My boyfriend once said something that stuck with me forever… to all the girls who feel insecure naked. He told me that we think that we are sneaky with clothing, covering up our “defects”… but men them all :) so if they want to be intimate with you, it’s because they want to share that moment (and yes, probably they noticed even in clothes that you have cellulite or not very flat stomach). It gave me suuuper confidence, because it makes sense 😂 they see everything… i was also thinking that i never backed out because someone looked different naked than what I have imagined… so why would it be the way around? 😅😮
@@alexiawagner2514 You left several pointless, negative and insulting comments. You responded like a troll so I called you one. Reread your own comments and wonder if those seem kind and normal replies to you.
I’m so here for the new Esteé phase!! 🔥 Really loved the chatting video! It’s so awesome that you’re opening up about sexytime more in your recent videos! Love you ❤❤
Omg you are looking beautiful! ❤ thank you for this fun topic video. I remember seeing a latex suit on the first season of American Horror Story and feeling some way 😂
When to have sex with a new person is an individual decision. The first few dates are an absolute no-go for me. I think when you are ready to discuss taking it to the next level and getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases AND have gotten the results back would be a time to start getting into full on sexy time together. But until those results come back and you have seen them with your own eyes, get your LELO or whatever self-loving rituals going after your dates and let that anticipation build between you and your new friend. Or, there are plenty of flirty and sexy things you can do together without getting naked and chancing an unwanted disease! If they aren’t willing to wait, they aren’t worth your time and you most likely dodged a bullet! Safe and responsible sex is incredibly sexy in my opinion! We know often times sex with someone you are just getting to know isn’t always the most satisfying. Why would I risk my life or risk getting an STD for an unsatisfactory experience when I know I can get some serious pleasure on my own without any health risks? Personally, I wouldn’t. Take your time. There is no rush. You are definitely worth the wait! Stay safe! P.S. Thanks for the heads up in the title, Estée! Makes a huge difference in the timing of watching these adult content videos! Your consideration for your viewers is greatly appreciated! 💗
I think it’s an easy perspective when not actively navigating the current dating climate, but chemistry and trust (and quite a bit of virtual nakedness) tends to build up long before people ever meet. So when they finally are in person & secluded, things are almost…inevitable. Always good to work on discipline because safe sex is paramount. But many couples will exchange their test results and discuss expectations early on too. Morality is weaved heavily into your point, and seems to be the real issue with what was said. Early sex itself doesn’t have to be the risk-magnet you portray it to be here.
I actually really rate Ann Summers, when you go in and browse you realise there is actually tons of lovely stuff. I’ve got my nicest lingerie from there 😊
Crotchless lingerie is really great to avoid that pointless "on for two seconds then it's off" That way you can still look and feel sexy but it's still functional ahah
Great video Estee! I have been known to spend a pretty penny on lingerie...here is a list of brands to explore:) Honey Birdette Bluebella Third love Understance Cuup Negativeunderwear Adore Me Hips-and-curves Exotiquefemme Funkypair Lovehoney Thistle and spire mentionables Lushy Skarlett blue Ohlalacheriparis Dallianse Blue Bella Cherie amour Spicy lingerie
Ummm the next goop for the millenials. How does she do it. Also I'm in my thirties haven't really gone out there but like its like is it really divorcees.
Estee saying she's never brought a toy into the bath sounds like you've just heard someone drives with 2 feet. Guess that's one way to do it, but that's not how I thought a truck driver would get from point A to B LOL. Love youuu
Love that you‘re talking about this! The only thing is, maybe we could all change our wording from female/male pleasure to clitoris/penis/vulva pleasure because not everyone who identifies as female has a vulva and vice versa
Oh shut the f up. Just what women need. As if the orgasm gap wasn't bad enough, now we have to obscure the situation by negating the fact that women are female. What a stupid, regressive timeline.
Sleeping with someone on the first date or too soon is trashy. Yes people do it but it’s also ok to reserve sex for a committed relationship. Not everyone is hooking up even though it may seem that way.
Judging people’s sexual preferences and habits that have nothing to do with you is also quite trashy. Let people decide when they are comfortable enough to let another person in.
