She is BAZAAR. What does "Grow-a part" mean AFTER you've had 3 kids🙃. Marriage has many stages/seasons. You learn to GROW within your marriage. If your husband was respectful, a provider, and not cheating👉You do NOT break up your family and strip the children of having their father in the home. She need to grow up and get off of Instagram🙄
And I bet he cheated, she found out but won’t take accountability and own that she was too busy for him, so he got attention from someone/somewhere else.
*Always* And then when Kendra asked her when was the last time she was intimate with someone she declined to answer... Well we all know what that means.
In order for the 3 fold cord to work She and her husband must be bound to God. Women like this dont realize how serious it is to break their vows. She is held accountable just as he is
@@kylefrazier6773 The level of arrogance is astounding 6:21. She didnt think about family and what it would do to the kids. Its typically all about their happiness
Why do people never consider she doesn’t want to drag this man through the streets? I’ve thought a lot about how I would answer this question too. My ex didn’t sign up to be on this show, so is it fair to rip his character apart online for other people’s entertainment?
@@Livelikeyasuah Out of loyalty and respect for her ex-husband, she chose not to air out her dirty laundry to thousands of people on the internet. You have to respect that.
Exactly bro it's just mind boggling to me when they *expect* another man to take care of kids that aren't biologically his. And then they'll shame him if he doesn't. That's the difference between a man coming in with kids and a woman coming in with kids.
@@longbeachmaumba7059 it's not their fault. A woman can never truly understand how little interest most men have in children that aren't his. There is a reason why of the millions of single people that adopts children there are almost zero men.
Her saying that she'll divorce a man if she's unhappy is an honest answer. If she's bored or thinks she can do better, she's gone. Fine for a short ride, but marrying her would be a disaster if you have more money than her.
Fading, fleeting, short-term, passing, just a phase. So many women divorce good men. Tia Mowery should serve as an example. She took the risk but the gamble will not likely pay off.
She don't wanna be married for real, she just wanted some attention on Kendra's show, because she knows no man in his right mind that she would actually be attracted to would marry her after seeing this. 🤣
But people no longer know what it means to be married as it is typically about a financial come up for most women. Most of these marriages aren't genuine relationships
@@kylefrazier6773women can't handle it. Put the blame where it properly belongs........and most women have ALWAYS been this way.........BUT UNDER THE PATRIACHY, NO FAULT DIVORCE DID NOT EXSIST.......and women were not allowed to get ran through and had to marry early. If not,she was SHAMED.......When let women do whatever they want to do,you get rampant STDs, broken homes,single mothers and promiscuous 304s and weak men and eventually a society that collapses. Women NEED RULES AND STRUCTURE ON A SOCIETY WIDE SCALE.........Just like children.
Looks aside, she sounds like a horrible person. I man took care of her while she went to school and she divorced him once she started making money. Only a fool would date her after hearing this.
@@Girlgonewise Congratulations on 20 years of marriage. Salute and Respect to you Ma'am........I think Laziness as well as selfishness is just a part of the problem many women have honoring their marital vows.
She’s bringing 3 mouths to feed into a relationship and expects 80/20 at best. The nerve of this woman. And these single mothers with multiple children wonder why no man wants to date them seriously.
@@Nomad-rm5iw Really don’t have to search.. Y’all chicks are giving it out for free and easy these days… Don’t care if she has 8 kids, I’ll clap those cheeks and move on to the next city girl.
@@wholelottaelevation6442 so is it rabbit or rabid.... Because for a long time I thought it was rabbit too. I assume it's supposed to be rabid as you typically associate rabies with losing your mind
KG was putting too much emphasis on her looks. While she is attractive, that’s not going to be the only thing a man of quality will look for. Why would a man invest time and money into someone who may drop him whenever she feels, “they are growing apart”. It’s a lot of good looking women who are single. Not all by choice.
she is older with THREE KIDS and wants a man to foot the bill for her and her THREE KIDS then when she is bored, she will leave and that man will now have to pay CHILD SUPPORT for her ex-husbads children. WTF!?!?!? how are women this lost?
I agree…For Kendra to do that sets a horrible precedent…Most men with any sense realize that a woman being attractive doesn’t mean that she’ll make a good wife or girlfriend
I’m starting to think some people think marriage is all peaches and cream. She the type, if something happens and you can’t provide for a short amount of time, she will leave.
If she can divorce HER HUSBAND AND THE FATHER OF HER 3 KIDS,BECAUSE THEY SIMPLY "GREW APART"........She will certainly dump any other man on a whim. NO THANKS.
She talks about men so flippant. Who signs up for a 3 extra kids with a woman who will leave after u paid 80/20 for kids that aint yours. Compliments got her delusional.
Let's subtract "pretty" and go over the rest. Divorced mom who left her husband for no good reason because she's capricious. Wants you to come in, play step dad to 3 kids who will resent you, and pay all her bills. Sounds enticing? Not to any man who has good sense!
31YO. 3 kids under 10 with her ex-husband. I love the transparency because the narrative is that these ex-husband's are horrible guys. She said it. She broke the family with a good husband essentially because she feels she deserves better. Insane thing is, this "God Loving" mother of 3 who divorced their father qualifies for less in the dating marketplace. Wishing the kids the best! Gone hear momma cry a lot as she gets ghosted after these men clap those cheeks and send her home.
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I knew she was gonna be a highlight. 3 young kids in her early 30’s. Wants a man who already has kids and for that man to take on 80% of the financial responsibilities. These streets are gonna be unkind to her.
She will likely end up being a serial dater then later complaining she cant find a good man. She admits he was a good man and father yet still left him 2:40. Guys just cant win with modern women.
Women like this are why men no longer want to marry. So he wasn't abusive or cheating and she left anyway. Now a new man has to pick up her bills and her kids bills. Hard pass. FYI for those who think you can just remarry after divorce and think you follow Christ. The Bible does NOT allow for divorce except sexual immorality (possibly abuse too). First Corinthians 7 10:11 Mark 10 11-12 Y'all gon learn to stop playing with God.
