and if martyred all money should go to wife and nothing to parents.the day he said this in a podcast ,he lost it....
Guruji ke thode takes zara jyaada hee simplistic hote hai. Surprising, since most his takes are so nuanced. Lekin real estate, marriage and kids ke maamle mein, he is straight black or white.😅
Etna advice leke kya hoga apna decision khud lena is better than to take advice from anyone or a professional. Haan something is serious tabb loo or if you are not capable to take your own decision too thik h le lo advise. But still galti se hi sikh milta h 🙏🏻 But uncle ji bhi sahi h baat akdm correct bolte hain ❤
JUST MARRY. 😂😂😂. JUST BUILD BRIDGE.Why to learn Maths, Physics, Engineering and work for years to gain experience?? Just Build eventually it will change and would work 😂😂😂
Sorry but you didn't address the toxicity & took it on lighter side. It's not that simple to assume right or wrong, we all know when the one person in the marriage is pathetically wrong, have seen several marriages go down because of one person
Sir Indian settings me Communication Skills pe course laiye ki kaise kisi unknown insaan ko ek acha friend bana sakte hai How to approach to a new person, How to start conversation, etc. Foreign settings me toh fir bhi easy hai but Indian me kaafi complicated mamla ho jaata hai
Shadi me ek hi sukh hy hajar tarah ki jhanjate aur dukh hy. Single rahane me ek hi dukh hy aur hajar jhanjhato se aap bache rahate hy 😂😂😂. Agar sadi ho gayi aur galti se bache ho gaye jo ki honge hi fir to bhagwan b aap ko bacha nahi skta dukhi hone se 😂😂😂
@@GoodHeartInfinity There is so much anger in these men, they feel living alone is the solution, looks like their anger will next translate into loneliness which will then make them go into substance abuse, alcoholism etc. As they grow older, they will suffer from total lack of family, people around them, the laughter and diversity of the thoughts of children and women from where they themselves came.
Sir ji nobody changes , external factors may change, getting married at the age of 35 or above 30,do you seriously think that adult will let go of old habits in him / her. That individual will be ready to get into an argument but easily convince nai hoga
Dear Amitji, Changes r coincidentaĺ n changes r bound 2 occur in every walk of life, be it good or bad. If good, then relations grow stronger n if bad, then nothing is acceptable n leads 2 a bitter relationship. Life is like a SEA - Highs n Lows. No one can predict or say tat we cld b d same person in d past fr everytime, every minute, every thought is a change in itself. Whether fr better or worse, no one can say, whether sad or happy, sad becoz of one's inability 2 accept d truth what d other hs found n happy becoz of d understanding n cooperation in both partner's accepting their faults n changes fr d better. Here a time shd not come tat wit continuous change / 2 many changes brought abt in one's life, a bitter hatred is created, becoz tat person inwardly is bound 2 live by d thoughts he/she hs gathered frm d past. No one wanting to change. Many changes / corrections brought abt in tat person's day 2 day life cld b suicidal in his/her life, wanting 2 b freed frm all intoxications by d bad thoughts of other person, not being free 2 xpress their own views/ideas, suppressing it n finally, saying GOOD BYE! That's it. ❤ n respect all of ur Videos, i've come across. Rgds
Correct.and it can be possible ,these words might have been used by them who r wrong already.and so it's better to live alone for them who might spoil others lives.😅
This comment doesn't even have a point. Aapka driving instructor aapko bachane aayega kya jab corrupt police collect karne ke liye aapko rokegi? Matlab aap sochte bhi ho likhne se pehle? Aap personal consultation karwane aaye ho kya idhar? Nahi na? To personal case ka example deke kuch bhi bolna bhi faaltu wali baat hai.