I don’t consider this tacky, personally. If you consider sex and sexual pleasure tacky, I encourage you, respectfully, to consider why you think that. Sex is a wonderful part of life that should be discussed openly to destigmatise it.
@@velvetvehemence She probably gets approached by tons of brands, and it's not like she makes a new video showcasing a new random product every week. This one must have really resonated and she wanted to share it. Honestly I see it as her opening up and sharing more of herself with her followers. Yeah, it sucks to see videos suddenly turn out to be ads, but it's just the norm these days. I wouldn't automatically jump to the worst conclusion about Estée unless it was just an obvious cash grab, which I doubt she needs given how successful her business is. Just my two cents ✌️
I agreeeee! I eye rolled so hard when the sponcon started. Someone else commented “love that you still do RUclips videos!” I do not love that she posts YT videos because it’s not for genuine content, it’s to get that bag. TBH I would prob do the same though so honestly no hate… she’s gotta afford those vacations and engagement rings for herself somehow
It feels like you’ve grown into a wiser, more open, more fulfilled, and self actualized person since the Essie button days. I’m happy for you.
❤️✨
I love that you keep doing RUclips! It's just the most quality time-feeling ever. Thank you! you da best
You’re the best! ❤️
Same!
@ awwww estéeeeee!
I find it refreshing that you bring up this topic cause its probably the most natural thing but still people dont talk about it enough. Loved it.
Thanks Emma!
Estée, please drop an updated daily make-up routine! You look so beautiful in this video 😍
Thanks for still sticking around RUclips 🫶🏻
Please
Noted!
I love that you are addressing this topic in such an easy and comfortable way 🥰😘
Thank you! It was fun to film 🥰
“You lumpy marshmallow…” 😂 OMG! Estee, I adore you! I feel this. ♥️ Thank you for this video.
🤣
I love how you glow from the outside but especially from the inside! You give me soooo much good vibes 🫶🏼
Aw thank you Jules! We love the good vibes 😎
My boyfriend once said something that stuck with me forever… to all the girls who feel insecure naked.
He told me that we think that we are sneaky with clothing, covering up our “defects”… but men them all :) so if they want to be intimate with you, it’s because they want to share that moment (and yes, probably they noticed even in clothes that you have cellulite or not very flat stomach).
It gave me suuuper confidence, because it makes sense 😂 they see everything… i was also thinking that i never backed out because someone looked different naked than what I have imagined… so why would it be the way around? 😅😮
Absolutely loved this video. We need more open conversations about sex- it’s empowering! ❤
@@alexiawagner2514 Don't be a troll. You're leaving negative comments all over. You don't like this vid... don't watch it.
@@alexiawagner2514 You left several pointless, negative and insulting comments. You responded like a troll so I called you one. Reread your own comments and wonder if those seem kind and normal replies to you.
I’m so here for the new Esteé phase!! 🔥
Really loved the chatting video! It’s so awesome that you’re opening up about sexytime more in your recent videos! Love you ❤❤
Thank you! ❤️
Omg you are looking beautiful! ❤ thank you for this fun topic video. I remember seeing a latex suit on the first season of American Horror Story and feeling some way 😂
So fun! 🫢
Omg, your skin looks so fresh and beautiful😍
🥹 thank you!!!
Estee - a podcast. Please. ❤
I need the makeup routine!! Skin is glowinggg
❤️✨
I need to know how you make your eye brows look so sharp!! Microblading? Brow gel? Laminating?
I feel like she has always had sharp fantastic brows. I think they are natural.
I didn’t know I needed to hear all of this, but thank you ☺️
I’m so glad! 😘
fewwww I clicked on this so fast lol
😂😂
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Hahhahah me too
I love how open and honest you are
😘😘
I’ve been following you on youtube for so long! You’re my fave! ❤ greetz from The Netherlands
When to have sex with a new person is an individual decision. The first few dates are an absolute no-go for me. I think when you are ready to discuss taking it to the next level and getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases AND have gotten the results back would be a time to start getting into full on sexy time together. But until those results come back and you have seen them with your own eyes, get your LELO or whatever self-loving rituals going after your dates and let that anticipation build between you and your new friend. Or, there are plenty of flirty and sexy things you can do together without getting naked and chancing an unwanted disease! If they aren’t willing to wait, they aren’t worth your time and you most likely dodged a bullet!