She wrecked her home for nothing. Now she's out here looking to bring another man in and she has three young children. The dysfunction in our society is sad. She really believes she's a prize and a man that has choices would want her. This is sad 😢
I’ll give you three reasons why she did it 1. She could 2. She gets rewarded for filing. Alimony. 3. She doesn’t get penalized. It ain’t nothing but paperwork.
10:03 y'all ever notice that we never see "successful" follow ups for women with this kind of mindset? I ain't saying it can't happen but it's HIGHLY UNLIKELY
@@elroy1rose139she has already SELF SABOTAGED HER OWN MARRIAGE AND BROKEN HER OWN FAMILY.........why would she do any better next time???? SHE SHOWS ABSOLUTELY NO REMORSE FOR HER DECISION.
And this is why you're a complete dummy by being a sole provider because they will leave you anyway and you're the only one coming up short financially. People are less likely to quit or give up on something they've financially invested in. It costed her nothing to leave and so she did. Typical
A woman will leave either way. NO MARRIAGE/NO COMMITMENTS/NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS/NO COHABITATION/NO FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE/NO FREE MEALS/NO FLOWERS OR GIFTS...........It's time to end the simpery and put ourselves 1st.
@@VaughnThornton if they want to, you're right about them leaving regardless. Nothing is certain but it's just facts of life people are less likely to quit on a marriage they're financially invested in. The majority of divorce comes from women who're housewives, who aren't financially responsible for anything. This is also why men will typically stay in a marriage unhappy because it's better than going into financial ruin. These are the facts. Doing for your wife is not being a simp. That word has a defined meaning. And it's when a man tries to garner the attention or affection of a woman that is not interested in him. Going on a date is not being a simp. Doing for your wife isn't being a simp. I too believe marriage is trash and pointless atp, but I'm not calling a man a simp because he wants to get married.
@@jfelton3583 and what is the wife doing in return???? What has she done to be worthy of whatever it is the husband does???? I have studied female nature, and it seems men get more out of MOST women,and for a longer period of time,BY DOING LESS,MUCH LESS,in fact. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 MOST women actually sh*t on the men that provide and do the most. Completely illogical, but true. 🤣
@SegunOpebi 🤣🤣.......men have got to get serious about DOING THE UTTER, BARE MINIMUM when dealing with women. On average we value the woman MUCH,MUCH MORE,than she values us. As a matter of fact,WE VALUE THE WOMAN,MORE THAN WE VALUE OUR OWN SELVES !!!!!! it's quite pathetic, no wonder women, for the most part think their superior to us,EVEN THO MEN BUILT THE WORLD. THR SIMPING HAS GOT TO STOP.
@@kklashandbrowwe know you do!! that’s why you’re detecter hasn’t been changed but trust me no man will step anywhere near you especially after watching this video 😂😂😂
She is out of her French toast mind if she think a hard working man is going 80/20 with a divorced woman with 3 kids. Plus she will leave you if she’s unhappy.
I don’t think it’s funny to “grow apart” and say yes to that question. She is not thoughtful and for sure isnt wife material if she doesn’t take marriage seriously. Run from this one. She gives up too quickly.
I couldn't take a woman who divorce her husband over "unhappiness" or growing apart" seriously. And single mothers are AUTOMATICALLY DISQUALIFIED anyway.......but even with no kids,I would NEVER let her do to me what already did to her husband 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Growing apart is a cop out. Stop leaving your relationships for dumb reasons. What happened to the covenant you made before god? Growing apart is not an excuse for divorce.
@prettykia231 It definitely is. Couples need to learn how to adapt because everyone changes over time. Now her 3 kids and the next man has to pay for it. When getting married, your bond with god needs to be your foundation because that covenant is most important and will always keep you grounded when things get difficult. Growing apart isn’t part of that covenant and isn’t grounds for divorce. None of this is directed at you. However, to answer your question. I was married for 5 years until she decided to cheat. Treated her like a queen, but she thought otherwise. I couldn’t be more happier with my current relationship. She’s thoughtful, smart, beautiful and knows how to treat a man. She’s my soulmate for sure.
She has a rather misguided view of marriage. It's unrealistic to expect to stay completely close after being married for over 40 years; couples often grow apart and have to rediscover each other. 😂 She got married in her early 20s, and once she established her business, she moved on. This marriage doesn't reflect a strong, spiritual foundation and was entered into rather thoughtlessly by both parties. Ultimately, it's better for her to learn from this experience rather than being a doormat for someone else. Good luck to her!
This!!! My mentor always says - if you don’t continuously relearn your partner - one day you’ll wake up to a stranger! Meaning it’s work that must be done because change is inevitable.
Very true! I recently got engaged & my mom said “marriage is SACRED! You have to be willingly to grow through every season of change with each other. Neither of us are the same people we were 40 years ago but with every change, our love for one another did not. If anything it grew & we learned to love every new version of each other” I had to write that part down! Her & my dad have been together since high school, got married a couple years after she graduated.
So on the rare occasion a BW is married,she leaves him hecause she thinks she can do better and there is some other man better than her husband, i hate to break it to her but you get no higher than your BD, it is cold on them struggle streets, she will leave a man at the drop of a hat and this no 50/50 good luck
Marriage isn't for everyone. She's ready to keep getting married and divorced when things don't go her way. She does not have to keep getting married because it will come a time when there will be some differences, and they both feel like they've grown apart. She'll be forever running back and forth to the divorce court if she thinks it won't be. It's like she already know how it is, and how she is, so why keep doing it. Doing the same thing looking for different results. That's a form of insanity.
What nobody really caught is towards the end is that she said it was a toxic environment and she did things on her and and he did things on his end I guarantee you she cheated on him and he cheated back
The fairytale idea of marriage is thinking you're going to like each other all the time and feel great all the time . All experienced married couples will tell you that's not the case. It's hard seeing black families broken for no reason 😢
If he has 3 kids and she has 3 kids that’s 8 people. Even in ATL a household of 8 would need an income of at least 300k to be comfortable. Why would any guy making almost a 250k sign up for this. Especially when she places of happiness over everything. She looks great but it’s still a bad deal.