Defn of 'Girlfriend': Wo ladki jo baat baat pe tok tok ke aap ko badalne pe majboor karti hai, aur ek saal baad ye kehti hai 'Ab tum pehle jaise nahi rahe!'😂
Sir I have been married at young age. I was 26 n my wife 22 yrs old. It was an arranged marriage. 10 yrs has gone by. Have a son . Wife apna kaam karti hai mai bhi thik thak kar raha hu. Life mast hai. Ye get to know each other ka concept ka pata nahi.
Lots of youngster caz of trauma or whatever follow stupid ideology.....is it not better that we evolve as being most intelligent being....if we saw something bad then lets not repeat it and make it better
Sangwan sir... Larke kehte he shadi nahi karenge nahi karenge.... Last me jake karte hi he...😊 Aap ye sikhao ki shadi ko nibhaya keise jaye? Youth is full of lust, short tempered, aggressive. Aur jo log sachme nahi karna chahte unke well enough reason he, purpose he jivan me. Unki chinta chor do aap. 😊
Koi nai aata ji sexual orientation wale batein leke , and that too especially in a middle class setting , parents don’t have courage to have these kind of discussions. It is not about someone not able to find the right person, it is about if actually if that individual wants to be alone. Men I understand for obvious reasons can’t stay alone, they have needs to fulfil.
Are dadaji, Maalom he hame but kon ladki he Jo actually me equality me believe kerti he...It's bit awkward to be lustful for guys these days (lack of experience) and dating culture women control ker rhi he completely...Baki new unexperienced women ko attention milta he us reason se vo Nakhare dikhyengi and vo bhot graminidi traits vali hongi until vo needy feel nahi kerti...to experienced ladki sahi ho sakti he because they know what they want but vo bhi in cases jaha unko laat padi ho for being with people who are popular and attractive and lustful...to vo sochenge shyad...but jin ladkiyo ko efforts hi ni lagane pade because vo thodi achi dikhti he to vo kbi ni sochenge or kbi sahi ni hongi...attention feed kerti rahegi to kuch ni hoga desh ka, BTW same with men, men are lonely and they are psychopaths. I mean reality touch kerk fatenge vo.
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Is it safe for women to stay alone , safest states for women ?
Yes ,and if women should move out alone if they have serious issues with their family, like jo illegal category wale issue's
No no not physical every time. Shadi ke baad pata chalta hain person selfish hain, not available emotionally, caught many times talking with dating site girls, even not attached to their own children. Then the wife said they need divorce, the person has changed.
90% of men will never be able to cheat. Just by looking at their face one can tell. Remaining 10% are the one who get women all over them. Its simply not logical for them to commit or be someone's emotional t@mpon
@@ALITASINHA well if you are cheating obviously....why you have to do shit.....build your own relationship and loyal..
@@savitajakhar6191 absolutely
@@savitajakhar6191 so its better na cheating vale ke saath rhne se better h na single raho untill u meet actual right person , mila toh thik nhi mila toh thik at least dignity ke saath khus toh rhenge
@@Itsme-vw6nm humans need another human...basic social and psychological need
Comments section aaj united hai guruji ki so called higher order thinking ke against
@@89praxy Guruji to alag hi duniya mein nikal gye, unhe sab paagal lag rhe hain aur khud sahi
@@steerprofits haa just aapke jaise, jo apne aap ko sahi samajhte hai kyuki unko instagram aur yt me "ground reality" dekhne ko milte hai
@@spellsword64Go and read supreme court judgements on misuse of laws ok. 3 lakh men commit suicide due to matrimonial and family disputes. This uncle never understand the pain of those men who suffers in marriage. By his logic all women are sita mata and all men are ravan, on one hand he says men who are afraid of 498A should never get married and on other when men don,t want to marry he called them looser. My view let men to live there life on their own terms and condition. My body my choice is not applicable for women only.
@@MeditationMelodies962 so everyone's marriage ends up in court? It's not even the majority.
Let's also talk about all the laws men abuse too, Then you won't have anything to say, because you only wanna attack women.
Stop acting like the entire world world according to your yt and facebook algorithm.