Safe and responsible sex is incredibly sexy in my opinion! We know often times sex with someone you are just getting to know isn’t always the most satisfying. Why would I risk my life or risk getting an STD for an unsatisfactory experience when I know I can get some serious pleasure on my own without any health risks? Personally, I wouldn’t. Take your time. There is no rush. You are definitely worth the wait! Stay safe!
P.S. Thanks for the heads up in the title, Estée! Makes a huge difference in the timing of watching these adult content videos! Your consideration for your viewers is greatly appreciated! 💗
I think it’s an easy perspective when not actively navigating the current dating climate, but chemistry and trust (and quite a bit of virtual nakedness) tends to build up long before people ever meet. So when they finally are in person & secluded, things are almost…inevitable. Always good to work on discipline because safe sex is paramount. But many couples will exchange their test results and discuss expectations early on too. Morality is weaved heavily into your point, and seems to be the real issue with what was said. Early sex itself doesn’t have to be the risk-magnet you portray it to be here.
Your makeup is Gorgeous in this vid, you are glowing Estée 😍🧡🥰
😘
I need an updated perfume video, what are your current faves? :)
You seem so happy - love to see it
your skin is looking AMAZING!
🥹❤️
Wow! Loveeeeed this video ❤ Thank you for that!
😘
Build-up is essential.
👏👏👏
I actually really rate Ann Summers, when you go in and browse you realise there is actually tons of lovely stuff. I’ve got my nicest lingerie from there 😊
I love your nails. Really enjoy this kind of topic.
Thank you so much! ❤️
Crotchless lingerie is really great to avoid that pointless "on for two seconds then it's off"
That way you can still look and feel sexy but it's still functional ahah
Love this Estee!!
Thank you! 😍
Love this. :) What are the other two LELO vibrators you talked about? I think there is one that also stimulated the g-spot?
Can confirm that the 'bath' takes it to the next level!
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Tested it and can 100% recommend! 😇
Dear Estee, where is your crystal from?? Thanks!!
Yes to latex! Embrace it! Atsuko Kudo is a beautiful boutique in London 🖤 x
Yes! Glad you agree 🤣
Love you!!! ❤❤❤ You’re the cutest ❣️
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thank you for this video! Appreciate it
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Love the video! But...what did you do to your eyebrows? 😮 You look so different 😊
I'm watching this with an oversized tshirt sweatpants and no makeup on hahaha
I love this qna.
Thank you!
Great video❤❤❤
Thank you! ❤️
Saw the title, clicked like. 😂
🙌🏼❤️
Ty! great vlog! 💐💐💐x
Thanks for watching ✨
Great video Estee! I have been known to spend a pretty penny on lingerie...here is a list of brands to explore:)
Honey Birdette
Bluebella
Third love
Understance
Cuup
Negativeunderwear
Adore Me
Hips-and-curves
Exotiquefemme
Funkypair
Lovehoney
Thistle and spire
mentionables
Lushy
Skarlett blue
Ohlalacheriparis
Dallianse
Blue Bella
Cherie amour
Spicy lingerie
Omg thank you! So many good recs 😍
I LOVE lelo!!
The BEST!
Giving me life when I need it so bad ❤
Love that video ❤
Thank you Charley!
*Don’t mean to offend by this comment at all * Did you get your buccal fat removed? Your bone structure is looking really sculpted
"you lumpy marshmallow" :))))
Love this!!
Fun video, loved it a lot 😉
Thank you Julie!
you would look so nice in anything like lavender if you want to explore colors!
Ooo thank you!
Great video!
Thanks Iara 🥰
What was that ❤ covering up 🤔
Every video is a sponsorship now. Miss the organic vlogs.
Thank you 😊 it was great.