OK, so it appears that she doesn’t care about her kids well-being, there’s no such thing as getting divorced because you grew apart, that does not exist in marriage. It’s until death do you part! There are gonna be times you’re not gonna like your spouse is totally normal
If this was a KS interview I could see him now hitting that button on his lil remote To play the meow mix song “Meow, Meow, Meow, Meow”. Her cat doesn’t make it any better😂
For sickness and in health, richer or poorer....But she wants a Christian man to marry until she gets bored....Women don't understand that being recently divorced 5 months ago but not wanting to disclose you last sex partner because he wasn't your ex husband is a RED flag. She had sex with someone casually. I would date her for fun, but that's in the back of my mind, and it speaks to her character. She's not a bad person, but she's not a wife. Married 25 yrs with a woman who's a great wife and mom who most of all is unselfish....
it is fleeting. There is not a single soul on earth that is happy 100% of the time! We are severely underdeveloped in emotional intelligence & conflict management - which is why you get people wanting to tap out so quickly!
😂😂😂 50/50 with you and your 3 kids. You coming in with 3 kids that’s not mine. So even if a man has 1 kid…. You have 4/6 people in this relationship so the bill should be responsible for at LEAST 60% of the bills. You should only get 50/50 if he has 3 kids as well. No one wants to clean up behind your divorce….
I had to re watch this. This is a sad case of a woman, who didn't understand what she had. Give it a couple years, and she'll want her ex husband back. There's nothing like a person who is dedicated to you, who truly loves you, who knows you in and out, who would risk their life for you and your children... and she gave that away for a fantasy lifestyle.
I don't get were people talking about they just grew apart from each other? I been married for 33yrs and we dam near do everything together ❤️ 💯 and I luv him just as he luv me. We help each other out andwe just have such a good marriage, so how do all these people just grow apart because I hear this 💩 all the time. My parents were married for 63 yrs and I never seen them act a fool or grow apart from each other , so I'm thinking that she need to go back to her hubby because from what people telling me ain't 💩 out here in these streets so she better go back and get her hubby.
A woman will never be able to sympathize and understand what a man’s goes through until they’re raising young men. No loving and caring mother would allow her son to get with a woman with 3 kids especially if he had something going on. The nerve of this woman to request a man to pay for 80% while she brings 3 extra humans on top of living in an area where it’s a 20:1 women to men ratio. Just foolish.
If they weren’t raised by their father they won’t even then. That’s why their sons wind up with WM that look nothing like them. If that isn’t developed in her upbringing it’ll show in how she brings her son up. It’s why so many are leaving the community.
God hates divorce, if not for infidelity. SMH Her ex-husband wasn’t beating her, cheating on her.. now she wants a Christian man to be the Head of a home she broke up with 3 children. How selfish and wicked to put your children through a divorce, she didn’t think about the effects that would have on them. Just reckless behavior. Whatever man signs up for this, you deserve what you get!!! 🙄🚩🙄🚩🙄🚩🙄🚩
She's beautiful but crazy to think a man is going to pay 80% of your bills aka those kids bill as well as if they're his kids. Please stop being delulu.
She gave up her marriage because she thought she would get a better man , now reality is setting in ,why would a man making 75 k take a woman with 3kids why?
If a man comes capable of supporting her and her 3 kids, how can he be sure they’re not going to “grow apart”, making the whole investment for nothing?
Overthinker means highly neurotic. Someone that constantly worries about everything and finds fault and concern with everything. A common trait in women, but trust me, find yourself someone low in this trait. Especially if you aren't even going to have any kids with her.
The ENTITLEMENT is real! We're either ASSETS or a Liabilities. Akiya will some day realize she's a LIABILITY and the problem. Totally a bad investment for a man.
That’s the scariest part about getting married as a man - you can just wake up one day, and your wife wants a divorce, just based on “feel.” And just like that, you’ve lost your family, house, car, you’re paying alimony, child support, half your pension, etc.
Growing apart is wild. Ive been married for 20 years and i dont know how that happens. One more thing, alot of men dont have the capacity to love and take care of another mans kids. Me and my older daughter had a conversation, and with a straight face i told her i love and take care of her and her brothers and sister because they are mine. If i was in a store and seen them i would walk by without even speaking if they weren't mine.
A lot of men do have the capacity to love and take care of their non-biological kids. I have anecdotal examples, and we also have examples from celebrities. Marriage vows definitely should be taken seriously, though. You and your household have to do what's best for you ❤
@@DreamsInBlue its less than before, my buddy did it, everybody got mad at him when he told the step son he raised not to do it. My dad told him not to doing and now he reminds me of that all the time
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She is BAZAAR. What does "Grow-a part" mean AFTER you've had 3 kids🙃. Marriage has many stages/seasons. You learn to GROW within your marriage. If your husband was respectful, a provider, and not cheating👉You do NOT break up your family and strip the children of having their father in the home. She need to grow up and get off of Instagram🙄
BIZARRE
Absolutely sad
comment of the year ⭐
Exactly!!!
And I bet he cheated, she found out but won’t take accountability and own that she was too busy for him, so he got attention from someone/somewhere else.
I am never letting go of a good man and good father.
Exactly she tripping
If you’re not a good woman he’ll leave you doesn’t matter about you letting go or not.
Why do SO MANY WOMEN "grow apart" FROM THE HUSBANDS AND FATHERS OF THEIR CHILDREN????
That’s why her smoke detector going off😂
If she claimed she's such a Christian she would be praying to Jesus to fix his heart and see it through the marriage
She wants a man who believes in Jesus...
but she'll divorce him when she gets bored 😮
And smilled about that shit like it was cute.
It's the pretty privilege. Give her time, we all know it doesn't last forever.
*Always*
And then when Kendra asked her when was the last time she was intimate with someone she declined to answer...