Nowadays everyone only speaks "facts" but it's funny how nobody can agree with the "facts"
How is factual info up for such debate is it's factual, i wonder 🤔
@@spellsword64 Haan bilkul sahi kaha aapne
12 years of marriage, We both have changed. And changed for good.
First positive comment read. 😊👍
Thanks for sharing
Beautiful ❤️
sir i am very happy to be single, no pressure no tention 😏
Same same 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉
Same here
Life will be short
Same same
I am also very very happy
Parents ke toxic relation ne samjha diya hai.
Marriage not good thingh
Bachelor huu, fir bhi office ke extra kaam nahi karta huu. boss ko suna chuka huu ki bachelors ko ghar ke kaam akele karna parta hai as parents hometown mei hote hai. to khana banana, ghar safair karne keliye shaadi shuda employees se zyada time to chahiye. kaam wali rakh ke faltu ke 3000 4000 kyu urae mahine ka? Mere pass har mahine 2 job offers tayaar rehte hai. aaj boss nikale to dusra company join karlunga.
you must be the fittest bro
@@AsuRaj-lp9rq videsh me NRIs daoly karte hai. fir bhi bahut sare mote rehte hai. faltu ka argument.
You're right bro
Yupp
Plz talk about divorce and alimony loot happening.. girls marry Rich guys, and then make his life hell.. ans then ask for divorce and get half his property.
In Spain, if there is divorce then only the property which was brought both together, only those are shared equally between the 2
This is simply a myth, which girl wants to get into all this, it is not easy even in genuine domestic abuse cases, as filing a case and getting a divorce is a long drawn process with lots of court visits, expensive with lawyer fees etc. Most sane women don't do this, and even many times children are involved also, also no woman wants the tag of divorcee.
@@rajanimenon1780woman wants money earlier money was in husbands salary now money is in maintenance and alimony
@@dilpreet63And what she will do with the money ( if she gets anything after a prolonged battle in courts) , she will be targeted everywhere as a divorcee and will have to manage her home and kids alone, why she will take all this trouble when she can enjoy her husband's money and his help in all aspects of her life by remaining married to him.
@@rajanimenon1780 In which world you are living cases like alok maurya, manish dalal who is falsely accused of dowry by his wife. More than 3 lakh men every year commit sucide due family and matrimonial disputes what about that? This uncle never understand the pain of those mother who lost their son due to these false cases. In this modern world men and women both have criminal mindset and tendencies. In this immoral age of kalyug presuming women as goddess is biggest mistake.
@@rajanimenon1780 salary without job is best thing that can happen to any employee. Maintance without doing any work for husband is best thing for ex-wife
Ladki ready nahi hoti sahdi ke liye isliye majority boys single because of location salary lot of reasons aapko pata nahi hai kya.
Acha he nah bhai to phir
@@kaustubh3084 Amit ji aaj sahi se problem ko smjh nhi paaye isliye solve nhi kar paaye
Bro as if men are ready to grow up and accept responsibility in the first place. There's fault on both sides.
I dont get why majority of this comments section only want to target women.
@@spellsword64most men act like teenagers even at 30 plus years
@@spellsword64 Men targeting women is not a new thing but happening since a long time. According to men marriage is a sole responsibility of women. Men are there just to earn money and there job is done. Earlier women were suffering in marriage because of domestic abuse, dowry deaths, female foeticide but men don't think that marriage should be stopped because men were benefitted from marriage. But now because of alimony men are thinking that marriage is not a good thing. Alimony and maintenance are there because in India many women don't get property from their fathers and dowry is paid to groom and his family. So there is nothing left to women in marriage.
Now the same men who are complaining about their wife taking Alimony from them will not think of giving the share of ancestral property to their sisters.
This is not higher order thinking. This is higher order foolishness. Please tell both the sides rationally.