Thank YOU for watching! ❤️
I love this side of Estee!!!!!! Ooo girl you a grownnnnn woman *dances to Beyoncé*
💃
I’m 40, newly divorced and girl, what’s with all that dating apps. 😂 it’s crazy. Only crazy people there. I need this little vibrating friend. 🤣
🤣🤣🤣
this is so epic! thank you
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Ummm the next goop for the millenials. How does she do it.
Also I'm in my thirties haven't really gone out there but like its like is it really divorcees.
Yes yes yes!😂😏💕
thanks big sister estee :)
You’re very welcome! ❤️
Estee you read my mind!
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estee the future latex dominatrix LOL
Watch this space LOL
is your venus in gemini?
Myeah lelo, I bought their expensive af product and it stopped working after 6 months, barely used it. I have yet to be paid back 😂
Totally get the latex 😂
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Estee 💙
Those who live in Australia,uk or usa or canada i wanna discuss something with u related to freelancing
OMG the mirror 😉
that toy looks fun 🤍
♥️♥️♥️♥️
Comment all , to Indonesia 🇮🇩 ????
slay
I love how you turn into a 12 year old when you discuss sex! LOL
That sounds very wrong
Estee saying she's never brought a toy into the bath sounds like you've just heard someone drives with 2 feet. Guess that's one way to do it, but that's not how I thought a truck driver would get from point A to B LOL. Love youuu
Lol!!!
People don't drive with two feet...? Do they not have manual transmissions where you live?
Hlo sister where are u from could you tell me please ❣️
Love that you‘re talking about this! The only thing is, maybe we could all change our wording from female/male pleasure to clitoris/penis/vulva pleasure because not everyone who identifies as female has a vulva and vice versa
Oh shut the f up. Just what women need. As if the orgasm gap wasn't bad enough, now we have to obscure the situation by negating the fact that women are female. What a stupid, regressive timeline.
Lol
I’m all for supporting differences but I think policing the way people speak has got to go. The safe space is within us.
Stop it ..they are female and male period.
Estee, i miss watching your old vlog with aslan and reggie. it got me through college when i was bored back in the day.
Hmm wonder what your actual kinks are 😊
I am from India 👍🎉
Sleeping with someone on the first date or too soon is trashy. Yes people do it but it’s also ok to reserve sex for a committed relationship. Not everyone is hooking up even though it may seem that way.
Judging people’s sexual preferences and habits that have nothing to do with you is also quite trashy. Let people decide when they are comfortable enough to let another person in.
Shaming people for sex is soooooo outdated katie. Let’s grow up.
Has Estee hit rock bottom with this tacky product endorsement?
No ❤
I don’t consider this tacky, personally. If you consider sex and sexual pleasure tacky, I encourage you, respectfully, to consider why you think that. Sex is a wonderful part of life that should be discussed openly to destigmatise it.
@@pyewacket8003 if that’s the direction that she wants to take her brand.
How is this tacky?
@@sumbaltasawwar how is it not. Do I really want to know how she masturbates.
sorry, this one's an ick
Why?
@@allisonbishop honestly its the combo of personal sex talk + advert of intimate product. feels gross and performative in order to sell an item imo
I would suggest you don‘t watch then.
@@velvetvehemence She probably gets approached by tons of brands, and it's not like she makes a new video showcasing a new random product every week. This one must have really resonated and she wanted to share it. Honestly I see it as her opening up and sharing more of herself with her followers. Yeah, it sucks to see videos suddenly turn out to be ads, but it's just the norm these days. I wouldn't automatically jump to the worst conclusion about Estée unless it was just an obvious cash grab, which I doubt she needs given how successful her business is. Just my two cents ✌️
I agreeeee! I eye rolled so hard when the sponcon started. Someone else commented “love that you still do RUclips videos!” I do not love that she posts YT videos because it’s not for genuine content, it’s to get that bag.
TBH I would prob do the same though so honestly no hate… she’s gotta afford those vacations and engagement rings for herself somehow
Get a boyfriend !
Why?
Just love how open and honest you are!!! Ordered my Lelo Lily 3!
Yess! 🙌🏼✨