Well we all know what that means.
In order for the 3 fold cord to work She and her husband must be bound to God. Women like this dont realize how serious it is to break their vows. She is held accountable just as he is
@@kylefrazier6773 The level of arrogance is astounding 6:21. She didnt think about family and what it would do to the kids. Its typically all about their happiness
Her excuse for divorce sounds as dumb as Tia Mowry…just split up her family for what?
I agree with you!
I chose not to expose my family. That is all.
Why do people never consider she doesn’t want to drag this man through the streets? I’ve thought a lot about how I would answer this question too. My ex didn’t sign up to be on this show, so is it fair to rip his character apart online for other people’s entertainment?
@@mollygrace3068Molly have a seat cuz wtf are you talking about
@@Livelikeyasuah Out of loyalty and respect for her ex-husband, she chose not to air out her dirty laundry to thousands of people on the internet. You have to respect that.
The nerve to say no 50/50 when you're bringing FOUR total extra humans with your baggage is wild 😮the audacity is unmatched with a certain type 😅😅
Entitled
They know black guys have no standards and will always take them in with kids
Exactly bro it's just mind boggling to me when they *expect* another man to take care of kids that aren't biologically his. And then they'll shame him if he doesn't. That's the difference between a man coming in with kids and a woman coming in with kids.
Dang! tell me how you really feel!
@@longbeachmaumba7059 it's not their fault. A woman can never truly understand how little interest most men have in children that aren't his. There is a reason why of the millions of single people that adopts children there are almost zero men.
This woman is telling you who she is; if you get involved, don't blame her.
They always do that let women talk long enough and they will always expose they self
Her saying that she'll divorce a man if she's unhappy is an honest answer. If she's bored or thinks she can do better, she's gone. Fine for a short ride, but marrying her would be a disaster if you have more money than her.
And that's precisely what men will do... Play with it because it ain't worth a commitment
Fading, fleeting, short-term, passing, just a phase. So many women divorce good men. Tia Mowery should serve as an example. She took the risk but the gamble will not likely pay off.
@sayitaintso7544 the statistics aren't in her favor
The sad thing is a desperate guy will fall for it and ignore what she said just because she’s cute.
She don't wanna be married for real, she just wanted some attention on Kendra's show, because she knows no man in his right mind that she would actually be attracted to would marry her after seeing this. 🤣
A divorce woman who divorced her husband for no good reason…wants a good Christian man. Sis, a Christian man won’t deal with a home wrecker.
Not if that Christian man follows the Bible, which tells me to stay away from women like this.
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She don't realize the best man she can get is the one she had. Time will show her for sure.
She left her husband for better options and now she on Kendra G. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 SMH. Leave her outside nephews. These streets are undefeated.
She’s about to find out 😂
That 9 V battery is undefeated ALSO 😂
Its very normal to grow apart to some degree at a certain point in a marriage but eventually you will grow back together if you stay the course
Nah, when she bored or finds something better, she out…
But people no longer know what it means to be married as it is typically about a financial come up for most women. Most of these marriages aren't genuine relationships
The new age generation can't handle the monotony of relationships
She says she is a Christian Woman.........God HATES DIVORCE.
@@kylefrazier6773women can't handle it. Put the blame where it properly belongs........and most women have ALWAYS been this way.........BUT UNDER THE PATRIACHY, NO FAULT DIVORCE DID NOT EXSIST.......and women were not allowed to get ran through and had to marry early. If not,she was SHAMED.......When let women do whatever they want to do,you get rampant STDs, broken homes,single mothers and promiscuous 304s and weak men and eventually a society that collapses. Women NEED RULES AND STRUCTURE ON A SOCIETY WIDE SCALE.........Just like children.
Looks aside, she sounds like a horrible person. I man took care of her while she went to school and she divorced him once she started making money. Only a fool would date her after hearing this.
Exactly!!!!!!!!!
Preachhhh
Good character isn’t important to this generation it’s a liability.
@@TyroneDewayne Dam..You might be right
@@breal1266 integrity is a liability in a nation of people without principles.
A man will sacrifice his own happiness for his family but a woman will sacrifice her family for her own happiness.
Well said
Geesshh louise!! So sad
This
boohoo
This the first time I’ve heard this and reflected on my life
To divorce your husband because she’s thinks she can do better. She’s about to find out. She had a good husband and she threw him away. Foolish woman.
Why do SO MANY women grow apart FROM THE HUSBANDS AND FATHERS OF THEIR CHILDREN????
@@VaughnThornton They are too lazy to make the marriage work. I’ve been married for almost 19 years. Growing apart is a cop out.
Right. The streets are ROUGH out here.
@@Girlgonewise Congratulations on 20 years of marriage. Salute and Respect to you Ma'am........I think Laziness as well as selfishness is just a part of the problem many women have honoring their marital vows.
Absolutely 💯
She’s bringing 3 mouths to feed into a relationship and expects 80/20 at best. The nerve of this woman. And these single mothers with multiple children wonder why no man wants to date them seriously.
NO SINGLE MOTHERS.
Not 3, actually 4 with her.
@@bringiton3457
Exactly.
@@Kevin-ns3pw pump and dump
@@bringiton3457 😂😂
No 50/50 with a man?
So let me get this straight: He's supposed to take care of you, himself and 3 kids that aren't his?
Yep don’t like it keep searching
@@Nomad-rm5iw with pleasure
@@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687gladly lmao
@@Nomad-rm5iw
Huh? You think that's reasonable? Uhhh jeeeze 🤦🏾♂️
@@Nomad-rm5iw Really don’t have to search.. Y’all chicks are giving it out for free and easy these days… Don’t care if she has 8 kids, I’ll clap those cheeks and move on to the next city girl.
She out of her 🐰🍑🧠
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@@wholelottaelevation6442 so is it rabbit or rabid.... Because for a long time I thought it was rabbit too. I assume it's supposed to be rabid as you typically associate rabies with losing your mind
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KG was putting too much emphasis on her looks. While she is attractive, that’s not going to be the only thing a man of quality will look for. Why would a man invest time and money into someone who may drop him whenever she feels, “they are growing apart”. It’s a lot of good looking women who are single. Not all by choice.