You are right Amit Sir, change comes with growing age
I am 41,married for 13 years, and about personality change you are 100% true
-vely change hue ho... To ye koi achhi baat hai Nehi... Jyada khus mat ho...😅😅
@@mrsambitkumar2323 bhai tum kaun ho - ve +ve wale? Do u even know me?
@@JSGnJH Sorry for hurting you....
I see you as a person who is 41 years old and is living a very happy married life.
Don't you ?
@@mrsambitkumar2323 dear comments is for Sango Sir, please don't judge 🙏
Ghatiya Knowledge....
Life will be hell if u marry a wrong person..and u will do crime on the counterpart and on yourself.... It's not about the wrongness of the person itself....
The compatibility should be the prime factor....
😂😂
I got a match from a guy. The guy presented himself as a well behaved person. His parents also portrayed as the guy is very family oriented. Family said he never drinker or smoked. My family was conviced ki he is a good person. But I did not liked the person because of his looks but parents said think practically. But I did not get the vibes . I said I need time . Ek mahine I was talking to him one day we exchanged insta ids and then I found the guys drinking video, his family was hilarious. What if I had not taken a time and just married !!!! Kya hota mere life ka !!!
Just because a person is drinking occasionally doesn't mean he is bad.change your thinking.
@@Viewer87456 The issue is not about whether he drinks occasionally or not. The issue is that he told a lie that he is a teetotaler which even his family was not aware of. The lying is the larger issue here. Also, you can have a different set of criteria for marriage than some other person who does not want to marry someone who drinks, even occasionally.
A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.
Arthur Schopenhauer
Apko sun k wisdom nd clarity increase hoti h isme koi doubt nhi h.
Ab maturity aane k baad ye pta chal rha h ki achha bura kuch h hi nhi. Jaise politicians ka kuch nhi pta hota ki kb wo kis party k ho jaenge waise hi insaan bhi aaj kisi k seth achha..kal bura...aur parso fir se achha ho sakta h. Ya same time same person ek k sath achha aur dusre k sath bura ho sakta h.
Wrong aur right koi h hi nhi aaj...kuch 1% ko chhod k...shayad😅
I'm surprised i found a comment not attacking and blaming someone after scrolling this much.
I'm disappointed tbh.
Wrong right koi person nahi hota bas vibes match honi chahie...fir north south chaloge to vo rishta aage Tak nahi chalega...
Awful logic!!!. We can change without getting married as well. Marriage is not something which we should proud like job.
How old are you? Serious question
@@doncorleone3901 +1. Like what is this person even trying to say?
Tera life me Kutch nhi ho sakta @codeRS95
@@nutriwaywithrohan5729 Tera kutch hua kya?
Shabbash what a reply@@codeRS95
This guy never speak against draconian divorce ,alimony and false dowry case against Indian men,this is the real reason a lot of men don't want to get married
He does not speak on them because there is no higher thinking involved, it's simply facts and laws which you can gather on internet, his main agenda is to preserve and maintain the fabric of family and relationships , which is getting accomplished, nobody can take theka or zimmedaari of some cheater girls and bitter men , he is just guiding how to find the right girl or man or how to maintain relationship. I don't know what's so hard to understand in this
Because he supports it to the core he even advocates higher laws for this
Watch full video 11:50
It is not men that don’t want to get married. It is working women that don’t want to get married because they don’t want to quit paid job and do free service.
@@wowser2153 yaar fir aap aise partner banne ki koshish karo jo usko servant ki tarah na feel karvaye is all I would say in my capacity
I have changed drastically over the past few yrs,agree with the point that people keep on changing
Sir, I had my mrrige fix done.. n the kind of behaviour THAT BOY did to me.. that for a time being gave me mental trauma.
Now i am out of it.
So i am telling this ki i wanted to settle down but that boy ruined everything and wounded me emotionally and mentally.. isse acha toh mai pehle hi thi ..this I felt that time. Really.
Disguisting behaviour of him and his mother.