Kendra fogot she's in Atlanta. It's a lot of pretty women.
she is older with THREE KIDS and wants a man to foot the bill for her and her THREE KIDS then when she is bored, she will leave and that man will now have to pay CHILD SUPPORT for her ex-husbads children. WTF!?!?!? how are women this lost?
@@COG_In_His_Will she a very solid 6/10. And she got 3 kids so I know her stomach looks like a 🧠
I agree…For Kendra to do that sets a horrible precedent…Most men with any sense realize that a woman being attractive doesn’t mean that she’ll make a good wife or girlfriend
Kendra trying to sell damage goods give her a break 😁
I’m starting to think some people think marriage is all peaches and cream. She the type, if something happens and you can’t provide for a short amount of time, she will leave.
Of course she will leave.....she said it!!
I agree 💯 with you 😮
I'm confused. She wants a Christian man but is willing to get divorced again over something God doesn't co-sign?
Do you believe she is a TRUE Christian????
Thank you!! You can tell she's a lukewarm Christian. She picks and chooses.
Yea it boggles the mind. Sad really. To laugh about it too.
female logic
Absolutely I don't read scriptures where divorcing because of "Growing apart and unhappy." 🤔
Her husband held her down, made her a wife and stay at home mom and she repaid him by dumping him.
If she can divorce HER HUSBAND AND THE FATHER OF HER 3 KIDS,BECAUSE THEY SIMPLY "GREW APART"........She will certainly dump any other man on a whim. NO THANKS.
Loyalty grade zero
6:20
Whatever, you don't know the full story, she's speaking strategically because she doesn’t want to diss the father of her kids publically.
Repaid*
She’s the definition of wants the wedding but not marriage. She needs a new man every 3-4 years so she won’t get bored.
Actually, most women are like that.
She talks about men so flippant. Who signs up for a 3 extra kids with a woman who will leave after u paid 80/20 for kids that aint yours. Compliments got her delusional.
Yup the compliments got to her. But shell learn
It looks like husband's grow on 🌳 for her
Right 😮
And he's got stay home and cook I'm assuming for the kids while she runs wild in these streets
💯
Let's subtract "pretty" and go over the rest. Divorced mom who left her husband for no good reason because she's capricious. Wants you to come in, play step dad to 3 kids who will resent you, and pay all her bills. Sounds enticing? Not to any man who has good sense!
But bro you know she's going to get one who ain't got good sense. But it's not going to last
@@elroy1rose139 SHE will destroy that too.
Your right,let's subtract pretty........she average.
She said she Respects her ex, they co-Parent well, and they split because it was getting Toxic. Why you seem upset?😂😂😂
@@elroy1rose139 - True but that number of 🧔♂️ is dwindling.
31YO. 3 kids under 10 with her ex-husband. I love the transparency because the narrative is that these ex-husband's are horrible guys. She said it. She broke the family with a good husband essentially because she feels she deserves better. Insane thing is, this "God Loving" mother of 3 who divorced their father qualifies for less in the dating marketplace. Wishing the kids the best! Gone hear momma cry a lot as she gets ghosted after these men clap those cheeks and send her home.
Vivaca fox anyone
A good man doesn’t equal good husband.
@@kklashandbrow
You deserve the best , baby.
Tell us about wedding number 4.
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My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.
You should..
This comment put a smile on my face. I can only pray that my wife and I marriage can endure as long as yours. Peace and love
Remember..she is in Atlanta. Screaming cat lady real fast. If she was winning like that..why is she still single?
Right 🫠🫠🤓🤓😝😝
She wrecked her own home, hard pass
K.S. said it........the 1st home a woman wrecks,IS HER OWN.
I knew she was gonna be a highlight. 3 young kids in her early 30’s. Wants a man who already has kids and for that man to take on 80% of the financial responsibilities. These streets are gonna be unkind to her.
I mean that's just unbelievable
She’s more annoying than she looks, not gonna go 50/50 but bringing in baggage😒
She will likely end up being a serial dater then later complaining she cant find a good man. She admits he was a good man and father yet still left him 2:40. Guys just cant win with modern women.
NAW..........I'll Pass.😂😅
@@sayitaintso7544she is gonna end up as a god fearing older single woman with 4 to 5 kids
Women like this are why men no longer want to marry.
So he wasn't abusive or cheating and she left anyway.
Now a new man has to pick up her bills and her kids bills.
Hard pass.
FYI for those who think you can just remarry after divorce and think you follow Christ.
The Bible does NOT allow for divorce except sexual immorality (possibly abuse too).
First Corinthians 7 10:11
Mark 10 11-12
Y'all gon learn to stop playing with God.
Amen
Marriage is a bad deal for 🧔♂️🧔♂️.
preach, she about to become a victim of the streets
She is literally why
Men leave good women everyday B.. so what's the problem 😂
her ex husband took care of her while she built her business and she divorced him when she got on her feet,,, damn!!!
Yeah that was cold blooded. Ain't no way I'll take a chance on her but I'm sure she will get some fool that she doesn't respect to play step daddy.
Welcome to the world of women
Exactly!!!😣
Poor guy smh 🤦🏾
Typical woman move. Especially Bw.
She wrecked her home for nothing. Now she's out here looking to bring another man in and she has three young children. The dysfunction in our society is sad. She really believes she's a prize and a man that has choices would want her. This is sad 😢
K.S. said the 1st home many women wreck......is their own.
Facts 💯
Well said!
I’ll give you three reasons why she did it
1. She could
2. She gets rewarded for filing. Alimony.
3. She doesn’t get penalized. It ain’t nothing but paperwork.
She'll get chose for the mattress
That head gassing is what has her badly overvaluing herself.
10:03 y'all ever notice that we never see "successful" follow ups for women with this kind of mindset? I ain't saying it can't happen but it's HIGHLY UNLIKELY
I really want to see a highlight asap on this one.