@@sanghatidas3616Good to know that you are at peaceful state now✨💗 More Power and Love to You dear😊
Its interesting when you talk against men you don't get traction in your comment
But the rest are men talking bs and getting crazy amount of likes.
@GoodHeartinfinity Relatable 💯
Do you have any child?
I m going through the same but in the marriage of 4 months. Mental trauma and torture.
Kisiki mat suno apne self experience se karo jo karna hai kal fass jaoge yeh bachane nhi aayega
All marriages are fine until another passes judgement on it 😅
Agar aap aacharya Prashant ko few points par Target karna band kar den toh aap bhi ek great character Hain Amit ji
Very true
To kya sab kuch target karein? 4-5 hour ka video dekhoge aap? Kuch bhi likhdenge yaar log aajkal.
What is with this logic? You can dislike certain things about someone, why should you only like 100% or dislike 100% of someone?
kaun se points h...sabhi points batao
Only if you can stop adulating someone you can see clearer.
Kich log 40 mein bhi nahi badalte. Better refrain from expectations that someone will change. Single nahi bhi rehna hai to bhi galat se nahi karni shadi, kabhi nahi. No!!! Never.
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Change is very good , I have changed after marriage and for better
Im in 40s and i am a vastly different person than i was in 20s. Completely different. My wife and i have very little in common. But boy am i glad i come back to a house filled with people, laughter and human presence. Guruji is absolutely correct
Guru ji is very right 😊😊
I feel it can be because of two reasons
1. You think you and your wife have nothing in common, but you may have figured out some commonalities, or maybe you both are good at heart and decided to keep the differences aside for the kids
2. You may have suppressed your actual feelings, and pretend to be happy.
If item 2, then this is dangerous. You might not be feeling the same way a couple of decades later. But either way, God bless you
@jeetlahkar894 you can't put the burden of being everything on your partner. We have friends, relatives, children, colleagues, authors, youtubers etc to close the gaps in your social requirements. Most couples realize they are better off with each other than without. We don't need to make marriages too complex. Give whatever you can, take what's on offer, pursue other hobbies. Most important need fulfilled by the spouse is to help raise our children and further our families.
Dosto shadi kro lekin mental ya physical abuse mile toh niklo..khushi kum paise mae aa skti hai lekin shanti nahi..
Bahar se mithai aandar se karela.... baad mein zindagi jhandba phir bhi gamandwa
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No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man.
Most practical person😊
Bhai tumhe jo sahi lagta wo tumhare liye sahi saabit hua hoga , par zaruri nahi wo sab ke liye sahi saabit ho
I can tell you the exact same thing though? The comment defeats the purpose it made?
Aap jo sochte ho, kya aap prove kar sakte ho ki wo sabke liye sahi hai? Matlab kya baat kar rahe ho?
People change yes. What should remain constant is core values like respect, empathy willingness to do things with other people and support each other. This is what doesn't work over a period. People don't invest enough in their relationship with others by communicating and doing things with other people.
With 11 years of successful marriage I am saying that change will happen in all the domains of life but things become easier if we are a little accepting and forgiving not just for our partner but for his family our family and everyone around us.
Sirjeee in full enthusiasm today😂
Badal gaye hain ...sasural mein aakar hasi kuch time bad gayab ho jati hai ..
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Sir how to know red flags?
Be aware and don't be blind in love
See actions not face and body
Brother ill repeat what sir said
Its easier to say something in english than to guide with practicality.
I dont think I'm helping you, but I doubt its going to be of use typing through yt comments.
We both changed for good. Happily married for 12 years.
Well said sir ... everyone's thinking changes
Majority of Men/Boys jo iss type ki baatein karte hai are not at all . Financial stable. (Not all but most of them) . Vaise bhi kisi n karni ni unse shaadi, toh aise Akele rahe tension free raho jaise baatein karte hai.
Yes our president and top actors are also not financially stable
Woman cry about dowry but men should marry only after they can afford a girl while unemployed girls marry all the time
great comment bro
We have changed & the adjustment is more good now...