It can happen but won't last. She be right back at square one and later be bitter
She seems VERY SELFISH.
@@elroy1rose139she has already SELF SABOTAGED HER OWN MARRIAGE AND BROKEN HER OWN FAMILY.........why would she do any better next time???? SHE SHOWS ABSOLUTELY NO REMORSE FOR HER DECISION.
@@spencersmith9131 if it happen too soon, either she gon be lying or being lied too🤷🏻♂️
And this is why you're a complete dummy by being a sole provider because they will leave you anyway and you're the only one coming up short financially. People are less likely to quit or give up on something they've financially invested in. It costed her nothing to leave and so she did. Typical
A woman will leave either way. NO MARRIAGE/NO COMMITMENTS/NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS/NO COHABITATION/NO FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE/NO FREE MEALS/NO FLOWERS OR GIFTS...........It's time to end the simpery and put ourselves 1st.
@@VaughnThornton if they want to, you're right about them leaving regardless. Nothing is certain but it's just facts of life people are less likely to quit on a marriage they're financially invested in. The majority of divorce comes from women who're housewives, who aren't financially responsible for anything. This is also why men will typically stay in a marriage unhappy because it's better than going into financial ruin. These are the facts. Doing for your wife is not being a simp. That word has a defined meaning. And it's when a man tries to garner the attention or affection of a woman that is not interested in him. Going on a date is not being a simp. Doing for your wife isn't being a simp. I too believe marriage is trash and pointless atp, but I'm not calling a man a simp because he wants to get married.
@@jfelton3583 and what is the wife doing in return???? What has she done to be worthy of whatever it is the husband does???? I have studied female nature, and it seems men get more out of MOST women,and for a longer period of time,BY DOING LESS,MUCH LESS,in fact. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 MOST women actually sh*t on the men that provide and do the most. Completely illogical, but true. 🤣
@@VaughnThornton - Say it louder for the civilians in the back.
@SegunOpebi 🤣🤣.......men have got to get serious about DOING THE UTTER, BARE MINIMUM when dealing with women. On average we value the woman MUCH,MUCH MORE,than she values us. As a matter of fact,WE VALUE THE WOMAN,MORE THAN WE VALUE OUR OWN SELVES !!!!!! it's quite pathetic, no wonder women, for the most part think their superior to us,EVEN THO MEN BUILT THE WORLD. THR SIMPING HAS GOT TO STOP.
Ladies ( and gentlemen ) for your own safety and those in your household change your smoke detector batteries .
I need a men’s help!
@@kklashandbrowwe know you do!! that’s why you’re detecter hasn’t been changed but trust me no man will step anywhere near you especially after watching this video 😂😂😂
Let them keep it like that. It let's others know something about them/ good or bad.
Nobody is signing up for this mess. Her best bet was to stay with that man. NO 50/50 is completely crazy.
She already divorced him........why should he EVER take her back????
Her best bet is to get more cats 😂😂😂 cuz nobody is signing up for this garbage
The more I watch these shows the happier I am being single.
Facts
So it took 3 kids to realize that y’all didn’t want the same things? SMH
That’s what I’m saying!!!!!!!
Should have stayed with her husband. The dating market is trash right now… you don’t know what your getting into
@@Lady_Aries1 she had a better man than she deserved. Might as well let him go find a woman that's worth it.
Women throwing away perfectly good men 🤦♀️ She hasn’t been single too long but once she starts dating she may find out he wasn’t worth leaving
The fact that she wants a man to come in and contribute so much is beyond me. The man that signs up for that is crazy.
She is out of her French toast mind if she think a hard working man is going 80/20 with a divorced woman with 3 kids. Plus she will leave you if she’s unhappy.
Facts
She’s better off buying another cat or better yet buying a dog 😂😂😂
31 with 3 kids is crazy.
She was married, how is that crazy?
It’s crazy that she divorced that man with no real reason and three kids.
@@jay4341 Yeah that part is crazy but nothing crazy about a married woman that had 3 kids within a marriage.
That’s a normal amount of kids for a married couple.
23 with 3 is crazy
I don’t think it’s funny to “grow apart” and say yes to that question. She is not thoughtful and for sure isnt wife material if she doesn’t take marriage seriously. Run from this one. She gives up too quickly.
I couldn't take a woman who divorce her husband over "unhappiness" or growing apart" seriously. And single mothers are AUTOMATICALLY DISQUALIFIED anyway.......but even with no kids,I would NEVER let her do to me what already did to her husband 🚩🚩🚩🚩
''I will divorce you if am not happy. You must go 80/20 on me and my 3 kids! ''. She is good for a test drive but not for taking off the lot.
She should had stayed with her husband! She had a good man and left him? Fool!
Exactly she thinks she won but this is just the beginning lol the wall is knocking at her door 😂😂
Not going to happen. You blew it in the first marriage no way a man of quality will take a chance on her.
finally, a woman with sense!
Social Media is the worst thing that has happened to young impressionable women... Too many want the fake lives of others.
I want a woman that will change the battery in her smoke detector. We can all dream...
Don’t worry. She says that she can take care of YOUR home. 😂😂😂
🙋🏽♀️I can, but I would prefer my man to do it 💅🏽
😂😂🤣
Right 👏🏽👏🏽
😂
When men hear she has four kids and divorced her husband for no damn reason -🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿💨💨💨
Quick, guys, GET TO THE CHOPPER!!!
3 kids. Can YOU hear?
3 kids fam. Which stream you watching?
Well fellas we know she has absolutely no loyalty
She left the same man she looking for Sad lady
And tryna laugh about it!! SMH
Growing apart is a cop out. Stop leaving your relationships for dumb reasons. What happened to the covenant you made before god? Growing apart is not an excuse for divorce.
Many women says, they love God but rarely follow the word. Per Bible, she can't get married again.
Growing apart is not a cop out. Are you married? If so, how long?