Oh my god... so good explanation guruji ❤
Right, change is the only constant. But there are people who want to grow in life ALONE 😅
Guruji mantra: if he has to talk about finance, bash akshat and ankur
To talk about life : bash acharya prashant.
Bade RUclipsrs k against Bol k, wants to get their haters as followers
It is good that lots of people nowadays are not willing to get married. Inferior people full of fear and anger should be removed from the gene pool. Earth is meant to be inherited by strong and courageous.
So why this feminist uncle and people like you always scold men for not getting married calling them as lossers. Let them live their life as per their wife. Everyone is not made for marriage. Basic aim of feminist is to extort money and property of men in the name of marriage.
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Who are you to decide ki who’s inferior?
Atleast the angry or fearful people once they end up learning some important lessons in life, can teach their offsprings about how to avoid making the same mistakes in future.
Darwinian theory doesnt seem to be working in modern era. There is no guarantee at all that the offsprings of your superior people will not be filled with fear and anger in future generations. Because of advent of technology and shorter attention spans, and the impact of changing environments in general post industrialization and severe modernization, the way the next generation ends up in terms of temperament and behavior is becoming less and less dependent on how the previous generation of the family was. It is becoming more dependent on the social friend circles which are mostly based on life in the web and schools.
Parents are being made to have less and less control over kids nowadays.
American school kids for example are being taught things about sex and gender that they aren't even allowed to discuss with their parents.
Is yogi adityanath inferior? was vivekananda inferior? was ratan tata inferior?
Guruji i hope aap mere problem pe video banaoge
Mere mom aur dad ka relation hamesha se hi kharab raha hai jiske vajhah se maine bohot suffer kiya hai. Meri mom world ki best mom hai. Last year mere dad ki death ho gayi thi, tab maine socha tha ki mom ab khush rahegi kyunki unka jeevan ka saara problem ek hi aadmi se tha. After my dad’s death, i took care of my mother and did everything for her. But i saw her other side after my father’s death, she doesnt talk to anyone properly and doesnt accept her mistake. She doesn’t trust me with anything like anything related to money. She thinks i am going to steal her money. Our relationship has gone from inseparable to bitter and bitter day by day. It has come to this point that both of us dont want to stay with each other. But o really want to take care pf her and make her happy. Please help me in this situation
Same situation with me😢
More power to u 💪
@@sangitanath5618mother must have developed insecurity and suspicious behavior after being abused by husband for decades. It will take her time to trust again.
It is better to take a job, earn and separate from her. She isn't your priority, your priority will be your wife and your children in future. If she's not behaving nicely, it's not your duty, your duty is to improve your own life.
@@Lavanyachawla55 hope someone gives such advice to your brother
To the question regarding who decides who is the wrong person, it's the people who choose. Let's assume I want certain qualities in my man, and if I don't find them in him, then he is the wrong person for me, sir. He may be right for another woman. I know that you are a pro-marriage person, but not everyone wants to get married. And change happens in a person regardless of whether they are married or not.
Jis din inpey ya inkey betey pain false 498a aur alimony chalega,aur police and courts key chakkar lagengey,tab pata chalega,he may be expert in real estate,astrology, but in such matter his vision is very skewed kinda myopic. He lost my respect the day he said parents have no role in upbringing of a soldier and if martyred all money should go to wife and nothing to parents.the day he said this in a podcast ,he lost it....
Guruji ke thode takes zara jyaada hee simplistic hote hai. Surprising, since most his takes are so nuanced. Lekin real estate, marriage and kids ke maamle mein, he is straight black or white.😅
Etna advice leke kya hoga apna decision khud lena is better than to take advice from anyone or a professional.
Haan something is serious tabb loo or if you are not capable to take your own decision too thik h le lo advise. But still galti se hi sikh milta h 🙏🏻
But uncle ji bhi sahi h baat akdm correct bolte hain ❤
2:55 acharya Prashant ka meaning bhut depth hai aap ke samajh se pare hai sir.
JUST MARRY. 😂😂😂. JUST BUILD BRIDGE.Why to learn Maths, Physics, Engineering and work for years to gain experience??
Just Build eventually it will change and would work 😂😂😂
Uncle ji simple logic is you should wear a shirt which you would fit in more or less slight buffer is ok. Else you are going to through it very soon
Damdar jaandar shaandar video
Superb!
Please make video on red flag for man and women both
Sorry but you didn't address the toxicity & took it on lighter side. It's not that simple to assume right or wrong, we all know when the one person in the marriage is pathetically wrong, have seen several marriages go down because of one person
Sir Indian settings me Communication Skills pe course laiye ki kaise kisi unknown insaan ko ek acha friend bana sakte hai
How to approach to a new person, How to start conversation, etc.
Foreign settings me toh fir bhi easy hai but Indian me kaafi complicated mamla ho jaata hai
Core values guruji.Need a topic on this
Respect and wishes from Lahore Pakistan.
if someone or me loyal and honest, how can I am wrong?
Thannnkkk youuuuu so much.....lot of people are just saying bills hit things
Shadi me ek hi sukh hy hajar tarah ki jhanjate aur dukh hy. Single rahane me ek hi dukh hy aur hajar jhanjhato se aap bache rahate hy 😂😂😂. Agar sadi ho gayi aur galti se bache ho gaye jo ki honge hi fir to bhagwan b aap ko bacha nahi skta dukhi hone se 😂😂😂
Omg😂 Aisa bhi ky bhaiiii bhaiiiii
@@GoodHeartInfinity There is so much anger in these men, they feel living alone is the solution, looks like their anger will next translate into loneliness which will then make them go into substance abuse, alcoholism etc. As they grow older, they will suffer from total lack of family, people around them, the laughter and diversity of the thoughts of children and women from where they themselves came.
Sir ji nobody changes , external factors may change, getting married at the age of 35 or above 30,do you seriously think that adult will let go of old habits in him / her. That individual will be ready to get into an argument but easily convince nai hoga
Nice thought sir
Relationship is apni karni, very true Sir.
It's ultra ultra important n good to get married
Dear Amitji,
Changes r coincidentaĺ n changes r bound 2 occur in every walk of life, be it good or bad. If good, then relations grow stronger n if bad, then nothing is acceptable n leads 2 a bitter relationship.
Life is like a SEA - Highs n Lows. No one can predict or say tat we cld b d same person in d past fr everytime, every minute, every thought is a change in itself. Whether fr better or worse, no one can say, whether sad or happy, sad becoz of one's inability 2 accept d truth what d other hs found n happy becoz of d understanding n cooperation in both partner's accepting their faults n changes fr d better.
Here a time shd not come tat wit continuous change / 2 many changes brought abt in one's life, a bitter hatred is created, becoz tat person inwardly is bound 2 live by d thoughts he/she hs gathered frm d past. No one wanting to change.
Many changes / corrections brought abt in tat person's day 2 day life cld b suicidal in his/her life, wanting 2 b freed frm all intoxications by d bad thoughts of other person, not being free 2 xpress their own views/ideas, suppressing it n finally, saying GOOD BYE! That's it.
❤ n respect all of ur Videos, i've come across.
Rgds
thik he sir but ye bata do ki 15k salary vale se kon shadi krega 😂😂😂😂
No perfect person exist on the earth 🔥💯ℹ️
Correct.and it can be possible ,these words might have been used by them who r wrong already.and so it's better to live alone for them who might spoil others lives.😅
Someone I know lives in a house of 18 cr 300 Gaj house all alone didn't marry , busy finding the right girl n wasted time Living life all alone
Sir aayenge na bachane jab vaat lagegi tab
Pehle fees do phir bachaenge
@@pratikvyas3384 🤭😂
This comment doesn't even have a point. Aapka driving instructor aapko bachane aayega kya jab corrupt police collect karne ke liye aapko rokegi?