@prettykia231 It definitely is. Couples need to learn how to adapt because everyone changes over time. Now her 3 kids and the next man has to pay for it. When getting married, your bond with god needs to be your foundation because that covenant is most important and will always keep you grounded when things get difficult. Growing apart isn’t part of that covenant and isn’t grounds for divorce. None of this is directed at you. However, to answer your question. I was married for 5 years until she decided to cheat. Treated her like a queen, but she thought otherwise. I couldn’t be more happier with my current relationship. She’s thoughtful, smart, beautiful and knows how to treat a man. She’s my soulmate for sure.
She has a rather misguided view of marriage. It's unrealistic to expect to stay completely close after being married for over 40 years; couples often grow apart and have to rediscover each other. 😂 She got married in her early 20s, and once she established her business, she moved on. This marriage doesn't reflect a strong, spiritual foundation and was entered into rather thoughtlessly by both parties. Ultimately, it's better for her to learn from this experience rather than being a doormat for someone else. Good luck to her!
This!!! My mentor always says - if you don’t continuously relearn your partner - one day you’ll wake up to a stranger! Meaning it’s work that must be done because change is inevitable.
SHE NEEDS TO GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND ON HANDS AND KNEES,BEGGING.........I would never take her back tho.
@@crystalj3617 Women are that complicated.
Very true! I recently got engaged & my mom said “marriage is SACRED! You have to be willingly to grow through every season of change with each other. Neither of us are the same people we were 40 years ago but with every change, our love for one another did not. If anything it grew & we learned to love every new version of each other” I had to write that part down! Her & my dad have been together since high school, got married a couple years after she graduated.
50/50 is not even a good deal for a man on this one!
80/20 maybe with the man paying 20%..
That's about right I like that lol. The man pays 20% 😂😂
FACTS! she is nothing but a BAD BIZZNESS DEAL!
I don't care how cute she looks. She wants a man to basically pay here for being attractive. 80/20 is crazy w/ 3 kids that are all under 10.
Richer/Poorer, Sickness/Health, Better/ Worse, Christian vows dont mention happiness. Its about the kids not YOU!!
She's not even cooked. She's scorched 😂😂
So on the rare occasion a BW is married,she leaves him hecause she thinks she can do better and there is some other man better than her husband, i hate to break it to her but you get no higher than your BD, it is cold on them struggle streets, she will leave a man at the drop of a hat and this no 50/50 good luck
Marriage isn't for everyone. She's ready to keep getting married and divorced when things don't go her way. She does not have to keep getting married because it will come a time when there will be some differences, and they both feel like they've grown apart. She'll be forever running back and forth to the divorce court if she thinks it won't be. It's like she already know how it is, and how she is, so why keep doing it. Doing the same thing looking for different results. That's a form of insanity.
What nobody really caught is towards the end is that she said it was a toxic environment and she did things on her and and he did things on his end I guarantee you she cheated on him and he cheated back
She is bringing someone else's kids and think she is in a position to make demands. Get out of here with that.
And she had no idea what it meant to get on a man's program...
The fairytale idea of marriage is thinking you're going to like each other all the time and feel great all the time . All experienced married couples will tell you that's not the case. It's hard seeing black families broken for no reason 😢
Children 4, 6, and 8 she's nasty. Don't take her seriously, guys. She's wicked to those kids and disrespectful to her husband.
She's clueless about what equally yoked means smh
You don't need a true man of God with this foolishness
She's got a long list of deal breakers but she can't even replace a battery in a smoke detector.
If he has 3 kids and she has 3 kids that’s 8 people. Even in ATL a household of 8 would need an income of at least 300k to be comfortable. Why would any guy making almost a 250k sign up for this. Especially when she places of happiness over everything. She looks great but it’s still a bad deal.
OK, so it appears that she doesn’t care about her kids well-being, there’s no such thing as getting divorced because you grew apart, that does not exist in marriage. It’s until death do you part! There are gonna be times you’re not gonna like your spouse is totally normal
If this was a KS interview I could see him now hitting that button on his lil remote To play the meow mix song “Meow, Meow, Meow, Meow”. Her cat doesn’t make it any better😂
The 1st homeva woman wreaks.......IS HER OWN -Kevin Samuels.
He’s dead, though and died alone. 🤷🏾♀️
@@droosyg252- “mors certa, hora incerta”. 🤡.
@@droosyg252 - You didn’t like what you saw when KS held the mirror to your face.
@droosyg252 you big mad ah ha 😂
"Will divorce the next man if they grow apart".
Thats just the pretty talking, adk her in another 10 yrs when things are hanging🙄
Facta
They're already hanging. Three kids in
For sickness and in health, richer or poorer....But she wants a Christian man to marry until she gets bored....Women don't understand that being recently divorced 5 months ago but not wanting to disclose you last sex partner because he wasn't your ex husband is a RED flag. She had sex with someone casually. I would date her for fun, but that's in the back of my mind, and it speaks to her character. She's not a bad person, but she's not a wife. Married 25 yrs with a woman who's a great wife and mom who most of all is unselfish....
We are so underdeveloped as it relates to our understanding of marriage! If you’re chasing happiness, stay single! Vows don’t mean anything anymore!
So marriage = unhappiness?
no marriage means you won’t always be happy! Happiness is fleeting.
@@crystalj3617Happiness is not fleeting when you know how to be happy.
it is fleeting. There is not a single soul on earth that is happy 100% of the time! We are severely underdeveloped in emotional intelligence & conflict management - which is why you get people wanting to tap out so quickly!
@@crystalj3617 People who wait on external circumstances to make them happy are indeed emotionally underdeveloped.
😂😂😂 50/50 with you and your 3 kids. You coming in with 3 kids that’s not mine. So even if a man has 1 kid…. You have 4/6 people in this relationship so the bill should be responsible for at LEAST 60% of the bills. You should only get 50/50 if he has 3 kids as well. No one wants to clean up behind your divorce….