Matlab aap sochte bhi ho likhne se pehle?
Aap personal consultation karwane aaye ho kya idhar? Nahi na? To personal case ka example deke kuch bhi bolna bhi faaltu wali baat hai.
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Request you to pls make a video on a family involving step mother ,step sister and a daughter from the first wife with father no more.
nowdays libral thinking is eating people mind thanks guruji kamse kam koi toh hai .
Shadi barbaadi hai.
Aaj tak ka sabse best video ❤
Sir plz make video on Haryana election exit polls..what's your opinion on exit polls
Guruji when you break these "logical thinking" I'm just left laughing, i cant help myself 😂😂
Sir zaleel ka toh pta nhi hasi zarur nikal rahi hai
Jo bhi ho Guruji ki baatein bade majedar lgte hai. 🤣😁😁
Dynamic sabse abused word hai corporate sector mei.
Yes yes yes yes ❤
It's easy to say, but hard to do.....😂😂😂
its easy to do just try to do and talk with opposite gender .
Gym wale lounde 😂😂
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Defn of 'Girlfriend': Wo ladki jo baat baat pe tok tok ke aap ko badalne pe majboor karti hai, aur ek saal baad ye kehti hai 'Ab tum pehle jaise nahi rahe!'😂
Married...7 yrs...some 😮 More.😊😊😊😊 experiences,,,true said ...AAG
Sir I have been married at young age. I was 26 n my wife 22 yrs old. It was an arranged marriage. 10 yrs has gone by. Have a son . Wife apna kaam karti hai mai bhi thik thak kar raha hu. Life mast hai. Ye get to know each other ka concept ka pata nahi.
Many many congratulations to you
Many many congratulations to you
Lots of youngster caz of trauma or whatever follow stupid ideology.....is it not better that we evolve as being most intelligent being....if we saw something bad then lets not repeat it and make it better
Sangwan sir... Larke kehte he shadi nahi karenge nahi karenge.... Last me jake karte hi he...😊 Aap ye sikhao ki shadi ko nibhaya keise jaye?
Youth is full of lust, short tempered, aggressive.
Aur jo log sachme nahi karna chahte unke well enough reason he, purpose he jivan me. Unki chinta chor do aap. 😊
Goa is burning with protest. Controvertial land conversion, controvertial hill cutting. public on the road
Koi nai aata ji sexual orientation wale batein leke , and that too especially in a middle class setting , parents don’t have courage to have these kind of discussions. It is not about someone not able to find the right person, it is about if actually if that individual wants to be alone. Men I understand for obvious reasons can’t stay alone, they have needs to fulfil.
Are dadaji, Maalom he hame but kon ladki he Jo actually me equality me believe kerti he...It's bit awkward to be lustful for guys these days (lack of experience) and dating culture women control ker rhi he completely...Baki new unexperienced women ko attention milta he us reason se vo Nakhare dikhyengi and vo bhot graminidi traits vali hongi until vo needy feel nahi kerti...to experienced ladki sahi ho sakti he because they know what they want but vo bhi in cases jaha unko laat padi ho for being with people who are popular and attractive and lustful...to vo sochenge shyad...but jin ladkiyo ko efforts hi ni lagane pade because vo thodi achi dikhti he to vo kbi ni sochenge or kbi sahi ni hongi...attention feed kerti rahegi to kuch ni hoga desh ka, BTW same with men, men are lonely and they are psychopaths. I mean reality touch kerk fatenge vo.
Love it
Maja aya ❤❤
Always single guys
I think it's a type of confirmation bias.
गुरुजी ये youth के बीच शादी ना करने वाली बात concerning है। हम west countries को follow करते हैं, अच्छी चीजे अपनाना चाहिये लेकिन अपनी बुद्धि विवेक चेतना का भी इस्तेमाल करना चाहिये।
Red Pill Knowledge Guruji!
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