I had to re watch this. This is a sad case of a woman, who didn't understand what she had. Give it a couple years, and she'll want her ex husband back. There's nothing like a person who is dedicated to you, who truly loves you, who knows you in and out, who would risk their life for you and your children... and she gave that away for a fantasy lifestyle.
I don't get were people talking about they just grew apart from each other? I been married for 33yrs and we dam near do everything together ❤️ 💯 and I luv him just as he luv me. We help each other out andwe just have such a good marriage, so how do all these people just grow apart because I hear this 💩 all the time. My parents were married for 63 yrs and I never seen them act a fool or grow apart from each other , so I'm thinking that she need to go back to her hubby because from what people telling me ain't 💩 out here in these streets so she better go back and get her hubby.
Preach!!!!!❤️
She got knocked up by the High School basketball star that thought he was goin to the NBA, but ended up broke so she left..
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You might be onto something. 🙂
Facts 😅😅😅😅😅
I love God Fearing women
who don't fear God at all.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's the sister
A woman will never be able to sympathize and understand what a man’s goes through until they’re raising young men. No loving and caring mother would allow her son to get with a woman with 3 kids especially if he had something going on. The nerve of this woman to request a man to pay for 80% while she brings 3 extra humans on top of living in an area where it’s a 20:1 women to men ratio. Just foolish.
If they weren’t raised by their father they won’t even then. That’s why their sons wind up with WM that look nothing like them. If that isn’t developed in her upbringing it’ll show in how she brings her son up. It’s why so many are leaving the community.
She can look good but 80/20 for 4 extra people ain’t worth it. If she was childless then sure but na not with 3 kids and this attitude
Akiya's reason for divorce sums up the dating market....
God hates divorce, if not for infidelity. SMH Her ex-husband wasn’t beating her, cheating on her.. now she wants a Christian man to be the Head of a home she broke up with 3 children. How selfish and wicked to put your children through a divorce, she didn’t think about the effects that would have on them. Just reckless behavior. Whatever man signs up for this, you deserve what you get!!! 🙄🚩🙄🚩🙄🚩🙄🚩
I would NEVER let a woman who divorced her husband UNJUSTLY into my life. She would just do the same thing to me. No thanks,I'll pass.
Facts
You cannot divorce under the circumstances in which you divorced says the Bible.
Stop making a mockery of God.
You don’t know why we divorced. I disclosed what I did to respect him.
@@kklashandbrow So you lied?
Any man going more than 50/50 is a bad deal! Smh the nerve
any man doing ANYTHING for a woman with children is a bad deal.
They dont even know when Kendra be trollin them. Shit is jus sad.
So true and they always fall for it
She's beautiful but crazy to think a man is going to pay 80% of your bills aka those kids bill as well as if they're his kids. Please stop being delulu.
They aren"t*
She gave up her marriage because she thought she would get a better man , now reality is setting in ,why would a man making 75 k take a woman with 3kids why?
She cheated fellas. Don’t know if yall picked that up. Shes not loyal.
That's what I thought too.
She is showing who she is. A smart man would just pass her by. She going learn shes going to end up bitter
If a man comes capable of supporting her and her 3 kids, how can he be sure they’re not going to “grow apart”, making the whole investment for nothing?
Overthinker means highly neurotic. Someone that constantly worries about everything and finds fault and concern with everything. A common trait in women, but trust me, find yourself someone low in this trait. Especially if you aren't even going to have any kids with her.
One reason why I quit on serious relationships. Why bother?? 😂😅😂😅
No answer means, less than 3 months 😂
Less than 3 weeks
Less than 3 days
Less than 3 minutes
Less than 3 seconds
Irresponsible not changing the battery in smoke detector but I guarantee you your husband made sure it was changed.
@@ukan.536exactly ppl say anything on this internet!
@@ukan.536😂😂😂
@@ukan.536 yes she should have stayed
In other words she got older n had 3 kids n decided she deserved more! Smh
Basically!!! Modern day W M N....logic 🤷🏾♂️
@ crazy work!
Roll Tiiiiidddeee!!!
Just want to sleep around,be a side chick and or think that she gonna find some perfect man
The ENTITLEMENT is real! We're either ASSETS or a Liabilities. Akiya will some day realize she's a LIABILITY and the problem. Totally a bad investment for a man.
Totally agree Akiya is a bad business decision if she was a car rent dont buy!!!!
Thank Ya!!!
That’s the scariest part about getting married as a man - you can just wake up one day, and your wife wants a divorce, just based on “feel.” And just like that, you’ve lost your family, house, car, you’re paying alimony, child support, half your pension, etc.
Shaming has been demonized...If people like this still felt shame she would have put in work to save the marriage and inspire her children.
Kendra pump her looks up wayyyyy to much, decent looking sister no complaints but not how she was pumping her up.
That damn smoke alarm
Bruh!!! K.S. is gone and his Spirit still lives on !!!
@@prid6427sure does
PASS….aint nobody dealing with this.
Just be honest and say you cheated on your husband
Honestly that's exactly what I'm getting from her especially when she didn't answer the question of when was the last time you slept with someone
Her husband helped level her up n then she dipped she nothing more than a fun girl fellas she 10/12 in Atlanta!
Correct roll tide
Growing apart is wild. Ive been married for 20 years and i dont know how that happens. One more thing, alot of men dont have the capacity to love and take care of another mans kids. Me and my older daughter had a conversation, and with a straight face i told her i love and take care of her and her brothers and sister because they are mine. If i was in a store and seen them i would walk by without even speaking if they weren't mine.
Marrying someone for superficial reasons and living separate lives while they’re married.
@mrmoe110 a total waste of time, she could have let man start his family with a woman who would have loved him for who is is and growing to be
A lot of men do have the capacity to love and take care of their non-biological kids. I have anecdotal examples, and we also have examples from celebrities.
Marriage vows definitely should be taken seriously, though. You and your household have to do what's best for you ❤
@@DreamsInBlue its less than before, my buddy did it, everybody got mad at him when he told the step son he raised not to do it. My dad told him not to doing and now he reminds me of that all the time